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Title: How do I put this
Post by: echo_artist on March 08, 2014, 09:42:06 AM
Post by: echo_artist on March 08, 2014, 09:42:06 AM
I love my boyfriend and we've been so very close for a year and change.
I get these weird, mixed messages at times that he's okay and not okay.
He recently told me he CD's, and I see no fault to it, my problem is explaining
me wanting to transition to him...when he sees this from a
cross dresser's point. (which I didn't know it would make such a difference)
I get these weird, mixed messages at times that he's okay and not okay.
He recently told me he CD's, and I see no fault to it, my problem is explaining
me wanting to transition to him...when he sees this from a
cross dresser's point. (which I didn't know it would make such a difference)
Title: Re: How do I put this
Post by: Sayra on March 08, 2014, 07:33:58 PM
Post by: Sayra on March 08, 2014, 07:33:58 PM
Hi Echo!
I'm sorry, I just wanted to see if I could understand your situation: your boyfriend cd's and you're all right with it, but you're not sure how to explain to him that you would like to transition to a gender that is not what you were physically born with?
To me, it sounds like there are many serious conversations that need to happen for clarification for both of you. I know that the paths you will take are unique to each of you, but certainly you can share the road and enjoy each other's comfort.
Good luck! I don't know how difficult it is, but I know what it is to love someone so much that the result of you two being together is all that matters.
S.
I'm sorry, I just wanted to see if I could understand your situation: your boyfriend cd's and you're all right with it, but you're not sure how to explain to him that you would like to transition to a gender that is not what you were physically born with?
To me, it sounds like there are many serious conversations that need to happen for clarification for both of you. I know that the paths you will take are unique to each of you, but certainly you can share the road and enjoy each other's comfort.
Good luck! I don't know how difficult it is, but I know what it is to love someone so much that the result of you two being together is all that matters.
S.
Title: Re: How do I put this
Post by: echo_artist on May 06, 2014, 08:21:34 PM
Post by: echo_artist on May 06, 2014, 08:21:34 PM
Thanks for your response Sayra. You're right on the money with your guess.
I've tried talking to him about it, I realized me having a sketch book specifically
for me explaining my issues has helped me and him alot.
From what I got from him, he was it as me just wanting to dress like a male very
badly. Once I showed him visually how it is in my mind, he's become more
sympathetic. :3
I've tried talking to him about it, I realized me having a sketch book specifically
for me explaining my issues has helped me and him alot.
From what I got from him, he was it as me just wanting to dress like a male very
badly. Once I showed him visually how it is in my mind, he's become more
sympathetic. :3
Title: Re: How do I put this
Post by: Sayra on May 07, 2014, 01:38:13 AM
Post by: Sayra on May 07, 2014, 01:38:13 AM
Glad things have worked out!