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Title: Good play without penetration?
Post by: fatalerror on February 02, 2014, 07:23:09 AM
Post by: fatalerror on February 02, 2014, 07:23:09 AM
Alright I hope this isn't too strange or difficult of a question....
My partner and I are both male and (currently) both not comfortable with the idea of being penetrated. We're both virgins and just starting to feel things out as well, and we are happy with grinding and frotting with each other. Problem is, my go-to packer is the Mr. Right, which is an excellent packer, don't get me wrong, but it's not for play and honestly it is a bit hard when he gets poked with it. My other packer is an x-small Mr. Limpy and it's soft and squishy for grinding, and I may buy another larger one as my next plan of action, but I'd really like to know if anyone has advice for a packer that's good for frottage and such rather than intended for penetration. I do want a ReelMagic one day but that is out of budget for a while.
I hope once I've been on hormones that I might grow down there and eventually get comfortable with direct contact between the two of us but I'm too dysphoric to handle it as of yet.
My partner and I are both male and (currently) both not comfortable with the idea of being penetrated. We're both virgins and just starting to feel things out as well, and we are happy with grinding and frotting with each other. Problem is, my go-to packer is the Mr. Right, which is an excellent packer, don't get me wrong, but it's not for play and honestly it is a bit hard when he gets poked with it. My other packer is an x-small Mr. Limpy and it's soft and squishy for grinding, and I may buy another larger one as my next plan of action, but I'd really like to know if anyone has advice for a packer that's good for frottage and such rather than intended for penetration. I do want a ReelMagic one day but that is out of budget for a while.
I hope once I've been on hormones that I might grow down there and eventually get comfortable with direct contact between the two of us but I'm too dysphoric to handle it as of yet.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: Nowhereboi on February 02, 2014, 04:19:02 PM
Post by: Nowhereboi on February 02, 2014, 04:19:02 PM
I'm not sure about this one, though I'm super interested in the answer. Are you looking for a realistic feeling cock, or something with genital stimulation?
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: fatalerror on February 02, 2014, 08:39:30 PM
Post by: fatalerror on February 02, 2014, 08:39:30 PM
I'd honestly be open to either! Leaning more towards semi realistic though.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: anibioman on February 03, 2014, 12:29:27 AM
Post by: anibioman on February 03, 2014, 12:29:27 AM
I really like my limpy for such contact as it smoshes and isn't going to stab my sig other. I think the sailor might be good as its soft with a hard core.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: fatalerror on February 03, 2014, 09:41:56 AM
Post by: fatalerror on February 03, 2014, 09:41:56 AM
Awesome thanks, I think I'll likely just get another Limpy then. I had a sailor but it tore very quickly, not sure if they're a bit more durable now. Considering the Masho as well? Needs to be flexible so it doesn't "tug" the balls away from me and I lose contact if he pulls on me and such, if that makes sense.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: aleon515 on February 03, 2014, 01:14:30 PM
Post by: aleon515 on February 03, 2014, 01:14:30 PM
Make sure to use a condom, as this is not a safe toy in the sense of what should be up against the body.
--Jay
--Jay
Title: Good play without penetration?
Post by: anibioman on February 08, 2014, 05:04:18 PM
Post by: anibioman on February 08, 2014, 05:04:18 PM
My sailor tore really quick too. It might be worth trying to put a sailor core in a limpy.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: notyouraverageguy on February 23, 2014, 01:21:10 PM
Post by: notyouraverageguy on February 23, 2014, 01:21:10 PM
For grinding I'd use the sailor, worked perfectly as it was not to soft or too hard. It was always with clothes on. The only problem I had was eventually the core poked through the side of the head but I'm not sure it was due to that as I've heard other guys have had the same problem.
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: aleon515 on February 23, 2014, 01:43:44 PM
Post by: aleon515 on February 23, 2014, 01:43:44 PM
Quote from: notyouraverageguy on February 23, 2014, 01:21:10 PM
For grinding I'd use the sailor, worked perfectly as it was not to soft or too hard. It was always with clothes on. The only problem I had was eventually the core poked through the side of the head but I'm not sure it was due to that as I've heard other guys have had the same problem.
A common problem with them I am afraid. I think the idea of a harder core and a softer outside is a very nice one. Actually feels pretty real to me. But the design doesn't quite work and they tend to fall apart easily.
--Jay
Title: Re: Good play without penetration?
Post by: notyouraverageguy on February 23, 2014, 05:44:36 PM
Post by: notyouraverageguy on February 23, 2014, 05:44:36 PM
Quote from: aleon515 on February 23, 2014, 01:43:44 PMI've had mine for a while and it hasn't fallen apart, it just looks like it has a tumor of some sort lol
A common problem with them I am afraid. I think the idea of a harder core and a softer outside is a very nice one. Actually feels pretty real to me. But the design doesn't quite work and they tend to fall apart easily.
--Jay