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Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 24, 2014, 09:27:13 PM
I hope this topic can help all MTF members with sharing the good things that happened to you. The things that made you happy.

For myself it was a very good day. Nice waxing for legs & arms, so smooth. A beauty salon visit was nice & made me happy.

It's good for us all to enjoy the things that make us happier in life & to share them I hope.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: kariann330 on April 25, 2014, 02:07:52 AM
I didn't break anything at work tonight...and that's big because we have been calling maintenance every night this week lol.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on April 25, 2014, 02:20:25 AM
Well in OZ it's ANZAC day, similar to Memorial day.
Don't need to pretend to be him for work.
I love what E has done over the past 6 months, too many to list. OMG. :)

Happy Cindy realises the is very important and wont go. :)

Did some housework and tidied up the place.

All in all a nice day even though I feel sick and it was pouring all morning.

J
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 25, 2014, 03:00:33 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on April 25, 2014, 02:20:25 AM
Well in OZ it's ANZAC day, similar to Memorial day.
Don't need to pretend to be him for work.
I love what E has done over the past 6 months, too many to list. OMG. :)

Happy Cindy realises the is very important and wont go. :)

Did some housework and tidied up the place.

All in all a nice day even though I feel sick and it was pouring all morning.

J
Good for you GF. Sounds like life is good. Have a great holiday break.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: BeingSonia on April 25, 2014, 03:19:53 AM
Reserved my first electrolysis session. Bye bye, effing beard!
Also finished writing an essay explaining why I need to take hormones. The essay is destined to a second therapist to get a second opinion, needed to start the HRT.

Happy day!

Sonia
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: luna nyan on April 25, 2014, 07:17:48 AM
I got to sleep in!  I just can't get up for Anzac Day memorials...  I would have been a dismal failure in the Australian Army - lucky I didn't sign on the dotted line.

Scabs from last electro session are finally gone!  (Hopefully I won't need to go back again for a few years).

And I survived being head butted in the nipples. >.<
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 25, 2014, 09:16:48 AM
 I opened a 100% female FB page 6 months ago. Nothing at all about any trans issues. Lots of my old friends are connected & some new friends. However several completely new women friends are connected. I have given them my story of not being born a natural woman but taking my HRT, living as well as possible as a woman & hopes of my GRS perhaps within one year. All are OK & treat me like any woman friend that has some problems, all us girls have problems. It is so nice to have lots of women friends helping me with all the little things in life to become a nicer more complete woman. Today that made me happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Androgynous_Machine on April 25, 2014, 09:37:28 AM
Today? Hot coffee

Yesterday? Got my nails done. :-)

-AM
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: noleen111 on April 25, 2014, 11:12:26 AM
had some me time...

went for a manicure and petticure, then a full body massage and a facial. ... felt amazing.. I love being a woman...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 25, 2014, 12:16:31 PM
Well I had half a tub of ice cream. Does that count?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Julia-Madrid on April 25, 2014, 12:35:05 PM
Happy ANZAC day girls...!!!

Woo hoo, my little moment of happiness was finding that, after 3 weeks on HRT, my breasts are very definitely and officially sensitive. 

Finally! 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JennyH on April 25, 2014, 12:46:18 PM
I just signed up to go to college. I am 30 years old and out of school for 12 years but after a long period of being unemployed I decided to go for it. I was working as a carpenter before transition so once things got noticable I quit and have been unemployed but receiving disability benefits. I am in a social work degree program and would like to work as a gender therapist or in an lgbt advocacy group. I am also in the middle of changing my name legally to Jennifer.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 25, 2014, 01:43:11 PM
After about a week's worth of feeling utterly down and deflated today was the first time for what felt like ages that being Rosie gave me the warm gooey feeling inside. That has kept me smiling all afternoon.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 25, 2014, 01:44:41 PM
Quote from: ~Evelyn~ on April 25, 2014, 12:16:31 PM
Well I had half a tub of ice cream. Does that count?

Depends. What flavour ice cream?

Rosie.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: eggy_nog on April 25, 2014, 01:54:28 PM
My new BIKINI ARRIVED :D :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 25, 2014, 02:03:39 PM
Quote from: eggy_nog on April 25, 2014, 01:54:28 PM
My new BIKINI ARRIVED :D :D
You must have a nicer bod that mine. I'm laying out soaking up some sun in a one piece.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on April 25, 2014, 02:17:27 PM
The placebo effect. Yay !  After being on AAs and expecting my muscle mass to diminish and strength to recede, it is surprising how a new set of cycling gear makes you 2 mph faster on average over a set training run  ;D  ;D ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on April 25, 2014, 02:20:34 PM
Oooh, and just now... hot chocolate cake and ice cream  :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 25, 2014, 02:34:49 PM
Quote from: nikkit72 on April 25, 2014, 02:17:27 PM
The placebo effect. Yay !  After being on AAs and expecting my muscle mass to diminish and strength to recede, it is surprising how a new set of cycling gear makes you 2 mph faster on average over a set training run  ;D  ;D ;D

So you will be cycling to St Cadoc's down the M4 then?

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 25, 2014, 03:30:15 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on April 25, 2014, 01:44:41 PM
Depends. What flavour ice cream?

Rosie.

Vanilla with chocolate chips.  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 25, 2014, 04:47:26 PM
Quote from: ~Evelyn~ on April 25, 2014, 03:30:15 PM
Vanilla with chocolate chips.  :D

Yep, that would work.  My favourite ice cream to date is one I made a couple of years ago from some chocolate mint I have growing in the garden.  All the flavour of a really good mint choc chip but without the chocolate.

I know, I know, what is the point of...

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on April 25, 2014, 04:53:09 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on April 25, 2014, 02:34:49 PM
So you will be cycling to St Cadoc's down the M4 then?

Rosie

Only after more cake  :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on April 25, 2014, 04:59:12 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on April 25, 2014, 01:43:11 PM
After about a week's worth of feeling utterly down and deflated today was the first time for what felt like ages that being Rosie gave me the warm gooey feeling inside. That has kept me smiling all afternoon.

Rosie

Are you sure that was not just some warm cake ?  With ice cream ?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: fusstangtroy on April 25, 2014, 08:21:26 PM
Went to doc today and and he was cool about me being trans .And top off that he has 6 other trans girls (OH YES THERES OTHER GALS IN MY PART OF WOODS) ....
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miyah48 on April 25, 2014, 09:41:43 PM
My boyfriend accepts me. He said it made sense, and even though it makes him sad to lose the person he sees every day he was okay with it. He now calls me Miyah. :) made me ecstatic. The kiss helped smooth things over lol. Oh young love eh girls?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Joan on April 25, 2014, 10:55:52 PM
Came out to a friend I've known for 30 years last night via Skype. We talked for an hour and a half and it went really well. By the end I was listening to his problems not talking about my own lol.

It's a beautiful day here today, and I'm sitting here in the sun eating my sandwiches pleased with how things are progressing :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eva Marie on April 25, 2014, 11:25:51 PM
I have found a person that is my first real "girl friend" (not to be confused with "girlfriend"). As a guy we aren't allowed to create these kinds of relationships, and now that I have a person that I can confide all things to - what a difference! I *like* this part of being a girl  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 26, 2014, 07:54:49 AM
New E patch day, that is always a good day. Selling off some "male" things/boats to get them out of my life. I'll use the $ for more plastic surgery. My upper arms are so flabby. I'm going to have them reduced, much thinner & more feminine thin arms. Oh & my garden is really springing up, love my little garden.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Veronica M on April 26, 2014, 08:19:14 AM
Well as for today since it is early still, I would say my morning coffee..  ;D But yesterday was absolutely a wonderful day. Did a little sight seeing around San Diego with a friend, had lunch at the Hotel Del Coronado and just took the time to enjoy good friendship, conversation and the sights of San Diego. A great day for sure.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on April 26, 2014, 10:25:07 AM
Perfect day today well mostly toward the evening, I was having a nice bath , sitting in the bath I looked at where the sun was coming from and it was just nostalgic how everything was, and coincidental too. Mum went shopping with friends and my brother was out somewhere skating so I had the place to myself. In the bathtub I just let myself go back five to six years ago when I was still in misery and now that I look back and see where I am now made me cry, no seriously I cried... There was something about the sun and the bath that was so coincidental with the way I was a few years back, I don't know what it was but it sure did make me really happy to see how far I went to be who I wanted to. Just thought id share this with you guys because this really made me happy today, and I still am.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: latoya rayne on April 26, 2014, 10:58:41 AM
My boyfriend did, he always makes me so happy just being around him is amazing, we currently are living at my parents house. And we've been talking of getting a place, he made me so happy when he mentioned that :-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 27, 2014, 05:17:19 AM
My breasts are really starting to develop. I'm a B cup now & maybe soon a C cup. That would be just so nice, I have a very good plastic surgeon however I really want all natural breasts & not implants.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miranda Catherine on April 27, 2014, 11:54:03 PM
I'm coming up on 32 months living instead of existing, i.e. living as a woman. I went shopping with my mom today, and she told me I looked really pretty! She tells me something like that at least a few times a week, and the fact that we're finally mother and daughter is the second best thing about having transitioned. I know she honestly looks at me as her daughter and realizes that this was the way it was supposed to be is the most satisfying feeling I've ever had besides knowing it myself and finally living that truth. I have a great deal of physical pain I have to deal with by the minute, hour, or at the least, daily, but every single day I find joy in just waking up and realizing that I have a new day to live and not exist. Hugs, Mira
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 28, 2014, 12:58:19 AM
I entered the constest for BenefitCosmetics to bring their pink airstream trailer to my town to do my brows & makeup. Primp my Brows. Look at InStyle Magazine for a link. It's so cool. They travel from town to town & "Primp Brows".
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 29, 2014, 09:40:00 AM
I'm so happy there was no damage in my area during the recent storms. Yesterday it was so nice to shop & talk with my women friends that run the local Goodwill store. We are good friends & they are all happy that my transition is going well. I love to shop their 100% as Francis.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: @Diana on April 29, 2014, 09:51:40 AM

1.be my partner's chauffeur .. drop him off & pick him up at his work 4 times a day (since I dont work at moment)

2.walk my dog & play with him

3.chat with my sister & brother via Line on my phone (update me about my parents)

makes me happy  ;)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on April 29, 2014, 01:40:12 PM
Awesome first therapy appointment! (See other post)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Blue Rabbit on April 29, 2014, 04:06:51 PM
Doctor wants to refer me to a therapist he just wanted to search for one that would suit me or some shizzle. Just bloody waiting for my next appointment with my doctor so he can run me through what'll happen next.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Violet Bloom on April 29, 2014, 04:18:32 PM
  Today's announcement of the lifetime NBA ban and $2.5 million fine on LA Clippers owner Donald Sterling for his racist remarks.  I was so shocked I almost yelped when I heard it.  It's nice when such a large organization actually has the fortitude to do the right thing in the face of arrogant intolerance.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Christinetobe on April 29, 2014, 08:32:16 PM
I survived the day
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on April 29, 2014, 09:41:11 PM
Came out to my brother via phone, we live on opposite sides of the pond. We had a great laugh about what we thought our dad will say when it's his turn to get the news. My brother pointed out that it was a one shot deal since if he survived the initial phone call I'd be written out of the will, just kidding btw :D

I'm happy that everyone is taking this well, although I'm not sure why many people think I'm joking initially, I don't think this is the sort of thing people joke about or do they?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Veronica M on April 29, 2014, 09:43:44 PM
I'm going to my first Mary Kay party... Doing the facial and a total makeup make over... Might even learn a few makeup tips... Party is being held by a person in my Transgender group so don't have to worry about the whole pass / fail thing... WooHoo!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 29, 2014, 09:48:28 PM
It's funny, I've had some people say you are kidding/joking & I've said no, not at all & laughed, then told them the brief story. If they are OK, that's fine, if not that's OK too. Life is too short to worry about everyone.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 29, 2014, 09:49:18 PM
Quote from: Veronica M on April 29, 2014, 09:43:44 PM
I'm going to my first Mary Kay party... Doing the facial and a total makeup make over... Might even learn a few makeup tips... Party is being held by a person in my Transgender group so don't have to worry about the whole pass / fail thing... WooHoo!
That is way cool. Such fun GF. Have a blast.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 30, 2014, 12:31:15 AM
Quote from: Christinetobe on April 29, 2014, 08:32:16 PM
I survived the day

Oh yes. I have lost count of the number of days where I was thankful to have made it to the end in one piece.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Michelle69 on April 30, 2014, 03:03:26 AM
Told my older brother tonight. We cried, he said I need you in my life. We will get through it together. I was so scared. He was the only one in my family I NEEDED to accept and he did!!! How can your face hurt from smiling and crying at the same time?! :) :)  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on April 30, 2014, 03:33:37 AM
Going for my final surgery consult tomorrow, every woman in the lab came and gave me a hug before I left work. So sweet!!

And then decision time Cindy baby!!!! :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on April 30, 2014, 04:55:31 AM
Are we going to have a big bash to celebrate sis?

Went on a bike ride last night. rode 80k through Sydney after dark on cycle ways out to the Olympic stadium and back.
Very different and very safe as mostly off road. Felt strange heading out after dark. Even stranger getting home at 11pm.
Good ride though.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on April 30, 2014, 05:28:38 AM
I am so frightened, enough said.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ms Grace on April 30, 2014, 05:43:32 AM
Good luck Cindy! That's in Melbourne, yeah? No side trip to Sydney? :(
Hope it goes great for you!

I have been feeling unreasonably happy of late. I love going in to work - just for the fact it gives me the opportunity to dress as, and go out into the world and be, the woman I've always known myself to be. People are still finding out about my transition and all have been so supportive and accepting. Today someone I once worked with and who I very occasionally bump into on the train into the city came right up to me and said hello on the platform. He'd read the self-outing article I'd written in my organisation's newsletter and wanted to congratulate me. We chatted all the way into the city. Later today I bumped into someone I know professionally through another organisation, haven't seen him for months and yet without blinking or stammering or pausing he said "Hello Grace, great to see you" as if nothing was different. Remarkable. I'm just... wow... happy!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 06:23:57 AM
Today is my birthday, so yea! I've always loved this time of the year. All green, little birds a chirping, new life going on. I feel great. So I'm a happy girl today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Chloevixen on April 30, 2014, 10:21:46 AM
Brought my friends scooter from Picyaune to Pearl river.  First time I have been on a scooter or motorcycle since I was 24.  I forgot how much fun it is.  Also got checked out by a few bikers who rode with me for a few miles before I missed my exit.
Completely loved it.  Now I get to go work on my sailboat and spend the rest of the day doing that.

Happy Birthday FrancisAnn!! Also a happy unbirthday to all the others.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Veronica M on April 30, 2014, 10:29:57 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 06:23:57 AM
Today is my birthday, so yea! I've always loved this time of the year. All green, little birds a chirping, new life going on. I feel great. So I'm a happy girl today.

Happy Birthday FrancisAnn, hope you have a wonderful day. Kick back and enjoy!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 12:42:15 PM
Quote from: Veronica M on April 30, 2014, 10:29:57 AM
Happy Birthday FrancisAnn, hope you have a wonderful day. Kick back and enjoy!
Thank you so much girl friend. I'm baking a nice little birthday cake, Pink Lemonade mix & Pink Lemonade frosting. It's cooking. I guess on my birthday it's OK to go off my diet. I wish I had some friends around but most of mine are facebook & SP's friends & all so far away.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on April 30, 2014, 01:35:44 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 06:23:57 AM
Today is my birthday, so yea! I've always loved this time of the year. All green, little birds a chirping, new life going on. I feel great. So I'm a happy girl today.

Ooooooohhhhh!
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday dear FrancisAnnOopsThatIsTooManySyllabels,
Haaaaaaapy birthday to you!

Now I bet you can't blow all 21 candles out with one huff.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 02:31:35 PM
Rosie, thank you. Rosie is such a nice name. I hope life is well with you today. Actually I did not light the candles. I'll wait until Saturday. I'll see a good friend then & light the candles. I did OK with the cake, it's always so hard to smooth out the icing. I should have whipped it smoother before starting, it was kind of cold, just out of the container. I'm so glad for my friends at Susan's Place. I'll be so glad one day to finally become a physically correct woman so I can find a new man to be with. It's lonely for now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on April 30, 2014, 04:58:10 PM
Just got my ears pierced, wen't to a professional piercing/tattoo place, super smooth and I was amazed by how much even just studs feminize my look, wohoooooo.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on April 30, 2014, 04:59:52 PM
Quote from: antonia on April 30, 2014, 04:58:10 PM
Just got my ears pierced, wen't to a professional piercing/tattoo place, super smooth and I was amazed by how much even just studs feminize my look, wohoooooo.

sweet :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 07:40:22 PM
Quote from: antonia on April 30, 2014, 04:58:10 PM
Just got my ears pierced, wen't to a professional piercing/tattoo place, super smooth and I was amazed by how much even just studs feminize my look, wohoooooo.
Great for you, I'm sure they are balanced. Sometimes if a friend does it they are not just right.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on April 30, 2014, 08:40:40 PM
The piercing artist actually took like 10 minutes to correctly place the dots, then brought out a calliper and measured angles. I'm really happy with the results and I gave him a good tip to show it!

Unfortunately I have to wear these drab studs for 3 months now and wash my ears with saline twice a day but It's all good.

Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 07:40:22 PM
Great for you, I'm sure they are balanced. Sometimes if a friend does it they are not just right.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 30, 2014, 08:48:55 PM
You will be OK GF. I'm sure you can change studs? What is important is that they fit your ears in just the right location. Earrings are so sexy if done right & so unpleasant looking if in the wrong place or way too many, yuck. Good for you again.

I pierced my own ears long ago in high school & did it myself with a needle. At first they were all wrong & I had to redo them a couple of times for just the right place. Quite a mess thinking back about that. You were smarter.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on April 30, 2014, 09:40:04 PM
I had a nice pleasant day to myself with no interruptions. This made me very happy as I rarely have days like this anymore.

I got my nails done yesterday. Changed colors from my usual shades of pink to a dark chartruse with fine glitter. They look awesome and the change is nice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 01, 2014, 02:32:37 AM
I survived my birthday, 39 & holding, that was fun. 9 days left to smoke a cig. if I want, May 10th is  cut off date for facial surgery on June 10th. Ecigs with low lever nicotene seem to work so I will STOP SMOKING & have my face greatly improved.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on May 01, 2014, 02:39:44 AM
Even though I feel crappy, had a therapist visit yesterday. It's been about 6 weeks.
She has noticed some big changes since I last saw her.

In fact two big changes.
She also thinks I am much happier and calmer which I am.
I said I was 99.9% sure I am doing the right thing. No one can be 100% sure.

Started talking about things I never expected including shopping and cosmetics.

She is good and I enjoy our ketchups.

J
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 01, 2014, 02:44:09 AM
Jenny, so you only like only ketchup & no mustard on your hot dog?    Just having fun, good for you GF.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Aquarelle on May 01, 2014, 05:24:34 AM
Today I found, that I lost 8 kg. (17,6 lbs) weight and 10 cm (4 inches) from the waist for the last two months, also I measured my feet and height and realized, that I am almost two shoe sizes down (from EU 42 to EU 40,5) for my whole transition, also my height before HRT was 181 cm (5'11,3") and today it was 179,5 cm (5'10,6"), which is wonderful and I am happy :) :) :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 01, 2014, 09:59:42 AM
Quote from: Aquarelle on May 01, 2014, 05:24:34 AM
Today I found, that I lost 8 kg. (17,6 lbs) weight and 10 cm (4 inches) from the waist for the last two months, also I measured my feet and height and realized, that I am almost two shoe sizes down (from EU 42 to EU 40,5) for my whole transition, also my height before HRT was 181 cm (5'11,3") and today it was 179,5 cm (5'10,6"), which is wonderful and I am happy :) :) :)
Congrats on the weight loss Aquarelle! :icon_bunch: It is great when your feet shrink isn't it? I used to be in a size 9, or sometimes, a 10 womans narrow depending on brand, & now I wear 8's womans narrow (US sizes) no matter what brand they are. :icon_flower:

Hugs :icon_hug:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 02, 2014, 06:50:41 AM
So happy I survived my birthday & so much more happy that all the cake is gone. It looked great & it was fun to bake however eating that stuff made me feel terrible. I should have found a sugar free icing.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on May 02, 2014, 10:22:41 AM
Happy that my older brother is super supportive of me being trans, I didn't know what to expect and now I'm so happy that he not only took it well but wrote me the sweetest email.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on May 02, 2014, 12:03:38 PM
Well my friend got me a few bars of white chocolate today. Ate one bar every few hours, gawd its so good!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: defective snowflake on May 02, 2014, 12:19:10 PM
$235 magically appeared in my account yesterday from the company I work for. I need to find out what the deal is. If its bonus from when I was acting manager for a few months or for taking that course and passing it well or what.  I'd hate to use it and then find out it was in error or something.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Paula on May 02, 2014, 02:28:35 PM
So, I walk to work everyday because I don't have enough money for the bus, and it's been pretty hot lately. I was running late and this girl pulled over and offered me a ride, because she said I looked stressed! :) It made me extremely happy to realize how much a stranger can care about someone they know nothing about.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Paula on May 02, 2014, 02:29:59 PM
Quote235 magically appeared in my account yesterday from the company I work for. I need to find out what the deal is. If its bonus from when I was acting manager for a few months or for taking that course and passing it well or what.  I'd hate to use it and then find out it was in error or something.

@defectivesnowflake: That's amazing! That happened to me for a company I got fired from, but they were paying me for the Paid Time Off I didn't use while working there. It was so unexpected, and helped me out a lot. Hopefully it wasn't an error, and you can go shopping!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 02, 2014, 02:47:32 PM
I agree, sure hope the $ is yours, Maybe a new very nice purse.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: defective snowflake on May 02, 2014, 03:39:57 PM
I just called and checked and it was the bonus for being acting manager while the manager was out for a few months. So, I'll use it to pay a bill or two. With that and what I'll get from Jan when she moves in should help out my poor financial situation quite well.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 02, 2014, 03:43:53 PM
Quote from: defective snowflake on May 02, 2014, 03:39:57 PM
I just called and checked and it was the bonus for being acting manager while the manager was out for a few months. So, I'll use it to pay a bill or two. With that and what I'll get from Jan when she moves in should help out my poor financial situation quite well.
Good for you!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Veronica M on May 02, 2014, 04:47:38 PM
I would say for today it was turning on the AC in the house for the first time and it worked great! It's frickin 97 degrees here in North San Diego.... Hope the pool warms up soon.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 02, 2014, 07:16:47 PM
I finally got my right ear pierced -again (5th time). I had it done professionally so it's even with the bottom piercing in my left ear. Now after 6 weeks I won't look so lopsided wearing my earrings.

Another good thing, my SO finally told her mom I was  in my full transition and she actually gave me a compliment!

And last, my friend Reaver (He's FTM & here on Susan's) who's staying with me temporarily may be staying a little longer so we'll be able to take my boat out next week. This is great cause weather's been nasty all this week here. So all in all a great day!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on May 03, 2014, 04:36:02 AM
Had a session killing white hares today. It was unabated carnage.
Still many more left. :(

Poor flopsy, never stood a chance.

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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: @Diana on May 03, 2014, 04:44:16 AM
Quote from: Allyda on May 02, 2014, 07:16:47 PM


Another good thing, my SO finally told her mom I was  in my full transition and she actually gave me a compliment!

And last, my friend Reaver He's FTM & here on Susan's) who's staying with me temporarily may be staying a little longer so we'll be able to take my boat out next week. This is great cause weather's been nasty all this week here. So all in all a great day!

Ally :icon_flower:

very nice Ally ! :)


I am having hot & sour soup (one of my fav dish from Chinese restaurant near my house) right now in freezing cold weather, making me happy !  :icon_dance:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 03, 2014, 05:02:35 AM
Beauty Salon/Electro appointment this morning. I've let me facial hair grow out for a week, so ugly. Soon it wll all be gone, yea!!! My lady is going to do some electro work then NuFree/wax removal of the remaining hairs. I will be very happy to have all this ugly stupid hair gone for at least a little while. This is the same procedure she uses for all her women clients & she tells me my facial hair is really not as bad as some of her cis women. So I'm happy for now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on May 03, 2014, 08:26:06 AM
I have PTSD from 9/11. I was in Manhattan that day. I spent the night in a hotel at 68th & Broadway with my sweety last night.

While she's working here I'm slowly working my way south. Sitting in Greeley Square (33rd & 6th) drinking coffee, completely at ease. First time in over 10 years that I'm comfortable here. Maybe it's finally over.

Heading further south. Hopefully I won't have to post on the OTHER thread! ;)

Dee
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 03, 2014, 08:29:53 AM
Dee, Very good for you. I know it was tough. Hope you have a great day, you deserve it GF.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on May 03, 2014, 10:31:45 AM
Well, I didn't need to post in the other thread. I made it to 13yh street from 68th and a few blocks short of returned to my starting point now. Poked the PTSD monster in the nose, had a great morning and stopped at Godiva ( not for me, for my Sweety). 110 short blocks and 2 long blocks. If I remember correctly that's about 6 miles. I'll head north after lunch.

Yay!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 03, 2014, 03:25:00 PM
I'm one lucky girl. My beauty salon/electro lady spent 4.5 hours with me. I paid her a big $100 & she went all out, my face is so smooth, every hair was removed using her salon system, NuFree. Then she gave me a very nice facial.  We are very close girl friends & we have such fun together while she works/pampers on me. I'm a happy girl today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Hayley on May 03, 2014, 08:01:47 PM
Besides coming back here today. I saw Against Me! last night(some after midnight so it counts as today) and it's was an amazing show. Laura has such a strong stage presence. And no one was really jerky at this show unlike the last one. So woooooooo!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miyuki on May 03, 2014, 08:44:57 PM
Technically this happened yesterday, but I'm still happy about it, so whatever. :D Yesterday I spent the entire day hanging out with my cousin and her friends. This is actually a pretty big step forward for me, because I have been socially isolating myself for years, and I had almost forgotten how good it feels to just be with other people that you enjoy being with.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on May 04, 2014, 12:14:04 AM
Even though I've been full time for over 6 weeks and passing, I finally got my ears pierced today :)
(Not painful at all, especially considering how much it hurt when I had my nipples pierced 5 1/2 years ago.)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 04, 2014, 03:51:49 AM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on May 04, 2014, 12:14:04 AM
Even though I've been full time for over 6 weeks and passing, I finally got my ears pierced today :)
(Not painful at all, especially considering how much it hurt when I had my nipple pierced 5 1/2 years ago.)
You have more courage than me GF. I'm not going to let any needle get close to my sensitive nipples. Ears are easy, I did mine 30 years ago with a simple sewing needle.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 04, 2014, 08:47:46 PM
I have the smoothest face I've ever had in my life. It feels so normal. I do not think I can ever go back to having any hair on my face. It's feels so normal & great.


My electro lady removed virtually every hair yesterday with her NuFree/like wax hair removal system from my face including the roots.

Truly amazing. I'm a happy girl.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 04, 2014, 09:55:28 PM
Spent the day at home catching up on things which felt great. A beautiful Sunday just hangin around the house.

Also, found slow leak in my boat's trailer's port side rear wheel. Turns out it's a bad needle valve. Now I have to decide which is easier; just take the wheel off then take it down and get it fixed, or, just tow my boat down and get it fixed. Either way I'm happy to have found that pesky leak!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: @Diana on May 04, 2014, 10:52:47 PM

terriyaki chicken sushi without cucumbers & avocados made my tummy happy today  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 05, 2014, 06:57:29 AM
There are so many horny men out there & that sure makes me a happy girl. I reopened my on line dating profile yesterday & let anyone know that it would be July & after my facial surgery before I would consider dating any men again. I was suprised that 7 or 8 men have replied. For now it's nice to talk with a man. Later this summer perhaps I can meet a new man. I love being myself & with a strong hetrosexual man. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on May 05, 2014, 08:55:49 AM
Had a wonderful day with my even more wonderful boyfie! It was his first time eating sushi so obviously he didn't know what the heck wasabi was. I put some in those tiny little dish things, and put some on my sushi just a teeny weeny bit. He reached for the wasabi and I told him to go easy on that stuff cos it almost burned my nostrils once like really the pain was well.. PAIN. But he was already chewing his sushi with a tablespoon of the stuff and he went ' this isn't made of avocado is it?' So I went nope. He got up and came back almost 10 mins later..
Me: So where did you run off to hmm?
Him: Mens room
Me: Oh kay got it.
Him: Hey I didn't know it was that hot okay?
Me: I didn't say nothing.
Him: Ha...ha...haha..ha funny
Me: Like you
Him: Thats why you love me right?
Me: Whatevs you say dummy.

So yeap he really made my day today. Wuv him sho much! :3
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ginny on May 05, 2014, 11:46:44 PM
One of the girls at work saying "Damn it Josh, why do you have to come in here looking like that? Now I'm going to have to start wearing makeup to catch up".  Then I responded "Do you really want to go into a makeup war?"  And we both laughed.

Sad Note: Still ticked at HR for not allowing others not on my shift at my work place call me Jenny until I legally change my name.
Happy Note: Some have the mindset of screw HR I'll call you what I want anyways Jenny!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on May 05, 2014, 11:48:11 PM
Today was:

The fragrant olive oil scent (Fekkai Glossing Conditioner ;)) of my pin straight shiny hair, caressing my hair and the feel of its cool touch on my face.

Seeing my friends realize they are not going to be able to fight within themselves the reality of what is happening to their friend - that I'm blooming - and the way they look deep into your eyes with warm fascination. I'm sure there is some fear in what they are seeing, because the possibilities are real and seem to be actually happening.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Umiko on May 05, 2014, 11:55:34 PM
i finally acted like myself in public for the first time xD i mean i did get the stares but i didnt feel any embarrassment and was like *i dont care what ya'll think!* it was an amazing feeling!  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 06, 2014, 05:18:39 PM
Very happy for a device called an Ice Bag. My face really swole up from last Saturdays's visit with electrol lady. I though all was OK then I got too much sun on it & bam it swole up. Ice bag all day & now maybe back to normal.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 07, 2014, 09:59:01 AM
Beautiful day. All seems in order for appointment with a new physician for next Tuesday for blood work, T & E levels & hopefully his OK for Plastic Surgeon to proceed with my face lift. I'm a happy girl so far.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on May 07, 2014, 10:28:31 AM
The lovely Endo-doctor-person confirmed that I am no more broken now than I was before they started giving me the medicine and decided to double my oestrogen dosage.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Satinjoy on May 07, 2014, 02:04:02 PM
What made me happy today?  You.  All of you.

Gosh there are so many people here that look pretty.  That counts too.  Lots of lucky girls here.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Umiko on May 07, 2014, 02:05:25 PM
what made me happy was a McChicken sandwich, literally xD
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 07, 2014, 06:33:02 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on May 07, 2014, 10:28:31 AM
The lovely Endo-doctor-person confirmed that I am no more broken now than I was before they started giving me the medicine and decided to double my oestrogen dosage.

Rosie
Good for you Rosie girl. Pour it on, E is so nice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 07, 2014, 09:50:01 PM
I had some great Doctor news myself today. The big university Hospital we have in Gainesville Fl. is staffed with a number of transgender experienced surgeons. Since I'll be having most of my surgeries here this made my day!!!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Umiko on May 07, 2014, 10:17:53 PM
actually saw a hottie today  :o near dropped to the floor  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 09, 2014, 05:56:19 AM
I am so happy for a light green cream that my pharamist mixed up for my face. It's a 50/50 mixture of Silvadene/Aloe Vera. It feels so nice on my face after a just terrible skin reaction earlier this week.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LittleEmily24 on May 09, 2014, 11:09:33 AM
Woke up this morning and put on my bra and noticed that it looks more proportionate than it did the first time i put it on. Made me feel really happy.

I also posted a facebook post about my transition in regards to people in my life and how they are taking it 3 months down the road from coming out, and it got 25 likes and counting lol

its petty, i know xD but it made me smile that what I said actually got read by nearly 25 people on my friends list, and not even 25 of the people I expected to like it anyway.

Im also happy for Freeze Dried Blueberries.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 09, 2014, 08:50:01 PM
I sold one of the extra props I had I didn't need for my boat for a decent profit. I'm always happy in the black!!!, lol! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 10, 2014, 08:48:19 AM
Happy for lots of friends trying to encourage me to stop any tobacco cigarette today. They are all doing what they can. I'm trying hard. I had 1/2 of a cig. then put it out. 30 deays before surgery so I have to stop this nasty habit.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on May 10, 2014, 12:58:33 PM
Yesterday, I went out shopping with one of my best friends. Got gendered correctly quite a few times, bought some cute clothes, and got my makeup done. Overall, my day was a success.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 10, 2014, 02:35:16 PM
Quote from: EmilyGlass on May 10, 2014, 12:58:33 PM
Yesterday, I went out shopping with one of my best friends. Got gendered correctly quite a few times, bought some cute clothes, and got my makeup done. Overall, my day was a success.  :)
Good for you. Such a beautiful young girl or woman, so pretty.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on May 10, 2014, 02:52:35 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on May 10, 2014, 02:35:16 PM
Good for you. Such a beautiful young girl or woman, so pretty.
Thank you :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: @Diana on May 11, 2014, 12:30:16 AM
talked to my partner, planning a trip to visit my parents/family in Bangkok in December  ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 11, 2014, 05:40:43 AM
Only one more day before appointment with a new Doc for blood tests, physical & his approval for my facial plastic surgery in early June. He should be a very receptive physician since he was recommended by my plastic surgeon. It will be good to see my current E & T levels to see if I need to adjust HRT levels.   So I'm a happy girl today. Oh for anyone out there that reads this please be very nice to your mother if she is alive. Mine has passed away & I so miss her. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 11, 2014, 11:05:25 PM
I'm happy just to have gotten through this day unscathed. I'm just happy this day is now (it's 12 midnight right now) over.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Windy on May 12, 2014, 01:45:14 AM
Hmmm let me think...  Well it could be the letter from my salon showing me all my electrolysis bookings for the next four months, three times a week.
Or it could be the blood test report and comments from my Endocrinologist which puts me right where I should be.
But I think the best would be my late mothers earrings being given to me by my elder sister for my birthday.
That was right up there in the wet eyes department. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 12, 2014, 04:57:08 AM
Quote from: Windy on May 12, 2014, 01:45:14 AM
Hmmm let me think...  Well it could be the letter from my salon showing me all my electrolysis bookings for the next four months, three times a week.
Or it could be the blood test report and comments from my Endocrinologist which puts me right where I should be.
But I think the best would be my late mothers earrings being given to me by my elder sister for my birthday.
That was right up there in the wet eyes department. :)
Three times a week. You are stronger than me GF. My face needs more time to heal up between zaps. That is so cool about your sister passing over your mothers earrings. That is so special & deserves a nice little cry. 

For myself finally an important day.  To meet with new physician, blood tests, etc.  so he can give my plastic surgeon an approval for my face neck lift, eye lid surgery. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emmaline on May 12, 2014, 06:05:15 AM
My wife and I started a new IVF round today.  It went well.

I started HRT today.

Then I went to my hairdresser and got my growing out mop styled a bit.  They way he did it was brilliant- he cut it into this ultra feminine bob, then stepped in back to an androgenous ragged cut.  For a moment I got a good glimpse of where I am going... and it felt pretty special.

Oh... and I got to taste a cronut.  Pretty darn good day.


Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ms Grace on May 12, 2014, 06:14:44 AM
I give up. What is a cronut??
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on May 12, 2014, 06:36:32 AM
Looks like its another American invention to make the world just that more obese.

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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 12, 2014, 10:19:44 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 12, 2014, 06:36:32 AM
Looks like its another American invention to make the world just that more obese.

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I have to agree. I'm afraid of gaining weight just by looking at the darn thing, lol! looks like a lot of dough and empty calories, Ew!

Ally
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 12, 2014, 08:56:48 PM
Completed a full physical today. The doc said you are in excellent health, "we rarely ever see anyone in such good health as you" So all is going well for my substantial facial plastic surgery on June 10th. I'm so very excited.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 14, 2014, 04:08:16 PM
I've gone the entire day without 1 tobacco cigarette & really do not even feel the need for one of those nasty things. Ecigs have plenty of safe nicotene if I really need. So I'm a happy girl. Taking care of myself & getting ready for my facial surgery.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Umiko on May 14, 2014, 04:09:32 PM
STARTING HRT JUST IN TIME FOR SUMMER! i may not be able to swim but at least i can wear a 2 pieces and relax on the beach! xD :laugh: :laugh: ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Debussy on May 14, 2014, 05:37:13 PM
I was dressed androgynous and Ran into a friend at the gas station. he didn't recognize me. Once I started talking with him he said "oh, (name)! I thought you were a girl. Actually I thought you were my exgirlfriend..." Hehe!!!

And congratulations umiko, I'm very excited to hear more about it!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Handy on May 14, 2014, 11:08:37 PM
What made me happy? Hmmm..... I just successfully hosted my first DnD session, that was kinda cool!

One of my friends has been super supportive lately; I can wear dresses and stuff in front of him and he has a very much, "You go girl!" type attitude (I haven't been out the closet for long :P)

Also got to show off a bunch of the little projects I've been working on to my friends; we're talking about making a game together! :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 15, 2014, 06:52:52 AM
Day 2 of no nasty tobacco cigarettes for me. I'm happy inside however this addiction is not happy. It wants to win but this GF wants nice clean teeth & a nice smile. Guess happy the most for Tootsie Roll Pops to suck on when I get a craving.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 15, 2014, 08:03:48 PM
My friend Reaver finished my own beautiful individual custom Pony (that's her in my Avatar). Reaver's very very talented and I just loooove my little Pony!

In other good news I spoke to my ENT's office today and they are trying their best to schedule me in for my consult asap!! The damage to my throat in my accident was extensive however as one super wonderful lady pointed out, new technologies are being put into practice every day, which gives me much hope. She knows who she is so noneed to mention names, lol!! Again, thanks Sis!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on May 15, 2014, 10:07:11 PM
I was standing in line an Panera Bread for lunch and this cute little 6 your old girl with her mother (her mother most have been 5' 0") and kept looking up at me and smiling comparing her mom to my 6'7" height. The she says: "Wow, your a tall lady!". I said: "Yes I am." The mother then noticed the store manager, a cis-woman that is about my height, at the register. She then says to me: "I'm feeling really short today." Then the  little girl said to her mom: "It's OK, I still love you, but can I grow tall like her?" (Point back at me.) The smile on that girl made my day.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alainaluvsu on May 15, 2014, 11:53:43 PM
It was a beautiful day today (low 70s, breezy, no clouds), so I went out to sit on the flood gate in my neighborhood in front of a 4 story house (well... 3 story with a really large attic and a small balcony) looking up toward downtown. While sitting there, I heard an older cajun (not creole, I know the difference) guy on a bike ring his bike bell and go into the house. He came back out and I waved at him (everybody is very nice in this town), and he started saying something. Because of the distance, I couldn't hear him, so I jumped off the flood gate and walked to him to see what he said.

"You live round here?"

"Yeah, I live on *street name a few blocks down*"

"You come round here often ta sit and watch da river?"

"No, this is the first time. It's beautiful outside today!"

"It sure is. I was just askin cuz ya look like a lil mermaid up dere on da water like dat"

I was really flattered and we started talking about things. Turns out he owns the house and rents the lower 2 floors as vacation condos. He went on to ask me if I was married or had children, and he politely said "You mean nobody came to scoop you up yet??" I just kinda laughed a little and said nope. Later on he said I should come around a little more often and he'd love to hang out w/ me on the 4th floor and enjoy the view.

It was very flattering. It really made my day after having an EMG done, and then my heart rate spiking to 180+ for no freaking reason. I'm so glad I finally forced myself to go out and enjoy a very, very beautiful day!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on May 16, 2014, 01:45:26 AM
Alaina wow on the EMG thing.... oh and the story too.

I also get spikes but I have medication for that.

Incoming PM
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 16, 2014, 08:24:42 AM
Day 3 of no cigs, it's getting easier. My garden is sure taking off. Guess happy girl. Glad I get to see stupid video of how to put on lipstick over & over again, so informative.  I get to bitch some since stopping smoking.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Michelle G on May 16, 2014, 10:25:56 AM
Happy that my SOMA.com order showed up in the mail!  :)


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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on May 16, 2014, 10:39:46 AM
Quote from: Michelle G on May 16, 2014, 10:25:56 AM
Happy that my SOMA.com order showed up in the mail!  :)


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That is great. I know you are so excited. What beautiful panties GF. All mine are just plain one color things, I feel all dull.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Michelle G on May 16, 2014, 12:05:07 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on May 16, 2014, 10:39:46 AM
That is great. I know you are so excited. What beautiful panties GF. All mine are just plain one color things, I feel all dull.

Their styles fit me wonderfully and when they have the "5 pair for $35" sales its really hard to resist, that is a savings of $32!!   ;)
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Post by: Allyda on May 16, 2014, 02:16:52 PM
Quote from: Michelle G on May 16, 2014, 10:25:56 AM
Happy that my SOMA.com order showed up in the mail!  :)


(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi244.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg4%2FKR3259%2Fodds%2520n%2520ends%2FF3B573F2-3B30-4E63-89B4-70CC98870AE8_zpsptumnbo6.jpg&hash=1c5e84d88a61b2c7f4567ed9ccd680f1545d688a)
Very pretty Michelle. I have nothing fancy like this in my panties drawer. Maybe it's time I get some.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 16, 2014, 02:32:41 PM
Quote from: Michelle G on May 16, 2014, 12:05:07 PM
Their styles fit me wonderfully and when they have the "5 pair for $35" sales its really hard to resist, that is a savings of $32!!   ;)
You did good GF. They are beaitiful. Between my Electro ladies charges every Saturday & the bill for my upcoming face lift (10K) I'm lucky to go on a shopping spree at the local Goodwill store. Oh & I forgot Ecigs at $7 each that last a day or maybe 2. So no new panties for me.
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Post by: Umiko on May 16, 2014, 02:34:30 PM
a ginger ale made me happy today. god how i hate cramps
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Post by: Allyda on May 16, 2014, 05:27:47 PM
I called my local Fl. DMV, and was assured the letter I have from my Endo is all I need to change the gender on my drivers license, YaY!! So after the first week of next month (not sure which day in first week I can go yet) my drivers kicense will proudly state: Female, as my gender! YaY!! YaY!! This makes me a veeery happy girl!! :)

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Michelle G on May 17, 2014, 12:35:13 AM
Quote from: Allyda on May 16, 2014, 05:27:47 PM
I called my local Fl. DMV, and was assured the letter I have from my Endo is all I need to change the gender on my drivers license, YaY!! So after the first week of next month (not sure which day in first week I can go yet) my drivers kicense will proudly state: Female, as my gender! YaY!! YaY!! This makes me a veeery happy girl!! :)

Ally :icon_flower:

Very very nice :)
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 17, 2014, 01:29:38 AM
I went out west to a shop for some speciality supplies for my hobbies today.
Its been a while since I last went there due to being busy but have been going out there for years so they know me well.

They almost didn't recognise me and made a comment that I looked much younger and asked how?
Little do they know but it made my day. I told them I've been getting fit again and taking vitamins. Both true.

Made me smile inside.

Also I'm feeling so much better with things as it has caused much anxiety recently. I finally feel so very happy in my own skin which is an odd feeling as I have never felt right.
My chicken fillets are now overfilling a b cup and still growing, how I love them now.

Taking Monday off to see my endo so will be interesting to see how things are going. ;D
Going to book some more laser sessions.

Life is good and getting better.
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Post by: Ms Grace on May 17, 2014, 01:52:53 AM
Good luck with Dr H, Jen! Shame our appointments haven't synchronised this time.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 17, 2014, 04:03:18 AM
Day 4 & no more nasty cigarettes for this GF. Thankful to lots of FB friends, old & new, from all over the planet for their support.

Off to my Beauty Salon today for some smooth legs, a facial & some pampering I hope. My Beauty shop lady removes virtually all body hair with the NuFree hair removal system, very painless & very quick removal of any hair. She is also removing all my facial hair with the same process. After each total removal of hair it grows back slower & thiner. With the more stubborn hairs she does electrolysis. If you have never heard of it ask your salon about NuFree hair removal system, it is great, the best product for hair removal. So that makes me a happy smooth clean girl today.  Take care GF's.
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Post by: Allyda on May 17, 2014, 04:19:17 AM
Now that I'm living alone again I too can get back on track with my quitting smoking. I resisted the urge to buy cigs yesterday, and now that I have the great news about my gender change on my drivers license and voice surgery I have the extra motivation I feel I need. I'm down to 1/2 pack per day and will continue to wean myself off slowly using my e-cigs when necessary if I have uncontrollable urges. My only worry is my SO. She refuses to quit with me.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: RosieD on May 17, 2014, 01:10:18 PM
A sun dress, some strappy sandals, a big floppy sun hat and ice cream with nikkit.

Rosie
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Post by: nikkit72 on May 17, 2014, 01:22:21 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on May 17, 2014, 01:10:18 PM
A sun dress, some strappy sandals, a big floppy sun hat and ice cream with nikkit.

Rosie

Ya beat me to it !

Mmmm chocolate ice cream. LARGE...............

And good company of course.

;D
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Post by: RosieD on May 17, 2014, 01:53:17 PM
To be fair it is very, very good ice cream mind.

Rosie

P.S. i will admit down here in little tiny letters that nikkit is good company. don't tell her i said so though, it will go right to her head.
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Post by: Allyda on May 17, 2014, 10:10:12 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on May 17, 2014, 01:10:18 PM
A sun dress, some strappy sandals, a big floppy sun hat and ice cream with nikkit.

Rosie
Yum, sounds good H. I looove summer dresses too and the ice cream, yum, I'm really a sucker for, lol!

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 18, 2014, 01:22:13 AM
So I went to the hardware store to get some things today.
I was going to get the team some mixed nuts to snack on as they are iron deficient.
Yes my sense of humour is a little warped as some might know.

Ended up getting a bucket of m&m's instead. They will be lucky to last a day. :)
Perhaps next time I'll get the mixed nuts.

I've had some lights in the bathroom out for some time and darn landlord was too lazy to fix them.
Got the bits required and fixed the down lights myself and now have light after 5 years of being in the dark.
So much easier than I thought.
Oh bugger, I'm the landlord. :laugh:

Also started to get timber for a display case I have been thinking about for years.

So much progress on all levels. :)

Must be the E as I feel so much better about doing things.

J
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Post by: Jessi Lee 1970 on May 18, 2014, 03:34:23 AM
Two people at work noticed I had lost weight. One guy said it shows in my face more than anywhere else. Felt good to be noticed for changes I'm making.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 18, 2014, 06:37:47 AM
Day 5 of no more smoking. It's going OK, easier each day. I use a mild level Ecig if emergency. No more junk food, eating a lot smarter, fruits, veggies, etc.   Vitamin E Oil is great stuff for your face GF's. I soaks in & is natural. I had my legs & arms waxed yesterday. My lady could see substantially less hair growth on my legs. Body hair growth is slowing down everywhere. So I'm a happy girl today. 
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Post by: bubbles21 on May 18, 2014, 09:17:01 AM
Ive finally decided to take up contemporary dance and writing poetry again! I noticed that throught everything over the past through years of being indenial about myself and figuring out how to love my life I forgot to dance and write. Time to bring it back hehe :D
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Post by: AnnieMay on May 18, 2014, 10:55:33 AM
Eating my Greek yogurt and granola breakfast while I wandered from room to room through this safe place, where my sisters naturally understand me and where I can express my feeling and experiences without having to apologize or feel ashamed about who I am.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 18, 2014, 06:56:42 PM
Quote from: bubbles21 on May 18, 2014, 09:17:01 AM
Ive finally decided to take up contemporary dance and writing poetry again! I noticed that throught everything over the past through years of being indenial about myself and figuring out how to love my life I forgot to dance and write. Time to bring it back hehe :D
How so very nice. Thank you so much for sharing girl friend.
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Post by: Allyda on May 18, 2014, 07:25:37 PM
I finally found the smoking gun to an annoying problem I was having with my boat. Next weekend I'll be back on the water! This makes me a very happy girl!!!

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 19, 2014, 02:45:33 AM
Saw my Dr today and all is going well.
Blood work good and everything fine.

E levels ever increasing and the depression has lifted.
So much happier.

Steady as eye go.



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Post by: Cindy on May 19, 2014, 02:50:27 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 19, 2014, 02:45:33 AM
Saw my Dr today and all is going well.
Blood work good and everything fine.

E levels ever increasing and the depression has lifted.
So much happier.

Steady as eye go.

^^^^^^^ This :-*
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 19, 2014, 05:33:41 AM
Day 6 of no more stupid T cigs for this girl so yea! I finally get to meet with Plastic Surgeon this Friday for pics, surgery plans etc. for my face lift. I'm excited that it's finally going to happen soon. I've had lots of friends old & new helping to support me while stopping stupid dirty T smoke. So I'm a happy girl this morning. Life is good.
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Post by: Goldfish on May 19, 2014, 07:48:35 PM
Finally managed to make a start in correcting my sleep cycle to something approaching compatible with the rest of the world. IE, I got up, stayed up and went for a walk at 10, rather than sleeping till 13:00 or later. Like the first time in 3 weeks.
Tried a range of tricks over the years but I think I have finally found a way to convince my half comatose 'morning self' to not crawl back into bed. A keynote card with a few lines on it reminding myself why I have to break this cycle along with clear instructions. No thought required, just read and do. Apparently I'm at least capable of that in the morning.

Naomi
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 20, 2014, 06:45:06 AM
Went out for another night ride and starting to get fitter which feels fantastic. Rode 80km and loving it again.
Rode with a long time friend. We talked about nothing and anything.

He made a comment that something's changed as I am so much happier.
He knows what I have been through and was close to my ex partner as well.
Geez is it that obvious. ???

Tough this Sydney weather. Winter is closing in fast and it's still 20C. How will I handle a frigid 15C?
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Post by: bubbles21 on May 20, 2014, 07:07:03 AM
I started writing again! :D

When I was younger I used to write poetry and kept a journal, not sure why I ever stopped. I assume it had something to do with my dysphoria and depression but nevertheless I have started again as of today and it sparked an old flame inside me that I obviously missed greatly. So happy :)
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Post by: luna nyan on May 20, 2014, 07:43:03 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 20, 2014, 06:45:06 AM
Went out for another night ride and starting to get fitter which feels fantastic. Rode 80km and loving it again.
Rode with a long time friend. We talked about nothing and anything.

Tough this Sydney weather. Winter is closing in fast and it's still 20C. How will I handle a frigid 15C?
It was warm today wasn't it?  Glad you're making the most of it.  I'm glad you're riding with a friend - Sydney drivers are shockers around cyclists. :/
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Post by: Goldfish on May 20, 2014, 08:02:33 AM
Quote from: bubbles21 on May 20, 2014, 07:07:03 AM
I started writing again! :D

When I was younger I used to write poetry and kept a journal, not sure why I ever stopped. I assume it had something to do with my dysphoria and depression but nevertheless I have started again as of today and it sparked an old flame inside me that I obviously missed greatly. So happy :)

Yay  :) Reclaiming old hobbies from depression is awesome! Do you keep your poetry to yourself or do you think you will post it somewhere?
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Post by: bubbles21 on May 20, 2014, 08:09:35 AM
Yes it sort of built a reborn sense of freedom within me lol that may sound corny but thats how it felt. I will be happy to post some when I finish some. I would gladly share my poetry with everyone :) If i dont feel up to putting it up for everyone would you mind if i Pm'd some to you? :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 20, 2014, 08:16:51 AM
Day 7 of no more nasty cigarettes, yea! No idea how I got addicted & inhaled those dirty things? My little garden is doing well. Only a couple of days left until my next appointment with plastic surgeon for face lift plan. A happy day.
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Post by: Goldfish on May 20, 2014, 10:18:16 PM
Quote from: bubbles21 on May 20, 2014, 08:09:35 AM
Yes it sort of built a reborn sense of freedom within me lol that may sound corny but thats how it felt. I will be happy to post some when I finish some. I would gladly share my poetry with everyone :) If i dont feel up to putting it up for everyone would you mind if i Pm'd some to you? :)

Yeah, I know what you mean. Been trying to get back into archery and some programming projects I let slip.
Sure, I'd like that. I'm useless at it myself, but it's still enjoyable and interesting to see how others express things  :)

Quote from: FrancisAnn on May 20, 2014, 08:16:51 AM
Day 7 of no more nasty cigarettes, yea!

Congratulations  :)

For the main topic:
Facial hair started shedding again after laser. Can wipe my hand across my chin (as upper lip didn't start today, just chin :( ), see the shed hair on my hand and wash away some of the dysphoria and pain with it ;D
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Post by: nikkit72 on May 21, 2014, 02:19:25 PM
The smell of freshly cut grass and the sun is shining. Well it is the UK...
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Post by: jebee on May 21, 2014, 04:58:21 PM
someone i care for cares for me it seems..
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 21, 2014, 05:00:45 PM
Day 8 since my last nasty tobacco cigarette. I'll never smoke another one of those things. I'm getting closer to my date for facial plastic surgery so that's great.  Beautiful weather & my little garden is doing very well.
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Post by: teeg on May 21, 2014, 05:47:15 PM
Quote from: jebee on May 21, 2014, 04:58:21 PM
someone i care for cares for me it seems..
Make sure they know you care for them and that you like that they care for you!

Quote from: FrancisAnn on May 21, 2014, 05:00:45 PM
Day 8 since my last nasty tobacco cigarette. I'll never smoke another one of those things. I'm getting closer to my date for facial plastic surgery so that's great.  Beautiful weather & my little garden is doing very well.
Congrats on quitting! Someone told me that you have to want to quit, patches or anything can't do it for you.

I went to the pharmacy today and a couple men were sitting in chairs waiting for their prescriptions. When I passed, one of them said, "Sweet!" and the other said, "what?", and then he said, "her!" I was the only girl in sight and much younger than them, but it felt nice.  :angel:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 22, 2014, 03:12:45 PM
Dentist appointment & all is perfect & almost finished with my first 2 hour whitening strip session. So I'm a happy girl.
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Post by: Alainaluvsu on May 23, 2014, 02:16:53 AM
I was hanging with a guy that I think likes me, and he called me tiny. I don't think I'm "tiny" for a girl but for some reason it makes me feel good! He also said I was fine... lol

It went:

"Have you ever been to the dungeon? The walk way to it is so narrow I can barely fit through it... well I mean you're tiny so you wouldn't have a problem"...

and

(We were talking about how it's no big deal if a homosexual hits on one of us)

"I get hit on a lot by girls when I'm in the quarter."

(He interrupts) "Yeah, because you're fine!"
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Post by: Allyda on May 23, 2014, 10:35:53 PM
I got to spend the day with my SO. She and I hadn't been able to see each other for close to a week which is unusual for both of us. Spending time with her always makes me happy!

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Umiko on May 23, 2014, 11:45:46 PM
added a new soul to my collection xD hahahaha!
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 24, 2014, 05:06:40 AM
A beautiful day in Sydney as winter closes in. 25C or 80F. Starting to get a bit brisk!
Had my first laser session this year, wasn't too bad so hope it kills off the remaining dark hairs as there are a few strays..
Started working on building my display case.
Saw my GP for a catch up in the afternoon. She was very happy to see how things have changed. She could see that I am so much happier than before and the depression has almost gone. Discussed how my Endo wants to give me an implant next time which I am all for.
I think Jenny and Grace have said more than enough on this to convince me now my dose has been found.

I feel so lucky to have such good people supporting and helping  me .

Thanks. ;)


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Post by: Ms Grace on May 24, 2014, 05:10:12 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 24, 2014, 05:06:40 AM
I think Jenny and Grace have said more than enough on this to convince me now my dose has been found.

You talking to yourself again, hon? ;)

BTW, I saw Nerida the other day for a face zap, I don't usually see her as you know but due to a scheduling mishap of my own making that's the way it worked out. She's nice! Three hours went really quickly! Don't worry, I won't steal her from you. :)
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Post by: Jenny07 on May 24, 2014, 05:15:06 AM
Yes Grace, don't even think about stealing her from me. :-*
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 24, 2014, 06:28:12 AM
My appointment yesterday with my plastic surgeon went almost perfect. All is in order for a face & neck lift plus eye lid reduction surgery for early morning June 10th. Everything is paid for & I have a close long time girl friend coming by to pick me up after surgery.   
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Post by: Jessi Lee 1970 on May 24, 2014, 12:58:36 PM
I passed my federally required satanically difficult safety test at work. Employment for another year. (until the next test)
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Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on May 24, 2014, 01:20:37 PM
I got a manicure, was lovely :D x
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Post by: MyKa on May 25, 2014, 10:44:30 AM
Sleeping in. I needed it. Now to Starbucks and the gum
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Post by: Ginny on May 25, 2014, 06:12:39 PM
My mom and stepmom getting my name and pronouns right about 90-95% of the time when I visited them this weekend!
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Post by: Umiko on May 25, 2014, 06:13:41 PM
today was my fat day! xD if my metabolism wasnt so fast, i'd be packing 10 pounds today xD
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Post by: Rachel on May 25, 2014, 06:33:22 PM
Some of my longer hair is wising the top of my shoulder :)
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Post by: gretchenTG on May 25, 2014, 07:02:24 PM
This may sound odd. But I was out shopping today for outfits and keep feeling an odd sensation in the middle of my chest. After further investigation it was my cell phone. It was moving there because I now have CLEAVAGE!!!!!!!!! I am so happy.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LittleEmily24 on May 25, 2014, 08:06:37 PM
A kid came up to me and my wife and said "hellooo ladieeess", most adorable thing ever; and seeng as kids are brutally and unapologetically honest; the fact that he said "ladies" made me feel like I was able to cross out a goal off my list xD.

Also tried on a 2 piece bikini and realized I have developed enough to wear one ^____^!!! Two achievements!
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Post by: Allyda on May 25, 2014, 08:17:09 PM
Went shopping today wearing my cute summer dress and got a lot of attention from guys I'm not used to yet. I knew I looked good though, and I felt really great and feminine being treated like a lady. This made me a very happy girl!

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 26, 2014, 04:17:12 AM
Colored my hair yesterday. That was easy & fun. No idea why I have not done that before. I'm a medium brown however I may change to auburn red soon??? All is going well for my plastic surgery in 2 weeks.
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Post by: Goldfish on May 26, 2014, 10:28:58 PM
Great surprise when washing my face this morning, about half, if not more, of my remaining upper lip hair and some more chin hair shed. It's been nearly a week since it started shedding (and stopped a day later), so I was really shocked. Not much on my upper left, just a few spread out hairs and a couple of small clusters. Still some stubborn patches along my jaw, but it is actually starting to feel like the beginning of the end for my facial hair, even if there is more laser and then electro to go.

Went out cycling for an hour in the rain. Felt so good. When I got home, rather than moaning about how wet I was, my mum just looked at me and said 'You're a nutter' and continued with what she was doing. Can't really explain it, just made me happy.
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Post by: Umiko on May 26, 2014, 10:30:19 PM
my upcoming visit at the callen-lorde clinic. so excited and nervous
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Post by: Alainaluvsu on May 26, 2014, 10:36:47 PM
This isn't really today, but this morning I realized that over the past couple weeks I have been giving my shirts an extra tug to get them over my boobs when I put em on.
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Post by: Michaela Whimsy on May 26, 2014, 11:15:13 PM
This was yeterday but made me feel good today also.

Sat and had dinner and talked about planning to transition to a friend I have had for 20 years.  He came out as gay a couple years ago, so I guess it was easier to bring it to him first ( besides my wife).

We talked about all of our childhood we-should've-knowns and o-my-god-I had-no-idea's.  It was fun.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on May 27, 2014, 12:49:01 AM
Quote from: Brianna Terryal Onyx on May 26, 2014, 10:30:19 PM
my upcoming visit at the callen-lorde clinic. so excited and nervous

Congrats!!! Callen-Lorde is awesome, they have been a blessing for me :)
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on May 27, 2014, 01:42:10 AM
My New Year's resolution this year was to start HRT before my 30th. I didn't know if I would ever be able to do it at all let alone by July but today I fulfilled that resolution... with a couple of months to spare.  :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 27, 2014, 08:47:59 AM
I only have 2 weeks to go until my facial surgery. All is quiet & any need for nicotene drug has dissappeared. Everything seems to be going OK.
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Post by: Jessi Lee 1970 on May 27, 2014, 11:08:37 AM
Bought some bangle bracelets to jingle on my arms and some matching earrings for when I get my ears pierced. I luv new jewelry....
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Post by: Bijou on May 27, 2014, 02:28:53 PM
My wife and I were walking through Home Depot, past some little kids, and heard one of them say a couple times "mommy she has pink hair" (I have pink hair)....kids are notorious for picking up on things, so that made me feel great :D
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Post by: Allyda on May 27, 2014, 04:45:54 PM
Quote from: Bijou on May 27, 2014, 02:28:53 PM
My wife and I were walking through Home Depot, past some little kids, and heard one of them say a couple times "mommy she has pink hair" (I have pink hair)....kids are notorious for picking up on things, so that made me feel great :D
Congrat's Bijou, Yea I love it when kids are involved. Somehow it always makes the experience more memorable.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Julia-Madrid on May 28, 2014, 10:40:39 AM
I have received such great and valuable interaction from all you dear people on the forums at Susan's.  So I think it only just and fair that I send over a little donation  to keep them dawgies, er, servers rollin' :D

I feel great today...
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Post by: Incarlina on May 28, 2014, 11:40:19 AM
Today when I was out shopping no one seemed to stare at me. People used to stop and stare with a look that said "What am I looking at, and do I have an opinion about it?" Now I'm ignored by everyone, including children. I feel so... normal :)
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Post by: Julia-Madrid on May 28, 2014, 04:27:01 PM
Quote from: Incarlina on May 28, 2014, 11:40:19 AM
Today when I was out shopping no one seemed to stare at me. People used to stop and stare with a look that said "What am I looking at, and do I have an opinion about it?" Now I'm ignored by everyone, including children. I feel so... normal :)

Isn't it great?   Attagirl...!!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on May 29, 2014, 05:25:03 AM
Quote from: Julia-Madrid on May 28, 2014, 10:40:39 AM
I have received such great and valuable interaction from all you dear people on the forums at Susan's.  So I think it only just and fair that I send over a little donation  to keep them dawgies, er, servers rollin' :D

I feel great today...
Good for you GF. We all need each other for support & some fun sometimes I hope. I'm happy only 12 days until surgery, all the waiting around is killing me.
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Post by: Incarlina on May 29, 2014, 09:03:37 AM
Suddenly I got a message from my oldest niece on facebook: "I think you're brave <3"
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: stephaniec on May 29, 2014, 09:58:59 AM
Quote from: Julia-Madrid on May 28, 2014, 04:27:01 PM
Isn't it great?   Attagirl...!!!
yes, to be invisible to children
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Incarlina on May 30, 2014, 08:26:55 PM
I think I'm slowly turning this topic into my personal diary, but so much good stuff has gone on lately :)

Today's awesomeness:
1. New haircut with a new colour; brown-black with copper streaks.
2. A message from a cute 22 year old informing me that I'm cute :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 30, 2014, 09:16:07 PM
Got my boat's trailers port rear tire fixed today, going out this weekend, YaY!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Umiko on May 30, 2014, 09:18:01 PM
had the greatest outing today with my new friend xD a very good day indeed lol
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Breenyan on May 30, 2014, 10:53:49 PM
my boyfriend took me to see a movie today and hang out at the mall. the person behind the counter at the food vendor assumed we were on a date,(which we were), and bundled up my food order with his and "ma'am"d me as well.  when i came back home, i gave him a kiss goodbye as he dropped me off, and i felt my heart flutter a little, and couldn't stop kissing him. xD anyways that's what made me happy today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on May 30, 2014, 11:37:38 PM
We had an incident at the shop beneath me last night. Serious with many police and forensics involved.

Good news is that no one was hurt.
Not nice having such things happen.

Went to a bookshop today and picked up some more old books
6 more hard to get for my bookshelves. :)

Suffering through the first signs of winter. Decidedly chilly today at only 20C.
I don't know how I will cope when it gets to 19C
Had to sleep with my dooner on last night. Not good.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on May 31, 2014, 12:22:44 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 30, 2014, 11:37:38 PM
We had an incident at the shop beneath me last night. Serious with many police and forensics involved.

Good news is that no one was hurt.
Not nice having such things happen.

Went to a bookshop today and picked up some more old books
6 more hard to get for my bookshelves. :)

Suffering through the first signs of winter. Decidedly chilly today at only 20C.
I don't know how I will cope when it gets to 19C
Had to sleep with my dooner on last night. Not good.

14C here and wet. I need to curl up with a good book or a bad man not sure which.

OK made my mind up >:-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on May 31, 2014, 12:24:16 AM
You're meant to be shopping ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on May 31, 2014, 12:26:12 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on May 31, 2014, 12:24:16 AM
You're meant to be shopping ;D

I have to get his credit card :o
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on May 31, 2014, 12:53:09 AM
Quote from: Breenyan on May 30, 2014, 10:53:49 PM
and couldn't stop kissing him. xD anyways that's what made me happy today.

