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So I guess I have a funny story, so my one sister knows about my trans side and she has known for about two years now, but she has never seen me in girl mode so tonite I got a little sauced up and decided to show her my avatars picture, when I showed it to her she just said "ok what about it", then I told her that it was myself and all I got was a confused "oh come on. Don't bother trying to fool me" look, and I had to show her the detailed items in the background to prove it, just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience?

And also I just wanted to tell someone cuz it is making me so happy to know that one day my sister might only see me as a woman

Cute!

I have a story about my little brother.

When I was even more confused about myself and only Crossdressing, I was dating a girl. My bff knew that I cross dressed and she somehow got me to open up to my ex-gf. She didnt believe it and wanted to see me dressed up. I was confused she didnt dump me, cause she was from a very religious background. So I dressed up and showed her how I looked and she didnt really care. So as I was sittin in bed with my friends and talking. I look over to my ex and right then my little brother busts the door open asking for who knows what.
At that time I had only told my mother and my best friend (and i guess my ex as well derp x3). I was horrified... "I am not ready to explain this!!!"

He looks very confused and tries to get a better look because his vision is very impaired.
He goes "whos the other girl?!?"

I am still stunned and just sit their with my mouth gaping open. My bff yells: "get out -------!!!"
He closes the door and leaves.

I still havent told my brother even though I plan to go full time soon. I wonder if he remembers and if he even recognized me!

I remember handing in my male passport to be destroyed so I could get my female one. The clerk gave the usual warning about tearing off the validation strip will prevent me from using this passport, then looks at the pic, then at me then says "no way could you use this passport" and tears off the strip before I make the decleration!

Quote from: kiaraja on December 25, 2013, 11:20:41 PM
...when I showed it to her she just said "ok what about it", then I told her that it was myself and all I got was a confused "oh come on. Don't bother trying to fool me" look, and I had to show her the detailed items in the background to prove it...

^reminds me of the thread/topic: you know you pass when.

AWESOME :D

When I came out at my old school, I said hello to one of my friends in the hallway and he just gave me this weird look and said "Well this is going to take some getting used to."

Another friend later that day decided it was his place to tell me that he thought my lipstick made me look like a drag queen, so I haven't exactly had the best of luck with that.  :icon_chuckel:

Thank god no one around here will ever see me guy mode.

Quote from: rinaballerina on December 25, 2013, 11:36:50 PM
I have a story about my little brother.

When I was even more confused about myself and only Crossdressing, I was dating a girl. My bff knew that I cross dressed and she somehow got me to open up to my ex-gf. She didnt believe it and wanted to see me dressed up. I was confused she didnt dump me, cause she was from a very religious background. So I dressed up and showed her how I looked and she didnt really care. So as I was sittin in bed with my friends and talking. I look over to my ex and right then my little brother busts the door open asking for who knows what.
At that time I had only told my mother and my best friend (and i guess my ex as well derp x3). I was horrified... "I am not ready to explain this!!!"

He looks very confused and tries to get a better look because his vision is very impaired.
He goes "whos the other girl?!?"

I am still stunned and just sit their with my mouth gaping open. My bff yells: "get out -------!!!"
He closes the door and leaves.

I still havent told my brother even though I plan to go full time soon. I wonder if he remembers and if he even recognized me!

aww thats a cute story, i think i would be mortified if one of my family members saw me en femme, thank goodness your friend was nice enough to yell at him to leave for you lol

Quote from: kiaraja on December 26, 2013, 12:18:15 AM
aww thats a cute story, i think i would be mortified if one of my family members saw me en femme, thank goodness your friend was nice enough to yell at him to leave for you lol

Yeah I still havent gotten the voice down; so i really love my bff.

Quote from: Stella Lunaris on December 26, 2013, 12:06:31 AM
When I came out at my old school, I said hello to one of my friends in the hallway and he just gave me this weird look and said "Well this is going to take some getting used to."

Another friend later that day decided it was his place to tell me that he thought my lipstick made me look like a drag queen, so I haven't exactly had the best of luck with that.  :icon_chuckel:

Thank god no one around here will ever see me guy mode.

D; your friends were not very nice to you.

Quote from: rinaballerina on December 26, 2013, 12:29:15 AM
Yeah I still havent gotten the voice down; so i really love my bff.
D; your friends were not very nice to you.

ya same here, my voice is like the only thing i am worried about, its gonna take a lot of therapy and work, then again im thinking about yeson voice clinic but meh, anyways ya the voice is my biggest tell now, by a long shot

Well I have to say that your avatar is definitely very becoming of you... You said that you might have a girl crush on me in the before and after thread and honestly I have to say... The feeling is kinda mutual :-*

Oops did I say that? I'm gonna go bite on a chocolate now...

