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What are the enjoyable things about your life as a woman?

Quote from: Gina_Z on August 17, 2013, 12:09:25 AM
What are the enjoyable things about your life as a woman?

Gawd. How much time do you have?

In no particular order:

* Breasts
* Jewelry
* Shopping
* Flirting
* Liking the way I look
* Female orgasms
* Short skirts
* Knee-high boots
* Chick-Lit (though I loved it long before I went full-time)
* Woman-to-woman talks
* My delicious feminine voice
* Being called my female name
* Men helping me with stuff
* Smooth, shaven skin

Probably more, but I don't want to get carpal tunnel  :)

Thank you for sharing, Suzi. I like your name. I imagine each woman has a slightly different list. Or maybe there is a lot in common.

It changes by the week :)

Probably the best part right now is how doing more "masculine" stuff & getting all dirty makes me feel kinda like a superhero.. whereas before I was just a dude doing normal dude stuff. Working in the metal shop has a whole new feel as a girl.

I second it changing weekly,

but currently

in no particular order

* Sex - no bs biggest like here
* my breasts
* make up
* Shopping
* bell-bottom/flair leg jeans with a cut that shows off my butt -lol
* booty shorts
* shoe selection
so many other small reasons and oh yea did I mention sex?  lol

Being perceived as a cis-female is as intoxicating as it gets. All else falls to the wayside.

Being asked out on a date with a guy that you rrrreeaaallly like!!

In no particular order:

* Breasts (especially when they get me free stuff... I love my cleavage)
* my pierced ears and naval.. I want to get a stud pierced into my nose sometime and if I very brave... get my tongue pierced
* Shopping.. especially shoe shopping
* Liking the way I look
* Short skirts
* Knee-high boots with a heel
* Woman-to-woman talks
* Smooth, shaven skin (I am clean shaven all over my body, beside my head

Oh ye.

No order.

Breasts - and Noleen I got $350 dollar discount of some blinds by the guy who did the measure and quote, I deliberately wore boots, with a 2 inch heel, short black skirt and a low top, he seemed quite interested in looking down it :laugh:

Sex: I love the dominant male in bed

The way I look and the respect I get from people.

The woman to woman nod and talk

My hair

Shopping - for anything!!

The feel of my skin.

Most of all?  Total contentment and wanting to live every day

Quote from: Cindy on August 25, 2013, 03:36:45 AM


Sex: I love the dominant male in bed

o ya cindy

Nothing better than been dominated in the bedroom... having a man throw me down... or cuffing me..

or being undressed by a man, especially when he unclips my bra and removes my panties... that is wonderful.

ok.. now getting little excited now

What I love most is being able to be ME, unguarded, spontaneous, and REAL! It doesn't matter if I am in coveralls working on machinery or in a tight-fitting sundress by the pool - it's all ME and it's all genuine.

Quote from: Northern Jane on August 31, 2013, 06:32:39 AM
What I love most is being able to be ME, unguarded, spontaneous, and REAL! It doesn't matter if I am in coveralls working on machinery or in a tight-fitting sundress by the pool - it's all ME and it's all genuine.

This sounds best of everything listed so far to me seeming I live everyday guarded and paranoided of people noticing  :D

I love the fact my mind went quiet.  :)

I still get taken back when someone holds the door open for me.

The thing I most like about being a woman is that I no longer have to pretend I am a man.

Quote from: noleen111 on August 30, 2013, 10:11:20 AM
o ya cindy

Nothing better than been dominated in the bedroom... having a man throw me down... or cuffing me..

or being undressed by a man, especially when he unclips my bra and removes my panties... that is wonderful.

ok.. now getting little excited now

Now you have done it, Noleen.

I just now got excited too!   :angel:

Quote from: noleen111 on August 30, 2013, 10:11:20 AM
o ya cindy

Nothing better than been dominated in the bedroom... having a man throw me down... or cuffing me..

or being undressed by a man, especially when he unclips my bra and removes my panties... that is wonderful.

ok.. now getting little excited now

One can be dominated by a man without being a woman. Same for bra.

