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Title: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: ellen b on July 09, 2007, 03:28:42 PM
Post by: ellen b on July 09, 2007, 03:28:42 PM
"Most people are so worried about their own life problems that they don't even notice much of what is going on around them, much less look to determine who is what."
I've kept that thought with me ever since I first read it many years ago. It can give one strength at times when most needed. It did for me, at least.
Peace
I've kept that thought with me ever since I first read it many years ago. It can give one strength at times when most needed. It did for me, at least.
Peace
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: gothique11 on July 09, 2007, 03:32:04 PM
Post by: gothique11 on July 09, 2007, 03:32:04 PM
yeah, most people don't care.
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: Sheila on July 09, 2007, 04:05:40 PM
Post by: Sheila on July 09, 2007, 04:05:40 PM
I have found that so true. Most people don't care. It's only when someone starts blabbing about things that are not true. That is when people listen, to the garbage. If you cause problems then they are going to take notice, I have always just gone with the flow and I seem to get what I want. I have not had any problems, any where I go.
Sheila
Sheila
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: Pica Pica on July 09, 2007, 05:14:16 PM
Post by: Pica Pica on July 09, 2007, 05:14:16 PM
Got to admit that a certain kind of self-centredness is one of my favourite characteristics. I feel a bit scared about anyone who is too interested in the actions of others. I think it encourages manipulation.
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: cindianna_jones on July 10, 2007, 01:58:34 AM
Post by: cindianna_jones on July 10, 2007, 01:58:34 AM
eh... huh... .
did you say something?
;)
Cindi
did you say something?
;)
Cindi
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: Berliegh on July 12, 2007, 05:50:40 AM
Post by: Berliegh on July 12, 2007, 05:50:40 AM
Quote from: ellen b on July 09, 2007, 03:28:42 PM
"Most people are so worried about their own life problems that they don't even notice much of what is going on around them, much less look to determine who is what."
I've kept that thought with me ever since I first read it many years ago. It can give one strength at times when most needed. It did for me, at least.
Peace
Yes Ellen you are quite rght. We worry so much about if we make a good impression or not and no one notices us anyway....
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: Godiva on July 14, 2007, 03:28:50 PM
Post by: Godiva on July 14, 2007, 03:28:50 PM
Please do not interpret what I am about to say as self aggrandizement, or that I need to prove to myself, by what write here, how good and/or important I am. I truly do not see myself in these terms. Now that I have said this, I need to say:
I care profoundly about the suffering and struggles of others, you included, to a point that it defines my existence. How I sever my own needs is by serving the needs of others first. I can only succeed when I have help others succeed, I can only find happiness and joy when I have helped other discover happiness and joy, I am only able to find love and pleasure when I have help other find love and please. Life is empty and ugly, if not for the opportunity to care, love, and help others. I need to love and be loved very much. I care.
Godiva
I care.
[/b] I care profoundly about the suffering and struggles of others, you included, to a point that it defines my existence. How I sever my own needs is by serving the needs of others first. I can only succeed when I have help others succeed, I can only find happiness and joy when I have helped other discover happiness and joy, I am only able to find love and pleasure when I have help other find love and please. Life is empty and ugly, if not for the opportunity to care, love, and help others. I need to love and be loved very much. I care.
Godiva
Title: Re: Have you found this to be true?
Post by: Jonie on July 14, 2007, 06:03:30 PM
Post by: Jonie on July 14, 2007, 06:03:30 PM
Quote from: Godiva on July 14, 2007, 03:28:50 PM
Please do not interpret what I am about to say as self aggrandizement, or that I need to prove to myself, by what write here, how good and/or important I am. I truly do not see myself in these terms. Now that I have said this, I need to say:I care.[/b]
I care profoundly about the suffering and struggles of others, you included, to a point that it defines my existence. How I sever my own needs is by serving the needs of others first. I can only succeed when I have help others succeed, I can only find happiness and joy when I have helped other discover happiness and joy, I am only able to find love and pleasure when I have help other find love and please. Life is empty and ugly, if not for the opportunity to care, love, and help others. I need to love and be loved very much. I care.
Godiva
It is better to love than to be loved.