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Title: Something I worry about
Post by: Crazy4Cyn on July 11, 2007, 06:12:17 PM
I got small hands and I'm really short. I'm about 4'9. What girl is gunna want a guy that little? Sometimes I get mistaken for a boy because I can make myself look like one. When I was a kid i was mistaken for a boy all the time. But I'm older now. I just know a girl isn't gunna want a guy that short.
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: J.T. on July 11, 2007, 11:40:31 PM
don't worry about it, the right person will come along at the right time.  she won't care.  lots of people with height differences marry.  there was a 7'6 basketball player who married a 5'3 woman.  Imagine that!
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Luc on July 12, 2007, 12:51:34 AM
I'm 5'6", and my wife is 6'2". We get weird looks every once in awhile, but I don't worry; she doesn't mind that I'm short, and I... well, I like the view from down here.

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Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Crazy4Cyn on July 12, 2007, 09:30:20 PM
Thanks guys. I feel better about this now :)
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Nero on July 12, 2007, 09:45:27 PM
Quote from: Crazy4Cyn on July 11, 2007, 06:12:17 PM
I got small hands and I'm really short. I'm about 4'9. What girl is gunna want a guy that little? Sometimes I get mistaken for a boy because I can make myself look like one. When I was a kid i was mistaken for a boy all the time. But I'm older now. I just know a girl isn't gunna want a guy that short.
Who says?
I did a guy your size before. I like small baby-faced guys. Of course I'm not a girl, but I'm sure girls like that too. :)
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Crazy4Cyn on July 12, 2007, 10:07:36 PM
Quote from: Nero on July 12, 2007, 09:45:27 PM
Quote from: Crazy4Cyn on July 11, 2007, 06:12:17 PM
I got small hands and I'm really short. I'm about 4'9. What girl is gunna want a guy that little? Sometimes I get mistaken for a boy because I can make myself look like one. When I was a kid i was mistaken for a boy all the time. But I'm older now. I just know a girl isn't gunna want a guy that short.
Who says?
I did a guy your size before. I like small baby-faced guys. Of course I'm not a girl, but I'm sure girls like that too. :)

I hope so :)
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Dennis on July 13, 2007, 08:49:09 AM
Yep, takes all kinds. I'm 5'5 and my gf is a little taller than me (and has a thing for heels - grr). Her friend's bio male partner is shorter than me. Not all women insist that their men be taller than them. Especially as you get older - women start looking for real qualities in men, like reliability, sense of humour, ability to communicate, and thoughtfulness.

Dennis
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Crazy4Cyn on July 13, 2007, 06:57:17 PM
Quote from: Dennis on July 13, 2007, 08:49:09 AM
Yep, takes all kinds. I'm 5'5 and my gf is a little taller than me (and has a thing for heels - grr). Her friend's bio male partner is shorter than me. Not all women insist that their men be taller than them. Especially as you get older - women start looking for real qualities in men, like reliability, sense of humour, ability to communicate, and thoughtfulness.

Dennis

That's good to hear, thanks.
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Jay on July 30, 2007, 07:20:09 AM
I read on the Wiki that taking T makes you grow so hopefully that will work!
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: annette on November 01, 2010, 11:14:18 AM
hi there
in my country there is a singer/pianoplayer and he is about 5 foot tall
It's a nice guy and the women do adore him.

It is not all about the looks but, mor how do you present yourself.
if you are a pleasant person to deal with people will certainly like you.

with love

annette
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Robert Scott on November 01, 2010, 11:33:59 AM
I am 5'4 and my wife is 5'7 ... I think that your height won't really matter.  I was at a trans health conference and the host was 4'8 ... he had someone that he meet after transitioning.
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Sharky on November 01, 2010, 12:05:34 PM
Theres a ton women who are about that hight. Ever watch Little People Big World? The one son on there dated an average sized girl.
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Ryan on November 02, 2010, 12:57:53 PM
Height doesn't matter if you love someone.

Jamie Cullum & Sophie Dahl
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.aceshowbiz.com%2Fimages%2Fevents%2FSPX-030276.jpg&hash=cd8a8d95dbe61e51e12ad5ecbaf291f250623caa)

Tom Cruise & Katie Holmes
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fmensshoestand.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F12%2Ftom-cruise-katie-holmes-21.jpg&hash=a36abdf294c95b16cff44d7fb87378a615615b47)
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Lee on November 02, 2010, 01:19:02 PM
I know a lot of couples with great differences in height (My favorite is the 6'3" guy and 4'9" girl who dance salsa together.  The girl leads sometimes.) and have dated people both significantly taller and shorter than me.  If height ends up being the deciding factor of your relationship, then I'm going to go ahead and guess that it wasn't going to work anyways.  :P
Make up for it in confidence, and the girls will be all over you.
Title: Re: Something I worry about
Post by: Aegir on November 02, 2010, 04:44:15 PM
I'm a shorty, I like other shorties. Don't worry about being little lol