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Hey girls tell me something HONESTLY...

1.Does your vagina look like a REAL genetic vagina? Are you satisfied with it? DID A GUY WHO DOESN'T KNOW EVER CLOCKED YOUR VAGINA?

2.Are you sensate during intercourse? After how long after surgery did you start feeling sensate?

Haven't you asked this before??  ::)

1. Yes, my primary care said it looked great and just as it should, my gyno didn't know till I told her, My current BF doesn't know "nor will he", and 2 real close GG friends have seen it, and said it looked normal.  So yes it looks like a normal vag
2. Yes very, almost immediately however I didn't have intercourse till 4 months down the road which at that time I felt all that was going on,however it did get better and I felt more as time went on.

So there ya go, I am fully satisfied

Yeah dear I did ask this question before but now it's SPECIFICALLY for Chett girls as it's with him I'm going...

Quote from: calico on April 16, 2014, 02:27:40 AM
"nor will he"

OMG CALICO I SOOOOOOOOOOO LOVE YOU FOR SAYING THIS! HUHUHUHUHUHU!!!  >:-)

Good luck GF. I'm sure you are very excited.

Calico: Chett told me I can start to waka waka only after 3 months, this is toooooooo long girl. Other surgeons require only 1 month and a half. I can't wait that long, I need to 'work' girl.  >:-) OMG another very important question...AFTER HOW LONG THE 'SCARS' RE-CLOSES ITSELF and appear minimum 'normal'?

Furthermore I heard we need to wait like 25 days to leave Thailand while other surgeons only 2 weeks. After how long did you feel you could be strong enough to walk and to fly back to your country cos me I can't wait 25 days sorry, it's too much pfff + he requires 3 times more time in dilation compared to other surgeon.  :-\ Thanks God this won't be a problem cos men will 'auto-dilate' me.

And WHY did you wait for so long to waka waka after 4 MONTHS!  :o

Sorry to say but I think you are setting yourself up for unhappy results and possible complications.

I so hope my feeling Is wrong and wish you all the best

I was in Thailand for 24 days.  I had originally planned to go back to work after this short time,  I wish I had of stayed because I ended up staying off work for 3 more weeks after I got back.  I didn't /couldn't go back to work if I had really wanted,  because I was too weak and the dilation schedule as well.  The stitches weren't visually gone till 6 weeks. Even when I went back i still couldn't even wear jeans till at least 9 weeks.  See after 1 month? Yea right.  Even at 2 months I wouldn't it just isn't enough time to heal,  and at 2 months I am sure a man could something was up and ask questions. At 3 months things look wayyyyyyy better and that is also the time that the wounds actually are healed. I waited for another month because  personally  feel ready, because 1. I  wasn't on the dilation size I felt comfortable  to start a sexual relations.  And 2.  Well I didn't want to chance damaging something I waited all my life to have fixed.

Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 16, 2014, 08:26:03 AM
Sorry to say but I think you are setting yourself up for unhappy results and possible complications.

I have to agree with this right here,  you have asked in the past and been told the same thing,  if you can't wait then you probably shouldn't have the surgery otherwise if you don't listen you are going to put yourself In a very bad situation with a very bad outcome.

I have said  before but I'll say it again,  I  recommend  you purchase the soulsource dilators specifically the blue,  green,  and orange as the set Dr. Chettawut  provides well the #4 is as big as the blue.  I feel they are a good starter set but well they are just adequate  in my opinion.
A fyi: I had just started the orange when I started this relationship and when I finally decided to have intercourse well it hurt and I did bleed a little so that should tell you that the healing isn't complete.
Please please please listen to everyone o this site because if you don't and you have complications you will be the only one to blame.
Btw Chettawut recommends having at least 2 hours dilation day for a year,  worse conditions then some but not the worst for sure.

I'm another who thinks rushing/pushing things is risky and likely to end in permanent damage to something you've worked SO hard for.

Brassard says 6 weeks before sex... and at that point I also still had stitches, still had obvious "healing wound" spots, still had blatantly obvious scars (and Brassard offers minimal scarring compared to most of the other surgeons' results I've seen) and still had soreness and occasional slight bleeding with dilation. More importantly, internally I still felt dry and rough and scarred, which would be a dead giveaway to anyone trying penetration at that time. My opinion of my personal results is that I would have had *tearing* if I'd let a man thrust away in there, and on a new post-op that's more serious than a cis woman - that's how you get a fistula. (Not necessarily a rectal one, but cis vaginal tissue can tear slightly without shredding all the way through; ours might not, when the vagina is brand-new and healing. And then you have a hole straight through into your internal organ area. That's not only dangerous to the vagina, it's risking a life-threatening infection.)

I second the rec for the Soul Source dilators to anyone who's going to be with a lot of men, too. :) The orange is huge, but it's statistically likely that the more penises you deal with, the more likely that some will be in that size range.

I recommend that the poster join this group (https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/Trans-surgery/info) to see some results by Chett.

By the way, WOW are those Soul Source dilators expensive!  :o :o

Quote from: daahrling on April 16, 2014, 07:15:19 PM
I recommend that the poster join this group (https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/Trans-surgery/info) to see some results by Chett.

By the way, WOW are those Soul Source dilators expensive!  :o :o

they def are not cheap but they are worth it. My BF is maybe a lil bigger round than the orange so...... I was glad I prepared before hand when I didn't have a clue.  oh and another note for evolve-beauty - you say you a sex worker, and you want to get back to work asap, but when chett says 3 month that is assuming you will take it slow and very careful, something you clientale aren't going to do, and and don't say they will girl, ive seen and watched documenteries on sex workers, and once that thing is in, its out of your control. then everything is out of your control.