Omg I know right?! ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: HoneyStrums on May 31, 2014, 12:54:31 AM
Quote from: Cindy on May 31, 2014, 12:26:12 AM
I have to get his credit card :o
this ^^^ made me laugh, I think laughing counts as happy right? :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Princess Rachel on May 31, 2014, 07:57:14 AM
getting my new travel bag which I need for going down to a conference near the end of the month :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on May 31, 2014, 09:15:51 AM
This :)

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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on May 31, 2014, 04:36:26 PM
Quote from: Zoe Louise Taylor on May 31, 2014, 09:15:51 AM
This :)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1313.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ft549%2FZoe_Louise_Taylor%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F10333803_1471108736459923_5969402374922639028_o_zps6bddd1c5.jpeg&hash=8e3ddbc4fa1d5fadbcd837170b5d9ec974239982) (http://s1313.photobucket.com/user/Zoe_Louise_Taylor/media/Mobile%20Uploads/10333803_1471108736459923_5969402374922639028_o_zps6bddd1c5.jpeg.html)
Congratulations Zoe! You'll make good money at hopefully doing something you like doing.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: stephaniec on May 31, 2014, 05:10:08 PM
Quote from: Zoe Louise Taylor on May 31, 2014, 09:15:51 AM
This :)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1313.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ft549%2FZoe_Louise_Taylor%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F10333803_1471108736459923_5969402374922639028_o_zps6bddd1c5.jpeg&hash=8e3ddbc4fa1d5fadbcd837170b5d9ec974239982) (http://s1313.photobucket.com/user/Zoe_Louise_Taylor/media/Mobile%20Uploads/10333803_1471108736459923_5969402374922639028_o_zps6bddd1c5.jpeg.html)
yes , congrats
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Breenyan on May 31, 2014, 07:00:06 PM
Quote from: ~Evelyn~ on May 31, 2014, 12:53:09 AM
Omg I know right?! ;D
that stupid boyfriend... making the simple goodnight kiss thing into a kissing session. >////>
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on June 01, 2014, 12:57:44 AM
While still having a few stubborn areas on my face to clear. I'm now getting a large reduction in price and that money I can put into important things like makeup and wardrobe
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LordKAT on June 01, 2014, 01:03:30 AM
Just don't put it into sanity, for one, it is always out of stock and two, it is over rated.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on June 01, 2014, 01:35:35 AM
Oh no I already have sanity. It weights 12lbs has three holes and is fun to throw, it's a bowling ball.

Hands up those of you thinking I was talking about my baseball bat or crowbar >:-)?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LordKAT on June 01, 2014, 01:44:20 AM
Fellow bowler, not a good one, but I have fun trying.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on June 01, 2014, 02:40:26 AM
Quote from: LordKAT on June 01, 2014, 01:44:20 AM
Fellow bowler, not a good one, but I have fun trying.

Didn't know you played cricket!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LordKAT on June 01, 2014, 02:48:16 AM
Cricket, don't they sing all by themselves?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on June 01, 2014, 02:50:49 AM
Quote from: LordKAT on June 01, 2014, 02:48:16 AM
Cricket, don't they sing all by themselves?

Ye. 'Aussi, Aussi, Oi Oi Oi' :laugh:

So we now have Shane Warne in a cat suit!!! Should pull the ladies Bro!!!

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on June 01, 2014, 05:47:56 AM
A woman I've known since age 6 in the first grade is bringing me home cooked chicken soup after my plastic surgery on the 10th. How cool. She is a very close friend & is very supportive as I change my body into a more normal female appearance. We love to shop together & have a grand time.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on June 01, 2014, 06:01:09 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 01, 2014, 02:50:49 AM
Ye. 'Aussi, Aussi, Oi Oi Oi' :laugh:

So we now have Shane Warne in a cat suit!!! Should pull the ladies Bro!!!


Should pull the ladies Bro!!!
You sound a bit like Sir Richard Hadlee there sis, not Ian Chappell :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on June 02, 2014, 08:08:18 AM
Very nice weather & my garden is growing very well. Only a week to go until surgery. I feel good & all seems to be going well.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ginny on June 02, 2014, 09:46:52 AM
That nightmares are just that, and that you will eventually wake up from them before something even worse happens.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on June 02, 2014, 05:02:18 PM
I finally have a cup size. It has taken 9 months but given my genetics I am pleasantly surprised.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on June 02, 2014, 06:52:46 PM
Quote from: Jennifer.Alexandria on June 02, 2014, 09:46:52 AM
That nightmares are just that, and that you will eventually wake up from them before something even worse happens.
Jennifer, I hope we do not have any nightmares tonight. I actually had a nightmare last night. My first one in 4-5 months. Real strange dream about all kinds of randon stuff & nothing matched together just all kind of out of place events, thoughts, strange situations.........   Glad that was over I hope. Guess I'm nervous about surgery???
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 03, 2014, 10:08:31 PM
I got my revised corrected letter from my Endo today for the DMV to change my gender on my driver's license to female. After checking twice all required information is present soooooo, tomorrow I'll go back to the DMV and get my gender changed on my license. I've waited so long for this so I'm a happy girl this evening!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on June 03, 2014, 10:33:16 PM
Lying on my bed topless, seeing the ends of my hair to the side of the pillow curled slightly upward. My arms extended, nails getting longer my hands look feminine. Buds of my chest coming in.

You know that twilight zone feeling again, right?

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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 04, 2014, 06:00:36 PM
Today I'm a veeeeeeery happy happy girl! I had my gender changed on my driver's license to female. Having this done, will make changing my other documents super easy. But the best part is, now I can proudly show my ID when required instead of being ashamed to show it at all. I feel like celebrating! YaY!!!!! :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance:

Having this done has been a long time coming for me. I feel validated as well as vindicated. :icon_dance:

Oh, on another very happy note, during the last few days my boobies are having a growth spurt!
Today for me is Just a happy happy happy day!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ginny on June 04, 2014, 07:08:21 PM
Happy that I appear to be well after getting broadsided as my car slid into an intersection instead of stopping where it should have. A bit discombobulated for the past 6hrs, but after a nap all appears well.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessica-Louise on June 04, 2014, 10:23:59 PM
I've been wearing wigs for the past few months but I got my first women's haircut today and it looks pretty good! Plus the girls at the salon were really friendly and awesome. It definitely made me feel a lot more confident and when I got back I realised that I hadn't gotten any funny looks afterwards at the store or on the way back from town... except for maybe when I had to speak but that doesn't count!  :laugh:

Anyways, it's a beautiful sunny day, I have great hair and my confidence levels have increased by about 1000% since I came out 6 months ago. Now I'm looking forward to seeing what HRT will do.

I'd kinda written this summer off before it even began. Thought I'd keep my head down and just try to survive my transition and leave having fun and enjoying life until I was further into the journey but I think this summer is actually gonna rock!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 04, 2014, 10:51:31 PM
Quote from: Jessica-Louise on June 04, 2014, 10:23:59 PM
I'd kinda written this summer off before it even began. Thought I'd keep my head down and just try to survive my transition and leave having fun and enjoying life until I was further into the journey but I think this summer is actually gonna rock!
Just cause your in the early stages of transition/beginning hrt isn't a good reason to stay couped up inside hiding from the world. Especially if you have confidence in yourself. By all means get out and enjoy your summer. You'll thank yourself this fall.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on June 05, 2014, 01:41:50 PM
I passed that MSc I have been working on for the last 5 1/2 years. I may have stopped grinning by Christmas.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: stephaniec on June 05, 2014, 03:54:14 PM
Quote from: Allyda on June 04, 2014, 06:00:36 PM
Today I'm a veeeeeeery happy happy girl! I had my gender changed on my driver's license to female. Having this done, will make changing my other documents super easy. But the best part is, now I can proudly show my ID when required instead of being ashamed to show it at all. I feel like celebrating! YaY!!!!! :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance:

Having this done has been a long time coming for me. I feel validated as well as vindicated. :icon_dance:

Oh, on another very happy note, during the last few days my boobies are having a growth spurt!
Today for me is Just a happy happy happy day!!

Ally :icon_flower:
congrats happy for you
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on June 05, 2014, 06:44:36 PM
I started progesterone today! :):)

Bigger boobies in 3 weeks.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dianne on June 05, 2014, 07:02:24 PM
I hope progesterone works for you. I have been on it 9 months.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Megumi on June 05, 2014, 07:08:24 PM
I went to the county clerks office and submitted my petition for a name change and new birth certificate with my new name and gender of female on it today. Now I just have to wait and find out if the judge is going to sign it or require me to have a court date to justify why I need to have that done. Still I'm elated as this is a HUGE step in me going full time later this month :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: TaoRaven on June 05, 2014, 08:15:41 PM
Being called "Miss Roxi" again by a handsome southern gentleman, who proceeded to hold the door for me, and then stop by my office to say "goodbye" on the way off the property. :)

/sigh
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 05, 2014, 09:48:31 PM
Quote from: Megumi on June 05, 2014, 07:08:24 PM
I went to the county clerks office and submitted my petition for a name change and new birth certificate with my new name and gender of female on it today. Now I just have to wait and find out if the judge is going to sign it or require me to have a court date to justify why I need to have that done. Still I'm elated as this is a HUGE step in me going full time later this month :D
Congrats!, I'm super happy for you. Wait til you see how you feel once this is done and you can present your ID when asked for it with pride. It's a happy feeling I can't yet put into words.

I am lucky in that my first and middle names are gender neutral. I am though at a later date going to switch my first name Phoenix, around with my middle name Allyda so Allyda appears first which may or may not require a judge's signature and/or a court date.

Best wishes!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on June 05, 2014, 10:02:03 PM
Looked in the mirror this morning before I went to work and it was really hard for me to see a boy. I'm not out at work yet, so I still present as male when I do go. I'm seriously surprised none of my coworkers have said anything yet. Either way, it made me feel good about my progress.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessi Lee 1970 on June 07, 2014, 04:47:19 PM
Finally got up the nerve today to shave off the beard of 11 years and mustache of 20 years... my face feels naked... but good. Its like I took off a halloween mask.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 07, 2014, 05:23:43 PM
Finally getting around to trimming some of my giant pine trees and feeding it to my new wood chipper. Tree goes in....bits come out, tree goes in....bits come out......... >:-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on June 08, 2014, 02:24:12 AM
Quote from: nikkit72 on June 07, 2014, 05:23:43 PM
Tree goes in....bits come out, tree goes in....bits come out......... >:-)

Just in a hypothetical sort of way, do you think it would work on anything else?  >:-) :angel:

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LordKAT on June 08, 2014, 02:33:05 AM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on June 08, 2014, 02:24:12 AM
Just in a hypothetical sort of way, do you think it would work on anything else?  >:-) :angel:

Rosie


Ouch!  That hurts just thinking about it.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miranda Catherine on June 08, 2014, 08:57:56 AM
I started a new thread this morning, because it's the best news I could have gotten. My mom told me to get whatever I need to have my GRS! After my 60 year wait, another three or four months seems too long to wait!!! But I think I can cope, so 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 08, 2014, 03:29:12 PM
Quote from: H, H, H, Honeypot! on June 08, 2014, 02:24:12 AM
Just in a hypothetical sort of way, do you think it would work on anything else?  >:-) :angel:

Rosie

Oooof that is just bad.

It is waist height too.....:o

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JayneS on June 09, 2014, 09:40:00 AM
Sat at my desk doing my nails, and redoing my makeup before going for lunch. keep getting checked out by guys, a little odd but ooohh makes me feel all sort of warm inside (Hush girl not yet), only been full time since last Monday I adore being a woman, boys you have no idea how good this feels!!!

Jayne xxxxxx
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Incarlina on June 09, 2014, 11:23:42 AM
Have I mentioned lately how much I love my family? Last weekend my (step)sister was in town visiting my two youngest nieces, so I came over and spent a day with them, and it was so wonderful to be a part of a loving family for once. I grew up in a family where everyone lived our separate lives, not talking much with each other. But after coming out, my sister and my nieces have taken me in as part of their family. My nieces love having a "new" aunt, and my sister loves having a younger sister.

Next weekend I will go stay with my sister for a few days, and also hang out with my oldest niece and nephew, whom I haven't seen in 17 years. My nephew is even taking time off from work so that he and his girlfriend can be in the local pride parade with me. I'm finally surrounded by a lovely, loving family, and they have been there for me when I've needed them the most. I less than three all of them <3
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on June 11, 2014, 07:33:59 PM
Completed face/neck lift with eye lid reductions surgery yesterday morning after 3 hours in the operating room. Truly amazing. My face looks 15-20 years younger & so much nicer. My surgeon & his nurse team did an excellent job. 2 weeks to wear compression neck garmet to make sure everything is perfect then I'm finally free to look my best. One happy girl. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: MyKa on June 13, 2014, 03:05:33 PM
Placed my 1st Victoria secrets order today!! Super excited!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on June 13, 2014, 04:57:16 PM
I have my next appointment the gender specialist confirmed. There is the very outside chance that this is the one where I get a referral to a surgeon.

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Roni on June 13, 2014, 05:43:34 PM
Finally went full-time and updated my Facebook profile picture. My most liked FB picture ever at 137 likes, a good chunk of those likes belong to straight cis-male acquaintances who have shown more typically homophobic behavior in the past when compared to the women I know. It was nice hearing kind supportive words from these guys and knowing that the millennial generation is growing increasingly more accepting of trans issues as it has gay issues. :)

Also tried using my male ID to purchase alcohol, but was denied the purchase as I was "not the person" in the picture.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emily1996 on June 13, 2014, 07:04:59 PM
I think my hair is 2 inches ong now yeah that is the only thing that made me happy, besides that only homework, tests, etc...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 08:08:47 AM
Good weather, coffee, and cake at the Norwegian Church in Cardiff with H,H,H,Honeypot and putting the world(s) to right. (you can take the earplugs out now Rosie) ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on June 15, 2014, 08:13:41 AM
Quote from: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 08:08:47 AM
Good weather, coffee, and cake at the Norwegian Church in Cardiff with H,H,H,Honeypot and putting the world(s) to right. (you can take the earplugs out now Rosie) ;D

Cake you say? What kind of cake? (loves cake)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 09:45:18 AM
Chocolate sandwich cake   ;D ;D Mmmmm...goes to happy place......
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 15, 2014, 02:21:05 PM
Quote from: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 09:45:18 AM
Chocolate sandwich cake   ;D ;D Mmmmm...goes to happy place......
Mmmmmm, Yum Yum!

Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on June 15, 2014, 04:37:31 PM
Listening to that jabbering m->-bleeped-<-ie NikkiT and her hairbrained plans to cure the world's ills*. Thankfully there was cake, tea, glorious weather and the views over Cardiff Bay to distract me.

Rosie

* >:-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 04:52:12 PM
 :icon_blahblah:   :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on June 15, 2014, 05:03:02 PM
It is not raining :)

I had a good lunch :) ( Chinese vegetarian)

I am going out of the country for a few days for work :)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on June 16, 2014, 09:15:05 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on June 15, 2014, 06:35:09 PM
Back to plastic surgeon tomorrow to remove stitches, check on progress. I really do not look as bad as eye pic. It has been kind of a test to use that pic. If after seeing that rough pic people still respond I know they are real friends. The only ones that matter in life anyway.

I really like my PS & all his nurses. They all like me bunches & want to help me look my very best.

Life is good.
Sure, guilt me into replying.  ;D I reply to very little, but just for you. Good luck with recovery. Too early for much to make me happy, but the board did remind me that I have to call an endo this morning. Better go look up that number.

Oh, I know, coffee and homemade strawberry-blueberry muffins and a lazy reading morning before I have to go to work this afternoon, that makes me happy! Oooh, so does my Sweety and I being back to normal after I came out to her three weeks ago tomorrow. Not gonna say more before this post has to migrate to the "happy and sad" thread.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on June 16, 2014, 09:34:09 AM
(OK, now I have a real one. The endo my therapist recommended works with transgendered clients and I have an appointment in the third week in July. I also received a call from my primary's office and their endo will see me if I wish, but my primary was so weirded out I don't feel comfortable going there, especially since there was no mention of previous transgendered care and their office is in a Catholic hospital.

*happy dance!*

I still don't entirely know where this going, but it's moving. I can, at least, find out medically, hopefully, whether I'm physically transgendered or just a raving lunatic.  :D)

Redacted for factual errors. The endo's office called and said he does NOT have experience with transgendered people. See post in other thread.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Chloevixen on June 16, 2014, 10:00:34 AM
Its been a wonderful week.  I live across the dock from my bro in law who is completely supportive of my transition to the point that sometimes I have to pull him back.  He corrects people about pronouns more than I do.  Well he has made sure that everyone on our side of the dock knows and respects how I feel to the point that the lady who manages the emergency contact list updated it with my preferred name.  Well he came into my boat the other night while I was in a fitting Tshirt and some comfy pants and called me miss looking for me he didnt recognize my body shape and I was facing away from him.  I was soo happy I ran across and hugged him.  Well he wanted to let me know that I need to start wearing some sort of top when I am sunbathing since my girls are finally getting obvious for what they are.  I really hadnt noticed since I see them every day.

The next day I was teaching swim lessons for my mom and she asked me to start wearing a larger shirt when I come over since again the girls are kinda obvious.  She was reaching to start a fight hoping that would be my trigger.  I was soo happy that I just gave them a wiggle and skipped out the door smiling the whole drive home.  My mom is completely against my new life and tries constantly to convince me that I was born a guy and should live as a male.

Last night I am getting ready to cook dinner when my other neighbor comes over and asks if I can tow his boat back to the slip he had a engine problem.  I went out there and set up my tow line as he kept asking about my knots and trying to double check everything.  On the tow  back he called me on the radio and said "Wow Chloe you drive a boat better than a man."  He said he kept watching to see if he can make a woman driver comment but could not find a reason.
When we got back to the dock and got him tied up a bunch of the wives and girlfriends asked me to teach them how to drive better and dock the boats.

I have had a wonderful couple of days!! They have been needed for a very long time.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ~Evelyn~ on June 16, 2014, 10:28:46 AM
Quote from: nikkit72 on June 15, 2014, 09:45:18 AM
Chocolate sandwich cake   ;D ;D Mmmmm...goes to happy place......

*is hungry again
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on June 16, 2014, 12:15:42 PM
Apple strudel currently in oven. Ready to be served with Vanilla ice cream in 20 mins.  ;D Assuming the resident gannets do not get it all first... >:(
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on June 16, 2014, 01:56:57 PM
Going for an amazing walk to the peak district, was so lovely!! And really cleared my head :) xx
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on June 18, 2014, 06:04:36 PM
Picked up a new ladies watch same as the one in my avatar. Joy (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi60.tinypic.com%2F2mg8qs8.jpg&hash=aa2ea192b57b87daa38a109c2120f0acd95ae312)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 19, 2014, 04:38:44 PM
Quote from: Evelyn K on June 18, 2014, 06:04:36 PM
Picked up a new ladies watch same as the one in my avatar. Joy (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi60.tinypic.com%2F2mg8qs8.jpg&hash=aa2ea192b57b87daa38a109c2120f0acd95ae312)
I got lucky and got one of the older girly watches inlaid with gold and a few stones. :icon_chick: It looks more like a bracelet than a watch. It's very pretty and feminine unlike those with the larger faces you see a lot of girls wearing today. :icon_blah: It was given to me by my now ex SO but I'll always cherish it as we did have a lot of good times before the bad, and I think of those. :icon_ballbounce: :icon_ballbounce2: :icon_biggrin:

Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Megumi on June 19, 2014, 09:27:45 PM
I had to go to court and "fight" to legally change my name & gender marker on my ID and Birth Certificate and also applied for a new social security card. Today has quite possibly been the greatest day ever and my mom joined me in experiencing this day in person which made things even better. I have a new birth certificate with the right name and gender, my ID has a picture of a beautiful woman smiling.

What is really sticking with me is the lady at the DMV remembered me from my former name and old ID picture from 3 years ago after I gave her my court order and old ID. Her words after taking my picture for the new ID was "WOW! Come around the counter and look at your new picture! This is amazing!!!!"

Once the ID printed out we compared the two and WOW times infinity is all I can say. My old ID I couldn't even smile and looked miserable and in my new one you'd think you just saw the happiest woman alive.

What a day what a day what a day and I'm so happy that my mom was able to be with me and experience all the greatness, kindness & acceptance from so many random people today. She has been so afraid I'm going to be seen as some kind of monster by the public and the reality is I blend in just fine and I shine brightly in the process. People just love to talk to me and that's something that could NEVER be said of me for the first 29 9/10ths years that I was alive.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 19, 2014, 11:23:58 PM
Quote from: Megumi on June 19, 2014, 09:27:45 PM
I had to go to court and "fight" to legally change my name & gender marker on my ID and Birth Certificate and also applied for a new social security card. Today has quite possibly been the greatest day ever and my mom joined me in experiencing this day in person which made things even better. I have a new birth certificate with the right name and gender, my ID has a picture of a beautiful woman smiling.

What is really sticking with me is the lady at the DMV remembered me from my former name and old ID picture from 3 years ago after I gave her my court order and old ID. Her words after taking my picture for the new ID was "WOW! Come around the counter and look at your new picture! This is amazing!!!!"

Once the ID printed out we compared the two and WOW times infinity is all I can say. My old ID I couldn't even smile and looked miserable and in my new one you'd think you just saw the happiest woman alive.

What a day what a day what a day and I'm so happy that my mom was able to be with me and experience all the greatness, kindness & acceptance from so many random people today. She has been so afraid I'm going to be seen as some kind of monster by the public and the reality is I blend in just fine and I shine brightly in the process. People just love to talk to me and that's something that could NEVER be said of me for the first 29 9/10ths years that I was alive.
I know this feeling of elation and confirmation. I just had my gender marker changed on my Driver's License two Wednesdays ago, and now instead of an ugly mugshot I too have a beautiful woman smiling back at me. I now show my ID when asked with pride instead of shame. I just wish I had my Mom with me on that day to share in the experience.

Congratulations Megumi, you gotta be feeling really great right now. :icon_chick:

Best wishes! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ginny on June 20, 2014, 12:17:30 AM
Not today, but yesterday on my day off.
Friends had to cancel on my due to a medical issue. Spent probably 2-3hrs cooking, baking, and mixing a drink in the kitchen in my dress with some classical music on. Brother came home and was like "did you cook that!?" I was then like "try some", after he ate he told me that he was somewhat joking that I'd make a good wife one day when we were kids, but that "damn, you would make someone a good wife"  :D  Made me so happy that my first attempt at getting back in the kitchen for many years was great success!

Also he caught me self correcting myself for cussing later that night. I decided I wanted to stop cussing, so every time I say a cuss word then I have to write down "I will not say 'insert word or phrase here'" 100x.  Its only taken me about 800 sentences, but definitely improving. Anyways he came by to use the bathroom and said "Aww isn't that cute".  Luckily he walked on by because I'm pretty sure I blushed and felt all good inside.   :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on June 20, 2014, 12:48:58 AM
Had my hair re-coloured more chocolate than red and styled, at my shoulders now.

I feel pretty!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: luna nyan on June 20, 2014, 08:38:00 AM
I made it to the end of the day.

Some days are just plain...

Bleagh...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on June 20, 2014, 09:11:08 AM
Quote from: luna nyan on June 20, 2014, 08:38:00 AM
I made it to the end of the day.

Some days are just plain...

Bleagh...

But then someone gives you a hug  :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: luna nyan on June 20, 2014, 09:26:49 AM
Quote from: Cindy on June 20, 2014, 09:11:08 AM
But then someone gives you a hug  :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug:
Thanks! :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alabamagirl on June 20, 2014, 09:42:51 AM
Quote from: luna nyan on June 20, 2014, 08:38:00 AM
I made it to the end of the day.

Some days are just plain...

Bleagh...

*more hugs* :)

Hope you have sweet dreams and a better tomorrow, dear.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JayneS on June 20, 2014, 09:50:47 AM
And even more hugs, tomorrow is another day baby, sweet dreams.


Love and hugs

Jayne xxx
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 20, 2014, 11:13:19 AM
Quote from: luna nyan on June 20, 2014, 08:38:00 AM
I made it to the end of the day.

Some days are just plain...

Bleagh...
And a few more biiiigg hugggggs!! :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_hug:

Tomorrow will be a better day!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Misha on June 20, 2014, 01:50:58 PM
Shopping with my colleague from HR made me very happy today :-) . We took the lunch break for it but it took longer than an hour anyway. What a surprise!

When I wrote a weekly report to my manager I added a line: "I'm missing 1 hour as head of HR and I got stuck while shopping for new clothes today."

His response: "Two girls shopping. No surprise :-) ."
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Princess Rachel on June 20, 2014, 02:05:27 PM
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-xaf1/t1.0-9/10360462_601676979940422_3124352888238987870_n.jpg)

new ear piercing :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on June 21, 2014, 05:27:14 PM
Looking better and better. I love HRT.

Nuff said!  (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi60.tinypic.com%2Fk4xiqd.jpg&hash=841f0cc5809054be9078a0f29185798bd0af79db)

True Dat!
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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on June 22, 2014, 12:56:38 AM
Got my hair done today and learned some tricks to hide the temples till they fill in more for my hair stylist.

(https://farm6.staticflickr.com/5587/14291326177_d2ce764040_c.jpg) (https://farm3.staticflickr.com/2901/14291137699_ef5b35a8dc_c.jpg)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Misha on June 22, 2014, 12:57:47 AM
This actually happened during yesterday evening (CEST so I guess on the US west coast it still counts as today) but it caused such an endorphin flood that I could barely write down the daily entry to my transition diary. And I wish all the girls here (don't worry, you boys too :-) ), that are waiting for a similar moment, that it will come soon :-) .

Now the actual story. In the evening (19:40 local time) I took a walk around the village I have my house in, so that I can escape the overcrowded Prague where I work at during the weekends. As I was on my way back a dog started barking at me from across the fence. The dog's owner, a fairly old man, told him to stay quiet.
I said: "Dogs are in general very aggressive at me."
He replied: "He's not really aggressive. He just can't help himself when he sees such a cat to pass by."
I thanked him and then we talked for like 40 minutes about cats, food, thefts that happened nearby (really great neighbourly talk topic, I know :-) ). Surprisingly my voice didn't fail me and apparently my make-up still hid well the facial hair remnants under my nose. It shocked me a bit as we were like 1-1.5 meters from each other. So when I arrived home I felt like my brain is going to explode from how happy I felt. Never have I felt something that intense before.

And to explain the "cat" thing. In Czech Republic the word "cat" (translates to "kočka") is also used when talking about a good looking woman :-) .

EDIT: Forgot to mention the actual time.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 22, 2014, 12:55:56 PM
I get to stay home today and R&R! No running anywhere!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Roni on June 22, 2014, 10:27:10 PM
Had FFS done with Dr Cardenas yesterday. I am very swollen but so far the results looks great! Never thought I would reach this point in my life so soon

I have a thread open about my FFS journey over at the FFS section of the forums for those interested! :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ginny on June 22, 2014, 11:38:18 PM
That one of my friends got engaged!
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,167610.msg1456282.html#msg1456282
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: KatrinaLynne on June 23, 2014, 12:50:05 AM
Well it was Friday. But I actually made it to my second support group meeting. And I think I actually made a couple friends this time. 1 of them grabbed my phone and sent herself a friend request on facebook from my account. Outing myself slowly 1 friend at a time. Lol that was Friday and I'm sad today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Nikki_Taz on June 23, 2014, 01:12:04 AM
Role play with my new FTM friend on FB :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 23, 2014, 05:42:59 PM
I sold another unneeded item today and made a profit of $50!! YaY!, I'm no longer broke!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Megumi on June 23, 2014, 09:54:47 PM
Quote from: Allyda on June 19, 2014, 11:23:58 PM
I know this feeling of elation and confirmation. I just had my gender marker changed on my Driver's License two Wednesdays ago, and now instead of an ugly mugshot I too have a beautiful woman smiling back at me. I now show my ID when asked with pride instead of shame. I just wish I had my Mom with me on that day to share in the experience.

Congratulations Megumi, you gotta be feeling really great right now. :icon_chick:

Best wishes! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
Thanks! I'm beyond on top of the world feeling and it's been more than a few days since it all happened. I got a 6 pack of beer from the store just so I'd get carded and enjoyed every second and the cashier's expression when she saw that my name and gender were female on my ID :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 23, 2014, 11:57:09 PM
Quote from: Megumi on June 23, 2014, 09:54:47 PM
Thanks! I'm beyond on top of the world feeling and it's been more than a few days since it all happened. I got a 6 pack of beer from the store just so I'd get carded and enjoyed every second and the cashier's expression when she saw that my name and gender were female on my ID :D
I feel the same way. I had to show mine at our state housing department today. Oh the look on some of their faces. The one girl who always helps me was very happy for me though. She and I have talked a little so she's familiar with my situation.

Enjoy it Megumi! You deserve the proper recognition!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on June 24, 2014, 01:05:07 AM
Today I got my name and gender updated on my NJ Driver's License.  ;D ;D ;D ;D

You can read about my experience here (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=167702).
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 24, 2014, 04:48:59 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on June 24, 2014, 01:05:07 AM
Today I got my name and gender updated on my NJ Driver's License.  ;D ;D ;D ;D

You can read about my experience here (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=167702).
Congratulations Sydney! I know how happy and elated you are after getting over this toughest hurdle. I had mine done three Wednesdays ago from today, and I'm still so excited over it. I'm very very veeeery happy for you!

Best wishes! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 28, 2014, 10:53:34 AM
I'm hoping to be able to launch my boat today -so far no rain. Hopefully it'll stay that way and I'll be a happy girl! The only drawback will be it's Saturday, and I'll have to put up with a bunch of men oogling me at the ramp.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eris on June 28, 2014, 03:17:16 PM
I went back to the gym and left feeling tired but happy and my hair reached a new threshold (sadly not from going to the gym, but wouldn't that be great?).
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on June 29, 2014, 09:18:09 AM
I was waiting for my taxi outside of the nursing home after visiting my wife. The chef came out and saw me, she is a large lady-gorgeous and nice. I was wearing black leggings knee high brown boots, a thigh length pink top and a brown leather jacket-I looked good (I thought).

She just said you look great Cindy, we are all jealous, you rock that outfit.

Ye I did.

Life is good, live it!!

Never thought I would keep believing that.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Chloevixen on June 29, 2014, 01:49:30 PM
Husband and wife neighbors of mine were sitting on their boat this morning when I went outside to enjoy my coffee. Sitting up on deck I her the wife say "I really need to bring Chloe (me) shopping.  That it was not fair that I have all these nice pretty clothes and she does not."  Her husband who saw me come outside told her to come ask me if I didnt mind going shopping with her."  He then started giving her grief playfully that shes going to ask fashion advice from someone who is only now starting to live as a woman.  When I heard that I laughed so hard coffee almost came out of my nose. 
They have been wonderfully supportive of my life decision, reminding people that they are to use the correct pronouns and that any hate speech will result in a trip to the emergency room.  He is a very large muscular guy and really scared me the first few times I saw him.
That whole conversation really made my day infact all of the people on my end of the dock have been great at treating me just like one of the girls... Well minus that the guys dont come running in panic when I take my boat out or bring it in.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Samantha6string on June 29, 2014, 02:22:19 PM
Went out with a friend to go clothes shopping for the first time :) well. At 11pm at a kmart but still.

Going away for a week with a bunch of friends to a big property where I can enjoy what I bought last night around people who care about the camp fire im in charge of more than me being trans which is wonderful. Feel absolutely great.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 30, 2014, 12:12:20 AM
I finally got to go boating today for about 3 hours before the rain chased me home. I had a great time just cruising around the lakes, seeing what's changed, seeing home improvements being done to homes, just an outstanding 3 hours all by myself.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnnaCannibal on June 30, 2014, 09:53:41 PM
Well, I cried today and that made me happy.  There was no reasoning behind my tears, it just hit me all at once and I cried.  It has been years since I've cried, that's why I'm happy.  I'm human after all!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on June 30, 2014, 11:08:12 PM
Quote from: AnnaCannibal on June 30, 2014, 09:53:41 PM
Well, I cried today and that made me happy.  There was no reasoning behind my tears, it just hit me all at once and I cried.  It has been years since I've cried, that's why I'm happy.  I'm human after all!
This is probably the best happy moment I've heard in a long while. Sometimes, we gotta just break down and cry it out. Good for you Anna. You've now made me happy today!

Oh, regarding your quote: Progressive cannibals using forks. I like it. You gotta move into the modern age after all. Hope ya still use the giant crock though, that one's a classic,...........lmao -you gotta excuse me girl, I'm in a silly mood tonight, lol!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: BeingSonia on July 01, 2014, 12:52:48 AM
I bought my first girl earrings. Black pearls.
Pierced my ears a week and a half ago. Gonna have to wait before wearing them.
Well, a small step in my transition but a giant step for me.

Sonia
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnnaCannibal on July 01, 2014, 07:43:03 AM
Quote from: Allyda on June 30, 2014, 11:08:12 PM
This is probably the best happy moment I've heard in a long while. Sometimes, we gotta just break down and cry it out. Good for you Anna. You've now made me happy today!

Oh, regarding your quote: Progressive cannibals using forks. I like it. You gotta move into the modern age after all. Hope ya still use the giant crock though, that one's a classic,...........lmao -you gotta excuse me girl, I'm in a silly mood tonight, lol!

Ally :icon_flower:

I like your humour.    :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on July 02, 2014, 12:00:44 AM
Quote from: AnnaCannibal on July 01, 2014, 07:43:03 AM
I like your humour.    :P
Thanks, it's really appreciated. Even though I'm having a bit of a financial crisis right now I'm just soooo happy lately. Go figure, he, he, he, he. I'm in another one of my silly girly moods tonight too, lol!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: zog on July 02, 2014, 04:10:34 PM
I didn't have to wake up early.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on July 04, 2014, 12:03:18 AM
My Endo switched me from from orals to injections today for my E, and the even happier, I got the greenlight for my SRS, YaY! This is going to be the best Christmas e-v-e-r!!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 04, 2014, 06:34:31 AM
At least I tried to set up a thread for just nice happy things for MtF's to post.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on July 04, 2014, 05:29:21 PM
Quote from: Allyda on July 04, 2014, 12:03:18 AM
My Endo switched me from from orals to injections today for my E, and the even happier, I got the greenlight for my SRS, YaY! This is going to be the best Christmas e-v-e-r!!

Ally :icon_flower:

Congratulations !

Quote from: FrancisAnn on July 04, 2014, 06:34:31 AM
At least I tried to set up a thread for just nice happy things for MtF's to post.

Long may this thread continue ! A feel good factor is essential.


Anyhoo I got me a new coffee machine today. I am now high as a kite after trying all the freebee coffee pods that came with it and my wife is trying to knock me down from the ceiling with a sweeping brush.  :icon_caffine: :icon_caffine: :icon_caffine:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on July 04, 2014, 05:58:04 PM
Quote from: nikkit72 on July 04, 2014, 05:29:21 PM
Congratulations !
Thanks Nikkit, your congrat's is very much appreciated. Even today I'm still soooo excited I can hardly contain myself. I've been waiting for this all my life -almost 50 years now.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on July 06, 2014, 01:09:37 AM
A little happi tears from Evelyn tonight *^_^*. Each week that goes by I turn a little more beautiful. Lying down and seeing your hair splayed out on the pillow, your bare arms extended and your femininely adorned hands... It feels like lying down next to a hot girlfriend, except - it's you. :D Much love for yourself here. I sure bet others know what I mean.

I know I'm going to turn out amazing. I am never giving up. Can't wait for Mondays 2nd injection! (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi61.tinypic.com%2Fdlosw8.jpg&hash=4bd23dc9d2c83a0abd1bef51b142ca4663e503ae)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Bols on July 06, 2014, 05:07:02 AM
I came out to a lifetime friend today. At a beach front cafe, packed with people, afternoon sun streaming in. He took it with loving compassion  and understanding. We go way back with many a daring escapade. Now we start on a boy and girl friendship. :) I am happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on July 06, 2014, 01:20:29 PM
Quote from: Evelyn K on July 06, 2014, 01:09:37 AM
A little happi tears from Evelyn tonight *^_^*. Each week that goes by I turn a little more beautiful. Lying down and seeing your hair splayed out on the pillow, your bare arms extended and your femininely adorned hands... It feels like lying down next to a hot girlfriend, except - it's you. :D Much love for yourself here. I sure bet others know what I mean.

I know I'm going to turn out amazing. I am never giving up. Can't wait for Mondays 2nd injection! (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi61.tinypic.com%2Fdlosw8.jpg&hash=4bd23dc9d2c83a0abd1bef51b142ca4663e503ae)
As much as I hate to admit it Ev, I sure do. I can't look down at my own chest or legs without getting, ...well, you know, lol!! Just about every day now I see more and more feminine characteristics in myself.

I sure hope my Endo get's my injections straightened out with my insurance by the 10th at least, cause that's when my other hrt meds are due for refill.

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on July 06, 2014, 02:15:37 PM
I found a silver herringbone necklace I wore when I was young. I polished it up and am wearing it now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: galaxy on July 06, 2014, 03:38:54 PM
Running 5km in 26 minutes  8)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on July 06, 2014, 05:04:10 PM
3rd time out, got the "after you" for the escalator in Westfields. Onwards and upwards (!?)

OK, maybe it was age before beauty, but I'll take that as a good sign for now. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: pretty pauline on July 06, 2014, 05:50:43 PM
My husband gave me flowers today, no particular reason, just because..........     but it did make me happy today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on July 07, 2014, 01:08:14 AM
I went out shopping all day and didn't get any double takes. I think I'm finally starting to pass.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on July 07, 2014, 01:34:39 AM
Are you kidding me, as long as you don't overdress (we all do it) you pass better than oxygen in a divers tank.

 
Quote from: Autumn on July 07, 2014, 01:08:14 AM
I went out shopping all day and didn't get any double takes. I think I'm finally starting to pass.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on July 07, 2014, 12:22:26 PM
Quote from: antonia on July 07, 2014, 01:34:39 AM
Are you kidding me, as long as you don't overdress (we all do it) you pass better than oxygen in a divers tank.


Haha thanks
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 08, 2014, 06:40:37 PM
I'm really glad to see some members post nice things that happened to them, good for all of us. I had a nice day on my farm.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady_Oracle on July 08, 2014, 10:13:06 PM
Having my mom give me my first injection, such an awesome memory!
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Post by: MyKa on July 09, 2014, 01:48:21 AM
Germany kicking Brazil's ass. Omg so happy!!!! :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 09, 2014, 04:04:09 AM
Quote from: Lady_Oracle on July 08, 2014, 10:13:06 PM
Having my mom give me my first injection, such an awesome memory!
That is so special. It's so nice to see others that love their mothers. I loved mine & she was supportive of her "daughter". I sure hope others will confide & always bring their mother into their lives. Your mother loves you no matter what. She needs you & you need her.
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Post by: GingerMaxim on July 09, 2014, 04:58:48 AM
Today I am happy because for the first time in several months I was able to keep my sleep aid device in all night.
Sure it didn't do much at all for me because it isn't set to the right spot, but it's a start and if I can get to
keep it in all night, then I will be able to set it to where it needs to be to help me sleep normally.

Woohooo.... :laugh: :) :angel:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on July 10, 2014, 06:10:51 AM
I'm happy today. It's fun to finally start flirting with men again & I look forward to meeting a new man or 2. My surgery is finally healing up & I look so much nicer. I'm going to have my entire makeup done much better & have some nice pics taken to post. I always get excited about meeting a new man. 
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Post by: Chloevixen on July 10, 2014, 08:56:20 AM
It was a bittersweet week, the bad, my client got arrested right after paying me.  My mom and I have decided it would be best to not talk for a long time since shes afraid if I continue transitioning no one will ever hire me to work and then I will be dependent on everyone for the rest of my life.  My friends came into town then left a few days later I really miss them.

The GOOD!!  Bills have been paid, I got to drive a semi truck, my houseboat is running like new again.  My friends came into town and spent the weekend with me.  My mom called me Chloe for the first time, granted it was in the middle of our fight.  I have 3 more welding projects lined up and a boat delivery job in the works!! (that pays for the cost of laser hair removal, and a years worth of pills)
I am getting paid to teach my bro in law how to sail in key west.  Best of all I got told by three different people that my boobs are too big to go shirtless, one was a cop.  I almost always wear a shirt or top of some sort but it was hot and I thought I had a few more months before I got to that point!!  I know that I am rambling but it was a tough week, mixed with depression and good friends to fight it.  I am calling it a good week though. 
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Post by: Tessa James on July 10, 2014, 01:41:18 PM
Yesterday I managed to jump through the last hoop and now my drivers license has my correct new name and that precious and affirming big F.   I am elated to know this will reduce the funny looks I sometimes get from anyone looking at my ID and should also reduce my hassles (minimal as they are) with travel, airport security and other officialdom. 

As you know, the real change is between our ears and I accepted myself as transgender some time ago.  The sense of feeling right and having the certainty of a state issue ID is a milestone for this girl.  I celebrated (lightly, no headache!) with my best TG girlfriend last night and feel the next step just got a bit more certain and easier.

Yippee !!!
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Post by: big kim on July 10, 2014, 05:45:53 PM
Got asked if I was in a recent TV thriller as this couple were convinced it was me!No they didn't have a guide dog and white sticks
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on July 10, 2014, 07:49:00 PM
Quote from: Tessa James on July 10, 2014, 01:41:18 PM
Yesterday I managed to jump through the last hoop and now my drivers license has my correct new name and that precious and affirming big F.   I am elated to know this will reduce the funny looks I sometimes get from anyone looking at my ID and should also reduce my hassles (minimal as they are) with travel, airport security and other officialdom. 

As you know, the real change is between our ears and I accepted myself as transgender some time ago.  The sense of feeling right and having the certainty of a state issue ID is a milestone for this girl.  I celebrated (lightly, no headache!) with my best TG girlfriend last night and feel the next step just got a bit more certain and easier.

Yippee !!!
Good for you Tessa!. I know how happy and yes, elated your feeling right now. It's been over a month since I had the big F stamped on my driver's license and I'm still feeling a happy sense of validation over it. Enjoy it girl, you've more than earned it!

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miranda Catherine on July 11, 2014, 02:36:43 AM
I've been trying to really enjoy myself as a woman more, despite things I dislike about my age, face and body. Today, I really took my time in putting on my makeup, and at least a few times a month I'll find something to make putting on my face more enjoyable and less frustrating. I think I've gotten very good at doing what looks good on me, but today I really felt I hit it. I looked one of the best I've ever looked today and even my mom, my biggest help and sharpest critic at the same time, told me, "you look really pretty today, young lady!!!" It was something that's been happening more lately with her.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miranda Catherine on July 11, 2014, 10:13:38 AM
Quote from: Tessa James on July 10, 2014, 01:41:18 PM
Yesterday I managed to jump through the last hoop and now my drivers license has my correct new name and that precious and affirming big F.   I am elated to know this will reduce the funny looks I sometimes get from anyone looking at my ID and should also reduce my hassles (minimal as they are) with travel, airport security and other officialdom. 

As you know, the real change is between our ears and I accepted myself as transgender some time ago.  The sense of feeling right and having the certainty of a state issue ID is a milestone for this girl.  I celebrated (lightly, no headache!) with my best TG girlfriend last night and feel the next step just got a bit more certain and easier.

Yippee !!!
Congrats, Tessa! It has to be one of the most momentous steps we can take as TG women! I went to my county courthouse three times in the last month, the last two going to the 'self help' office as well and getting the attorney's help there in putting my packet together. Even she got it wrong the first time. But her second time and my third time was a charm in getting my court date for my name and gender change. I go to court on Friday, August 15th, the day before my 60th birthday, and then I'll hopefully be legally Miranda Catherine Thomson, F!
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Post by: Allyda on July 11, 2014, 01:17:13 PM
Quote from: Miranda Catherine on July 11, 2014, 02:36:43 AM
I've been trying to really enjoy myself as a woman more, despite things I dislike about my age, face and body. Today, I really took my time in putting on my makeup, and at least a few times a month I'll find something to make putting on my face more enjoyable and less frustrating. I think I've gotten very good at doing what looks good on me, but today I really felt I hit it. I looked one of the best I've ever looked today and even my mom, my biggest help and sharpest critic at the same time, told me, "you look really pretty today, young lady!!!" It was something that's been happening more lately with her.
Your looking great Mira! Where've you been girl? I haven't seen you in a while. You look gorgeous in your new Avatar! Age is meaningless my friend. We're women and we're beautiful no matter what our age.

Best wishes! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Misha on July 12, 2014, 03:24:34 AM
To my surprise I found a partner for a dancing class. I didn't expect a reply to my add sooner than like in a month or two and it came in a day :-D . To make sure I won't get disappointed by later refusal I included a picture of me in our follow-up e-mail introductions (he included his as well but my eye-sight isn't for judging anyone's looks).

This got me really excited as I really wanted to go out with someone but wanted to avoid any kind of dating. Search for a dancing partner thus seemed as a great alternative. Given how often partners get swapped what's the risk of getting further than just dancing :-) .

So just a moment ago I cleaned a pair shoes that will do just fine although they're not exactly designed for dancing. And in like one hour I'll leave to shop for some nice white dress. Then it will be only about agreeing when to go. Perhaps we'll manage a session already this weekend :-) .
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Post by: Chloevixen on July 12, 2014, 08:36:49 AM
I had a moment of pure dysphoria(lessness?)    It was bliss for about an hour or two I forgot completely that I was bio male and all the plumbing trappings that went with it.  Even though I was in drab, I felt pure bliss and completely female.  My mom and I did not fight once and even went to get our hair done.
I really needed that esp after last week.
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Post by: YinYanga on July 14, 2014, 08:05:34 PM

Bought a new Make-up bag and a handful of new things to put in it. Also cleaned up the bathroom and sink , way too many ehmm...'artistic' explosions happened there this week so this just had to get that done

Emotional and fun day, starting to get more of them as HRT kicks in and I plan my days more actively

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: YinYanga on July 14, 2014, 08:07:00 PM
Quote from: Chloevixen on July 12, 2014, 08:36:49 AM
I had a moment of pure dysphoria(lessness?)    It was bliss for about an hour or two I forgot completely that I was bio male and all the plumbing trappings that went with it.  Even though I was in drab, I felt pure bliss and completely female.  My mom and I did not fight once and even went to get our hair done.
I really needed that esp after last week.

Magical moments they are, I know the feeling. What you ended up getting?  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 20, 2014, 06:34:07 AM
Quote from: Misha on July 12, 2014, 03:24:34 AM
To my surprise I found a partner for a dancing class. I didn't expect a reply to my add sooner than like in a month or two and it came in a day :-D . To make sure I won't get disappointed by later refusal I included a picture of me in our follow-up e-mail introductions (he included his as well but my eye-sight isn't for judging anyone's looks).

This got me really excited as I really wanted to go out with someone but wanted to avoid any kind of dating. Search for a dancing partner thus seemed as a great alternative. Given how often partners get swapped what's the risk of getting further than just dancing :-) .

So just a moment ago I cleaned a pair shoes that will do just fine although they're not exactly designed for dancing. And in like one hour I'll leave to shop for some nice white dress. Then it will be only about agreeing when to go. Perhaps we'll manage a session already this weekend :-) .
That seems so smart. Let us all know how the dancing class went??? Good luck GF.
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Post by: Eevee on July 20, 2014, 10:41:17 AM
When I woke up this morning and faced an unfamiliar mirror (at my boyfriend's house, so it surprises me sometimes) I thought I saw an attractive woman staring back at me (my long hair helped). It lasted a couple seconds before I woke up more and noticed my stubble. Those few seconds gave me a lot of confidence though. Thinking more of transitioning has been bothering me since I have doubts of passing after I start hrt. I feel better about my chances now.
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Post by: Nala on July 20, 2014, 12:56:17 PM
Thought for a second that I had been called "sir" for the first time in months and months. Despondent. Realised moments later that it was a mumbled "sorry". Deeply relieved. :'D
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Post by: Tessa James on July 20, 2014, 01:31:16 PM
Bicycle riding around town, through parks, alongside the mighty Columbia River and Pacific Ocean beaches.  Free wheeling and being able to smell the flowers, feel the micro climates and hear nature all around.  ANd then riding in a tank top with a micro scort is icing on the cake. 
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Post by: Eevee on July 20, 2014, 11:59:57 PM
Today I found a huge source of support. Since my parents are too close-minded to accept any aspect of the real me, I found parents who were more than happy to take me under their wing. My friend's parents are very connected within the lgbt community and already love me to death, so I came out to them instead of my own biological parents. His mom already wants to help me with every aspect of being a girl. Bonus: they run a clothing (and corset!) business. I am beyond happy right now. I had no idea how much support and love I had until I started asking for it. Thank you mom and dad for filling my life with doubts.
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Post by: Evienne on July 21, 2014, 12:02:20 AM
as of today, my grandma visited, and we went on a walk, just had a good time. We went out to a super club also. We stopped then at a campsite just to look and we went by the rapids of a river and it was very beautiful so that was very nice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on July 21, 2014, 12:08:12 AM
Being home on my lounge watching my TV.
Sleeping in my own bed. Had a great nights sleep for once. close to 12 hours as I was running on empty.
Did not need to peel myself from the sheets or wake up in a hot sweat.

Nice to be back amongst friends here. I missed you all.
The fresh clean air of Sydney.
Proper food.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on July 25, 2014, 06:04:54 AM
I'm 99% healed up from my face lift surgery. I stopped taking my HRT/spiro 10 days ago to try & make sure of no possible conflicts between drugs. I was not healing quickly enough & kind of got scarred actually. Now it seems all is OK & I'm so relieved to get back on my estrogen. My body just feels terrible without estrogen. I will sure be a happy girl to return to normal.
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Post by: Cindy on July 25, 2014, 06:08:42 AM
Hugs hon
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: YinYanga on July 25, 2014, 06:17:15 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on July 25, 2014, 06:04:54 AM
I'm 99% healed up from my face lift surgery. I stopped taking my HRT/spiro 10 days ago to try & make sure of no possible conflicts between drugs. I was not healing quickly enough & kind of got scarred actually. Now it seems all is OK & I'm so relieved to get back on my estrogen. My body just feels terrible without estrogen. I will sure be a happy girl to return to normal.

Good news! Hope you're happy with the results
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Post by: immortal gypsy on July 25, 2014, 08:06:32 AM
Waiting at the ice cream stand today, a staff member was told to serve those ladies over there. I was the next one asked. With no make up on, hair way over due for a re colour and I guys jacket on that is two sizes two big for me. I was very happy and almost shocked enough that I couldn't speak
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Post by: Allyda on July 25, 2014, 09:02:44 PM
Well, my booby's have had a few growth spurts lately, and have bursted out of my A cup bras and I'm now a B cup. Though much sooner than I expected I'm a very happy girl.

Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: StevieAK on July 25, 2014, 11:52:31 PM
Saw Suki yesterday and got my roots done and Helen today and got my brows waxed.  Both have become friends and we just chatter about lives, our families and what we are doing for the weekend.  Im no longer an oddity but just me. 

Tonight take a sauna with my wife, take a bath with her in lavender scented water and shave our legs, exfolliate each other. lol

It makes me happy.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on July 26, 2014, 06:11:43 AM
It sure feels nice with my little dot patches back on & taking my other daily HRT meds. I know soon I'll feel better, more relaxed & confident. Also my completion should improve & return back to normal. That was kind of scarry going cold but I did not want any problems while trying to heal from surgery.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 27, 2014, 09:12:56 AM
I sure feel better back on my normal level of estrogen. I started back on HRT almost a year ago & I've made some nice changes however there are more nice things to come. I feel very good & relaxed about my life.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: StevieAK on July 27, 2014, 10:49:16 AM
Reading all of these made me happy...it fills my heart to hear these things thanks for sharing. 

Went on a date with my wife and had a great time. Like all you it wasn't about worrying about being trans anything but just living life and getting past that. Happy
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Post by: Emjay on July 27, 2014, 11:16:13 AM
Quote from: StevieAK on July 27, 2014, 10:49:16 AM
Reading all of these made me happy...it fills my heart to hear these things thanks for sharing. 

I'll second that!  These make me smile so much.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 27, 2014, 11:28:13 AM
Quote from: jamienicoled on July 27, 2014, 10:18:08 AM
Riding the Western Maryland Historic Railroad with our oldest son, his wife and our 3 grandkiddo's  :eusa_dance:  Our son and his family live about 4 hours away, so we're always looking for creative ways to spend time together.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs25.postimg.org%2F4ds9pcjzz%2F2014_07_25_18_00_58.jpg&hash=8d51cdf3abf0d29bb0ef46fea3261fe2bde1c019)

https://vimeo.com/101818818 (https://vimeo.com/101818818)
Such a nice story. Great for you GF. Thank you for posting.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Chloevixen on July 27, 2014, 11:54:25 AM
Went out with a friend I have not seen since High school, we talked for several hours and I found out that two other of my friends who were in ROTC with me have started transitioning, I couldnt believe that with less than three hundred people in my ROTC class 3 are MTF.
On top of that we are also all military vets.  I was overwhelmed with the small world feeling.
While not really happy, I was more amazed and taken a back.
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Post by: Trini on July 28, 2014, 01:48:33 AM
One of my close friends drew me a picture of a character of mine and it made me so happy because she knows I'm dealing with gender identity issues right now and she is such a sweetheart!

That really brightened my day. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on August 02, 2014, 04:42:12 AM
10 months today on E.

Wow it has passed quickly.
Even though it is low dose E, changes are occurring that I love.
So much to be happy about, so much I wont miss.

Never going back, ever.

Love you all here, even the ones I've turned into frogs...

J
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Juliett on August 02, 2014, 06:13:00 AM
I was messing around on my brother's xbox. My niece saw my avatar and said "she looks just like you" I was glowing for hours. As far as I know, my niece and nephew have no idea of the connection between aunt Julie and the uncle they haven't seen in 3 years and i'm perfectly content not asking.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on August 02, 2014, 07:45:07 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on August 02, 2014, 04:42:12 AM
10 months today on E.

Wow it has passed quickly.
Even though it is low dose E, changes are occurring that I love.
So much to be happy about, so much I wont miss.

Never going back, ever.

Love you all here, even the ones I've turned into frogs...

J

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U05if4AkBPs (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U05if4AkBPs)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on August 02, 2014, 07:53:31 AM
Sitting at the hairdresser, five hairdressers end up sitting with me talking, ignoring their clients and me.

"I think we give Cindy hair extensions"

" I think blonde highlights"

"I think purple highlights"

Do I get an opinion?

"No silly, you are our project"

I give up and laugh
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Post by: zog on August 02, 2014, 12:55:31 PM
My boobs are starting to show even through semi-baggy male-shaped t-shirt. And only a little over 3 months in. Very cool.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on August 03, 2014, 08:07:17 PM
Quote from: Jenny07 on August 02, 2014, 04:42:12 AM

Love you all here, even the ones I've turned into frogs...

J
I'm more of a classic Witch, and I appreciate the classics. I turn those that cross me into toads. Toads are more ugly and disgusting than frogs, lol!

I'm very happy for you Zog. Remember massaging helps with soreness.

Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on August 04, 2014, 12:44:36 AM
Back from my latest check up and all is well.

T has risen a bit and I would like it down and Vitamin D getting better as quite low.
All other things under control. Blood pressure very good.

Making progress one step at a time.

J
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: luna nyan on August 04, 2014, 04:56:48 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on August 04, 2014, 12:44:36 AM
Back from my latest check up and all is well.

T has risen a bit and I would like it down and Vitamin D getting better as quite low.
All other things under control. Blood pressure very good.

Making progress one step at a time.

J
Good stuff!   Vitamin D readily fixed with more pills!  Funnily enough I had the same problem...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Autumn on August 07, 2014, 01:19:36 PM
Yesterday I went on my first date since being out. It was everything I could have asked for and more. She was so sweet and cute. We really hit it off and are trying to plan a second date next week.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: YinYanga on August 07, 2014, 01:41:02 PM
Quote from: Autumn on August 07, 2014, 01:19:36 PM
Yesterday I went on my first date since being out. It was everything I could have asked for and more. She was so sweet and cute. We really hit it off and are trying to plan a second date next week.

Awesome!! :-*

My first one was this week aswell and while it was a lot of fun it wasnt as "sparky" as yours sounded. Maybe in a few weeks when she gets back from vacation we might start feeling something....I hope so because she's a beautiful person from what Ive seen. Or I could end up with a good friend if nothing develops , which is nice too
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on August 07, 2014, 11:51:13 PM
I got a lot of things accomplished and bills paid. So  :eusa_dance: YaY! I have the next 3 days to do what I want.

Ali :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: DelKay on August 07, 2014, 11:58:25 PM
i took some measurements for a yard im working on for a friend. im getting into landscaping and im getting some work every now and then this summer for experience. anyway he was impressed with the measurements for his backyard and hes starting to see a vision for it. got another client in the morning so i should sleep.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eris on August 08, 2014, 12:00:50 PM
This may not sound happy at first but bear with me :laugh:

After going to Edinburgh for my first IPL appointment for my chest (which is now pretty red) my return train was cancelled due to signalling difficulties. After being sent on a different train and then being told to get off and turn around again to come back for a bus which didn't exist I finally got on a new train bound for home an hour later.

During that time (and the following two hours by train) I managed to strike up a conversation with a fellow passenger in the same predicament. We had some entertaining discussion, (hobbies, uni etc...) and generally enjoyed each-others company. She's a bit of a human rights activist and the discussion strayed onto politics and discrimination and after a few minutes contemplation I told her that I was trans. She reacted pretty well, telling me that she was impressed that I was trying to be myself given the prejudice which still exists for us (not that I've experienced much of that yet, but there's still time :(). She had a couple of questions and expressed the intention to learn more about transitioning and the struggles we face. After that we went back to talking about politics including our mutual disdain for radical feminists who give the rest of us a bad name.

We exchanged numbers and the next time I'm back in Edinburgh we'll meet up and go for a coffee :)
It's nice to have a stranger accept you for who you are. It's even better when you make a new friend ;D
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Post by: Jenny07 on August 09, 2014, 03:32:08 AM
Mark off another 2 hours with the pain monster today.
I kind of like it. Still pain is not that bad killing the white hairs one at a time.

Still a way to go.

Had a good time there, as feel a good connection with her.

Grace be kind with her.  ;)

J
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Post by: Naturally Blonde on August 09, 2014, 05:01:45 AM
I wish!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on August 09, 2014, 07:37:08 AM
During the tail end of my 30hrs work over two days recived a $22 tip (not much but it all helps and I don't have to share).

At about hour 28-29 the punter who gave me the tip was chatting me up and treating me as a girl. (Face not completley cleared and wearing no make up, summoning all my powers to be happy and chearful as by the I was so tierd)

Was able to particapate in a pun war on Susan's between races when it was a little bit quiet
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Post by: Dee Marshall on August 09, 2014, 04:19:33 PM
Today Sweety and I went shopping. She desperately needed new clothes. I helped her pick them out and gave my opinions. Picked some things out for her. We winnowed them down then went to check out. She couldn't get two tops she really wanted. The clerk asked if she wanted the store credit card. She said she knew she'd be refused so they offered it to me. I present male, but now I'm the proud possessor of an Avenue credit card! That will come in handy soon enough.

Next, Mani-pedis. My toes are being polished as I write. I think the color is too dark, but the precedent  is set. I won't polish my finger nails yet.

After this, dinner. A perfect girls day out. I'm so proud of how my Sweety is adjusting and stretching. We even talked about how freeing for me shopping with her is.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoe Louise Taylor on August 09, 2014, 04:21:53 PM
Going shopping in sheffield city centre!! And not caring if anyone was looking at me :) was lovely!! x
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on August 09, 2014, 04:59:02 PM
New shoes!!!
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Post by: Kaylin Kumiho on August 09, 2014, 05:22:47 PM
When my gf and I went to see Guardians of the Galaxy today, the ticket lady correctly gendered me, and didn't take it back either!
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Post by: YinYanga on August 10, 2014, 03:58:50 AM

*high fives Kaylin*

Funtimes!
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Post by: Tessa James on August 11, 2014, 01:10:08 AM
This is the historic Astoria Regatta, since 1984, the oldest celebration in the State of Oregon.  This weekend we were graced by Susan's Julie Blair and other wonderful family and friends who marched in the Grand Land Parade and sailed the Columbia River.  On these occasions we flew the LGBTQ rainbow pennant and sang the songs of our heart, freedom and the sea.  Visibility is advocacy for equity.  Great memories and closer ties made fast today mateys :D
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Post by: Allyda on August 11, 2014, 01:22:57 PM
Quote from: Kaylin Kumiho on August 09, 2014, 05:22:47 PM
When my gf and I went to see Guardians of the Galaxy today, the ticket lady correctly gendered me, and didn't take it back either!
Kudos to you Kaylin! Being gendered correctly is a rite of passage. I'm very happy for you. I thought Guardians of the Galaxy was a cute movie. Definitely one I'll add to my collection.

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: nikkit72 on August 12, 2014, 06:02:27 PM
After a day of dysphoria visiting Mother, who I love dearly, with each purpouseful misgendering and old name calling like a ball pein hammer to the scull and a dagger twisting in the eye, after all this time and change, I needed this......  :icon_ashamed:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1375.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fag452%2Fnikkinoo72%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F20140810_194932_HDR_zps95e7b671.jpg&hash=10a6eb78edc44b37a3d08207a5b09a36c1544c41)

And there it was. Gone.  :o

Mine was the bit that looks like Pacman :P
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Post by: Kaylee Angelia on August 12, 2014, 06:33:14 PM
Had my first electrolysis consultation and treatment today. OUCH!! But YAY!!! Then had my therapy appointment right after. It's been a good day. :)
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Post by: Allyda on August 12, 2014, 06:41:44 PM
For once during a nasty rainy day, I didn't have to go out in it! I got to stay home all day! :D Too bad I can't say the same for tomorrow, lol!

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: Kaylee Angelia on August 12, 2014, 09:00:00 PM
Actually I take back my earlier post. When I met with the Electrolysis Practitioner today and we were talking I smiled and she told me, "With those dimples your going to make a beautiful woman." Ugh...no words...no words... 
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Post by: rosinstraya on August 13, 2014, 08:40:36 AM
A male friend has said he'll go out - wherever - with me, and I now have two women who'll "take me shopping". Probably not at the same time  :)
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Post by: Autumn on August 20, 2014, 03:08:00 PM
Got my court ordered name change granted!  ;D
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Post by: Tessa James on August 21, 2014, 02:54:38 PM
Congratulations Autumn!  A big step in being YOU ;D
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Post by: Allyda on August 21, 2014, 03:11:14 PM
Quote from: Autumn on August 20, 2014, 03:08:00 PM
Got my court ordered name change granted!  ;D
I'm so happy for you Autumn! :) I know the elation you must be feeling.

What made me happy today? I was able to help out a neighbor friend in need. She's a widow and a good friend who may be showing a little more interest than is wanted, but I attest that to her being lonely as both her kids moved out leaving her alone. Since we both are a little lonely being we live by ourselves, it's good we can keep each other company. Actually she's quite slim and pretty too. Anyhoo, It made me feel good and happy to help out a friend in need. :)

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: Jenny07 on August 23, 2014, 05:32:56 PM
Finding a bra that fits like a glove and I can hardly notice I have on.
Also that it is doing its job now my babies are growing nicely.

It feels so right and I feel calm and contented for one small moment that it's wonderful to feel very feminine.

Also looking forward to a lunch next week with some of the girls.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 25, 2014, 06:47:45 AM
It has been almost 3 months since my face lift surgery & my face finally looks normal. That is such a nice relief. I plan to start back on electrolysis for remaining facial hairs & have returned to my normal level of HRT.
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Post by: Jenny07 on August 26, 2014, 07:15:28 AM
Had a nice lunch today. Company was better.

Thanks. :)
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Post by: Ms Grace on August 26, 2014, 07:27:20 AM
We rock! ;D
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 26, 2014, 07:58:04 AM
Appointment for Saturday with electro lady, she is so nice. We will zap away some more facial hairs, my 8 or 9th visit. My face is looking so much cleaner & life is going good.
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Post by: Madeline182 on August 26, 2014, 10:16:59 AM
Got blood results back just now!!!
After two months:
Estrodiol - 505 PG/ML
Testosterone - 21 NG/DL

No adjustments needed, well within normal ranges in all points, and down another 3lbs!!
Time to do a little dance!
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Post by: Allyda on August 26, 2014, 02:22:52 PM
I'm going to get to meet a new friend this upcoming month after the holiday and am very excited about that and the fact this awful month of August is early over. Hoping for better luck financially next month.

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 27, 2014, 09:18:53 AM
I'm glad to start back with electrolysis this Saturday. After my facelift I needed to heal for quite a while but now I should be fine to proceed on toward a clean face. I'm lucky, my lady is nearby, very nice to talk with, she does a very good job & really does not charge me very much since I visit quite often. I'm sure glad to get back on my diet, while healing from surgery with no activity & got fat, yuck, yuck, yuck.
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Post by: Allyda on August 27, 2014, 07:28:44 PM
Actually this is a culmination of the last couple of weeks. 

Well, I've tried standard voice therapy to find my voice, nada, didn't work for me. You tube video tutorials, also, nada. I had almost given up as the damage done to my throat in my 91 accident was extensive.

