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Title: when you have to deal with chauvanism on a daily basis
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 09:59:08 PM
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 09:59:08 PM
First off all I want to say I am in no way trying to sound conceited this is just my experience, particularly from men since transitioning.
I get hit on all the time when I'm out in town, I notice the way guys look at women and sadly they do it to me too and its not flattering its creepy, I'm 5'2 115 pounds and have a curvey body, my butt is big and it jiggles (ugh) I also have thick thighs I have a slender frame but my hips, thighs and butt are curvy, I heard what this guy said today at the restraunt say to his friend when I was outside and he told him I had ''birthing thighs'' (wtf?) And also as I was downtown I kept getting honks and stares and one guy served past me saying ''you are really gorgeous you know'' and within seconds I walked passed the laundrymat and this one guy was eyeing me and we hungoutfor a while while he did his laundry, and then a minute later I made a friend at the store his name is simon and he's really sweet and cool and were gonna chill tonight, I just hope in the future he doesn't fall for me because then I would be forced to tell him I'm a transsexual and I'd be scared of us not being able to be friends, ( I'm not attracted to him so nothing would happen as far as a relationship) but anyways as iI was walking home and I kept getting stared at and horns honked. I feel bad for cis women who deal with this because I'm tired of it, does anyone have any similar stories? Id love to hear them
I get hit on all the time when I'm out in town, I notice the way guys look at women and sadly they do it to me too and its not flattering its creepy, I'm 5'2 115 pounds and have a curvey body, my butt is big and it jiggles (ugh) I also have thick thighs I have a slender frame but my hips, thighs and butt are curvy, I heard what this guy said today at the restraunt say to his friend when I was outside and he told him I had ''birthing thighs'' (wtf?) And also as I was downtown I kept getting honks and stares and one guy served past me saying ''you are really gorgeous you know'' and within seconds I walked passed the laundrymat and this one guy was eyeing me and we hungoutfor a while while he did his laundry, and then a minute later I made a friend at the store his name is simon and he's really sweet and cool and were gonna chill tonight, I just hope in the future he doesn't fall for me because then I would be forced to tell him I'm a transsexual and I'd be scared of us not being able to be friends, ( I'm not attracted to him so nothing would happen as far as a relationship) but anyways as iI was walking home and I kept getting stared at and horns honked. I feel bad for cis women who deal with this because I'm tired of it, does anyone have any similar stories? Id love to hear them
Title: Re: when you have to deal with chauvanism on a daily basis
Post by: Evelyn K on April 12, 2014, 10:08:38 PM
Post by: Evelyn K on April 12, 2014, 10:08:38 PM
... well if you dress to impress ;)
Men are hardwired in such a way. Have you ever read the book Sperm Wars?
It seems every dick with a brain acts like they are entitled to procreate and entitled to any female of their choosing.
Men are hardwired in such a way. Have you ever read the book Sperm Wars?
It seems every dick with a brain acts like they are entitled to procreate and entitled to any female of their choosing.
Title: Re: when you have to deal with chauvanism on a daily basis
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 10:11:15 PM
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 10:11:15 PM
I know men are visual but its so gross lol I wasnt even wearing anything reveiling, just a nice black tube top and jeans
Title: Re: when you have to deal with chauvanism on a daily basis
Post by: Ms Grace on April 12, 2014, 11:01:55 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on April 12, 2014, 11:01:55 PM
For some guys it wouldn't even matter if you were in a potato sack! :laugh:
Sadly what you're experiencing is what a lot of women, especially the younger more attractive ones have to put up with the moment they walk out the door. Apparently guys like that think it's their right to constantly sexually harass women. Half of them probably have a girlfriend, wife and/or daughter.
Sadly what you're experiencing is what a lot of women, especially the younger more attractive ones have to put up with the moment they walk out the door. Apparently guys like that think it's their right to constantly sexually harass women. Half of them probably have a girlfriend, wife and/or daughter.
Title: Re: when you have to deal with chauvanism on a daily basis
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 11:16:12 PM
Post by: latoya rayne on April 12, 2014, 11:16:12 PM
I agree ms grace