Cindy gets the bucket of ice water out :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Quote from: Jennygirl on December 26, 2013, 12:54:41 AM
Well I have to say that your avatar is definitely very becoming of you... You said that you might have a girl crush on me in the before and after thread and honestly I have to say... The feeling is kinda mutual :-*

Oops did I say that? I'm gonna go bite on a chocolate now...

oh my "blushes" lol thanks so much, ya i would be eating chocolate to if i wasn't so full of slutty brownies

Quote from: kiaraja on December 26, 2013, 01:03:00 AM
oh my "blushes" lol thanks so much, ya i would be eating chocolate to if i wasn't so full of slutty brownies

Oh my indeed.. I just giggled. I think that confirms it

its like a sauna in here!  :o lol

Hurls bucket of water :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

ok cindy im thoroughly drenched, my beautiful hair is ruined.... ok i have no more heat left lol

Ooops forgot to leave go of the bucket, it collected Jennygirl, you'd better comfort her :embarrassed: ::)

Chocolate and mouth to mouth resuscitation may be called for.... :'(

Quote from: Cindy on December 26, 2013, 01:48:33 AM
Ooops forgot to leave go of the bucket, it collected Jennygirl, you'd better comfort her :embarrassed: ::)

Chocolate and mouth to mouth resuscitation may be called for.... :'(

Cindy what kind of a girl do you think i am, im a lady...(blushes) hehe

Haha omg this thread... definitely delivering on the giggles.

The chocolate was a poor substitute apparently. And I ain't afraid of no cold water... I'll have you know that my spirit animal is a dolphin!

I went out dressed for the first time with my girlfriend and her friend(their idea,she never knew about the real me).We bumped into Steve and Roy a couple of bikers I rode with and they had their picture took with me.Steve's girlfriend Sue didn't like him hanging out with Roy she thought he was a bad influence on him and went mad when she found the photo accusing him of seeing a girl behind her back.Sue asked me if that was me in the photo and took some convincing it was.

Quote from: big kim on December 26, 2013, 02:13:29 AM
I went out dressed for the first time with my girlfriend and her friend(their idea,she never knew about the real me).We bumped into Steve and Roy a couple of bikers I rode with and they had their picture took with me.Steve's girlfriend Sue didn't like him hanging out with Roy she thought he was a bad influence on him and went mad when she found the photo accusing him of seeing a girl behind her back.Sue asked me if that was me in the photo and took some convincing it was.

hahah thats hilarious, i bet the whole time you were ecstatically grinning as wide as you could inside lol, that feeling of "wow im being seen the way i want to be"

Yes I got quite a buzz out of that and it gave me the confidence to eventually go full time

Love the cheetah dress!

Quote from: Jennygirl on December 26, 2013, 02:05:48 AM
Haha omg this thread... definitely delivering on the giggles.

The chocolate was a poor substitute apparently. And I ain't afraid of no cold water... I'll have you know that my spirit animal is a dolphin!

WTF is a spirit animal?

Mine is a shark.

Aloha!

My mom took in a Burmese family in her rental house next door.  When I still lived with her, I would hang out with the kids and drive them places and you know, all the stuff a big brother would do.  Anyway, I moved out and started to transition, so I barely see them anymore.  So two years later on Christmas at my mom's house (yesterday), I'm technically in girl mode, but I have a fairly baggy pink sweater on that still shows my boobs.  The kids (teenagers) come walking in, and one of them is like 'woah..' and says 'are these real?' and immediately comes over and GRABS MY BOOB! XD After I swatted his hand away laughing and left, my mom asked him 'do you always walk up and grab a girl's chest?'

more of a smh moment

Oh gosh, I needed this thread today! Thank you all for making me laugh and grin!

Kia and Jenny, I could definitely see you two, and you'd be such an adorable couple! :)

Before in my teens I would cross dress and my cousin caught me once in a night club, and 3 others cousins 1 on the streets and 2 in a restaurant. I had to hide literally like Mrs Doubt Fire. So effing embarassing...

I often use to buy ice cream with a vendor. I came back again as female after 2 years & same vendor told me. There's a guy who resembles me, I said 'oh yes, it's my brother, he went abroad now'  >:-)

A couple of weeks ago I stopped at the shell and got a 6 pack of beer and I handed the guy my ID which still has my male name and picture, he looked at it and said... "is this you?" and i could tell he was thinking "This isn't you". I said "Uh, yea, of course it is."  Then i had to talk to him in my guy voice to get my drinks, there were people in line behind me. A year ago I would have been terrified, but all I got was mad that time. I guess its my own fault. I hate legallities, i gotta get my documents fixed.