However, lo and behold around two weeks ago I was singing along to a Katy Perry song that had somehow gotten stuck in my head(she's not what I usually listen to). The song is called: "I Kissed A Girl," and I noticed I was matching her pitch. As a former musician I know when notes match when I hear them. Well, at the time I didn't think much of it, and continued singing along while doing my housework.

Fast forward to 6 days ago, and i had decided to re-record my viocemail greeting. I noticed, with a huge smile mind you, that I couldn't match my old pre-hrt recording at all. My voice was too high. Well, I got to thinking and I also noticed I wasn't getting sirred as much on the phone anymore. So, I did my best to find the voice I was using to sing along to Katy Perry, and when I thought I was there I re-recorded a simple new greeting. When I played it back I couldn't believe my ears. I sounded feminine! Yay! It was weird, while speaking with my new voice what I hear in my head does sound higher, but not really feminine.

So anyway I started practicing every chance I could up until the culminating moment of my happiness over this, yesterday my phone rang, and I had decided to try using my new voice. It was my cable company, a male technician. I said hello. and he replied, How are you today maam! Yes!, yes!, yes!, I'm whispering holding the receiver to my leg so the guy couldn't hear. I then put it on speaker so my friend Reaver, who was on Skype video chat with me could hear. As the conversation continued it was "yes maam," or "no maam," throughout, and "goodbye maam," as we hung up. I was so so happy I could hardly contain myself! I've finally after 5 years of trying found my female voice!!

I'm a happy happy girl!

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: Jen♀ on August 27, 2014, 10:57:26 PM
I've decided to go by Jen in all (just about all) of my college classes. We are still going through introductions in this first week. So in one of my classes today, one girl said "Like Jen said yada yada yada", and it was the first time I had ever been addressed like that outside of my therapy sessions. Hearing her say that... I had a moment of "That's me... I'm Jen...". Gahhhh!! :D
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 28, 2014, 08:46:37 AM
Beautiful day where I live, think I'll go thrift store shopping today for fall clothes. I love to go shopping. Last night was nice, we have some very nice members of Susan's Place & it was fun talking with lots of girl friends about life, sex, HRT, etc....... Love my nearby Goodwill store, I love to shop & found some very nice fall dresses, a few other items & some cute little bags all so inexpensive.
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Post by: MyKa on August 28, 2014, 09:09:44 AM
Sleeping in till 9am!!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 29, 2014, 10:16:38 AM
It's so nice to be a member of Susan's Place. I asked a little question about hair loss & so many nice women replied with what really works to grow thick hair. Maybe some of us can be "Wen Girls". Thanks to them I am going to start a new program. Good luck GF's.
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Post by: Releca on August 29, 2014, 01:21:57 PM
Being able to spend time with like minded people who understand what I'm going through makes me happy. Also getting a chance to talk to a friend whom has been helping me out for the first time in 4 months face to face.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 30, 2014, 09:09:24 AM
Let's go shopping. My local Goodwill store has 50% off of everything today. I love to shop & it's great to sometimes find designer dresses so inexpensive. "I do not have a thing in my closet" as they say.
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Post by: Melizza on August 30, 2014, 09:16:38 AM
It has been 19 days after GRS and I feel really good today, I still have some pain but on general the new vagina looks really good and dilation is getting easier every time! I guess it may be time to go to a new size!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 30, 2014, 09:38:41 AM
Quote from: mzaomz on August 30, 2014, 09:16:38 AM
It has been 19 days after GRS and I feel really good today, I still have some pain but on general the new vagina looks really good and dilation is getting easier every time! I guess it may be time to go to a new size!
That is great news GF, enjoy & I hope the larger size feels great inside your nice vagina. Enjoy your Happy Dance.
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Post by: Allyda on August 30, 2014, 08:45:40 PM
I am awaiting a call back from the transgender center in Miami regarding scheduling for my SRS Surgery. This has had me on a cloud since I spoke with them on Friday!

Ali :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 31, 2014, 10:54:19 AM
I just love my 3 inch wedges I picked up from my local Goodwill store yesterday, so cute & only a big $2. I tried to post a nice pic but the file is too big???? Please have a nice Sunday, GF's.
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Post by: Eevee on August 31, 2014, 06:30:38 PM
Tomorrow I'm having a custom corset made for me and I have my first laser appointment on the 8th. Even when some things are going slow, I am staying happy with whatever I can get in-between.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on August 31, 2014, 10:15:55 PM
A corset. I remember those days, my waist was so so small & such curves. I looked great in anything slinky but be careful you can get those things so tight you literally cannot breath or bend over much at all. Mine were always Victorias Secret corsets with strong side bones & back multiple tighten cords.  Have fun but be careful GF.
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Post by: Eevee on August 31, 2014, 10:25:55 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on August 31, 2014, 10:15:55 PM
A corset. I remember those days, my waist was so so small & such curves. I looked great in anything slinky but be careful you can get those things so tight you literally cannot breath or bend over much at all. Mine were always Victorias Secret corsets with strong side bones & back multiple tighten cords.  Have fun but be careful GF.
Oh I'll definitely be careful. Custom-made corsets are much better in that regard. I'm also having it made by someone I know very well (my friend's mom) who runs a very professional business about that. I'm lucky to know her so well, so I'll be doing it right.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 02, 2014, 08:34:25 PM
A nice dentist visit today. My teeth are perfect & my technicial knows I'm feminine, taking HRT, having electrolysis, my recent facelift surgery....... We have a nice time talking about life. She is a pretty woman in her early 30's & a very nice girl friend. I'm welcome anytime in a pretty dress or old jeans.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 04, 2014, 08:31:41 AM
I did some nice purple nail polish last night. It looked good. I must feel good it's been months since purple polish. Life is good.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 05, 2014, 08:52:58 AM
My electrolysis lady is so funny & nice to talk with. We are starting back soon & maybe I can laugh through the pain. My face is looking cleaner & each visit is worthwhile. So kinda happy stuff.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 07, 2014, 07:26:58 AM
It's a nice cool day where I live. There is a touch of fall in the air. I look forward to dressing nicer this fall & winter, some nice new pantyhose on a cold day will feel good. 
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Post by: secret on September 07, 2014, 10:30:57 AM
Finally being sure that HRT has done its work on the shape of my hipy and legs. Yay!
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Post by: Mark3 on September 07, 2014, 01:58:53 PM
Seeing a Sunday cover story in the New York Times today covering the modeling career and life of trans supermodel Andreja Pejic..! <3

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi24.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fc34%2Fmarkfloridaboy%2FIMG_306521793852248_zpse2vwghhj.jpeg&hash=7c8358cfbc108619e5be2cbb923b8bc148cae129) (http://s24.photobucket.com/user/markfloridaboy/media/IMG_306521793852248_zpse2vwghhj.jpeg.html)
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Post by: GingerMaxim on September 08, 2014, 04:12:00 AM
What makes me happy is how big and feeling how soft my boobs are getting.
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Post by: K Style Addiction on September 10, 2014, 07:10:04 PM
Quote from: Mark3 on September 07, 2014, 01:58:53 PM
Seeing a Sunday cover story in the New York Times today covering the modeling career and life of trans supermodel Andreja Pejic..! <3

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi24.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fc34%2Fmarkfloridaboy%2FIMG_306521793852248_zpse2vwghhj.jpeg&hash=7c8358cfbc108619e5be2cbb923b8bc148cae129) (http://s24.photobucket.com/user/markfloridaboy/media/IMG_306521793852248_zpse2vwghhj.jpeg.html)

That's great, my god i didn't think it was possible but she's even prettier now! lucky girl.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 13, 2014, 05:12:23 AM
It  makes me happy to wake up a little more female each day, my breasts are growing nicely, I look forward to my spiro & fin pills, my nails are growing out, my body hair & facial hair are so much less, excited to maybe date a nice new man this fall & winter, so many other good things. Just everything about being more of a nicer woman feels great.
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Post by: Cindy on September 13, 2014, 05:33:14 AM
Took my wife out for fish and chips at the beach for the first time in six months. She so enjoyed it.

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Post by: Allyda on September 13, 2014, 06:18:31 AM
Today I finally get to start my injections! YaY! Not fond of the idea of stabbing myself but hey, it's a small price to pay to get my E levels up to where they belong. The tablets even taken sublingually just weren't able to bring my E levels into the desired range. I'm a very happy girl this morning! :eusa_dance:

Ally :icon_joy:
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Post by: Eevee on September 13, 2014, 03:19:19 PM
First laser treatment today!
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Post by: Jenny07 on September 13, 2014, 06:40:27 PM
A beautiful morning in Sydney for once, been raining for the last month.
Got out on my bike for 100kms. Nice.

Even with  sports bra they show a bit under the tight cycle top. :)
So happy
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Post by: GingerMaxim on September 14, 2014, 11:17:31 AM
I'm wearing ALL white. With my 6inch knee high boots
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 14, 2014, 11:34:34 AM
It makes me happy to watch the TV show, "Say yes to the dress" it's so nice to see women picking out their wedding dress. I only wish but it's still fun to imagine being a bride.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 15, 2014, 06:35:53 AM
Appointment with my electrolysis lady for Saturday. We are going to use her NuFree system to remove all my facial hairs. It's a warm wax type system that removes each hair & the entire root. I'll let me hairs grow all week so it's easier for the system to work. I've had this done before & it is so nice to have a 100% clean no hair face. Each time she does this less & less hairs grow back. It's not permanent but it helps a lot to reduce hair growth. Then later we will resume electrolysis on more stubborn hairs. My hair has slowed in growth & this system is quick & easy with very little pain. I'm happy to be back on plan with my Electro lady for this fall & winter to improve my face. I look very nice & feminine without facial hair. With a little makeup, lipstick & a short hair nice wig (my normal hair is just not thick enough) I'm very feminine & quite passable to anyone at anytime. So I'll be a happy girl after Saturday.
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on September 15, 2014, 10:08:43 AM
Two things actually, I was at the supermarket and this young kid directed me to a different checkout line.  He used the word Ma'am and then when I turned toward him directly he paused, then gave an unsure sir.  I was'nt really dressed femiinine, just womans boot cut jeans, a pair of stacked heeled ankle boots, and a men's light square hemmed summer type shirt, and no makeup.  It took me a sec to realize what just happened and I lit up 'inside' like a christmas tree.  Nice boy but he just may need to see an eye doctor  :) , will take it nonetheless.  Second, this led to an examination in front of the mirror for a profile check and realized that I have lost enough weight to easily move to an size 8 pair of jeans.  I like these kind of days, and my first Ma'am (no matter the circumstances) are in my mental rolodex.  Dani
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Post by: Eevee on September 15, 2014, 03:18:02 PM
I was originally scheduled to see an endocrinologist a couple months from now, but now I have a better option. My therapist found a doctor here who can give me the same treatment and prescriptions, and I just scheduled an appointment for next Monday. That's just the initial appointment, and I'm sure I won't be starting HRT quite that soon, but it's still better than December.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on September 15, 2014, 06:14:18 PM
I've been wearing a B Cup bra for a little while, but I had this one push up bra that for some reason I didn't fill. (Not all bra manufacturers are the same on cup size.) I haven't tried it on in a month and this morning I put it one and I filled the cups all the way :) A big smile also came across my wife's face as well as mine :)
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Post by: Allyda on September 15, 2014, 06:24:51 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on September 15, 2014, 06:14:18 PM
I've been wearing a B Cup bra for a little while, but I had this one push up bra that for some reason I didn't fill. (Not all bra manufacturers are the same on cup size.) I haven't tried it on in a month and this morning I put it one and I filled the cups all the way :) A big smile also came across my wife's face as well as mine :)
Congratulations Sydney! Sounds like your filling in nicely.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 16, 2014, 07:57:14 AM
I'm very happy for a close girl friend. Her birthday is today. We have been friends since grammar school & even first grade. She is helping me so much & sincerely wants be to become her complete Aunt Francis to her grand children. I hope to be her friend for life when 2 women can sit together & enjoy each others company, maybe go shopping, do some cooking, etc.....
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Post by: ImagineKate on September 17, 2014, 01:04:46 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on September 17, 2014, 12:58:58 PM
It's a beautiful day for some garden & yard work. Now if I can just not break a nail I'll be a happy girl.

LOL! I know what you're talking about... mine are growing out, but splitting like crazy! So I trimmed them back a bit and put some clear nail polish on them. That ought to hold it.
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Post by: Rose City Rose on September 17, 2014, 06:50:26 PM
What made me happy?

Seeing the name and gender on my driver's license fixed at last, after a long and exhausting few months of preparations for the big change.

Now I don't have to worry about awkward questions when I have to show ID! ;D
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Post by: big kim on September 17, 2014, 06:56:23 PM
A guy I found to be really attractive in the bar felt the same way about me. We're meeting up on my day off,1st date this year!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 17, 2014, 07:28:33 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on September 17, 2014, 01:04:46 PM
LOL! I know what you're talking about... mine are growing out, but splitting like crazy! So I trimmed them back a bit and put some clear nail polish on them. That ought to hold it.
If they are splitting there must be some reason. Maybe take biotin to strengthen them or something to make your nails stronger. Mine never split, somtimes I break one from doing something wrong with my fingers. Some clear polish is very hard as it dries, maybe use that. Good luck GF. And there may be something wrong with your diet GF, ??? Do you drink a lot of milk, good stuff.
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Post by: MelissaAnn on September 17, 2014, 07:33:52 PM
 ;D ;DToday I set up my first appointment for makeup consultation. Some quite excited about doing that on Friday! And she said she'd be more than happy to teach me anything that I needed to know. I can't wait ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: Paige Anne on September 17, 2014, 07:54:53 PM
I had the thought that my life would never be the same, and I couldn't be happier about it. ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 17, 2014, 09:01:00 PM
 :D I had therapy today and I love my therapist, as she gets as excited as I do when I have a good day. Today I was able to talk about how my talk went with my mother. I started th conversation two weks ago and my mother had a completely different view than I thought she would. I got scared as I could not get my thoughts out right, so I ended the conversation. I called her last week and I informed her of my trans status and feelings and she said that if that is what it takes to make me happy, transition,  then that is what I should. That has to bethe happiest day of my life over the last thre e years .

I now feel closer to my mother than I ever have. Life would really suck with MOMs so lets all give a big to our mothers!!
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Post by: Ferretty on September 18, 2014, 12:39:02 AM
Coming out to my best friend today was a huge load off my chest, we haven't really discussed anything beyond just, I am transgendered, but he's a good guy, so I'm sure it'll work out.  ;)
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Post by: ★ Sophia ★ on September 18, 2014, 03:47:47 PM
Removing my leg and arm hair today. Really happy about that!! :D
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Post by: Allyda on September 19, 2014, 04:33:23 PM
I found an Plastic/Reconstructive Surgeon today with MTF TG experience who really seems committed into helping me have my SRS, maybe even by my original December timetable! I spoke to him and his assistant at length and they really want to help me. While it's too soon to know for sure I have a really great feeling about this one. And also my consults will be done virtually like I wanted so as to save me on travel expenses. He's supposed to contact me Monday with scheduling details. This just might be it girls, gents! I'm finally moving forward again on this and for this weekend at least I'm a very happy girl! :D

Ally ;)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 19, 2014, 09:13:16 PM
I was adopted today & have a new very nice sister. No kidding a woman I went to grammar school with has no family at all & I really do not have any family either. So today she offered to adopt me as her sister & I accepted. She is my best friend & we will be sisters for life. I'm pretty happy about this & we are both serious about this commitment.
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Post by: Emmaline on September 20, 2014, 06:47:20 AM
Only four months hrt and I got complete passes all day today whilst clothes shopping, culminating with a guy point blank checking me out.  Yikes!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 20, 2014, 08:55:43 AM
Off to the beauty shop today for my lady friend to perform some majic. I've had lots of electrolysis however today she is going to remove all facial hairs. She uses a salon system called NuFree that is a warm type jelly, it opens the pores & any hair comes out easy without any pain. She also uses a numbing cream before to help keep me from crying. I've had this done before & it is so nice to have a completly smooth face. We plan to continue doing this every 2-3 weeks & as the more sutbborn hairs regrow then we will zap them. With each treatment any hair grows back slower so it does help with the overall removal of all facial hair, Oh happy day!
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 20, 2014, 02:00:09 PM
Playing with my grand-daughter.
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Post by: Mariah on September 20, 2014, 02:58:50 PM
Putting my first Estradiol trans-dermal pad on.
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Post by: Allyda on September 21, 2014, 12:07:28 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on September 20, 2014, 02:58:50 PM
Putting my first Estradiol trans-dermal pad on.
Congratulations Mariah on beginning this wonderful journey! :eusa_dance:

Best wishes! :icon_bunch:

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: K Style Addiction on September 21, 2014, 11:20:27 PM
Belated, last week i went out to the doctor without any make up on. Twice i got referred to as "She, Her" and when asking my mom a question "Your Daughter". I didn't hear clearly but a third guy saw my mother and i, i heard "Hello Lady", she said it was "Hello ladies"...regardless, considering i had no make up great day for me.
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Post by: Bols on September 22, 2014, 04:58:47 AM
Going shopping for female clothes with my wife for the first time today. Was a bit uncomfortable, as she is struggling, but she lifted her game and went through it anyway. I want to hug her so much!
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Post by: Foxglove on September 22, 2014, 02:21:08 PM
OK, this actually happened yesterday, but I didn't get around to posting it.

Now you know how sometimes the question is asked who your role model is, who you'd most like to be like.  Some girls have a favourite movie star in mind, or some say Hooters girls, that kind of thing.  The more sensible ones, I think, simply answer, "I just want to be me!"  Now I've never been particularly sensible, and I think it's a lost cause at this point, so I'll say that I've always envied "the smart lady about town".  Like one I saw one time: smashing coat, skirt and boots. Talk about being envious.

Just yesterday, however, a (cisgender) girlfriend of mine told me that a few days previously she'd seen me in town crossing the street.  She said I looked really good in my all-black outfit.  I wish I'd had a tape recorder with me so I could have a record of all the stuff she said. I fairly well floated home.  It was like a dream come true.

Your dreams will never be anything but dreams unless you try to make them real.
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Post by: Lostkitten on September 22, 2014, 02:30:56 PM
Happened partly yesterday, partly today. I posted my 'coming out' picture to Facebook which you can see here:

http://s45.photobucket.com/user/Kirey3000/media/IMG_5244_2_zps29e1d5fe.jpg.html

Everyone responded very sweet and positive ^^. Weird enough it didn't sink in for me yet though that I posted it on Facebook, that everyone knows now > _ <. I guess I can finally upload pictures of what I look like now on Facebook without feeling nervous about it. Yet it still feels to me like I should wait but well! It feels good better than I used to now that everyone knows ^^.

Beside the many sweet messages of many friends, family and friends of friends, I liked the one the most which said; ' I can't think in a better, more natural way for saying that kind of thing to the world. That's called courage. Be happy!'

Gave me a yay feeling ^^, because that is exactly how I wanted it to come across. Natural, as not that much of a big deal and maybe that is why I don't realize it yet :P.
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Post by: antonia on September 22, 2014, 02:37:14 PM
Love it, I think that's the coolest coming out post I've seen, plus you look gorgeous, I think you deserve to be happy today and many more days to come.

Quote from: Kirey on September 22, 2014, 02:30:56 PM
Happened partly yesterday, partly today. I posted my 'coming out' picture to Facebook which you can see here:

http://s45.photobucket.com/user/Kirey3000/media/IMG_5244_2_zps29e1d5fe.jpg.html

Everyone responded very sweet and positive ^^. Weird enough it didn't sink in for me yet though that I posted it on Facebook, that everyone knows now > _ <. I guess I can finally upload pictures of what I look like now on Facebook without feeling nervous about it. Yet it still feels to me like I should wait but well! It feels good better than I used to now that everyone knows ^^.

Beside the many sweet messages of many friends, family and friends of friends, I liked the one the most which said; ' I can't think in a better, more natural way for saying that kind of thing to the world. That's called courage. Be happy!'

Gave me a yay feeling ^^, because that is exactly how I wanted it to come across. Natural, as not that much of a big deal and maybe that is why I don't realize it yet :P.
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Post by: Eevee on September 22, 2014, 02:58:10 PM
I just saw a doctor today that could prescribe whatever an endocrinologist could, so I don't have to wait a few more months for that appointment. She gave me some paperwork to get a blood test, and she's going to start me on HRT as soon as the results from that get in.

I

am

excited!

;D
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on September 22, 2014, 08:20:09 PM
I went to the ATM today at the bank where their were 2 ATM machines and only one was being used by me. This gentleman was waiting for me to finish and as I was turning around he says to me: "I'm sorry for starring, but you are so beautiful and tall that I didn't even see the other machine." I replied politely "Thank you" as I left and he just smiled. Even though I'm a lesbian and would have no interest in him, it still felt nice :)
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Post by: Allyda on September 23, 2014, 12:11:37 AM
Quote from: Kirey on September 22, 2014, 02:30:56 PM
Happened partly yesterday, partly today. I posted my 'coming out' picture to Facebook which you can see here:

http://s45.photobucket.com/user/Kirey3000/media/IMG_5244_2_zps29e1d5fe.jpg.html

Everyone responded very sweet and positive ^^. Weird enough it didn't sink in for me yet though that I posted it on Facebook, that everyone knows now > _ <. I guess I can finally upload pictures of what I look like now on Facebook without feeling nervous about it. Yet it still feels to me like I should wait but well! It feels good better than I used to now that everyone knows ^^.

Beside the many sweet messages of many friends, family and friends of friends, I liked the one the most which said; ' I can't think in a better, more natural way for saying that kind of thing to the world. That's called courage. Be happy!'

Gave me a yay feeling ^^, because that is exactly how I wanted it to come across. Natural, as not that much of a big deal and maybe that is why I don't realize it yet :P.
I think it's so cool how you did this^^___^^. Oh and you look beautiful by the way. I like your style girl! :)

Ally ;)
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 23, 2014, 06:38:30 AM
A lot of anxiety yesterday and i got through it, with a little help. today I go see a shrink and discuss meds for all that ails me, mentaly.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 23, 2014, 06:54:02 AM
My nails are getting nice & long. Lots of girlfriends are giving me support not to break a nail & grow some really long nails this fall & winter. That will be fun, it's kind of like a contest between us girls to see who can grow the nicest nails.
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Post by: Lostkitten on September 23, 2014, 10:30:24 AM
Thank you everyone for the responses ^^.
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Post by: ImagineKate on September 23, 2014, 10:53:47 AM
Quote from: Allyda on September 23, 2014, 12:11:37 AM
I think it's so cool how you did this^^___^^. Oh and you look beautiful by the way. I like your style girl! :)

Ally ;)

Haha yes I agree! That pic was epic! Totally badass!
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Post by: Foxglove on September 23, 2014, 12:55:09 PM
I was walking down the street this morning and met an old boy going the other way.  He might have been in his 70s, but I'd say 80s would be more likely.  At any rate, he tipped his hat to me.  I've never had that before.  It was quite nice.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on September 23, 2014, 10:54:11 PM
This evening I had my last laser session for facial hair removal. I was told, that if anything else that may pop up, electrolysis (which is still going on a bi-weekly level now) will take care of. I was doing laser on the dark hairs and electrolysis on the light colored hairs.
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Post by: Trini on September 23, 2014, 11:57:36 PM
Been playing with my hair more and more today and noticing it's getting longer. SUCCESS!!!!
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Post by: kelly_aus on September 24, 2014, 05:10:10 AM
Today I walked out of my last session with a gender therapist. He says I no longer have any need for a gender specialist - in fact, he can't see me needing any kind of therapy. Almost 4 years to the day since I first saw him.

I got my walking papers and I'm a free woman!  ;D :icon_joy: :icon_yes: :icon_chick:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 24, 2014, 05:40:18 AM
Beauty shop appointment for Saturday morning. My lady friend blocks out Saturdays for me & I help her clean up her office & we talk about life. We both have struggles in life like all women. We will work more on facial hair removal however I'm also going to let her wax my legs. Smooth legs just feel so nice it's well worth it rather than shaving & stubble later, yuck. And this will be a nice reward after electro painful work on my face. So today I'm a happy girl. Life is great.
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Post by: immortal gypsy on September 24, 2014, 06:31:37 AM
Found out the pub across from work was asking about me to work for them. It was all "What is she like", "Do the customers like her". I present similar to my avatar just no make up so yay :)
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 24, 2014, 07:43:48 AM
Received a personal message from one Older TG on here just to let me know that someone cares and is there to listen and a shoulder to cry on.

:angel: are among us. 
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 25, 2014, 06:01:17 AM
My scalp hair is definetly thicker so I think 6 months plus of finasteride actually worked & I have new growth in some areas. I'm pretty happy with than GF's. But I have too much grey & I'm going to color my hair today. It's really easy & kind of fun to do. Just an auburn brown color, nothing flashy. 
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Post by: Jenny07 on September 25, 2014, 06:49:24 AM
Have had a manic week due to getting organised for an important client meeting today.

Put on my suit jacket today and WTF? Things are growing out of control as it barely fit.
Hmmm. Not much longer now. My time is nearly up as him. I might poke an eye out.

Oh the meeting went really well and the work paid off big time.
My boss told me I am brilliant yesterday so I must be the Doctor?
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 25, 2014, 07:04:27 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on September 25, 2014, 06:49:24 AM
Have had a manic week due to getting organised for an important client meeting today.

Put on my suit jacket today and WTF? Things are growing out of control as it barely fit.
Hmmm. Not much longer now. My time is nearly up as him. I might poke an eye out.

Oh the meeting went really well and the work paid off big time.
My boss told me I am brilliant yesterday so I must be the Doctor?
Be nice GF. Don't poke someone's eye out!
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Post by: whatever on September 25, 2014, 07:41:20 AM
2nd assessors interview completed so surgery with Dr. Brassard is a go for later next year :)
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 25, 2014, 11:26:20 AM
I was able to feed a homeless couple today. Made their day as they said they had not eaten in two days. Not looking for kudos, it just makes my life easier when I am able to help someone else.
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Post by: Allyda on September 25, 2014, 01:32:02 PM
Quote from: Davida on September 25, 2014, 11:26:20 AM
I was able to feed a homeless couple today. Made their day as they said they had not eaten in two days. Not looking for kudos, it just makes my life easier when I am able to help someone else.
I know the feeling. It always makes me feel good to help someone less fortunate.

Ally ;)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 25, 2014, 03:19:40 PM
Colored my hair today to a Medium Golden Brown. It's looks very nice. Garnier is easy to use, colors throughly & not expensive at all.
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Post by: Brenda E on September 25, 2014, 09:08:34 PM
Quote from: kelly_aus on September 24, 2014, 05:10:10 AM
Today I walked out of my last session with a gender therapist. He says I no longer have any need for a gender specialist - in fact, he can't see me needing any kind of therapy. Almost 4 years to the day since I first saw him.

I got my walking papers and I'm a free woman!  ;D :icon_joy: :icon_yes: :icon_chick:

That's a huge development, Kelly!  Congratulations on putting in all that work to make yourself mentally strong and healthy.  I do hope you continue to stay in contact with your ex-therapist as a friend.
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Post by: Ali on September 26, 2014, 01:11:41 AM
Quote from: Kirey on September 22, 2014, 02:30:56 PM
Happened partly yesterday, partly today. I posted my 'coming out' picture to Facebook which you can see here:

http://s45.photobucket.com/user/Kirey3000/media/IMG_5244_2_zps29e1d5fe.jpg.html

Everyone responded very sweet and positive ^^. Weird enough it didn't sink in for me yet though that I posted it on Facebook, that everyone knows now > _ <. I guess I can finally upload pictures of what I look like now on Facebook without feeling nervous about it. Yet it still feels to me like I should wait but well! It feels good better than I used to now that everyone knows ^^.

Beside the many sweet messages of many friends, family and friends of friends, I liked the one the most which said; ' I can't think in a better, more natural way for saying that kind of thing to the world. That's called courage. Be happy!'

Gave me a yay feeling ^^, because that is exactly how I wanted it to come across. Natural, as not that much of a big deal and maybe that is why I don't realize it yet :P.

yaaaaay congrats,
I loved it all , the font choice the picture the minimalist look wow. gosh those designers know what they are doing with their life ;)
all the best hun
xoxo
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 26, 2014, 06:15:36 PM
Off to the Beauty Salon tomorrow morning to get zapped/more hair removed. I'm happy for any hair removed from my face. Long ago I told my electro lady that if & when she finally cleans up my face that I would dance in the middle of the street wearing a pink too too. She still reminds me & wants to see that. 
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Post by: Abby Claire on September 26, 2014, 06:34:10 PM
Got new panties. Cute and comfy and I like how they make my butt look.  :D
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Post by: Destiny Marie on September 27, 2014, 02:44:28 PM
Just knowing that I was able to revive someone's ambition with just a few thoughts.
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Post by: tuuliu on September 27, 2014, 03:15:13 PM
Spent the evening with a Pakistani couple who I've known for years but got distant from in the past year because of needing a safe space for transition. I came out of the closet to them some weeks ago and now we met for the first time since. He told me nice nails (with black polish), we ate pasta and blueberry pie. Showed them pics in makeup, she said I was pretty ^_^
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Post by: Jenny07 on September 28, 2014, 04:50:38 AM
Noticed some more nice changes today.

Have the first signs of a waist happening.
B1 and 2 continue to grow nicely.

Just how stong is this E?
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 28, 2014, 05:59:20 AM
Such a smooth face, not one hair anywhere. I had my beauty shop lady do NuFree on my face yesterday, a warm wax to remove every hair. I've had some electro work, 8 or 9 sessions however I decided to allow her to do what she does for all of her other women clients. She removes all hair by the root & then when it grows back out in 3-4 weeks she keeps repeating the process. Each time the hairs grow back thinner & thinner. Then for the stubborn hairs she does electrolysis. My lady is a pro at hair removal with 20 years of experience. And from her my remaining facial hairs are not any worse than some of her cis women clients. This was my second complete treatment. I look great & how nice to have a completly smooth face.
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Post by: Monica Jean on September 28, 2014, 11:29:31 AM
spiro and e are now working better together.  Last night, it seems the marriage of these two are now making for an even-flow of emotions and unparalleled clarity of my emotions than I have ever experienced, by far!  My b-day is right around the corner, I couldn't ask for anything better than this!!


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Post by: Rachel on September 28, 2014, 03:00:54 PM
I went to the beach today with my daughter and really enjoyed the day. This time last week she was having a meltdown over me and being trans and "needing a hair cut". 

I guess not overreacting has it's benefits.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 29, 2014, 09:40:39 AM
Going shopping, yea! My local Goodwill store will not be crowded at all on a Monday & need some more dresses for fall & winter. Maybe I can find 3 or 4 in my size. Since ths store will not be crowded today I'll shop slow & try on each dress to make sure it fits & that I really like it.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 30, 2014, 06:41:16 AM
I found 4 very nice dresses, 2 pair of wedges, blouse & a nice skirt for all of $42 at my local Goodwill store. I'm going to call & make an appointment with my physician today for a blood test check to make sure my HRT levels are as high as possible. I feel good however I want to make sure my body is improving as fast as it can.
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Post by: Tessa James on September 30, 2014, 01:05:23 PM
Just waking up to sunshine pouring in while laying back with my life partner next to a curled up kitty and my transgender dog Emmy Lou.  It is fun and an easy way to talk about trans* issues by introducing Emmet/Emmy Lou as my transgender dog.  Hanging out at the dog park is fun and another part of my happiness.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 30, 2014, 01:59:35 PM
Thank you, that was so funny. I have 2 cis female dogs so I kind of understand.
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Post by: Tessa James on September 30, 2014, 02:34:52 PM
My aussie has had her orchiectomy, likes to squat when urinating and gets mounted more frequently than attempted mounting of others.  She is so good looking people assume she is female (wish I had that problem) and I am very happy to tell folks she is transgender.  And she never argues with me about it!

Our pets are real ice breakers ;)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on September 30, 2014, 03:42:29 PM
Quote from: Tessa James on September 30, 2014, 02:34:52 PM
My aussie has had her orchiectomy, likes to squat when urinating and gets mounted more frequently than attempted mounting of others.  She is so good looking people assume she is female (wish I had that problem) and I am very happy to tell folks she is transgender.  And she never argues with me about it!

Our pets are real ice breakers ;)
I'm still laughing, so cool. Mine are funny, same registered breed, 2 sisters, one is thin active beautiful girl & the other sister is fat & sloppy. Kind of like people I guess.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on September 30, 2014, 03:45:14 PM
Checked my measurements today, first time since spring. I've lost 2" of circumference everywhere,... Except my boobs!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 01, 2014, 04:12:16 PM
Today was a very good day for me. I met with a new physician & he was very impressed that I looked & seemed so feminine & happy with life. He agreed to give me any script I needed. We are awaiting results of blood tests to see my current t & e levels so if need be to make adjustments. The most pleasant part was that a compounding pharmist was right down the hall & the lady was very experienced in HRT for women. So with both of these peoples help I can continue to improve myself & become a much nicer more attractive woman. I'm very happy today.
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Post by: Eevee on October 01, 2014, 09:57:07 PM
Today I got some new shoes, some casual jewelry, a new top, and a jacket. My old male clothing selections are getting replaced more all the time. In face, I really only wear a couple old shirts anymore. Even those are almost phased out. My new "style" actually resembles my old one, but just has a bit more of a feminine edge to it that I never showed before. I'm definitely showing that I'm ready to move on with my life outwardly as much as I feel inside, and it's making me one happy woman.
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Post by: Destiny Marie on October 02, 2014, 07:46:45 AM
Yesterday, I had an appointment with my therapist, and my oldest Daughter went with me. I had just recently(Monday), told her of my gender issues. She is very confused and shocked, but told me that whatever i need to do she will be right by my side, and not to worry about people who do not like it as they can walk away and not have to see it or deal with it. now Both of my Daughters(ages 21 the oldest and 15 the other) know and they are my support team. I have also told my Mother and she said that if I need to become a woman to be complete and happy then that is what I need to do, she said that she might not like it or approve of it but she will be there for me no matter what I choose to do, as she will always love me as her Son or Daughter, which ever I end up in the end.

So I guess three out of four is not bad,as my Wife has told me that if I change my appearance in any way she will not be part of it, she does not understand it and will not subject herself to the scrutiny of others. So I a will likely be dealing with separation and divorce before long.
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Post by: tuuliu on October 02, 2014, 02:58:01 PM
I hit 5 months HRT today but had one of those days because of little sleep. I felt hopeless and like E is never going to work on me. In the evening I went to a support group evening, really tired, just minding my own space and feeling safe - not social at all. At some point I sparked conversation with a newcomer and she said she thought I was full time already. That made me beam.  ;D
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Post by: Allyda on October 02, 2014, 07:17:49 PM
Quote from: suzanne on October 02, 2014, 05:35:56 PM
My 10 year old sun tomorrow has his first speech in class about himself, and besides three other subjects over himself he wants to talk about how his father is becoming a woman. Pics included. . . I am so very proud of him!
Of course we feel scary about it but the teachers know about this and they have good protocols so nothing bad will happen to our brave little feller.
So yes, happy thing today, hope to have one follow up tomorrow.
Suzanne I'm impressed at what a brave and supportive son you have! Your post just made my day! :D

Ally ;)
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Post by: antonia on October 02, 2014, 07:31:27 PM
I think you can be very proud, to have the courage to go in front of his class and talk about it openly is awesome and brings tears to my eyes :)

Quote from: suzanne on October 02, 2014, 05:35:56 PM
My 10 year old sun tomorrow has his first speech in class about himself, and besides three other subjects over himself he wants to talk about how his father is becoming a woman. Pics included. . . I am so very proud of him!
Of course we feel scary about it but the teachers know about this and they have good protocols so nothing bad will happen to our brave little feller.
So yes, happy thing today, hope to have one follow up tomorrow.
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Post by: Mariah on October 02, 2014, 07:44:04 PM
Just being able to have a nice relaxing day without having to go anywhere. I'm always going somewhere, but not today.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 02, 2014, 09:47:13 PM
Such a nice story. I'm sure lots & lots of SP members wish you & your son only the best. Thank you for sharing.
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Post by: Allyda on October 02, 2014, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on October 02, 2014, 07:44:04 PM
Just being able to have a nice relaxing day without having to go anywhere. I'm always going somewhere, but not today.
I know the feeling^^___^^. Unfortunately it will be Tuesday next week before I'll get one of these days. :D

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 03, 2014, 07:12:52 AM
Tights, leggings & panty hose time, yea. Finally some nice cold crisp air.
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Post by: Allyda on October 03, 2014, 08:15:30 AM
Our weather is tracking a strong cold front coming through tomorrow bringing an end to this miserable rainy weather, and stiffling humidity, YaY!, and Sunday looks like great boating weather!!! Yea, I'll definitely be out on the water Sunday! :D

Ally ;)
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Post by: Assoluta on October 03, 2014, 09:39:32 AM
What made me happy - my boyfriend saying how my past doesn't matter, how he loves me so much and wants to make me happy. Even after becoming post op, hearing such words felt like the stuff of fantasy, for a number of reasons (trans being one obstacle), but life keeps on surprising me!
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Post by: Tessa James on October 03, 2014, 11:52:56 AM
Wow Suzanne, you and your family rock!  Way to go.
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Post by: KatrinaLynne on October 03, 2014, 12:21:50 PM
What's going to make me happy is that I am going in in about an hour for Radio Frequency Ablation on my back. If it works well I will have way less pain or no more pain in my back. Then I will be able to focus on more important things. Wish me luck!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 03, 2014, 12:50:50 PM
Quote from: suzanne on October 03, 2014, 11:44:54 AM
And he did it!
Told his stories, showed his pictures in front of his class just as he had planned to do.
Just the proud and happy look on his face when he came home, and telling me he told all he wanted and that it went better than he expected :)
Little happy camper . . . . .  ;D  (yep, all my fears yesterday where for nothing)

And another thing that made me happy today:

Got my 6 month checkup with my endo and psych today, found out that i lost a few pounds, but my hips are wider :) , and that last time i visit them after only 3 months hrt my testosteron and estro where already in the good female regions then, faster than expected.
Everything is fine, so I can continue my path.

Got an invitation if I wanted to contribute to some research program, they seem to have track of some DNA that is different in trans people, so I will donate some extra blood (three tubes) the next time in search of our origin.

Cheers! Suzanne.
Great for you & your son. Thank you so much for sharing good news, happy dance music.
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Post by: Eevee on October 03, 2014, 04:53:52 PM
I got my ears pierced today. They look great! ;D
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Post by: Monica Jean on October 03, 2014, 07:29:33 PM
What made me happy today was coming out to a friend who offered nothing but support and continued friendship. And he was the first person I have ever come out to ever.

A good day for sure!
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Post by: - Rachel - on October 03, 2014, 10:42:01 PM
I got my letter to change my gender marker on my driver's license to F.

"The applicant has undergone the appropriate gender transition clinical treatment"

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Post by: Mariah on October 04, 2014, 12:14:21 AM
Congrats Rachel!
I'm happy about today considering it was first time since the legal name change going into get my blood work done at laboratory and being able sign in with my preferred name.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 04, 2014, 06:00:18 AM
It is so nice to see & read stories of other mtF nice women that are enjoying a good life as a woman. I've been female for as long as I can remember, since childhood & only now am I finally improving my body to hopefully enjoy life fully as a woman. Thank you all so much & I hope we all can truly enjoy our new lives. Nice grocery store shopping trip dressed nice but casual, 2 decent men sure smiled at me. I did not respond much however I sure wanted to.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on October 04, 2014, 09:39:59 AM
I'm having a great cup of coffee, the sun is shining, I'm going to a friends birthday tonight and about to go out for a bike ride, this is how every day should start.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on October 04, 2014, 06:26:31 PM
The fact that I can no longer lift the 40 bags of cat litter for my 2 cats and now require assistance to deal with them.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cassie Soup on October 04, 2014, 11:27:07 PM
The fact that I was accpeted by some of my family today, I even went out to eat and to see a movie with my grandma, aunt, and cousin :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on October 05, 2014, 12:31:33 AM
Quote from: Cassie Soup on October 04, 2014, 11:27:07 PM
The fact that I was accpeted by some of my family today, I even went out to eat and to see a movie with my grandma, aunt, and cousin :)
That's wonderful news! I'm glad some family members out there are truly supportive of their own. That doesn't happen often enough.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on October 05, 2014, 01:32:02 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on October 04, 2014, 06:26:31 PM
The fact that I can no longer lift the 40 bags of cat litter for my 2 cats and now require assistance to deal with them.
Lol, just buy the smaller bags, it's what I had to do, lol!

Ally ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Teela Renee on October 05, 2014, 02:09:05 AM
my friend got me a breast pump.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: BreezyB on October 05, 2014, 02:35:09 AM
Quote from: Allyda on October 05, 2014, 01:32:02 AM
Lol, just buy the smaller bags, it's what I had to do, lol!

Ally ;)

Lol, I'm finding this too, wow, I can hardly lift the bags of shopping to the car  ::)

But what made me happy today was waking up to my beautiful children and making everyone breakfast
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on October 05, 2014, 05:54:31 AM
You're right, The smaller bags are the way to go because I'm not always going to be able to find someone else to lift those heavy bags.

Mariah
Quote from: Allyda on October 05, 2014, 01:32:02 AM
Lol, just buy the smaller bags, it's what I had to do, lol!

Ally ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: kaye on October 05, 2014, 08:09:58 AM
Brow bossing surgery and boob job. Just have to heal now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 05, 2014, 09:34:02 AM
Kaye, good for you GF. Please tell us what size breasts & if they feel & look great?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: BreezyB on October 05, 2014, 07:35:27 PM
Quote from: kaye on October 05, 2014, 08:09:58 AM
Brow bossing surgery and boob job. Just have to heal now.

Congrats Kaye, bet your a happy girl
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: madirocks on October 05, 2014, 07:41:45 PM
My boyfriend visited me and gave me a bouquet of white roses! :) And after a weeklong battle with confusion, etc.. I finally spoke with my best friend about what I'm going through. He is not going to be supportive, but I think it's what I needed to hear. Now I'm going to be so totally selfish and do what I want!!   ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on October 05, 2014, 07:55:52 PM
What made me happy...

Therapist appointment getting closer.

Went target shooting today and had grand old time.

Found a bunch of my old family photos where I was totally girling it up which tells me, this is me, it's long past time to embrace it.

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: kaye on October 06, 2014, 01:22:29 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 05, 2014, 09:34:02 AM
Kaye, good for you GF. Please tell us what size breasts & if they feel & look great?

I'm still bandaged up but from what little I've seen I think things have turned out well. Brow looks excellent too. Can't wait to heal up now. Feeling much better about myself.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 06, 2014, 01:17:46 PM
Blood test report. T is only 12 & E is at 186 so maybe my HRT levels are going well? I feel like I'm age 12 & finally receiving the correct hormones that I wanted & needed long ago. I've always been & felt female for as long as I can remember since very early childhood. I realize it will take time for a young girl to develop into a nice woman. Better late that never I guess.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on October 06, 2014, 04:43:15 PM
As I recall, those numbers are both within female normal ranges
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on October 06, 2014, 05:12:15 PM
I just got my first prescription for spiro and estradiol from the pharmacy today! I'm taking them now. I'm not going to make a lot of posts about progress, because I hate writing anything resembling a journal, but I am taking pictures along the way.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FDwgHIQf.jpg&hash=0ec4b02e2c6fdec2dcd47d144774f6402bb19ce5) (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FaaQru3i.jpg&hash=e0fd4c385458005f2f22fb660182d414dda279ff)

I'm wondering how that will compare each month.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: cassieohpia on October 06, 2014, 06:06:04 PM
Nu-bra.

Yay! They may be small but so what.

Two happy bunnies.
:)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Abby Claire on October 06, 2014, 06:45:00 PM
Got a call from the doctor. I have an appointment next Tuesday. HRT is fast becoming a reality.  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on October 06, 2014, 07:10:51 PM
Receiving a letter from my insurance carrier, that is another side affect of having my gender updated to female with them, for what they feel is an over do procedure (pap test) considering they don't ever see a claim having been filed for one. It my day seeing this piece of mail.

Mariah
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 06, 2014, 09:49:15 PM
Today I had my HRT checkup and my doctor was extremely happy with my progress (visually) and medically with my lab results. My testosterone levels were down to 5 ng/dL Total and .7 ng/dL Free. So much lower than the 121 ng/dL Total and 2.1 ng/dL Free 3 months ago prior to switching to injections. Also instead of seeing my HRT doctor every 3 month, now I only have to see her every 6 months.



Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: kaye on October 07, 2014, 12:28:11 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 05, 2014, 09:34:02 AM
Kaye, good for you GF. Please tell us what size breasts & if they feel & look great?

Seem to be full C/small D. Quite happy with them :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 07, 2014, 06:02:50 AM
Quote from: kaye on October 07, 2014, 12:28:11 AM
Seem to be full C/small D. Quite happy with them :)
Kaye, great for you & good luck on healing up. One of my cis women friends suggested Playtex 18 hour bras & they are so comfortable, no underwire to kill your self & they seem to have plenty of support. You can really wear this bra all day & not even notice it. Take care GF. I bet you look great!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on October 07, 2014, 10:37:33 PM
I'm actually having a very sad week right now but I won't go into those details

Broke out my tools today and may be able to fix my secondary shower for not that much money. Seems the real issue was a small metal pin I didnt remove has been my enemy this whole time.  :embarrassed:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on October 07, 2014, 11:15:10 PM
I made some new friends at a support group meeting tonight. I'm particularly happy about that because most of my friends are men and I don't have enough women to socialize with. I've always preferred being around women instead of men, too. Now I can just be a woman around some people instead of trying to go against the grain of my other friends' expectations.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Riley Skye on October 07, 2014, 11:56:22 PM
I have scheduled my GCS for April 6th!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 08, 2014, 04:57:19 AM
Electrolysis appointment for Saturday. My facial hair is greatly being eliminated. That is just so nice to have a smooth normal face. I feel great & I'm still excited with confirming my correct hormone levels. Now if the clouds would go away so I could see the lunar eclipse life would be perfect almost.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: tuuliu on October 08, 2014, 05:28:34 AM
I found a blog post from a local mtf and could identify with many of her experiences, which I told her made me happy. This really alleviated my loneliness <3
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on October 08, 2014, 05:37:58 AM
The kids at work were rowdy today and one of them got talking about his trip to Thailand next month.
Started joking and talking about ladyboys which made me quite mad as I listened.

The he joked that I would look good as a woman.

Gave a glare back but inside I was a little happy. ;)

Little do they know.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 08, 2014, 08:31:08 AM
Why do we need an MtF only version of this thread? Seems a little exclusive.
Title: Re: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on October 08, 2014, 02:15:26 PM
Quote from: Alice Rogers on October 08, 2014, 08:31:08 AM
Why do we need an MtF only version of this thread? Seems a little exclusive.
No idea. I just post in whichever I see first.
Title: Re: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 08, 2014, 07:47:17 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on October 08, 2014, 02:15:26 PM
No idea. I just post in whichever I see first.
I opened this nice/happy news type thread on purpose for "mtF women" only. There are plenty of other threads to use for other type posts, .....
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on October 09, 2014, 02:41:23 AM
I've been on hrt for nearly a week now, which I realize isn't much time to start analyzing how it's affecting me. I've been trying to keep my mind off of it because of that, but I've been realizing something wonderful anyways. Normally I'm constantly tense and twitchy from anxiety, but for once in my life I feel very calm and in control of myself. I feel like all of the tension and aggressiveness that testosterone was forcing into me before has just vanished. I feel so happy that I'm just crying now from that realization, and I never cried from happiness before. I had some lingering doubts before, but this is already confirmation for me that I am making the right choice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alice Rogers on October 09, 2014, 03:43:31 AM
Quote from: Eevee on October 09, 2014, 02:41:23 AM
I've been on hrt for nearly a week now, which I realize isn't much time to start analyzing how it's affecting me. I've been trying to keep my mind off of it because of that, but I've been realizing something wonderful anyways. Normally I'm constantly tense and twitchy from anxiety, but for once in my life I feel very calm and in control of myself. I feel like all of the tension and aggressiveness that testosterone was forcing into me before has just vanished. I feel so happy that I'm just crying now from that realization, and I never cried from happiness before. I had some lingering doubts before, but this is already confirmation for me that I am making the right choice.

That's fabulous hun, I had exactly the same experience when I started my hormones, just an overall feeling of calmness and peace. My dysphoria has barely raised it's head either!

I find myself staring at peoples behaviour now, analysing it and wondering how much of it is tied into testosterone. Things such as aggressive driving, arguing over nothing, stressing and the like.  I wonder if a lot of people might benefit from having less T in their systems!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miranda Catherine on October 09, 2014, 04:09:21 AM
Quote from: Riley Skye on October 07, 2014, 11:56:22 PM
I have scheduled my GCS for April 6th!
Congrats, Riley!!! You're further along than me. Who are you going to?

I looked at photos of myself this morning from the beginning of my HRT and living full time and then tonight I saw a thread "HRT (MTF people at least three years on it) has it met your expectations so far?" and a bunch of questions were asked and they helped me focus on how much both my mind and body have really changed. And when I got dressed this morning to go to lunch with my mom and her friends, I don't think I've ever looked as good as I did today. Otherwise, it was a hot, muggy, depressing day because of how bad my hip and back hurt.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 09, 2014, 05:06:48 AM
New little dot patches today, I change every Thursday & Sunday. The estrogen always make me feel so nice with fresh patches. I may ask my doc soon about pellets for estrogen. That would be nice to just forget about it & go about my life. Beauty Salon/Electrol appointment for Saturday. I love those days. I always leave with such smooth skin. My lady is using NuFree to remove every facial hair & this is my 4th session. It is very easy & each time those unwanted hairs are growing back much thinner & less course. Have fun all GF's, life is great.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Railgun on October 09, 2014, 01:42:16 PM
Got a new dress today. I ordered it in size 40 (german sizing) which is about 12 / lrg in the US. I didn't really expect it to fit very nicely since i'm very large with my 6,3''. I also always thought that i have a normal-sized ripcage for my size, but as i tried the dress on it fits perfectly. Not only that, the included waist belt (is that the correct term?  ??? ) was actually to wide, even on the smallest hole.

I was positively surprised and instantly went on to measure my ripcage (never did that before, maybe i should have ^.^).
It's at the widest part 31.1in (79cm). That's really small for my size, i guess? (Still looking for comparison values)

Well anyway, i'm really happy right now.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on October 10, 2014, 02:01:02 AM
Quote from: Alice Rogers on October 09, 2014, 03:43:31 AM
I find myself staring at peoples behaviour now, analysing it and wondering how much of it is tied into testosterone. Things such as aggressive driving, arguing over nothing, stressing and the like.  I wonder if a lot of people might benefit from having less T in their systems!

I can understand your feelings here. I work with a ftm whom has shown just how much testosterone fuels the way men act. I also look foward to that time each month when my natural levels drop and I can be myself again. It leaves me with such longing to stay that way forever. Its only a matter of time before I start hormones. Then again I dread the other side of my cycle but this is a happy thread.

I had some quality dark chocolate with almond slivers in it today just leaving me in a state of Zen. Not quite import but as good as chocolate gets in the states at least. So glad i have a few pieces left for tomorrow.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 10, 2014, 06:25:43 AM
I'm going to be Little Red Riding Hood for halloween, nice costumes in my size online are only $50 without the white hose or high heel shoes. I'm excited about going to a Halloween party to see some of my friends now. This will be fun. Estrogen must be kicking in, I use patches & always on the first day of new patches I get so girly like wanting to dress up as Little Red Riding Hood, but it feels good.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Monica Jean on October 10, 2014, 03:43:07 PM
I've been feeling down this week, but watching Sona's video lit a spark in me to not give up,  not give in to shame and guilt.

Positive inspiration,  Positive validation. 


Thank you Sona!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Anna-Maria on October 10, 2014, 04:05:50 PM
Snapped a pair of rare coveted vintage overknee black leather boots with ease  :) Made my day and I love them! Like I love all my shoes but them a little more  ::)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 10, 2014, 08:18:23 PM
I had two things that made me happy today :)


  • I went to Costco to pickup my prescription that was renewed for Finasteride. (I get everything else at Callon-Lorde) They asked for my last name and DOB. I told her and she asked whats the first name on the prescription, I said it should be Sydney. She had a puzzled look on her face. I told her it was <old male name>, but the last pharmacists said they changed it last time and my prescription would have the correct name next time on the label. She said oh, yes, he changed it in one place but not the other. She then asked if the gender should be Female. I said yes since that is what all my ID's say. I asked her why the name didn't match when the doctor originally sent the prescription with my new name. She told me that since I already had a profile under my old name, the computer matched based on last name and DOB. She changed it and corrected my gender properly and printed a new label for me :)

    Now the good part: She told me she had no idea about me untill she looked me up in the computer. She asked if I ever had voice surgery. I told her that I hadn't. She said wow and that a cis female friend of hers has the exact same voice as me. Made me feel real good about my voice and in general.


  • Later tonight I went into Walgreens. (Keep in mind that I'm 6'7" and I was wearing 2 1/2 inch heels) There was a long line and I went to pickup a hand basket and this 50 year old guy who was maybe 5'8" says "My God your a tall Woman!! What are you, 7 feet tall???" is a extremely loud voice. Everyone just turned at my direction and looked in amazement. I just smiled and said, I'm only 6'7". (The voice complement I received earlier today boosted my confidence, so I was extremely confident in this situation and wasn't nervous at all.) He then asked if I played basketball. I said know, but I loved Volleyball. He said, "You probably didn't even have to jump to get over the net." Then he walked away and I continued my shopping without incident.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Devlyn on October 10, 2014, 08:35:26 PM
1.56730769231

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: kelly_aus on October 10, 2014, 10:43:17 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on October 10, 2014, 08:35:26 PM
1.56730769231

1/2 a pi?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 11, 2014, 07:20:09 AM
I'm kind of slow I guess. What do these numbers mean???? It's Saturday & off to the beauty shop so I'm a happy girl anyway.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Devlyn on October 11, 2014, 08:00:13 PM
Quote from: kelly_aus on October 10, 2014, 10:43:17 PM
1/2 a pi?

Ooh! Close, isn't it?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 12, 2014, 05:20:37 AM
Such a nice visit with my electrolysis/beauty salon lady yesterday. She was so impessed. "Girl friend you look great, much more feminine & prettier than half of my normal women clients" I dressed up some for my weekly visit, new wig, little makeup, not much. My face is very feminine anyway. We had a grand time & less facial hair. It's not all gone but we sure are thinning it out a lot. I was a happy girl driving home all nice, pretty & smooth. Also my electro lady has had 2 clients that completed their GRS. It was sure nice to find a nice women to openly talk with about vaginas.......We have been friends for over a year & I'm sure we will be girl friends for a long time to come as become more of a complete woman.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on October 12, 2014, 07:41:39 AM
Second run in two days in new women's running gear. Interesting, feels good and right.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 12, 2014, 08:19:51 AM
Quote from: rosinstraya on October 12, 2014, 07:41:39 AM
Second run in two days in new women's running gear. Interesting, feels good and right.
You sure do not look very happy about it, why post that here?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: belfast girl on October 12, 2014, 09:14:17 AM
Couple of things:

Roughly every month or so I weigh and measure myself, just to keep track of stuff really. So after a year of HRT and losing muscle and weight I weigh, give or take a few ounces, exactly 9 stone (126lb), my shoulders are 15", I'm 34-26-34 (hip:waist ratio of 0.76) . These are almost pretty solidly female measurements, I think, so that's awesome (although when I look in the mirror I still see wide shoulders and narrow hips, so either my brain is lying to me, which isn't impossible, or my tape measure is wrong, which seems unlikely). A year ago I was 149lb and 35-31-36 (ratio of 0.86), and my shoulders were 17", so there's definitely been some progress. I do try to look for clothes that accentuate my waist and especially skirts and dresses that are at least a bit flared so as to make my hips seem bigger. But I'm happy with those measurements for now, even if my breasts are just about filling an A cup. They do seem to be growing at least, so that's okay I guess.

And my GP got back to me on Friday with blood test results - T is at 1.2 nmol/L (34.6 ng/dL), which from reading around seems like it would be relatively low-medium even for a genetic girl, so that's good. He apparently forgot to get my E levels measured, even though we talked about it and he agreed he would, so. I guess next time I'll make sure he does.

But yeah, I've been feeling pretty good this weekend as a result. Happy times.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: tuuliu on October 12, 2014, 02:28:46 PM
I was playing Bejeweled 3 on Zen mode i.e. an endless game of matching jewels. The zen in the name also means you can have these affirmations playing at the bottom of the screen. So when it read "I'm living a life that reflects my deepest desires" I stopped in my tracks and realized: yes I am, this (transition) is what I want! Really really want! ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 13, 2014, 03:47:45 AM
I'm happy to become more of a nice woman a little more each day. I somewhat feel like a 12 or 13 year old girl growing breasts & experimenting with new clothes, makeup, new friends, adjusting & learning to become a nicer woman, etc........Estrogen just feels great & so normal for me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on October 13, 2014, 04:11:14 AM
I've been working up my confidence with going FT, and I've occasionally gone out dressed as a woman. My ex-boyfriend (who I'm still great friends with) said I looked really pretty when he saw me yesterday evening. That made my weekend.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 13, 2014, 05:36:27 AM
Quote from: Eevee on October 13, 2014, 04:11:14 AM
I've been working up my confidence with going FT, and I've occasionally gone out dressed as a woman. My ex-boyfriend (who I'm still great friends with) said I looked really pretty when he saw me yesterday evening. That made my weekend.
I have a funny suggestion. Make a huge pile of everything; clothes, shoes, etc.... that you have that is  "male". Load it in your car & go give it to Goodwill. Then it will not be as hard at all to live FT as a woman. You will be shopping for new dresses in no time. Have fun GF. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: tuuliu on October 14, 2014, 09:11:06 AM
Good luck with FT Eevee!

I just met with a friend for coffee and at some point the discussion came to our dosages. She told me yeah you've been on low dose for 3 first months so -- and then I realized yeah, I haven't been on my current dosage even that long, just 2+ months. When I reached 5 months I got upset about how minor the changes have been and sorta crashed down with my expectations. This realization lifted my spirits and now I'm more optimistic than I've been since then.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Foxglove on October 14, 2014, 01:25:59 PM
I think I'm happy about something that happened today.  I'm not sure, because I'm not sure what a woman meant by something she said to me.

I was in the supermarket and had put my shopping bag and my purse in the trolley while I was making the rounds, choosing my purchases.  The woman went by me, then stopped and turned and said to me, "That's a nice bag for the taking!"

Well, I'm not sure which bag she was talking about and I wasn't at all sure exactly what she meant by that.  But a bit later I ran into two of my girlfriends in the café, and we agreed that probably what she meant was, "That's a nice bag.  I wouldn't mind having it."

So I'll take it as a compliment.  So I'm happy.  (I think.)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Stephanie00Rayne on October 14, 2014, 02:09:15 PM
After a company-wide email went out to everyone from my manager explaining my transition this morning, I received a very touching email from a co-worker (that I have typically viewed as a bit of a redneck, oil industry macho man).  This email brought me to tears when I read it... in a good way.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 14, 2014, 08:43:33 PM
I'm going "big hair" this fall & winter. I just received a new beautiful wig today. It's the same auburn color as my medium to shorter length wig but such hair & curls. My electrolysis lady will love it. It will be fun to have her work on my face this next Saturday dressed very nice & with this new wig. I just love it, it makes me feel so feminine, pretty & sexy. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 15, 2014, 08:37:11 PM
Boxed up a new laptop computer that I bought today at walmart & tomorrow returning it for my $. Terrible devise, HP model, so unfriendly to use. I'd rather shave my legs with a dull razor & no water than spend another minute with this torture devise. Happy girl to just return this item.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: MyKa on October 15, 2014, 08:55:49 PM
Picked up some good deals at Abercrombie & finch today!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cassie Soup on October 16, 2014, 12:02:38 AM
Well this happened yesterday but I wanted to post it, my name change got approved and I got my new drivers licence with an F on it :) I didnt even have to see the judge he just signed it.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on October 16, 2014, 03:18:12 AM
Getting the chance to try makeup again and realizing the difference it makes to my skin and wanting to do it again.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Paeonia on October 16, 2014, 04:13:14 AM
Got my first bra yesterday (sorely needed, beginning to jiggle), and a new winter coat.
There is also the dozen or so new hairs appearing in the terrible male hairline! I'm sure they weren't there before, so thats promising (I haven't even started on finasteride or nizoral shampoo yet)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Foxglove on October 16, 2014, 05:21:06 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 15, 2014, 08:37:11 PM
Terrible devise, HP model, so unfriendly to use. I'd rather shave my legs with a dull razor & no water . . .

Now that is one lousy computer.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on October 16, 2014, 08:48:07 AM
Hair growth on my body has slowed up enough I'm not having to shave as much. It which is a nice relief.
Quote from: Foxglove on October 16, 2014, 05:21:06 AM
Now that is one lousy computer.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 16, 2014, 09:54:11 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on October 16, 2014, 08:48:07 AM
Hair growth on my body has slowed up enough I'm not having to shave as much. It which is a nice relief.
I hope you have some warm water & a new razor? Have a great day GF.
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Post by: crystals on October 16, 2014, 10:01:41 AM
well it wasnt today but 2 days ago on the 14th of october my country's lgtb community organised a nice hang out kind of party in the early afternoon hours. to wich i attended and had a realy lot of fun and joy with a lot of people i got to meet and chat with
and to top it off we all went to a nice restaurant to have dinner toghether[around 14 people who still hung around with us] from all of this 14 only me and one another were trangendered but it was very fun and keeps me realy fun memorys
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Post by: Mariah on October 16, 2014, 10:15:57 AM
I definitely do, You also have a great day GF.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 16, 2014, 09:54:11 AM
I hope you have some warm water & a new razor? Have a great day GF.
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Post by: Lostkitten on October 16, 2014, 11:36:40 AM
Happened yesterday but I couldn't upload the picture :P. I remember for agesss I wanted a pony tail which looked nice, not just a shorty :P. Yesterday I bought a cute bow thingy for in my hair which doesn't looks too cute like (I like only a lil cute. Not too much cute/girly :P).

The picture is horribly blurry, but finally a nice pony tail, yay :P.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi45.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff90%2FKirey3000%2F2014-10-14171930_zps02f9176a.jpg&hash=2ac8095a002723ec11167546c79690bc7ec13759) (http://s45.photobucket.com/user/Kirey3000/media/2014-10-14171930_zps02f9176a.jpg.html)
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Post by: Allyda on October 17, 2014, 03:39:22 AM
Well, 8 days late and much frustration and aggravation later I finally got my estradiol cypionate injections straightened out with and covered by my insurance, YaY! :eusa_clap: I picked them up yesterday afternoon. This was a tooth and nail fight with my insurance company. And this girl had her claws brandished throughout it. :icon_2gun:

I had no choice with the switch from estradiol valerate injectable to estradiol cypionate because the pharmacutical supplier in my area no longer has the estradiol valerate available. So none of the pharmacies in my area could even get it. Luckily, my new pharmacy that's locally owned carries the estradiol cypionate in stock, and from now on I'll have no problem filling my weekly injections. :eusa_doh: :eusa_dance:

Have any other girls had problems obtaining their estradiol valerate injections due to unavailability, and had to switch to estradiol cypionate as I did? Just curious.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 17, 2014, 07:56:48 AM
Beautiful cool crisp fall day where I live. Beauty Shop appt. for Saturday morning as usual to work on my facial hair. I love seeing my electro lady, she is so nice. Life is good. Have a great day & weekend GF's.
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Post by: Jenny07 on October 17, 2014, 04:37:06 PM
It is amazing how comfortable a good fitting bra is now the girls are big enough to need one. ;)
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Post by: robin s on October 17, 2014, 06:47:51 PM
Got invited to my first girls night in. make up, nails and facials. YAY
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 18, 2014, 07:48:57 AM
Quote from: robin s on October 17, 2014, 06:47:51 PM
Got invited to my first girls night in. make up, nails and facials. YAY
So how was it GF?? Have fun? Let us all know sometime.
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Post by: robin s on October 18, 2014, 10:53:35 AM
It's tonight. Maybe i will get a new avatar pic. :)
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Post by: CrysC on October 18, 2014, 11:05:51 AM
I woke up in the middle of the night and my boobs were sore in that, "Hey sister, we're growing here!" way.  The girls had been a bit quiet in that regard so I fell back to sleep with a big smile. 
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Post by: bv5913 on October 18, 2014, 04:01:36 PM
I got a good idea of how big my girls are going to be.
Only been on hormones for 3 weeks, but have been using a breast enlargment pump for 3 months, 1 hour per day, and today when i finished, my breasts are always swollen for a hour or so after, but nothing speacial. But tonight, they was huge. I have never seen them so big, i laughed so loud i almost woke my kids up, but i am really happy and look forward to seeing them develop more. And  who knows how big they will be after a year or more on HRT. This is going to be a fun journey. And used my home laser hair remover for the first time today. After 2 hours only cleared about a square inch on my face, but it is a start.
So all in all .....FEELING AWESOME!!!!
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Post by: Sandy74 on October 18, 2014, 04:59:16 PM
Shaving my legs last night and then shopping for tights and panties today and then rubbing down my newly shaved legs with baby oil and lotion that I bought at the store, bought some nail polish for my feet until I look at my feet toe nails and realized they are so ugly and it wouldn't change a thing. Just love being able to dress up in the comfort of my own home and be who I really am, a sweet woman and not some man which I don't want to be.
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Post by: trapsouldoor on October 18, 2014, 05:34:27 PM
I finally came out to my dad yesterday, because I'm having my first therapy session in a couple of days. It went as well as I could have possibly hoped! It's such a relief to finally have that secret out.
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Post by: Kaylee Angelia on October 18, 2014, 07:43:02 PM
Waking up to the realization in my heart and not just my head that I'm lesbian...then crying myself back to sleep out of sheer joy and love for myself.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 18, 2014, 08:23:42 PM
I had a very nice visit with my electrolysis lady today. She does an excellent job on my facial hair & really cares about me. We had fun talking about men & she showed me a private pic of one of her X lovers. What a very well endowed stud/hunk of a man, no wonder she got so excited being with him. We laughed & I told her if she did not want him I did.
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Post by: rosinstraya on October 18, 2014, 08:33:03 PM
Got up, had a run in the spring sunshine. All nice and free, even with the masses. Pleasantly attired in female running gear and unruly hair held back in a headband. That weight ain't coming off of its own accord!
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Post by: PaleDragoness on October 18, 2014, 08:33:11 PM
It made me laugh a bit.....and thank god I was the only person home when I happened to say it out loud.....I actually wished out loud I could be a scientist who, by chance, made the perfect hormone treatment that changed not just your looks, but your genes. I'm still smiling and just wishing. Normally it would make me angry, as I'm not anywhere near hormones yet, but this time it just felt like it could be done in the medium length future. I'm so weird haha.
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Post by: Rachel on October 18, 2014, 08:53:17 PM
Mellysia, look up LIFT. A technique to use light induced forward transfer of DNA from host to target. You are not weird.