Quote from: calico on April 17, 2014, 02:42:30 AM
they def are not cheap but they are worth it. My BF is maybe a lil bigger round than the orange so...... I was glad I prepared before hand when I didn't have a clue.  oh and another note for evolve-beauty - you say you a sex worker, and you want to get back to work asap, but when chett says 3 month that is assuming you will take it slow and very careful, something you clientale aren't going to do, and and don't say they will girl, ive seen and watched documenteries on sex workers, and once that thing is in, its out of your control. then everything is out of your control.

Dear, one thing I don't understand in all this. Logically speaking, if girls are able to dilate from month one, then why not be able to use a penis instead of dilator? What would be the difference? Let's say I have a 'friend' who accepts to 'dilate' me slowly with his penis, wear a condon to avoid infection and he going slowly. What would be wrong in all this then?  ::)

Quote from: calico on April 17, 2014, 02:42:30 AM
they def are not cheap but they are worth it. My BF is maybe a lil bigger round than the orange so...... I was glad I prepared before hand when I didn't have a clue.  oh and another note for evolve-beauty - you say you a sex worker, and you want to get back to work asap, but when chett says 3 month that is assuming you will take it slow and very careful, something you clientale aren't going to do, and and don't say they will girl, ive seen and watched documenteries on sex workers, and once that thing is in, its out of your control. then everything is out of your control.

Ouch  :'( I imagine it hurt a bit?

If I may ask, did you have any problems with depth?

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on April 17, 2014, 04:58:16 AM
Dear, one thing I don't understand in all this. Logically speaking, if girls are able to dilate from month one, then why not be able to use a penis instead of dilator? What would be the difference? Let's say I have a 'friend' who accepts to 'dilate' me slowly with his penis, wear a condon to avoid infection and he going slowly. What would be wrong in all this then?  ::)

Well, a dilator is made of a clean and hardy material. Penises are neither (well, not always, anyway). You could definitely get an infection, which could be life-threatening. Plus, dilation is supposed to be steady (in regards to schedule and to how it is done *precisely*), which means sex is not a suitable replacement. Oh, and fistulas. You definitely want to stay away from those (*scary*). For the first three months (at least), the vagina is still quite thin and healing, if you force anything in you may be asking for trouble (ever heard of prolapse?). Please dilate correctly if you have the surgery  :) I've heard of so many girls that regret that they didn't.

There's also the fact that static dilation involves holding the dilator perfectly still for 20 minutes (which even if a guy were willing to do, would get REALLY uncomfortable) and dynamic dilation involves sort of "twirling" the dilator in a way a penis can't move. :) They do usually say you can substitute sex for a dilation session later on, but in the beginning, yeah, it all has to be done precisely correctly and as antiseptically as possible.

Hey girls do you know whether the Soul Source website provide internationals shipping?

Quote from: Evolving Beauty on April 17, 2014, 06:23:16 PM
Hey girls do you know whether the Soul Source website provide internationals shipping?

They mention Customs issues, so it looks good http://www.soulsource.com/faq/ (http://www.soulsource.com/faq/)

Quote from: daahrling on April 17, 2014, 04:14:07 PM
Ouch  :'( I imagine it hurt a bit?

If I may ask, did you have any problems with depth?

When I finally felt that I was ready,  Yea it did hurt a bit,  but pain got better after 10 or so minutes and it became enjoyable.  Since I'm a lil over a year post op now everything is great.  Depth wise I'm  6.5 and only on the orange dilator.

Soulsource is available over seas shipping is more however.

Quote from: calico on April 19, 2014, 02:31:22 AM
When I finally felt that I was ready,  Yea it did hurt a bit,  but pain got better after 10 or so minutes and it became enjoyable.  Since I'm a lil over a year post op now everything is great.  Depth wise I'm  6.5 and only on the orange dilator.

Soulsource is available over seas shipping is more however.

I'm glad  :) ;D

LOL That orange dilator is honestly a little bit frightening... If you were to use that smaller dilators, do you think you would end up feeling a bit loose or just as tight?

If I may ask, is your boyfriend longer or shorter than your total depth?

Quote from: daahrling on April 19, 2014, 02:37:54 AM
I'm glad  :) ;D

LOL That orange dilator is honestly a little bit frightening... If you were to use that smaller dilators, do you think you would end up feeling a bit loose or just as tight?

If I may ask, is your boyfriend longer or shorter than your total depth?

I thought that he was a tad bit longer,  but  haven't had an issues,  honestly I would say we are a pretty good fit,  almost perfect,  and I've never felt him bottom out so :D yep.  I am still tight in  my opinion but not so tight as its difficult when I have intercourse I don't believe had I stayed with my original  dilators I would be where I am now. I feel I would be way too tight and it hinder my ability to have a normal self life.  The originals were just not good enough

Quote from: calico on April 20, 2014, 06:52:00 PM
I thought that he was a tad bit longer,  but  haven't had an issues,  honestly I would say we are a pretty good fit,  almost perfect,  and I've never felt him bottom out so :D yep.  I am still tight in  my opinion but not so tight as its difficult when I have intercourse I don't believe had I stayed with my original  dilators I would be where I am now. I feel I would be way too tight and it hinder my ability to have a normal self life.  The originals were just not good enough

Ah, I see :)

I'm considering Brassard and Suporn for my SRS. One of my fears going with Brassard is bottoming out during sex. It must be extremely awkward and uncomfortable for both parties. But I think his aesthetics is probably the best one in the world right now (in my opinion).