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Title: Introducing Myself
Post by: ssneha23 on November 02, 2013, 01:06:18 PM
Post by: ssneha23 on November 02, 2013, 01:06:18 PM
Hello Everyone,
My name is Sneha and I am from India. Sneha, in Hindi, literally means love. I chose this name for my femme self as it personifies how I want feel for the rest of my life - loved.
I am a closeted MTF transgendered person, who will be 30 in a few months. As I near 30, I am petrified with what it signifies. The number 30 signifies to me three decades of living a lie. Living as a person who I am not. Despite all my frustration, I am petrified to seek help from a therapist or doctor. Let alone, I do not even know if I can find a supporting doctor in my country of over two billion people.
I am sorry for my rant in my first ever post on the forum. But, from what I have read so far, I am sure that Susan's will serve as my beacon of hope, a lighthouse, to guide me safely to harbour.
Thanks for your time to read through my rant.
xoxo - sneha
My name is Sneha and I am from India. Sneha, in Hindi, literally means love. I chose this name for my femme self as it personifies how I want feel for the rest of my life - loved.
I am a closeted MTF transgendered person, who will be 30 in a few months. As I near 30, I am petrified with what it signifies. The number 30 signifies to me three decades of living a lie. Living as a person who I am not. Despite all my frustration, I am petrified to seek help from a therapist or doctor. Let alone, I do not even know if I can find a supporting doctor in my country of over two billion people.
I am sorry for my rant in my first ever post on the forum. But, from what I have read so far, I am sure that Susan's will serve as my beacon of hope, a lighthouse, to guide me safely to harbour.
Thanks for your time to read through my rant.
xoxo - sneha
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: LordKAT on November 02, 2013, 01:11:14 PM
Post by: LordKAT on November 02, 2013, 01:11:14 PM
Welcome to Susan's
I don't know what is like in India for people like us. If it is a scary place to transition, can you easily travel to a place that is more friendly?
I don't know what is like in India for people like us. If it is a scary place to transition, can you easily travel to a place that is more friendly?
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Devlyn on November 02, 2013, 01:21:29 PM
Post by: Devlyn on November 02, 2013, 01:21:29 PM
Hi Sneha, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston. Our Wiki has a list of surgeons, but it only had one doctor in India, and the link was inactive. Try this information, though: Dr. Sheila Rohatgi, Kolkata, West Bengal. I know India is big, hope this helps, hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 02, 2013, 01:50:44 PM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 02, 2013, 01:50:44 PM
Hi Sneha, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 8250 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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Janet )O(
Welcome to our little family. Over 8250 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
And be sure to check out these links ( MUST READS ) (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-8.gif&hash=d9498942f8bbb4bf3ad29af75944ea5e1135c6fa)
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Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Natkat on November 02, 2013, 08:06:46 PM
Post by: Natkat on November 02, 2013, 08:06:46 PM
Hi Shana and wellcome to Susan.
If you have troubles finding doctor in india you can try seach or make social groups for transgenders in india on facebook and so.
In in my country we also have problems with finding doctors so we make groups like this for people to share experience and information with each other and its more easy than seaching alone.
If you have troubles finding doctor in india you can try seach or make social groups for transgenders in india on facebook and so.
In in my country we also have problems with finding doctors so we make groups like this for people to share experience and information with each other and its more easy than seaching alone.
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Amelia Pond on November 02, 2013, 11:27:13 PM
Post by: Amelia Pond on November 02, 2013, 11:27:13 PM
Hi Sneha, welcome to Susan's! :)
Amy
Amy
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 03, 2013, 01:29:38 AM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 03, 2013, 01:29:38 AM
Welcome Sneha! You are now part of the family here. I think you will really like it with us as we have very caring, knowledgeable people here who can guide your journey and help you be who you want to be. So start posting and let us get to know our new sister a little better. If you need anything just say so. BIG HUG!!! :)
Title: Re: Introducing Myself
Post by: Mysteryman on November 03, 2013, 06:51:13 AM
Post by: Mysteryman on November 03, 2013, 06:51:13 AM
Welcome Sneha!
I hope just like us, you with be able to find some comfort and assistance on this forum.
I hope just like us, you with be able to find some comfort and assistance on this forum.