Had a really nice dinner with my family.
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Post by: Nicole on October 18, 2014, 11:35:56 PM
Today, our Sunday sessions.
Good times
Good wines
Good friends
Good kids
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Post by: Cheska on October 19, 2014, 01:46:55 PM
I had my first session of electrolysis this afternoon.
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Post by: AnneB on October 19, 2014, 05:36:58 PM
Another First!!!

Today, I met 10 of the kids I went to high school with...  some I have known, and known me, since 3rd grade!   Well, the Meet and Greet, went fabulously!!  They all loved Paula, and I cried a lot more than I wanted to...  well, after about 5 ice teas and a coffee.. I needed to go... soooo... I grabbed my purse, and went, into the Ladies room, and three of my friends, followed me in, chatting away, talking to me, as if  I had been a girl all my life, and they knew it!!  Yes, I sat, truth is,Ive been sitting for the past year or so...  so...  my first... ladies room visit!!  and Melody, and Joyce, just chatting away with me...    I love them!!
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Post by: Railgun on October 19, 2014, 07:18:00 PM
Just read through the entire "The New you know you pass when"-Thread in one rush. Now i'm really tired, but also happy and encouraged.
I think i'll have some nice dreams of passing this night. ^.^
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Post by: carrie359 on October 19, 2014, 09:13:09 PM
Getting Mam''d in guy mode at Sam's club...at the pharmacy.. :)
And seeing myself as more female in the mirror...
And my wife and son both saying... people just are not sure...which I am..

So.. that made me happy...
Carrie
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Post by: Wednesday on October 19, 2014, 11:02:48 PM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mammafiore.eu%2Fmedia%2Fcatalog%2Fproduct%2Fcache%2F1%2Fimage%2F250x250%2F5e06319eda06f020e43594a9c230972d%2F8%2F0%2F800027_1.jpg&hash=5af0a92d64eb77c0a4d9195bc70e864ff778feb8)

This!

Cheat days rule.
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Post by: PaleDragoness on October 19, 2014, 11:15:40 PM
Well I started on my regimen for getting myself in some semblance of shape. started taking my vitamins again and tomorrow I start gyming with friends from work. They haven't a clue as to my ulterior motives, but all the same I get to go for free. As I am right now I'm going for tone and fit. Can't do much about the muscle I already have, but eventually it will get smaller with tone and time. YAY!!

Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on October 18, 2014, 08:53:17 PM
Mellysia, look up LIFT. A technique to use light induced forward transfer of DNA from host to target. You are not weird.



Had a really nice dinner with my family.

I shall look this up tomorrow morning.
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Post by: Releca on October 19, 2014, 11:31:07 PM
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This is the best chocolate bar I have had in a long time.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 20, 2014, 12:17:18 AM
Quote from: Releca on October 19, 2014, 11:31:07 PM
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This is the best chocolate bar I have had in a long time.

That is my favorite flavored dark chocolate :)
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Post by: bv5913 on October 20, 2014, 04:26:12 AM
I normally wear make up and feminin clothes in the evening and walk around town. But I took the day of today and when to the neighbouring city and decided that today I will be who I really am.
I was so nervous with makeup and my favorite clothes. And as the girls are showing, I thought it was about time I buy my first true fitting bra. Found an assistant,  and asked if she could measure me. I do not know who was more nervou, her or me.
But discovered  I am a b cup. So brought  a correct fitting push up bra and I am now sat in a restaurant  proudly displaying a very nice cleavage.
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Post by: trapsouldoor on October 20, 2014, 08:35:05 AM
Having my first therapist appointment in a couple hours. Talked more with my dad yesterday, and I can't get over how lucky I am to have his understanding and sympathy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on October 20, 2014, 09:25:51 AM
Quote from: bv5913 on October 20, 2014, 04:26:12 AM
I normally wear make up and feminin clothes in the evening and walk around town. But I took the day of today and when to the neighbouring city and decided that today I will be who I really am.
I was so nervous with makeup and my favorite clothes. And as the girls are showing, I thought it was about time I buy my first true fitting bra. Found an assistant,  and asked if she could measure me. I do not know who was more nervou, her or me.
But discovered  I am a b cup. So brought  a correct fitting push up bra and I am now sat in a restaurant  proudly displaying a very nice cleavage.

Being in a place where no one knows you and may not see you again is a great way to test out if you pass. I'm glad you were able to get a good fitting bra. Support is always a good thing.
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Post by: AnneB on October 20, 2014, 08:54:56 PM
Hey, who got an F on her drivers license today???

THIS GIRL!!! 

The Great state of Arizona has determined that I am a GIRL!!   WOOHOO!!
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Post by: VikingArchangel on October 20, 2014, 10:35:03 PM
I looked in the mirror while working through my morning face routine, and had to pull out my driver's license to confirm something. Yes, facial changes can indeed start taking place only a month and a day into HRT!

I don't even care that people at work are starting to wonder what's up with me! Less than six weeks after popping the little blue pill, and already noticeable breast growth, a therapist who did a double-take before realizing it was me, and I'm having to hide the fat redistribution at work! (<3 my hoodies and baggy pants!)

Been floating on a cloud all day!
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Post by: Brenda E on October 21, 2014, 09:34:17 AM
Quote from: Paula Christine on October 20, 2014, 08:54:56 PM
Hey, who got an F on her drivers license today???

THIS GIRL!!! 

You failed your driving test?  ???
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Monica Jean on October 21, 2014, 09:50:36 AM
Battling Fear & Shame and winning.  At least this round. 

Even yesterday with my HRT dose at the doctor didn't help much with the battle inside.  A good night's sleep, a few youtube vids from other gals who talk about these deep issues helped tremendously.  Feel much better today.  F-YOU FEAR and SHAME!!

:)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 22, 2014, 05:53:39 AM
I'm happy to keep the faith on stopping my damn facial hair & not get depressed. My electrolysis lady is trying hard however my face reacts too easy & I've got to just slow down some. Weekly treatments are too much so we're going to visit every 2 weeks so my face can heal up better & not cause any skin damage.  Have fun GF's.
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Post by: Monica Jean on October 22, 2014, 08:38:14 AM
Touching my now-hurting nipples, realizing this is all ACTUALLY HAPPENING! For real, no dreams, starting to live as me.

A powerful realization!
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Post by: TheQuestion on October 22, 2014, 06:57:37 PM
When some guys see my car, they generally want to race.  Today I was at a red light and to my left pulls up a guy in a Toyota Supra (Toyota use to have some really fast cars believe it or not).  I'm not one of these people who just races around city streets.  Guy revved his engine, so I did too.  Then when the light turned green he took off and I just took the right turn.  I thought it was funny...
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Post by: speckyhailey on October 22, 2014, 08:08:12 PM
What made me happy today was signing up for these wonderful forums and meeting all the friendly people here. What made me happiest was finally being referred to as a girl and as Hailey which feels so much more like the true me rather than the male I have been stuck as.  :-*
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Post by: onescaredquestion on October 22, 2014, 08:33:28 PM
What made me happy yesterday/todaywas signing up for tthis forum and getting quick help, reassurance and words of wisdom to calm me down.
What made me happy today was the shower I took. I think I prefer my hair wet/moist than dry! I like the feeling and the scent.
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Post by: Lydian on October 23, 2014, 05:27:31 AM
What made me happy was moving into a place with hot water and a working furnace!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Paeonia on October 23, 2014, 06:23:00 AM
Things that have made me happy recently?

I haven't bit my fingernails in 24 hours. A terrible habit, and I'm trying to kick it. I bought some of that anti bite nail polish and it seems to be working. This is a good start!

Areolas. I'm sure they weren't this big and feminine looking before! I never noticed the change, either it happened overnight, or I spend too much time trying to cover up in ugly jumpers.

Also, ugly jumpers. I can not be the only person that loves ugly jumpers. Ugly jumpers lovers unite.

I suppose the final thing would be getting lasered last Saturday. Not a fun process, but in the past couple of days, I am certain a bit of the shadowing has disappeared.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 23, 2014, 06:39:50 AM
Quote from: Paeonia on October 23, 2014, 06:23:00 AM
Things that have made me happy recently?

I haven't bit my fingernails in 24 hours. A terrible habit, and I'm trying to kick it. I bought some of that anti bite nail polish and it seems to be working. This is a good start!

Areolas. I'm sure they weren't this big and feminine looking before! I never noticed the change, either it happened overnight, or I spend too much time trying to cover up in ugly jumpers.

Also, ugly jumpers. I can not be the only person that loves ugly jumpers. Ugly jumpers lovers unite.

I suppose the final thing would be getting lasered last Saturday. Not a fun process, but in the past couple of days, I am certain a bit of the shadowing has disappeared.
GF, grow long nice nails!, you can do that, please do not bite them, yuck.
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Post by: Paeonia on October 23, 2014, 07:38:01 AM
I definitely will! Can't wait til they look *good* with a touch of polish.
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Post by: Foxglove on October 23, 2014, 07:38:13 AM
Quote from: Paeonia on October 23, 2014, 06:23:00 AM

I haven't bit my fingernails in 24 hours. A terrible habit, and I'm trying to kick it.

There is hope for you.  I was a life-long nail-biter until I came out a couple of years ago.  Now I always keep my nails shaped and polished.  You do that, you'll stop biting them.

The extra bonus is that I get more compliments on my nails than on any other aspect of my presentation.  Most women don't bother much with their nails, so when they see somebody who does, they're quite impressed.  (At least some of them are.  Maybe others think it's rather stupid.  But I don't worry about that.  I love looking after my nails.)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 23, 2014, 08:47:05 AM
For strong nails, Biotin, in a very high dosage, inexpensive & available most anywhere. It works GF's. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Esther79 on October 23, 2014, 12:49:23 PM
My DIY home cryolipolysis machine is arriving in 15 hrs , die belly bulge die   >:-)
Looking forward to a 26 inch waist  :angel:
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Post by: Allyda on October 24, 2014, 05:18:03 AM
Quote from: Esther79 on October 23, 2014, 12:49:23 PM
My DIY home cryolipolysis machine is arriving in 15 hrs , die belly bulge die   >:-)
Looking forward to a 26 inch waist  :angel:
Let us know how this^^___^^ works out. I have a stubborn lil tummy myself and dam near have tried everything to get rid of it shy of losing more weight. I'm 5-5 a lil under 120 now tho, and if I lose too much weight I'm afraid it may come off my booby's.

Ally ;)
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Post by: Esther79 on October 24, 2014, 08:33:58 AM
Quote from: Allyda on October 24, 2014, 05:18:03 AM
Let us know how this^^___^^ works out. I have a stubborn lil tummy myself and dam near have tried everything to get rid of it shy of losing more weight. I'm 5-5 a lil under 120 now tho, and if I lose too much weight I'm afraid it may come off my booby's.

Ally ;)

I am a super budget girl, the machine cost usd 1.2k including shipping. Calculated it will be more cost efficient to DIY compared going to a clinic where each treatment cost usd700-1000 per area.

Tested it , everything works fine, now just waiting for my anti-freeze pads to arrive then I can start the 1st treatment. Going to play with the RF and cavitation functions later tonight on my elephant thighs and arms. ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnneB on October 24, 2014, 12:05:16 PM
I flew down to visit Mom Wednesday, to introduce her to her oldest daughter, and help her with the loss of her oldest son.

For two days, she's been calling me by my old name, I told her this morning, on the way to church, I'm sorry, Mom, I am going to stop responding when you call me that name..  she said old habits..  yeah yeah..  well.. today, after church, back home, siting at the table, drinking coffee, she called me Paula..  and..  amazingly, I didnt begin to cry, as I thot i would..   I know she has not arrived, neither have i, but..  she looks at me just a little differently.  a good thing, I think.. idk..  My sister.. well, the jury is still out, just as I am to the World..  I am full time now, everywhere I go, I am Paula.. everywhere.. so yeah, i guess I have arrived.. I will just wait for the rest of the world to catch up..  and all I have .. is time..

So, Mom called me Paula, at least once.. I hope, it happened more often.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 24, 2014, 03:08:43 PM
I got my Passport in the mail today with that beautiful "F" on it with my correct name :)
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Post by: Alaena_okc on October 24, 2014, 03:37:19 PM
my friend and i are talking again, i almost lost her completely because i fell in love with her, now we are at least friends again...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Foxglove on October 24, 2014, 04:24:03 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 24, 2014, 03:08:43 PM
I got my Passport in the mail today with that beautiful "F" on it with my correct name :)

Well done, Sydney!  I got one of those, too.  It's beautiful, isn't it?  (Could be costly, though.  It makes you want to take a trip around the world, stopping in every little country you can get to, just so you can show the thing at the border.  "Lookee here, guys!  That's me!")
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 24, 2014, 09:25:37 PM
Quote from: Foxglove on October 24, 2014, 04:24:03 PM
Well done, Sydney!  I got one of those, too.  It's beautiful, isn't it?  (Could be costly, though.  It makes you want to take a trip around the world, stopping in every little country you can get to, just so you can show the thing at the border.  "Lookee here, guys!  That's me!")

I know, my wife and I are thinking about a cruise very soon :)

For work though I really needed it as I could have to go to Toronto at any time soon for a possible software setup.
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Post by: Rachel on October 24, 2014, 10:25:14 PM
I came out to my brother-in-law and I could not have asked for a more welcoming response.
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Post by: bv5913 on October 25, 2014, 02:45:42 AM
Breasts letting me know they are waking up again. Had a massive growth spurt the last couple of days
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 25, 2014, 05:32:47 AM
I have some very good friends. I've been so frustrated with stopping my facial hair growth that I wanted to just give up. However several close cis women friends encouraged me to take it easy & continue to become the nice woman they know I am inside. So I'm over it & back to normal I hope. I still hate my remaining facial hair but I'm sure happy for my very good friends.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnneB on October 25, 2014, 05:40:03 AM
Afte spending a lil time helping mom shred old papers, and talking more abt what I, we, are going thru, I said.. "hmmm, there is something at Village Inn (diner).calling my name. " Mom asked "what/" I said "Im not sure but I'll know when we get there!"
She replied, not really up for going out but getting a but hungry."

I said "well, you saw right thru me.. it was a thinly veiled attempt at spending some time out with my mom"
But she got up, and we went.  Spent some nice time out with her, talking a little bit more. She called me my old name several more tines again and while it hurt I didn't get disgusted or hurumph much.  I paid for dinner.. that's what daughters do for their moms.  I think anyway.  After we returned home, she thanked me for a nice evening, a nice experience.. we hugged.  Said I still hug like her son.. said sorry, its the only way I know how, plus, I'm much taller than she is.

So, some nice mother-daughter time together, I was totally gendered correctly,  there was a big ol' southern boy that kept lookin' at me but I was ignoring him.  Mom's just a lil more used to me now,  And, I guess that's all that matters.

My sister is a whole different story.  That, is for the What Made You Sad Today thread.
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Post by: speckyhailey on October 25, 2014, 06:39:55 AM
I came out to my dad and he said that we'll go to the GP and if we have the money try to get private treatment so I don't have to wait for the NHS  ;D
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Post by: ★ Sophia ★ on October 25, 2014, 07:18:43 AM
This was yesterday,

I told my teachers at school what I want to be called. Through out the term they have really helped and supported me :angel:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnneB on October 25, 2014, 08:05:29 AM
Hailey, Sophia, I am so happy for you!  Dads can be amazing, totally unexpected, and loving.  I would like to think, mine would have been.  Francis Ann, Cynthia, I am soo happy for you as well!   Hugs!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 25, 2014, 09:08:47 AM
Quote from: Paula Christine on October 25, 2014, 08:05:29 AM
Hailey, Sophia, I am so happy for you!  Dads can be amazing, totally unexpected, and loving.  I would like to think, mine would have been.  Francis Ann, Cynthia, I am soo happy for you as well!   Hugs!
It's so nice to see that you are close with your mother. Please enjoy her all you can GF. Mine had a very good life however she has passed away. We were also very close. Take care nice GF & please have a great day. Give lots of hugs to your mother, everyone needs hugs.
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Post by: minxiejinxielynxie on October 25, 2014, 09:30:56 AM
I drove my older sister into town today to take her to work, but we went in early and she took me clothes shopping so I could start my new female wardrobe! (my current wardrobe until now has just been baggy jeans that used to be my dad's or older brother's and basic/brand t-shirts)

She was so helpful with picking out outfits and it was so much fun :D Unfortunately I didn't manage to get any new shoes (they only had up to size 9 and i have size 12 feet :(), but I'm really happy with all the stuff I got :D

I very nearly ran into someone who I knew from high school (i've only come out to family and close friends) and I think they recognized me through the wig and female clothing, they kept looking and staring at me looking confused, so I'm hoping they just thought I looked familiar and that they'll just forget about it.

But now I'm home and don't want to take off my new turtle neck (.3.) it's so comfy
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Post by: CrysC on October 25, 2014, 11:14:06 AM
Even with all the hair removal I have done on my face I still feel some chin stubble normally.  Laser and electrolysis are great for it but have a hard time with my Mediterranean blood.  With the last treatment though it feels nice and clean, at least for now.  Yea!

While that was great, I also had one better.  My wife and I stopped in a local department store on the way to the gym and while there some high school girls looked at me and giggled over my workout shorts, which were fairly short and probably laughed at my bosom too.  I'm pretty conscious of making sure my wife is as comfortable as possible as I slowly feminize so I asked her if it bothered her and said I'd make sure to wear longer shorts from now on.  She said to not worry about it and that it didn't bother her and didn't bother her what others thought.  It made my evening.
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Post by: Jaime R D on October 25, 2014, 11:15:40 AM
peanut butter and oreos
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 25, 2014, 01:56:05 PM
Quote from: Jaime R D on October 25, 2014, 11:15:40 AM
peanut butter and oreos
Lucky thin GF. 1/2 of a subway sandwich is all I get after walking about 2 miles this morning. How do you stay so thin?
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Post by: Jaime R D on October 25, 2014, 01:57:54 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on October 25, 2014, 01:56:05 PM
Lucky thin GF. 1/2 of a subway sandwich is all I get after walking about 2 miles this morning. How do you stay so thin?
Just a fast metabolism I guess. Fixing to eat some piggy in the blankets now, lol.     
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Post by: Brenda E on October 25, 2014, 02:18:43 PM
For the first time I found a pair of girl jeans that fit me better than any of my guy jeans.
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Post by: Foxglove on October 26, 2014, 03:35:56 AM
I got on the train yesterday and went to a nearby town for a bit of a shopping expedition.  That's always fun, always makes me happy.  Didn't buy much really, just a few more things to help me through the winter.  But it was fun to be out and about.

I went to a café for some soup and took a big table right beside the front window so I could look out on the promenade and the river and the people going by.  When the waitress brought me my soup, she said, "There you are, my dear!"  A short time later a woman came in and asked if she could share my table (since there was plenty of space at it).  And when the waitress brought her her tea and scone, she said, "There you are, my dear!"  And I thought to myself, "Good for her!  She knows a woman when she sees one."

Only one dark spot.  I don't know about the rest of you, but I love hats--and I have a bloody hard time finding any I like, mainly because women simply don't wear hats any more.  One of the surest signs of the decline of Western civilization.  But after a good look yesterday, I did find one that I was quite pleased with, so in the end I was happy enough with that.  A shopping trip that nets you one nice hat can be viewed as a success for that reason alone.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 26, 2014, 03:54:01 AM
I'm going to learn & use cute little nails designs. A GF's daughter in law sells them & that will such fun to dress up my nails for the Holiday season. I have nice nails however I've always just used one color. This will be fun to try out fun cute designs.
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Post by: Cindy on October 26, 2014, 03:56:23 AM
Three hours of ironing.

Why would that make you happy?

He never ironed and never cared. I do and I do :laugh:
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on October 26, 2014, 04:23:08 AM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 24, 2014, 03:08:43 PM
I got my Passport in the mail today with that beautiful "F" on it with my correct name :)

Wow! Awesome, Sydney. That must feel great.

I got my official "Certificate of Change of Name" a while ago and it's made me feel a lot better. I'm still waiting for all the new ID's and junk though.
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on October 26, 2014, 04:33:20 AM
So, my folks kicked me out for being trans when I was a kid... not for long actually but it's more the awful things they said that damaged me. Big time. Got into hard drugs and I ended up so messed up I just felt so weak and scarred both physically and emotionally that I was too weak to transition for a long time. But once I found the strength to do it and told them they were 100% supportive this time. They even visited me all the way from England and they're gonna lend me a bunch of money to make sure I'll have enough rent money when I go back to school to be a counsellor. It was wonderful. They were so delighted at how happy, confident and naturally femme I am that they cried tears of happiness. I never ever expected that and it was amazing. It couldn't possibly have gone better.  :)
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on October 26, 2014, 04:44:10 AM
Quote from: Cindy on October 26, 2014, 03:56:23 AM
Three hours of ironing.

Why would that make you happy?

He never ironed and never cared. I do and I do :laugh:

Haha really? Jeez, I don't even own an iron. I tried it once and I just didn't care for it at all. I swear gravity does the job just fine. Still though, that's a cute story. It's nice to find joy in the little things.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 26, 2014, 07:25:45 AM
I'm with you. I do not own an iron. I'd rather do my nails or anything else than iron clothes.
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Post by: LordKAT on October 26, 2014, 07:31:21 AM
As to ironing, I used to never really care, now I do.

The creases need to be where they are supposed to be and the wrinkles not. Some things don't need it, but some things do.
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Post by: AnneB on October 26, 2014, 07:36:33 AM
I LOVE to iron.. well, I do not LOVE it, but it is a fun thing to do, as I iron my work shirts every day.. spray starch too.. I have always wanted sleeve creases that you could literally cut yerself on  ;)

I cook, clean, sew buttons, snaps, seams, still learning to hem pants, I sew split/torn zippers..  I have been told I'm going to make someone a wonderful wife someday... oh how little did they know !!   :laugh:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 26, 2014, 07:43:49 AM
Quote from: Paula Christine on October 26, 2014, 07:36:33 AM
I LOVE to iron.. well, I do not LOVE it, but it is a fun thing to do, as I iron my work shirts every day.. spray starch too.. I have always wanted sleeve creases that you could literally cut yerself on  ;)

I cook, clean, sew buttons, snaps, seams, still learning to hem pants, I sew split/torn zippers..  I have been told I'm going to make someone a wonderful wife someday... oh how little did they know !!   :laugh:
Cool, ever sew? Years ago I was really good at making clothes. I made 2 or 3 very nice dresses. That was fun really & a challenge with the material, patterns, cutting it out, using sewing machine. Now I guess I'm too lazy. I just go shopping at Goodwill or other thrift stores. Sometimes you can find beautiful designer dresses so inexpensive.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on October 26, 2014, 10:33:11 AM
I love to sew. I used to make some extra money as a tailor in the SCA. Someone once commissioned a whole male Elizabethan. That was great fun! I need a new sewing machine. My hand stitching is very good, but who has the time?

Next project after I get the machine, steampunk!
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Post by: Alaena_okc on October 27, 2014, 08:43:21 AM
 :D today i feel better about my plan to start transitioning again, after eight years of not transitioning, im pretty excited to finish what i started, and now i have more support that i could of ever needed, just need the moneys and i can get started... first back on the HRT, and next facial surgeries...
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Post by: Brenda E on October 27, 2014, 09:31:35 AM
Quote from: Alaena_okc on October 27, 2014, 08:43:21 AM. . . just need the moneys and i can get started... first back on the HRT, and next facial surgeries...

In the same boat.  At least the HRT is cheap.  Facial surgeries though?  Well, I suppose it's no bad thing to save for a couple of years while HRT does its thing.  Judging by your avatar your FFS bill will be about half mine!
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Post by: Alaena_okc on October 27, 2014, 12:34:43 PM
Thank You Brenda, i wish my avatar would really show how i feel inside about my looks, if i did, it would scare everyone LOL - but these avatar pics are really me, but i still cry when i look into the mirror :( - it cost so much for facial surgeries, but if i dont do it, i know me, i will give it all up, thats all im gonna say about that...
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Post by: Kaylee Angelia on October 27, 2014, 10:28:53 PM
My nipples are starting to get sensitive and I'm experiencing some itching in my chest area. :)
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Post by: AnneB on October 28, 2014, 01:05:13 PM
Kaylee, jus' remember, careful bout going thru doorways, in/out of car doors, past dressers or bookcases.. bump those puppies and you will wish you had died as a small child.. 
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Post by: Beth Andrea on October 28, 2014, 01:16:41 PM
I had three different passengers at three different times yesterday who asked what I'd done with my face..I asked what they meant, and all said "your face...it looks like a woman's!" (wtte)

What's funny is the night before, I glanced in the mirror and saw no masculine features, and allowed that pleasure to fill my heart. Even my fiancé noticed it...
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Post by: AnneB on October 28, 2014, 01:20:03 PM
Beth, I KNOW that felt good, it made me feel good just reading it!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 28, 2014, 05:11:40 PM
Picked up my spiro today, yea!  I ran out a few days ago because I was just not paying attention. That was a little scarry. However a happy girl to be back on track. My t is very low & I'm so so glad. 
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Post by: Monica Jean on October 28, 2014, 05:39:40 PM
Catching up with the first person I came out to months ago. She hugged me with the biggest hug when I told her I was coming out to my family next week. She made me smile all day! She's a gem!!!
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Post by: Ash on October 28, 2014, 06:01:39 PM
Finally stopped putting off going to the GP and getting back on tracks again towards getting myself them hormones  :)
And he is actually such a wonderful guy is amazing about everything. Maybe even a slight crush  :-*
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Post by: FrancisAnn on October 29, 2014, 06:46:41 AM
Flipping the TV remote & came across "Nail'd It" TV show last night. That was cool. Nail salon people competing to build & design the best fingernails. Since I love long painted nails that was/is my kind of fun TV show, kinda fake with men judges but still funny. 
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Post by: minxiejinxielynxie on October 29, 2014, 06:56:01 AM
Just watched The Nightmare Before Christmas, it's such a fun movie and it's really brightened my mood today!
Now I just want it to be Christmas though! haha :)
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Post by: ★ Sophia ★ on October 29, 2014, 09:01:00 AM
It's less then two months, so no time for me really. Compared to other things.

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Post by: pretty pauline on October 29, 2014, 01:08:45 PM
Quote from: Paula Christine on October 26, 2014, 07:36:33 AM
I LOVE to iron.. well, I do not LOVE it, but it is a fun thing to do, as I iron my work shirts every day.. spray starch too.. I have always wanted sleeve creases that you could literally cut yerself on  ;)

I cook, clean, sew buttons, snaps, seams, still learning to hem pants, I sew split/torn zippers..  I have been told I'm going to make someone a wonderful wife someday... oh how little did they know !!   :laugh:
That's very funny about LOVING Ironing, I don't particularly like ironing, didn't do much of it till I became a housewife, it's now just a household chore with the laundry, cleaning, polishing, dusting and cooking, hubby won't wear a shirt unless it's ironed, he doesn't do ironing, I don't like ironing but I do it, I just get on with it, most women do, I do love sewing and knitting, very rewarding, I guess I am a wonderful wife to my hubby :angel:
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Post by: Alaena_okc on October 29, 2014, 03:48:02 PM
 :-\ was sad and went for a motorcycle ride at lunch, now i feel gooder  :) --- motorcycles, my best therapy for me...
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Post by: ImagineKate on October 29, 2014, 03:51:28 PM
Happy I got up today. That's about it. Oh wait scratch that. So I got nothin' :(
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Post by: Ellie_L on October 29, 2014, 05:03:18 PM
got some pepperoni pizza sticks and am I currently spending my day off relaxing
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Post by: Jenny07 on October 30, 2014, 05:05:34 AM
Woke up this morning and was surprised. I have Boobies. It was interesting experience. :)

Had a client meeting today and they love the job that I do for them. They are so happy with the way things are going and they are our most difficult client and I am the only one to ever get on top of it..
Management hates me so guess I will be getting no bonus or pay rise and looking for a new job. They just want to get rid of us all and don't care.
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Post by: Paeonia on October 30, 2014, 08:16:48 AM
Being told I have really nice eyes (I don't get it, they are the eyes of someone to tired to stand up sometimes.)
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Post by: speckyhailey on October 30, 2014, 10:28:32 AM
I got an essay back that I wrote for politics with a score of 89% which is cool :)
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Post by: Ellesmira the Duck on October 30, 2014, 10:50:55 AM
My partner for one of my classes casually asked period related questions. So I'm passing to her at least ^_^ fortunately she talks a lot so I just smiled and nodded my way through. Weird thing to be happy about but I'm still all smiley.
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Post by: Allyda on October 30, 2014, 03:21:47 PM
Quote from: Jenny07 on October 30, 2014, 05:05:34 AM
Woke up this morning and was surprised. I have Boobies. It was interesting experience. :)
Congratulations! Now just watch out for those doorways, dressers, Car doors, hell anything that is booby height. If you don't you will regeret it! Still tho it's a wonderful feeling.

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: MelissaAnn on October 30, 2014, 03:56:58 PM
What made me feel particularly happy today is I got a package from UPS, which contained two new dresses that I had ordered and they fit beautifully. I can't wait to wear them out. I feel like a little kid on Christmas morning again.

Hugs,

Melissa Ann
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Post by: Azahara on October 30, 2014, 06:13:38 PM
I picked up my first HRT prescriptions from the pharmacy today!!!  :angel:

I spent a long time just holding them tight against my chest with my eyes closed once I got home....I cried a little from just the surreality of it.

It's been such a difficult journey from July 2011 when I first truly accepted myself as transsexual to starting HRT in September 2012 but being forced to stop after only one month due to unrelated severe medical issues, to many months of debilitating depression...but eventually coming back to life and coming to a point where I was content enough with myself and stable in my mood to start the process of gaining access to HRT.

And now I have them and it truly feels surreal to be able to look to my left and see the pills inside their bottles for my anti-androgens and estradiol.

I'm so so so happy to begin my physical transition to align my body with my mind and spirit.  Please send some good vibes my way!  :angel:
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Post by: Alaena_okc on October 30, 2014, 06:50:58 PM
A BIG CONGRATULATIONS! Azahara, very happy moments for you awaits :)

im happy because i finally came out to everyone today and im still alive LOL, Alaena is finally free to be herself YEAH!  ;)
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Post by: Jill F on October 30, 2014, 06:56:12 PM
Quote from: Alaena_okc on October 30, 2014, 06:50:58 PM
A BIG CONGRATULATIONS! Azahara, very happy moments for you awaits :)

im happy because i finally came out to everyone today and im still alive LOL, Alaena is finally free to be herself YEAH!  ;)

Congrats, Alaena! Being yourself as you please is so rewarding.

It was like Atlas dropkicking the globe for me.  I hope it was the same for you.
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Post by: Cassie Soup on October 30, 2014, 07:05:11 PM
Im happy because I have someone that truly cares about me, and im on pain pills, I just had four impacted teeth removed today lol
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Post by: Kira357 on October 30, 2014, 08:29:05 PM
Quote from: Alaena_okc on October 29, 2014, 03:48:02 PM
:-\ was sad and went for a motorcycle ride at lunch, now i feel gooder  :) --- motorcycles, my best therapy for me...

I went for a beach cruise on the Harley Mon night, +1 for motorcycle therapy!!!

Probably going to do a goth-grrl/biker chick ride tomorrow night too !!  >:-)
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Post by: Hayley on October 30, 2014, 09:38:34 PM
Finding out my SO and I have the same size shoe!
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on October 30, 2014, 09:46:43 PM
Quote from: Azahara on October 30, 2014, 06:13:38 PM
I picked up my first HRT prescriptions from the pharmacy today!!!  :angel:

I spent a long time just holding them tight against my chest with my eyes closed once I got home....I cried a little from just the surreality of it.

It's been such a difficult journey from July 2011 when I first truly accepted myself as transsexual to starting HRT in September 2012 but being forced to stop after only one month due to unrelated severe medical issues, to many months of debilitating depression...but eventually coming back to life and coming to a point where I was content enough with myself and stable in my mood to start the process of gaining access to HRT.

And now I have them and it truly feels surreal to be able to look to my left and see the pills inside their bottles for my anti-androgens and estradiol.

I'm so so so happy to begin my physical transition to align my body with my mind and spirit.  Please send some good vibes my way!  :angel:

Congratulations, Azahara! *sends good vibes*  ;D

Yeah, I know what you mean about it feeling surreal. That's how I felt too. Really happy but kinda almost in disbelief that the impossible day I dreamt of for so long had finally come.

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Post by: Kira357 on October 31, 2014, 04:30:30 AM
Quote from: Allyda on October 30, 2014, 03:21:47 PM
Congratulations! Now just watch out for those doorways, dressers, Car doors, hell anything that is booby height. If you don't you will regeret it! Still tho it's a wonderful feeling.

Ally :icon_flower:

Takes a while to get used to your new "geometry", that's for sure !!! And like Allyda said, the dreaded "tittie punch" if you brush through a doorway too fast.... OUCH !!!
And it IS a wonderful feeling indeed...
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Post by: Paeonia on October 31, 2014, 07:34:32 AM
I found a 7 spot ladybird in the kitchen this morning. Probably came in on some plant cuttings I got last night.

Also, it's pay day for me!
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Post by: rosinstraya on October 31, 2014, 09:40:20 AM
Got ma'amed at the station today . OK it was by a chugger (charity mugger), but they appeared to have 20/20 vision, so...... :)
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Post by: Mariah on October 31, 2014, 04:58:49 PM
Injections finally having replaced the patches.


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Post by: minxiejinxielynxie on October 31, 2014, 07:05:11 PM
Saw Halloween in the cinema (which was such a great experience) and managed to scare the willies out of one of my friends during the movie, haha, we all had a lot of fun and it was great seeing old friends again, but I really gotta keep in touch more with them
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Post by: Mariah on November 01, 2014, 02:26:06 PM
First Spiro dose down with many more to look forward too.
Mariah
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Post by: robin s on November 01, 2014, 07:17:55 PM
I got to spend the entire day out in public as myself. First time.  Best day ever
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on November 01, 2014, 07:27:59 PM
Quote from: robin s on November 01, 2014, 07:17:55 PM
I got to spend the entire day out in public as myself. First time.  Best day ever

:) That's great! What did you do? I went shopping for new clothes and got some groceries my first time...
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Post by: robin s on November 01, 2014, 07:35:06 PM
I started out at a group meeting then we all went out to dinner. Small stuff but a nice start
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Post by: Jessica-Louise on November 01, 2014, 07:40:15 PM
So, I just got accepted by Camosun College to study Psychology! I'll be doing an Associate Degree and then after two years I'll transfer to the 3rd year of a Psychology BA or BSc at UVic (University of Victoria) leading to a Master's in counselling. This is all so I can be a Registered Clinical Counsellor. I love speaking to people one to one and sharing views/ feelings/ problems, etc. It'd be great to have some training so I can help more effectively and actually get paid for it! If I stay in Victoria I think I'd be the only counsellor who's transitioned in the whole city so I could certainly help the community here but I'd also like to help all kinds of people. I start in January and I'm pretty excited... I'm also a bit nervous coz I've never been to school as a girl before but it'll probably be great.
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Post by: Kira357 on November 01, 2014, 07:49:58 PM
Exactly one year ago today, I came-out as TG for the first time in my life... survived 40+ years of GD hell... and I'm done with it !! Celebrated with a great mani/pedi and got some hot new clothes. Now, I'm almost 9 months in on HRT, and by this time next year, I plan on being full-time forever !!!  ;D
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Post by: Monica Jean on November 01, 2014, 07:56:44 PM
So many awesome stories in this thread! Love it!
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Post by: Eevee on November 01, 2014, 09:43:15 PM
I got a really pretty necklace today. I'm starting to think I'll need a jewelry box soon.
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Post by: tuuliu on November 02, 2014, 04:31:58 AM
Reached 6 months, looked in the mirror, and literally jumped with joy ;D (the exact opposite reaction to how I felt at 5 months!) I slept so little and weirdly enough that's why I was bursting with energy to finally start my own video blog  ;D
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Post by: PinkCloud on November 02, 2014, 06:06:41 AM
It made me happy that I didn't have bladder spasms for a whole 36 hours.
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Post by: Mariah on November 02, 2014, 03:30:53 PM
Manicure and pedicure to prepare for my annual work meeting tomorrow. My first since starting my transition and going full time.
Mariah
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Post by: Hailey zy on November 02, 2014, 03:42:02 PM
I came out to my father today, he was completely accepting.  Tomorrow we are going to set up a meeting with therapist.
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Post by: Brenda E on November 02, 2014, 07:47:01 PM
Went running with a sports bra on for the first time.  Soooo much more comfortable.
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Post by: Jenny07 on November 02, 2014, 08:06:10 PM
Quote from: Brenda E on November 02, 2014, 07:47:01 PM
Went running with a sports bra on for the first time.  Soooo much more comfortable.

You wont be able to run without one soon. They are so good at keeping the girls under control. ;)

First day of holidays this year. So good not to be at work and 3 weeks to be me.
Why does a good fitting bra feel so good for the girls now they are a C?
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on November 02, 2014, 08:29:18 PM
Went to the mall and picked up some new eye shadow and mascara from bareMinerals :) The women there were giving me some makeup tips and had some fun :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 03, 2014, 06:29:15 AM
I found a very nice friend here on SP. She is now happily married & life is very good for her. That is sure nice to see. Now if I can only "get" or keep my life moving forward to enjoy being a nice 100% woman.
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Post by: Mariah on November 03, 2014, 06:33:53 AM
I have no doubt that you can.
Mariah.
Quote from: FrancisAnn on November 03, 2014, 06:29:15 AM
I found a very nice friend here on SP. She is now happily married & life is very good for her. That is sure nice to see. Now if I can only "get" or keep my life moving forward to enjoy being a nice 100% woman.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 03, 2014, 07:11:04 AM
Thank you. Just wish I could turn back the hands on the clock by about 20-30 years like daylight savings time. Have a great day GF.
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Post by: Mariah on November 03, 2014, 07:34:44 AM
Your welcome. I wish we could too. You too GF.
Mariah
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on November 03, 2014, 11:33:40 AM
Been having a good week! Found out I lost seven pounds in the last month of HRT, realized I've obtained enough clothes to go full time whenever I'm ready and the halloween costume that used to feel super small and wouldn't fit actually fit perfectly, even the shoulders somehow.

It's such a great feeling when you can't stop looking at yourself in the mirror. If it wasn't for facial hair still being visible even after shaving, I feel like I'd immediately go full time.
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Post by: Eevee on November 03, 2014, 11:40:33 AM
My breasts started jiggling a bit, so I got myself a sports bra. Today is my first day wearing it, and it keeps reminding me that my body is actually changing! It's not much, but it's something.
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Post by: Alaena_okc on November 03, 2014, 02:30:38 PM
Congrats Eevee, it all matters even the little improvements... :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: MelissaAnn on November 03, 2014, 03:58:18 PM
Eevee,
Congratulations, it's great to see things moving forward, isn't it.

What's made me particularly happy today is I'm a music nut, and my favorite band is Pink Floyd, who released their first song off their new album today, after more than 20 years. I'm so excited. I've been listening to over and over again. May the Angels always look upon you and guide you on your path.

Hugs,

Melissa Ann
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Post by: TheQuestion on November 03, 2014, 04:54:03 PM
Quote from: MelissaAnn on November 03, 2014, 03:58:18 PM
Eevee,
Congratulations, it's great to see things moving forward, isn't it.

What's made me particularly happy today is I'm a music nut, and my favorite band is Pink Floyd, who released their first song off their new album today, after more than 20 years. I'm so excited. I've been listening to over and over again. May the Angels always look upon you and guide you on your path.

Hugs,

Melissa Ann

Same thing that made me happy today!!!  Haven't heard it yet, but I'm hoping it's good.  Top 5-10 favorite for me, BUT, they were THE band that got me into music.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on November 03, 2014, 05:41:09 PM
Tomato and cucumber in balsamic vinegar and olive oil, lightly salted.
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Post by: Mariah on November 03, 2014, 08:24:09 PM
At the check stand at the grocery store this gentlemen took the bucket of detergent out of the cart. I didn't even ask for anyone to do it.
Mariah
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AnneB on November 03, 2014, 09:14:36 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on November 03, 2014, 05:41:09 PM
Tomato and cucumber in balsamic vinegar and olive oil, lightly salted.

Dee, ya gotta add garlic, chopped green onions.. mmmmmmmmmmm
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: VikingArchangel on November 04, 2014, 12:05:51 AM
The women at work are starting to treat me like one of the girls. I am out to no one on this continent, so I have to guess at the reason. Maybe they read me as a gay guy? Don't care - I'm just so happy about that!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on November 04, 2014, 01:05:33 AM
I started a new staff member today. She spent some time looking at the previous staff photos (we have a wall with them posted from every two years), over coffee she asked me if the guy with the same surname as mine was my Dad. :laugh:
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Post by: Nicole on November 04, 2014, 01:55:50 AM
Getting the first four (or a share of it) in the Melbourne Cup thanks to a friend who tipped it to me.... that means clothes, clothes shoes & more clothes
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Post by: rosinstraya on November 04, 2014, 06:16:55 AM
Quote from: Cindy on November 04, 2014, 01:05:33 AM
I started a new staff member today. She spent some time looking at the previous staff photos (we have a wall with them posted from every two years), over coffee she asked me if the guy with the same surname as mine was my Dad. :laugh:

Swede!!!!  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on November 04, 2014, 08:52:06 AM
Quote from: Paula Christine on November 03, 2014, 09:14:36 PM
Dee, ya gotta add garlic, chopped green onions.. mmmmmmmmmmm

Usually I add fresh basil, but I don't have any ATM. Just frozen and it gets mushy when you thaw it.

I have three best friends, Sweety, my ex-boss (not the most recent one), and another one. Sunday I made scones and sweety facebooked it. My third friend complained that her phone must be out of order because she never got a phone call to come over for breakfast. So yesterday I invited her to come this morning for tea and scones. Scones are cooling on the table. Kettle is heated. Everything is ready. She'll be here in 40 minutes. Also, I have a phone interview today after she leaves. Not the job I really want, but it will keep food on the table. Oh, and the paperwork for the apartment we really want is all in. Now the waiting begins.
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Post by: Monica Jean on November 04, 2014, 11:10:04 AM
Visit the doctor for HRT today and appt for bloodwork for possibly raising E level dosage in a couple weeks! HappyDance!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on November 04, 2014, 01:56:44 PM
Followup, we got the apartment. Now packing and a job. Things are better.
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Post by: Destiny Marie on November 04, 2014, 02:03:58 PM
Found out that there are still people in this world and on this site who care about me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Devlyn on November 04, 2014, 02:39:55 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on October 10, 2014, 08:35:26 PM
1.56730769231

1.4851762821
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: liz on November 04, 2014, 06:10:12 PM
Just learn I'm gonna participate in a 7days race in 2015, and guess what ... My coach with many arguments got me to participate by women side :)

My legal name has been changed but I don't have surgery yet so I'm style "male" on paper so I think it's a big advancement and recognition as "trans" usualy have to go on men side or just give up.

I was gonna give up on doing serious sports, having to participate among men... It was pretty akward. Now I'm pumped up to achieve new goals :)
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Post by: Eevee on November 05, 2014, 01:13:37 PM
I did it!

I finally found the courage to come out at my school. It wasn't all that difficult, since the school staff already knew, but I guess I just had to find the right time to just let everyone else know. I figured that since I'm now wearing a bra (I got a sports bra because it was getting a little uncomfortable otherwise), people might start asking awkward questions if they noticed. To avoid that, I just answered the question en masse before it was asked.

Now I feel so much better; mainly because I won't be called by my male name all day long. It was the last place (other than the rare phone calls with mom) that I heard that name, so now I can be through with it. My first class today was particularly bad about this, because there's a guy in the class named Jesse and I almost always turned my head when I heard that name. I also stopped automatically recognizing my male name when I was called on. Now everyone will just call me Jessica and I can be rid of that confusion.
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Post by: Luna Star on November 05, 2014, 01:31:35 PM
Quote from: Eevee on November 05, 2014, 01:13:37 PM
I did it!

I finally found the courage to come out at my school. It wasn't all that difficult, since the school staff already knew, but I guess I just had to find the right time to just let everyone else know. I figured that since I'm now wearing a bra (I got a sports bra because it was getting a little uncomfortable otherwise), people might start asking awkward questions if they noticed. To avoid that, I just answered the question en masse before it was asked.

Now I feel so much better; mainly because I won't be called by my male name all day long. It was the last place (other than the rare phone calls with mom) that I heard that name, so now I can be through with it. My first class today was particularly bad about this, because there's a guy in the class named Jesse and I almost always turned my head when I heard that name. I also stopped automatically recognizing my male name when I was called on. Now everyone will just call me Jessica and I can be rid of that confusion.


That is awesome :D

I'm so happy for you!
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Post by: immortal gypsy on November 05, 2014, 04:26:54 PM
Wake up this morning look in the mirror, wait didn't I use to have some hair on my chin yesterday.

The face it is a clearing
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Post by: Devlyn on November 05, 2014, 09:15:53 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on November 04, 2014, 02:39:55 PM
1.4851762821


1.4799679487
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on November 06, 2014, 03:40:28 AM
Finally got my ears pierced! It was much easier than I expected, or maybe it's just that the combination of electrolysis and laser make any other form of pain feel like nothing? Whatever the case, got nice stub earrings with amethysts that I'm really happy with.

Also, my brother finally started calling me sister. He's known for a while but this is the first time he calls me that. Felt pretty great!
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Post by: AnnaCannibal on November 06, 2014, 10:42:05 AM
My bald spot is gone.  Filled in with luxuriously thick black hair.  Amazing!
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Post by: Mariah on November 06, 2014, 11:10:54 AM
Yay, Congrats.
Quote from: AnnaCannibal on November 06, 2014, 10:42:05 AM
My bald spot is gone.  Filled in with luxuriously thick black hair.  Amazing!
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Post by: Mariah on November 07, 2014, 03:54:24 PM
As part of the compromise that allowed the kidney doctor to ok my taking Spiro so the Endo could prescribe it. I have to get weekly blood work done to make sure my kidney's are handling it and that the potassium numbers are under control. The first set of blood work was done today I couldn't be happier with the numbers that came in. My potassium numbers actually dropped and my kidney function improved by .13 (1.66 before and now is 1.53). I should not that that it was 1.93 before I started my transition.
Mariah
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Luna Star on November 08, 2014, 02:35:52 AM
I outed myself being trans to my female cousin, she was shocked but so awfully nice as well  :)
And after some talking about me being, trans and how I was explaining that getting clothes, is kinda hard for me to do and awkward.
She offered me to take me out shopping far from where we live so nobody knows us, and so I can get some nice clothes!  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: carrie359 on November 08, 2014, 06:24:53 PM
The humidity is low so my hair looks great!!! LOL.. its the little things in life I grab onto..
Carrie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on November 09, 2014, 09:34:47 AM
Luna that is wonderful news.

I don't quite need it yet but I'm thinking of getting some unmentionables and a nice outfit soon. Just thinking of myself in them takes so much weight off my shoulder its seems so Zen like.  Took most of my morning but I went clothes shopping online and have warm feelings all the way till payday when I can check out.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on November 11, 2014, 01:18:32 AM
Even though I've had some terrible news lately after my grandfather died, there is a little bit of good that has come of it. My cousin, who takes care of most family affairs, has been talking with me. I managed to work up the courage to come out to her, and she's totally accepting. She's even going to help me talk with the rest of my extended family (since my parents have absolutely forbidden that... as if that changes anything). I'll be flying back to Oregon for the funeral in a few weeks, and I'm going to be really nervous about it. I'm just glad someone that my family respects finally has my back.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Trini on November 13, 2014, 11:16:57 PM
::felt chest::

SORENESS! SORENESS EVERYWHERE!

It's finally starting for me.  :D

....

... Weee. Pain. XD
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on November 14, 2014, 07:45:16 AM
I am alive, I am becoming my real self everyday...  Taking my little life savers everyday and I had a great evening out... Let's leave it there

Love Katy
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Post by: Leah443 on November 14, 2014, 11:55:55 AM
The fact that i am leaving the old body behind more and more as time goes on!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: - Rachel - on November 14, 2014, 04:42:30 PM
Getting a letter from the Department of Licensing that read,
"Congratulations, we have approved your request to update your gender identity and have changed your Washington driver record."

I'm legally Female now! I'm floating on air with a huge smile :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on November 14, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
Finding out that my insurance will pay for SRS (new WA state law ruling = discrimination if medically necessary treatments are "excluded").

Copay for hosp stay + surgery = $100
And...no deductible!

WOOT!!!!!

^-^
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Post by: Brenda E on November 14, 2014, 08:37:52 PM
An acquaintance did something that showed me she is a true friend.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on November 15, 2014, 01:54:21 AM
Quote from: - Rachel - on November 14, 2014, 04:42:30 PM
Getting a letter from the Department of Licensing that read,
"Congratulations, we have approved your request to update your gender identity and have changed your Washington driver record."

I'm legally Female now! I'm floating on air with a huge smile :)
Congratulations Rachel! IMHO this is one of our major milestones to overcome during transition. Just proudly when having to show your ID without shame is one of the most endearing things. If you haven't done your SSA and other Documents yet these will come much easier for you now. Again, congratulations!! :icon_bunch: :eusa_clap:

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Allyda on November 15, 2014, 02:00:19 AM
What made me happy (actually now Yesterday)today? I'm finally over this darn Flu I've had for the last 3 weeks, and according to my Doctors scales, it's left me 8 lb's lighter, yay! :eusa_dance:

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 15, 2014, 02:00:45 AM
Saturday I am going to a new support group 25 miles away instead of 125 miles away!  :laugh:

Congrats Ally girl!!!  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on November 15, 2014, 02:03:40 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on November 15, 2014, 02:00:45 AM
Saturday I am going to a new support group 25 miles away instead of 125 miles away!  :laugh:

Congrats Ally girl!!!  :-*
Congrat's to you too Jess. I think it's great you've found a support group local. I wish I had some local support but it just doesn't exist where I currently live. Who knows, maybe I'll try starting one!

Again Jess, Congratulations!! :icon_bunch:

Also I forgot to mention earlier, I got myself 5 new pairs of leggings and two new bra's that are so soooo comfy last evening!. Now all I need is a new pair of wedges to replace my broken ones, lol!

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 15, 2014, 02:06:06 AM
Quote from: Allyda on November 15, 2014, 02:03:40 AM
Who knows, maybe I'll try starting one!
Knowing you like I do I would drive to your place if you did that. There would NEVER be a dull moment! The good thing is SWAT teams need practice all the time to stay sharp, so the two bird and stone thingy applies!  :laugh:
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Post by: Allyda on November 15, 2014, 02:10:14 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on November 15, 2014, 02:06:06 AM
Knowing you like I do I would drive to your place if you did that. There would NEVER be a dull moment! The good thing is SWAT teams need practice all the time to stay sharp, so the two bird and stone thingy applies!  :laugh:
That's the only drawback^^___^^, I'll be outing myself if I do. Right now everyone just accepts me as just another girl on my street. I'll have to think about this...... ???

Ally ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on November 15, 2014, 09:32:59 PM
Quote from: Beth Andrea on November 14, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
Finding out that my insurance will pay for SRS (new WA state law ruling = discrimination if medically necessary treatments are "excluded").

Copay for hosp stay + surgery = $100
And...no deductible!

WOOT!!!!!

^-^

Whoa, is that so? I'm currently in WA and if this is the case then that's a future consideration I won't have to worry about as much as I feared.

Wow, that is truly amazing, congrats!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on November 15, 2014, 09:40:58 PM
I got to spend a lunch break with a friend whom has helped me quite a bit through this troubling time and catch up on a few things.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: SarahVA on November 15, 2014, 09:52:27 PM
Was yesterday, buying some new earrings....it's the little fem things that really make me happy!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on November 15, 2014, 10:50:30 PM
Quote from: FairyHime on November 15, 2014, 09:32:59 PM
Whoa, is that so? I'm currently in WA and if this is the case then that's a future consideration I won't have to worry about as much as I feared.

Wow, that is truly amazing, congrats!

Yeah, Google WA State Insurance Commissioner site, and there should be a notice on the main page...short version: because SRS is a medically necessary surgery, to exclude it from any publicly available policy amounts to gender-based discrimination...which is illegal in WA.

After that, it depends on what your insurance's policy does. Mine is rather good, $100 copay per hospilitalization, and paid in full. Most people would have a deductible as well.

But a deductible is boocoo better than the Full Monty Fee.

:)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Raelynn on November 15, 2014, 11:35:05 PM
Cooked dinner for my mom and I and had some relatives come by. AND counting the days (2)  until my first HRT appointment!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessica-Louise on November 15, 2014, 11:42:00 PM
What made me happy today?

Delsorou... who somehow finds a way to make me happy every day and my Mum... which is actually kinda new for her.

So, I woke up to read an email from my Mum freaking out about how I'll never be able to cope with college and transitioning at the same time for a variety of reasons and I begin to freak out. What if she's right? I won't be able to afford surgery for years! Is it really worth it? Then I see a PM from Delsorou, who knew nothing about my Mum's email, that reminds me about why I wanted to go to college in the first place; so I can train to be a counsellor and help people... but she states it in a way that's so beautiful and inspiring that I feel super motivated and cast in an armour that protects me from the doubts my Mum threw at me. So I reply to my Mum, now more confident and sure of myself than I probably would have been, about why I'm doing what I'm doing and I get this reply:

"can I just say, I am full of admiration for your resolve and determination. I know it's not easy but you're making plans and getting on with it and I'm sure you will get to where you want to be, your strength of character and heart will carry you through, and we are right here behind you, willing you on. X"

To put this into context this is the same woman who threw me out for being trans when I was a kid so that message is kind of a big deal to me.

So yeah... that made me happy today. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kamiki on November 16, 2014, 12:19:03 AM
Today what made me happy was a long chat with my spouse in which we decided to do my Lipo/Sculpt and FFS before our Wedding. She would rather I take more time off and be as happy as can be in my wedding dress. So now it is consult consult consult, then a ftf consult with the final choice and  then set a date. I am hoping for a either a late Feb FFS so I am healed up before our short convention vacation at the end of March (at least enough to go out), or just after that vacation so I am healed enough for May 1 and our wedding.

Kami.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on November 19, 2014, 05:22:22 AM
I survived a talk with a brief x of 30 years ago. I'm sure happy that is resolved & done with. Life goes forward not in reverse. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Bethany_Dawn on November 19, 2014, 05:31:26 AM
It finally happened, my dad used the correct pronoun with having to be corrected first. This brought a huge smile to my face. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on November 19, 2014, 06:31:20 PM
I'm happy to have such a nice electro lady. Appt for Friday afternoon. She does such a great job on my face & always makes me feel great. My facial hair has greatly diminished & maybe soon all that ugly stuff will just go away. I think HRT has helped me quite a bit since all my body hair & facial hair has all slowed down dramtically, Yea!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on November 20, 2014, 02:18:41 AM
I was able to get my todo list completely don't with a nice bit of me time to relax. It didn't end on a high note but most of it was good.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eevee on November 20, 2014, 02:08:11 PM
My pharmacist greeted me as "ma'am" today. I hadn't even told him what medication I was picking up yet. That's the first time that had ever happened to me. It left such a good feeling in me!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Laurette Mohr on November 20, 2014, 02:10:28 PM
Initiating the process for HRT and therapy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Andreja Silvija on November 20, 2014, 02:21:43 PM
Started HRT today! Estradiol, spiro, and provera. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Raelynn on November 20, 2014, 08:33:31 PM
Crying.  A LOT.

Yep.  Crying made me happy today!  I finally came out to my mother and it went better than I thought.  Well actually, it just went.  She was fine with it and even giggled at me.  I guess when the words came out of my mouth, I yelled them!  And when she reacted by saying "So.", I thought she assumed I was kidding... so I repeated myself, to which she replied "I know."  I asked her how she knew and she told me that I came out to her just a few seconds ago and told me I needed to see a Dr about my memory... 

She is totally okay with it.  Well, I say totally, I am sure there will be some things / questions come up later, but for now, she told me she loves me, always has and always will.  Then I got mad at her... I said, "You mean I have been hiding this from you for 35 years and 100's of therapy sessions and you are not even going to throw a fit or anything?!?"  And she replied, "Nope.  That would take the fun out of your expression right now!"  God I love my mom!

*EDIT:  She told me that she didn't have any idea about my sexuality, but now that I told her, she said a lot of things make sense now and that she can believe it.

We did discuss the kids and she thinks that I should wait until I meet someone that I am serious about and not to 'flaunt' it in front of the kids unless I am willing to settle down with one guy.  She said that I didn't know what her and Dad did in the bed room and neither should my kids.

Congrats Andreja!  I started Monday on Depo-Estradiol, Spiro and Provera too.  Not feeling anything different yet other than happy, happy, happy.  I feel like the world is mine for the taking!

Rae

Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on November 20, 2014, 09:26:14 PM
I bought a new coat and a pair of jeans today. And I was ma'amed by the cashier :)

That is until I opened my mouth :( my voice needs work badly

But I totally love the coat. It's a belted wool blend coat and much more beautiful than any of the men's coats I have. I feel bad though as they were all gifts.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Allyda on November 20, 2014, 11:08:07 PM
A friend of mine after much struggle with gatekeepers finally started her hrt today. I'm very happy for her!

Ally ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessica-Louise on November 21, 2014, 12:30:34 AM
My updated ID with my new name and gender marker arrived in the mail! I look... okay in the photo too. This makes me even happier than I thought it would. Yay! ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on November 21, 2014, 03:46:07 AM
Beauty shop appointment for Saturday which will be so nice. My lady friend has helped me so much to improve my appearance. We will work more on removing facial hairs. My face looks so much nicer & hair growth has diminished sunstantially. I think HRT has improved my body quite a bit. My body hair & facial hair growth have really slowed down along with breast growth, nicer completion...... We use NuFree which is kinda of a warm wax for professional hair removal salons. She will remove ever single remaining hair on my face. This will be my 4th or 5th treament with Nufree. It's so easy. She also does electrolysis on the more stubborn hairs. NuFree is a nice hair removal system for any unwanted hair on the human body, just FYI GF's.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on November 21, 2014, 09:53:27 AM
As I so often do, reporting on yesterday.

Got a call from one of my three best friends, the only one I hadn't come out to. She's my ex boss and had left my previous employer a year ahead of me. I had been trying to reach her, 'cause I picked her up a lil' sumpin' sumpin' at Firefly Distillery on my way home. She gave me hell for not telling her I had been let go and we made a date for me to come by later yesterday. Invited Sweetie, but she was too tired.

Got there and she started hinting that someone had let the cat out of the bag, so we went to a private room to talk. I hadn't come out to her because she's religious and I wasn't sure how she'd react. Turns out one of the staff I had told had a big mouth and had outed me to her. So I explained the whole current medical belief about how we come about and she accepted me wholeheartedly. Yay!

We sampled her gift, chatted about our ex-employer and she expressed the opinion that I had been shafted, particularly because the two state agencies involved, the Office of Mental Health, and the Justice Center, had completely exonerated me. Stayed for dinner and we had a really good evening. Always a fun time with her, especially when her mother-in-law, who has dementia, asked for a mojito and I demonstrated my current craving and extreme tolerance for hot peppers. The evening was very merry! The only significant person in my life who's still in the dark is my sister, now. I think I'll tell her over the holidays if I can swing getting out to see her.

Oh, and that exoneration leaves me free to apply to agencies in my field, unless I decide that I don't want to. Maybe I'll get financial aid or student loans and finish my Masters instead. Then I could become a transition counselor.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Monica Jean on November 21, 2014, 11:16:48 AM
Congrats Andreja!

For me today, having lunch with a friend :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on November 21, 2014, 06:55:37 PM
I've been so emotional lately & I have cried over a few things that have upset me. One of my very close GF's finally just said "you are like a woman on her PMS, just relax".  Then I thanked her & said I'll take that as a compliment. So funny to me. Life is great being a woman.  Have fun GF's.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: speckyhailey on November 22, 2014, 11:42:05 AM
I discovered the joys of yoga pants! They're so comfortable and bring out my curves!
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Post by: JenniR04 on November 22, 2014, 11:48:40 AM
Fully shaved my legs from top to bottom for the first time ever, it feels so great. Only disappointed I didn't do it a lot sooner.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 23, 2014, 04:15:13 AM
I had such a nice visit yesterday with my electro lady friend/beauty shop. My face is so smooth & looks so nice. Also my lady friend said that my breasts are larger than some of her cis women clients & that my remaining facial hairs are less than one of her cis women clients. I've been seeing this nice lady for over a year & she has helped me so much to become more of a woman. Oh & how lucky for me, my lady friend is my same height, 5' 8", dress size 14 & wears a size 10 womens shoes. My exact dress & shoe size. She is going to give me a lot of her unwanted shoes, boots & or clothes.   
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Post by: Xipup on November 24, 2014, 11:28:02 PM
What made me happy was going to work today. Last week a started a new job working for a large, multinational company working on a highly visible project. It is validating to be able to participate in a something which gives me a creative outlet and sense of purpose.
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Post by: FairyHime on November 25, 2014, 01:32:05 AM
My grandparents found out about me. I don't really get to see them but my mom was able to meet up with them, so I gave her permission to let them know and she did.

That same day I got a call from them being completely supportive and cool with the whole thing. It was pretty comforting since that expands the circle of family that currently knows. Very exciting!

The main challenges to still be met are coming out to my father's side of the family (super conservative and judgmental) and coming out at work. I'm kind of terrified about these two being considerably more difficult, but I'm excited about not having to hide anything from anyone once I do.
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Post by: Mariah on November 25, 2014, 07:10:06 AM
Getting my wait down to 160.1 with a BMI of 25.1. Oh so close finally that I can taste it.
Mariah
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Post by: traci_k on November 25, 2014, 07:23:10 AM
Actually it was yesterday. We had an office potluck and the one woman in the office who I've come out to as trans, even though I haven't begun transition yet, invited me to eat with her and a couple other girls and it was a fun hour of girl chat. This morning I thanked her for helping me feel like "one of the girls." She said anytime. I've hugged her several times because she can tell when I'm down because of the dysphoria, After I thanked her I had to take a quick walk outside because I thought I was going to cry with happiness, she made me feel so special as "one of the girls."

Hugs All,
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Post by: ImagineKate on November 25, 2014, 07:30:39 AM
Bought some burts bees gloss for my lips. Guava yum!
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Post by: ImagineKate on November 25, 2014, 07:31:12 AM

Quote from: Mariah2014 on November 25, 2014, 07:10:06 AM
Getting my wait down to 160.1 with a BMI of 25.1. Oh so close finally that I can taste it.
Mariah

That's my goal too. I'm 173 now and dropping. Hitting the gym hard.
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Post by: Mariah on November 25, 2014, 07:35:13 AM
Getting inside the normal weight range is my first goal and then dropping another good 20 I will be really happy with my weight. I'm very happy to hear that is your goal. I have no doubt you can achieve it. I honestly thought I would hit this weight a year and half ago, but a few stumbling blocks slowed me down.
Mariah
Quote from: ImagineKate on November 25, 2014, 07:31:12 AM
That's my goal too. I'm 173 now and dropping. Hitting the gym hard.
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Post by: bv5913 on November 25, 2014, 08:02:00 AM
Got a date for my surgury. June 2015 . so went clothes shopping as a reward.
And 3 guys chatted me up today when i went shopping. Got a date on friday, as he was the only one that was OK with me having more than i should down there. The other two was not so happy when i told them.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 25, 2014, 09:40:09 AM
A woman in line at the grocery store that I let ahead of me said thank you Mam, as she glanced at my face, that was nice. Maybe my facelift & eye lid surgery was worth it. I was not really dressed very feminine, no makeup at all, just normal.
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Post by: Luna Star on November 25, 2014, 03:36:33 PM
Looking in the mirror actually. I've been losing weight and letting my hair grow out. And it does wonders already :D ,not on hrt yet but I think I already got an androgynous "head/face" if that makes sense. The littlest changes hrt will do (especially body wise) will do wonders...