Quote from: lindsey143 on December 26, 2013, 05:04:14 PM
A couple of weeks ago I stopped at the shell and got a 6 pack of beer and I handed the guy my ID which still has my male name and picture, he looked at it and said... "is this you?" and i could tell he was thinking "This isn't you". I said "Uh, yea, of course it is."  Then i had to talk to him in my guy voice to get my drinks, there were people in line behind me. A year ago I would have been terrified, but all I got was mad that time. I guess its my own fault. I hate legallities, i gotta get my documents fixed.

Yikes... yeah. This keeps happening to me, too. I am waiting until July though to change my paperwork because in Cali they just made it a lot easier... but the law doesn't go into effect until July :P

You need or want a room mate? I like Cali. I miss the weather. TN laws regarding transition suck. They will not change the gender on a birth certificate, the only option is to get a passport to override them.

Another problem is...if anyone has seen me in boy mode...they insist on calling me him, and he, and my boy name instead of she, her and my girl name. When I'm obviously a girl. I dont really have any nervousness about it, but everyone else has a problem with recognizing me as female if they have ever met the guy part of me, and he is hardly ever around. The real trick is next wednesday, my wife and I are supposed to start going back to church and I already told her and meant it, that I was never coming out of girl mode again, i told her before we got married. And I've not been at church in girl mode yet, haven't been to church with her in months, even though everyone knows I was trying to transition, no one has met the real me. So i'm kinda afraid they'll try to cast out my "gay demon" or something, but whatever. I just wish i would never have went in boy mode, or even let her meet the guy part of me.

Quote from: LizMarie on December 26, 2013, 03:39:18 PM
Oh gosh, I needed this thread today! Thank you all for making me laugh and grin!

Kia and Jenny, I could definitely see you two, and you'd be such an adorable couple! :)

oh no lets not start that again...hehe, you can't say things like that she'll never talk to me ever again...lol omg my life is so embarassing lol

Quote from: Hideyoshi on December 26, 2013, 06:09:05 AM
My mom took in a Burmese family in her rental house next door.  When I still lived with her, I would hang out with the kids and drive them places and you know, all the stuff a big brother would do.  Anyway, I moved out and started to transition, so I barely see them anymore.  So two years later on Christmas at my mom's house (yesterday), I'm technically in girl mode, but I have a fairly baggy pink sweater on that still shows my boobs.  The kids (teenagers) come walking in, and one of them is like 'woah..' and says 'are these real?' and immediately comes over and GRABS MY BOOB! XD After I swatted his hand away laughing and left, my mom asked him 'do you always walk up and grab a girl's chest?'

more of a smh moment

wow so embarrassing lol

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on December 26, 2013, 04:20:18 PM
Before in my teens I would cross dress and my cousin caught me once in a night club, and 3 others cousins 1 on the streets and 2 in a restaurant. I had to hide literally like Mrs Doubt Fire. So effing embarassing...

I often use to buy ice cream with a vendor. I came back again as female after 2 years & same vendor told me. There's a guy who resembles me, I said 'oh yes, it's my brother, he went abroad now'  >:-)

ya im wondering if i would get recognized by people i used to go to school with, i thought with my long hair people wouldn't recognize me but about a week ago someone from high school did, nonetheless i was in guy mode but i thought i have changed enough

Quote from: lindsey143 on December 26, 2013, 05:04:14 PM
A couple of weeks ago I stopped at the shell and got a 6 pack of beer and I handed the guy my ID which still has my male name and picture, he looked at it and said... "is this you?" and i could tell he was thinking "This isn't you". I said "Uh, yea, of course it is."  Then i had to talk to him in my guy voice to get my drinks, there were people in line behind me. A year ago I would have been terrified, but all I got was mad that time. I guess its my own fault. I hate legallities, i gotta get my documents fixed.

i think im gonna start to live full time after my documents are changed, it would just make life easier in my eyes i think

Quote from: lindsey143 on December 26, 2013, 05:26:20 PM
You need or want a room mate? I like Cali. I miss the weather. TN laws regarding transition suck. They will not change the gender on a birth certificate, the only option is to get a passport to override them.

Another problem is...if anyone has seen me in boy mode...they insist on calling me him, and he, and my boy name instead of she, her and my girl name. When I'm obviously a girl. I dont really have any nervousness about it, but everyone else has a problem with recognizing me as female if they have ever met the guy part of me, and he is hardly ever around. The real trick is next wednesday, my wife and I are supposed to start going back to church and I already told her and meant it, that I was never coming out of girl mode again, i told her before we got married. And I've not been at church in girl mode yet, haven't been to church with her in months, even though everyone knows I was trying to transition, no one has met the real me. So i'm kinda afraid they'll try to cast out my "gay demon" or something, but whatever. I just wish i would never have went in boy mode, or even let her meet the guy part of me.

why don't you just go to another church? small town? ya i don't plan on ever going to my main church ever again once i transition, i just want to start fresh