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Just a random poll to see who everyones dating! :)

No one :(

Everyone into me is thousands of miles away.

None of the above.

No one,I'd run a mile from anyone who'd want a date with me,they must be more disturbed than I am

No one. Not for lack of trying though! ;)

Im single...

:-\

Recently single after 10 years, but I do intend to passively search for a new woman to date trans or cis, it would be nice to have someone again and I have only been single for 3 months lol I am just terrible at being single I guess.

Unfortunately, no one at the moment. I've been single since October.

Everyone I have a crush on is either older than me or too far away. :(

Whom am I dating?

Mr. Hum, of course.

Haven't dated for more than 20 years, I'm undatable.

Quote from: gray otter on February 05, 2014, 05:37:00 PM
Haven't dated for more than 20 years, I'm undatable.

Only if it is by your choice.

Single as well

While I'm not officially "in a relationship," lately I've been dating a cis-female who identifies as lesbian. She contacted me through OKCupid, where I clearly state I'm trans.

I am forever single.

I put other because I'm married so I'm not dating but I'm not single.

I'm dating a female. 5 years as a man and 4 months as a woman. My coming out has brought us closer than ever and here's to that lasting! :)

Cis-male. He knows my soul and for some reason loves me and the shell I am.

I think a lot of us are probably just not dating. It feels even more complicated than it is, and it is pretty complicated, I think, for most humans.

I have been unwilling to date because with taking care of my kid I don't have a lot of extra social resources, but I've become more and more celibate as time goes on. Unwilling to even sleep with people, which I'm normally all about. I have annoying dreams about real-life experiences of being hit on by a cute guy, and then coming up with some vague excuse to turn them down because of some vague terror of genitalia-related rejection.

Single.

I've yet to meet anyone locally willing to get together. Most people I conversate with are online now n days.

Quote from: LordKAT on February 05, 2014, 05:41:48 PM
Only if it is by your choice.

I don't see it as much of a choice where I live. I'm not stealth and there is a big stigma attached to dating anyone trans here. Even if someone would date me openly, which is unlikely, I don't think I could put them in the situation of having to deal with how people are about it.

Whether or not you choose to date, doesn't make you undatable, unless you want it to.

he he he. Looks like I have POF all to myself in the cis male category. YAY  me!!!!    ;D.  ;D

Who am I dating?

My wife lol.

Quote from: LordKAT on February 06, 2014, 08:25:17 AM
Whether or not you choose to date, doesn't make you undatable, unless you want it to.

I'm hoping that you have no idea how much that sort of a response just pisses me off, because if you did, I'd also hope that you wouldn't have done that route. It really does, I'd prefer someone not respond to what I post at all than start all that "choice" bull->-bleeped-<-. Yeah, life is full of choices, but sometimes, they aren't very damned palatable. So yeah, just <not allowed> you and your choice bull->-bleeped-<- right now. 

My cis-male boyfriend. Amazing connection: body/spirit/mind.

I am single, unfortunately, but a hopeless romantic nonetheless!  While I do want to be in a relationship now, I'm still on the fence about looking for someone at this time, or just kicking it back alone for a while.  I'm thinking I should go with the latter.  I hope I can get a job soon so I can just be "married" to my work and put in a lot of overtime so I can pay for my top surgery much quicker and to be able to go to Anime Expo and cosplay!

I'm dating my wife, although my when co-workers hear me talk of punched cards, they say I'm dating myself. Well, sometimes, I suppose I am but it's not a serious thing, we're just good friends.

Quote from: izzy on February 05, 2014, 05:58:07 PM
I am forever single.

Me too

I'm recently separated right now and honestly while I go through my transition the last thing I need is to be dating someone. And technically I'm still married and I wont break that vow in any circumstance until she files papers on me.

Cis male 6 months now. My first real  "boyfriend". 

No one at the moment.  :laugh:

Portia Porcupine...soooo, that would be "Other".

:D :D :D :D

Hopefully one day, a certain trans woman.

If that didn't work out I'd just remain single I think, lol. Pretty much for the reasons that Felix said.

Hi Maddie,

Quote from: MadelineB on February 06, 2014, 12:52:56 PM
My cis-male boyfriend. Amazing connection: body/spirit/mind.

I've got to ask  ;D  does he have any eligible brothers at home??   ;D  :angel:

Huggs
Catherine

Quote from: Catherine Sarah on February 06, 2014, 09:50:53 PM
Hi Maddie,
I've got to ask  ;D  does he have any eligible brothers at home??   ;D  :angel:

Huggs
Catherine

Not yet but if we adopt any will send them your way.
There was instant  recognition when we met. First date, for coffee, lasted 8+ hours and was hot enough to involve two police cars. In a good way.

Quote from: MadelineB on February 07, 2014, 10:15:48 AM
Not yet but if we adopt any will send them your way.  :D.  :D.  Thank you

There was instant  recognition when we met. First date, for coffee, lasted 8+ hours and was hot enough to involve two police cars. In a good way.

OMG Maddie. That sounds like a story within itself. WOW.  You are one hell of a lucky girl. 8 hours for coffee. That's got to beat all records.

Profound Huggs to you both (and don't you dare let him go  ;D)
Catherine

Quote from: big kim on February 05, 2014, 10:05:35 AM
No one,I'd run a mile from anyone who'd want a date with me,they must be more disturbed than I am

LOL

Interestingly though, in a way , your statement is true for me , because at the moment , I think I would be appealing only for people seeking sex with transsexuals , and that is not the person I am looking for . Also I guess I will wait until I will pass as a girl , and look for partners in the entire 'pool' of people , as any other girl .

Dunno if "dating" is the right word, really, but I'm married to a cismale and also seeing (with the possibility of a sexual relationship but not yet) a cisfemale. Not that I have a preference, just happens to be the case right now. Recently broke up with a genderqueer person. (and yes, my husband knows, it was his idea for me to date female-bodied people)

Dating a awesome guy.

Was with a cis male, but recently broke up with him. There is a FtM I have known for quite a while (before I knew he was FtM) and I got kind of a crush on him. He's pre everything and super shy, but I still really like him a lot.

Reaver

Currently nobody. My last relationship was with a cis, hetero man, and I started to think about gender fluidity when we'd already been dating a year. It seemed like things would be alright at first, but no such luck.

All for the best, I guess.

....i hate to say no one  :-\ not really my fault lol. i keep running into creeps and i'm not into men xD

I forgot what's a date?  :P

Quote from: SarahM777 on June 11, 2014, 03:11:20 PM
I forgot what's a date?  :P

HAHAHAH! what she said xD i forgot what dating is to  ;D

No one at the moment, but I there's this genderfluid close friend of mine who I have my eye on :)

Quote from: FalseHybridPrincess on February 05, 2014, 11:03:19 AM
Im single...

:-\

ah funny how this thread popped up
Im not single anymore XD

Cant change my vote XD

I've been single since 2006. The years are really packing on...

Dating? Can't decide if it's a novel concept or just a peculiar ideal

Dating is something other people do.

I'm gettin' pretty close to a really great guy. We've discussed relationship stuff, and he's definitely open to it, so it's on the table. We'll see what happens. :)

I´m single and i could be in a (queerplatonic) relationship but i don´t like the idea of "date"