I agree that being bottom in bed with a top man is priceless.

hum... probably guys guys guys and the way they can well...you know. make me feel.
but aside from that just everything. its nice to be yourself.

To me its, Not, an issue of what I enjoy, it is I AM a Woman.  Its who I am.

Quote from: Sarah Louise on November 11, 2013, 12:42:46 PM
To me its, Not, an issue of what I enjoy, it is I AM a Woman.  Its who I am.

^^ This! ^^

I don't enjoy anything in particular...  but, having had the rare privilege of growing up openly androgynous and genderless, I tried being a male for a while and it didn't really work for me. So here I am.

No longer having to put up that facade of whom I thought I was expected to be.

Just being me 24/7 is the best thing of all.  Such a relief.

My list is the same as all the above combined, minus the sex part (need srs and am HIGHLY excited about the sex part-being dominated by my boyfriend-which i don't have yet lol).

I just love being percieved as a CIS girl also, as someone else had mentioned.
Its funny but people used to treat me like I was some kind of weirdo whereas now people are much kinder, men and women.
Women include me in girl-girl chats, and the guys hold doors open and "check" me out :)

Can't wait for another couple of years to pass but must admit, I am now really enjoying the ride which is transition.

Quote from: HelloKitty on November 14, 2013, 06:21:48 AM
My list is the same as all the above combined, minus the sex part (need srs and am HIGHLY excited about the sex part-being dominated by my boyfriend-which i don't have yet lol).

I just love being percieved as a CIS girl also, as someone else had mentioned.
Its funny but people used to treat me like I was some kind of weirdo whereas now people are much kinder, men and women.
Women include me in girl-girl chats, and the guys hold doors open and "check" me out :)

Can't wait for another couple of years to pass but must admit, I am now really enjoying the ride which is transition.

make sure after your SRS your on top sometimes. some guys just dont know what they are doing  ;)

The nicest thing about being a woman...is not being a man! :laugh:

I love all the above, but especially having emotions now and not having to hide them with Alpha Dog garbage. Having emotions have freed me more than any other aspect so far. I can be happy, sad or whatever without being looked down on. I feel like I am living life now and not just seeing it from dead, cold eyes.  :)

Hey there ladies,

I've been reading through your lists, and I have to smile at the irony of life. I identify as a ftm, and I have access to all the things you so much desire and appreciate- yet I hate being a female, and I would do anything for the male role I so long for! Isn't it strange how the very things that make you so happy, I don't want?
If only we could swap...

Wishing you all the happiness life has to offer-you are all very special.
Regards

All the above starting with what suzifrommd posted.

Breasts, being me, being treated special by men, SHOPPING, being welcomed in "women only" networking groups and did I say SHOPPING? Hell yes - I so love to shop!

Pretty much every response covered here I can relate to.

Merry Christmas All!

I love that "feeling clean" feeling you get.

I also felt dirty as a boy.

Quote from: Caisie Breen on December 22, 2013, 05:42:39 PM

Breasts, being me, being treated special by men, SHOPPING, being welcomed in "women only" networking groups and did I say SHOPPING? Hell yes - I so love to shop!

Pretty much every response covered here I can relate to.

Merry Christmas All!

All of the above

I feel so many of the above listed reasons (no need to relist them), but the icing on the cake:

Walking in front of a bank downtown, distracting the (checking me out) FEDEX guy ~ who runs a fully loaded flatbed hand truck of packages into a marble knee wall ~ boxes flying all over the sidewalk and everywhere (and trying to keep my composure after that).

* Breasts
* Jewelry
* Shopping
* Liking the way I look
* Short skirts
* Woman-to-woman talks
* Being called by my female name
* Smooth, shaven skin
* Make up
* My hair
* No longer having to put up that facade of whom I thought I was expected to be.