Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Jasper.Beauclair on March 31, 2014, 11:25:27 PM Return to Full Version

Title: Intro
Post by: Jasper.Beauclair on March 31, 2014, 11:25:27 PM
Ok I'm not fully "out", I suppose
I'm living with my dad, a senior in high school, about to graduate in a month or so
I have never been diagnosed with gender dysphoria or as trans or anything, I've just felt like this since god knows how long, I was still in elementary school when I noticed
I am in a relationship with a girl who doesn't really understand trans and says things like "you're a girl until you have a penis"
I try to understand where she is coming from, I mean I am in the south, she is racist (I'm trying to convince her that is wrong and she is being poisoned by her parents' perception of other races), we know maybe 1 lgbt person irl and that's each other, and we are both constantly being told in the south (except maybe Florida), that it is either illegal to be gay or that if we get hurt because of it (beaten, harassed, raped, refused employment, etc) that the government will not acknowledge it as a issue.
So I deal with the female pronouns and her introducing me as her girlfriend to people at school
I am not as clouded in that sense as she is, and I understand the lies her parents feed us and their other young children

But I'm writing this to say hello..
And to tell about myself
Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Jessica Merriman on April 01, 2014, 12:52:19 AM
A big warm welcome to the family Jasper! We are so glad to have you with us and will do what we can to make you comfortable and answer any questions you might have. Feel free to rant, vent, share good news (we like that a LOT), learn or just have some distracting fun and meet the rest of the family. Here is a BIG HUG  :icon_hug: to welcome you and make you feel right at home, because you are! :) After 15 postings feel free to contact anyone directly with questions or just talk about anything.

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Title: Re: Intro
Post by: Jasper.Beauclair on April 01, 2014, 01:07:44 AM
thank you very much
im a shy guy, i might be too afraid to post a lot o////o
often, on forums sites, i find myself lingering in a chat section
posting and replying always seemed so intimidating, actual conversations, real time paced, is more comforting
this place doesnt have something like that, would it?