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Title: Called a beautiful young women and confused kinda
Post by: Larisa on March 06, 2014, 08:02:42 PM
So today at work I got called by a old guy with an accent that I'm a beautiful young women. He kept insisting I was a girl. I'm not sure what to exactly think. It was def funny but it also makes me wonder if I'm truly a girl, not a guy or what. I was flattered, annoyed and humored to. Guy or girl am I? I've felt trans many times before. And I also wasn't dressed as a girl either.
Title: Re: Called a beautiful young women and confused kinda
Post by: Jessica Merriman on March 06, 2014, 08:10:52 PM
Strange to say the least, but some people are very perceptive to others. Maybe your personality or body language is telling people something you haven't acknowledged yet? Could be you are putting off a female aura. :)
Title: Re: Called a beautiful young women and confused kinda
Post by: Ltl89 on March 06, 2014, 08:42:07 PM
Quote from: Larisa1983 on March 06, 2014, 08:02:42 PM
So today at work I got called by a old guy with an accent that I'm a beautiful young women. He kept insisting I was a girl. I'm not sure what to exactly think. It was def funny but it also makes me wonder if I'm truly a girl, not a guy or what. I was flattered, annoyed and humored to. Guy or girl am I? I've felt trans many times before. And I also wasn't dressed as a girl either.

These things happen, I wouldn't read too much into it.  I would say congrats, but I understand the mixed emotions and don't know how you feel about it.  Your outer appearance isn't really a defining factor of what you feel inside, so don't let it upset you if it did.   

I'm sort of facing similar situations myself, so I understand why you may feel confused.  I guess everyone reads us differently, but yeah it does feel strange when your physically dressed the opposite side of the spectrum and still get it. 
Title: Re: Called a beautiful young women and confused kinda
Post by: Jamie D on March 06, 2014, 09:59:38 PM
Quote from: Larisa1983 on March 06, 2014, 08:02:42 PM
So today at work I got called by a old guy with an accent that I'm a beautiful young women. He kept insisting I was a girl. I'm not sure what to exactly think. It was def funny but it also makes me wonder if I'm truly a girl, not a guy or what. I was flattered, annoyed and humored to. Guy or girl am I? I've felt trans many times before. And I also wasn't dressed as a girl either.

Maybe you have a natural femininity to you.
Title: Re: Called a beautiful young women and confused kinda
Post by: Rachel on March 13, 2014, 06:36:34 PM
Congratulations  :)