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Title: First time out.
Post by: Jessica Rush on January 04, 2014, 02:30:53 PM
I went shopping today. I have been needing shoes for far too long now. I wouldn't say I went out passing, but I had fem attire and carried myself in that manner. I was shocked how little looks, gawks and just generally how ignored I was to the general public. The help at the body shop seemed a little uncertain how she should react to me, which is fine. As soon as I gave her my name she seemed to warm up and go back to treating me like a human. At the shoe store the moment I walked in I was helped, I said I was here for some shoes (durr...) and she starts B-lining it to the ladies section and helped me pick out a pair of shoes.

Knowing I still have a long way to go, today was a cloud nine day. I am nearly out to all my friends and family and I am just astounded by the support and general "Do what makes you happy." response I get from everyone I thought would give me a hard time. I think I really lucked out with living in the area I do.

I went out looking like this, just had a jacket on cause it is stinking cold up here in Canada.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FgfLEOAB.jpg&hash=1f8929b9ffad22e34a7774edac8c62a256a6c9ac)

<3 ~ Jessica
Title: Re: First time out.
Post by: Starla on January 04, 2014, 03:04:30 PM
Congrats on your pain free experience  :D you look fab.
Title: Re: First time out.
Post by: Ms Grace on January 04, 2014, 03:48:23 PM
A great first experience. Here's to many, many more great ones! :D
Title: Re: First time out.
Post by: kathyk on January 04, 2014, 04:07:17 PM
Kind'a liberating isn't it.  And each time gets better, until one day you don't want to dress Male anymore, and suddenly you're full time.

So happy for you.
K
Title: Re: First time out.
Post by: Joan on January 04, 2014, 07:30:21 PM
Good for you :)
Title: Re: First time out.
Post by: Jessica Merriman on January 04, 2014, 07:37:07 PM
Congrats baby!  :)