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Title: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 05:36:14 AM
Post by: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 05:36:14 AM
If and when I have SRS I'm going to be very happy. If and when I get FFS I'm going to be very happy. If and when I have size C breasts I'm going to be very happy. If and when my voice always sounds naturally feminine im going to be very happy. If and when I always like what I see in the mirror I'm going to be very happy.
When I eventually have all of these things I'm going to be very happy. The problem is I'm a very impatient girl. So I've decided to circumvent the whole thing and just be happy now! :)
Transition is a journey and I can't waste my precious time being bitter and jealous.
I feel happy on my way to something better.
Because I am and always have been on my way to something better.
I will enjoy the ride. I will be happy just because I can. When I'm happy the things I desire become a reality.
When I eventually have all of these things I'm going to be very happy. The problem is I'm a very impatient girl. So I've decided to circumvent the whole thing and just be happy now! :)
Transition is a journey and I can't waste my precious time being bitter and jealous.
I feel happy on my way to something better.
Because I am and always have been on my way to something better.
I will enjoy the ride. I will be happy just because I can. When I'm happy the things I desire become a reality.
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Cindy on December 30, 2013, 05:59:07 AM
Post by: Cindy on December 30, 2013, 05:59:07 AM
That my sister is understanding life!
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 06:41:38 AM
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 06:41:38 AM
Happiness comes from within and is only modulated by others' experiences if you let them. If you be yourself, I think that's true contentment!
At the same time... you cannot cause others to be unhappy by telling about your own experiences. Don't let the community marginalize from within and don't take part in that marginalization. Follow your own path and learn from others' paths.
At the same time... you cannot cause others to be unhappy by telling about your own experiences. Don't let the community marginalize from within and don't take part in that marginalization. Follow your own path and learn from others' paths.
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: kathyk on December 30, 2013, 08:32:51 AM
Post by: kathyk on December 30, 2013, 08:32:51 AM
Quote from: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 05:36:14 AM
... So I've decided to circumvent the whole thing and just be happy now! :)
Exactly. Being happy with who you are, and working to make things better are two entirely different concepts.
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Paulagirl on December 30, 2013, 09:00:51 AM
Post by: Paulagirl on December 30, 2013, 09:00:51 AM
The destination is so far away, you may as well enjoy the ride.
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Anna++ on December 30, 2013, 09:02:45 AM
Post by: Anna++ on December 30, 2013, 09:02:45 AM
Jumping right to being happy now is definitely more fun! Good idea! :D
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: stephaniec on December 30, 2013, 10:13:03 AM
Post by: stephaniec on December 30, 2013, 10:13:03 AM
I like being happy
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 11:05:55 AM
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 11:05:55 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on December 30, 2013, 10:13:03 AM
I like being happy
I love smiling. Smiling's my favorite!
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on December 30, 2013, 11:30:02 AM
Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on December 30, 2013, 11:30:02 AM
A few years ago I thought that Id spent my whole life in darkness feeling only agony and missery...
Having started this journey Im seeing that happiness isnt that far away...
so yeah we should enjoy it :)
Having started this journey Im seeing that happiness isnt that far away...
so yeah we should enjoy it :)
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Tessa James on December 30, 2013, 12:09:27 PM
Post by: Tessa James on December 30, 2013, 12:09:27 PM
Quote from: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 05:36:14 AM
If and when I have SRS I'm going to be very happy. If and when I get FFS I'm going to be very happy. If and when I have size C breasts I'm going to be very happy. If and when my voice always sounds naturally feminine im going to be very happy. If and when I always like what I see in the mirror I'm going to be very happy.
When I eventually have all of these things I'm going to be very happy. The problem is I'm a very impatient girl. So I've decided to circumvent the whole thing and just be happy now! :)
Transition is a journey and I can't waste my precious time being bitter and jealous.
I feel happy on my way to something better.
Because I am and always have been on my way to something better.
I will enjoy the ride. I will be happy just because I can. When I'm happy the things I desire become a reality.
Here's to a happy reality and a Happy New Year Ride. Succint, smart and owning it! Good for you Brianna :)
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: EmmaD on December 30, 2013, 12:49:30 PM
Post by: EmmaD on December 30, 2013, 12:49:30 PM
I love this!
Decided yesterday at work that 2014 is going to be a huge year in all regards and that I am going to have fun with it. The experience is going to be enjoyed every day and you never know, I may be surprised with what gets achieved!
Decided yesterday at work that 2014 is going to be a huge year in all regards and that I am going to have fun with it. The experience is going to be enjoyed every day and you never know, I may be surprised with what gets achieved!
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 12:52:56 PM
Post by: KabitTarah on December 30, 2013, 12:52:56 PM
Quote from: EmmaD on December 30, 2013, 12:49:30 PM
I love this!
Decided yesterday at work that 2014 is going to be a huge year in all regards and that I am going to have fun with it. The experience is going to be enjoyed every day and you never know, I may be surprised with what gets achieved!
yes!! I'm there too! I'm out to management, but no further.
Regarding my presentation at work, I'm starting 2014 as male... and ending it as female (or early 2015). That's scary, exciting, and makes me happy... all at once.
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Ms Grace on December 30, 2013, 01:07:16 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 30, 2013, 01:07:16 PM
Brianna, indeed, bring happier is much better! Life is all about the journey not the destination so you might as well enjoy it along the way!
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on December 30, 2013, 01:23:18 PM
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on December 30, 2013, 01:23:18 PM
::) Happiness dies in the deep....dark...sea.
:D I'm kidding.
Yeah, happiness is certainly preferable to depression.
Being depressed sucks.
:D I'm kidding.
Yeah, happiness is certainly preferable to depression.
Being depressed sucks.
Title: Re: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 03:50:06 PM
Post by: brianna1016 on December 30, 2013, 03:50:06 PM
Getting what I want doesn't make me happy; Being happy gets me what I want! (and then I just want more ;) )
Title: Re: Being Happy Despite...
Post by: Jessica Merriman on December 30, 2013, 04:18:34 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on December 30, 2013, 04:18:34 PM
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!! ;D