Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Kaylee on December 23, 2013, 02:26:12 PM Return to Full Version
Title: New Job!!
Post by: Kaylee on December 23, 2013, 02:26:12 PM
Post by: Kaylee on December 23, 2013, 02:26:12 PM
So I'm absolutely over the moon at the moment ;D
I've just had a call offering me a new position as a Test Engineer for a company working on online games like poker/roulette/slots with a £5k pay rise (very handy saving for Yesons!!!) and company health/dental plans, yearly bonus, variety of flexible benefits etc. Pool, ping tables, xbox rooms beanbags, very relaxed dress code, great opportunity to learn lots of new stuff and ways of working.
I really wasn't expecting to get it due to having to do a technical test, coding in php and gherkin (neither of which I have used previously) on a Windows machine without a web server to test my code on (I apparently managed to nail it though!)
I worked with everyone in my current office for years before transitioning and was well liked around the office so I've had nothing but support from the whole company but that means that everyone knows my history (and are very forgiving when I have the odd crazy moment). I'm going to be going into an environment where only my boss and the HR team are aware of my background and both excited and a little bit scared at the same time!
Has anyone done something similar? Leaving the comfort of a large group of people that definitely support you to move onto unknown but greener pastures? How did it go, write below and let me know!
I've just had a call offering me a new position as a Test Engineer for a company working on online games like poker/roulette/slots with a £5k pay rise (very handy saving for Yesons!!!) and company health/dental plans, yearly bonus, variety of flexible benefits etc. Pool, ping tables, xbox rooms beanbags, very relaxed dress code, great opportunity to learn lots of new stuff and ways of working.
I really wasn't expecting to get it due to having to do a technical test, coding in php and gherkin (neither of which I have used previously) on a Windows machine without a web server to test my code on (I apparently managed to nail it though!)
I worked with everyone in my current office for years before transitioning and was well liked around the office so I've had nothing but support from the whole company but that means that everyone knows my history (and are very forgiving when I have the odd crazy moment). I'm going to be going into an environment where only my boss and the HR team are aware of my background and both excited and a little bit scared at the same time!
Has anyone done something similar? Leaving the comfort of a large group of people that definitely support you to move onto unknown but greener pastures? How did it go, write below and let me know!
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: Devlyn on December 23, 2013, 02:32:37 PM
Post by: Devlyn on December 23, 2013, 02:32:37 PM
Yay! It sounds exciting, hon! Best of luck, hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: stephaniec on December 23, 2013, 02:43:15 PM
Post by: stephaniec on December 23, 2013, 02:43:15 PM
I've never had the experience but you look great . Just enjoy the new experience
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: kathyk on December 23, 2013, 03:06:45 PM
Post by: kathyk on December 23, 2013, 03:06:45 PM
What a dream job. As my son always says "F'ing sweet".
Congratulations.
Congratulations.
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: Robin Mack on December 23, 2013, 03:12:00 PM
Post by: Robin Mack on December 23, 2013, 03:12:00 PM
So happy to hear that! Especially as I'm in software as well... :)
*happy dance* :)
*happy dance* :)
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: barbie on December 23, 2013, 06:31:42 PM
Post by: barbie on December 23, 2013, 06:31:42 PM
Kaylee,
Congratulation on getting a new and nice job. Yes. I think software developing companies are nice places for transgender.
About 20 years ago, I also worked there. The problem at that time was that the programming position was very unstable, despite of high salary. Many young people came and left. It was sensitive to economy and also the success of software products, which mostly are likely to fail.
Now I teach at a very conservative university. The position is very stable, and the salary level is not so much bad. At first, other faculty members worried about me, because they already knew I sometimes wear skirt. But, nowadays, they praise my fashion and beauty, for the heck of it. Whatever I am, my performance as a professor is more far more important in people's acceptance.
Again, good luck and enjoy your new life.
If ever be in Seoul, you can meet me, and I may guide you.
barbie~~
Congratulation on getting a new and nice job. Yes. I think software developing companies are nice places for transgender.
About 20 years ago, I also worked there. The problem at that time was that the programming position was very unstable, despite of high salary. Many young people came and left. It was sensitive to economy and also the success of software products, which mostly are likely to fail.
Now I teach at a very conservative university. The position is very stable, and the salary level is not so much bad. At first, other faculty members worried about me, because they already knew I sometimes wear skirt. But, nowadays, they praise my fashion and beauty, for the heck of it. Whatever I am, my performance as a professor is more far more important in people's acceptance.
Again, good luck and enjoy your new life.
If ever be in Seoul, you can meet me, and I may guide you.
barbie~~
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: Joan on December 23, 2013, 06:50:13 PM
Post by: Joan on December 23, 2013, 06:50:13 PM
Good for you! :)
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: Shantel on December 23, 2013, 07:07:44 PM
Post by: Shantel on December 23, 2013, 07:07:44 PM
Congratulations Kaylee, I see Yeson on your horizon! :eusa_clap:
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: Misato on December 23, 2013, 07:19:44 PM
Post by: Misato on December 23, 2013, 07:19:44 PM
I can't report any, "Hi how ya doin?" socialization problems leaving the jobs that I either transitioned in or was out in to the one now where I don't talk about it. The biggest problem I've got now is when I see things like:
Have a hard time controlling my rage and reacting in a "lady like" way (whatever that means). How a group of supposed professionals doesn't catch something at the 101 level of, "BinarySearch has as its precondition that the list is sorted" to work, then no one steps up and assumes responsibility for the error, makes me want to slurp souls like I did in my male days.
I wish you better luck.
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void InsertIntoListIfNotThereAlready(List<T> knownUnsortedList, T newThing)
{
var newThingInListAlready = knownUnsortedList.BinarySearch(newThing);
if(newThingInListAlready == null)
knownUnsortedList.Add(newThing);
}
Have a hard time controlling my rage and reacting in a "lady like" way (whatever that means). How a group of supposed professionals doesn't catch something at the 101 level of, "BinarySearch has as its precondition that the list is sorted" to work, then no one steps up and assumes responsibility for the error, makes me want to slurp souls like I did in my male days.
I wish you better luck.
Title: Re: New Job!!
Post by: JennX on December 23, 2013, 07:30:22 PM
Post by: JennX on December 23, 2013, 07:30:22 PM
Congrats!
I definitely know the feeling. I just started a new job today myself... and it was awesome. Good things can and do happen.
I definitely know the feeling. I just started a new job today myself... and it was awesome. Good things can and do happen.