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Title: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: xchristine on November 24, 2013, 08:19:02 PM
A lot has happened in my life since I last frequented here

I had a career that was secure and paid me well sort of
I have been with my company or last company for 7 years
Most employees called me company furniture . I came with
The company . 

So I restarted transition and nothing in the world or anyone
Can stop me . My managers were aware of my status since day 1

They told me they supported me.  They did as long as I didn't
Demand my rights.  Slowly I was harrassed  for being trans
Told I'm a dude ..I should weight 180 lbs. Told a lot of things that
Made me feel awfull.

Than the last straw they told me not to use the womans
Bathroom . Which in British Columbia we have bathroom rights
When I refused to heed thier request they asked me to give up
My rights because a couple of other girls were uncomfortable

I can no longer go back to my company. I am to
High on principle and justice to be bullied.
So I am going to sue them for lost wages psychological
Damage.  I would have been with them till I was an old woman

So after I left I went to stay with my sister for the winter .
And she got drunk on the second day and went super
Anti trans on me.
She told me I'm not a woman. She said I dont know how to
Act like a woman. She told me not to join her house party because
She was embarrassed and ashamed of me .
And she was afraid for her kids safety around me becasue I
Am ts.  And asked me to give her my psychiatrist number so
She can phone him and tell him I'm not trans. And also told me
To stop transition right now.

Above all this I will move forward. I will find a new career.
I will work for myself. I will become an electrologost.
And I will will be better than I ever was. 

Never ever think you can beat my spirit. I have the energy in
My heart of à lion.

I don't need enemies with the friends and coworkers I had.
I value myself and I love myself.












Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: evecrook on November 24, 2013, 08:22:18 PM
I love you too
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: Ms Grace on November 24, 2013, 08:30:37 PM
Good on you for fighting for your rights to be the person you know yourself to be. Definitely sue them, hope you had everything documented at the time.
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: JillSter on November 24, 2013, 08:41:22 PM
I love your spirit! :D

You're stronger than them. Don't ever forget that.

Girls like you always inspire me! Your strength and positivity is infectious!

I have a huge smile on my face now. Thanks for making my day! :D
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: Lauren5 on November 24, 2013, 08:48:43 PM
Stay strong, girl. You're going to need it.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sherv.net%2Fcm%2Femo%2Fhug%2Fhugging.gif&hash=00bebd2976a1a921d7683a93e6d5e027bb97de78)
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: Megumi on November 24, 2013, 11:16:17 PM
Big hugs! Always do what you think you need to do. It's your happiness that matters. I still can't fathom why so many people want us to be utterly miserable about ourselves to remain as we were just so they don't have to feel uncomfortable.
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: RB. on November 24, 2013, 11:31:19 PM
Your strength and determination brought a certain song to mind.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tth-8wA3PdY
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: sunandmoon on November 25, 2013, 12:05:06 AM
I like that you're keeping your head up high and are standing up for yourself. It's hard to do, you're a strong person.
Title: Re: the roses are no longer sweet
Post by: Beth Andrea on November 25, 2013, 12:40:04 AM
*hugs*

What do they know, anyway? Not much, and I'm sure the judge will tell them so.