Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: ~Evelyn~ on April 20, 2014, 11:27:50 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Unfair Judgement
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 20, 2014, 11:27:50 PM
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 20, 2014, 11:27:50 PM
I just wanted to ask, I'm a transgender who has undergone HRT and a sex change but due to My country's LGBT rights ( which isn't fully supported by the government ) which Is Malaysia, I still have to go to a boys high school and cant go one where there are girls. Ive even had my ID card changed and I'm now and official Female however they still wont let me go to a girls school. There are girls in my school tho some seniors so I'm not so worried but the guys here are just nasty. Are they actually allowed to restrain me in my school? :-\
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: Anatta on April 21, 2014, 04:07:21 PM
Post by: Anatta on April 21, 2014, 04:07:21 PM
Kia Ora BornFree,
Perhaps you should contact the Malaysian Human Rights Commission "Suhakam" they might be able to help in some way...
http://www.accessfacility.org/human-rights-commission-malaysia-suruhanjaya-hak-asasi-malaysia-or-suhakam
Metta Anatta:)
Perhaps you should contact the Malaysian Human Rights Commission "Suhakam" they might be able to help in some way...
http://www.accessfacility.org/human-rights-commission-malaysia-suruhanjaya-hak-asasi-malaysia-or-suhakam
Metta Anatta:)
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 22, 2014, 05:46:49 AM
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 22, 2014, 05:46:49 AM
Thanks a bunch! Btw my name is Evelyn :D and ill keep you guys updated.
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: Anatta on April 22, 2014, 04:07:07 PM
Post by: Anatta on April 22, 2014, 04:07:07 PM
Selamat Pugi Evelyn,
You're welcome...
Here's some more links that might be of use...
http://www.aidsalliance.org/casestudydetails.aspx?Id=40050
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Malaysia
The trans-woman in this youtube clip works in politics in Malaysia and is involved with Human Rights....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2aKirLBG6uo
Metta Anatta :)
You're welcome...
Here's some more links that might be of use...
http://www.aidsalliance.org/casestudydetails.aspx?Id=40050
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Malaysia
The trans-woman in this youtube clip works in politics in Malaysia and is involved with Human Rights....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2aKirLBG6uo
Metta Anatta :)
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 23, 2014, 03:09:49 AM
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 23, 2014, 03:09:49 AM
Thanks! and its Selamat Pagi by the way. ;D
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: Natkat on April 23, 2014, 04:59:31 AM
Post by: Natkat on April 23, 2014, 04:59:31 AM
If you have the option go visit the school and talk to the people.
I was denied from 2 schools being trans. one school general denied me because it came out I was transgender, the other school said I could go but I would have to use the womans room.
For the first school I paid them an extra visit on the open hour day and we wrotte that I was really interesting in the school, I think it was more than many other student did who simple just sad and was half asleep like they didnt care.
The other school I used the agument that I would be on homones so I would look like a guy and it could make the girls unconfortable.
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So general advice is just dont take a no for a no, and try some extra to show you Really are interesteed and its not going to be a big deal. I gave the same advice to my mtf friend who wasnt allowed to join the school in a dress but after she got in there where no problem and she could be in the girl floor and change with the girls and everything.
For me it wasn't a problem either when I first got in and the teacher notice that I was just a regular person.
good luck.
I was denied from 2 schools being trans. one school general denied me because it came out I was transgender, the other school said I could go but I would have to use the womans room.
For the first school I paid them an extra visit on the open hour day and we wrotte that I was really interesting in the school, I think it was more than many other student did who simple just sad and was half asleep like they didnt care.
The other school I used the agument that I would be on homones so I would look like a guy and it could make the girls unconfortable.
-
So general advice is just dont take a no for a no, and try some extra to show you Really are interesteed and its not going to be a big deal. I gave the same advice to my mtf friend who wasnt allowed to join the school in a dress but after she got in there where no problem and she could be in the girl floor and change with the girls and everything.
For me it wasn't a problem either when I first got in and the teacher notice that I was just a regular person.
good luck.
Title: Re: Unfair Judgement
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 23, 2014, 08:17:37 AM
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 23, 2014, 08:17:37 AM
Thanks a bunch! Also I also wanted to state that I'm already studying in the boys school, Ive been in the same high school for three years and this is my fourth year. After my final OP things got really hard for me and this was somewhere around the mid year of 2012 but even before that when I had an FFS in 2011 I have been getting the weird looks and talk going round about me, but I didn't mind it however the thing that I couldn't stand was the PE classes. As you know we have to change into our PE attire and that was the hard part I wasn't allowed to use the girls locker room and due to some problems which ere never made clear.. The boys locker room has been closed for a year plus.. so guys just change in class instead and everyone would pass by look, it want a problem tho.. for them that is but for me I had a very hard time. When the PE coach comes in he usually asks everyone to change then he gives me this look sometimes and sometimes he just sits there and pretends to read his magazine, but I can see that hes trying to peek at me when I was changing, I usually waited for everyone to leave but after my final OP everyone knew what I had "down there" and they would take their time to change and just really stall everything. So I had no other choice but to change in class so I removed my uniform and put it over my chair and then the most immature thing happens.. they grab my uniform and fling it around the class not all of them only the idiots which was half the class.. And they would grab my bag so I wouldn't be able to change and Id end up in the corner of the class in my underwear and id be trying to cover up myself so Id scream and other senior guys passing by would rush in and beat the crap out of the other kids in my class and they would usually ask me if I was okay.. they were nice unlike the low lives in my class. This all stopped tho early this year when ALL and I mean ALL the seniors wrote to the school board to allow me to use the girls locker room and to my shock I was finally allowed to use the lockers room. Now I can change in peace but one problem still remains tho.. the boys.. with their uncontrollable urges to see me nude.. they tried decoys, hidden cams, mirrors you name it they have done it. So now me and my mum are currently looking for a girls or maybe mixed school that would accept me and one that would provide me a proper locker room and a safe environment from horny perverts.