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Title: Hi from Stacy
Post by: stacywilderness on June 06, 2013, 05:29:53 AM
Post by: stacywilderness on June 06, 2013, 05:29:53 AM
Hi -I'm a 53 trans-woman, I've been pretty close to full-time for about a year and work as a maintenance person
in the Twin Cities MN area. I play blues harmonica with a small group at Legions and pizza places and stuff like that
and am a member of a very large LGBT choir. I'm hoping to change my name (to Stacy) and my gender marker (to F ) in the
next month or so (cash to file the forms is the only hold up, that and I think I want a lawyer when I go in to see the
Judge) I have a few trans, Lesbian and straight friends -I'm not very passable (which matters more than anyone wants to
admit I think) but other than not being able to meet a guy who wants to go on a date, in general I'm healthy and active and
a lot happier than I thought I ever would be when I started this whole thing a few years ago. I thought it might be good
to have an online resource for transitioning and general trans-related information, so that's why I'm here.
-Stacy Wilderness
(oh PS - I don't do drag very often but as a part-time trans musician sometimes I'll go to a gay bar and play my harmonica
"in drag" which looks a lot like when I'm not in drag except that I'm in 4" heels and I wear a corset and I stuff stuff in a
"D" cup bra -it's all very silly really but when I do this I use Stacy Wilderness as my stage name, Stacy something else will
be my legal name)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F4.bp.blogspot.com%2F-zuWWIhhBtTw%2FUICG7Y3SRLI%2FAAAAAAAADms%2FTzyQW5L4pug%2Fs1600%2F092112_1232%255B00%255D.jpg&hash=581f9ad8e71ecf4ca4aa332882b847883a066c20)
in the Twin Cities MN area. I play blues harmonica with a small group at Legions and pizza places and stuff like that
and am a member of a very large LGBT choir. I'm hoping to change my name (to Stacy) and my gender marker (to F ) in the
next month or so (cash to file the forms is the only hold up, that and I think I want a lawyer when I go in to see the
Judge) I have a few trans, Lesbian and straight friends -I'm not very passable (which matters more than anyone wants to
admit I think) but other than not being able to meet a guy who wants to go on a date, in general I'm healthy and active and
a lot happier than I thought I ever would be when I started this whole thing a few years ago. I thought it might be good
to have an online resource for transitioning and general trans-related information, so that's why I'm here.
-Stacy Wilderness
(oh PS - I don't do drag very often but as a part-time trans musician sometimes I'll go to a gay bar and play my harmonica
"in drag" which looks a lot like when I'm not in drag except that I'm in 4" heels and I wear a corset and I stuff stuff in a
"D" cup bra -it's all very silly really but when I do this I use Stacy Wilderness as my stage name, Stacy something else will
be my legal name)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F4.bp.blogspot.com%2F-zuWWIhhBtTw%2FUICG7Y3SRLI%2FAAAAAAAADms%2FTzyQW5L4pug%2Fs1600%2F092112_1232%255B00%255D.jpg&hash=581f9ad8e71ecf4ca4aa332882b847883a066c20)
Title: Re: Hi from Stacy
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on June 06, 2013, 09:58:17 AM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on June 06, 2013, 09:58:17 AM
Hi Stacy, :icon_wave:
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Title: Re: Hi from Stacy
Post by: Rinzler on June 06, 2013, 10:53:05 AM
Post by: Rinzler on June 06, 2013, 10:53:05 AM
Hello, there, Stacy, it's very nice to meet you! Welcome to Susan's! I hope you're able to find the resources you're looking for here. You sound like you have a very active social life with all the various activities you take part in! Being able to play blues harmonica is an especially cool talent to have! Also, I know you said that you're not very passable, but I just wanted to let you know that you look very passable to me in that picture and I really do mean that.
Title: Re: Hi from Stacy
Post by: Darkie on June 06, 2013, 08:37:19 PM
Post by: Darkie on June 06, 2013, 08:37:19 PM
Stacy, I think you look beautiful! You look like this lady my mom's really good friends with. Seriously. If I saw your picture and didn't know, I would say you looked like someone's mom.
Title: Re: Hi from Stacy
Post by: Jamie D on June 07, 2013, 02:07:26 AM
Post by: Jamie D on June 07, 2013, 02:07:26 AM
A warm welcome from sunny southern California!
Gosh, Stacy, I think you pass just fine Anywhoo, glad you found us.
Gosh, Stacy, I think you pass just fine Anywhoo, glad you found us.
Title: Re: Hi from Stacy
Post by: Devlyn on June 07, 2013, 04:51:47 PM
Post by: Devlyn on June 07, 2013, 04:51:47 PM
Hi Stacy, welcome to Susan's Place! Get busy posting and I'll see you around the site, hugs, Devlyn