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Title: Surgery on Friday need advice...
Post by: Alex55 on October 07, 2013, 09:31:04 PM
Ok so I am going in Friday to have surgery for a deviated septum at the V A.  I have changed all my documents to reflect my new name gender etc... my questioin here is, I am not sure exactly what to do about my stp?  Sounds strange but I am not sure what the nursing staff is going to say.  I guess I could tell them its a prosthetic? Maybe I am thinking too much about it.  Guess I feel a bit strange /awkward.  It was a bit awkward talking to my anesthesiologist when he asked about previous surgeries and I had to tell him I had a mastectomy..you should have seen his face, I TOTALLY pass as male so I am sure it was a bit baffling to him.  Maybe it was my own paranoia, sorry about my rambling. Its just a day surgery, I could leave the stp at home but its part of me now and I don't think I would feel right.  Am I making a big deal about this?.






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Title: Re: Surgery on Friday need advice...
Post by: xander on October 07, 2013, 11:16:40 PM
I would leave it at home as a precaution because you never know if they're going to make you wear a hospital gown and pants or not. It would be hella awkward if you had to wear hospital pants and give them the packer to look after while you're in surgery.
Title: Re: Surgery on Friday need advice...
Post by: mm on October 08, 2013, 12:53:41 AM
I would leave it home; I know you like the feeling having it on you.  You wouldn't like it if it got lose sometime while you were in the hospital.  Is there a chance that you will get a catheter with the surgery; I know they put one for so many procedures today.
Title: Re: Surgery on Friday need advice...
Post by: Alex55 on October 08, 2013, 11:00:22 PM
Thanks for the replies.  I probably will leave it at home, its just a simple day surgery and I should be ok.