Community Conversation => Transitioning => Therapy => Topic started by: Shaloxeroligon on April 01, 2014, 11:48:54 AM Return to Full Version
Title: What to look for in a good therapist?
Post by: Shaloxeroligon on April 01, 2014, 11:48:54 AM
Post by: Shaloxeroligon on April 01, 2014, 11:48:54 AM
I've had good luck with a therapist in the past; she gave me a lot of helpful advice, and really got me on the right track to better health. However, I am now in the market for a new one. I was wondering if people had any ides for what makes a good therapist, relating to transgender issues? Are there any warning signs to watch out for? Is there a particular type of therapy that's recommended for transgender folks?
Also, more generally, how easy is it to manage going to therapy while also holding down a full-time, 9-5 job?
Also, more generally, how easy is it to manage going to therapy while also holding down a full-time, 9-5 job?
Title: Re: What to look for in a good therapist?
Post by: suzifrommd on April 01, 2014, 12:06:20 PM
Post by: suzifrommd on April 01, 2014, 12:06:20 PM
There is a list of warning signs here: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,162266.msg1392459.html#msg1392459 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,162266.msg1392459.html#msg1392459)
I would suggest a therapist who is familiar with the WPATH guidelines and who has had many other transgender patients. You want a therapist who will listen to you and help you come to your own conclusions. You want someone who will be patient with you but who will gently tell you the truth about yourself when you need to hear it.
My therapist will happily accommodate me after work. It hasn't been a problem.
I would suggest a therapist who is familiar with the WPATH guidelines and who has had many other transgender patients. You want a therapist who will listen to you and help you come to your own conclusions. You want someone who will be patient with you but who will gently tell you the truth about yourself when you need to hear it.
My therapist will happily accommodate me after work. It hasn't been a problem.