Already thinking of going outside dressed as a woman, even tho I have no clothes yet :p
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Post by: Christine Eryn on November 26, 2014, 09:25:59 PM
I was at KFC today and was "ma'amed" at first glance by the cashier.  :icon_dance:  As I walked out, I was all smiles! The long-ish hair and earrings throw people off I guess.
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Post by: Skeptoid on November 26, 2014, 09:33:38 PM
Honestly? Today, nothing. Not feeling too great right now.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 26, 2014, 09:55:13 PM
Quote from: Skeptoid on November 26, 2014, 09:33:38 PM
Honestly? Today, nothing. Not feeling too great right now.
Thanks for your post. Hang in there. You are very young with a nice life ahead of you. Happy Thanksgiving to you.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on November 26, 2014, 10:13:39 PM
Visiting family in Knoxville, TN and being told how beautiful I look by those who haven't seen me since I transitioned. Did so shopping today with my sister in law and dinner with my cousin. She treated my wife and I to a wonderful steak dinner at Flemings Steak house.
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Post by: Skeptoid on November 26, 2014, 11:21:32 PM
Francis, thank you.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 27, 2014, 05:57:59 AM
I'm going to color my hair today which is always fun, lunch with my beauty salon owner early next week. She is giving me some of her older leather boots since we are the same size & we'll have fun with girl talk while she does my face with her makeup ideas. I'm already back on my diet after too much turkey yesterday & I'm going to step up my daily spiro to make sure my hormone levels stay correct. Happy Thanksgiving to all.
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Post by: JohannaSwe on November 27, 2014, 06:21:12 AM
Dancing, although I am not much of a dancer!
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Post by: Tessa James on November 27, 2014, 11:36:31 AM
A thanksgiving gathering of dear old friends and family.  Simply the best!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 27, 2014, 01:09:11 PM
Colored my hair with Clairol Expert. Very nice coverage & soft hair. Today was the first time I've used this brand & it sure seems worth a few more dollors than some other cheaper brands I've used.  It guarantees to cover any grey & permanent color, not wash away cream. Just FYI GF's if you have any grey.
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Post by: Blondie14 on November 27, 2014, 02:39:28 PM
Thanksgiving dinner soon
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Post by: Rainbow Dash on November 27, 2014, 03:50:40 PM
going to school and not being outed. It's been really really hard though. But I'm not the only trans girl there and we are friends. I got to do some backing up in the Semi truck because I was shadowing an instructor and he wanted to see what I knew. Did really well too. And he's given me the nickname of "Lucky Charms". because of my Lucky hat. After class is finished though I just go back to my Dorm room and do nothing really. I miss my chats with Caleb. But, overall, I'm pretty happy. :)
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Post by: TSJasmine on November 27, 2014, 03:51:25 PM
Turkey
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Post by: ᴏɴᴇ ʟɪғᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟɪᴠᴇ ☆ on November 27, 2014, 05:40:54 PM
New clothes, hot shower with a facial scrub, horror movie, and vanilla ice cream :)
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on November 27, 2014, 06:31:12 PM
Prepared a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner today at my Mother-In-Laws house. Her health prevented her from cooking this year and I was so happy to be able to make Thanksgiving so special today. (And I did a great job on Thanksgiving dinner considering it wasn't my kitchen and everyone loved my cooking.) Some aunts, uncles, nephews and nieces came and it was great to see everyone. This was the first Thanksgiving as my true self and I feel thankful to experience today :)
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Post by: Cassie Soup on November 27, 2014, 09:43:47 PM
My boyfriend saying that hes thankful for me on thanksgiving, made me happy today :)
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Post by: Allyda on November 28, 2014, 12:22:57 AM
Had a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner with my friend from Georgia. She's like a kid sister to me so it had the feeling of family. A feeling I haven't felt in a very long time. We prepared our turkey and fixings ourselves too so that made it all the more special. :D

Ally :icon_flower:
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Post by: Mariah on November 28, 2014, 06:00:28 AM
This was actually yesterday, but I received a call from my Aunt wishing a happy Thanksgiving. She was told months ago about my transitioning. The last time I had talked to her, which was almost 4 months ago, I felt more comfortable using my old voice. Even though, I saw who the phone call was from, I still answered with my female voice. She had no clue as to who picked the phone up when I first spoke. It wasn't tell after she asked and I had to tell her what my name is for her to know who was on the phone. She clearly wasn't ready for me to answer the phone that way, but I can live with that. It's the fact I pulled the voice off that her resulted in her not recognizing who is on the phone that I'm happy about.
Mariah
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Post by: katrinaw on November 28, 2014, 06:49:05 AM
Realization

L Katy
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 28, 2014, 06:58:22 AM
Thrift store shopping today, there are 3 in my area & I plan to attack all of them, watch out fellow women shoppers!
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Post by: islandgirl on November 28, 2014, 10:37:04 AM
Wearing my 'girl' jeans and feeling the happiest I have in a long while. I came out to my SO at the end of October (just blurted it out while shoe shopping) and it has been a roller coaster ride since (mostly great). What is the best is that I can start to be the girl that I always knew was inside of me, at least at home, and am seeing the world through a new set of lenses. It only took 61 years! I will be taking baby steps, but all in the right direction, starting from the inside out.
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Post by: CrysC on November 28, 2014, 11:15:18 AM
I still have to go out as a guy for a mix of things including travel.  It is simply far easier until I can make a legal change. 
The thing that made me happy is that the past few times I have done this I was taken to be a woman despite best efforts. 
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Post by: Rachel on November 28, 2014, 01:41:01 PM
I ordered 4 tops and they arrived today. I tried them on and they fit (XL tall). There are my first female tops and I realized as I was trying them on I had a smile ear to ear.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 28, 2014, 03:12:12 PM
Goodwill store: 2 very nice long sleeve black dresses, 2 pairs of shoes, almost new, barely scratched, 1 an open toe pump, black, fits perfect, a beautiful purple very nice loose blouse, a short fun coat, 3 cd's & a new coffee cup for $13. Yes 13$, it's embrassing so inexpensive, nice almost new clothes & shoes.
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Post by: JenniR04 on November 28, 2014, 07:10:11 PM
I went and had some "me" time today doing some Black Friday shopping and buying myself a new outfit and purse. Very much needed after the rough stretch I've had home with the soon-to-be ex-wife.

Keep smiling  ;D
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Post by: Vicky Mitchell on November 28, 2014, 08:24:15 PM
Went shopping today with my head held high and got me some new workout clothes.  Time to feel the burn.


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Post by: tuuliu on November 29, 2014, 04:13:34 PM
Went out with a group of old friends, something we do every year. I was feeling really miserable earlier in the day and it took me a while to realize it was about looking like a guy and still not being out to this group. With them I'm not ready yet. Wrote it all down and cried a little.

Seeing them was nice but I still had to keep my guards up so that exhausted me fast. What really made my day though was one guy commenting that I almost look like a girl. When we took a group photo one guy joked he's next to the hot blonde. Which was me...
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Post by: Cee Myk on November 30, 2014, 02:10:59 AM
 :P I got partially caught up on some assignments I was slacking on for no apparent reason. I think I have made it through the Autumnal Equinox, which is usually when I have to take care of myself emotionally because I think I am most vulnerable at times that period every year. I'm a cancer, so not sure if that has anything to do with anything.  ???
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Post by: FrancisAnn on November 30, 2014, 04:48:28 AM
I met such a nice GF on Susan's Place. She was married 15 years ago to a very nice man & they have a great marriage with lots of good sex. Her man is well endowed, loves her & she can also climax some of the times during sex. We are so much alike & it's so nice to find a "real woman" to talk with about men & married life. It gives me hope with my life.
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Post by: Rachel on November 30, 2014, 11:41:08 AM
Ordered some more tops, tee's and 2 pair of jeans. Free shipping and 1/2 to 2/3 off price :) I need a lot of cloths :)

Off to Montreal in 40 minutes. I wonder if they will say anything about my passport photo and how I look now. I will be in male clothing but still I wonder.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 01, 2014, 04:52:54 AM
I enjoyed the Thanksgiving season however I'm glad it's over. As always I ate a little too much. Appointment with week with my plastic surgeon to look at my body to hopefully do some liposuction around my midsection, under arms & maybe my back area. I look OK but it would sure be nice if my upper body where thinner with less fat. I'm also going to ask him if while I'm under if he can do my orchiectomy, I'm sure that will not take long since it's not a big procedure. The surgeon & all of his women staff members are so nice to me & that would great to wake up with a more shaply female body & not have to take any more spiro pills & pee so much. 
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Post by: MyKa on December 01, 2014, 05:15:07 PM
At the grocery store this kid 10/11 years old as I walked by she said to her mother"my god she's 6 ft tall" I thought it was funny the way she said it. It's true I probably was over 6ft tall with the heels I had on. Jesus I think  a lot of people were looking, that's the trouble with being tall you definitely draw attention.
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Post by: FairyHime on December 01, 2014, 11:51:35 PM
Finally mustered up the courage to talk to the HR people at work and come out. I was so terrified the whole day, but when I did it it went rather well and there was no reason to even worry. Now I just feel super calm and excited. I'll be sleeping well tonight!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 02, 2014, 04:38:30 PM
I'm so happy for 2 very special friends. These two women have helped me so much with becomming a woman. They listen to me on my rough days & my nice days however they are always my true girl friends. One I've known since grade school. It is so nice to enjoy estrogen & feel so much better about myself each day as I improve my body & my life. 
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Post by: carrie359 on December 02, 2014, 05:44:23 PM
I am just happy.. happy to be in transition and going to be myself.  Never dreamed this day would come but full time is coming fast.
What really made me happy was to schedule FFS on December 18th.  I am ready to get that done and get healed up.
Keri
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Post by: Dee Marshall on December 02, 2014, 10:24:59 PM
Today the endocrinologist told me to put away the purple pills and start taking the blue ones.

Also, my Sweetie bought me a present, a bath caddy that will hold a glass of wine or a cup of tea and a book while I soak in the tub. I love to soak in the tub!
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Post by: JenniR04 on December 02, 2014, 11:00:04 PM
Had a great visit with my therapist tonight and we are quickly working toward a hormone referral letter and moving this transition forward ..... So happy in that regard!!
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Post by: JustEmily on December 02, 2014, 11:08:51 PM
My dad said "atta' girl...I mean boy...well, I guess girl 'll do."  I about choked. (He's 80 and I'm not out to him).
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 03, 2014, 08:50:37 AM
I'm going to start the Atkins low carb diet. Liposuction is not the right answer to having a nicer body. If anyone has used it please post your results.
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Post by: Monica Jean on December 03, 2014, 08:53:24 AM
a trans friend helped me out of my stressful early-transition doldrums by being there and talking with me. 


I don't know how anyone can go through a transition without friends as safety nets on those days when it seems hopeless.  I don't have many friends, but the friends I have are more valuable than gold to me. 
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 03, 2014, 12:25:41 PM
Quote from: michelle1 on December 03, 2014, 08:53:24 AM
a trans friend helped me out of my stressful early-transition doldrums by being there and talking with me. 


I don't know how anyone can go through a transition without friends as safety nets on those days when it seems hopeless.  I don't have many friends, but the friends I have are more valuable than gold to me.
Your friends have problems also, please try to help them as much as you can so friendship is a 2 way street. Sometimes we think our gender problems are more important. I also treasure my GF's.
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Post by: JenniR04 on December 03, 2014, 03:46:05 PM
I got a call for a job interview on Friday for a seasonal associate position at Kohl's. I'm nervous because I filled out the paperwork as my preferred gender to-be, but I am still mostly living as my non-preferred male gender and I don't know if I can go to the interview. I don't know if I pass enough to be at a job for an extended period helping customers and such and the possibility of facial hair growth and all the other worries ....... thoughts????
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Post by: Monica Jean on December 03, 2014, 04:16:25 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on December 03, 2014, 12:25:41 PM
Your friends have problems also, please try to help them as much as you can so friendship is a 2 way street. Sometimes we think our gender problems are more important. I also treasure my GF's.
Oh believe you me, they know how I feel about being a resource drainer now. They are cool with it, they know me :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 04, 2014, 12:34:18 PM
I started in earnest the Atkins low carb diet today. It seems to work for a lot of nice women. I weighed & measured myself to keep a record. The bad news was, I'm overweight some not too bad but the good news was that I definetly have nice B cup breasts from the formula used to measure bra size. My little breasts look very nice, nice nipples, even growth, they are starting to fill in my bra. So I'm a happy girl today. 
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Post by: Dee Marshall on December 04, 2014, 01:34:16 PM
Had my annual physical, two days post my second endo appointment. Told my doctor my issues and he discontinued my Losartan/HCTZ. He says the Spiro is doing the job. Yay!

Then he complemented me, saying that, at three months on HRT my outcomes are much better than he had a expected.

There you go, medical confirmation (as if I needed it) that I'm a girl. Seems that most of my medical problems were caused by people thinking I'm a guy.
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Post by: Alexis79 on December 04, 2014, 01:53:33 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on December 03, 2014, 03:46:05 PM
I got a call for a job interview on Friday for a seasonal associate position at Kohl's. I'm nervous because I filled out the paperwork as my preferred gender to-be, but I am still mostly living as my non-preferred male gender and I don't know if I can go to the interview. I don't know if I pass enough to be at a job for an extended period helping customers and such and the possibility of facial hair growth and all the other worries ....... thoughts????

You won't gain the confidence without trying. The best things come with risks, and if you believe in yourself, you will be successful.

Confidence is the key to ANY interview, no matter what gender you are, present as, or anything in between.

They just want to see that you believe in yourself being helpful to them.
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Post by: carrie359 on December 05, 2014, 11:52:50 AM
I scheduled FFS for December 18th with Dr. Z and I had my third facial clearing in Dallas yesterday.. yea!!!
I am in Heaven,
Keri
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Post by: ImagineKate on December 05, 2014, 02:00:23 PM
Therapy today. I really opened up and I have new things to do. Coming out to parents is next.

Dressed up on the fem side of androgynous and got gendered fem anyway, even had people holding the door and letting me in elevators first. :)
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Post by: TheQuestion on December 05, 2014, 02:48:23 PM
on hormones finally!!!
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on December 05, 2014, 03:28:32 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on December 05, 2014, 02:00:23 PM
Therapy today. I really opened up and I have new things to do. Coming out to parents is next.

Dressed up on the fem side of androgynous and got gendered fem anyway, even had people holding the door and letting me in elevators first. :)

Congrats!!!! Awesome when that happens the first time :)
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Post by: ImagineKate on December 05, 2014, 03:52:54 PM

Quote from: Sydney_NYC on December 05, 2014, 03:28:32 PM
Congrats!!!! Awesome when that happens the first time :)

Thanks. Well it's not really the first time but it has been happening more often. But when you see me the next time you be the judge. :)
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Post by: minxiejinxielynxie on December 05, 2014, 08:13:47 PM
My dad came with me and my mum to therapy today.I had a short meeting with the therapist before my mum and dad had a session. I didn't think my dad would be very active or anything but apparently he was actually talking and asking a lot of questions (I wasn't in with them, I just know what my mum told me, she didn't say any specifics really)

Apparently he was mostly just concerned for any long term effects of hormones but otherwise it was really helpful for him! ^-^
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Post by: Teela Renee on December 05, 2014, 08:44:11 PM
Today my GBF took me out cloths shopping. I got some new panties, and get got a his and her watch pack but didn't need the female watch so he gave it to me :laugh:   and to top the day off. Someone donated to my  Gofundme   GRS fundraiser. So it kinda put a small flicker at the end of that long tunnel.
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Post by: Azahara on December 05, 2014, 11:12:19 PM
Today after 1 month of hormone therapy I looked at my chest and my breasts seemed slightly larger than I had noticed in the past.  I touched them and they felt tender and I think I felt the beginnings of buds forming!!!  My nipples are especially sensitive...all of these things make me really happy!!  YAY finally some changes.

Also, today I looked at myself in the mirror after styling my hair and for the first time in this transition (this is my 2nd attempt to transition after a 2 year medical absense of hormones) I saw an inner femininity...I saw a beautiful woman in the mirror slowly rising to the surface.
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Post by: Jenny07 on December 06, 2014, 02:06:08 AM
More fun with the pain monster today.
2 more hours down

Always find it fun.
Anyone else enjoy it?
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Post by: Monica Jean on December 06, 2014, 05:16:36 AM
First laser session, had two great and hilarious conversations with friends that made my day.

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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 06, 2014, 06:59:35 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on December 06, 2014, 02:06:08 AM
More fun with the pain monster today.
2 more hours down

Always find it fun.
Anyone else enjoy it?
My next treatment is next week. My lady is using NyFree hair removal, a warm wax that she uses to remove every hair, it opens the folicle & everything comes out. This will be my 8th or 9th session. My hair has greatly reduced after each time, it grows back much tinnner & finer. We did lots of normal electrolysis early on however this works well & we will zap the stubborn hairs later. From her I have less hair than some of her cis women clients. After a session my entire face is so smooth it's amazing & so nice. There is really no pain at all, she uses some numbing cream, then out it comes easily. We just talk gilf talk while she makes me pretty, then a facial after & I'm out to go shopping.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 07, 2014, 06:40:09 AM
Day 3 of my Atkins diet. Boiled shrimp last night was delicious & zero bad carbs. I can feel & see some weight coming off so yea. There are so many nice women friends that use the Atkins diet, so that is so enjoyable to help each other with this common problem.
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Post by: jkim206 on December 07, 2014, 07:18:07 AM
Being able to wear dresses without being clocked.


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Post by: Cookie Monster on December 07, 2014, 09:39:24 AM
Being asked to be a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding in the spring. Thankfully it's far enough away that I should hopefully be passing really well by then.
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Post by: Eevee on December 07, 2014, 11:38:01 AM
I'm feeling so much better today. For whatever reason, my return flight from Portland to Albuquerque has a layover in Seattle. I'm not complaining, because I had a bowl of salmon chowder and got to stop by the Sub Pop store in the airport for some records I can't find back in Albuquerque.

I also got through spending time with the family without any fights or confrontations. My dad even seems to be talking to me again. I think he realizes that I'm still the same person. Overall, I think this trip was a success. Let's see if that keeps up after I've transitioned more.
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Post by: JenniR04 on December 07, 2014, 07:40:40 PM
I received a call back today from Kohl's today and they are offering me a position as a seasonal sales associate with an opportunity to earn a permanent position after the holidays, all this in my preferred gender and gender presentation. I'm so excited, orientation on Tuesday night. Yeah!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on December 07, 2014, 11:17:04 PM
My wife and I were in the checkout line at Target and this guy that was in front of us says, "OMG, your the tallest woman I've ever seen." (He was 2 inches shorter than my 6'7" self.)  He wanted to stand next to me to compare his height to mine and then asks if I have a boyfriend. I responded with no, but my wife is right here. My wife, says "Yes, she is my wife!". Then he goes OK, but I would still like to get to know you and says something to the (female) cashier about me. I replied that I'm perfectly happy with my wife.

When we checked out and he left, the cashier said to me, "I can't believe some of the things that guy said about getting with you two ladies, and I can't believe he would say those things to anyone, especially to another woman."

It was certainly a validating experience, but at the same time kind of annoying, but it was also validating for my wife.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on December 08, 2014, 12:41:21 AM
A friend invited me to dinner after work, and I had some time to go home and I randomly decided to just ... screw going stealth. So I dressed up, and went out as female. For the first time ever leaving my home dressed as a woman.

It felt amazing. I was nervous at first, but as soon as I crossed the threshold of my home it was just amazing and I felt so bubbly and confident. Not to mention comfortable with myself and my appearance. Everything went well, walked around the mall and the restaurant and no one even looked at me, people just took it for granted I was a girl.

Such a great night ^^
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: amrisa loftus on December 08, 2014, 02:58:21 AM
One of my Bio family members has started to see me as me. Stopped by my parents' place after work to pick up some leftover football pizza, and what do I behold? A portion set a side for 'Amirsa.' I don't know if was my dad, my mom, or my younger brother who did it. I don't care if they got the spelling wrong for now. Its been six years since I came out to them and this is the first sign of it without me asking them to.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 08, 2014, 07:07:06 AM
Believed in myself, no doubts... Next task get new work... Confidence is overflowing.... Yay

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Tessa James on December 08, 2014, 11:25:32 AM
You GO Girls!  Keep rocking on sisters and thank you for sharing the bright side of being real:-)   Your posts helped make me happy today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: pretty pauline on December 09, 2014, 02:01:44 PM
My husband gave me flowers, we had an argument yesterday, but he gave me flowers today, that made me happy today, times like this, it's great being a woman.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on December 09, 2014, 02:09:11 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on December 07, 2014, 11:17:04 PM
My wife and I were in the checkout line at Target and this guy that was in front of us says, "OMG, your the tallest woman I've ever seen." (He was 2 inches shorter than my 6'7" self.)  He wanted to stand next to me to compare his height to mine and then asks if I have a boyfriend. I responded with no, but my wife is right here. My wife, says "Yes, she is my wife!". Then he goes OK, but I would still like to get to know you and says something to the (female) cashier about me. I replied that I'm perfectly happy with my wife.

When we checked out and he left, the cashier said to me, "I can't believe some of the things that guy said about getting with you two ladies, and I can't believe he would say those things to anyone, especially to another woman."

It was certainly a validating experience, but at the same time kind of annoying, but it was also validating for my wife.

Oh I've seen other women as tall as you, Sydney... I think he was just using that as a pick up line, lol.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on December 09, 2014, 02:12:46 PM
What made me happy? Bought a nice sweater yesterday... NOT an ugly one!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 09, 2014, 03:39:21 PM
Quote from: pretty pauline on December 09, 2014, 02:01:44 PM
My husband gave me flowers, we had an argument yesterday, but he gave me flowers today, that made me happy today, times like this, it's great being a woman.
That's nice, I guess every marriage has a few arguments. Hope you both enjoy making up GF.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: TSJasmine on December 09, 2014, 03:40:43 PM
Hot Cheetos
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ElizMarie on December 09, 2014, 04:55:38 PM
Being honest with myself and admitting that I can't bury the gender dysphoria "under the rug" any longer.  If it involves just crossdressing or full transition, it doesn't matter, I can't repress it any more. 

Marie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on December 09, 2014, 09:39:11 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on December 09, 2014, 02:09:11 PM
Oh I've seen other women as tall as you, Sydney... I think he was just using that as a pick up line, lol.

Oh yeah, he was definitely trying to pick me up, right in front of my wife, LOL.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 10, 2014, 04:01:20 AM
Learning to cook Oopsie Bread. Low carb delicious bread to stay on my Atkins diet. I have so many nice women friends & it is sure nice to be female. It will be a nice day when some surgeon corrects my physical remaining issues.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 10, 2014, 06:19:12 AM
Full support from my Dr... unquestionably

Saw the dermatologist this morning (Australian pastime) and got Liq. Nitrogen sprayed in a few places, and just above my Lip... Ouch! but basically all clear, also great advice on Laser Surgery  8) and... required visits have now moved from quarterly, to bi-annual and now Yearly... Yay, so happy  :eusa_dance:

Life is good.... just need to go full time, then I'll be a very happy girl

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: lindagrl on December 10, 2014, 06:59:40 AM
Getting a supportive message from a generous sweet lady.
i am determined to have a great day  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on December 10, 2014, 07:03:44 AM
Quote from: Hanazono on December 10, 2014, 12:29:56 AM
I discovered the delicious chicken soup I was drinking had maggots cooked in it. I'm pretty thankful the maggots were well cooked (sterile) and I hadn't eaten them... small mercies!
I did that once. I don't think they were maggots, though. I think they were meal worms. Not that that makes it better.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 10, 2014, 07:13:57 AM
Quote from: Dee Walker on December 10, 2014, 07:03:44 AM
I did that once. I don't think they were maggots, though. I think they were meal worms. Not that that makes it better.
Yuck, hope enough about worms in food. Let's post some happy news GF's, that's the reason for this thread
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: zordeles on December 10, 2014, 09:27:46 AM
My wife's response as I came out of the bedroom...."You look cute in that!"
Basically the same as the day before only different colors. ;-)

Bobbi

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: lindagrl on December 10, 2014, 10:10:10 AM
Quote from: zordeles on December 10, 2014, 09:27:46 AM
My wife's response as I came out of the bedroom...."You look cute in that!"
Basically the same as the day before only different colors. ;-)

Bobbi

Sweet  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LizMarie on December 10, 2014, 04:35:25 PM
What made me happy today? Something perhaps absurdly silly - I got my first notice from my health insurer that I was due for a mammogram. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 10, 2014, 05:02:56 PM
Quote from: LizMarie on December 10, 2014, 04:35:25 PM
What made me happy today? Something perhaps absurdly silly - I got my first notice from my health insurer that I was due for a mammogram. :)
That's happy funny news, thank you. Kinda happy, after 7 days/one week on the Atkins diet I've lost 8 pounds. Just eating good protein/veggie foods & no bad Carbs. It works & no wonder so many women use it to remove excess body fat.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 10, 2014, 06:28:47 PM
Quote from: zordeles on December 10, 2014, 09:27:46 AM
My wife's response as I came out of the bedroom...."You look cute in that!"
Basically the same as the day before only different colors. ;-)

Bobbi

Love it... hope I can get that response soon  :laugh:

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: zordeles on December 10, 2014, 06:31:28 PM
[emoji4]

Bobbi

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 11, 2014, 06:08:45 AM
Beauty shop appointment for tomorrow to work on facial hairs then a facial. My lady friend was cleaning out here closet a few weeks ago & asked if I wanted some of her old boots, shoes & maybe dresses. We are the same height, shoe size, dress size so I said yes GF. That will be fun to see what fits & looks nice on me.  I'd really like for her to fix me up with one of her stud x boy friends to try him on for size, that would be even more fun. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: lindagrl on December 11, 2014, 05:47:06 PM
For the first time in months feeling content and relaxed for one whole day  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 11, 2014, 07:28:00 PM
Quote from: lindagrl on December 11, 2014, 05:47:06 PM
For the first time in months feeling content and relaxed for one whole day  :)

Lovely... good to hear  :-*

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rachel89 on December 11, 2014, 11:25:18 PM
I am happy for two things today. Yesterday, I did not hurt myself, and today I still have a job.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Brenda E on December 12, 2014, 02:03:46 PM
Quote from: rachel89 on December 11, 2014, 11:25:18 PMYesterday, I did not hurt myself . . .

If you're just talking about being clumsy and glad that you had a day without tripping down the stairs or bumping your head, fine.  If you're talking about something else, please reach out to someone you can talk to.  If you don't have anyone, PM one of the regulars here at least, ok? :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Skeptoid on December 12, 2014, 03:57:54 PM
My boobs finally feel a bit tender again today. They seem to be growing. I've been so worried that past couple weeks. Also, the other day I was with a friend visiting his mom in the nursing/rehab facility and we rolled her wheelchair to dinner. We seated her with another lady and she introduced us in such a way that my name came up. It's somewhat gender neutral though leaning on masculine. In this context my friend and I have the same name. Him being obviously male the older lady asked my friend's mom something like, "oh, are these your two son's?" I felt devastated... I hadn't even opened my mouth yet to out myself with my crappy voice. Next day my friend tells me his mom said the lady was distraught afterward. Said something like "oh no I think I called that girl a guy." SO YEAH PROBLEM SOLVED?! :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: zordeles on December 12, 2014, 08:08:53 PM
Today we went looking for pants for my wife and ended up getting me 3 tops and a hair dryer.[emoji4]

Bobbi

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LizMarie on December 12, 2014, 08:24:34 PM
My first underwire strapless pushup bra... and even a 38A looks like a noticeable bustline. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rachel89 on December 12, 2014, 08:54:23 PM
I am happy today that I decided to make an appointment with an LGBT friendly psychologist.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on December 12, 2014, 09:29:32 PM
Today I passed on the phone!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: KittyKat on December 12, 2014, 09:31:20 PM
I got contacted for an interview for a nursing assistant at a local Family Practice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: PinkCloud on December 13, 2014, 01:38:19 PM
Munching on my homemade muffins!  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ameliato on December 13, 2014, 10:46:00 PM
Many things, my 8 month old son's beautiful smile, seeing my wife smile, seeing the lady in the grocery store get happy seeing my son smile, seeing my smile in the mirror.

What made me thankful though was coming to this site and remembering I'm not alone when the dysphoria smacked me face. Thank you girls for being down this path before and truly breaking the ground for us starting to finally deal with our struggle.

Amelia
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on December 14, 2014, 09:04:05 PM
Today I had a fitting with a designer :)  And I was out for the second time ever in public going to and from the appointment.  No one noticed and I completely blended in :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: CrysC on December 16, 2014, 12:33:06 AM
It must be the hormones and hair removal impact on my face but now even when I have to try to pass as male in baggy male clothes I'm being read as a woman.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 16, 2014, 06:11:38 AM
Getting a compliment from a beautiful girl  :-*

L katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: SarahElizabeth on December 16, 2014, 08:43:30 AM
  I went to my daughters Christmas band concert, whom I haven't seen since August and she didn't recognize me.  When she finally found me she said wow you are a woman and that just made me smile.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 16, 2014, 07:02:06 PM
Quote from: SarahElizabeth on December 16, 2014, 08:43:30 AM
  I went to my daughters Christmas band concert, whom I haven't seen since August and she didn't recognize me.  When she finally found me she said wow you are a woman and that just made me smile.

That is so sweet and elating...  :eusa_clap: you must have been beside yourself

Very inspiring to all with estranged little ones

L Katy  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on December 16, 2014, 07:35:31 PM
Last laser treatment ( need to start electrolysis),
10 day IM cycle from 14 day,
PA said he would write letters for FFS and GRS.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: chibiStephy on December 16, 2014, 07:40:38 PM
I spend  almost all my day talking to one of my best friends in the world about nonsense and enjoying been the girl I'm now ^_^
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on December 16, 2014, 08:52:36 PM
Today I went to lunch with a girlfriend from my work that I am out to.  Which in itself makes me happy.  Despite being in guy mode because of work, at lunch the waitress read me as female :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rachel89 on December 16, 2014, 11:13:56 PM
Today I am happy that I went to see a psychologist who was understanding and has worked with many transgender people in the past.
I am also happy that is the first night of Hanukkah.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rainbow Dash on December 16, 2014, 11:14:39 PM
Went to Dairy Queen with my 2 girlfriends after getting medication for my team mate who is a bit ill. I don't think he knows how to handle the 3 of us mothering him and looking after him. I almost forget I am a girl with a transgender background when I am with my friends.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on December 18, 2014, 10:28:18 PM
Today I got my ears pierced.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: big kim on December 19, 2014, 02:05:26 AM
I'm blonde again(early Christmas present)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: judithlynn on December 19, 2014, 02:48:53 AM
Today I went to my beauty therapist and I had a deep cleanse and chemical peel facial. My beautician said to get the full benefits of the facial I shouldn't put any make-up on  until tomorrow and not even wash tonight, although a Red Ruby lipstick and lip gloss was OK. I then went to a Shopping Mall nearby and had my fingernails painted this coral orange colour (its one of my recommended colours from my Colour Analysis chart). Anyway after I had had the nails painted (3 coats plus top coat) they put my fingers  in a air dryer. Sitting next to me was a woman (less than 6 inches from me)  that was drying her toenails. We started chatting and  chatted for over 20 minutes about all sorts of stuff, including relationships (she was divorced) and men. After we were both finished she suggested we exchange phone numbers, but before I did I said just to let you know I am TG. She was absolutely amazed and said that she didn't believe it as she said there was absolutely not a hint to she was talking to anyone other than another woman (and this is without any foundation, eyeshadow, powder  or even mascara. Just one of my colour analysis recommend lipsticks. She just couldn't believe it and said  but your skin and complexion is so soft,
I felt a million dollars and we exchanged numbers.
JudithLynn
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on December 19, 2014, 02:52:26 AM
Quote from: judithlynn on December 19, 2014, 02:48:53 AM
Today I went to my beauty therapist and I had a deep cleanse and chemical peel facial. My beautician said to get the full benefits of the facial I shouldn't put any make-up on  until tomorrow and not even wash tonight, although a Red Ruby lipstick and lip gloss was OK. I then went to a Shopping Mall nearby and had my fingernails painted this coral orange colour (its one of my recommended colours from my Colour Analysis chart). Anyway after I had had the nails painted (3 coats plus top coat) they put my fingers  in a air dryer. Sitting next to me was a woman (less than 6 inches from me)  that was drying her toenails. We started chatting and  chatted for over 20 minutes about all sorts of stuff, including relationships (she was divorced) and men. After we were both finished she suggested we exchange phone numbers, but before I did I said just to let you know I am TG. She was absolutely amazed and said that she didn't believe it as she said there was absolutely not a hint to she was talking to anyone other than another woman (and this is without any foundation, eyeshadow, powder  or even mascara. Just one of my colour analysis recommend lipsticks. She just couldn't believe it and said  but your skin and complexion is so soft,
I felt a million dollars and we exchanged numbers.
JudithLynn

Nice one Judith. :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on December 19, 2014, 08:47:45 AM
I am wearing eye shadow today at work for the first time. I'm excited to give it a full day field test. I'm happy that my makeup knowledge and ability are improving.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eva on December 19, 2014, 09:57:40 PM
Talking to my Mom about a trip Im gonna get started on tomorrow that will culminate with me seeing her for Christmas :)

The fact that the conversation revolved around her baking Christmas cookies and talking about her grandchildren and family... We also had a nice conversation about yoga pants, men, and GCS plastic surgeons and insurance :o 8)

Oh yea a year ago she got me warm male clothing and socks :D :P 

THOSE DAYS ARE OVER!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: mystique on December 19, 2014, 11:43:16 PM
Not anything related to being T, so I went out with my bf to have a walk in the mall and got tasty ramen for dinner, and cheesecake as desert, which was really nice ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: mystique on December 19, 2014, 11:49:00 PM
Quote from: Eva on December 19, 2014, 09:57:40 PM
Talking to my Mom about a trip Im gonna get started on tomorrow that will culminate with me seeing her for Christmas :)

The fact that the conversation revolved around her baking Christmas cookies and talking about her grandchildren and family... We also had a nice conversation about yoga pants, men, and GCS plastic surgeons and insurance :o 8)

Oh yea a year ago she got me warm male clothing and socks :D :P 

THOSE DAYS ARE OVER!!!!
You reminded of me and my mom 4-5 years ago, she was originally very against me being T, but once she saw how much happier I was, and that the therapist we went to together validated that transsexualism couldn't be "fixed", she became accepting and ultimately supportive. I love my mom.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 20, 2014, 01:57:20 AM
Seeing my grandkids  :) ... need to treasure these moments, as it could all change this coming year  :-\

Ooh, and my bruised & bloodshot eye (self inflicted) is subsiding, so starting to look good again  :laugh:

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ellesmira the Duck on December 20, 2014, 11:36:54 AM
Getting called Elly or El casually by my sister, like it's always been that away. ^_^
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady_Oracle on December 21, 2014, 01:10:09 AM
Doing my hair and a nice hot shower
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: zordeles on December 21, 2014, 02:10:31 PM
Having a 4hr chat with my 1st ex-wife. Our new laugh is :  she buys power tools and I buy heels. [emoji5]

Bobbi

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on December 22, 2014, 07:47:19 PM
5km run and outdoor gym work in the pleasant 30 degree sun. Nothing like a bit of sweat to work of the frustration of dealing with cowards. May fit into some more clothes yet!!  :)

And yes I used plenty of sun block!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on December 22, 2014, 08:10:21 PM
Had my doctor's appointment and she informed me that once again I have lost weight. 11 pounds this time.

She also gave me the letter to start the process of getting IDs with the right gender marker. I read the letter and saw "Ms." next to my name for the first time. That definitely made my day ^^
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Valerie Rose on December 22, 2014, 10:39:20 PM
Quote from: judithlynn on December 19, 2014, 02:48:53 AM
Today I went to my beauty therapist and I had a deep cleanse and chemical peel facial. My beautician said to get the full benefits of the facial I shouldn't put any make-up on  until tomorrow and not even wash tonight, although a Red Ruby lipstick and lip gloss was OK. I then went to a Shopping Mall nearby and had my fingernails painted this coral orange colour (its one of my recommended colours from my Colour Analysis chart). Anyway after I had had the nails painted (3 coats plus top coat) they put my fingers  in a air dryer. Sitting next to me was a woman (less than 6 inches from me)  that was drying her toenails. We started chatting and  chatted for over 20 minutes about all sorts of stuff, including relationships (she was divorced) and men. After we were both finished she suggested we exchange phone numbers, but before I did I said just to let you know I am TG. She was absolutely amazed and said that she didn't believe it as she said there was absolutely not a hint to she was talking to anyone other than another woman (and this is without any foundation, eyeshadow, powder  or even mascara. Just one of my colour analysis recommend lipsticks. She just couldn't believe it and said  but your skin and complexion is so soft,
I felt a million dollars and we exchanged numbers.
JudithLynn

I really love the way you talk (write) JudithLynn.

In Canada we have a points card for the cinema called SCENE points. Anyways my new card with my female name came today. I was happy to get it. It's a small thing but it made me really happy to see my name on the envelope. I even double checked my name to make sure it was spelled correct.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on December 23, 2014, 12:02:08 AM
Today I met with a old friend and it was great to reconnect.  Then I had a first session with a makeup artist that is teaching me all about makeup.  I felt very pretty :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 24, 2014, 04:53:20 AM
It's nice to see this thread is good for us all. I took a 10 day break from checking it. Life is going well for myself. My breasts are sure growing nicely.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on December 24, 2014, 09:21:06 AM
Yes it is. No better way to start Christmas Eve day than with an IM self injection of estradiol valerate.
Quote from: FrancisAnn on December 24, 2014, 04:53:20 AM
It's nice to see this thread is good for us all. I took a 10 day break from checking it. Life is going well for myself. My breasts are sure growing nicely.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Monica Jean on December 24, 2014, 01:28:48 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on December 24, 2014, 09:21:06 AM
Yes it is. No better way to start Christmas Eve day than with an IM self injection of estradiol valerate.

Amen sister!  I plan on mine tomorrow. :D


Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 25, 2014, 03:12:51 AM
Merry Christmas to us all. Life is good for me. I love being a normal woman.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on December 25, 2014, 03:44:01 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on December 25, 2014, 03:12:51 AM
Merry Christmas to us all. Life is good for me. I love being a normal woman.

Well said.

I love how things have changes over the past year.
Yes there has been some crap but the good thing outweigh the bad for once.
I am so much happier now and I love my baby boobies.
The rest is just life.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: big kim on December 25, 2014, 06:02:59 AM
My sister's girlfriend proposed to her
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: DanielleA on December 25, 2014, 06:31:58 AM
I got to have lunch with my extended family on my mums side and dinner with dads side of the family. It is amazing who is related when they come out of the wood work for an xmas get together. Oh and I got a samsung s5 phone, a box of chocolates and a silver necklace that I have been begging for, for xmas yeay!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on December 25, 2014, 06:37:15 AM
I worked in my wife's nursing home and helped the clients eat their lunch, told bad jokes, wore a silly hat that bounced on my head, and generally acted like an idiot ( it needed no rehearsal  :laugh:)

It was an act of being selfish, I wasn't lonely.  I had a good laugh and enjoyed myself.

It made me happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on December 25, 2014, 07:01:47 AM
I have no doubt your presence helped those there enjoy themselves more too. Those places are no fun especially on a holiday. Due to a stroke my mom was in a rehab place for one a few years back. Luckily I got to bring her home for a few hours that day on Christmas that year. I'm glad you had a good time of it.
Quote from: Cindy on December 25, 2014, 06:37:15 AM
I worked in my wife's nursing home and helped the clients eat their lunch, told bad jokes, wore a silly hat that bounced on my head, and generally acted like an idiot ( it needed no rehearsal  :laugh:)

It was an act of being selfish, I wasn't lonely.  I had a good laugh and enjoyed myself.

It made me happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 25, 2014, 08:28:53 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on December 25, 2014, 03:44:01 AM
Well said.

I love how things have changes over the past year.
Yes there has been some crap but the good thing outweigh the bad for once.
I am so much happier now and I love my baby boobies.
The rest is just life.
Jenny, That's cool. My baby boobies are turning into Big Girls! Oh me. I may need some new bras soon. Merry Christmas to all.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Monica Jean on December 26, 2014, 02:39:57 PM
Shaved my whole body for the first time (except my head).  Finally,  my body is congruent to what I feel it needed to look like all along 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on December 26, 2014, 06:26:26 PM
Quote from: Cindy on December 25, 2014, 06:37:15 AM
I worked in my wife's nursing home and helped the clients eat their lunch, told bad jokes, wore a silly hat that bounced on my head, and generally acted like an idiot ( it needed no rehearsal  :laugh:)

It was an act of being selfish, I wasn't lonely.  I had a good laugh and enjoyed myself.

It made me happy.

Some "selfish".......!!?  ;)
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Post by: CrysC on December 26, 2014, 10:01:22 PM
My wife bought me makeup for Christmas.  That was the first time she did that.
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Post by: Balerie on December 26, 2014, 10:34:21 PM
After work, I tagged along with 3 female coworkers and headed to The Body Shop for after Christmas sales.  After we were done shopping, I told them it was lots of fun and we should do this again.  I was serious but they thought I was kidding. I was after all the only guy with them. Regardless, it was fun to join them for shopping and get their input on the different items that were for sale there.
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Post by: Zoetrope on December 27, 2014, 03:37:00 AM
2 hours on a delightfully air-conditioned bus :~)

Oh, and receiving 'ladies first' treatment on the said bus. *sigh*, its the little things!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 27, 2014, 12:29:18 PM
It felt nice today to discuss the GRS procedure with a close woman friend of mine. I explained to her that is was basically very simple, penis skin is inverted to create a vagina, then dilate for quite a while to make sure the vagina stretches to stay open & deep. She may help me when the time comes for my surgery. I do not have many other close friends or family that would help me. I so wish there were qualified surgeons in the Southeast US. That would be so much easier for me.   
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Post by: zordeles on December 28, 2014, 11:50:13 AM
I went out yesterday (looking good IMO). My sister in law and her friend told my wife that I looked "smokin hot" and if they didnt know it was me, they never would have guessed. And Then proceeded to tell her that I "looked better" than she did. ;) 
Then they wanted to know where I'd gotten my killer boots.  ;)
I'm beginning to believe that passing is 90% attitude, 5% look and 5% people seeing what they want to see. 
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Post by: Rainbow Dash on December 28, 2014, 12:33:20 PM
So this is me right now.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi688.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fvv246%2FKeairaElisabeth%2Ftemporary_zps33b904e9.jpg&hash=96a8d4441101f5aec6c57585ecb538261ca58d3f)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi688.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fvv246%2FKeairaElisabeth%2Ftemporary_zps8ec56d3e.jpg&hash=745c39dc9f8c0170421418d3995a12e7ad348f17)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi688.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fvv246%2FKeairaElisabeth%2Ftemporary_zps273f4c76.jpg&hash=8811f74198e7068924e8c97bd045822994114ee9)

My goal is to get from 198lb to 125lb by the end of 2015. A friend of mine gave me help to get me started on my weight loss. We will see how it goes. I dont look as bad as my  brain keeps trying to tell me but still. I want to make some family members look really stupid when they call me by my old name in public. and I want a certain someone to see what could have been theirs.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 28, 2014, 02:35:22 PM
It may be time for the Atkins diet, it works. I've used it.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on December 30, 2014, 01:17:24 AM
My facial hairs have grealty reduced. I was seeing my electrolysis lady every 2 weeks & now it's every 3 weeks. My next appt. if for Friday. Even my upper lip area is very thin with very thin sparce white hairs. Something is working & it's such a relief.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on December 30, 2014, 01:25:44 AM
I just love the way e is effecting me.
It is just beyond words how much better I feel. It's wonderful.
Things like soft skin and how my body has been changing shape slowly. It is such a nice feeling looking in the mirror now.

Also got a beautiful skirt in the mail today, fits perfectly. Never felt like this shopping for clothes in the past, in fact hated it.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on December 30, 2014, 05:19:00 AM
Being alive made me happy today (after a shaky, dysphoric start).

I love seeing the external me morphing into the internal me.
I love my little boobs, the hips I can swing and the fact that despite losing weight, I'm having trouble fitting my butt into my old jeans.
I love that my skin is so smooth and soft compared to what used to feel like a weatherbeaten saddlebag to me.
I love that I don't want to die anymore and that I have no desire to go back to my old self-destructive lifestyle.
I love that without trying, I don't think of myself as my past self anymore.

I am Alisen, and I am genuinely happy to be alive. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on December 30, 2014, 05:28:01 AM
Today when I ordered food, the delivery lady said I had a very pretty name. First time I've ever had that happen.

It led to this long moment of happiness for me when I got to appreciate the fact that I finally have a name I can feel I own. It's actually a name that represents me entirely and I love seeing it written, signing it and hearing it. I was never really into my name before and now that I have this name that represents me I feel a completely new sense of identity I lacked before.

I realize it's just a name, I guess it just takes time to get over it. I still find myself taking out my documents and looking at official papers with my name on them, it makes me feel amazing.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on December 30, 2014, 05:58:58 AM
45 minutes on an air-conditioned bus
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on December 30, 2014, 06:01:15 AM
FairyHime-
its lovely when it connects huh <3

People who have known me in recent years sometimes struggle but I'm grateful they try.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on December 30, 2014, 06:48:21 AM
Yay got to swim in my new bikini today....

Here are 2 pics (got to just about 35C in the Sydney 'burbs today...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi50.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff336%2Fkatrinaw881%2FIMG_2463_zpsad07bc6a.jpg&hash=963bf36237d57b7d1ff0c2c1816d91d54426088b)[/URL]
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi50.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff336%2Fkatrinaw881%2FIMG_2346_zps3bd9b405.jpg&hash=ac680a1974e13250494ccd4206ecf74c21231ea3)[/URL]

Any hotter I would have wilted...

Gotta love the summer dresses too...  never felt this good in my old pre-HRT days.....

L Katy  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 30, 2014, 12:12:09 PM
Winter sunshine, living in the woods, and the only sounds are birds.  Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on December 30, 2014, 12:33:11 PM
Jealous, sounds so peaceful and I bet absolutely gorgeous with the sunshine shinning in.
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on December 30, 2014, 12:12:09 PM
Winter sunshine, living in the woods, and the only sounds are birds.  Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on December 30, 2014, 06:29:56 PM
I went clothes shopping with my wife! We were on the hunt for long sleeve 'shirt' style tops. We didn't find anything that worked for me. The fact we were shopping together, and that it was initiated by her, was such a great feeling!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 30, 2014, 06:33:04 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on December 30, 2014, 12:33:11 PM
Jealous, sounds so peaceful and I bet absolutely gorgeous with the sunshine shinning in.

:)  Thanks, it is nice, if your interested I have a few pics up over in the Photography section under 'My Garden 1 and 2.   Dani
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Post by: Brenda E on December 30, 2014, 06:34:09 PM
Bought my first hoop earrings.  Difficult to get used to the look, but I'm getting there.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on December 30, 2014, 06:35:43 PM
Definitely, I will have to check those out.
Mariah
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on December 30, 2014, 06:33:04 PM
:)  Thanks, it is nice, if your interested I have a few pics up over in the Photography section under 'My Garden 1 and 2.   Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on December 30, 2014, 07:24:50 PM
Despite frustrations with body hair, Eliptor, and waxing....after shaving and exfoliating....so smooth...... Can not wait for hormones......By my Birthday for sure.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on December 30, 2014, 08:04:10 PM
Doing my home work for my next therapy session... 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on December 30, 2014, 09:12:22 PM
It was a good day, today. Looking at Dr. Kathy Rumer's website was nice. She may be the right one for my GRS next year. I've improved a lot this past year & it will be so nice when I can have a normal deep vagina & just enjoy a normal life. I have a very nice woman friend that is well off & has offered to go with me to "hold my hand" when I have my GRS. She is so nice & understands that I've been female since early childhood.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Luna Star on January 02, 2015, 07:04:07 AM
Being able to get some actual work done  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on January 02, 2015, 08:00:35 PM
Following some  shaving tips provided on a thread here is allowing me to get around w/out an unsightly rash on my sensitive neck (yes, it made me a literal redneck, as opposed to a figurative one, like most of the people in my town).

Thanks again to all the contributors to that thread, you've brought a big smile to this girl's smoother face. :D
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Post by: islandgirl on January 02, 2015, 08:06:22 PM
I got a referral to an endo today! Hopefully I will here from her office sometime next week. I am hoping that I will get an appointment sometime in the next couple of weeks. My counsellor recommended her and said that it would not be too long of a wait. I hope this proves to be correct!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: VikingArchangel on January 06, 2015, 01:52:44 PM
I went in for my first laser session today, and my friend (cis guy I've known for years who is supportive of my transition), texted me "Good luck sis, I hope it goes really well" - I couldn't stop smiling. First time someone who wasn't required to by some policy used female pronouns. Floated all the way to the laser clinic!

Oh, and the Retin-A finally arrived! Can't use it for a few days, but still.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on January 06, 2015, 03:26:54 PM
Got my ears pierced today! Just little silver studs but they are done! Something I have wanted for years!
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Post by: Alana_Jane on January 06, 2015, 03:30:16 PM
Good for you, Island Girl.  I put that down as one of my goals in the next six months.  I think I'm either going for my birthstone (pink Zirconium), or a moderate size white zirconium stud.  Zr-C has special meaning to me that's work related. 

-Alana
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Post by: islandgirl on January 06, 2015, 05:19:08 PM
Thanks. Hopefully the healing and aftercare process goes well (told that it could take up to 3 months). Wasn't too painful. I was tempted to do a coloured stud but chickened out!
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Post by: SpiffyTiffy on January 06, 2015, 05:40:57 PM
Changing name and gender in company records.


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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 06, 2015, 06:01:39 PM
I loved reading this thread.
today Iwent into a shop wearing make up, tried on some clothes and bought a dress i liked. and a belt. told lots of my friends what I was doing it was funny. is this even reality? it cant be its too good.
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Post by: antonia on January 06, 2015, 06:14:00 PM
Had my 7th laser session today, sweat pants, no makeup and comfy wear, whole body only set me back $160 and I did not get misgendered once today even when wearing rags and no makeup :)
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Post by: jessical on January 06, 2015, 10:37:00 PM
I female friend at work, who has been a greater supporter, surprised me today with Butterfly earrings :)
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Post by: ChibiChabot on January 07, 2015, 01:20:54 PM
I had an Orchiectomy yesterday. Waking up knowing I'll never have to get another Lupron injection ever again. Now I just have to hurry up and heal so I can get back to exercise.
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Post by: MyKa on January 07, 2015, 05:56:25 PM
Went shopping today between bannana republic, clarks and Ralph Lauren found some pretty good deals. $200 pair of boots for $110 $90 sweater for $18 and a button  down $125 for $24 pretty happy
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Post by: April_TO on January 07, 2015, 10:49:03 PM
It seems to get easier day by day for me thank God!. I was gendered correctly the whole day and I guess having a really feminine voice makes a huge difference as I can see their doubts in the beginning sometimes. However, as soon as my mouth opens and talk like a valley girl LOL I can see the clarity in their eyes.

Loving it :) xo
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Post by: jessical on January 08, 2015, 12:38:31 AM
I went flying tonight.
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Post by: CrysC on January 08, 2015, 12:55:00 AM
Good couple of days.
I finally have a therapist appointment lined up (next week).
More electrolysis tomorrow.
Latest laser results starting to show. 
Got a pretty peach/orange shirt and cami combo at Kohl's.
A lady co-worker looked at me when I walked into the conference room today and said that I glowed.  That felt real nice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Leslie36369 on January 08, 2015, 01:14:50 AM
i was shaving my legs this morning and just glanced over in the mirror and didn't even recognize myself. So much of the stuff that easily identified me as male just maybe even a month ago are starting to disappear all together. My body has lost so much muscle and slimmed to a very girly build for the most part. Still work to do but today is the first day i have noticed such a drastic change. ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on January 08, 2015, 01:23:09 AM
A fun shopping trip w/ Gypsy. Nervy Ally's anxiety was problematic, but Gypsy was very patient w/ this li'l basketcase. Maybe next time I'll even get the guts to buy something! lol
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: LizMarie on January 08, 2015, 01:48:49 AM
Being stunned, surprised, and blushing three shades of red after being told "You're hot" from a guy much younger than me. I'm not sure what the heck he's seeing but I loved hearing it!
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 08, 2015, 02:57:31 AM
Received a death-stare from a cis-woman at 20 feet.

yehhhhhhhhh :~D
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Post by: akegia on January 08, 2015, 03:42:55 AM
Went out in public semi in Girl mode for the first time really. Made me smile and happy but also a fair bit stressful.
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Post by: Esther79 on January 08, 2015, 03:50:24 AM
Managed to get myself into a size 29 skinny jean after months of dieting and slimming efforts. Hope to go down to a size 27 by end of year. ;D
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Post by: immortal gypsy on January 08, 2015, 04:24:00 AM
Quote from: Ally_B on January 08, 2015, 01:23:09 AM
A fun shopping trip w/ Gypsy. Nervy Ally's anxiety was problematic, but Gypsy was very patient w/ this li'l basketcase. Maybe next time I'll even get the guts to buy something! lol
Glad you had fun

Catching up with one of the Susan's girls shopping in the city and surviving the summer sun by staying in air conditioning. Shame I couldn't find what I was looking for,  how hard is it to find that particular skirt
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Post by: Ally_B on January 08, 2015, 05:00:44 AM

Quote from: immortal gypsy on January 08, 2015, 04:24:00 AM
Glad you had fun

Catching up with one of the Susan's girls shopping in the city and surviving the summer sun by staying in air conditioning. Shame I couldn't find what I was looking for,  how hard is it to find that particular skirt

Indeed! And I mean come on, since when does tartan look like the tablecloth from every Italian restaurant in every mafia movie ever made?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on January 08, 2015, 06:31:59 AM
Was very hot out west of Sydney CBD today... Swam this morning, as for last 2 days, then into new summer dress and took a drive and bit of exercise (walking), noticing I felt more confident in myself now than ever before.... Then back home to nice cool aircon (Phew)

Loving life, but desperate to get income stream and then plan FT mode... (sigh so hard finding work, especially this time of the year, and in IT)

L Katy
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Post by: Alana_Jane on January 08, 2015, 09:54:04 AM
The TSA agent said "Have a good flight Miss"  even after looking at my decidedly male ID. 
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Post by: MyKa on January 08, 2015, 12:08:57 PM
its crazy hearing you all talk about how hot it is where here its the totally other end of the spectrum and is cold as hell.........brrrrrrrr
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Post by: Ally_B on January 08, 2015, 07:08:47 PM

Quote from: MyKa on January 08, 2015, 12:08:57 PM
its crazy hearing you all talk about how hot it is where here its the totally other end of the spectrum and is cold as hell.........brrrrrrrr

Totally happy to trade. I can't cope w/ this heat.... *melt*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Leah443 on January 08, 2015, 07:22:48 PM
Hearing that iv been approved to go to a name/gender change appointment!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on January 08, 2015, 11:55:02 PM
Quote from: Leah443 on January 08, 2015, 07:22:48 PM
Hearing that iv been approved to go to a name/gender change appointment!

Yay that's good news  :-*

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Leslie36369 on January 09, 2015, 04:15:28 AM
$2700 in a game of Texas hold em  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 09, 2015, 04:54:48 AM
"$2700 in a game of Texas hold em  ;D"

NICE and respect!
i went to my doctors apt to explain what i wanted to do, fully dressed, people pretended not to notice and treated me normally and the doc was super chill. referred to the specialist, onward and upward!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Leslie36369 on January 09, 2015, 05:14:25 AM
Quote from: alexbb on January 09, 2015, 04:54:48 AM
"$2700 in a game of Texas hold em  ;D"

NICE and respect!
i went to my doctors apt to explain what i wanted to do, fully dressed, people pretended not to notice and treated me normally and the doc was super chill. referred to the specialist, onward and upward!

Thank you and congratulations!!  :)
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Post by: wired22 on January 10, 2015, 12:08:39 PM
Double choc chip cookies!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 10, 2015, 03:43:32 PM
came out to everyone on my facebook, thats 1500 people with a single button click; efficient!
everyone was suuuuper nice, i love my friends!
and as a result met some great trans people who inspired me. great day.
oh and a pretty dress came in the mail!

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Post by: Ally_B on January 10, 2015, 04:01:23 PM
Came out to four more friends who were again awesome about it. I really can't believe how fortunate I've been in terms of acceptance.

Every person I've come out to has been incredibly cool about it (or in one particular case said "well, it's about time!" lol) I now have a lengthy list of girls who want to take me shopping and help me improve my make up knowledge and skills! :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on January 10, 2015, 09:15:46 PM
I had the courage to tell my wife I have an appointment with a surgeon and invited her to attend.
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Post by: Electric Fuzzball on January 10, 2015, 09:33:16 PM
Getting invited to go skiing and snowboarding next sunday. The whole family knows I'm a pre everything transgirl, plus they all call me by my chosen name, Vulynn. 11 hours of whatever activity I want and a free lunch. I haven't had much exercise either, so I'm really happy.

I owe my friend a lot, she's a really awesome friend.
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Post by: ImagineKate on January 10, 2015, 09:39:43 PM
Not only accepted but embraced by my mom... I cried at my therapy session yesterday because of this. She wants me  to come visit with the kids. Won't happen until Summer when they are off school though. I'll hopefully be full time then!
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on January 10, 2015, 10:38:42 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on January 10, 2015, 09:39:43 PM
Not only accepted but embraced by my mom... I cried at my therapy session yesterday because of this. She wants me  to come visit with the kids. Won't happen until Summer when they are off school though. I'll hopefully be full time then!


Awesome
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 11, 2015, 04:29:29 AM
A nice young man asking me lots of questions, telling me freely about his bisexuality, and telling me about places I might want to check out when I'm ready for a boyfriend. What a sweet fellow :~)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 11, 2015, 06:25:02 AM
O - p.s. lovely thread. The world needs more like it.

Love, me
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on January 11, 2015, 07:36:18 AM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on January 10, 2015, 10:38:42 PM

Awesome

Not only that she said I look like her when she was younger and had shorter hair. She said that I am beautiful and will be even more so once I fully transition. I can't believe this is happening.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 11, 2015, 08:19:10 AM
I'm just happy that is not so cold where I live in the USA. Little by little my body has improved quite a bit this past year. My breasts have really grown & they feel & look great. Trying to get back on my Atkins low carb diet & as always lose a few pounds. Life is good GF's.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 11, 2015, 08:54:34 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on January 11, 2015, 06:25:02 AM
O - p.s. lovely thread. The world needs more like it.

Love, me
Thank you, it is good for all of us to share the good things about becomming more normal & female & enjoying life. That was the reason I started this thread.
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on January 11, 2015, 11:04:12 AM
Quote from: Leah443 on January 08, 2015, 07:22:48 PM
Hearing that iv been approved to go to a name/gender change appointment!

Cool Deal, nice!!!   ;D    Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on January 11, 2015, 11:05:00 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on January 11, 2015, 07:36:18 AM
Not only that she said I look like her when she was younger and had shorter hair. She said that I am beautiful and will be even more so once I fully transition. I can't believe this is happening.

Congratulations Kate.  I'm so happy for you.

As for me, I had an excellent therapy session, went shopping, and crossed one item off my list.  I went to Clair's and got my ears pierced. 

-Alana
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on January 11, 2015, 11:12:12 AM
I awoke this morning to find that the power was out, so before putting more wood into the stove I had to take care of more 'immediate' matters, COFFEE!!!.  So I grabbed an old sauce pan, added enough water and coffee for a nice big mug, opened the door of the stove and placed it just inside the front of the stove.  Ahhhh, a quiet mornig and camp coffee.    Dani

Later add on    For anyone wondering about posting without power, I have one of those Flintstone computers, a bird is inside looking at me telling me what ya' all are sayin.  Gotta stop though for now these stone keys hurt my fingertips.    You know who 
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Post by: ImagineKate on January 11, 2015, 01:10:34 PM

Quote from: Alana_Jane on January 11, 2015, 11:05:00 AM
Congratulations Kate.  I'm so happy for you.

As for me, I had an excellent therapy session, went shopping, and crossed one item off my list.  I went to Clair's and got my ears pierced. 

-Alana

Cool!

I need to get my ears pierced.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: MeghanAndrews on January 11, 2015, 01:19:13 PM
This is a really neat thread, I love it! What made me happy today? Well, it's only 11:14 am but so far:

1) The scale smiled at me again, it's headed in the right direction.
2) The rain stopped and the sun is coming out.
3) I had an amazingly refreshing yoga workout this morning and feel so good and refreshed. Love my daily yoga.
4) The fresh raspberries and fresh blueberries for breakfast tasted sooo good for breakfast...153 calories of goodness.
5) I've drink 1 liter of water before noon and that always makes me feel good.
6) The smell of my lil doggy snuggled up in my bed.
7) The new Purity Ring song.
8) The earrings I just put on that I got for Christmas
9) Feeling optimistic about the day, the year, and my life.
10) Knowing that no matter what happens in my life, I'm grounded and can handle whatever comes my way.

There, 10 things that made me so far today. Many more to come!
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Post by: Leslie36369 on January 11, 2015, 01:31:12 PM
Well this couldn't sound more manish, but football. The Divional playoffs are on today   ;D
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Post by: Ally_B on January 11, 2015, 01:37:57 PM

Quote from: Leslie36369 on January 11, 2015, 01:31:12 PM
Well this couldn't sound more manish, but football. The Divional playoffs are on today   ;D

Go Broncos! :D

And hey, it's not totally mannish, the last person I talked NFL w/ was a heterosexual, cisgender girl who knew a heck of a lot more about the sport than anyone else I've met in this country! lol
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Post by: FrancisAnn on January 11, 2015, 02:33:53 PM
Lots of women follow football. After all there some strong nice men playing the sport.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Leslie36369 on January 11, 2015, 03:03:27 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on January 11, 2015, 02:33:53 PM
Lots of women follow football. After all there some strong nice men playing the sport.
I know they do. It seems weird sometimes doing the more masculine things I enjoy. Once I embrassed my feminine side I realized I had lost complete interest in some of my more masculine hobbies. Football, however, I am still super excited about lol.
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Post by: Leslie36369 on January 11, 2015, 03:07:26 PM
Quote from: Ally_B on January 11, 2015, 01:37:57 PM
Go Broncos! :D

And hey, it's not totally mannish, the last person I talked NFL w/ was a heterosexual, cisgender girl who knew a heck of a lot more about the sport than anyone else I've met in this country! lol
Oh and go Seattle lol. I have them to beat New England in the Super Bowl with a 10 point spread. [emoji2]
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 11, 2015, 05:27:24 PM
LOL  (used to look like a football hooligan, now I just *am* one)

http://youtu.be/Kcy3gwwxat4

<3
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Post by: Rachel on January 11, 2015, 05:32:13 PM
I spent the day with my wife and I had a wonderful day.
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Post by: Sabrina on January 11, 2015, 07:35:09 PM
I bought a super sexy black and red plaid mini skirt on eBay. Hope it fits :)
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Post by: JenniR04 on January 11, 2015, 07:46:50 PM
It been a great weekend of sports for me .... Both my college alma mater won the FCS Championship .... north. Dakota State and my favorite professional football team, the Green Bay Packers beat Dallas. I have a theme of only green and gold teams.
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Post by: Wednesday on January 11, 2015, 07:55:14 PM
Running 15km in 1h 20'. Not so bad.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on January 12, 2015, 01:50:57 AM
Quote from: Wednesday on January 11, 2015, 07:55:14 PM
Running 15km in 1h 20'. Not so bad.

Well done......I need to get back to running that sort of distance in that sort of time!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rosinstraya on January 12, 2015, 01:52:12 AM
Quote from: JenniR04 on January 11, 2015, 07:46:50 PM
It been a great weekend of sports for me .... Both my college alma mater won the FCS Championship .... north. Dakota State and my favorite professional football team, the Green Bay Packers beat Dallas. I have a theme of only green and gold teams.

You could support all the Australian sporting teams on that basis!  ;)
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Post by: rosinstraya on January 12, 2015, 01:57:46 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on January 11, 2015, 05:27:24 PM
LOL  (used to look like a football hooligan, now I just *am* one)

http://youtu.be/Kcy3gwwxat4

<3

Bloomin' Scousers!
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Post by: alexbb on January 12, 2015, 02:53:34 AM
checking this thread each day is a sure fire hit of happiness.
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Post by: katrinaw on January 12, 2015, 05:45:48 AM
Quote from: rosinstraya on January 12, 2015, 01:57:46 AM
Bloomin' Scousers!

