Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Cindy on October 10, 2013, 12:05:27 AM Return to Full Version

Title: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Cindy on October 10, 2013, 12:05:27 AM

I was with my wife earlier and we were getting a new wheelchair for her. As ever it cost a lot more than we were lead to expect, a bit like buying a car, "Oh you want seats, engine and steering wheel - they are all extras." 

Well the cushioned seat, leg supports, brakes and safety belt were all extras!

At the end of it she apologised for me buying it and I was taken aback. Why should you apologise? Well you could have used that money for your surgery, was her reply.

I cried - again - damn hormones :laugh:

I told her it didn't matter a damn and that she was far more important than any surgery for me.

So we both cried. Must be Hay fever.

She asked me how I kept going.

I told her the truth that I have lots of friends at Susan's who keep me going when I feel bad.

What I keep forgetting to say is: Thank You

You keep me going.

Thank You - All of you are very special lovely people.

Now we can all have a cry

Cindy - the Kleenex kid
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 10, 2013, 12:11:07 AM
Quote from: Cindy on October 10, 2013, 12:05:27 AMMust be Hay fever.

I have used this one a million times!
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Beth Andrea on October 10, 2013, 02:26:13 AM
Thank you, Cindy. I know you've helped me when I needed it, and that you help others here, too. You're a sweetheart, you and your wife are very lucky to have each other!

*hugs*

:)
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: kelly_aus on October 10, 2013, 02:35:20 AM
Damn, now I'm suffering from 'hay fever'..

This story demonstrates the Cindy I know and love, someone who has been there for me when I needed her, a friend.
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: bethany on October 10, 2013, 04:03:57 AM
Does anyone have any Benadryl?


   
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: FTMDiaries on October 10, 2013, 05:08:30 AM
Thank you, Cindy, for being an amazing woman who is an inspiration to us all.

*Passes round the Kleenex*
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 10, 2013, 05:32:00 AM
I found the Benadryl!! It doesn't seem to be working though! ;D Love ya Cindy!!
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: suzifrommd on October 10, 2013, 06:42:50 AM
Quote from: Cindy on October 10, 2013, 12:05:27 AM
She asked me how I kept going.


I'm glad we help. But I also think it's your character that keeps you going. And from what I've seen you have a lot of it.

I don't cry much, even with completely female endocrines, but somehow the computer monitor is becoming kind of blury.
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Megumi on October 10, 2013, 07:25:35 AM
What a lovely moment :D hugs
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Nero on October 10, 2013, 07:38:25 AM
Quote from: Kelly the Post-Trans-Rebel on October 10, 2013, 02:35:20 AM

This story demonstrates the Cindy I know and love, someone who has been there for me when I needed her, a friend.

Ditto!
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Rachel on October 11, 2013, 04:54:14 PM
Hugs, I look to you as my big sister.
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Pia Bianca on October 11, 2013, 06:51:10 PM
Cindy... all is said. You're a special person. You're supportive to so many of us, we all owe you a big thank you.

But one thing you wrote is even more special:
Quote from: Cindy on October 10, 2013, 12:05:27 AM
Thank You - All of you are very special lovely people.
Yeah. Exactly.
Title: Re: What I keep forgetting to say is
Post by: Joe. on October 11, 2013, 07:00:44 PM
You're amazing Cindy. That post in itself is a perfect example of that. You always put others first. Thank you.

Now I need some Kleenex!