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Ok embarassing as it might be, this is a very serious question for me cos I always had this sexual fantasy and I really need to know this before I do damage to my future neo-vagina.

Any post-ops out there can answer me if you can be double-penetrated vaginally + if they also can be penetrated both in vagina and anal at the same time?

I don't see why not for anal and vaginal.

I have never heard of any prohibition against doing this.

Be careful. Have gentle partners. Have fun.

I have heard of, but never seen double penetration of a vagina.

Hi Evolving Beauty.  I actually asked my surgeon this!  And he said it'd not be a problem so long as you aren't too frantic!   
I would still recommend exercising caution in this, especially since our vaginae are not quite as elastic as a GG's.

Quote from: boddi on November 25, 2013, 03:33:14 PM
Hi Evolving Beauty.  I actually asked my surgeon this!  And he said it'd not be a problem so long as you aren't too frantic!   
I would still recommend exercising caution in this, especially since our vaginae are not quite as elastic as a GG's.

I was also curious if 'fisting' was possible?

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on November 25, 2013, 04:33:40 PM
I was also curious if 'fisting' was possible?

Possably, but I'd ask your surgeon, everybody is different.

Quote from: Cherrie on November 26, 2013, 04:55:19 AM
I wonder though if it would mean ending up being 'too wide' permanently.

Same issue of dilation, if you don't keep it up then you'll close slowly.

Think of our vaginas like ear gauges.... they will stretch to a point (dilate) and then not really shrink back again once stretched. Soooo if it even were possible to dilate wide enough to accommodate even a small person's hand/fist, it would stay that loose permanently, more or less. Which sounds like a horrible thing (just in my opinion).

Quote from: Cherrie on November 26, 2013, 09:56:21 AM
Hmm I don't know if that's a good or bad thing

Well it's a very slow process (or so I'm told) that can be prevented if you don't want it, so at least we can choose our tightness, take that cis girls!

I will always want to be a tightie ...
I just know from experience men love a little struggle
Getting in and hearing you moan and whimper  :angel:

For me personally, it *does* shrink back - when I skip too many days with dilation (I'm supposed to, it's the time to start weaning myself down to only once a week) the first thing I notice as a hint that I took too long off is things getting tighter. I've never lost depth, but the widest dilator is a strain for the first minute or two!

Yes, double-penetration is possible - just not for me for psychological reasons (was anally raped as a teen).

Fisting is indeed possible but takes a LOT of working up to it and a very patient partner! Don't ask me how I know  ;) Being fisted doesn't seem to have much effect on tightness - been fisted (incredible feeling!!!!) and still tight for PIV sex.

YMMV

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on November 25, 2013, 04:33:40 PM
I was also curious if 'fisting' was possible?

I wouldn't know but I have been told by my surgeon that potentially we can increase our width by using bigger dilators, so presumably the same logic would mean yes.  But then a fist is much bigger than even a considerably bigger dilator....I would not do anything, if I were you, without the express permission of your surgeon first.

The way it works with standard-issue cis equipment or anal penetration (and I only have first-hand experience with the latter) is that muscles, not mucosa are responsible for tightness.  As long as those muscles are stretched without tearing and scarring (very bad!) looseness is temporary.  No more than a few minutes, typically less than one, for even the smooth muscle to return to resting dimensions.

What does change, quite noticeably, is one's ability to relax and take - hmm, not too much detail...  Dilators intimidate me not by size ( :D pictures would be inappropriate, may this express mild derision :D ) but the fact they're made of hard plastic. (Mad respect there.  Would. Not. Want.)

If the construction technique is good enough, capacity without looseness is certainly possible.  In theory.  I don't know about specific techniques, and once the dilators get to the size of soda cans...

I think I'll hide in the corner and whimper.  Just imagining.

I have not had my grs but just the thought of being double penetrated is really hot!  >:-) hopefully when my day does come and I become fully healed I will be able to do that and then some! :)

Quote from: xchristine on November 26, 2013, 11:30:35 AM
I will always want to be a tightie ...
I just know from experience men love a little struggle
Getting in and hearing you moan and whimper  :angel:

OMG, yes...I've had both loose ones and tight ones...they're all good, but the tight ones...


*sighs*

Something recommended by a friend of mine, is get two toys that are a good size and then insert one in to your butt, then slowly and gently insert the second into your vagina. If it's comfortable and you aren't in pain then you know that it's possible with two penises which are gonna be softer and more flexible then the toys are.

Quote from: kariann330 on December 03, 2013, 03:14:49 PM
Something recommended by a friend of mine, is get two toys that are a good size and then insert one in to your butt, then slowly and gently insert the second into your vagina. If it's comfortable and you aren't in pain then you know that it's possible with two penises which are gonna be softer and more flexible then the toys are.

Excellent idea, never thought of it. thx

Seems like a bad idea, I have looked at my bone structure based on CT scans. I have 92mm bone to bone front to back. I don't think there is room for all that.

Quote from: Missy~rmdlm on December 03, 2013, 10:11:39 PM
Seems like a bad idea, I have looked at my bone structure based on CT scans. I have 92mm bone to bone front to back. I don't think there is room for all that.

Theres harder to take things, such as knots(if you don't know don't ask) or overly large toys when trying to up your size too fast.

I've heard of bone-to-bone limits reached - safely even.  They're far, far beyond garden-variety DP. 

That's why the toys were recommended. If it's too much for your body you will find out well in advance of trying with two guys. Also if things don't fit you can always remove one from the equation and have a good ole time.

Btw if you really wanna amp up the fun, go with three guys instead of just getting your dp on.

Quote from: kariann330 on December 04, 2013, 03:39:41 PM
Btw if you really wanna amp up the fun, go with three guys instead of just getting your dp on.

Theres a way to have even more fun... But I'd rather not have the thread diverge to my weirdness.

Wow. This is another one of those really interesting threads, for sure. I've no experience with this, but I'd absolutely discuss it with my doctor if I were considering it. She/he will know if thing in there will be in jeopardy from such activity. I can say from experience that sex with more than one person at the same time makes a better fantasy than reality. While it's one of those wild things you may need as a memory from your youth and all, I think multi-partner sex tends to end up being more about mechanics and keeping elbows out your face than the kind of dreamy emotionally deep sex two partners can have.

I'd also vote for keeping things tight rather than the fisting bit. Think about it. If you stretch things out to where you need a really large guy to be fully satisfied, you've eliminated at least 75% of the male populace as potential partners. I think the big penis/fisting thing is just a novelty popularized by porn because it's highly visual. A snug vagina and a small penis can have every bit as much fun as larger versions of the same. Both have the same number of nerve endings as their larger counterparts. The biggies just have nerve endings that are further apart.

Quote from: Lyric on December 05, 2013, 12:18:56 PM
I'd also vote for keeping things tight rather than the fisting bit. Think about it. If you stretch things out to where you need a really large guy to be fully satisfied, you've eliminated at least 75% of the male populace as potential partners. I think the big penis/fisting thing is just a novelty popularized by porn because it's highly visual. A snug vagina and a small penis can have every bit as much fun as larger versions of the same. Both have the same number of nerve endings as their larger counterparts. The biggies just have nerve endings that are further apart.

Not unless you like black guys......i have needed a wheelchair twice and came close to needing one a couple of other times lol.

Quote from: kariann330 on December 06, 2013, 12:32:53 AM
Not unless you like black guys......i have needed a wheelchair twice and came close to needing one a couple of other times lol.

I can think of another thing that will do that, though I'm knot telling *giggles*

I have also wondered if dp was possible. I don't see why it would not be just that you need to be extra careful and take it slow, but isn't that all sex?