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This is my first time posting, so if this should be in a different section, I'm sorry!!!

So I'm a Pansexual transguy, been on T for about a year & 2 months.

When it comes to dating cis men, I usually NEVER hear about ftms being tops. I mostly notice gay ftm blogs and such primarily ftm bottom based. I haven't dated too many cis males but of the few they all never wanted to bottom. Recently I've started to develop crushes on a few total bottomed cis males, their usually pretty ignorant towards sex with a transguy but I still hold out hope..... :/ lol

So my question to the community is:

Are you in or have you heard of the FTM top / cis bottom duo?

Mostly top here, but I haven't been with any cis guys. Just hasn't happened.

I have heard of a few couples who switch roles and have switched myself with the guys I have dated. Reminding the guy that your dick can be any size he desires can intrigue some guys. Plus you'll always be able to "get it up" hah.

Yup! Pre bottom surgery we can use a selection of toys & attachments if we so wish, and some guys who've had bottom surgery can top naturally, depending on the procedure & the results. There are plenty of cisguys who are willing to bottom so you can find one if you look. ;)

Have you seen Bill Roundy's excellent comic, Orientation Police, about his perspective as a gay cisman who has dated several transguys? It's been linked before at Susan's but here's the link again if you've missed it: http://comics.billroundy.com/?p=1116 (http://comics.billroundy.com/?p=1116)

I don't know what I am (I mean in terms of orientation at this point-- long story, so I'm Questioning I suppose). But yes, I have heard of such a thing in people who have not had surgery. I think it is done with toys. I know not all trans guys appreciate the cartoon from Bill Roundy mentioned by FTMDiaries but it a FTM top apparently.

--Jay

Bill's cartoon gives me hope that there is a cis gay man out there who I will find attractive and will be attracted to me despite my anatomy. I haven't met any yet.

I'm a switch with my husband. I trust him deeply and know that he understands how to treat me 'in that way' when I'm bottoming to him. Not to be too graphic but when I bottom now that I'm transitioning it's more for catharsis and he plays the part very well. For the most part, I enjoy topping and I have a dominant but laid back personality. I always get what I want in the end because I know how to manipulate people without being harmful or overbearing.

mostly bottom but I don't like to limit myself. I been with a cisguy who was pretty top but he was also a bottom virgin and it turned out that he actually enjoyed being bottom alot more than I thought.