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Title: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 05:34:38 AM
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 05:34:38 AM
I have made an appointment to see my GP this afternoon to discuss my gender dysphoria. I came out to my wife 2 years ago and she has been wonderful, I cannot think of a way she could have made it any easier, and it was actually her that rang and made the appointment for me, and will be coming with me, but even so, I am soo nervous..Still, its a step I feel I need to take.....Wish me luck!
Saz
Saz
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: Bardoux on October 23, 2013, 05:37:41 AM
Post by: Bardoux on October 23, 2013, 05:37:41 AM
Yay Saz! Have fun :)
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 05:51:24 AM
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 05:51:24 AM
Thanks! ;D
I'm actually excited too, in a nervous way, finally after all these years of hiding it, burying it, and then admitting it, I'm on my way, so to speak.
xxx
I'm actually excited too, in a nervous way, finally after all these years of hiding it, burying it, and then admitting it, I'm on my way, so to speak.
xxx
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: kathyk on October 23, 2013, 06:44:11 AM
Post by: kathyk on October 23, 2013, 06:44:11 AM
You'll do fine, and it's actually real easy to do once you start talking. The words just seem to flow like water, and the relief is unbelievable.
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: Robin Mack on October 23, 2013, 12:13:16 PM
Post by: Robin Mack on October 23, 2013, 12:13:16 PM
Congratulations... this is a huge step, and I am certain you will be tremendously relieved and proud after taking it! Please keep us posted!
*hug*
*hug*
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 03:00:34 PM
Post by: sazzy on October 23, 2013, 03:00:34 PM
Thanks for the words of support everyone. The appointment went really well, my wife came with me and held my hand as I explained to the doctor how I felt. She has no working experience if gender dysphoria but talked me through bits and pieces and make a huge effort to point out that although I had young children, I'd function much better as a parent if I was myself, and happy, rather than living in misery as someone else.
She told me she'd look into it more to see what the options were and I will have a follow up appointment in a week or so to discuss that. Overall, huge weight lifted off my shoulders!!
Saz xxx
She told me she'd look into it more to see what the options were and I will have a follow up appointment in a week or so to discuss that. Overall, huge weight lifted off my shoulders!!
Saz xxx
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: Robin Mack on October 23, 2013, 03:01:36 PM
Post by: Robin Mack on October 23, 2013, 03:01:36 PM
Congratulations on completing a *huge* step! :)
*happy dance*
*happy dance*
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: JLT1 on October 23, 2013, 09:39:57 PM
Post by: JLT1 on October 23, 2013, 09:39:57 PM
Congratulations! :) Good Job!!! :) You are also very fortunate to have a supporting wife. 8)
I think you're going to be fine.
Hugs,
Jen
I think you're going to be fine.
Hugs,
Jen
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 23, 2013, 09:42:36 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 23, 2013, 09:42:36 PM
You sound so fortunate baby, a supportive wife and doctor, WOW! Good job on the important first step. I think you will do just fine. :laugh:
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: sazzy on October 24, 2013, 05:39:31 AM
Post by: sazzy on October 24, 2013, 05:39:31 AM
Thanks for the kind words of support ladies xxx
Title: Re: About to come out to my Doctor
Post by: spx_1112 on October 24, 2013, 07:01:32 AM
Post by: spx_1112 on October 24, 2013, 07:01:32 AM
Yeah so happy for you. Keep us posted. Hugs shannon