Haa, was never a football hooligan myself, despite following Chelsea... Bloody Londoner  :laugh:

So what made happy today, bought 2 new dresses and another pair of sandals...  8) (pics on Dresses or Pants topic (I think I got the name right - LoL)

L Katy  :-*
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Post by: FrancisAnn on January 12, 2015, 06:29:03 AM
It's time for some new pink thermal underwear. I still have 2 months of winter & need to feel nicer even in the cold.
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Post by: Reilana on January 12, 2015, 08:01:46 AM
After being off the spiro(and Estrogen since pointless to take without spiro) for a while with moving house and Christmas break messing up doctor and pharmacy availabilities, was finally able to get a new script today, and got spiro again.  I'll be able to go back to feeling more like myself within the week, also got two new tyres for my car which it needed, this has made me happy today, as well as a couple of cans of Coca~Cola ^^;  Also found this site when looking into something, so that's also made me happy :)
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Post by: Alana_Jane on January 12, 2015, 10:33:40 AM
I'm finally out to my wife.  While there was some tears, and pain, we have a way forward.  So, that's good.  Also, I begin moving my clothes into the house from the garage. 

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 13, 2015, 06:07:16 AM
I have a logical plan for 2015 to sell some assets, move to a new area, make new friends, schedule & complete my GRS. Enjoy a more normal & full life. I'm pretty happy with the plan, so now I just need to execute it a little at a time. It would be so nice to be Dorothy & click my heals & be all moved & starting a new life.
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Post by: Steph34 on January 13, 2015, 02:13:59 PM
After 23 years of wishing and waiting, I am finally wearing a piece of clothing with lace on it. Feminine shirts go such a long way in improving my mood and increasing my self-confidence, giving me something to smile at even while physical progress is poor.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 14, 2015, 07:04:25 AM
Another cold nasty day where I live. I'm going thrift store shopping today for a new nice dress or 2 & maybe some other nice items. Shopping always makes be feel better.
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Post by: alexbb on January 14, 2015, 07:29:17 AM
Went to a swanky salon and got my eyebrows done, it was great fun!
Even tho i have a dead manly face I feel so much happier walking around dressed up smart. Dont want to go back ever.
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Post by: Leslie36369 on January 14, 2015, 05:52:10 PM
Ran my 3 mile in just a little over 22 mins. Not used to long distance. I took a Marine PT test on the treadmill. Felt good. Would like to get it down to 18 within the next couple months
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Post by: MyKa on January 14, 2015, 06:09:50 PM
^ god, you make me feel slow as hell now. I walked a mile in 17 minutes today still can't run recovering from a hip replacement. good luck with getting even faster!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miharu Barbie on January 14, 2015, 06:22:48 PM
Nice thread.  You all are so lovely!

What's making me happy today is the breath-taking beauty of this cold sunny winter day in Portland, Oregon, because the beauty of the world around me makes me glad that I'm alive.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 14, 2015, 07:11:00 PM
Quote from: Miharu Barbie on January 14, 2015, 06:22:48 PM
Nice thread.  You all are so lovely!

What's making me happy today is the breath-taking beauty of this cold sunny winter day in Portland, Oregon, because the beauty of the world around me makes me glad that I'm alive.
Such a nice truly happy post. I'm embrassed with some of my blah dull type recent posts. I apologize to everyone. I will do better.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on January 14, 2015, 07:30:25 PM
Went shopping and not only restocked my sad, empty fridge, but also got some nice new underwear. :D This was followed by some tasty Indian leftovers for lunch and a refreshing nap that seems to have gotten rid of the faint headache I've had for the last couple of days.

Sometimes the simple things can be awesome. :)
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Post by: Sabrina on January 15, 2015, 08:56:21 AM
Some guy held the door open for me at my local coffee stand. While I don't look female quite yet, it still made me feel good.
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Post by: CrysC on January 15, 2015, 11:02:56 AM
I had my first visit with a therapist yesterday.  It was great!  Just talking with somebody so comfortably made me feel better about myself. 
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Post by: Mariah on January 15, 2015, 11:05:26 AM
Congrats. I'm so glad to hear that. It's amazing how it has that affect.
Mariah
Quote from: CrysC on January 15, 2015, 11:02:56 AM
I had my first visit with a therapist yesterday.  It was great!  Just talking with somebody so comfortably made me feel better about myself.
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Post by: Miharu Barbie on January 15, 2015, 05:40:55 PM
What made me happy today is that it is my boss's birthday, so my spouse made him an amazing chocolate cake and brought it to the office after lunch this afternoon.  It was great fun to have my spouse and our little 8 pound HavaShu puppy, Diablo, in the office for 90 minutes while everyone sat around swooning over Cookie's chocolate cake and giggling over Diablo's antics.  I loved having my little family in the office for a while because I miss them sorely while I'm at work all day every day. 

I'm also happy that tonight I play 8 ball in pool league... playing pool is my passion.  I'm excited to (hopefully) kick some butt against 5 of the best pool players I know.  And even if I don't kick butt, I'll still be happy to be hanging out with 80 of my favorite pool buddies, drinking beer, talking smack, and smacking balls.  It don't get any better than that.
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Post by: islandgirl on January 15, 2015, 06:40:49 PM
Just something little, comparatively, but it has taken me months to find a new coat (female) to replace the old ratty one I had been wearing. I finally found one! Rains a lot here so I needed an active wear coat. Found one at Eddie Bauer. One more step away from male life.
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Post by: sqrkbkwmqko on January 15, 2015, 07:41:58 PM
I saw one of my contacts's pout photo and decided to copy it and found that I looked good doing it. That is all. It's morning over here, btw, so morning!!
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Post by: alexbb on January 17, 2015, 07:44:24 AM
love u all!
played poker with 6 of my best friends. they all laughed at me and went off 'to the shop' to crack up in private, then got back to drinking smoking and playing the game. Turns out poker is quite easy when your head isnt full of dysphoria and depression, i came 2nd! had a great time. left my car lights on so flattened the battery and had to walk all the way home in a dress. wasnt too phased. usually idve been really angry and stressed but just laughed and practiced walking. amazing the difference coming out makes to your internal feelings. SO GOOD
i cant wait till i can switch over 24/7
xxx
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Post by: FrancisAnn on January 18, 2015, 02:04:49 AM
The weather is sure nicer where I live, nice sunshine for a while. Last week with 4 days in a row or overcast was really getting to me. I've very happy for that.
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Post by: FairyHime on January 18, 2015, 02:46:54 AM
So it's kind of minor in the greater context but ...

Last night at work I finally was brave enough to go to the women's bathroom!
As it turns out, it's not that I have extreme discomfort in going to public restrooms, but more so the fact I have extreme discomfort in going into guy restrooms. Now I know that.
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Post by: Jenny07 on January 18, 2015, 03:33:57 AM
Not quite so hot today so got on with some more painting.
It's slow work but the building looks so much better already.

8 years and it was looking pretty shabby.

Should have a much slower week at work this week.
First in a very long time.

Face was a bit swollen after a electro session. another 200 odd hairs gone.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fts3.mm.bing.net%2Fth%3Fid%3DHN.608049137686613014%26amp%3Bpid%3D15.1%26amp%3BH%3D234%26amp%3BW%3D160&hash=f6828f3e4aa293ee69974f7486d6a40edf6637bd)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 18, 2015, 06:42:51 AM
Quote from: FairyHime on January 18, 2015, 02:46:54 AM
So it's kind of minor in the greater context but ...

Last night at work I finally was brave enough to go to the women's bathroom!
As it turns out, it's not that I have extreme discomfort in going to public restrooms, but more so the fact I have extreme discomfort in going into guy restrooms. Now I know that.
I know that feeling. To go into a men's room always made my skin "crawl" as they say, so uncomfortable & such a strange feeling. Glad I'm not alone.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 18, 2015, 09:02:19 AM
i went out with all my friends last night, straight guys and girls, dressed up as pretty as i could. it was so great. i feel like i can let the past 30 years of worrying and being scared about being caught crossdressing go after going out in public as a 'girl'. my team did the best at table football, i love being a striker! loving life.
bit hungover now mind you!
xxx alex
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Post by: Raelynn on January 18, 2015, 08:00:08 PM
Just a quick question... How do I unsubscribe from this thread?  I made one post in November and now it is always in my "Replies to your thread" folder.  I haven't subscribed to it, well I did ONCE and then UN-subscribed to see if that would work, but it didn't.  So save your nails typing "Click Unsubscribe" because I have already tried that!  I love reading about good days, but it is an OCD thing for me to always have this in my unread file...

Thanks
Rae!
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Post by: bluebirdx88 on January 18, 2015, 09:56:27 PM
Raelynn: When you click on unread topics, then next to the topic is  a lil checkbox that says ignore, click on it and solved... At least that's how I check what I gotta read, dunno you....


Well... My flatmate who tends to be quite blunt and doesn't really do compliments much said my hair looked great :D (I hadn't washed it in 3 days.... I'm assuming dirty hair = good hair xD) aaaaaaaaaaaand my hips and bum have grown visibly coz she pointeed that out tooo :D To the point that my shoulders are less wide than my hips and  are finally balanced when I pull them backwards....  May not be much but made my mood a bit more tolerable today :3
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 18, 2015, 10:59:42 PM
Admiring Bluebird while riding public transport.  :police:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: bluebirdx88 on January 18, 2015, 11:09:22 PM
hahahahaha oh you ~  <3 I was so tempted to +1 that but I think I could get in trouble, lol! *hugs Sarah happily*

PS your post made me happy and technically it's tomorrow as it's 6 am.. So......

Sarah's post made me happy :D \o/
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Post by: jessical on January 19, 2015, 01:15:10 AM
Having a friend take photos me, and realizing how much I have changed.  Plus, I looked hot ;)  I also went out during the day, and for the first time I was not nervous about it. 
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Post by: Cindy on January 19, 2015, 01:18:57 AM
Quote from: bluebirdx88 on January 18, 2015, 11:09:22 PM
hahahahaha oh you ~  <3 I was so tempted to +1 that but I think I could get in trouble, lol! *hugs Sarah happily*

PS your post made me happy and technically it's tomorrow as it's 6 am.. So......

Sarah's post made me happy :D \o/

Pretty difficult to get in trouble for a positive rep point - Aaah I'll give you both one :laugh:
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Post by: Jenny07 on January 19, 2015, 02:25:55 AM
Have a meeting with HR about my review at work.
Seriously not happy with it. I am shocked they are even bothering to listen to what I might have to say.

Only the truth which seems to be in limited supply at work.

Oh right wong thread... :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miharu Barbie on January 19, 2015, 01:59:44 PM
Paid time off from work makes me happy because I adore spending time at home with my family!  (Martin Luther King, Jr.'s birthday is a paid holiday where I work.)

The past half hour spent in meditation while spooning my little puppy at the same time makes me happy because these are 2 of my most favorite things ever (deep meditation and soft little puppy dogs.)

My out-of-this-world pink pool table makes me happy because I love spending time in my billiards room practicing my craft and becoming the pool player to fear.  Every day I feel myself becoming a better pool player... and that makes me happy.

Life is good!  If you want me, I'll be in the billiards room...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JenniR04 on January 20, 2015, 04:03:33 PM
I was just told via email that my therapist's supervisor just approved my hormone referral letter and I'll be getting it at my next appointment on February 2nd. So excited ..... it made my cry tears of joy. I've been waiting so long for these next days and weeks to come. It feels confirming!
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Post by: Jade_404 on January 20, 2015, 04:09:08 PM
My friend needed a sudden ride to work for a meeting. I had no time to get ready just threw on a jacket, hat, sunglasses, scarf and headed out. I ran into the grocery store to grap some coffee and milk.. well I am all smiles  ;D now because the clerk lady said, "would you like your receipt ma'am "  :o

I even talked to her before she said that, I kept my voice quiet but I had asked if the milk was on sale. Apparently I did not sound like a guy, thats good!!

YAY!!!!!  I totally did not expect it, and my painted nails were covered under my gloves too. No makeup, guy sunglasses ... haha I feel so good still and it was hours ago!  :D


-Jade
:-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jade_404 on January 20, 2015, 04:09:56 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on January 20, 2015, 04:03:33 PM
I was just told via email that my therapist's supervisor just approved my hormone referral letter and I'll be getting it at my next appointment on February 2nd. So excited ..... it made my cry tears of joy. I've been waiting so long for these next days and weeks to come. It feels confirming!

Yay JenniR04! Exciting!

-Jade
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 20, 2015, 06:42:53 PM
Quote from: bluebirdx88 on January 18, 2015, 11:09:22 PM
... I think I could get in trouble, lol! *hugs Sarah happily*

*kisses* <3


What made me happy today?

Thinking about my new crush in between taking phone calls from people demanding money. Such is life x
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Post by: islandgirl on January 21, 2015, 08:25:40 AM
Great news Jenni!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on January 21, 2015, 08:32:48 AM
I got my super sexy mini skirt in the mail and I love it! Also, my makeup skills are improving and I updated my profile picture as a result.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: noleen111 on January 21, 2015, 08:47:52 AM
Waking up next to my boyfriend..and him giving me a giant kiss good morning and he is staying again tonight.. as my roommate is out of town for two nights.. i dont want to sleep alone in my apartment..

Last night was the first time he has slept over during the week, normally I sleep over by him or he sleeps over my me only over weekends...

It was nice the two of us getting ready for work together... having coffee in the morning... good practice for when we are married someday.
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Post by: Ennaria on January 21, 2015, 08:42:20 PM
For me, one thing that makes me happy every day, is using the female bathroom at work. I get butterflies of excitement every time I have to pee. :P It's such a wonderful feeling! Luckily, I have a very supportive workplace and haven't ever had to deal with transphobic comments.  ^-^

There was nothing really special for today, but yesterday (I want to mention this, as it's huge for me), I went to a Lovewinx/Undercoverwear Ladie's Night (lingerie/spa stuff). It was great! There were about 12 of us girls total, of whom I only knew the host and one other. Everyone was very accepting and I had a blast!  ^-^

I remember a couple of times (long before I figured out my true gender), when my ex-fiancee got invited to parties like this, I asked if I could go too. She said it was for girls only (she was very gentle about it) and that we could do a couples party. I always felt very let down, and since I came out, I understand why. It was my subconscious was dropping hints. I'm glad I finally acknowledged something that, deep down, I must've always known.  :D

<3
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Post by: jeni on January 21, 2015, 10:11:56 PM
I took my first dose of spiro last night, so today was my first day on hrt. That makes me unbelievably happy! It got even better when I popped the second dose tonight.

Quote from: JenniR04 on January 20, 2015, 04:03:33 PM
I was just told via email that my therapist's supervisor just approved my hormone referral letter and I'll be getting it at my next appointment on February 2nd. So excited ..... it made my cry tears of joy. I've been waiting so long for these next days and weeks to come. It feels confirming!
This also made me happy! Congratulations! I felt a lot like that driving home from my endo yesterday.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 22, 2015, 03:42:54 AM
As I woke up this morning I felt great, really comfortable with where I am - in-between-stages transitioning.

So today, I had the idea to go out all tomboy (haven't thought of it before). Much less makeup, the most unsexy pair of shorts I could find left behind, a couple of singlets, sneakers and a brush through my hair. Off we went.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1380.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fah198%2Fjoneybrown34%2FlesboBOO1_zpspxrjpehw.jpg&hash=0f6a69e631624a36162a5b9ba8d70b439dae980e) (http://s1380.photobucket.com/user/joneybrown34/media/lesboBOO1_zpspxrjpehw.jpg.html)


Now what was odd was I got clocked even less - a fair bit less - than before.
Maybe it was going natural, maybe it was that I passed really well *for a tomboy*.


(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1380.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fah198%2Fjoneybrown34%2FlesboBOO2_zpsjukvrdmd.jpg&hash=e41da7a959e25c522307c4dc23dbde2b670fac22) (http://s1380.photobucket.com/user/joneybrown34/media/lesboBOO2_zpsjukvrdmd.jpg.html)


There's more though. On my bus back home I was approached by two (very attractive) African girls. Both dressed stunning and classy, both with very suggestive lip piercings.

They asked me my name, we made small talk for a bit. Soon enough one of the girls asks:

'Are you a lesbian?'

'Well ... I like girls *and* boys ...'

'O so you're bisexual' ...

Soon they are asking if I have a girlfriennnnddd and all this stuff.

Now I still can't believe that people would think I pass. But these girls hadn't clocked me ... for a lesbian yes but not for ... a TS.

'I used to be a guy, hey!'

"Oh, really? That's cool ... how does that work?'

and so on. Said bye and stuff, here I am home again.


Tomboy huh :~D very cool!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 22, 2015, 10:40:03 PM
One more for now. This has been making me happy for ... oh, the past four days. The way Bowie moves in this is one of the hottest things I've seen (call me biased).

1979! That's where I came from ...

Squealing glam guitars burn a hole right through my senses :~] ... (is that Brian Eno at the very end? I think it might be!)

http://youtu.be/G4uPpClnA00
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Post by: Monika the diva on January 22, 2015, 10:57:32 PM
Being called maam or miss over the phone.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on January 23, 2015, 01:39:00 AM
Yesterday, getting one of the two psych approvals for SRS....today, getting a confirmed date for later this year.

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 23, 2015, 01:44:02 AM
Quote from: Beth Andrea on January 23, 2015, 01:39:00 AM
Yesterday, getting one of the two psych approvals for SRS....today, getting a confirmed date for later this year.

Congrats darling!!! Who are you going with?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mallory on January 23, 2015, 09:58:52 AM
I scheduled my first session with a therapist for this Sunday and paid for 2 in advance. I'm really excited to begin the process. I also have some information on an endocrinologist that is trans* friendly. The next 2 months are going to be exciting to say the least.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on January 24, 2015, 01:38:16 AM
Spent the last few days w/ some good friends who have been incredibly supportive since I came out to them.

Spent the whole time in ladies-wear, got a MASSIVE wardrobe donation from the lady of the house AND they were making the effort to call me Ally, (instead of my birthname) and gender me correctly.... And as an extra bonus, had their two young daughters do the same.

I've never felt so accepted and fortunate in my life. :)
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Post by: Jenny07 on January 24, 2015, 02:01:49 AM
First day of a long weekend down under.
National beer drinking day on Monday. They have a day for everything here.

Had a massively busy week at work doing may impossible things. Why do I get them all?
Client loves me and how I look after them.
Did some more painting today but got way too hot.

Back up to prescribed dosage of E as I had been trundling along on minimum.
I have talked to my endo about this and he is happy for me to do this.
I do like the days when I feel like taking it all. :)

Had some dark thoughts, not wanting to wake up during the week but they have passed. Not much fun. :(
Got my bonus for 2014 from work. More than I was expecting so that's good. Put it away against my home loan.
Also found out a girl I have been training up got a promotion due to my efforts. Bought some chocolates for her as the bigger team does not know yet.

Starting to get odd looks now. the E must be working well now.

Overall a quite week.
Now to rest up and go for a nice bike ride in the morning.

J
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Post by: Zoetrope on January 24, 2015, 04:20:23 AM
Celebrating 7 months of keeping it experimental! :~)

http://youtu.be/I3iIUW1QyhA
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on January 25, 2015, 10:32:03 AM
One more public space I've entered.  I went to my first move.  I went to see "The Boy Next Door"... Ok so it's a Lifetime movie on the big screen, I wanted to see a chick movie, and this fit the bill. 

Oh, I also went shoe shopping.  I added a pair of chunky 2" heels for work and a pair of nude pumps.  My new breast forms arrived in the mail as well.  I've up-sized from my A-to-B cup pads to a 40-C cup forms.  I tried it in my formal dress and va va voom....

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on January 25, 2015, 11:09:42 AM
I got all dolled up to go out last night with friends. Looked outstanding and got lots of complements. Being tall and wearing 3" inch heeled boots also helps :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on January 25, 2015, 12:34:58 PM
Having time in the shower to shave everywhere... takes too long to do it during the week so I have to deal with more stubble than I like.
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Post by: lindagrl on January 25, 2015, 01:59:42 PM
Bought myself a pink coffee mug on sale and also my first bottle of nail polish, semi clear to start with.
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Post by: AndreaLinda on January 25, 2015, 05:11:58 PM
looking at the mirror and feel more slightly female. Might sound silly it made me smile :3
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Post by: Ally_B on January 25, 2015, 05:31:00 PM
Having one of those mornings where I looked at myself in the mirror after my morning ritual and thought "yes!"  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on January 26, 2015, 08:46:17 AM
I only need to shave my legs once a week. I'm very thankful for them :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 26, 2015, 02:15:59 PM
Ugh you are so lucky I have to shave every 48 hours or it runs rampant! And dont even ask about my abe lincoln-esque beard hair!!
love this thread, so much happiness!!
Im running 400m more each day trying to get fit, did 3200 metres today, im starting to enjoy it after the slime stops coming out my lungs. And I got offered an interview as a concept artist at Bungie the people who make Halo and Karakter the ones who do the SFX for Game of Thrones today. working from home. dream jobs. And i got another pretty striped tshirt from Sainsburies for £6. 2015 is kicking ass so far!

Oh cos of the lovely Sarah's first vid, listened to bowie for hours. hes the best.

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on January 26, 2015, 04:55:06 PM
Three things....

* Came out successfully to another friend.

* Just bought my ticket for the Against Me show happening the day before my birthday.

* Had a nice, old man let the "pretty, young lady" into a queue in front of him.

I may have the world's goofiest grin on my face right now. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: VikingArchangel on January 27, 2015, 12:48:21 AM
It hit me today - I have a real friend. He knew me for years before I started my transition, and is a freaking rock to lean on right now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Michelle G on January 27, 2015, 04:11:50 PM
Got a new top, that always makes me happy  :)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi244.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg4%2FKR3259%2Ffunny%2520icons%2FB8BA5F37-8691-456B-91A6-3EDA7A602358_zpsjvscpbg9.jpg&hash=6bf8de10bce3ca289a06f7d58bf8e7765957469a)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alexis79 on January 27, 2015, 04:22:40 PM
I...finally got scheduled for first official gender specialist appointment.

There will be much sadness and hurt later I am sure, but for now, celebrating the small victory. Now to make sure I am ready to spill my heart and soul out to a "stranger" so that I can move along further on the journey.

Yay for finally kicking myself another step down the road.

Phase 1 - therapy to get to hrt
Phase 2 - ???
Phase 3 - Get to be ME finally.

And yes, I realize there is a plethora of phase 2 info...underpants gnomes. I feel a bit like one right now trying to plan ahead...but...I am getting there.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Michelle G on January 27, 2015, 04:27:46 PM
Quote from: Alexis79 on January 27, 2015, 04:22:40 PM
I...finally got scheduled for first official gender specialist appointment.

There will be much sadness and hurt later I am sure, but for now, celebrating the small victory. Now to make sure I am ready to spill my heart and soul out to a "stranger" so that I can move along further on the journey.

Yay for finally kicking myself another step down the road.

Phase 1 - therapy to get to hrt
Phase 2 - ???
Phase 3 - Get to be ME finally.

And yes, I realize there is a plethora of phase 2 info...underpants gnomes. I feel a bit like one right now trying to plan ahead...but...I am getting there.

Hugs and a big Congratulations!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on January 27, 2015, 04:29:37 PM
Estradiol prescription and, as a bonus, learning that I do not have the Factor V Leiden clotting disorder.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 27, 2015, 11:32:26 PM
Downside:
Nasty panic attack yesterday, totally out of the blue. Still reeling, but will be getting back on low-dose antidepressants ASAP and this time for life.

Upside:
Saw my boss today in tears to say I wouldn't be in this week. I was fearful that my anxiety had been affecting my work, because things have been tough lately. She knows all about my history but in the height of panic I had all these fearful thoughts.

My boss corrected me, said that she was amazed by my strength over the past 12 months. 18 months ago when I first told her Sarah is the real me, my boss said she 'wasn't sure of this Sarah creature' ... she comes from a conservative place ... but it looks like I have won her confidence and respect after all ...

She also said my work was top class and that we were all having struggles with our post-centralized system.

I feel so much better, just for having that little talk. When I go back on Monday I will be unstoppable :~)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 12:26:11 AM
Finding a tartan skirt ;D (well it's a skort, but still). I've only been looking for this since I bought my pair of tartan Dr. Martins over 12 months ago
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 12:29:21 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on January 27, 2015, 11:32:26 PM
Downside:
Nasty panic attack yesterday, totally out of the blue. Still reeling, but will be getting back on low-dose antidepressants ASAP and this time for life.

Upside:
Saw my boss today in tears to say I wouldn't be in this week. I was fearful that my anxiety had been affecting my work, because things have been tough lately. She knows all about my history but in the height of panic I had all these fearful thoughts.

My boss corrected me, said that she was amazed by my strength over the past 12 months. 18 months ago when I first told her Sarah is the real me, my boss said she 'wasn't sure of this Sarah creature' ... she comes from a conservative place ... but it looks like I have won her confidence and respect after all ...

She also said my work was top class and that we were all having struggles with our post-centralized system.

I feel so much better, just for having that little talk. When I go back on Monday I will be unstoppable :~)

Good girl. Just try to relax a bit and not let things get on top of you. You have lots of friends here and obviously at work.

Hugs
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 12:30:26 AM
Quote from: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 12:26:11 AM
Finding a tartan skirt ;D (well it's a skort, but still). I've only been looking for this since I bought my pair of tartan Dr. Martins over 12 months ago

And the b->-bleeped-<-ipes? You can then go and cheer up Jenny!!
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Post by: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 01:00:23 AM
Quote from: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 12:30:26 AM
And the b->-bleeped-<-ipes? You can then go and cheer up Jenny!!

Well I do need another reason to wear them. Beside the combo being absolutley awesome
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 28, 2015, 01:10:19 AM
Thank you, Cindy - while I'm tough as nails I do have a weak spot like Smaug :~)

Never take no for an answer.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on January 28, 2015, 01:15:52 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on January 27, 2015, 11:32:26 PM
Downside:
Nasty panic attack yesterday, totally out of the blue. Still reeling, but will be getting back on low-dose antidepressants ASAP and this time for life.

I can relate to that. The panic attacks started up for me a few years back. They came from out of nowhere. It really, really sucked. I couldn't be alone and I was scared of everything. I went through tons of tests and they could never figure out what was causing them. I ended up on a couple of medications as an absolute last resort. I will, more than likely, be on them for the rest of my life. I don't really like the idea (even though they aren't harming me. I actually got my life back.) But, it just bugs me that I have to take pills just to get through the day.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 28, 2015, 01:59:47 AM
Quote from: Laura Squirrel on January 28, 2015, 01:15:52 AM
I can relate to that. The panic attacks started up for me a few years back. They came from out of nowhere. It really, really sucked. I couldn't be alone and I was scared of everything. I went through tons of tests and they could never figure out what was causing them. I ended up on a couple of medications as an absolute last resort. I will, more than likely, be on them for the rest of my life. I don't really like the idea (even though they aren't harming me. I actually got my life back.) But, it just bugs me that I have to take pills just to get through the day.

I hear you Laura, I've struggled with that too. But you know, if we have serotonin deficiency, that's just the way it is. Adjust it in the interest of quality-of-life. I don't view it differently to my hormone regime or any other medical condition these days. Let's beat this thing x
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Post by: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 02:15:46 AM
Quote from: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 01:00:23 AM
Quote from: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 12:30:26 AM
And the b->-bleeped-<-ipes? You can then go and cheer up Jenny!!

Well I do need another reason to wear them. Beside the combo being absolutley awesome

You going to pipe me from the airport?

Oh Goddess I wish I hadn't suggested that ::)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 02:41:27 AM
Quote from: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 02:15:46 AM
You going to pipe me from the airport?

Oh Goddess I wish I hadn't suggested that ::)

You have asked and you shall recieve. Remember the old adage "Be careful what you wish for, because it just might come true" >:-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 05:05:22 AM
Quote from: immortal gypsy on January 28, 2015, 02:41:27 AM
Quote from: Cindy on January 28, 2015, 02:15:46 AM
You going to pipe me from the airport?

Oh Goddess I wish I hadn't suggested that ::)

You have asked and you shall recieve. Remember the old adage "Be careful what you wish for, because it just might come true" >:-)

I'll be wearing the tartan wedding dress on Japan Air flight 09876 on 1 April, due in midnight. Dare you  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Paeonia on January 29, 2015, 10:34:10 AM
Finally came out to my mother and brother (by text message!). They seem accepting, and even think I look pretty good in a pic I sent on. A far far better outcome than I was expecting tbh.

Possibly not the best medium for this sort of thing but at least I didn't use textspeak!

"gttng sx chng lol <3".
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Post by: Jayne on January 29, 2015, 12:22:55 PM
We had snow today & it shure were pretty :)
It only lasted for a couple of minutes but there's more on its way, can wait to throw snowballs for Poopie :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on January 29, 2015, 01:37:39 PM
" Finally came out to my mother and brother (by text message!). They seem accepting, and even think I look pretty good in a pic I sent on. A far far better outcome than I was expecting tbh.

Possibly not the best medium for this sort of thing but at least I didn't use textspeak!

"gttng sx chng lol <3"."

This made me happy!
I cant really be bothered waiting 3 years for hrt and ffs to take effect so I went for a dinner meeting with a guy about a thing and dressed as pretty as i could and loved every second. i laughed at the guy for looking like he was on a date with a ->-bleeped-<- and he cracked up too. i think its going to be alright.
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Post by: antonia on January 29, 2015, 04:52:33 PM
Cycled home 12km in 6 inches of snow, it was really really fun :D
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Post by: Ally_B on January 29, 2015, 06:23:39 PM
The miracle of make-up! Dysphoria artfully subdued.... :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 29, 2015, 08:09:59 PM
My life is going well, my body has changed & improved quite a bit. I look good & feel very female & more normal. However my electrolysis lady has dissappeared??? She has not replied to emails in quite a while so I may have to find a new electro lady?? So I'm happy but concerned about my electro lady.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AbbyKat on January 29, 2015, 08:23:03 PM
My first boy-mode fail today!  I don't even present in public (or private, for that matter; I just "am") and I was wearing the clothes of a homeless construction worker and this old guy opened the door for me and my wife and said "After you, ladies" and I said "Thanks" and he said "Oh... and, er, gentlemen".

I woke up feeling especially un-pretty, bloated, and puffy so that sort of balanced out my day a bit.  It was probably the hair and the weight loss but I'll take it as a little sign of potential.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on January 29, 2015, 08:48:09 PM

Quote from: Abysha on January 29, 2015, 08:23:03 PM
My first boy-mode fail today!  I don't even present in public (or private, for that matter; I just "am") and I was wearing the clothes of a homeless construction worker and this old guy opened the door for me and my wife and said "After you, ladies" and I said "Thanks" and he said "Oh... and, er, gentlemen".

I woke up feeling especially un-pretty, bloated, and puffy so that sort of balanced out my day a bit.  It was probably the hair and the weight loss but I'll take it as a little sign of potential.

Happens to me sometimes. My voice does give me away at times.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on January 29, 2015, 10:45:50 PM
My lawyer told me my coming out as transgender shiuld not be a factor if/when I file for divorce.  Her words "it's not as uncommon as you might think."   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: immortal gypsy on January 30, 2015, 02:15:16 AM
Showing the girls at the hairdresser's a photo of me in my new skirt. Recived positive comments from both (told I looked cute) and one of the girls was mock upset that I had skinnier legs then her
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 30, 2015, 02:29:11 AM
A strange one for me today. I have a big meeting at the end of each month (all men BTW who knew me before transition) but today I couldn't attend in person so a teleconference link was organised. I linked in and heard the others talking before they knew I was present.

Oh how do people talk about me behind my back feeling ::)

I heard one colleague enter 'when are we starting?' 'When Cindy calls in.' 'Oh can't she attend?' 'No she has another meeting but is going to teleC.' 'We need her for her views on item 2 so I'm going to wait for her'. 'She has strong views on that and we need her input.'

Mmm maybe they do respect me! 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on January 30, 2015, 02:41:19 AM
Perhaps or is it like us?

Fear. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on January 30, 2015, 02:46:03 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on January 30, 2015, 02:41:19 AM
Perhaps or is it like us?

Fear. :D

I've been checking QANTAS for how many branding irons and whips I can take in my luggage young lady.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on January 30, 2015, 02:46:23 AM
Busy sorting out what will happen when I move roles and my client calls.

Seems I have missed an email from yesterday.
She gave me the benefit that I must be busy or sick.

Yes I was busy. Nice to know she respects me for what I have done for them, just like you Cindy. :)
Felt bad I missed it though. Usually don't.


Me??? Now what did I do?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on January 30, 2015, 08:33:54 AM
This morning, I felt a happiness and contentedness that is totally unfamiliar, but very, very much welcome. My son forgot his gloves, so I had to run home and drop them back by the school. Somehow on that little trip, I just started feeling good about my life, my family, and the world. Then, walking out of the school and back to the car, I looked up and saw a beautiful early sun shining through patchy white clouds in a blue sky, the sort where you see the rays spreading out radially across the sky like in a painting.

The world is a beautiful, wonderful place.


Quote from: ChiGirl on January 29, 2015, 10:45:50 PM
My lawyer told me my coming out as transgender shiuld not be a factor if/when I file for divorce.  Her words "it's not as uncommon as you might think."
Also, this made me happy. Really glad to hear it, ChiGirl.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on January 31, 2015, 04:08:53 AM
It just feels good to be a woman. I have two so nice women friends that really understand & care about me. Both know well of my need to have a nice vagina & enjoy a more complete life. They will be sisters & close friends for life.  Off to the beauty shop today for a facial & later thrift store shopping for maybe a new pretty dress or two.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on January 31, 2015, 04:13:41 AM
Quote from: jeni on January 30, 2015, 08:33:54 AM
This morning, I felt a happiness and contentedness that is totally unfamiliar, but very, very much welcome. My son forgot his gloves, so I had to run home and drop them back by the school. Somehow on that little trip, I just started feeling good about my life, my family, and the world. Then, walking out of the school and back to the car, I looked up and saw a beautiful early sun shining through patchy white clouds in a blue sky, the sort where you see the rays spreading out radially across the sky like in a painting.

The world is a beautiful, wonderful place.


That's so wonderful, Jeni

I had (and still have) similar experiences since starting HRT. Just feeling *right* and feeling *free*, has turned my world upside down.

Many more days like this are on their way :~)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on January 31, 2015, 06:44:20 AM
Got a very complementary comment from a lovely lady today on this forum. Thanks Joanne (Feliz) you're a sweetie  :P
Ahh is so good to be alive, human and woman!

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: belfast girl on February 01, 2015, 01:06:25 PM
Measured myself.

5'10"
125lb
35-26-34
36B

Pretty feminine measurements. I actually did this to myself. 15 months HRT today. For a long time I honestly thought I'd never be able to. But I actually did it. This is what makes me very happy today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Tessa James on February 01, 2015, 01:33:50 PM
Quote from: SarahBoo on January 31, 2015, 04:13:41 AM

That's so wonderful, Jeni

I had (and still have) similar experiences since starting HRT. Just feeling *right* and feeling *free*, has turned my world upside down.

Many more days like this are on their way :~)

What you girls share here is what can and does make me happy today.  Yes, so simply right and free
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 01, 2015, 09:51:24 PM
Quote from: belfast girl on February 01, 2015, 01:06:25 PM
Measured myself.

5'10"
125lb
35-26-34
36B

Pretty feminine measurements. I actually did this to myself. 15 months HRT today. For a long time I honestly thought I'd never be able to. But I actually did it. This is what makes me very happy today.
You deserve to be happy GF. I bet you are a beautiful girl/woman. I'm 5'9" with nice growing breasts however the rest of my body looks terrible, no hips, still a thick waist, yuck, yuck, yuck.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on February 02, 2015, 02:34:28 AM
Sorted a problem out for the client over the phone.
Turns out I war correct. Manager wrong.

No one puts it past my 1BDI.

More shopping. This time new bedding. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 02, 2015, 10:39:53 AM
I ordered some Climara 7 day patches to replace my older 3 & one half day patches. That will be so much easier. I feel good & life is going very well for me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jade_404 on February 02, 2015, 11:19:01 AM
My younger brother called me back and we discussed things in detail. Wow! "Mind blown" you can read it all here if you like.

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,182271.new.html#new

-Jade
:-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Releca on February 02, 2015, 11:53:17 AM
Took a phone call today and was called mame and miss through the whole call
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessika on February 02, 2015, 01:19:20 PM
Checking my Mailbox.  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on February 02, 2015, 01:45:18 PM
I stopped to help a woman who got stuck in the snow on an on ramp.  I almost passed her by, but something said I should stop.  I tried pushing with my car, but I couldn't get any traction.  One by one 4 more people stopped to help including a woman who had a yoga mat that we put under a tire.  Five complete strangers all pushing this car of another stranger made me happy.  I felt I had done a good deed, but it made me feel a little better about the state of humanity.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on February 02, 2015, 03:38:36 PM
My dental hygienist complemented me on my eyebrows and how well shaped they are, at which point I told her I've been meaning to have them done professionally because I'm not sure I'm doing them right. She just stopped and gaped, then told me she wanted to slap me and told me I should keep doing them if that's what I had been doing.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Stephanie00Rayne on February 02, 2015, 03:50:24 PM
^^ Awesome!

Nothing so far today... been feeling down actually.

.... but I was happy Saturday to have started my electolysis hair removal.  Another step in the right direction.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on February 02, 2015, 06:13:51 PM
i got invited on a podcast for concept artists, i looked like a gay mime skeleton (damn harsh lighting hehe) but loved it!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: speckyhailey on February 03, 2015, 03:07:38 PM
This is more of a last few weeks thing rather than today but a few people have said I'm very feminine in mannerisms and someone actually referred to me as a girl, not male fail but in the way I am, and that's made me really happy. Another thing is I put on a friend's beanie and was told that I looked like an older version of her which also made me really happy. So been feeling quite good recently.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: EvelynSTL on February 04, 2015, 09:16:30 PM
My right is starting to catch up with my left...and the fact that everybody here knows what I'm talking about gives me chuckle.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 05, 2015, 08:55:29 AM
Quote from: EvelynSTL on February 04, 2015, 09:16:30 PM
My right is starting to catch up with my left...and the fact that everybody here knows what I'm talking about gives me chuckle.  ;D
My 2 girls are pretty evenly matched so far, that's nice. Love growing breasts. It feels like such a nice happy part of life.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on February 05, 2015, 05:07:55 PM
My doc said she will write my second SRS letter...once I get that, I'll have all my ducks in a row and it'll be my time for SRS in November!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on February 05, 2015, 05:19:09 PM
Getting confirmation of my first counseling session this weekend.    :)

Buying my first girl watch and having the clerk ask me if I was treating myself   :o 
(I was in boy mode, actually I've only been en femme mode in public one time in the last 30 years)

Congrats Beth
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on February 05, 2015, 08:48:52 PM
I got called beautiful twice today, once during work and once at the store :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on February 05, 2015, 10:54:25 PM
* wandering around the hospital where I work in heels, all dolled up and feeling amazing
* getting ogled by a handful of tradies from down the corridor
* getting clocked at the very last second by the same tradies
* saying 'Hi guys!' cheerfully and watching them squirm!!!  ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jayne on February 06, 2015, 08:27:54 AM
My mum gave me the money for an Xbox1 cause I never ask for much, her & my stepdad have helped out all other family members & wanted me to have something before they have to tighten their belts.
'Appy Days :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on February 06, 2015, 08:39:53 PM
Had my first two hours of Electrolysis today, then confirmed my next session for next week.  One more item on my list started. 

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mallory on February 06, 2015, 10:56:11 PM
What made me happy? Paying for 2 more therapy sessions. Little bit closer to HRT. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on February 07, 2015, 12:02:13 AM
Dark chocolate and cherry rocky road. Oh my word ....
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on February 07, 2015, 12:33:11 AM
New A-line black leather skirt, new high heels and a cute top to finish the ensemble!


I really didn't need them  What a silly comment :laugh:
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Post by: Jenny07 on February 07, 2015, 12:40:43 AM
It will go nicely with your whips.

Love a black leather skirt.
Perhaps a new career path. >:-)
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Post by: Cindy on February 07, 2015, 12:56:57 AM
You do know that I am writing down your wishes for when I get to Sydney to see you!!
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Post by: Jenny07 on February 07, 2015, 01:05:42 AM
I don't scare that easily.

Bring it on.


;D
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 07, 2015, 06:19:44 AM
I threw the chocolate ice cream out the door for my dogs to eat. That makes me happy. Yesterday was so stressful with a legal problem I responded by eating too much ice cream & just taking a nap. 
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Post by: Dodie on February 07, 2015, 01:44:14 PM
Getting new makeup :)
Having a party tonight....
Dodie
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Post by: islandgirl on February 07, 2015, 02:45:11 PM
Back to tennis league! Playing against the boys as I am not out here. Not yet passable anyway. Nice to get back to exercise after a long time of in activity.
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Post by: jeni on February 08, 2015, 09:31:02 PM
Shopped for women's clothes for the first time today! Got a couple pairs of jeans and some shirts. Fit is kinda weird, but it's almost right and I figure I'll wait to see what happens with HRT before spending too much time trying to get things perfect. Don't expect to wear these out of the house any time soon.

It was nice having my wife and 1-year-old daughter along for cover since I'm in perpetual boy mode for now....
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Post by: Obfuskatie on February 08, 2015, 10:10:04 PM
Felt normal using the women's restroom today, and I'm happy I'm not a nervous wreck anymore when nature calls... if that makes sense.
I'm also getting more used to gliding in my new sensible 2" wedge heels.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 09, 2015, 12:15:44 AM
Going to my first counseling session and getting my referral for HRT.
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Post by: alexbb on February 09, 2015, 12:48:46 AM
My guy friends, you know the really close 2 or 3 you see all the time, i was really worried theyd be projectile vomiting all over me and going nuts and stuff when they found out. so for a month ive kind of made the point by always dressing as pretty as I could and otherwise being the same as normal. today they said they really liked the new me and never to go back to being a guy ever again. and my girl friends said the same the other night.  i am 100% down with that. bye bye miserable me, i wont miss you!
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Post by: StrykerXIII on February 09, 2015, 01:25:09 AM
There's this one really bubbly, always-extra-cheerful girl at work who always calls me "princess". I've never said a word to her about me, I've never dropped any hints, I do my best to keep it hidden at work, but she somehow decided to call me that. So, she comes bouncing in like always, zooms past the security desk to clock in, and then backs up and goes, "Your hair looks WONDERFUL today princess!!!" and shoots off at Mach IV (I swear, she's straight out of a cartoon some days!)...I'd taken extra time before work to ensure that my hair looked a little more feminine than normal, and she picked up on it. It's the little things, yanno?
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Post by: Cindy on February 09, 2015, 01:28:13 AM
After fighting a losing battle with house work I went to a store and was shown a steam cleaner that was also a vacuum cleaner. I can steam clean my floors and vacuum at the same time. Totally brilliant!!

Ok it's a girl thing  :laugh:
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Post by: Jenny07 on February 09, 2015, 03:17:56 AM
 :icon_no:
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Post by: Cindy on February 09, 2015, 04:29:28 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on February 09, 2015, 03:17:56 AM
:icon_no:

It came with a holster for whips ;D
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Post by: Joanne Feliz on February 09, 2015, 04:55:27 AM
Quote from: StrykerXIII on February 09, 2015, 01:25:09 AM
There's this one really bubbly, always-extra-cheerful girl at work who always calls me "princess". I've never said a word to her about me, I've never dropped any hints, I do my best to keep it hidden at work, but she somehow decided to call me that. So, she comes bouncing in like always, zooms past the security desk to clock in, and then backs up and goes, "Your hair looks WONDERFUL today princess!!!" and shoots off at Mach IV (I swear, she's straight out of a cartoon some days!)...I'd taken extra time before work to ensure that my hair looked a little more feminine than normal, and she picked up on it. It's the little things, yanno?

Thats great Stryker!

Are you out at work ?  Your pic looks pretty female to my eyes!
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Post by: StrykerXIII on February 09, 2015, 12:58:00 PM
Quote from: Joanne Feliz on February 09, 2015, 04:55:27 AM
Thats great Stryker!

Are you out at work ?  Your pic looks pretty female to my eyes!

Bah, I wish. That pic was a "hair and makeup day" one...that's not my real hair. I work with a bunch of transphobic, homophobic, "manly man" types. If I were to come out at work I'd probably get fired if not assaulted.
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Post by: JenniR04 on February 09, 2015, 01:37:57 PM
Stryker ...... that's awesome that she says those things even without knowing ... it's sometimes those little things that just help us to smile a little brighter somedays. And in all reality, maybe she does know something others don't see, but whatever, it sounds really cool!!

Quote from: StrykerXIII on February 09, 2015, 12:58:00 PM
Bah, I wish. That pic was a "hair and makeup day" one...that's not my real hair. I work with a bunch of transphobic, homophobic, "manly man" types. If I were to come out at work I'd probably get fired if not assaulted.

As far as the coming out at work thing, I know it can be scary ..... I am trying to build my own courage to do so, and I work in the construction industry in upper Midwest. I do happen to be an office computer person, but still none-the-less, very male dominate with strong personality types. I wish you the best in future work endeavors and if it gets to the point of coming out.
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Post by: StrykerXIII on February 09, 2015, 01:41:37 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on February 09, 2015, 01:37:57 PM
Stryker ...... that's awesome that she says those things even without knowing ... it's sometimes those little things that just help us to smile a little brighter somedays. And in all reality, maybe she does know something others don't see, but whatever, it sounds really cool!!

As far as the coming out at work thing, I know it can be scary ..... I am trying to build my own courage to do so, and I work in the construction industry in upper Midwest. I do happen to be an office computer person, but still none-the-less, very male dominate with strong personality types. I wish you the best in future work endeavors and if it gets to the point of coming out.

I'm a security guard in the south...probably not as bad as your situation, but enough to sympathise, I think.  :P
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Post by: alexbb on February 10, 2015, 06:21:10 AM
Found out my first meeting with GIC specialist in max 8 weeks. Sounds like ages but the one in London reckoned 56 weeks so i shopped around/nagged relentlessly. result. so relieved. 2 or maybe 3 meetings and they should prescribe hormones.
Backup job offer in morning email in case the first one doesnt happen. would fill FFS penny jar by June. sweeet.
got a nice bra.
2015 i love you so far. PMA, PMA!
StrykerXIII i love your story! definitely with u on the little things!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 10, 2015, 06:26:29 AM
Appointment with my physician in about a week. I'm excited to change to pellets/an implant. I've used patches for almost a year & really no idea why I did not have an implant long ago. I'm happy that will soon be resolved. I feel good & my body has improved so much however I need my estrogen to feel my best.
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Post by: Mariah on February 10, 2015, 01:47:54 PM
Congrats on the upcoming switch. As much as I was happy to start out on patches I was glad that first day that I switched to injections in my case instead.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 10, 2015, 06:26:29 AM
Appointment with my physician in about a week. I'm excited to change to pellets/an implant. I've used patches for almost a year & really no idea why I did not have an implant long ago. I'm happy that will soon be resolved. I feel good & my body has improved so much however I need my estrogen to feel my best.
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Post by: Ally_B on February 10, 2015, 03:53:45 PM
Last night my mother called me "Ally" for the first time. She also referred to me as her daughter! Considering how down I had been preceding the call, it was quite a pick-me-up! :)

I may also be getting my estradiol implant today.... I say "may" because I'm fairly sure that's what my endo said last time, but that was two months ago, and it seems almost too good to be true! :)

Edit - and it was.... Booked in for end of March. It's something, I guess....
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Post by: JenniR04 on February 10, 2015, 04:01:15 PM
Started HRT today!!!!! Estrogen patches and t-blocker. Wholly cow it's hard to believe it's all real and the one of the major stepping stones has been started. I feel so fortunate and blessed to have gotten to this point, that I don't want the euphoria of today to end.  ;D  ;D
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Post by: Trini on February 10, 2015, 07:02:59 PM
Starting my HRT with an increased dosage today. :D
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Post by: Jasriella on February 10, 2015, 07:07:53 PM
I've got my first appointment with a therapist next Friday, I'm so excited, a little nervous I have no idea what to expect but finally I'm moving forward!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 10, 2015, 08:18:48 PM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on February 10, 2015, 01:47:54 PM
Congrats on the upcoming switch. As much as I was happy to start out on patches I was glad that first day that I switched to injections in my case instead.
Mariah
Thanks GF, I should have changed to an implant a year ago. No idea why I just kept using patches. Take care & good luck your way.
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Post by: Sabrina on February 10, 2015, 08:25:05 PM
I just got a back body buddy massage cane in the mail today. It's amazing and it's darn close to being the best thing next to sliced bread.
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Post by: Mariah on February 10, 2015, 08:30:11 PM
I'm not sure why I put up with the patches for 6 weeks either when I could have at anytime asked to be switched to injections. I think we get so wrapped up that were on HRT in any form that we forget that if were not happy with one form for one reason or another that we generally can be switched to another one easily provided we speak up, but to be honest who knows why we waited did but we did. Thanks GF and good luck your way.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 10, 2015, 08:18:48 PM
Thanks GF, I should have changed to an implant a year ago. No idea why I just kept using patches. Take care & good luck your way.
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Post by: CrysC on February 11, 2015, 12:27:28 AM
I'm traveling tomorrow to get a hair transplant on Thursday. 
I'm scared and excited at the same time.  Time to make war on the damnedable widow's peak and non-female pattern ... er, hair loss.
First surgical procedure for me on my girlification path. 
Wish me luck!
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Post by: Joanne Feliz on February 11, 2015, 02:51:06 AM
not sure if i am happy or not but I got called by the psychiatrists office earlier to set up my first appointment which is fantastic,  i feel I am getting someplace !

The only problem the session is booked for AUGUST 25th which is like 6 months away! Is the only date they can manage at the moment on account for the demand to see this doctor.
:o

Anyway getting closer
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Post by: Ally_B on February 11, 2015, 03:45:40 AM
I am thankful for having a great support network who are forgiving of my moody + sometimes overly colourful ways. I'd be lost (or institutionalised) w/out them! :)
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Post by: Samantha6string on February 11, 2015, 05:15:45 AM
booked in my trachea shave today! so excited, two weeks and it's gone!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 11, 2015, 06:05:12 AM
Quote from: CrysC on February 11, 2015, 12:27:28 AM
I'm traveling tomorrow to get a hair transplant on Thursday. 
I'm scared and excited at the same time.  Time to make war on the damnedable widow's peak and non-female pattern ... er, hair loss.
First surgical procedure for me on my girlification path. 
Wish me luck!
Great for you GF. I know you will feel great. I also need a hair transplant. If you are in the USA will you please share all the details. PM me or post here & I'll connect with you. I'm sure you will do fine with this procedure. I had a complete facelift last summer & it took my face quite a while to return to normal however after it did I look 10-15 years younger.
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Post by: Michelle G on February 11, 2015, 11:51:29 AM
Its been a bit over three years since I've had my hair cut and I'm happy with how its looking.

This is my all natural color, a bit darker in the winter but in summer it lightens up quite a bit.

My spouse says I should get about 2" trimmed, should I get it cut straight across or rounded?

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi244.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg4%2FKR3259%2Ffunny%2520icons%2F4CCB9611-4DCA-4848-8D94-E103D64010A0_zpse1wz18sx.jpg&hash=a4e9f5cc8d8c923eba107748d18d479de7fe3458)
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Post by: RachaelAnne on February 11, 2015, 01:00:13 PM
Yesterday was my birthday in more ways than one...   :icon_birthday:

I held off to begin HRT until yesterday, it was tough staring at the pill bottles for a week, but I wanted to celebrate my birthday with the official hormonal birth of Rachael Anne  :icon_female: (I'm not going full time yet).
The day started with my wife and I spending some girl time together.  We painted each others toe nails a nice sparkly pink!  Then I got a nice (but subtle) clear gloss on my finger nails.

What a nice morning, but it didn't stop there...
Last night to commemorate my starting HRT, my wife accompanied me to the Piercing Pagoda, she helped me pick out a set of pretty studs and I got my ears pierced!

Then after the kids went to bed we snuggled in bed and watched a movie until we both fell asleep.

The best birthday ever.  :icon_mrhappy:
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Post by: Michelle G on February 11, 2015, 03:02:32 PM
Happy Birthday Rachael!!!

What a lovely time you had :)
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Post by: Jasriella on February 11, 2015, 11:26:50 PM
Quote from: RachaelAnne on February 11, 2015, 01:00:13 PM
Yesterday was my birthday in more ways than one...   :icon_birthday:

I held off to begin HRT until yesterday, it was tough staring at the pill bottles for a week, but I wanted to celebrate my birthday with the official hormonal birth of Rachael Anne  :icon_female: (I'm not going full time yet).
The day started with my wife and I spending some girl time together.  We painted each others toe nails a nice sparkly pink!  Then I got a nice (but subtle) clear gloss on my finger nails.

What a nice morning, but it didn't stop there...
Last night to commemorate my starting HRT, my wife accompanied me to the Piercing Pagoda, she helped me pick out a set of pretty studs and I got my ears pierced!

Then after the kids went to bed we snuggled in bed and watched a movie until we both fell asleep.

The best birthday ever.  :icon_mrhappy:

Now there's a day to remember!!!

You just made up my mind what I'm doing next, this weekend I'm getting my ears pierced.
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Post by: Ashtyn on February 12, 2015, 03:12:33 AM
       I went to the mall with my grandma today. I was dressed in boy clothes (Not really out yet) but I was wearing a bit of mascara and I did my hair a bit differently, just because I saw the opportunity to go a little girlier than usual and I didn't have a great night last night. So we went to the apple store to deal with a problem with her phone, I had to run ahead because we were a bit late. I was scanning the store for an employee who wasn't busy, when one who I had passed got my attention by calling out Miss! Miss!. Later on we stopped at chipotle to get some food and they messed up my grandmother's food so I was waiting at the end of the line while she was ordering and the employee called out ma'am, and to my surprise (and happiness!) he was talking to me too!

       My favorite part happened in between those two. I went to the bathroom and there was a (seemingly drunk) girl in one of the stalls with a guy who I assume was her bf. She was talking pretty loudly the entire time. One of things she said was something like, "Girls use the guys room all the time". I was at the sink washing my hands when they left. As they walked past me (I was the only one at the sinks) She said "See, I'm not the only one.".

      I know it's silly, but they made me happy at the time and even writing this is making me smile. ;D
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Post by: kao on February 12, 2015, 04:24:03 AM
Got some great news from a good friend about her not loosing her job (she was freaking out all week due to cuts) got some great feedback on these forums, listened to some music and found I had lost 2kg since last time i weighed myself.  Made an awesome dinner that my partner loved.  Really simple things made me smile today and after a horrid week thus far it was good to relax and smile.

Cheers
Kao
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Post by: EvelynSTL on February 12, 2015, 03:08:24 PM
I'm not full time yet, so when I have the day off I practice my makeup and hair (I'm painfully slow and such a perfectionist I usually don't have the time before class.)

So I managed to do both today and happy with the results, went to Target to pick up a couple things and hit up Starbucks while I was there. I'm fairly regular there. So the girl taking my order recognizes me and is being really nice and all, making chit chat, asking how I've been and what I'm up to,etc., whereas, before in "guy-mode" she never really bothered.

I think she could tell I was a bit nervous being out and dressed, so she went a little out of the way to make me feel comfortable.  :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 13, 2015, 08:24:05 AM
I'm almost done with using patches, a week to go until implants for a nice stream of estrogen. That will be so nice. I should have changed long ago.
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Post by: Jasriella on February 13, 2015, 04:11:43 PM
I have gotten so much done today, I'm not going to get evicted rent is paid, I'm still super excited about next Friday, found $10 on the parking lot ground, and I'm filing taxes in an hour hoping for a big refund. Best Friday 13th ever so far.

Update: just got my taxes done and big refund woohoo! Bills are going to be paid.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 13, 2015, 06:11:54 PM
Someone gave out a rose to all the lady's at my work site today and left one for me.  Kinda awkward when someone noticed mine in my office., maybe they will think I'm the one who left them :)
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Post by: StrykerXIII on February 14, 2015, 01:39:58 AM
Got home to find an early Valentine's day present from the missus. A gigantic card and a vase full of beautiful flowers...in the card, she addressed me as though I were a cis female...I cried. I did. And I feel like crying again just thinking about it...very emotional for me.
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Post by: ImagineKate on February 14, 2015, 03:16:12 PM
Talked to my brother today. We had a long chat and basically he said he accepts me no matter what. Probably going to meet him in vegas when he returns from deployment.

I asked what my dad has been saying, he said all he asks is how I've been. So I guess my dad cares but not enough to talk to me. That's something I guess.

Started testing myself for diabetes with a meter, fasting was 116 mg/dL but I think that was influenced by a hershey's kiss my son brought to my bed this morning. 2 hour post meal is 146 which while not great is ok-ish. I've been diabetic for a few years anyway and keep it controlled.

My wife gave me a hug this morning for valentines :) I love her a lot although the relationship dynamics are changing to being more of really good friends now.
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Post by: Eevee on February 15, 2015, 03:52:40 AM
I was window shopping with my friend and someone asked us "How may I help you, ladies?" while looking through a store. That's the first time I've been gendered correctly from any stranger besides a pharmacist who was giving me HRT meds at the time. Both that and hanging out with my friends really made my day. We also went to see Bonnie and Clyde in an independent movie theater later. It was so much better on the big screen. That was the first Valentine's Day I've enjoyed in years, even though I'm still single and my crush doesn't want to date me.
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Post by: Kacie Lynne on February 15, 2015, 07:14:16 AM
for me it was being referred to as female by 3 different people yesterday
without even trying, that made my day, err no that made my week lol
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Post by: Trillium on February 15, 2015, 07:38:45 AM
Dancing, I was so stiff before and would have never danced, but today it's just sort of kicked in, listening to music makes me want to dance and so I've started doing so for the first time today. It's pretty amazing how good it feels :D xx
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Post by: YoungZep on February 15, 2015, 07:58:22 AM
I sometimes, though I'm not in any transition yet, at work have customers call me mam when they don't get a good look at my face. This usually happens when I let my hair grow.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 15, 2015, 09:14:44 PM
My electrolysis lady closed her office & I've had such a difficult time finding a new lady. However a very nice GF I've known since grammar school knows the large city that I live somewhat nearby. She is going to find me a new salon for hair removal. My GF is so nice, she knows I'm female & helping me with everything to become her complete sister. I'm a happy girl right now. 
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Post by: Mariah on February 15, 2015, 09:31:07 PM
Sorry to hear the one you have been using isn't around anymore. I hope your able to find one nearby soon. Have you tried checking with the Electrolysis association for your state/ area to see where the other ones are located at. I'm fortunate enough for the one I'm going to start using when laser is done plus the fact they have another area they have to clear is my area. I thought sure I was going to have to head off to the Yakima or Spokane areas for it.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 15, 2015, 09:14:44 PM
My electrolysis lady closed her office & I've had such a difficult time finding a new lady. However a very nice GF I've known since grammar school knows the large city that I live somewhat nearby. She is going to find me a new salon for hair removal. My GF is so nice, she knows I'm female & helping me with everything to become her complete sister. I'm a happy girl right now.
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Post by: Beth Andrea on February 15, 2015, 10:01:57 PM
Spent the afternoon playing catch football with my two sons (ages 17 and 18). Ever since transition 3+ years ago they've kept their distance and never really accepted either me or my new wife...but today that was all no matter.

They're awesome in how respecting and accepting they are now...later we went out for lunch and then an ice cream.

Both me and wife still have the glow from their interactions with us today.

^-^ <--(me, with happy tears)
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Post by: GothFriendly on February 15, 2015, 11:39:15 PM

Watched the Documentary Trans, and I am grateful I have an awesome doctor and that I have great friends who accept me.

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Post by: EvelynSTL on February 16, 2015, 07:06:58 AM
Woohoo...snowday!! I woke up to a text saying classes had been canceled. Unrelated to that, my legs are still smooth from yesterday. Felt super nice under my warm blanket.  ;D
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 07:44:31 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on February 15, 2015, 09:31:07 PM
Sorry to hear the one you have been using isn't around anymore. I hope your able to find one nearby soon. Have you tried checking with the Electrolysis association for your state/ area to see where the other ones are located at. I'm fortunate enough for the one I'm going to start using when laser is done plus the fact they have another area they have to clear is my area. I thought sure I was going to have to head off to the Yakima or Spokane areas for it.
Mariah
Laser, you lucky girl! Enjoy all the laser work you can. I so wish when I was in my early 20's that I had completely cleaned my face with laser work. I did remove so much & that was so easy. Now I'm left with some so ugly grey hairs. It is just giving me fits!!! Nothing is more upsetting than ugly facial hairs. Please have a great day GF & good luck your way.
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Post by: Mariah on February 16, 2015, 08:05:04 AM
Thanks. You too GF. I was able to finally get some of the stubborn in growns that laser has killed out finally when shaving yesterday. I can now really see the difference that 5 laser treatments has had on my face. Still I didn't get started soon enough to stop some from having turned on my face either. I don't have a tone that are grey, but enough that Electro will is needed with my face once laser is done.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 07:44:31 AM
Laser, you lucky girl! Enjoy all the laser work you can. I so wish when I was in my early 20's that I had completely cleaned my face with laser work. I did remove so much & that was so easy. Now I'm left with some so ugly grey hairs. It is just giving me fits!!! Nothing is more upsetting than ugly facial hairs. Please have a great day GF & good luck your way.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 08:35:27 AM
Good luck GF. I really miss my electro lady. I had been seeing her for a year & a half. She did a great job. We even wore the same size shoes & she gave me a pair of very nice extra boots from her closet last Christmas. Anyway good luck, kill em quick if you can.
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Post by: Mariah on February 16, 2015, 10:23:08 AM

Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 08:35:27 AM
Good luck GF. I really miss my electro lady. I had been seeing her for a year & a half. She did a great job. We even wore the same size shoes & she gave me a pair of very nice extra boots from her closet last Christmas. Anyway good luck, kill em quick if you can.
thanks again GF. I hope I can too. I have no doubt you do once you find the right person it makes experience much better. It's why I have particular person due laser for any laser hair removal now instead just anyone at the place I go to.
Mariah


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Post by: EvelynSTL on February 16, 2015, 10:50:30 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on February 16, 2015, 08:05:04 AM
I can now really see the difference that 5 laser treatments has had on my face.

Not trying to hijack, but I've done 4 sessions of laser on my face. I've noticed that my upper lip starts showing shadow first and a lot quicker than my cheeks. Just wondering if it's just me or if it's pretty common.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on February 16, 2015, 11:01:44 AM

Quote from: EvelynSTL on February 16, 2015, 10:50:30 AM
Not trying to hijack, but I've done 4 sessions of laser on my face. I've noticed that my upper lip starts showing shadow first and a lot quicker than my cheeks. Just wondering if it's just me or if it's pretty common.
I couldn't answer that because my cheeks were basically bare in the first place, but everywhere that it remains it seems equal to me.


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Post by: EvelynSTL on February 16, 2015, 11:13:16 AM
Quote from: Mariah2014 on February 16, 2015, 11:01:44 AM
I couldn't answer that because my cheeks were basically bare in the first place, but everywhere that it remains it seems equal to me.


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Oh well, guess I can't catch all the breaks.  ;D
Thanks for answering.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eveline on February 16, 2015, 11:14:04 AM
A nice thing happened while I was grocery shopping with my sister.

We ran into her ex-husband, a very macho Venezuelan guy, with whom she still has a good relationship.

I knew him for many years pre-transition, but haven't seen him in quite awhile. A few months ago, Sis had also told him about my transition, but that was it.

So they were saying hello, and he kept glancing over at me. I was thinking, "Oh no, this isn't going to go well."

Well he actually had no idea who I was, and finally smiled at me really nice and said, "And who is this?". Sis kept quiet, i guess to see how I wanted to handle it.

I was tongue tied for a second, and he said "Eveline is that you?" and then gave me a huge hug right in the middle of the checkout aisle.

