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So as of late while my mom and her boyfriend are at work and my sister is at school I every morning go and take some of my sisters clothes to try on. is this okay? I feel like i'm stealing somewhat and I feel they would personally be mad at me if they found out what I do. IS there any suggestions? I'm absolutely terrified of what might happen if they ever find out. On Lighter news though,
Here are some of the pics i took I kind of went photo crazy so I don't want to post too much.

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You have to ask yourself this question; Would you be alright if the roles were reversed and your sister was wearing your clothes without you knowing? I know with me, I wouldn't be OK with it, but then again I bring my own sheets and pillow to hotel/motel rooms though. You could get your own clothing and find a good hiding spot which is what I would do.

I think most of us started out this was, and understand how exciting it can be, but in short you and I know it's not right. like previously mentioned, try to get some of your own things and hide them, or consider coming out to your sister, depending on how close you guys are, she may be willing to help you move forward into whatever road your journey takes you.
Pansy

Maybe you are right. I'm just afraid of what she would think knowing that i've been wearing her clothes and even more afraid to find out I am trans. I don't know how she will react.

And you never will, unless you move forward. I lived for 24 years in lies, thievery and deceit. Trust me, it tears your mind, body and soul apart. I'm not trying to push you in any direction, just telling you that at almost 40 years old and a divorce behind me, what I did and what I could have / should have done could have changed everything. Now I'm in a happy honest friendship with a girl and the levels of anxiety have dropped immensely. Most important thing you can take from this is be true to yourself and think about your actions and how they may affect others. good luck on your journey!
Pansy

Quote from: JeanShaw on September 05, 2013, 09:25:26 PM
Maybe you are right. I'm just afraid of what she would think knowing that i've been wearing her clothes and even more afraid to find out I am trans. I don't know how she will react.

The only way you will find out is if you tell her that you are trans. If you aren't wearing her clothes anymore or not going to again, I wouldn't even mention that. You could always bring up trans issues and see how she feels about them before coming totally out to her.

My wife takes and wears some of my clothes without my consent. I am taller than her, but the similar waist size enables us to exchange clothes. Usually, she takes those clothes that I seldom wear. Once she took one of my skirts, simply because it was too pretty to her eyes.

I also have some feelings of ownership. Nevertheless, I never complained, because she has been so much supportive of me.

In any case, I think you have better possess your own women's clothes to truly express your feminine side.

barbie~~

Thinking about it you guys are right, I'm going to try and get my own clothes instead of taking hers. I even have a special placer in my drawer where it will be hidden ;)

We have to start somewhere so over 50 years ago we didn't have much choice except to wear whatever was available.  Now I buy my own clothes. It's almost hard to remember how it used to be....

Samantha