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Title: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on September 28, 2013, 10:44:33 AM
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on September 28, 2013, 10:44:33 AM
Hiya
Recently ive been starting to get really lonely!
Im currently living in Sheffield in the UK, and i know no-one here!
I really just want to come out to my housemates, but im scared of what they'll think!!!!
I just sit in my room too much on my own and i feel it is driving my mad!!! :(
I just want some freinds in the area (and then i think coming out to the people i already know will be easier!), but i dont really know where to start! Do any of you ladies have any advice on making friends?
Much Love
Zoe
Xx
Recently ive been starting to get really lonely!
Im currently living in Sheffield in the UK, and i know no-one here!
I really just want to come out to my housemates, but im scared of what they'll think!!!!
I just sit in my room too much on my own and i feel it is driving my mad!!! :(
I just want some freinds in the area (and then i think coming out to the people i already know will be easier!), but i dont really know where to start! Do any of you ladies have any advice on making friends?
Much Love
Zoe
Xx
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Shantel on September 28, 2013, 10:58:34 AM
Post by: Shantel on September 28, 2013, 10:58:34 AM
Surely there must be a TG support group that meets within close proximity, you can meet like minded folks at one of those meetings and start from there. Good luck Hon!
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Murbella on September 28, 2013, 11:00:53 AM
Post by: Murbella on September 28, 2013, 11:00:53 AM
Have you checked your area for support groups? Google seemed to provide a few hits but I don't know the area so I can't be the best of help addy knowing what would be close.
I live in Portland, Oregon and we have the Q Center which is open for all types of queer people and has a very active support group schedule. I just have to work up the courage to attend something...
I live in Portland, Oregon and we have the Q Center which is open for all types of queer people and has a very active support group schedule. I just have to work up the courage to attend something...
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: suzifrommd on September 28, 2013, 11:19:37 AM
Post by: suzifrommd on September 28, 2013, 11:19:37 AM
Look for LGBT groups in your area. Meetup.com has a lot of stuff.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 17, 2013, 10:57:58 AM
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 17, 2013, 10:57:58 AM
I'll be over for my GIC visits at the Sheffield GIC starting monday, would happily meet for a coffee. Stealth or dressed, I don't mind ;)
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 17, 2013, 12:09:32 PM
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 17, 2013, 12:09:32 PM
Hey Alex, yea that would be lovely! give me a pm and let me know when u are free! X
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 17, 2013, 12:38:20 PM
Post by: Emmaline on October 17, 2013, 12:38:20 PM
Feeling lonely and not being able to be you at home must really suck.
Serious virtual hugs babe.
If I wasn't 12, 000 miles away and surrounded by bush fires I would be dragging you out shopping.
Serious virtual hugs babe.
If I wasn't 12, 000 miles away and surrounded by bush fires I would be dragging you out shopping.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 19, 2013, 02:09:50 AM
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 19, 2013, 02:09:50 AM
Quote from: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 17, 2013, 12:09:32 PM
Hey Alex, yea that would be lovely! give me a pm and let me know when u are free! X
Sent you a PM, times ticking away! :-D
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 19, 2013, 02:21:24 AM
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 19, 2013, 02:21:24 AM
Try to make friends with other girl/women friends very close by. Just tell them you are & that you would just like a nice normal life. I think you will be suprised if you honest to them & will make supporting new girl friends.
Then have fun & go shopping, maybe.
Then have fun & go shopping, maybe.
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Kaylee on October 20, 2013, 04:26:46 PM
Post by: Kaylee on October 20, 2013, 04:26:46 PM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 17, 2013, 12:38:20 PM
If I wasn't 12, 000 miles away and surrounded by bush fires I would be dragging you out shopping.
Such a way with words :) x
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
Post by: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Kaylee on October 21, 2013, 10:10:26 AM
Post by: Kaylee on October 21, 2013, 10:10:26 AM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?
Judging by some of the faces being pulled on the last set of facebook pics I saw, becoming much more attuned with her vodka ridden party girl side :)
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 21, 2013, 01:57:28 PM
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on October 21, 2013, 01:57:28 PM
Quote from: Emmaline on October 21, 2013, 09:15:02 AM
So how you going now Zoe?
Im doing alot better now thanks!!!! This last month ive been socialising more and went to Leeds first friday which was fun!!!
I went to belly dancing lessons aswell, just to get out abit more! and ive gone quite a few times now! its sooo much fun, and i am making freinds there which is great!
I came out to my best freind aswell, and we are going out in nottingham at the weekend! and i cant wait, its gonna be great!!
this last month has been crazy!
Quote from: alex rogers on October 17, 2013, 10:57:58 AM
I'll be over for my GIC visits at the Sheffield GIC starting monday, would happily meet for a coffee. Stealth or dressed, I don't mind ;)
Alex im sorry i didnt message you back honey! I work on weekdays, so was unable to meet up with u! :/ Let me know when u are next in Sheffield!!!
Quote from: Kaylee on October 21, 2013, 10:10:26 AM
Judging by some of the faces being pulled on the last set of facebook pics I saw, becoming much more attuned with her vodka ridden party girl side :)
Lol, i hope to see you out at LFF soon Kaylee!!! :D
Xx
Title: Re: im lonely :/
Post by: Emmaline on October 23, 2013, 05:31:27 AM
Post by: Emmaline on October 23, 2013, 05:31:27 AM
Ooh belly dancing sounds fun.