Made my day...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: April Lee on February 16, 2015, 11:26:14 AM
It's my dancing that makes me happier than anything. One of greatest surprises of my transition has been how much dancing has become a part of my life. It is the joy in my soul, and I let it bubble out of me like champagne. I go to the club about twice a week, but I dance at home almost every day. Last night I came back from the club, and just had to dance a little bit more.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bD7yCKBlG3w (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bD7yCKBlG3w)


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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 04:59:09 PM
I thought I had lost my electro lady..........however she is fine, had trouble however she will reopen her practice out of her home in 2-3 weeks. Such a relief to continue with facial hair removal. I'm a happy girl.
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Post by: Mariah on February 16, 2015, 05:02:31 PM
That is wonderful news GF. I wonder if the rent where she was became an issue and then permitting where she going to do it as a result slowed it down too along with any other preparations.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 04:59:09 PM
I thought I had lost my electro lady..........however she is fine, had trouble however she will reopen her practice out of her home in 2-3 weeks. Such a relief to continue with facial hair removal. I'm a happy girl.
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Post by: StrykerXIII on February 16, 2015, 05:05:23 PM
A friend of mine on facebook PM'd me with "Hey chick". Sometimes it's the little things.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 16, 2015, 05:11:17 PM
No it's a long story. Everything is fine. Do all the laser work you can, it is so easy compared to the little needle GF. I'm also excited to see my doc in a week for an implant for a nicer more level flow of estrogen. So almost everything is going well for me. I love becomming more of a normal person, a very nice pretty sexy woman. Next a new man I hope. I'm going to take a break from posting so much, for a while. Have fun all GF's.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on February 17, 2015, 01:03:09 PM
I went shopping today as a treat after a lot of hard work, and a little girl remarked to her friend "that woman looks like a man"
Thrilled. 2. Bits!
And i heard my first GIC apt is in a bit over a month. cant wait to get on dem hormones!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on February 17, 2015, 01:41:18 PM
This'll sound funny but believe me I'm serious. I had a colonoscopy today to confirm that all the gross and painful suffering I have been through this past year was indeed colitis, an inflamatory bowel disease. That's not the good part. One of the things that makes flare ups of colitis much much worse (I have missed weeks of work) is emotional stress. So, basically, the stress of staying in the closet is giving me ulcers that may one day go cancerous. The upside is that it seems that to get healthy I need to keep moving forward with transitioning! The only thing that can save my life is being the woman I was meant to be! Well, that and I can't have dairy...

Also, when I got home from the hospital there were packages awaiting me. I got my first pair of shoes! It reminded me of the time I had to teach my ex girlfriend how to walk in heels.  I'd never had shoes that fit me but I knew how!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on February 17, 2015, 02:40:15 PM
Just reviewed my health insurance documents and realized that the restrictions on coverage for treatment of gender identity disorders applies *only* to surgery. I had misread it before and thought it was a much broader exclusion. Obviously it's lousy that they don't cover medically necessary surgeries, but for my current needs this is a huge relief.

This also explains why they've been covering my office visits and medication---I had assumed they'd slipped through or been coded generically, but now I don't have to worry that they're going to fix some mistake.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jayne on February 17, 2015, 06:52:30 PM
For some reason I'm always a day late posting what made me happy today  ::)
Last week I was half way to my GIC appointment when they called to say my doctor had phoned in sick, she called yesterday & my new appointment is this Thursday!!!
I love the Laurels, they're unbelievably quick getting replacement appointments sorted.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on February 18, 2015, 02:37:05 PM
Carnival in Trinidad ended last night and my friends are posting photos of them and their friends in their lovely costumes.

Normally this would make me sink into depression because dysphoria would kick my ass.

But not today.

Why? I look at those pictures and I think, oh wait a minute that almost looks like ME when I look in the mirror!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on February 18, 2015, 05:05:03 PM
My hair is behaving, noticed I've lost a little weight (but not from the good places. ;) ), and realised that summer is almost over....

This is a fine way to start the day. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eveline on February 18, 2015, 05:06:34 PM
My new Social Security card arrived in the mail today, complete with my new name.  :icon_dance:

Next stop - Florida DMV for a new driver's license...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 19, 2015, 02:44:32 PM
Quote from: Eveline on February 18, 2015, 05:06:34 PM
My new Social Security card arrived in the mail today, complete with my new name.  :icon_dance:

Next stop - Florida DMV for a new driver's license...
Great for you GF. You look so nice.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jasriella on February 19, 2015, 09:30:59 PM
The closer it get to tomorrow at noon the more excited and nervous I'm getting, first time meeting with a therapist.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on February 19, 2015, 09:56:31 PM
After much trial and error, I think I finally finished my final project for school which is a computer program for a coworker.
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Post by: Trini on February 19, 2015, 11:34:29 PM
BEGUN LASER HAIR REMOVAL TODAY! YAY YAAAAY!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: CollieLass on February 20, 2015, 04:21:37 AM
Browsing this forum!....... :icon_yes:

Having spent the last 33 years in stealth, it`s lovely to now see others like myself, sharing life as a supportive and sharing community........not having to be the isolated and oft`scorned souls we {MtF} were, when transitioning in the late 70`s.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 20, 2015, 05:18:55 AM
Got my girly hormone results today...

Estradiole: 282
Testosterone: .06

Similar to last year, actually slightly better this time, all other Syd tests good too  :icon_dance:

L Katy  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 20, 2015, 05:56:17 AM
Quote from: katrinaw on February 20, 2015, 05:18:55 AM
Got my girly hormone results today...

Estradiole: 282
Testosterone: .06

Similar to last year, actually slightly better this time, all other Syd tests good too  :icon_dance:

L Katy  :-*
GF, your hormone level is so female. I know you must feel great. I thought my level was high. I'm excited to finally see my Doc for Monday to discuss & hopefully have an implant. Patches have been nice however I'm just tired of changing them so ofter & having some skin irritation. I'll be a happy girl with an implant.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on February 20, 2015, 05:58:40 AM
Good Luck with the appointment GF. I have no doubt your tired of the patches I was when I switched to injections and haven't looked back.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 20, 2015, 05:56:17 AM
GF, your hormone level is so female. I know you must feel great. I thought my level was high. I'm excited to finally see my Doc for Monday to discuss & hopefully have an implant. Patches have been nice however I'm just tired of changing them so ofter & having some skin irritation. I'll be a happy girl with an implant.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 20, 2015, 06:50:02 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 20, 2015, 05:56:17 AM
GF, your hormone level is so female. I know you must feel great. I thought my level was high. I'm excited to finally see my Doc for Monday to discuss & hopefully have an implant. Patches have been nice however I'm just tired of changing them so ofter & having some skin irritation. I'll be a happy girl with an implant.

Feel sooo good... Thanks  :-*

Looking to move to implant soon, still on oral currently... Wonder what that will do   >:-) (anticipation)

Oops noticed bad spelling of testesterone... Shows how long ago I last thought of the word  :laugh:

Good luck with Dr visit Monday xoxo

I used to be on patches many moons ago, I got skin Irritation too, so went on oral as I could not get to Dr's regularly for intravenous!

Hugs
Katy

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on February 20, 2015, 09:18:34 AM
After a month on spironolactone and about 3 weeks on estradiol, I've been getting some warm tingling in my chest... I'm happy, though concerned it miight just be the cold weather... :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on February 20, 2015, 11:41:09 AM
Are moving along the path, Jeni! I am feeling stalled out. ON spiro for almost a month and not noticing anything. Have almost another 2 months until my next appointment with endo. I am hoping to add small dose of E at that time.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on February 20, 2015, 01:04:14 PM
Yeah, I'm hoping hoping hoping right now. Hard to be patient....

I don't think it's too surprising that spiro alone isn't causing many effects, but I bet it is doing more than you notice behind the scenes. Sorry you have such a wait ahead though, but it only seems like a long time from this side of the wait. It's not long in the scheme of things!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Heather Exley on February 20, 2015, 01:33:32 PM
Today I thought about my life and I cried out of pure Joy. Ooh and I caught a guy giving me an "interested" double take, we looked into each others eyes and both looked away shyly...BLISS.  :eusa_dance:

I've ordered Luv & Hugs for everyone, I'll pop them in the post.  :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 01:35:04 PM
I woke up today and decided that I wanted to make it special, so without any regrets I did some price comparing and ... ta-daaaa :D

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs28.postimg.org%2Fn451imjbd%2F10960037_615659815244615_4135549987452743357_o.jpg&hash=42b0708a38d54017c33235aba980f96b750b0ba4) (http://postimg.org/image/n451imjbd/)

Got my belly pierced :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jade_404 on February 20, 2015, 02:04:24 PM
Quote from: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 01:35:04 PM
I woke up today and decided that I wanted to make it special, so without any regrets I did some price comparing and ... ta-daaaa :D

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs28.postimg.org%2Fn451imjbd%2F10960037_615659815244615_4135549987452743357_o.jpg&hash=42b0708a38d54017c33235aba980f96b750b0ba4) (http://postimg.org/image/n451imjbd/)

Got my belly pierced :D

Cute!  :o
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 20, 2015, 02:05:46 PM
Picked up my new Climara patches today. They seem so nice, 2-3 inches & oval shape, nice daily dosage of E & they last a week so that's nice. To be honest it was giving me fits remembering let's see, it's Sunday then Thursday, what day is this?.........with 3.5 day patches.  Happy girl today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 03:54:11 PM
Got my makeup done yesterday. Hence new avatar! Have to say thanks to April (carmenkate) for pushing me along. Still have a ways to go but I'm getting there.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 20, 2015, 04:01:43 PM
Quote from: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 01:35:04 PM
I woke up today and decided that I wanted to make it special, so without any regrets I did some price comparing and ... ta-daaaa :D

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs28.postimg.org%2Fn451imjbd%2F10960037_615659815244615_4135549987452743357_o.jpg&hash=42b0708a38d54017c33235aba980f96b750b0ba4) (http://postimg.org/image/n451imjbd/)

Got my belly pierced :D

Got mine done twice, both times got infected so have let it go now  :'(

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: RosieD on February 20, 2015, 04:37:05 PM
I found out that I am to be paid a £2000 bonus this month. I am not quite sure how that works as it's for dedication to getting my job done, which I thought was why I got paid anyway. Anyhow, researching how to turn my computer into a recording studio...

Rosie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 06:29:43 PM
Quote from: Jade_404 on February 20, 2015, 02:04:24 PM
Cute!  :o
Thaaaanks tehe :D
Quote from: katrinaw on February 20, 2015, 04:01:43 PM
Got mine done twice, both times got infected so have let it go now  :'(

L Katy
Eep! I sure hope mine doesn't.... A lot of healing and maintenance ahead though.... Had one on my cartilage on right ear get infected a while back, I know the pain all too well :(

PS: They do say third time lucky [emoji14] hehe

Sent from my SM-N910F using Tapatalk

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on February 20, 2015, 09:07:45 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 03:54:11 PM
Got my makeup done yesterday. Hence new avatar! Have to say thanks to April (carmenkate) for pushing me along. Still have a ways to go but I'm getting there.

Keep it up Kate, our journey is made of lots of little steps, and you look great.  I hope you were taking notes...

As for me, I'm still floating after my first visit to start HRT.  Although I've not started it yet, it's a step closer, only a blood draw and 8 weeks to go. 
Hugs,

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jade_404 on February 20, 2015, 09:14:30 PM
Quote from: RosieD on February 20, 2015, 04:37:05 PM
I found out that I am to be paid a £2000 bonus this month. I am not quite sure how that works as it's for dedication to getting my job done, which I thought was why I got paid anyway. Anyhow, researching how to turn my computer into a recording studio...

Rosie

Nice!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 09:14:31 PM

Quote from: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 01:35:04 PM
I woke up today and decided that I wanted to make it special, so without any regrets I did some price comparing and ... ta-daaaa :D

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs28.postimg.org%2Fn451imjbd%2F10960037_615659815244615_4135549987452743357_o.jpg&hash=42b0708a38d54017c33235aba980f96b750b0ba4) (http://postimg.org/image/n451imjbd/)

Got my belly pierced :D

Wow you look good!
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 09:17:40 PM
Quote from: Alana_Jane on February 20, 2015, 09:07:45 PM
Keep it up Kate, our journey is made of lots of little steps, and you look great.  I hope you were taking notes...

As for me, I'm still floating after my first visit to start HRT.  Although I've not started it yet, it's a step closer, only a blood draw and 8 weeks to go. 
Hugs,

-Alana

Thanks!

Everyone's process for HRT is different it seems. But I think once you get the baseline blood they will decide on your course of action. Congrats on your first visit! That's a really big step. Just remember If you're in the US and your insurance doesn't cover your pills you can get them as cheap generics from Walmart and I think target and Costco too, I just filled 90 pills for $10 tonight.

And yes I took some mental notes. The artist was very thorough though. They even used the color iq tool to match my foundation. I may go for something a bit warmer the next go around though. I have been watching how some of the moms at my kids school do their makeup and I'm aiming tor that.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on February 20, 2015, 09:35:32 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 09:17:40 PM
Thanks!

Everyone's process for HRT is different it seems. But I think once you get the baseline blood they will decide on your course of action. Congrats on your first visit! That's a really big step. Just remember If you're in the US and your insurance doesn't cover your pills you can get them as cheap generics from Walmart and I think target and Costco too, I just filled 90 pills for $10 tonight.

Thank you Kate, that's good to know, as I can go to our local Walmart and not have to drive 70 miles one way (my dr was 180 mile away.)  I think I'll start with the oral form, but my Dr told me she prefers to move to a different form of intake and she really examined the location of my liver very closely.  At this point I'm leaning to injectable E and oral spiro, once I begin the full dose. 
Hugs,

-Alana

p.s. I love that shade of pink lipstick, very nice and feminine on you.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on February 21, 2015, 12:34:50 AM
I also had my first appointment for HRT today.  I will get my blood work back early next week and I have a follow up appointment the first week of March.  I think I am going to start with the injectable E and because of my age and low T level I should be able to get by on Avodart and Finasteride to keep my T level low.  I may be able to get some additional head hair growth because of the Finasteride   :D 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 21, 2015, 12:38:01 AM
Quote from: bluebirdx88 on February 20, 2015, 06:29:43 PM
Thaaaanks tehe :DEep! I sure hope mine doesn't.... A lot of healing and maintenance ahead though.... Had one on my cartilage on right ear get infected a while back, I know the pain all too well :(

PS: They do say third time lucky [emoji14] hehe

Sent from my SM-N910F using Tapatalk

Still tempted to go for 3rd  :laugh:

L Katy
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: April_TO on February 21, 2015, 01:00:18 AM
I am very proud of you mama, you just made my day xoxo

Quote from: ImagineKate on February 20, 2015, 03:54:11 PM
Got my makeup done yesterday. Hence new avatar! Have to say thanks to April (carmenkate) for pushing me along. Still have a ways to go but I'm getting there.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on February 21, 2015, 01:29:28 AM
After 12 days straight working, having a day off to blob and catch up on some sleep is a good thing.


Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: StrykerXIII on February 21, 2015, 01:32:41 AM
My water's been out for days, so I've grown rather scruffy (yech!). While on patrol, I stopped in a restroom to blow my nose, and I noticed while looking in the mirror - with the paper towel covering the lower part of my face, what I saw was 100% female. It was like the scruffy "dude" that was just there had completely vanished. Put a smile on my face and a little bit of a spring in my step.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 21, 2015, 06:21:21 AM
Quote from: RosieD on February 20, 2015, 04:37:05 PM
I found out that I am to be paid a £2000 bonus this month. I am not quite sure how that works as it's for dedication to getting my job done, which I thought was why I got paid anyway. Anyhow, researching how to turn my computer into a recording studio...

Rosie
Rosie, Good for you girl friend. I so hope you are well & that life is going well for you. The roses I planted for you last year are doing just fine & I hope for some nice red roses if we ever have spring here in the eastern lower ol USA. Take care.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on February 21, 2015, 01:12:08 PM
Got my last package of my new wardrobe and had a great time trying everything on, mixing and matching etc. no bad choices. Also, I love leg shaving day! I used to not shave, ever, because I figured it was a dead give away, but now I don't care. Though I am still hairy armed, one step at a time. I need to decide just how obvious I want to be how soon. I want to talk to folks (therapist, support group)in real life before I go jumping into the void! But the wait is killing me! My first appointment is a couple weeks away and snow has shut down the support group 'till next month.

I used to hate being unclothed, I showered maybe once a week. Now I want to be clean and hanging out listening to riot grrrl in my underthings, doing maintenance... I love it! I still don't like much of my body but I feel like I have gained respect for the person inside. I'm just so happy moving forward! I want more and I want it now!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 22, 2015, 05:18:20 AM
My new Climara patches sure are nice & easy. I see my physician tomorrow & was going to ask or push for an implant. But kinda happy with these 7 day patches. Everything else seems to going well. Life is good. I feel & look a little better each day. Have fun, girl friends. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessika on February 22, 2015, 04:42:41 PM
My family and some friends came to visit for the weekend and they got to meet "Jessika" in person.
My Sister loved it. She did my make-up for the first time in our lives. My Mom was ecstatic when she saw me. She turned to my Step-Dad and asked him "So how do you like our new daughter?" I grinned from ear to ear. hehe.

Spent the whole weekend in Girl mode. I felt great.

Of course the "he, his, Male first name" popped out here and there but they were trying, it happens. After all, after 48 years it's all new to them. :)

I feel pretty good. VA is giving me the runaround with HRT (Since I DO have my Letter already thou). Trying to get an Endo approved is nerve wreaking.
I'm pushing them thou in my own way. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Rachel on February 22, 2015, 06:13:40 PM
I will do my IM injection tonight :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on February 22, 2015, 08:17:39 PM
Visiting a couple old friends that I tend to see once every month or three when I go get my mail. Saying goodbye felt like saying goodbye to a piece of my past. I left at peace with the notion that when I see them in the spring it will be as a more authentic me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on February 22, 2015, 11:09:39 PM
Daughter's birthday party was today, and while I was happy it happened, I'm even happier that it's over.

Now I'm sad that she is sick, though happy that it's after the party and not before!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on February 24, 2015, 09:28:10 PM
Worked all day today in semi stealth. Just a men's t shirt over a cute top and of course men's shoes, my pants etc. were all apropriate. I was doing one of my favorite type of tasks, organizing a mess. The guy I was working along side is also a music nerd and he likes my taste. He asked me to put something on and I told him I've been on a Riot Girrrl kick. He thought it was cool, so I got to spend all day with only one male voice to listen to.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 25, 2015, 06:57:35 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on February 22, 2015, 05:18:20 AM
My new Climara patches sure are nice & easy. I see my physician tomorrow & was going to ask or push for an implant. But kinda happy with these 7 day patches. Everything else seems to going well. Life is good. I feel & look a little better each day. Have fun, girl friends.

Nice, glad you getting good results, wish I didn't have such sensitive skin... And an income stream  :-\

Hugs

Katy  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: I Samantha on February 25, 2015, 07:34:39 AM
I got a couple of necklaces in the mail that I'd ordered a couple of weeks ago and tried them on. One wasn't quite how I imagined it, but the other one is great. What made me happy was my mother saying they looked great on me, though!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on February 25, 2015, 11:02:03 AM
I was with my wife while she was doing her intake for her therapy program, and the subject of my coming out came up.  My wife started and passed it to me to answer a couple of questions.  I told the intake counselor that right before Christmas, I had finally and fully accepted myself as transgender.  She belted, "Good for you!"

I was so happy, but I kept thinking that it was not what my wife wanted to hear! [emoji13]
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on February 25, 2015, 11:41:04 AM
Quote from: ChiGirl on February 25, 2015, 11:02:03 AM
She belted, "Good for you!"
Woo! It sounds like she might be exactly the right therapist for your wife.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on February 25, 2015, 01:56:00 PM
Just canceled my first appointment with my new therapist. I had let a receptionist just pick one because the one I wanted wasn't taking new patients, and the one she picked has no experience with lgbt and specializes in "christian issues". I just get nervous on phones and let myself be pushed around. I just so wanted to get things moving. But that would have been a wasted effort. Thanks to this site I was reminded of Fenway Health, a whole orginization dedicated to lgbt care here in Boston. I'm going over to them this evening for a consolation with their trans department! Hopefully that will set me off in the right direction.

I love this site! Y'all are helping me start standing up for myself and say what I want. Thank you...hugs.

7pm edit: i just got back from Fenway where I spoke to their trans health advocate. The first person in real life I have ever mentioned this to. She was wonderful. It was wonderful. I almost had a panic attack in the waiting room but I breathed through it. I am now in their system, a system full of trans experienced doctors, have a primary care doctor through them. And have been given information to help me get a good therapist who know what they are doing. I also learned that I don't need permission to go on hormones. They can get me on a regimen as soon as I'm ready. So happy, just so damned happy!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 25, 2015, 06:43:46 PM
In going through my deceased parents stuff last week I came across a post card my mother had saved that I had sent to her in 1970.  I signed it and looking at the signature today it looks like I had signed it Jess.  Kinda freaked me out because I didn't decide on that name until a few months ago. 

I also found a picture of me and my mother together in 1973.  Showed it to a friend who said "aren't you so cute.  Are you sure you weren't a girl?"  This was from someone who has no idea about my transition. 

Just a further confirmation that I am becoming who I really am and who I was ment to be.   :D
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Post by: rachel89 on February 26, 2015, 12:40:45 AM
My first electro appointment and going out in girl mode.
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Post by: Jayne on February 26, 2015, 08:20:04 AM
After almost three months without my t blocker the gender clinic in London have finally gotten off their backsides and sent a letter to my gp so he can give me my jab, it will take a few days for the chemist to get this delivered.
I spoke to the woman who helps run my lgbt group about my severe mood swings and she said I've perfectly described pmt, I've apparently been going through a three month period but the end is now on the horizon.
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Post by: deecee on February 26, 2015, 08:20:40 AM
Started HRT yesterday.  Climara & Aldactone (the generic version).
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Post by: Jasriella on February 26, 2015, 03:39:56 PM
Had my first appointment with a therapist today and it was more than I hoped for. Got another appointment for. Friday the. 13th.
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Post by: Damara on February 26, 2015, 05:18:43 PM
I got a phone call from UAMS (Little Rock medical school) and I have an appointment to go on the 18th to try and get hormones! :D Now I'm just trying to make sure medicaid covers this.. lol! Eeep! If not I will need to change something.. but I'm so thrilled!
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Post by: islandgirl on February 26, 2015, 05:28:43 PM
All the Best!
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Post by: CollieLass on February 27, 2015, 04:59:44 AM
Quote from: Damara on February 26, 2015, 05:18:43 PM
I got a phone call from UAMS (Little Rock medical school) and I have an appointment to go on the 18th to try and get hormones! :D Now I'm just trying to make sure medicaid covers this.. lol! Eeep! If not I will need to change something.. but I'm so thrilled!

That`s brilliant news!......your amazing journey is picking up speed. ;)

Best wishes,
Deb. :-*
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Post by: FrancisAnn on February 27, 2015, 05:05:26 AM
I'm a happy girl that my recent snow storm is over. Completley snowed in with no way to travel anywhere. Luckly I was fully supplied with food & everything however it was a liitle nerve racking GF's. Such thick snow.
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Post by: Kellam on February 27, 2015, 12:54:00 PM
I successfully changed my PCP to my new trans foccused doctor. I was so worried that red tape or my own confusion on phones would get in the way. They kinda did for a minute. Talking to insurance, then calling the hospital, then back again, and again and again. But I powered through with determined good cheer! So happy, now in 2 and a half weeks I will get to have my appointment to start the hrt process!
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Post by: Jayne on February 27, 2015, 03:16:27 PM
I went for a meal with family today, on the way home some stranger gave me three cans of Stella!! Best of all he started with " 'scuse me luv" nothing like good old Bristolian to make you smile :)
I didn't have any makeup on to hide my shadow either, yay!!
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Post by: Eveline on February 27, 2015, 03:45:52 PM
Jayne, you must really be looking cute today. :)

I mean, giving away perfectly good imported beer to a total stranger? You go, girl.
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Post by: Eveline on February 27, 2015, 04:05:47 PM
OK, so I had another good thing happen today - new health insurance cards, with my new name on them, arrived in the mail.

Now I can stop imagining stuff like ending up in the hospital and trying to explain why the insurance cards don't match any other ID to some skeptical administrator. ;)
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Post by: Jayne on February 27, 2015, 04:25:20 PM
Quote from: Eveline on February 27, 2015, 03:45:52 PM
Jayne, you must really be looking cute today. :)

I mean, giving away perfectly good imported beer to a total stranger? You go, girl.

I was wearing plain trainers, trousers, a coat that makes the girls visible, just barely but then it's miracle coat to manage even that :-)  I had no makeup on and the strong wind had made my hair look like a mad professor who'd just been electrocuted!!
The main thing I was wearing was a happy smile :)
I've one can and I'm a bit blotto, these may last a few days
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Post by: katrinaw on February 27, 2015, 04:31:52 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on February 25, 2015, 06:43:46 PM
In going through my deceased parents stuff last week I came across a post card my mother had saved that I had sent to her in 1970.  I signed it and looking at the signature today it looks like I had signed it Jess.  Kinda freaked me out because I didn't decide on that name until a few months ago. 

I also found a picture of me and my mother together in 1973.  Showed it to a friend who said "aren't you so cute.  Are you sure you weren't a girl?"  This was from someone who has no idea about my transition. 

Just a further confirmation that I am becoming who I really am and who I was ment to be.   :D

Finding that picture and looking at the signature would have been good, then to get your friends comment would have been a wow moment... But kinda sad that you actually weren't able to be you then...

So uplifting anyway xoxo

L Katy  :-*
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on February 27, 2015, 04:34:19 PM
Quote from: Eveline on February 27, 2015, 04:05:47 PM
OK, so I had another good thing happen today - new health insurance cards, with my new name on them, arrived in the mail.

Now I can stop imagining stuff like ending up in the hospital and trying to explain why the insurance cards don't match any other ID to some skeptical administrator. ;)

Yay that's so good, but right on the button with skeptical admins  :laugh:

L Katy

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Post by: jeni on February 27, 2015, 05:05:55 PM
Just pulled a partially carbonated sample of an imperial stout I brewed about a year ago and ignored until last week. Even nearly flat, it is a strong contender for the best I've made yet. At 9.5% abv, I think it's good I only made 2 gallons...
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 27, 2015, 05:57:56 PM
Quote from: katrinaw on February 27, 2015, 04:31:52 PM
Finding that picture and looking at the signature would have been good, then to get your friends comment would have been a wow moment... But kinda sad that you actually weren't able to be you then...

So uplifting anyway xoxo

L Katy  :-*

AHHHH thank you Katy <3

Here is how I signed the postcard -

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F5A0AE1DA-414F-424E-BBC8-25C8B9E7F8D0_zpszzvlbrk0.jpg&hash=012131175dee024796c8cadcb27823d0679d8eff) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/Mobile%20Uploads/5A0AE1DA-414F-424E-BBC8-25C8B9E7F8D0_zpszzvlbrk0.jpg.html)
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Post by: Dee Marshall on February 27, 2015, 06:53:56 PM
Quote from: jeni on February 27, 2015, 05:05:55 PM
Just pulled a partially carbonated sample of an imperial stout I brewed about a year ago and ignored until last week. Even nearly flat, it is a strong contender for the best I've made yet. At 9.5% abv, I think it's good I only made 2 gallons...
I wish my current digs were cool enough to brew. I bought a house, (when I had a house) because the basement was between 50 and 55° Fahrenheit all year round. Those were some good ales!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 27, 2015, 07:51:18 PM
Today was a casual Friday, which for me means no tie with my kakis.  Since it is getting cold here today I got to wear a sweater over my oxford.  Since I had a sweater on I decided to wear my new lace cami under my oxford and sweater.  Nothing says girl like a lacy pink cami under a matching pink shirt  ;D

Some of my co-workers are starting to look at me with a quizzical look on their faces.  Maybe it's the fact that:  I am now wearing earings in both ears?  My hair is getting very long?  I haven't got all of the mascara out of my lashes during my morning shower?  I'm walking around smiling all the time because I'm so happy I've found myself??   It really is nice to be at a point in my life where I am begining to feel comfortable being me.

I think I will get an additional piercing in my ears on the way home tonight  :o
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Post by: alexbb on February 27, 2015, 07:55:58 PM
new heels came in the mail, new dress demanded i buy it from a shop, new House of Cards with a friend and some wine/icecream.. sweet.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on February 28, 2015, 05:19:09 AM
Such a nasty week for me with a snow storm, some anxiety attacks & irriation with my new climara patches. However I started using an entirely new area of my body for the patches, (my butt) now I feel fine & the snow has almost melted. I'm going thrift store shopping today for some nice things & maybe 2 or 3 new spring dresses. I so love to wear a pretty dress. I'm a happy girl today. Oh & my breasts are growing so nicely, what a lovely feeling to have nice breasts
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on February 28, 2015, 06:29:13 AM
Came out to my friends yesterday who I was holding back on and avoiding for months. I was pretty nervous as they are strong conservative manly man types.

Surprisingly they were very accepting.

This was in a group chat. First of all I asked about car service to jfk airport. One offered to drive me. I told him I was going to Korea to play medical tourist. He's a nurse so naturally he was curious. I showed him the yeson website... And he asked, "so you're getting your vocal cords fixed? You sound fine to me. "

I told him, "look at all of their procedures and I have something to tell you guys."

Then he still didn't get it and I said," ok I've been meaning to say this but I'm trans and have been in transition since late last year."

Immediately all I got was support. He said he fully accepts me and asked what are my preferred pronouns and do I have a name. He and his wife also had a baby and said I should come over for her to see her new auntie. :) :)

He told me just be safe with the hormones and ask any medical questions I may have. He will help me as much as he can.

He is also pagan and says that he has a lot of LGBTQ friends who are pagan so I'm cool.

Another friend said he was happy but asked how things were going at home. He said nothing changes between us and he's happy for me. He had a few questions to ask I said ask anything you want as long as it's respectful.

So I'm going to the range this weekend with them. This time though I'll be dressed as myself. No more hiding.
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Post by: EvelynSTL on February 28, 2015, 10:38:28 AM
Ok, so it wasn't today, but I wanted to share anyway. Celebrated my last birthday as "the old me" last week. A little bittersweet, but a huge relief at the same time.

I'm slowly easing my family along on my transition (painfully slow at times,) but when they sang happy birthday, there was this pause where they weren't sure what name to use.  :laugh:

The day after I did my makeup, picked out a cute outfit and went shopping with my sister. I'm not full-time yet so I was pretty anxious at first. Walking into one store we were greeted with "hello ladies, can I help you find anything today?" I was addressed as miss and ma'am a couple times, and the best part - no side-eye waiting for the fitting rooms.

My sister helped me pick out a bunch of clothes that look good on me and seem to fit my personality (think punk rock chick vs. girl next door.) She even bought me some cute sandals for summer and showed me what colors to pair them up with. I'd be so lost without her ;D
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Post by: Kellam on February 28, 2015, 10:43:41 AM
I love that there are so many punk rockers here! I knew my tribe would be with me for life but confirmation is wonderful!

Also, ImagineKate, so happy you had a great coming out yesterday. I did too!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on February 28, 2015, 11:33:02 AM
Waking up with my new ear piercings  ;D

I've now got a double piercing in both ears.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2FFB35C875-3774-4A8F-8BF5-D0F0C9103FA6_zpsd0tf2h5g.jpg&hash=502d3a59e9078943c15b974a1c9427ada5c4332f) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/Mobile%20Uploads/FB35C875-3774-4A8F-8BF5-D0F0C9103FA6_zpsd0tf2h5g.jpg.html)
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Post by: islandgirl on February 28, 2015, 12:21:38 PM
Very nice!
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Post by: Jenelle on February 28, 2015, 03:16:02 PM
A lot has made me happy today. Mani/pedi for my birthday party tonight where I get to be me with all my close friends and a very indulgent trip to Bare Minerals. :)
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Post by: pollypagan on February 28, 2015, 03:23:57 PM
Went out for lunch and drinks today with two female friends and we were consistently referred to as girls and ladies by every waiter and waitress.
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Post by: katrinaw on February 28, 2015, 03:30:24 PM
✌️ Nice..... Bet you had a skip in your step after that... Yay

L Katy
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Post by: pollypagan on February 28, 2015, 03:33:03 PM
Yeh it felt gooooooood.
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Post by: ImagineKate on February 28, 2015, 07:21:00 PM
Well, I am on a roll!

Today I passed without effort. I mean I was surprised too. At the supermarket I was referred to as "miss" by everyone. Not one "sir" at all! Even with my deep-ish voice.

Anyway this is one I just had to share and couldn't pass up.

I have kids as you know. They are triplets - two girls and one boy.

We had to go to get my son examined as he has been having some problems with the bathroom. (thankfully nothing is wrong with him.)

So I'm there in the waiting room with his sisters and his mom goes with him.

This woman (a patient) comes out and sees the two girls with me, and says, "Oh wow, twins!"
And I say, "oh no, they're triplets. Their brother is inside being examined."
She said, "how old?"
I said, "four years old."
And she steps back and says, "damn girl, you look pretty good after having triplets, what's your secret?"
I said, "Oh I just take care of myself, the usual, diet and exercise."
And she smiled and said, "Well you must be doing something right, anyway good luck, they're beautiful!"

I was in shock, totally stunned. I guess I would call that a pass? Why, yes I would.
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Post by: Wednesday on March 01, 2015, 12:52:29 AM
This:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F2.bp.blogspot.com%2F_3Xu0lD9RLGQ%2FTAow5xDe-QI%2FAAAAAAAAAIY%2FEoeOBCaCOCA%2Fs1600%2FChimayAzul.gif&hash=89dd0425edaa856de2fe0a6c460c3576ff3dd1b4)

Cheat days rule so much.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Wednesday on March 01, 2015, 12:55:21 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on February 28, 2015, 07:21:00 PM
I was in shock, totally stunned. I guess I would call that a pass? Why, yes I would.

Nope. I would call it "u rocking it", seriously.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: pollypagan on March 01, 2015, 04:12:25 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on February 28, 2015, 07:21:00 PM

I was in shock, totally stunned. I guess I would call that a pass? Why, yes I would.

And the gold medal goes to......... :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance:
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Post by: akegia on March 01, 2015, 05:17:37 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on February 28, 2015, 07:21:00 PM
I was in shock, totally stunned. I guess I would call that a pass? Why, yes I would.

:) Yep, Keep rocking it Girl!!!

For me a new-ish friend saw me in Girl Mode for the first time and said I have the legs of a model. Made me smile. :)
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 01, 2015, 08:16:14 AM
Thanks. I am really happy now. I feel as though I know what I need to do to pass properly now and as long as I stick to the plan I'm good. It helps that my hair is a decent length, but still short. By summer I should have a good length. I may even push my fill time date at work up a bit if I have confidence about completely passing (which really isn't an issue at work but I would like to.)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: pollypagan on March 01, 2015, 10:26:09 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 01, 2015, 08:16:14 AM
  By summer I should have a good length.  .)

A sad reflection on me that this made me giggle.
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Post by: Kellam on March 01, 2015, 12:15:20 PM
I was feeling a bit low the last couple days so I took myself shopping this morning. I went to the hipster thrift store that I had bought women's pants at by accident (I think I subconsciously knew) when I was deep in the closet. I went in those very same pants, my pink baseball cap and my new pink and black trail running shoes. I allowed myself to hang out and shop like I always do. Now I have two more pairs of pants that could pass for men's if you don't look too close. I needed them for work, so I could feel more comfy untill I'm ready to tell everyone. Let 'em guess! The changing rooms are unisex at that shop so nobody hassled me. I also got a cute pair of skinny black jeans and a nice plaid blouse, I might be able to swing them too but they'll take more courage. Or whatever. But they made me feel better, the jeans are a six! I thought I was an eight. The best part was at checkout. The clerk was a pleasant young woman who rang me up with no reaction, until she saw my credit card then she got a bit awkward. I think I might have been passing! With my hat on, freshly shaved and my winter coat I guess I slipped by for a bit. I wasn't trying! Of course it could all be in my head too and she was just a nice clerk. Either way, I feel better...

Congrats on your actual passing ImagineKate!
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 01, 2015, 12:48:32 PM
What is most amazing about this whole incident is that I wasn't really dressed hyper feminine or anything. Just jeans, and not even really tight ones (size 6 though), a v neck, a (women's) fleece I got for $5 on clearance and my short winter coat. I did have very light makeup on. Also I wasn't constantly worried about passing. In fact most of the time I was keeping the kids out of mischief... Something to keep in my notebook, I guess.

I also bought a manhattan bag from Woot last week, hopefully I should get it soon. This will double as my handbag. I can keep my iPad and stuff in it too. I dumped my old beaten up guy wallet and I use a pocketbook now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 01, 2015, 12:53:57 PM
Quote from: Kellam on March 01, 2015, 12:15:20 PM
I was feeling a bit low the last couple days so I took myself shopping this morning. I went to the hipster thrift store that I had bought women's pants at by accident (I think I subconsciously knew) when I was deep in the closet. I went in those very same pants, my pink baseball cap and my new pink and black trail running shoes. I allowed myself to hang out and shop like I always do. Now I have two more pairs of pants that could pass for men's if you don't look too close. I needed them for work, so I could feel more comfy untill I'm ready to tell everyone. Let 'em guess! The changing rooms are unisex at that shop so nobody hassled me. I also got a cute pair of skinny black jeans and a nice plaid blouse, I might be able to swing them too but they'll take more courage. Or whatever. But they made me feel better, the jeans are a six! I thought I was an eight. The best part was at checkout. The clerk was a pleasant young woman who rang me up with no reaction, until she saw my credit card then she got a bit awkward. I think I might have been passing! With my hat on, freshly shaved and my winter coat I guess I slipped by for a bit. I wasn't trying! Of course it could all be in my head too and she was just a nice clerk. Either way, I feel better...

Congrats on your actual passing ImagineKate!

Hey, small steps will get you there! Congrats on being brave and being yourself.

Clothes shopping helped with my dysphoria quite a lot. It was nice to go pick out stuff and try it on. Oh yes I did try it on. I used the men's fitting rooms at first then just said screw it, use the women's. No questions at all. Occasional weird looks but no questions or challenges.

I used to be 8 but now I'm 6 but I don't know what I will end up. I don't want to be ultra thin, I want a cute butt and to be a bit curvy. Not plus size but just average size. HRT, diet and exercise has basically taken inches off my waist very quickly.
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Post by: Lynne on March 01, 2015, 01:42:08 PM
I was happy that I could go out as a woman in the morning without too much preparation to get some stuff from the shop. If I could reach a presentable state in 10 minutes on a worse day too that would be even greater.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 01, 2015, 10:16:45 PM
Good God my wife now complains I take too long to get ready in the morning...

"You are such a woman! Taking longer to get ready than me!"
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 02, 2015, 06:12:53 AM
I finally got a full night's sleep. If I didn't have to wake up for work I would have slept even longer. I think I need to lay off drinking coffee past noon. The best part was an old recurring dream came back. The action centers around the house where I grew up. My family is all there and I'm just never able to tell them how I feel. I would always wake up before it could happen. The dream was full of anger and frustration. This time though, I got to tell them and they still loved me. I can't wait to get to do the same here in the waking world! ...this is reality, right? :)
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Post by: jeni on March 02, 2015, 09:17:07 AM
Just saw that my insurance is covering the Factor V Leiden blood test I got before starting hrt. I figured it would be, but it was "pending" for long enough that I was starting to worry. Much nicer to be responsible for $4.52 than $290.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on March 02, 2015, 09:31:17 AM
Waking up and seeing some of my facial hair is gone after having a 2hr electrolysis session yesterday.

Oh, there is also that little thing of going to the Dr. today to get my first injection of E to start HRT   ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 02, 2015, 09:53:47 AM
A mostly smooth face after this morning's shower, cleanse and hydration. I didn't even shave today. :) looked in the mirror and had to try hard to find a guy in there.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 02, 2015, 09:54:02 AM

Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 02, 2015, 09:31:17 AM
Waking up and seeing some of my facial is gone after having a 2hr electrolysis session yesterday.

Oh, there is also that little thing of going to the Dr. today to get my first injection of E to start HRT   ;D

Congrats girl!!!
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Post by: Dodie on March 02, 2015, 10:08:54 AM
This from my son! I got it last night with a beautiful drawing..
I drew for you. I haven't done any artwork like this in at least 10 years so my skills aren't perfect, but this is my representation of your struggle and strength to go fourth with your transition. To me it represents hiding and turmoil in the middle like a black hole in your soul hiding, but then keeps courageously reaching out to the outside wanting to find peace and beauty. So then you finally get out to sunlight and bud into a flower, but sometimes the flower dies when you were unsure about budding. But then there are the seeds in your soul you can't deny so they grow and won't let you deny them anymore and become buds. More buds and flowers are created until you turn into a new flower and embody the person you really are inside. If I completed this drawing to show your whole transition there would be really nice pretty flowers all around it but I felt it was more important in this case just to show your struggle and strength because this large part of your life should be recognized as a reminder of how hard you fought for it. I'm proud to be your son and I love you so much.

Wow, best gift I have ever been given.
Dodie

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Post by: Jayne on March 02, 2015, 11:26:02 AM
I spent most of today in bed with "Manuel"
I've discovered a way to see pink fluffy clouds without having to touch my yucky bits, this means I don't have the good vibe ruined by being disgusted with myself. Happy Daze  :o
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 02, 2015, 11:37:51 AM
Quote from: Dodie on March 02, 2015, 10:08:54 AM
This from my son! I got it last night with a beautiful drawing..
I drew for you. I haven't done any artwork like this in at least 10 years so my skills aren't perfect, but this is my representation of your struggle and strength to go fourth with your transition. To me it represents hiding and turmoil in the middle like a black hole in your soul hiding, but then keeps courageously reaching out to the outside wanting to find peace and beauty. So then you finally get out to sunlight and bud into a flower, but sometimes the flower dies when you were unsure about budding. But then there are the seeds in your soul you can't deny so they grow and won't let you deny them anymore and become buds. More buds and flowers are created until you turn into a new flower and embody the person you really are inside. If I completed this drawing to show your whole transition there would be really nice pretty flowers all around it but I felt it was more important in this case just to show your struggle and strength because this large part of your life should be recognized as a reminder of how hard you fought for it. I'm proud to be your son and I love you so much.

Wow, best gift I have ever been given.
Dodie

That is beautiful! You are cleary a wonderful parent to have such an amazing child!
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Post by: Dodie on March 02, 2015, 11:56:41 AM
Thanks Kellam,
I used to mourn the fact that I did not have a female childhood but the blessings I have from life I now accept and embrace fully.. now I can be me and complete the journey.
Dodie
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Post by: Mallory on March 02, 2015, 01:27:36 PM
My therapist said he was going yo start writing my letter for HRT this week and would finish it after out next session next Monday. Time to schedule an appointment. :)
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Post by: Jayne on March 02, 2015, 02:47:14 PM
I had a phone call earlier, this Sunday marks International Women's day and I've been invited to an event being organized by the charity I volunteer with, this would be a huge honour for me under normal circumstances but there is one detail that makes this invite extremely touching, the event is being held at one of the charities women only shelters.
The women living in this shelter have been victims of various kinds of abuse, they know my situation, they know that I'm having problems passing due to facial hair and an inability to use makeup but they are happy to accept me.
I've been in the shelter before but I've always been careful to simply go to the office, do my work and leave as I don't want to make any of these women uncomfortable within their safe space.
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Post by: LordKAT on March 02, 2015, 03:01:36 PM
I think you should go, you have faced abuse as a woman, just a little different context. Help allay the fears of a 'man in a dress' just to hurt women in general.
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Post by: Jayne on March 02, 2015, 03:25:55 PM
Quote from: LordKAT on March 02, 2015, 03:01:36 PM
I think you should go, you have faced abuse as a woman, just a little different context. Help allay the fears of a 'man in a dress' just to hurt women in general.

I will definitely be going, several staff members are very keen for me to work within women's services, the last time I was at the shelter I popped out for a ciggie, several of the women joined me for a chat. The staff later confided that they were initialy concerned as the women could often be very "bitchy" but they accepted me without hesitation.
The staff say that due to me being so open about who and what I am that people feel instantly at ease around me, I don't see the point in not being open about myself, I came out cause I was tired of living a lie, if I'm not honest then coming out would have been a waste.
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Post by: Dodie on March 02, 2015, 04:24:35 PM
Jayne,
Your changing the world more than you know.. Hero's come in so many forms.. So amazing that you have a heart to serve others.
Dodie
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 02, 2015, 04:29:36 PM
New electrolysis lady & treatment tomorrow. She sounds very experienced & glad to help me. I thought it would be hard to find a new lady however 1 phone call & everything seems set to move forward on removal of nasty hairs. Happy Girl. My previous lady had to close her office, that was sad, I'd been seeing her for a year & 1/2. I had such fun with her even with the pain. The first day we met I told her if she could ever stop all my facial hair that I would dance in the middle of her busy street wearing a pink toto. We laughed so many times about that.
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Post by: Sabrina on March 03, 2015, 08:35:14 AM
I shaved about 15 minutes off of my morning routine.
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Post by: jeni on March 03, 2015, 11:33:19 AM
Quote from: Sabrina on March 03, 2015, 08:35:14 AM
I shaved about 15 minutes off of my morning routine.
Ironically, I can do that too, but only by not shaving.
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Post by: Jayne on March 03, 2015, 03:00:16 PM
Rockstar have announced that the online heists will be released in 7 days!!!!
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Post by: April_TO on March 03, 2015, 05:47:06 PM
Hello Ladies,

I did a quick errand today during my lunch break, as I was heading out of the train a woman was rushing in with her husband. We almost bumped into each other and made a comment "Where did she come from" LOL it put a smile in my face.

I also went to the drugstore to get a bronzer and the elderly salesperson asked me "anything you need, dear?" I smiled and asked her a question.

It's been A+ for passing today :)

April

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Post by: Kellam on March 03, 2015, 06:24:36 PM
My best guy friend, one of two people I am out to right now (the other is my best gal friend, his partner) is really trying. Although he has slipped a couple times in person and called me "man" he hasn't called me "brother" since I told him. Just now when he texted me, instead of starting it with the b word he used "cousin". I was just freaking out a bit because I want to tell my family so badly but can't. I need to tell them in person, it is important to me to do so, but the wait, two plus weeks to go, is killing me.

Anyway, I'm rambling. Thank goodness for good friends that's all. That's what made me happy, friendship!
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Post by: ChiGirl on March 03, 2015, 06:27:54 PM
Lost 5 lbs since last week.  I'm doing the right things on my weight loss.
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Post by: jeni on March 03, 2015, 08:23:27 PM
Finished a visa application (the immigration kind, not the credit kind). It weighs in at a full pound of paper. Unfortunately, it has to wait until tomorrow to send but this succeeding is a pretty critical cornerstone of my transition plan, so having it finished is a huge relief.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 03, 2015, 09:04:08 PM
Quote from: carmenkate on March 03, 2015, 05:47:06 PM
Hello Ladies,

I did a quick errand today during my lunch break, as I was heading out of the train a woman was rushing in with her husband. We almost bumped into each other and made a comment "Where did she come from" LOL it put a smile in my face.

I also went to the drugstore to get a bronzer and the elderly salesperson asked me "anything you need, dear?" I smiled and asked her a question.

It's been A+ for passing today :)

April

Yay April!!!

I would be surprised if you got anything less than an A+ lol.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 03, 2015, 09:05:54 PM
Quote from: jeni on March 03, 2015, 08:23:27 PM
Finished a visa application (the immigration kind, not the credit kind). It weighs in at a full pound of paper. Unfortunately, it has to wait until tomorrow to send but this succeeding is a pretty critical cornerstone of my transition plan, so having it finished is a huge relief.

Good luck!

I did that years ago. Had a ton of paperwork and this was before INS (as it was called at that time) computerized all the records. So for a while they were shuffling around paperwork.

I assume this is US immigration? Feel free to message me if you need any guidance. I did mine and sponsored my dad too.
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Post by: jeni on March 03, 2015, 10:23:13 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 03, 2015, 09:05:54 PM
Good luck!

I did that years ago. Had a ton of paperwork and this was before INS (as it was called at that time) computerized all the records. So for a while they were shuffling around paperwork.

I assume this is US immigration? Feel free to message me if you need any guidance. I did mine and sponsored my dad too.
Thanks, but I'm a Canada-bound US citizen.

It's a bit ridiculous, my wife (and kids) are Canadian, so this ought to be simple. Unfortunately there's about a 3 year backlog on family sponsored permanent resident visas at present, so I'm hoping to get faster results through an express employment track.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 03, 2015, 10:24:41 PM

Quote from: jeni on March 03, 2015, 10:23:13 PM
Thanks, but I'm a Canada-bound US citizen.

It's a bit ridiculous, my wife (and kids) are Canadian, so this ought to be simple. Unfortunately there's about a 3 year backlog on family sponsored permanent resident visas at present, so I'm hoping to get faster results through an express employment track.

Well good for you anyway! I'm guessing you'll get good healthcare benefits.
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Post by: YoungZep on March 03, 2015, 11:06:12 PM
I shaved my legs for the first time!
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Post by: StrykerXIII on March 04, 2015, 12:37:36 AM
I went to a gay bar (for lack of a better term) downtown and did karaoke. Everyone there referred to me as female without blinking...which was nice enough, but then getting actual compliments and applause on my voice after singing Clapton was even better. Made me feel good about a part of myself I normally hate.
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Post by: Cindy on March 04, 2015, 12:56:05 AM
This may come from left wing!

I went to a retirement seminar and found that I may be able to retire, (my super is far higher than I thought) and if it works out I could start a new career as a counselor, enjoy my photography and work on Susan's more.

Mmm no more dealing with Dept of Health politics, very tempting.

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Post by: LordKAT on March 04, 2015, 01:07:01 AM
Sounds like a fantastic stress reducer if you can pull it off.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 03:59:53 AM
Cindy, that would be pretty awesome. What is a super though? Some sort of Australian retirement plan?
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Post by: Cindy on March 04, 2015, 04:23:57 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 03:59:53 AM
Cindy, that would be pretty awesome. What is a super though? Some sort of Australian retirement plan?

Yes. We pay a compulsory amount to a retirement plan, our employer has to give 10% of our salary (there are conditions) I forgot that about 15 years ago I increased my contribution to 10% as well. It was during my pissed out of my brain time. Since I hadn't realised it I was use to it. I found out today that I have been contributions over double what I needed to. The result? Compound interest has worked for me!

Mmm the only good to come from depression!

Super = superannuation
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 04, 2015, 05:46:17 AM
Quote from: StrykerXIII on March 04, 2015, 12:37:36 AM
I went to a gay bar (for lack of a better term) downtown and did karaoke. Everyone there referred to me as female without blinking...which was nice enough, but then getting actual compliments and applause on my voice after singing Clapton was even better. Made me feel good about a part of myself I normally hate.
I remember long long ago gay bars with shows. I so loved to dress nice & be on stage some. It was such fun to dress up with lots of makeup & just be a woman. I looked like more of a natural woman than any of the other girls. And so many men wanted to date however I only went to enjoy being a woman. I was never a gay man, a woman inside learning to look & act nicer as a woman. Only rough part was the late night stuff. I always thought in middle of the day or afternoon would be better. Have fun GF. It's good for you to be your self.
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Post by: Heather Exley on March 04, 2015, 06:09:53 AM
Hi Everyone,

The funniest thing happened to me today. I was at the chemist getting a prescription. I'm sat on a chair waiting my turn, a mother sits down with her 9-10 year old daughter in between us. The girl starts to look up at me out the corner of her eye, I look down at her, we both grin at one another.
"are you wondering why I have hairs on my chin"
"Yes", nodding vigorously,
"Well when I was born, everyone thought I was a boy but they were wrong"
"I had the brain of a girl, the soul of a girl, most important, the heart of a girl. I've been trying to be a girl ever since"
"Why do you want to be a girl?",
"Girls are best! we tidy our rooms and we're not stinky like boys!"
"That's true my big brothers room is awful and it stinks too".
"Yep, that's boys for you",
"I think that without the hair on your chin, you really do look like a girl",
"Thank you".

The nicest compliment ever.

Heather.

Luv & Hugs for everyone. :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 07:24:52 AM
Quote from: Cindy on March 04, 2015, 04:23:57 AM
Yes. We pay a compulsory amount to a retirement plan, our employer has to give 10% of our salary (there are conditions) I forgot that about 15 years ago I increased my contribution to 10% as well. It was during my pissed out of my brain time. Since I hadn't realised it I was use to it. I found out today that I have been contributions over double what I needed to. The result? Compound interest has worked for me!

Mmm the only good to come from depression!

Super = superannuation

Sounds a lot like our 401k. I contribute 8% but you can go as high as 40% (with dollar limits) and my employer matches. However I invest in a variety of stocks and bonds with it.
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Post by: bluebirdx88 on March 04, 2015, 07:31:16 AM
This happened yesterday but I hadn't a chance to post earlier

So.... I always freaked out a bit walking down my street as there is a mechanic with all your typical patriotic flags and such... I live in Spain and the flag is usually only used by those of christian right-wing ideals... So as you may comprehend, being trans they're usually somewhat dangerous / scary...

I always noticed them look at me in detail when I passed which added to my worries.... Well.... Something happened...

I was walking down to meet up with a friend and an old lady stops me to say 'Careful with those machists ....' Yay... Add more worries.... But I was like 'Mkay...' and went on with my thing... Passing directly in between the four menstanding outside and I hear.... 'Look at that pretty little thing... She walks by every afternoon...'  Though it slightly angers me to have my appearance judged constantly I'm rather glad to learn they liked me all along and thats the reason for the looks... I guess I'm not that bad looking after all, hehe....


PS:  I had barely any makeup on and messy hair... Seems the natural look is where its at haha

Sent from my SM-N910F using Tapatalk
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 09:53:48 AM
More win today!

Because of the ice and snow the mail carrier hasn't delivered our packages because they have to drive down our driveway to do it. So they held it at the post office.

Well I went today to pick it up. And not only that I was in male drag, basically I looked like the cable guy.  I needed to go to the kids school today to read for the class and I haven't told them about my little gender issue (but I suspect they know).

Postal clerk: "can I help you?"
Me:"good morning, I have packages to pick up please." And I tell her my address.
Postal clerk: "one moment." And she goes back and brings them out.
Postal clerk:"okay we have two. One for (my wife's name) and one looks like it's for your husband."
Me:"umm okay let me look. Oh ok that's actually..." But then I thought let me keep my mouth shut.

And I just picked up the packages and left.

Oh and a bonus, lol. I went to read for the class, just finished. The teacher told them, "tell mr J thank you."

All of them said, "thank you mrs J"
The teacher said, "that's MISTER J"

I told her, "it's ok, they're kids." Lol

Lol. Getting properly gendered by kids is fun. You know why? Kids are HONEST.

Total male fail/female-victory.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 10:23:45 AM
For the record this is what I'm dealing with today. I did not shave hence the shadow.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1188.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fz403%2Frjairam%2F3895D5C4-81CC-44E9-B07D-B4A267D0E026_zpsihfx8zne.jpg&hash=0d162e93d1d3356436014e7f7642896e64e43ab1) (http://s1188.photobucket.com/user/rjairam/media/3895D5C4-81CC-44E9-B07D-B4A267D0E026_zpsihfx8zne.jpg.html)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 04, 2015, 11:35:55 AM
Did this make you happy today? Reason for this thread. Good news, happy news please.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 04, 2015, 11:38:22 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 04, 2015, 11:35:55 AM
Did this make you happy today? Reason for this thread. Good news, happy news please.
Absolutely!  Female victory always makes me happy!

I was just pointing out how I did not expect to be gendered as anything but a guy.

Don't like the shadow but it seems to be overridden by other stuff.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 04, 2015, 11:43:40 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 24, 2014, 09:27:13 PM
I hope this topic can help all MTF members with sharing the good things that happened to you. The things that made you happy.

For myself it was a very good day. Nice waxing for legs & arms, so smooth. A beauty salon visit was nice & made me happy.

It's good for us all to enjoy the things that make us happier in life & to share them I hope.
I'm hopeful to make our day a little better to see the good things that happen to us & make us happy then share them with others.
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Post by: bluebirdx88 on March 04, 2015, 01:41:55 PM
Okay I guess something more "good" happened today... I say this in between speech marks as I feel extremely guilty....

Flat mate and I barely do anything together and we both needed to do some shopping... I'd sold a few of my belongings lately and had managed to save up some money so yay.... I bought some shoes, a bag, three shirts,  a tee, skinny jeans, a skirt, a jacket and a jersey and I also went to Woman's Secret to get myself a strapless bra... Went out for lunch later too! So yep, I'm feely quite positive, I really needed a change of wardrobe desperately as my clothes where somewhat juvenile to be honest... I'm 26, not 19 >.<

However....

....
....
....

390€

....
....
....

I'm still trying to believe the number... I don't usually spend that in two months, food included.... lol

Ah well... x) No regrets....
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Post by: ChiGirl on March 04, 2015, 02:05:58 PM
I was been home alone so I was working on my voice and paying bills when I had make a phone call to change an account.  The account was in my wife's name, so I gave the name and the operator called me by her name throughout the conversation.  To be fair, my wife's name Is bi-gender, but it's now more commonly a women's name.  I have no idea what the operator was thinking, but she was friendlier to me than I've ever an operator be. 
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Post by: Eveline on March 04, 2015, 10:19:52 PM
Next week, I'll be on a panel with some other trans people, answering questions from students in a masters program in counseling.

Well, today I found out that my mom and sister will be there, too. Yay! Supporters in the audience. :)

I'm nervous but excited. It would be so cool to have a positive influence on future therapists...
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Post by: Kellam on March 05, 2015, 07:28:01 AM
I transitioned my art. I hadn't made any art for three years until last December. I do simple figures, bald, in private moments. They were always angry men and monks, scowling. When I started again they had become more androgynous so I stopped again for the last couple months. I was waiting. Last night and this morning I have been drawing women. I always used to tell myself that I couldn't draw the female form or face. I refused myself that. The faces are the same group of traits I have always drawn, the same nameless characters, but feminine. And they look happy, the anger is gone.

That's what made me happy today...
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Post by: Dodie on March 05, 2015, 11:02:52 AM
Getting my hair done!!! and trimmed.
Yea!!
Dodie
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Post by: Beth Andrea on March 05, 2015, 05:49:40 PM
Stayed present today for several hours... During which I actually had sensations of happiness.

That was awesome for me! Now to keep practicing until I get it all day long.
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Post by: jessical on March 05, 2015, 10:27:10 PM
I had the court order name and gender change hearing.  And my request was granted :)  I also got my name and gender updated with the SSA.  At the moment I feel happy, but also relieved.
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Post by: rachel89 on March 05, 2015, 10:38:01 PM
Hamantaschen.
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Post by: Kellam on March 05, 2015, 11:58:21 PM
One of my friends gave me mascara! She had gotten a two for one, thinking of me. My first makeup since middle school! YAY!
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Post by: Cindy on March 06, 2015, 12:05:25 AM
Went to the supermarket and bumped into a woman I know and her 2 yr old boy. He opened his arms and said Cindy! First words he has spoken to me :laugh:
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 06, 2015, 04:52:34 AM
I'm very happy for 2 close cis women friends. They are good friends indeed to discuss the details of my GRS procedure that I plan to have. Both are very supportive & excited for me to perhaps soon also have a nice normal depth vagina. I will be such a happy girl on that day. I had considered an orchie then later my GRS but that is not for me. I'm so ready perhaps this summer for a nice vagina.
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Post by: Kellam on March 06, 2015, 06:31:03 AM
I don't know how but I forgot to add that in addition to the makeup my friend informed me that she thought I was on hormones already! She had noticed a "glow"! I told her the truth, I'm not. I'm Just shaving, moisturizing and happy!
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Post by: jeni on March 06, 2015, 10:43:41 AM
I'm happy because this morning marks the longest continuous bout of achy chest so far. It's been kind of frustrating having it come and go, wondering if it's just my imagination... I'm sure I'll change my tune if they get much more sore than they are now, but at the moment it's really exciting!
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 06, 2015, 10:54:50 AM
Quote from: Cindy on March 06, 2015, 12:05:25 AM
Went to the supermarket and bumped into a woman I know and her 2 yr old boy. He opened his arms and said Cindy! First words he has spoken to me :laugh:

This!  I am normally a skeptical person when it comes to seeing where we are heading as a people.  This one thing allows it to be seen through a different lens, the lens of a new generation growing up with acceptance.   Dani
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 06, 2015, 11:21:15 AM
Quote from: jeni on March 06, 2015, 10:43:41 AM
I'm happy because this morning marks the longest continuous bout of achy chest so far. It's been kind of frustrating having it come and go, wondering if it's just my imagination... I'm sure I'll change my tune if they get much more sore than they are now, but at the moment it's really exciting!
Mine came and went for a while. Now they feel like two toothaches on my chest. Not too sore but they let me know if they get hit.

You know what? I... DON'T.... CARE!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on March 06, 2015, 11:47:46 AM
Quote from: jeni on March 06, 2015, 10:43:41 AM
I'm happy because this morning marks the longest continuous bout of achy chest so far. It's been kind of frustrating having it come and go, wondering if it's just my imagination... I'm sure I'll change my tune if they get much more sore than they are now, but at the moment it's really exciting!

Although I just started HRT on Monday I am already having itchiness and a little pain when they get bumped  ;D

I did take some "natural" supplements for a couple months before starting on real E so maybe that gave me a bit of a head start. 

But like Dee - I don't care because it means something is working  :o
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Post by: Kellam on March 06, 2015, 12:14:11 PM
Just came out to my folks! I was planning to wait until the end of the month when I would see them in person. I also didn't want to steal focus from my brother and his wife as they are expecting any minute now. In sending an email to my Mom about that I discovered that my Pop was at her house today and I just decided it was time. So I sent an email asking them both to take my call. They did, and I finally let this all out  to the people who called me into existence and gave me this gift of life.

It couldn't have gone better! I have my parent's full support and they are excited to see me. My mom even corrected my father, when he left he said something about "you guys". She hates that word being used for women in any way shape or form but when she rebuked him she said "neither one of us are guys!"

Today is a beautiful day...
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 06, 2015, 12:19:33 PM
Kellam, that is so sweet! Congratulations.
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Post by: Heather Exley on March 06, 2015, 12:25:25 PM
Hi Kellam,

That's a great start to your new life, good luck flower.

Heather.

Luv & Hugs for everyone. :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:
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Post by: Kellam on March 06, 2015, 08:00:51 PM
Thanks Heather and Dee, I apreciate it. My day just kept getting better too. I have now told my little brother and have his encouragement, love and support. He even called me his big sister! Now when his new kid comes into the world (any day now) I can just be its auntie!
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Post by: CrysC on March 07, 2015, 12:22:34 AM
I sat in a hot tub last night in a two piece and heard owls hoot in the trees.  That was neat.
Today I told a friend I was transitioning and he was cool about it and is still my friend.  This was neater. 
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 07, 2015, 06:17:39 AM
Finally a beauty shop/electrolysis appt. for today. My previous lady had so much trouble & has closed here office. My new lady is very experienced & I'll be a happy girl as she removes more nasty facial hairs.
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Post by: Alana_Jane on March 08, 2015, 10:51:22 AM
Quote from: jessical on March 05, 2015, 10:27:10 PM
I had the court order name and gender change hearing.  And my request was granted :)  I also got my name and gender updated with the SSA.  At the moment I feel happy, but also relieved.

Congratulations Jess!

I so love reading everyones happy moments. 

Now for mine.  Saturday morning I had another great therapy session.  I then went and had some retail therapy.  My objective was a non-black shrug to summer-ize some of my black dresses, which I'd gotten this tip from my therapist.  (One of the benefits of having a female therapist is I also get some very good style tips ;)  )  So on going into my favorite Dress Barn, I find what I'm looking for, but also find a couple of lovely spring/summer dresses.  One is a very nice knit color block sheath dress and the other is a beautiful polka-dot dress with a yellow belt and a retro tulip flare. 

But that's not all, there's more...  In the evening I had a performance with my community orchestra.  I played 2nd French Horn in Mozart's 4th Horn Concerto.  After the concert I came out to two more people, both of whom were very supportive.  Yeah!  I have a girl-friend who knows and celebrates me as a girl. I also talked to a mutual friend of my ex and mine.  This was the first time I talked to her since she was told about me.  She expressed her support of me having to do this, and I thanked her for supporting my ex.  We both are concerned about my ex and only want the best for her.  I feel so lucky to have my community music outlets support me.  I was thinking during the performance that there might be some worry about having a transgender performer subtract from ticket sales, or even draw excess attention when the music should be the focus.  That's not the case, I really feel fully supported, and I have to say this makes me a happy lady.   

-Alana
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Post by: Eevee on March 08, 2015, 12:27:01 PM
A store clerk called me ma'am! This is the second time this has happened in public from a stranger. I'm starting to like the slow disappearance of the word "sir" in reference to me.
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Post by: Alyx Vox on March 08, 2015, 01:36:45 PM
Cycled for 20 kilometers straight, even though I'm on a strict diet (nearly died near the end). It made me happy: burn fat burn!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 08, 2015, 10:04:41 PM
Told some friends about myself today, I'm realy starting to enjoy coming out. I am kind of sad that I only have one more close friend to tell! The best part was when some of my friend's roommates joined us in the living room. I'm friendly with the roommates so I just kept talking.

I brought up the name I had picked out as a teen, before I shamed myself into denial. Kiki Swan! Don't laugh...ok laugh. At first they said it was a good name, perhaps just a bit stagey. Then the two women let up a cheer, "Let Kiki free! Let her out!" It got me thinking, that if I ever return to making music perhaps Kiki Swan will be my stage name.

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Post by: ChiGirl on March 08, 2015, 10:13:05 PM
Go, Kellam, go!  It feels good, doesn't it? [emoji2]
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Post by: Kellam on March 08, 2015, 10:18:31 PM
Quote from: ChiGirl on March 08, 2015, 10:13:05 PM
Go, Kellam, go!  It feels good, doesn't it? [emoji2]

It sure does!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessika on March 09, 2015, 02:09:07 PM
Happy part: Got my first Endo consult appointment finally. :)
Not so Happy part: It's not until May 13th (Over 2 months away  ??? )... and I have to drive 100 miles to get there.......ouch.

