Community Conversation => Transitioning => Coming out of the closet => Topic started by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:32:25 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:32:25 AM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:32:25 AM
I came out successfully to two of my female coworkers and finally with their encouragement told my immediate supervisor. I was scared beyond my wits, frightened that in one fell swoop I would be unemployed and unable to finance my transition...
She applauded my courage and assured me I could come out at work with no fear and at the pace I was comfortable with. Since I'm in a very visible role at work, when I felt I was ready to switch to the female uniform, I should speak to the director about my transition. At present, my current and future minor infractions against the male dress code (long hair and soon to be pierced ears) will be winked at. All in all, I'm pleased with how it's gone so far. Now let's see how it goes on Monday with my first dose (hope there isn't any other complications in the way!) scheduled for Monday! :icon_joy:
She applauded my courage and assured me I could come out at work with no fear and at the pace I was comfortable with. Since I'm in a very visible role at work, when I felt I was ready to switch to the female uniform, I should speak to the director about my transition. At present, my current and future minor infractions against the male dress code (long hair and soon to be pierced ears) will be winked at. All in all, I'm pleased with how it's gone so far. Now let's see how it goes on Monday with my first dose (hope there isn't any other complications in the way!) scheduled for Monday! :icon_joy:
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Cindy on October 20, 2013, 03:35:27 AM
Post by: Cindy on October 20, 2013, 03:35:27 AM
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Oh and get use to being happy!!!!!!
Hugs great news
Cindy
Oh and get use to being happy!!!!!!
Hugs great news
Cindy
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 03:44:32 AM
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 03:44:32 AM
That's wonderful news Yukari! I'm so happy for you. It just goes to show that you can find support in the most unlikely of places-like bosses :)
I hope everything goes well for you on Monday!
::Hugs::
I hope everything goes well for you on Monday!
::Hugs::
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:49:53 AM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:49:53 AM
Thank you Cindy! I'm trying to get used to the idea of being happy. I just am used to always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
I've been so blessed and it makes me feel stupid for being scared and waiting for so long... No to mention feel guilty that most people I know have done so much to help me and accept me. Which I can't say the same for some of my other trans-friends.
I've been so blessed and it makes me feel stupid for being scared and waiting for so long... No to mention feel guilty that most people I know have done so much to help me and accept me. Which I can't say the same for some of my other trans-friends.
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:50:31 AM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 03:50:31 AM
Quote from: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 03:44:32 AMThank you Shaina! I hope so too!
That's wonderful news Yukari! I'm so happy for you. It just goes to show that you can find support in the most unlikely of places-like bosses :)
I hope everything goes well for you on Monday!
::Hugs::
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 20, 2013, 07:44:18 AM
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 20, 2013, 07:44:18 AM
Give her a new bottle of scented paint polish for early Christmas.
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 07:45:17 AM
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 07:45:17 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 20, 2013, 07:44:18 AM
Give her a new bottle of scented paint polish for early Christmas.
There have scented nail polish? Why did I not know about this?! :)
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 04:42:40 PM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 04:42:40 PM
Quote from: Shaina link=topic=151072.msg1259412#msg1259412 date=13
/quote]Revlon has several scented nailpolishes. Personally I own five: Mon Cherry (red), Coconut Crush (white), Not So Blueberry (purple), Sublime Strawberry (pink), and Ocean Breeze (teal). ;D
http://www.revlon.com/Revlon-Home/Products/Nails/Nail-Color/Revlon-Scented-Nail-Enamel.aspx
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 04:47:07 PM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 04:47:07 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 20, 2013, 07:44:18 AMMaybe they'll come up with one that's got a holiday scent by then! ;D
Give her a new bottle of scented paint polish for early Christmas.
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 07:34:47 PM
Post by: Shaina on October 20, 2013, 07:34:47 PM
Quote from: Yukari-sensei on October 20, 2013, 04:42:40 PM
[quote author=Shaina link=topic=151072.msg1259412#msg1259412 date=13
Revlon has several scented nailpolishes. Personally I own five: Mon Cherry (red), Coconut Crush (white), Not So Blueberry (purple), Sublime Strawberry (pink), and Ocean Breeze (teal). ;D
http://www.revlon.com/Revlon-Home/Products/Nails/Nail-Color/Revlon-Scented-Nail-Enamel.aspx
Yay! Thank you :-*
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: LizMarie on October 27, 2013, 01:27:52 PM
Post by: LizMarie on October 27, 2013, 01:27:52 PM
It's always wonderful when an employer embraces someone's transition. It means they value you as a human being. :)
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 28, 2013, 04:28:55 AM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 28, 2013, 04:28:55 AM
Actually I have an interesting update on this, I have to have a meeting with main boss, who I have been informed is perfectly fine with my... condition? I need to speak with him to clarify my situation and ensure my transition at work is at a rate I am comfortable with.
Essentially, I think they want to know when I think I should be fitted for the female uniform. ;D HRT do your work!
Essentially, I think they want to know when I think I should be fitted for the female uniform. ;D HRT do your work!
Title: Re: Just Came out to Supervisor
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 28, 2013, 04:36:09 AM
Post by: Yukari-sensei on October 28, 2013, 04:36:09 AM
Quote from: LizMarie on October 27, 2013, 01:27:52 PMYes it is! They even told me how happy they are with the work I've been doing and they want me to continue with them post transition!
It's always wonderful when an employer embraces someone's transition. It means they value you as a human being. :)
It'll make leaving when I get my nursing degree so much harder. :') They are such wonderful people!