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Title: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Insanity on October 23, 2013, 04:17:12 PM
Post by: Insanity on October 23, 2013, 04:17:12 PM
Hi i dont know where to start i am bi gender i have periods of being female and periods where am male
Also when am female i hardly wear make up i was born female
but a part of me wants to dress like a drag queen a faux queen but i never have as i dont have the money to do it as am on disability benefits
I think am a freak but my husband says am not
I am unsure if i even belong here or not
Insanity
Also when am female i hardly wear make up i was born female
but a part of me wants to dress like a drag queen a faux queen but i never have as i dont have the money to do it as am on disability benefits
I think am a freak but my husband says am not
I am unsure if i even belong here or not
Insanity
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Xhianil on October 23, 2013, 04:20:36 PM
Post by: Xhianil on October 23, 2013, 04:20:36 PM
You belong here, everyone can join as long as they arn't a "trany ->-bleeped-<-" or something like that.
Thats normal for some people, you are defenetly not a freak.
Thats normal for some people, you are defenetly not a freak.
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Claire (formerly Magdalena) on October 23, 2013, 04:25:53 PM
Post by: Claire (formerly Magdalena) on October 23, 2013, 04:25:53 PM
Welcome, Insanity!
That's a phrase I try not to use very often... :icon_weirdface:
Anyway, you're welcome to be here. Make yourself at home. We won't send you away, I promise. It's up to you to decide if you "belong" (whatever that means to you) we're not here to judge. ;)
-maggie
That's a phrase I try not to use very often... :icon_weirdface:
Anyway, you're welcome to be here. Make yourself at home. We won't send you away, I promise. It's up to you to decide if you "belong" (whatever that means to you) we're not here to judge. ;)
-maggie
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: JLT1 on October 23, 2013, 04:35:25 PM
Post by: JLT1 on October 23, 2013, 04:35:25 PM
Hi,
Welcome,
You have found a family were being yourself, learning about yourself and helping others do the same is all any of us strive to do. There are others here who are very much like you.
Jen
Welcome,
You have found a family were being yourself, learning about yourself and helping others do the same is all any of us strive to do. There are others here who are very much like you.
Jen
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Insanity on October 23, 2013, 04:43:47 PM
Post by: Insanity on October 23, 2013, 04:43:47 PM
Thank you all for your welcomes
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Amelia Pond on October 23, 2013, 04:44:14 PM
Post by: Amelia Pond on October 23, 2013, 04:44:14 PM
Hi Insanity, welcome to Susan's! :)
Please be sure to review
Amy
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Amy
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Gina Taylor on October 23, 2013, 05:22:52 PM
Post by: Gina Taylor on October 23, 2013, 05:22:52 PM
Hi Insanity :icon_wave-nerd:
I very much agree with the others here that you are most welcome and you have just become part of our family and you can stay as long as you want until you've figured out what you are, and by that time, you'll feel so comfortable with us, that you'll want to stay with us forever! :)
I very much agree with the others here that you are most welcome and you have just become part of our family and you can stay as long as you want until you've figured out what you are, and by that time, you'll feel so comfortable with us, that you'll want to stay with us forever! :)
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 23, 2013, 06:33:03 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 23, 2013, 06:33:03 PM
Welcome baby! Yes, you are at the right place so make yourself at home and meet all the family. It might take a while with over 8,000 though. :laugh:
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: ~Kaiden on October 23, 2013, 09:56:20 PM
Post by: ~Kaiden on October 23, 2013, 09:56:20 PM
Insanity, you are not crazy and you are most definitely not a freak!
When I first found this place, I didn't know if I belonged here either. I lurked for a few weeks then finally made an account a couple days ago. I was born female, but inside I was never sure what I was. I always felt more like a boy, but then on the other hand I didn't absolutely hate being a girl. I tended to go back and forth depending on how I felt at the time, and I always felt like I must be the weirdest person on the planet. I knew what transsexuals were, but I never knew until recently that there are lots of people who identify with both sexes or consider themselves to have no gender at all. There's a spectrum. I thought I was losing my mind by the time I finally found this forum. I expressed my concerns in my own intro, and despite my uncertainty, I got a warm welcome and was assured that it doesn't matter what you are or whether you've even figured it out yet or not. Don't worry! A lot of people are in the process of figuring themselves out (including myself). I believe you belong here just as much as any of us do. :)
Look around, read about other peoples stories, experiences and thoughts and you'll probably find there's a lot of people here you can relate to. Lots of really nice and knowledgeable people here! I know it's helped me a lot already!
So, welcome from a fellow noob! ;D
When I first found this place, I didn't know if I belonged here either. I lurked for a few weeks then finally made an account a couple days ago. I was born female, but inside I was never sure what I was. I always felt more like a boy, but then on the other hand I didn't absolutely hate being a girl. I tended to go back and forth depending on how I felt at the time, and I always felt like I must be the weirdest person on the planet. I knew what transsexuals were, but I never knew until recently that there are lots of people who identify with both sexes or consider themselves to have no gender at all. There's a spectrum. I thought I was losing my mind by the time I finally found this forum. I expressed my concerns in my own intro, and despite my uncertainty, I got a warm welcome and was assured that it doesn't matter what you are or whether you've even figured it out yet or not. Don't worry! A lot of people are in the process of figuring themselves out (including myself). I believe you belong here just as much as any of us do. :)
Look around, read about other peoples stories, experiences and thoughts and you'll probably find there's a lot of people here you can relate to. Lots of really nice and knowledgeable people here! I know it's helped me a lot already!
So, welcome from a fellow noob! ;D
Title: Re: dont know if i belong here
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on October 23, 2013, 10:11:16 PM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on October 23, 2013, 10:11:16 PM
Hi Insanity, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 8133 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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Janet )O(
Welcome to our little family. Over 8133 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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Janet )O(