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Title: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Alana on February 26, 2014, 05:31:18 PM
When trying to find the right therapist I messaged many of them in the surrounding area, hoping to find one I would be comfortable with and that could also assist me on my journey to finally become the woman I know I am. One stood out above the rest when she messaged me back and said "Please let me know if you would prefer to be called by a different name." So this wasn't anything major and I am sure most therapists do this however it was a big deal to me. I hope you all have similar stories with your therapists.

Much love Alana 
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Ltl89 on February 26, 2014, 06:11:04 PM
Hey, that is a big step! I remember when I first reached out to my therapist.  I was so scared and cautious about everything.  In the end, it's worked out great and one of the best decisions I ever made.    Good luck with starting! :)
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Colleen♡Callie on February 26, 2014, 06:20:34 PM
For those of us just starting our transition it's a huge deal.  I was giddy the whole day the first time I popped onto netflix after switching the profile name to Colleen.  So yeah, anytime we see or hear our chosen name in reference to ourselves it is a big thing.
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Sandy on February 26, 2014, 06:22:46 PM
When my therapist said that she would call me Sandy and said that she was happy to meet Sandy, I broke down and cried.

-Sandy
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Lizzie on February 26, 2014, 11:02:20 PM
Mine said the same thing to me today. I was happy but also a little apprehensive. Next time I think I'll tell her I'm ready for that. I was really nice to hear, made me smile.
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: ClaudiaLove on February 26, 2014, 11:27:00 PM
I was so surpised and happy to see that my therapist called me Claudia from the beggining , it really made me feel well and i love her for that  :D
Maybe it is just her being professional but anyway , it really makes a big difference for me .
Title: Re: It thought this was the greatest thing.
Post by: Alana on February 27, 2014, 12:57:16 AM
Quote from: Colleen♡Callie on February 26, 2014, 06:20:34 PM
For those of us just starting our transition it's a huge deal.  I was giddy the whole day the first time I popped onto netflix after switching the profile name to Colleen.  So yeah, anytime we see or hear our chosen name in reference to ourselves it is a big thing.

I hadn't even thought about changing my name on netflix yet!!!! Although I have started a new email address, and on some of my apps and websites that I use for shopping I have changed to Alana, and with each new one I become more and more giddy haha.

I definitely teared up a lot when my therapist sent me her first reply addressing me as Alana, I don't know if it is just professional or not, either way I think it is a great thing.

And the first time my cousin called me Alana I cried tears of joy, she is my rock, I don't know how I could do this without her love and support.

Much love Alana