But I need to ask:

Since it's my first time there...

According to the appointment letter,
I do the Endo Nursing Screening at 8:30AM
See the actual Doctor at 9:00AM

Does that mean they will do my initial Blood work then and there? I hope so.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Eveline on March 09, 2015, 02:26:54 PM
I recently emailed a friend who I haven't seen in a few years, and who didn't know I had transitioned.

In the message, I explained the transition and included a photo of myself today, but didn't include my old name.

My friend replied that after looking at the photo for some time, he was happy to reconnect, but had no idea who I was, and would I please share my old name.

That feels good.  ;D
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Post by: Christy82 on March 09, 2015, 02:39:10 PM
Well, what made me happy in a way was that I got called in for a follow up interview for a job.  Been out of the grind for awhile trying to make my own business grow(not working so well).  I'll be happy for a while.
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Post by: jeni on March 09, 2015, 03:43:24 PM
Quote from: Jessika on March 09, 2015, 02:09:07 PM
According to the appointment letter,
I do the Endo Nursing Screening at 8:30AM
See the actual Doctor at 9:00AM

Does that mean they will do my initial Blood work then and there? I hope so.
I don't think we can tell from that. If it's like my appointment, you spend a while talking to the nurse, getting basic health and history info, etc. In my case, I then spent about 15 minutes talking to a resident, and then finally both the doc and the resident together.

From my general experience with doctors, I'd expect the blood work to be handled separately from the doctor's office. If it's a large facility, they may have a lab in-house, but otherwise you'd go to whatever lab to get the blood drawn. I wouldn't expect it to have an impact one way or the other, though. The tests only take a few days, and unless something is amiss, I'd think the doctor would then call in a prescription for you. But different places handle things differently.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 09, 2015, 04:07:10 PM
Mine had the lab on site, he's in a teaching hospital, but the tests were just after my appointment and he sent in my scripts before. If there was a problem he'd have called and told me to stop taking them. He'd been at this a long time.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 09, 2015, 06:15:46 PM
The teacher sent home a thank you note with a picture from the reading day with the kids. Omg I look totally like a girl!
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 09, 2015, 06:18:06 PM
Quote from: Jessika on March 09, 2015, 02:09:07 PM
Happy part: Got my first Endo consult appointment finally. :)
Not so Happy part: It's not until May 13th (Over 2 months away  ??? )... and I have to drive 100 miles to get there.......ouch.

But I need to ask:

Since it's my first time there...

According to the appointment letter,
I do the Endo Nursing Screening at 8:30AM
See the actual Doctor at 9:00AM

Does that mean they will do my initial Blood work then and there? I hope so.

They may or may not. If they have a phlebotomist on staff they can draw your blood and send it out. If they have a lab there they can do the bloodwork there too. Otherwise they will write an order and send you with it and you go to a lab where they draw.

I've dealt with doctors offices large and small and they usually draw on premises. Only one time I had to go outside to a lab and that was because the phlebotomist had gone home for the day.
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Post by: StrykerXIII on March 09, 2015, 06:54:18 PM
My $300 breast form that I'd been waiting a month for finally arrived!!!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on March 09, 2015, 07:55:38 PM
I came out to my two best friends yesterday and today.  Both were extremely supportive and gave me a big hug.  Neither one could believe it was me in the pictures I showed them  ;D  At least they didn't laugh or run away scared. 

I know our dynamic is going to change but it is good to have that support.  One of them gave me great advice about something another individual did when she transitioned at our office.  I wasn't around at the time but he said that she made sure to go around and talk with everyone as if nothing had changed except her appearance.  That way people who may be uneasy and not want to speak with you can see that while your appearance has changed your personality and intellect have not.  She apparently had a very successful transition and I am going to be calling her soon to get some pointers on how she dealt with everything.

Hugs to you all!!!!
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Post by: Eveline on March 09, 2015, 10:46:21 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 09, 2015, 07:55:38 PM
I came out to my two best friends yesterday and today.  Both were extremely supportive and gave me a big hug.  Neither one could believe it was me in the pictures I showed them  ;D 

Yay! Congrats, girl.  :eusa_dance:
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Post by: Eveline on March 09, 2015, 10:51:01 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 09, 2015, 06:15:46 PM
The teacher sent home a thank you note with a picture from the reading day with the kids. Omg I look totally like a girl!

The camera doesn't lie, girl. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 10, 2015, 12:35:24 AM
Today was nice and sunny so I went on a hike around one of the smaller lakes up here.  It is a popular place, canoeing, kayaking, dogs, really cool out of the way docks with benches, heavily wooded most of the way.  Not a long walk, 2.6 mi. around but fun.  First time ever hiking in a comfy maxi skirt, it was a blast.  Have not been there in a long time, but seeings its only about a 12 mile drive to get there I think I'll go more often.  Great Day!   Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 10, 2015, 01:05:49 AM
I came out to my oldest daughter and enlisted her support to tell my remaining kids this weekend. She loved the photos I sent her and is very supportive.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dodie on March 10, 2015, 12:08:16 PM
I read a quote today that touched me.. I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not. 
Had so much meaning to me I posted about it in the MTF forum..
Dodie
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 10, 2015, 07:01:07 PM
Told my last close friend today and garnered her support. During our conversation I learned just how many trans folk, in different stages of transition, I have worked with over the last several years. My friend is an ex coworker. I hadn't noticed as I try not to judge others. Apparently coming out at work should be a breeze. She, my friend, thinks nothing will change. She also has a hairdresser she'd like to take me to when my hair is long enough to be cut.

I have said it before and I'll say it again. Thank goodness for good friends!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 11, 2015, 09:40:27 AM
The PBS World channel is showing documenteries about strong women all day long! Also, it is getting very warm here, way above freezing. I'm going for a walk/bike ride up to Arlington's Great Meadow. Yay, it is almost spring!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 11, 2015, 07:23:11 PM
Fortune cookie today.

(https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8580/16788505172_e7d1349290_z_d.jpg)
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Post by: AndreaLinda on March 11, 2015, 10:01:10 PM
When I look at the mirror, I see someone who is exactly like I always wanted to be ! :D
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 11, 2015, 10:02:14 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 11, 2015, 07:23:11 PM
Fortune cookie today.

(https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8580/16788505172_e7d1349290_z_d.jpg)

CooL!!!  Also true I'm sure  :)   Dani
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Post by: Christy82 on March 11, 2015, 10:11:52 PM
I had my first Dr.'s appointment today.  Go back next month to get blood work done and get Rx filled.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AndreaLinda on March 11, 2015, 10:12:21 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 11, 2015, 07:23:11 PM
Fortune cookie today.

(https://farm9.staticflickr.com/8580/16788505172_e7d1349290_z_d.jpg)

OMG I WILL KILL FOR THAT COOKIE! lol!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 11, 2015, 10:14:11 PM
Ordered these today  ;D  Two pairs of womens New Balance, one is the Fresh Foam 980 Trail (for walking or running on wooded trails) and the 1765 for walking on regular surface (the purple).  I AM EXCITED!  First running/walking shoes I've ever had, now if that UPS truck would just get here.  :)   Dani

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fwt980pg_nb_14_i_zpsmn59glp3.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=4de307fc21e11bb9446986f2091028e025721b22)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fww1765bp_nb_07_i_zps0ygtlegp.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=26b2a91e54b0c5f4eddba119a478ca03c32d7f13)(//)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 11, 2015, 10:15:09 PM
This was a most welcome pick me up.

Ever since Saturday night I was feeling down in the dump.

Sometimes I know when I have bad stuff I get signs that tell me to keep my chin up. It may be perception on my part or maybe even something supernatural (if you believe in that stuff) but I do get them.

Wasn't expecting this.

BTW when I ordered chinese food today I was in total boy mode (coming from work) and they did not know how to address me. LOL.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 11, 2015, 10:15:32 PM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on March 11, 2015, 10:14:11 PM
Ordered these today  ;D  Two pairs of womens New Balance, one is the Fresh Foam 980 Trail (for walking or running on wooded trails) and the 1765 for walking on regular surface (the purple).  I AM EXCITED!  First running/walking shoes I've ever had, now if that UPS truck would just get here.  :)   Dani

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fwt980pg_nb_14_i_zpsmn59glp3.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=4de307fc21e11bb9446986f2091028e025721b22)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fww1765bp_nb_07_i_zps0ygtlegp.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=26b2a91e54b0c5f4eddba119a478ca03c32d7f13)(//)

Oh wow!

I need a new pair of sneakers myself...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 12, 2015, 05:44:40 AM
I'm so happy to have nice GF's that have completed their improvements for their bodies. One nice woman is happily married & so enjoys a complete beautiful life with her well endowed husband. Other friends that have physically improved themselves are happy with life however stil trying to find their soul mate. I love being a woman & still continue to one day have a nice vagina I so hope & a nicer life with a nice man maybe. Life is good GF's, enjoy.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 12, 2015, 06:08:13 AM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on March 11, 2015, 10:14:11 PM
Ordered these today  ;D  Two pairs of womens New Balance, one is the Fresh Foam 980 Trail (for walking or running on wooded trails) and the 1765 for walking on regular surface (the purple).  I AM EXCITED!  First running/walking shoes I've ever had, now if that UPS truck would just get here.  :)   Dani

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fwt980pg_nb_14_i_zpsmn59glp3.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=4de307fc21e11bb9446986f2091028e025721b22)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1292.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fb563%2Ftohellinabucket666%2Fww1765bp_nb_07_i_zps0ygtlegp.jpg%7Eoriginal&hash=26b2a91e54b0c5f4eddba119a478ca03c32d7f13)(//)

I always wear trail running shoes because of my lifestyle. When I decided I had to transition one of the first things I got was a pair of NB women's trail shoes, somehow I knew I wouldn't need men's shoes this spring. They are very comfy, good on a bike too! I only have a few miles in mine thus far but I'm looking forward to adding more. Best part? They don't look weird on my feet like every pair of men's shoes I ever owned! Congrats on your purchase, I hope they come soon.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ToniB on March 12, 2015, 06:25:00 AM
went to bingo with the wife in male mode .a Woman we had not seen for a few weeks looked Me up and Down and declared loudly "You look like a Woman " was I pleased or what LOL the wife was not quite as happy as we are not out to the club LOL
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jayne on March 12, 2015, 06:48:18 AM
This isn't so much as what made me happy but more like what made me laugh today.

My elderly neighbour hasn't spoken to me since he realised that i'm trans, today I popped to the shops & when I got home the dog greeted me as he always does, with a toy in his mouth.
Unfortunately he couldn't find any of his toys as he's left them all in the garden, my neighbours face was priceless when the dog charged through the front door with one of my toys in his mouth. The woman who lives in the upstairs flat who has no problem with me being trans looked ready to burst as she tried not to laugh.
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Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 12, 2015, 11:12:38 AM
Reading this sparked that " I wish I was a fly on the wall" response.Very Funny!


Quote from: Jayne on March 12, 2015, 06:48:18 AM
This isn't so much as what made me happy but more like what made me laugh today.

My elderly neighbour hasn't spoken to me since he realised that i'm trans, today I popped to the shops & when I got home the dog greeted me as he always does, with a toy in his mouth.
Unfortunately he couldn't find any of his toys as he's left them all in the garden, my neighbours face was priceless when the dog charged through the front door with one of my toys in his mouth. The woman who lives in the upstairs flat who has no problem with me being trans looked ready to burst as she tried not to laugh.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 12, 2015, 11:16:42 AM
Bought some cheap boots and a bag on Woot! today.  It's not designer or anything, just for practice until I earn my wings to use the good stuff. :)

I promised myself when I go FT, for next winter I will buy some proper Uggs and a proper handbag. But now I have 3 styles of the cheap bags I can use for different occasions.

Anyway, shopping makes this girl happy happy. :)

Oh, and I got paid today.
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Post by: Jayne on March 12, 2015, 05:16:40 PM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on March 12, 2015, 11:12:38 AM
Reading this sparked that " I wish I was a fly on the wall" response.Very Funny!

For me it sparked a memory of the film Parenthood, y'know the bit with the powercut & a kid going off to get the torch.......
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on March 12, 2015, 05:46:51 PM
So, I went to a steakhouse two nights ago and besides being misgendered (ARGH!) they really gave me bad service and bad food.  So, I submitted a complaint via their website:

QuoteI had a bad experience at the restaurant picking up my togo order and then, much to my dismay, my order was entirely problematic. 

<restaurant address redacted>

First, I get the restaurant 10 minutes prior to my order pickup time of 7:10pm and stand by the bar (which was full –no seats available) and go unacknowledged for nearly ten minutes.  I asked one of the waitresses as they were flying in and out of the kitchen if I was in the right place to get my togo order and she says yes, and moves on.  I wait a few more minutes.  I finally flag a gentleman down by approaching the kitchen area and ask him how to get my order and he says to get it from a bartender.  I asked how I was to get their attention, and he offered to help me (finally!).  So, after he has trouble finding my order, and showing him my confirmation email to prove I ordered it for his restaurant, he then says it won't be long.  Roughly ten more minutes pass waiting for my order of:

7-Pepper Sirloin Caesar Salad
Temperature Choice: Medium
Dressing Choice: Balsamic Vinaigrette
Seasoned French Fries

When it is finally ready the female bartender hollers my name (mispronounced, of course).  I thank her and take my order.  As I am leaving the door, the gentleman taking seat reservations says "Have a good night, Sir."  A kind gesture, if I were a man!  Frustrated, I just leave.

I get back to my hotel and discover there is no receipt.  My expense report requires one.  I then notice the steak is scored four times and I am given cheap plastic utensils to cut and eat this with.  Of course they are completely insufficient.  Then I notice there is no pepper on the steak.  None.  The 'seasoned fries' are dry and have NO seasoning. 

I cannot tell you how disappointed I am with this experience, except to say that it is highly unlikely that I will go through that again.

Ainsley
<last name and address redacted>

Today I got a response:

QuoteDear Ainsley,


Thank you for your email.


Whether taking your meal with you or dining-in with us, you should always be able to count on receiving prompt, courteous service. It is obvious from your email that we failed on that promise, and we apologize for the difficulties you experienced in picking up your order. The managers at our <city redacted> location will be utilizing your comments to ensure all of our guests consistently receive exemplary service.

You also brought to our attention other concerns regarding the items you were served. Ensuring your 7 Pepper Steak Salad as well as your seasoned fries were full of flavor and prepared correctly is top priority. Multiple issues certainly bring to our attention the need for retraining and education of the staff. Our Director of Operations will impress upon the management team the need to rededicate their efforts towards ensuring your delight on future visits.


I have also asked the management team to email you an itemized receipt.


To make things right, I am sending you a $35.00 gift card to the following address:

<my address redacted>


Your gift card should arrive by March 24, 2015.

Our Managing Partner, <redacted>, would love for you to call and let us know the next time you are coming in to dine. The number at the restaurant is <redacted>. If the Managing Partner is not in that day, please ask for another manager.

Thanks for dining at <restaurant name redacted>. We hope to see you again soon.


Sincerely,

Jessie
<restaurant name redacted> Steakhouse Guest Relations

Even though there was no apology for the misgendering (yes, it really gets under my skin) I feel like I won that one!
success!
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Post by: EvelynSTL on March 12, 2015, 09:14:41 PM
I changed my contact info to my new name on both my parents' phones today...I haven't told them yet  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ^_^Elaine on March 13, 2015, 12:36:27 AM
I had my first therapist session today. It went very well, and I like my new therapist. I was really nervous, but left feeling great. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on March 13, 2015, 04:19:39 AM
Quite happy at the moment.
The girls are growing, will they stop and filling in nicely.
Starting to look very fem up top now. They really fill a bra perfectly.
Other changes skin so much nicer. I have forgotten how bad it felt before.

Work, a month into a new role and doing really well. Lots of positives from people on a job well done.
In my old role they are finding it now takes 4 people to do what I did. No surprise there. I am brilliant. From my boss.

Have a visit to the pain monster tomorrow.

I feel a visitor coming soon who will turn my world on its head.
Any guesses?
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 13, 2015, 07:33:02 AM
Quote from: ^_^Elaine on March 13, 2015, 12:36:27 AM
I had my first therapist session today. It went very well, and I like my new therapist. I was really nervous, but left feeling great.

Congrats! A good therapist helps make it all go better.

Mine has been my rock. She's super smart, savvy, patient and understanding, is a committee member of WPATH and has never steered me wrong.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 13, 2015, 07:34:14 AM
What made me happy today:

Had laser yesterday and hair is already falling off! She turned it up hotter yesterday, and it looks like it gave a better punch than last time.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 13, 2015, 07:47:53 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on March 13, 2015, 04:19:39 AM
Quite happy at the moment.
The girls are growing, will they stop and filling in nicely.
Starting to look very fem up top now. They really fill a bra perfectly.
Other changes skin so much nicer. I have forgotten how bad it felt before.

Work, a month into a new role and doing really well. Lots of positives from people on a job well done.
In my old role they are finding it now takes 4 people to do what I did. No surprise there. I am brilliant. From my boss.

Have a visit to the pain monster tomorrow.

I feel a visitor coming soon who will turn my world on its head.
Any guesses?
OK GF, who is the visitor???   Sounds like you are doing great, I know it feels good to fill in a bra. That is such a nice feeling to me, love it.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 13, 2015, 08:17:23 AM
Got a bunch of tops that I need for work, super happy. Now I'm trying to decide if I should go make a laser appointment or get my ears pierced... I love payday!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 13, 2015, 09:07:48 AM
Quote from: Kellam on March 13, 2015, 08:17:23 AM
Got a bunch of tops that I need for work, super happy. Now I'm trying to decide if I should go make a laser appointment or get my ears pierced... I love payday!

I would say get the laser. Ear piercing is cheap though. I need to get mine done.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 13, 2015, 10:16:39 AM
I'll be kinda broke until the end of the month and I am a pinch penny so...I might just be patient and do neither. I'll be flush come mid April. Got some new headbands while I was at the grocery, that ought to hold me over!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on March 13, 2015, 06:05:56 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 13, 2015, 07:47:53 AM
OK GF, who is the visitor??? 

Just think the goddess of pain and punishment, oh she will make me burn for that.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on March 14, 2015, 12:45:35 AM
I got my new social security card today, with my new name :)
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Post by: Cindy on March 14, 2015, 01:03:00 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on March 13, 2015, 06:05:56 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 13, 2015, 07:47:53 AM
OK GF, who is the visitor??? 

Just think the goddess of pain and punishment, oh she will make me burn for that.

She is trying to get there but the Mardi Gras has booked out the hotels. I may have to look for a dungeon >:-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jayne on March 14, 2015, 02:07:16 PM
I held another of my LGBT groups yesterday, I forgot my notes and had to wing it without them for a two hour meeting, somehow I survived and was quite chuffed.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 14, 2015, 02:45:29 PM
Since my buget was limited I looked for some small positive things to do. So I shaped my eyebrows and orderd a whole bunch of makeup (my first of everything but the eye makeup my friend gave me recently) . I think I got eveything I need! It will all arive over the course of the next week, so new things every day!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cel on March 14, 2015, 06:02:35 PM
My cab driver today kept calling me 'dear'.  I feel like I'm supposed to be offended by it but mostly it just made me grin.

--Kristen
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 14, 2015, 07:50:31 PM
Quote from: Kellam on March 14, 2015, 02:45:29 PM
Since my buget was limited I looked for some small positive things to do. So I shaped my eyebrows and orderd a whole bunch of makeup (my first of everything but the eye makeup my friend gave me recently) . I think I got eveything I need! It will all arive over the course of the next week, so new things every day!
Join ipsy. They have a great monthly "glam bag" for only $10.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 14, 2015, 08:26:50 PM
Came out to my younger brother and it went great. Turns out one of his coworkers was Tom and is now Suzanne [not the actual names just to be careful...]. So my brother is not just tolerant and understanding in theory, he is field-tested. W00!
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Post by: cindianna_jones on March 14, 2015, 09:23:15 PM
What made me happy today? I emptied the hot tub, cleaned it out, and turned off that energy hog. I hated to do it but I can't afford to run it anymore. But the deed is done.

Oh...  and I got another day of life! You just can't beat that!

Cindi
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: noleen111 on March 15, 2015, 05:29:48 AM
Had a wonderful day yesterday with my mother and my soon to be step sister...

We went wedding dress shopping for my moms weddings.. it was fun.. we had an appointment at one of these wedding dress shops.. drank champagne will my mother tried on dresses... she found a beautiful dress.. me and my soon to be step sister are going to bridesmaids.. we still need to go dress shopping for that. It was a real girlie day.. its fun been one of the girls.

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 15, 2015, 05:48:12 PM
Just found out from my mom that my uncle knows I'm transgender! My father told him a couple days ago and he was not only fine with it but saw it coming. He is autistic and very smart, my father told him because their parents would not have handled it well and he just wasn't sure what my uncle's reaction would be. My pop knows how to talk to his brother, it can be difficult. I did a four day road trip with my uncle that may go down as the quietest on record, no music or conversation just me asking questions and occasionally singing. This means a lot because I have always felt a special bond with my uncle, we are the only artists in the family. He only shared his creativity with me and his mother. I feel so happy right now, he is apparently composing an email to me. I am waiting for it with baited breath!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: CrysC on March 15, 2015, 07:47:17 PM
I went down a size in jeans. 
Also, this may sound silly but my wife said she wanted to be my girlfriend as well as my wife. 
There is still a long way to go before she can handle going out with me as a girl too but, we are on the right path at least for now.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 15, 2015, 09:22:30 PM
Talked to my mom today who reaffirmed that she accepts me and loves me for who I am... without me even asking her to.   :)

Talked to an old friend last night (in Trinidad) who says she's totally cool with who I am.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Bree Serenity on March 15, 2015, 09:36:00 PM
Honestly, not very much, because my car died coming home from my amazing ladies support group and lunch afterwards, yesterday and I am totally immobile. I got home and my 2 yr old labradoodle puppy broke through a barrier and trashed my house. Then, a friend wanted to vent late at night and I was too tired to realize in their texts that they didn't want advice, so me being the fixer, dispensed advice they didn't want, so things went badly I felt awful. Today, I was hoping to go to a church whose pastor welcomed me with open arms, but no transpo. I had a half price deal on an exotic facial and manipedi that I had to forgo. Plus, my driver here in Phoenix, Dale Jr. crashed. So, it's been a pretty bad 24 hours, except that I had posted a hands over my boobs pic on a well-known non-porn site and well, got a lot of likes, faves and shares even, so that was somewhat validating...and admittedly, made me happy. Oh - and I am ALWAYS way happier being a girl than I ever was being a guy. So, just looking in the mirror or down at my body or feeling feminine in general always makes me happy even on a crappy stuck at home day. :-*

PS - I left off that I am on SPRING BREAK and immobile - so, as a double major in psych and medicine, my only down time for having a social life is getting gobbled up for a few days right before I resume custody on Wednesday. Major downer.
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Post by: Shawn Sunshine on March 15, 2015, 10:26:28 PM
Church made me happy today as I had not been in 3 months. Was sick alot during that time. I got to dress up in a adrogynousish st patricks attire.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on March 15, 2015, 10:42:23 PM
Had all 5 of my children together today to let them know about my transition.  All of them could not have been more supportive, loving and caring towards me.  Also my girlfriend called me her girlfriend for the first time.  I have never been so happy.

  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 16, 2015, 12:11:19 AM
I just learned that my mother really does understand and knows me almost as well as I know myself. She has written a short story about a woman in my position and stage of transition. She fictionalized a few things I had told her when I came out to her just weeks ago and created the rest, but it was still so true, like she had known all my secrets all along. Now I know just how much she cares and how much she loves me. Now I know how lucky I am to be her daughter. I can't wait to see her and hug her.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 16, 2015, 06:25:56 AM
Finally beautiful spring weather. My rose bushes are coming alive & it's almost time to work on my garden area for spring planting. I so love to grow a nice garden, roses & pretty flowers.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 16, 2015, 09:39:38 AM
This was yesterday, but since i was too busy to post then... On Saturday, I had "the talk" with my brother, who I knew would be supportive. I was less certain about his wife, but told him that although I was trying to keep my coming out under wraps at this point, that it was more important to me that the people I did come out to had someone to talk to if they needed it. So I told him that he could decide when and whether or not to tell her about it.

We took a trip to a museum, with his family and me and my kids, yesterday. As we were getting everyone in the car, she told me that he told her. There was a brief moment of silence and she told me that she was absolutely happy for me and that they would be there and give me whatever support I needed. She then invited me for a big hug, which is probably a first between us, and that was that.

So now I'm up to (I think) 6 for 6 of people I'm out to who were awesome and supportive (not counting therapists, doctors, etc). Lucky, lucky, lucky...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on March 16, 2015, 09:53:47 AM
That is wonderful, Jeni! I have not had that discussion with my brothers and sisters.

Clothes:  I a getting very depressed at my inability to find summer tops (andro looking, female) to wear in the warm weather. On the positive - This last weekend, my wife and I went shopping and she picked out a couple of active wear tops for me to wear while playing tennis, and a cute casual top that I may keep for the trip back to our summer home. This has been an unbelievably slow process!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 16, 2015, 10:21:26 AM
Pandora (the music source, not the poster), maintenance coming later to replace my fridge and fix the leak in the sink, another day for the world to make itself right.

Truly I can face any adversity as long as Sweetie and I are on the same side against it. It's only when we're at odds that I truly go off the rails. Right now we're good.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 16, 2015, 10:39:09 AM
Amazon is showing me all women's clothes as suggestions now. They've stopped showing me men's clothes, period. So maybe they got the hint? I watched the entire series of Transparent. Maybe that tipped the scale for them.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 16, 2015, 11:13:35 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 16, 2015, 10:39:09 AM
Amazon is showing me all women's clothes as suggestions now. They've stopped showing me men's clothes, period. So maybe they got the hint? I watched the entire series of Transparent. Maybe that tipped the scale for them.
Hey, mine is doing that too. I guess between the recent books and workout clothes, they've figured me out, too. It makes me feel a little awkward loading up the site at work...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 16, 2015, 11:57:20 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 16, 2015, 10:39:09 AM
Amazon is showing me all women's clothes as suggestions now. They've stopped showing me men's clothes, period. So maybe they got the hint? I watched the entire series of Transparent. Maybe that tipped the scale for them.

Me too! Its all female oriented, all the adds and suggestions. The other targeted advertising in my cyber world is leaning that way too! At least the algorithms know I'm a woman!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JenniR04 on March 16, 2015, 12:40:25 PM
Quote from: jeni on March 16, 2015, 09:39:38 AM
This was yesterday, but since i was too busy to post then... On Saturday, I had "the talk" with my brother, who I knew would be supportive. I was less certain about his wife, but told him that although I was trying to keep my coming out under wraps at this point, that it was more important to me that the people I did come out to had someone to talk to if they needed it. So I told him that he could decide when and whether or not to tell her about it.

We took a trip to a museum, with his family and me and my kids, yesterday. As we were getting everyone in the car, she told me that he told her. There was a brief moment of silence and she told me that she was absolutely happy for me and that they would be there and give me whatever support I needed. She then invited me for a big hug, which is probably a first between us, and that was that.

So now I'm up to (I think) 6 for 6 of people I'm out to who were awesome and supportive (not counting therapists, doctors, etc). Lucky, lucky, lucky...

Jeni ..... Congrats on the successful coming out, it's always such a euphoric feeling when it goes well. I am very happy for you.

Like Islandgirl ... I am not out to my siblings yet, though it is in the process. I don't live close to any of them (6'ish hours away) and I've been pandering between a written and mailed letter, an email, or just waiting until I see them again which will be at a point in my transition process that I will no longer be able to hide the changes - so it would be a surprise (not leaning toward he surprise route).
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: tlo4589 on March 16, 2015, 02:13:40 PM
A young man I served on the checkouts referred to me as 'love' instead of 'mate' (British terminology). However, he realized his mistake, apologized and quickly corrected himself. Felt nice all the same :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sapphire87 on March 16, 2015, 03:49:24 PM
This was a few weeks ago but was out with Aunt, Cousin and Mom going prom dress shopping for my cousin. While at one of the stores I was asked if I needed a prom dress as well! Felt great not only being asked if i needed a dress, but also I graduated 10 years ago!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 16, 2015, 05:09:15 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on March 16, 2015, 12:40:25 PM
between a written and mailed letter, an email, or just waiting until I see them again which will be at a point in my transition process that I will no longer be able to hide the changes - so it would be a surprise (not leaning toward he surprise route).
That was a big part of my timing. I did not want there to be anything overt to notice before I talked to family. I have some younger siblings from my father's second family (and his wife) who are not aware yet as far as I know. Haven't decided when to let them know but I'm inclined to wait until I'm closer to being out to everyone.

Good luck with your decision. I strongly prefer in person with people I am confident will be supportive. Haven't really dealt with any other cases yet, though.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 16, 2015, 08:11:13 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 16, 2015, 10:39:09 AM
Amazon is showing me all women's clothes as suggestions now. They've stopped showing me men's clothes, period. So maybe they got the hint?

I've been getting that for a while now too.  Maybe it was strictly buying dresses and makeup for a few months instead of gun parts and mens watches that did it.   ;)
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 16, 2015, 08:26:24 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 16, 2015, 08:11:13 PM
I've been getting that for a while now too.  Maybe it was strictly buying dresses and makeup for a few months instead of gun parts and mens watches that did it.   ;)

Could be. But I really haven't bought a lot of women's clothes on Amazon, lately the only thing I've bought was a couple of bras. I mostly buy computer networking stuff and household items.

Gun parts? Eh I buy them from the local stores.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on March 16, 2015, 08:31:46 PM
Finding out that both cis males and females are much more open to dating transgender individuals than I thought, sometimes the world is a better place than I give it credit for  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: cindianna_jones on March 17, 2015, 03:51:14 AM
I renewed a kindled friendship from long ago here. What a blessing! Thank you Cindy!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on March 17, 2015, 04:33:42 AM
Thank you!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on March 17, 2015, 04:57:22 AM
Didn't have to pretend to be him today.

Getting harder.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on March 17, 2015, 05:01:34 AM
Sis,

What are you putting off?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on March 17, 2015, 05:10:47 AM
Me :-X
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Wild Flower on March 17, 2015, 05:17:06 AM
A burger (or 3)

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on March 17, 2015, 07:47:12 AM
Coffee and waking up before the alarm went off :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 17, 2015, 08:23:39 AM
I came out to everyone at work yesterday. So last night I was finally free to share myself openly on social media. I made a new profile and dropped the bomb on the old one. The outpouring of support that has carried on at a steady clip is leaving me just stunned. Folks who weren't my facebook friends before, old coworkers and extended family, have apparently heard and have friended me. The cousins I feared would turn their backs on me are right there. Happy isn't quite the word, extatic is more apropos. I never realized that people did care about me. I have lost no one in coming out, I have only gained and I feel like I have gained the world. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on March 17, 2015, 08:29:57 AM
Awesome, I'm so happy for you!

Quote from: Kellam on March 17, 2015, 08:23:39 AM
I came out to everyone at work yesterday. So last night I was finally free to share myself openly on social media. I made a new profile and dropped the bomb on the old one. The outpouring of support that has carried on at a steady clip is leaving me just stunned. Folks who weren't my facebook friends before, old coworkers and extended family, have apparently heard and have friended me. The cousins I feared would turn their backs on me are right there. Happy isn't quite the word, extatic is more apropos. I never realized that people did care about me. I have lost no one in coming out, I have only gained and I feel like I have gained the world. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Amy85 on March 17, 2015, 09:19:04 AM
After I purged all my clothes and was determined to be a normal man 4 months ago I just (after acknowledging my gender issues and telling my girlfriend all about them) have started ordering clothes online to start building my feminine wardrobe up again. And I forgot how fun the shopping part is :P I do it all online though and now I must find patience for the stuff to all get here :P
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on March 17, 2015, 03:52:38 PM
I had a great appointment with my therapist today.  I feel so good and optimistic.  He told me he's not seen me smile as much as I have in the last 2 sessions.  He always asked if he should start using female pronouns and my female name.  He offered that on my first appointment, but I wasn't ready.  Now I am!

Only problem: I haven't decided on my name!  Arrgh!
I still want Cate, but that's too problematic.
So it's down to Charlotte, Camryn, and Cassandra.  I'm not feeling them like Cate, but I've got to let it go.

[emoji443] LET IT GO!  LET IT GO! [emoji445] I'm feeling so silly today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 17, 2015, 03:59:38 PM
Getting "ma'amed" is nice but I got a "mommy" today. I went to get Chinese food And I had to carry the kids in.

The woman behind the counter saw them, then she realized something.... "Are they all the same age?" I said yes, triplets. She told them,"your mommy very lucky!"
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JenniR04 on March 17, 2015, 04:13:15 PM
Quote from: ChiGirl on March 17, 2015, 03:52:38 PM
Only problem: I haven't decided on my name!  Arrgh!
I still want Cate, but that's too problematic.
So it's down to Charlotte, Camryn, and Cassandra.  I'm not feeling them like Cate, but I've got to let it go.

[emoji443] LET IT GO!  LET IT GO! [emoji445] I'm feeling so silly today.

Well ChiGirl .... I always say go with what you feel. I don't know the circumstances or reasons behind why you can't use "Cate", but if it's nothing too intense or overlapping, then I'd say to still go with it. You are who you feel you are.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on March 17, 2015, 04:45:20 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on March 17, 2015, 04:13:15 PM
Well ChiGirl .... I always say go with what you feel. I don't know the circumstances or reasons behind why you can't use "Cate", but if it's nothing too intense or overlapping, then I'd say to still go with it. You are who you feel you are.
Thanks.  Both my wife and my family feel it might be too many Cates/Kates in the family.  My niece is named Katelyn and called Kate, my new stepsister is Katherine, and so is my wife's sister and everyone calls her Katie.  My brother agrees with you. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on March 17, 2015, 08:00:29 PM
Saw a friend I hadn't seen for a while, told her about the SRS coming up...she asked if I was going to get a BA while I'm at it.

I didn't think so, but asked if she thought the Girls were OK, "proportional", given the size of my chest.

"Oh yes, they're quite nice, looking good."

:)

Ah, the power of a simple compliment...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 17, 2015, 09:32:01 PM
I think my boobs grew a bit. My 34B bra is feeling a bit tighter and walking down the stairs without one (in a nightgown) is a bit uncomfortable. My hair is almost past my ears now too. Woot!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 17, 2015, 10:45:31 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 17, 2015, 03:59:38 PM
Getting "ma'amed" is nice but I got a "mommy" today. I went to get Chinese food And I had to carry the kids in.

The woman behind the counter saw them, then she realized something.... "Are they all the same age?" I said yes, triplets. She told them,"your mommy very lucky!"

Awesome :)

Quote from: ImagineKate on March 17, 2015, 09:32:01 PM
I think my boobs grew a bit. My 34B bra is feeling a bit tighter and walking down the stairs without one (in a nightgown) is a bit uncomfortable. My hair is almost past my ears now too. Woot!

Sounds like things are progressing nicely.
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Post by: StrykerXIII on March 17, 2015, 11:50:18 PM
Got some wicked new ink. Will upload pictures at request  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 18, 2015, 07:31:24 AM
Opening the newspaper (print... yes, I'm a dino) and finding that Section C's cover page is dominated by a rainbow handprint and the headline, "12 Things to Consider If Your Child Is Transgender." Even better, it's positive, educated, sensitive, and wonderful. I believe it was written by someone at PFLAG.

It did have a glaring error... there were two bullet points numbered 3, so the headline was off by one... oops. I'll let that slide.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 18, 2015, 08:22:36 AM
Quote from: StrykerXIII on March 17, 2015, 11:50:18 PM
Got some wicked new ink. Will upload pictures at request  :laugh:

Love to see them. I've only got one but I have been thinking it my be time to add....

Good luck today girl with your HR department.

Hugs
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JenniR04 on March 18, 2015, 09:01:20 AM
Quote from: jeni on March 18, 2015, 07:31:24 AM
Opening the newspaper (print... yes, I'm a dino) and finding that Section C's cover page is dominated by a rainbow handprint and the headline, "12 Things to Consider If Your Child Is Transgender." Even better, it's positive, educated, sensitive, and wonderful. I believe it was written by someone at PFLAG.

Hi Jeni ..... can you share a link to the article, it sounds like it's a good read for all.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 18, 2015, 09:11:42 AM
I'll try, I have not been able to find it online yet.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 18, 2015, 01:30:22 PM
Met my new PCP today, she seems great. I gave her my whole trans history and she took some blood and info on my medical records. She said she's focused on getting me on hrt! I meet with the Trans Health Advocate at the same facility on Friday for my hrt readiness assesment. The labs will be reviewed, the two will confer. I am very happy! My most sincere hopes are being realized! I just hope my bodily systems are still functioning well enough for eveything to move forward.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 18, 2015, 01:37:25 PM
Female victoried (formerly known as male fail) everywhere today.

At work one of my coworkers told me he noticed a lot of changes about me and asked if he could talk about them. I told him no because I don't discuss my personal life.

The indian food takeout I usually go to didn't address me as "sir" at all today and they usually do right off the bat. And they know me.

My hair, HRT plus my 2nd session of laser is working wonders.

My hair is actually as long as one of my old (cis) girlfriends and she's what I would call girl next door good looking.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Steph34 on March 18, 2015, 01:51:18 PM
My visit to the doctor today went really well. I just got my first estrogen injection and I feel so high right now! My doctor also told me that I have feminized significantly since she met me (last April) and that my face and hair looked very feminine. The parking attendant greeted me as "ma'am" twice before saying "sir," but that is way better than last time. I am a happy girl today! :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 19, 2015, 09:39:27 AM
Last night, I was reading to my daughter (5 y.o.) and she was cuddled up next to me. As if that weren't enough, she was gently "petting" my slightly stubbly arm and commenting about how nice it was, soft with the little poky hairs.

I'm still just plain ol' "dad" to my kids---we haven't had any talks yet. I was a little apprehensive about showing my bare arms, but it's nice that the reaction is "daddy is soft and fun to touch" and not "wtf is going on here?"

I mean, I knew that she wouldn't have the frame of reference to think that way, but there's nothing quite so affirming as being accepted by a child.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on March 19, 2015, 02:05:12 PM
That's awesome, Jeni.  Kids are great.  Their honesty in situations like that are so affirming.

I'm happy because I bought my first makeup today!  SQEEEE!  Sure, it's crap makeup from the dollar store, and I had to go to a dollar store in a far away town, and this was my second attempt, but still.  MAKEUP!  MY VERY OWN MAKEUP!  It'll be good to practice with at home.  Then I can get good stuff!  [emoji175] [emoji168] [emoji140] [emoji182]
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Post by: islandgirl on March 19, 2015, 02:12:55 PM
That is so sweet Jeni! I was able to buy a couple of pairs of short shorts, not to short, and two pairs of jeans, blue and black. Tops is another matter. Can't seem to find what 'fits'.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 19, 2015, 02:35:34 PM
Today my electrologists was able to to a FULL clearing of my face with no hair left. She thinks next week will only be a 15 min session and that's it. So I will then go to sessions further apart with something between 15-30 min sessions every 2 weeks or month depending on what grows back.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AndreaLinda on March 19, 2015, 02:50:04 PM
My lovely mother told me "I'll support you and love you no matter what happens, you're always going to be my little baby".
I was like, OMG she knows about my transition. btw, I haven't come out to her yet. we live in different countries :D

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Post by: ainsley on March 19, 2015, 03:03:50 PM
Just wired the last of my GRS fee to Dr. Brassard.
w00t!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 19, 2015, 03:18:21 PM
Been noticing the last week or so that my nipples are very tender. My shirt moving against them stings. So, after my shower I put on the genie bra I bought a year ago when I was still questioning and wanted to see how women's clothing made me feel. It was just perfect! No discomfort all day!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:24:32 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on March 19, 2015, 02:35:34 PM
Today my electrologists was able to to a FULL clearing of my face with no hair left. She thinks next week will only be a 15 min session and that's it. So I will then go to sessions further apart with something between 15-30 min sessions every 2 weeks or month depending on what grows back.

I am SO looking forward to that... the day when it can just be 15 minutes and DONE.

She actually called me today to talk about other stuff. I think she kinda misses me (I don't blame her, she's fun to talk to). But I'm glad I'm getting the bulk cleared with laser for now and then getting Shelly to finish it off.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:26:02 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on March 19, 2015, 03:18:21 PM
Been noticing the last week or so that my nipples are very tender. My shirt moving against them stings. So, after my shower I put on the genie bra I bought a year ago when I was still questioning and wanted to see how women's clothing made me feel. It was just perfect! No discomfort all day!

Dee,

That's what prompted me to start wearing a bra full time now (except when sleeping). When wearing a shirt it would rub and be extremely uncomfortable all day. It's not the bounce that bothers me although that is becoming something I need to watch out for.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:26:32 PM
Quote from: ainsley on March 19, 2015, 03:03:50 PM
Just wired the last of my GRS fee to Dr. Brassard.
w00t!

Congrats! The low loonie must have helped some, eh?
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:30:51 PM
A really supportive coworker and friend sent me a message asking how I've been and reassured me of her support.

I'm really glad to have this because it's always good to have allies.
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Post by: ainsley on March 19, 2015, 03:39:02 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:26:32 PM
Congrats! The low loonie must have helped some, eh?

Thanks!  Yep, the loonie to greenback rate is def in my favor right now. ;)
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 19, 2015, 03:57:02 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 03:24:32 PM
I am SO looking forward to that... the day when it can just be 15 minutes and DONE.

She actually called me today to talk about other stuff. I think she kinda misses me (I don't blame her, she's fun to talk to). But I'm glad I'm getting the bulk cleared with laser for now and then getting Shelly to finish it off.

It is nice, but since you have more dark hair than I did, you'll get more benefits of laser than I did, but laser did make a huge difference with me having 60% dark hair in the beginning. Shelly mentioned you today as well with that Android tablet playback problem. She is fun to talk to. She wants to do breakfast one morning after a session since my sessions are getting short and the person that usually has a long session after mine is changing days. Her political sense of humor is awesome.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 19, 2015, 04:31:10 PM
Sounds like a plan (if I can make it). That would be fun.
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Post by: A boy called Heather on March 19, 2015, 06:27:20 PM
Hi everyone,

I've been working really hard on my make-up for the last few weeks. Today I looked in the mirror and for the first time in 44 years I saw someone looking back who I thought was attractive. That made me very happy today.

Sadly I then cried and ruined my efforts but I was still over the moon.

Heather.

Luv & Hugs for everyone. :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch: :icon_bunch:
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Post by: Amy85 on March 19, 2015, 06:40:25 PM
After purging all my female clothes 4 months ago I have just received my order of assorted clothes to begin to rebuild my wardrobe and have begun dressing again with my girlfriend's blessing :) They even screwed up and sent me a t-shirt twice so I'm giving the extra to my girlfriend :P
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 19, 2015, 11:31:42 PM
Tonight my wife was randomly taking pictures of me and her father trying out a hookah he just bought and usually when I see a pict from my side profile, it screams male to me (but my wife says that angle was feminine enough looking to pass in the past.) Tonight she showed me the picture and I saw nothing but female in the picture. My wife thought I looked more feminine from the side than I used to and she didn't see any male any more either. That made me real happy :)
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Post by: immortal gypsy on March 20, 2015, 02:07:02 AM
At the bank today to update my signature, I overheard this conversation between the greeter and staff member about me.

"She changed her name, but she forgot to update her signature. I will just bring her over to you."

As it was my work day I was dressed in black jeans and top. If there is ever a chance of being misgendered it would of been today, this outfit I have had trouble passing in. Happy days Happy days
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Post by: rosinstraya on March 20, 2015, 03:14:07 AM
Just over a week transitioned at work. It feels so absolutely just normal, and great. Wow!  :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 20, 2015, 04:49:14 AM
I've been using fin., with a rather strong level for over a year & my hair is growing. It's not very thick however I definetly have more hair. I think I'll color my hair today to celebrate. Yea GF's.
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 20, 2015, 08:19:36 AM
Just Went to DD today to get some breakfast.

I had just come from the school and I was in male drag, big man sized coat. No makeup either.

Three people ahead of the me got "sir" and "miss" from the cashier. The cashier looked at me then gave a slow motion, "hiiiii what can I get for you?"

So I order my stuff in a gender ambiguous voice because I can't really do the female voice well properly.

Amazingly enough I was not gendered at all. Not by the cashier not by the other staff. Everyone else was strongly gendered, sir, miss, ma'am. Not me. They couldn't figure me out.

That's good for now. I male fail sometimes but I'm glad they're not seeing him.

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Post by: Mariah on March 20, 2015, 09:42:51 AM
They also sometimes do this out of politeness. Sometimes when they are not sure they do this so as to not get into any trouble. Regardless of the reason congrats.
Mariah
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 20, 2015, 08:19:36 AM
Just Went to DD today to get some breakfast.

I had just come from the school and I was in male drag, big man sized coat. No makeup either.

Three people ahead of the me got "sir" and "miss" from the cashier. The cashier looked at me then gave a slow motion, "hiiiii what can I get for you?"

So I order my stuff in a gender ambiguous voice because I can't really do the female voice well properly.

Amazingly enough I was not gendered at all. Not by the cashier not by the other staff. Everyone else was strongly gendered, sir, miss, ma'am. Not me. They couldn't figure me out.

That's good for now. I male fail sometimes but I'm glad they're not seeing him.
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Post by: Mariah on March 20, 2015, 09:44:03 AM
6 months on hormones finally. Time sure does fly by because it still seems like only yesterday that I started.
Mariah
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Post by: Mariah on March 20, 2015, 09:51:58 AM
Congrats. I wish mine would grow a little faster, but it's coming along nicely.
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 20, 2015, 04:49:14 AM
I've been using fin., with a rather strong level for over a year & my hair is growing. It's not very thick however I definetly have more hair. I think I'll color my hair today to celebrate. Yea GF's.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 20, 2015, 10:13:48 AM

Quote from: Mariah2014 on March 20, 2015, 09:42:51 AM
They also sometimes do this out of politeness. Sometimes when they are not sure they do this so as to not get into any trouble. Regardless of the reason congrats.
Mariah

To be honest I don't care if it's out of politeness or not but it would be nice to pass. I feel as though I am passing today as shopping in kohls some older ladies were striking up a conversation with me about the tops and dresses I was looking at.
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Post by: Mariah on March 20, 2015, 10:31:10 AM

Quote from: ImagineKate on March 20, 2015, 10:13:48 AM
To be honest I don't care if it's out of politeness or not but it would be nice to pass. I feel as though I am passing today as shopping in kohls some older ladies were striking up a conversation with me about the tops and dresses I was looking at.
how you feel is all that matters in the end when it comes to passing. [emoji1]


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Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on March 20, 2015, 11:45:17 AM
I finally shaved my arms for the first time today and they look and feel great :D
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Post by: Kellam on March 20, 2015, 12:09:39 PM
Had my Hormone Readiness Assessment and it couldn't have gone better. After going over the forms and telling my story. The Trans Health Advocate told me I should hear by next Friday. My labs need to be reviewed and the medical part of the team needs to be consulted. She sounded very positive though. Told me that sehe has handled a lot of cases and doesn't see any reason on her end why I won't be aproved for hrt! To begin within the next two weeks!

I keep crying with relief and joy. This is the best first day of spring. My nightmare is almost at an end...
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Post by: islandgirl on March 20, 2015, 12:58:13 PM
I can remember the my first appointment with my endo and when she said that she was giving a prescription for spiro, I almost lost my breath! Hope all progresses well for you and your journey along the path goes smoothly.
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 20, 2015, 04:54:22 PM
Quote from: AmandaMarie on March 20, 2015, 11:45:17 AM
I finally shaved my arms for the first time today and they look and feel great :D
Please do not shave those hairs, they will grow back so blunt & ugly. Hair removal cream is so much easier or you can have those hairs waxed like waxing your legs. Summer is soon for me, I love to have my legs waxed, what hair is left, so smooth, feels great.
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Post by: Wednesday on March 20, 2015, 06:41:04 PM
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Cheat day! \m/(-|-)
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 20, 2015, 06:46:03 PM
Quote from: Wednesday on March 20, 2015, 06:41:04 PM
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Cheat day! \m/(-|-)
Does that beer cost thirty pieces of silver?
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 20, 2015, 06:48:56 PM

Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 20, 2015, 04:54:22 PM
Please do not shave those hairs, they will grow back so blunt & ugly. Hair removal cream is so much easier or you can have those hairs waxed like waxing your legs. Summer is soon for me, I love to have my legs waxed, what hair is left, so smooth, feels great.

I Agree. I wax mine, big difference. I may end up doing laser on them as well as my chest which still has some.
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Post by: Wednesday on March 20, 2015, 07:14:31 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on March 20, 2015, 06:46:03 PM
Does that beer cost thirty pieces of silver?

Lol :D Barely 1.5 euro each one. But the name suits well since its 8.5% alcohol. Tastes really nice for a blonde (I mean the beer).
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 20, 2015, 07:19:40 PM
I'll have to check my local beer store, thousands of imports, unfortunately arranged by country. Where's it from?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Wednesday on March 20, 2015, 07:47:08 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on March 20, 2015, 07:19:40 PM
I'll have to check my local beer store, thousands of imports, unfortunately arranged by country. Where's it from?

Belgian. Big fan of belgian ales here, specially trappist beers.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 20, 2015, 09:22:28 PM
Quote from: Wednesday on March 20, 2015, 07:47:08 PM
Belgian. Big fan of belgian ales here, specially trappist beers.
Me, too. I'll look for it.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on March 20, 2015, 09:59:06 PM
I got a new Pentax K-3 DSLR camera to replace my old K-10 model.  Looking forward to getting some great wildlife shots in the Everglades next week.   ;D
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Post by: jeni on March 20, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
My one-year-old was being goofy this evening. She climbed up on my lap and cuddled up against me diagonally across my chest. After a minute she looked up and said, "More nurse?" and put her head back against me. She did this a few times, giggling, and then finally said, "All done nurse," and got down. I just about flipped out, it was so adorable.

Adorable enough that I forgave her for punching me in the suddenly very sensitive part of my chest when she first climbed up.... owwwwww.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 22, 2015, 06:41:07 PM
Today I met a friend who knew I was trans and knew me very well pre transition. He said that he wouldn't know that I was trans if he didn't meet me before. Another old friend i hadn't met in a while came up and had to do a double take before he realized who it was and he had to throw some test questions my way (as far as I can tell). He too was stunned. Even using the bathroom, oh my god I felt so good, I was actually REDIRECTED to the ladies today. I walked into the men's (at my gun club) one guy in there was like, "whoa lady wrong one!" Lol! I was like, "okay boss whatever you say!"

I just came out of Walmart. Even with a bit of a deep voice nobody questioned me or gave me a second look! And I'm only a few months on HRT and I have a wide chin and several male markers. Yet somehow I pass. I wasn't even carded for DayQuil which is kind of a disappointment though. I mean I do it more or less effortlessly now. Why? I strive for normal. Normal is what passes. I'm no different in most people's eyes from the 2 dozen soccer moms in the store. Nobody cares because I don't stand out!

AND ITS BLEEPING GREAT!!!!!
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 22, 2015, 10:24:54 PM
Quote from: jeni on March 20, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
My one-year-old was being goofy this evening. She climbed up on my lap and cuddled up against me diagonally across my chest. After a minute she looked up and said, "More nurse?" and put her head back against me. She did this a few times, giggling, and then finally said, "All done nurse," and got down. I just about flipped out, it was so adorable.

Adorable enough that I forgave her for punching me in the suddenly very sensitive part of my chest when she first climbed up.... owwwwww.

Aww.

I've been reading bedtime stories for my 3x4 year olds. They smile from ear to ear.

And umm yeah gotta watch my boobies. They love to lean on it and...it...hurts.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 22, 2015, 11:21:00 PM
^^^^^ Awesome!!!!
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 23, 2015, 07:34:33 AM
Spring time, such nice green grass, my rose bushes are coming to life along with so many other nice plants. I'm looking forward to planting more flowers this spring. I just love plants & gardening.
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Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 23, 2015, 11:15:01 AM
This morning I when I tried to put on a bra that was a little too big a few months ago and now it fits and I'm starting to get some nice cleavage :) I now have a new favorite bra :)
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 23, 2015, 12:54:38 PM
^^Wonderful! ^^
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Post by: Zoetrope on March 24, 2015, 03:53:18 AM
Nothing specifically TS related, but important nonetheless.

Today it's having people stand by me ... despite my having made huge and stupid mistakes.

I do not feel deserving at all, and I won't elaborate. But to be shown grace despite it all makes me feel ... loved, and not alone.
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Post by: Lady Smith on March 24, 2015, 05:06:00 AM
A good day for me.  Nothing special really, headed out to do some shopping on my old Hercules tricycle (I don't own a car as I'm not allowed to drive anymore because I have borderline narcolepsy and I fall asleep behind the wheel.  Pedal powered vehicles are just fine though)  Was delighted to discover that the local Four Square has those nice locally grown mandarins in that I like.  Chatted to one or two local folk I know, had a interesting chat with a chap on a classic old 10 speed bike who took an interest in my tricycle.  Rode back home and got inside just before it rained.  Life is good.   :)
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 24, 2015, 06:57:10 AM
Quote from: Lady Smith on March 24, 2015, 05:06:00 AM
A good day for me.  Nothing special really, headed out to do some shopping on my old Hercules tricycle (I don't own a car as I'm not allowed to drive anymore because I have borderline narcolepsy and I fall asleep behind the wheel.  Pedal powered vehicles are just fine though)  Was delighted to discover that the local Four Square has those nice locally grown mandarins in that I like.  Chatted to one or two local folk I know, had a interesting chat with a chap on a classic old 10 speed bike who took an interest in my tricycle.  Rode back home and got inside just before it rained.  Life is good.   :)
Cool, Lady Smith. Have a great day. Just love it that you ride a tricycle to go shopping. Great for you. I love bicycles however I have not ridden mine in years, maybe I should clean it up & use it some.
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Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on March 24, 2015, 12:21:53 PM
Short background: I run a league for kids, I also play in that hobby and play online.

Anyhow I let them know that I am transitioning and with-in a couple of days my Username was changed without an issue. This sets it up for me when I get my name changed for it to be without issue and quickly. :)
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 24, 2015, 02:29:42 PM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on March 23, 2015, 11:15:01 AM
This morning I when I tried to put on a bra that was a little too big a few months ago and now it fits and I'm starting to get some nice cleavage :) I now have a new favorite bra :)

Haha I love when that happens... I'm quickly outgrowing mine too and cups not band so I know it's not me getting fat or bigger or anything just the girls moving on up.
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Post by: ChiGirl on March 24, 2015, 06:26:50 PM
I had my consultation for laser today.  She said I'm an excellent candidate for laser and gave me a demo run and I handled the high levels well.  I call her in 2 days to set up my first appointment! Squee! My wife said I looked a kid in a candy store I was so excited.
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Post by: RosieD on March 24, 2015, 06:59:13 PM
I have been put forward for a promotion. It's about a year ahead of when I thought I would be ready but hey-ho I'm not going to argue. It'll put me one level down from board level which is at least moderately surprising, all things considered.

Rosie
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Post by: ImagineKate on March 24, 2015, 07:54:45 PM

Quote from: ChiGirl on March 24, 2015, 06:26:50 PM
I had my consultation for laser today.  She said I'm an excellent candidate for laser and gave me a demo run and I handled the high levels well.  I call her in 2 days to set up my first appointment! Squee! My wife said I looked a kid in a candy store I was so excited.

Congrats! I am liking laser a lot. My face is baby smooth 1-2 weeks after.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 24, 2015, 08:12:59 PM
Saw a shirt for Jill in Hot Topic. It said, "let's cuddle and listen to METAL!" Tempted to get one for myself.
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Post by: ana1111 on March 24, 2015, 09:26:13 PM
my boyfriend got a giant ice cube out of the freezing and started chasing me and put it up my shirt making me all cold...so like five minutes later he asks me to get him something and I got it (forget what it was) and I took the ice cube back out of the freezer and surprised him when he wasn't looking by putting it on him...good times ;D
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Post by: jeni on March 24, 2015, 11:51:08 PM
Came out to an old friend today. It could not have gone better, except that I once again convinced him I was going to tell him I was dying. I need to work on my delivery.
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Post by: antonia on March 25, 2015, 08:14:57 AM
In the summer there is a magical minute that happens when the sun shines through the front window of my apartment, all the way through the living room, hallway, bedroom and on me where I'm lying in bed, it's the best way to wake up :D

Today it happened for the first time this year.
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Post by: Kellam on March 25, 2015, 08:56:41 AM
Woke up early and started cleaning the house. My stint as housesitter will be done at noon. Efficiency makes me feel good, as dose finishing a job done well. But the thing that's making me happy is that in just amfew hours my Mom will be up from New Jersey to pick me up. I can't wait to see her and get to talk!
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Post by: Sapphire87 on March 25, 2015, 09:01:09 AM
Got my belly button pierced to celebrate 1 year HRT and full time!
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Post by: jeni on March 25, 2015, 06:52:26 PM
Cleared all but my chin / lower lip at E3k today. It was not as bad as I worried it might be... tho maybe I'll feel differently tomorrow when the swelling sets in.

Going back tomorrow for the chin. Woo!
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Post by: Zoetrope on March 25, 2015, 08:32:07 PM
Well, I've had an absolutely rotten week to be quite honest.

The upside came from an older gentleman, a lifelong rockabilly, who has worked at the supermarket I frequent for years. He had met and spoken with the 'old me' on several occasions.

So, a few days ago he stopped me and said:

''With all due respect - I have watched your metamorphosis, and when you came in just now and flicked your hair, my thoughts were not polite!''

I said:

''I am really flattered, thank you. Especially since I like older men!'', and I smiled and touched him on the elbow.

I must have made his week. A huge smile covered his face, and he said:

''Aint that the truth, baby, aint that the truth!''

LOL!

<3
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Post by: Alana_Jane on March 26, 2015, 12:20:35 AM
I bet you did make his week Sarah, because it sounds like his comment turned yours around.

I've been floating since this last weekend.  I meet Eva Marie for a late lunch and some outlet mall action, then headed over to Jill's house for a Pizza party.  Jessie Ann was there as well.  Great wine, food, conversation, and company (not necessarily in the order of goodness) was enjoyed until late.  My long drive had me laying over at a motel.  With an early start I just made it to church, wearing the same dress I had on the day before (a Black/White Calvin Kline sleeveless sheath, black cardi, and nude hose).  I was warmly received wearing a dress for the first time, and went home with some flowers.  Much love to all you ladies,

-Alana
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Post by: Zoetrope on March 26, 2015, 06:58:18 AM
I'm reluctant to start a thread about it ... but something amazing has just happened.

My week has been so distressing because I may well be about to lose my treasured job. As you can appreciate this is potentially a big, big problem.
---

I have just come home from spending the evening with my parents. It's the first time I've seen them since I hit them with the bombshell that I was about to transition ... a year ago.

I honestly thought they didn't want to know me anymore.

But all of a sudden - they have totally accepted me. They even make a big effort to call me Sarah.

Mum even said that I looked really nice.

Pinch me, am I dreaming?

I expect a tsunami of emotion will land on my shore soon ...

x
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Post by: Dee Marshall on March 26, 2015, 09:34:26 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on March 26, 2015, 06:58:18 AM
I'm reluctant to start a thread about it ... but something amazing has just happened.

My week has been so distressing because I may well be about to lose my treasured job. As you can appreciate this is potentially a big, big problem.
---

I have just come home from spending the evening with my parents. It's the first time I've seen them since I hit them with the bombshell that I was about to transition ... a year ago.

I honestly thought they didn't want to know me anymore.

But all of a sudden - they have totally accepted me. They even make a big effort to call me Sarah.

Mum even said that I looked really nice.

Pinch me, am I dreaming?

I expect a tsunami of emotion will land on my shore soon ...

x
Take it while you can get it, Sarah. Even crumbs are better than nothing, believe me, I know.
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Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on March 26, 2015, 07:10:26 PM
Picked up my 1st couple of dresses. So excited
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Post by: Lady Smith on March 26, 2015, 07:31:41 PM
Quote from: Sapphire87 on March 25, 2015, 09:01:09 AM
Got my belly button pierced to celebrate 1 year HRT and full time!

Congratulations!  A belly button piercing (shudder), I was enough of a cowardy custard when I had my ears pieced.

A good day for me.  My daughter has picked up her guitar and is playing again and writing songs.  After her having been ill so long with PTSD it's wonderful to see (and hear!).
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Post by: CrysC on March 27, 2015, 12:30:31 AM
I ordered some new clothes
Set up a trip with my wife for our anniversary
was told by said wife that while it was hard for her for a while, she loves me the person vs me the man.  Not sure if I can get to living full time but it's progress.

and oh yes, I fit now in a size 8.   :D
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Post by: FrancisAnn on March 27, 2015, 05:42:59 AM
Quote from: CrysC on March 27, 2015, 12:30:31 AM
I ordered some new clothes
Set up a trip with my wife for our anniversary
was told by said wife that while it was hard for her for a while, she loves me the person vs me the man.  Not sure if I can get to living full time but it's progress.

and oh yes, I fit now in a size 8.   :D
A size 8, you lucky girl. Only in my dreams. Good luck with your wife as maybe you change. I have several women friends that are excited about me physically becomming their sister or girl friend. I know one woman is lesbian & she is very attracted to me as a woman. However I'm only sexually attracted to men so it's all kind of complicated.  Good luck to us all with having a complete life.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 27, 2015, 07:32:44 AM
I am in tears right now. My mom just asked if she could go to Seoul with me for my VFS with Yeson. She wants to be there and support me on my journey. Plus she said it might be kinda fun.

I never imagined she'd support me to this level. I am truly overwhelmed with joy.
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Post by: Lady Smith on March 27, 2015, 07:43:25 AM
That is wonderful Kate.  I know there were stages of my journey that I couldn't have got through without my Mum's support and her just plain being there for me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 27, 2015, 02:53:16 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 27, 2015, 07:32:44 AM
I am in tears right now. My mom just asked if she could go to Seoul with me for my VFS with Yeson. She wants to be there and support me on my journey. Plus she said it might be kinda fun.

I never imagined she'd support me to this level. I am truly overwhelmed with joy.

WONDERFUL!!!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 27, 2015, 02:58:54 PM
In FLA for a conference with my girlfriend.  Since I am just along for the ride I got to go to a store today and get a bikini and some pink shorts and some pink t-shirts.   ;D

<--------Pic of me in my top with my shorts.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 27, 2015, 03:20:41 PM


Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 27, 2015, 02:58:54 PM
...Pic of me in my top with my shorts.

Stop trying to be cute! (You're succeeding much too well.)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 27, 2015, 03:24:49 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 27, 2015, 02:58:54 PM
In FLA for a conference with my girlfriend.  Since I am just along for the ride I got to go to a store today and get a bikini and some pink shorts and some pink t-shirts.   ;D

<--------Pic of me in my top with my shorts.

Wow nice! I am envious... I need bikini weather!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 27, 2015, 11:32:56 PM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 27, 2015, 07:32:44 AM
I am in tears right now. My mom just asked if she could go to Seoul with me for my VFS with Yeson. She wants to be there and support me on my journey. Plus she said it might be kinda fun.

I never imagined she'd support me to this level. I am truly overwhelmed with joy.

That is really awesome news :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on March 27, 2015, 11:55:47 PM
Well, I am happy about this of course, but I am far more perplexed ... :~o

I just went to buy new sneakers as my old pair had bitten the dust.

I've always been a size 10. But today, all the size 10's were like lifeboats.

My feet have shrunk two full sizes, down to an 8.

I have been putting liners in my work heels, I had thought they were stretched. Turns out it wasn't that at all ...

What in the world?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on March 28, 2015, 12:04:37 AM
Oh, another thing.

Receiving the news that X-Files is returning to telly, and discovering that David Duchovny is *even hotter* now he's 15-20 years older.

I watched a recent interview with him. He was being asked questions by a young dude with a hipster haircut.

Duchovny was sitting there, looking as handsome as can be, with his legs about a kilometre apart.

What a stud. I just want to jump right into his lap.

Oh my goodness gracious me ... :~o
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 28, 2015, 06:49:25 AM
It's a beautiful day, life is good. I shared some of my sexual experiences with men to my best woman girl friend. They were pretty graphic & some went back to early high school. However she loves me as I am & understands my needs. I've been with more men than she ever has it seems. She has been married to the same man for 30 years & now in her mid 50's. That made me happy to tell her all about myself. Now I need a new man to enjoy sometime soon.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on March 28, 2015, 10:21:40 AM
Quote from: ImagineKate on March 27, 2015, 07:32:44 AM
I am in tears right now. My mom just asked if she could go to Seoul with me for my VFS with Yeson. She wants to be there and support me on my journey. Plus she said it might be kinda fun.

I never imagined she'd support me to this level. I am truly overwhelmed with joy.

That's great news Kate.  I'm really happy that your mom is supporting you, and from your other posts you're progressing very well. 

Quote from: Jessie Ann on March 27, 2015, 02:58:54 PM
In FLA for a conference with my girlfriend.  Since I am just along for the ride I got to go to a store today and get a bikini and some pink shorts and some pink t-shirts.   ;D

<--------Pic of me in my top with my shorts.

LOL, and you've changed your profile picture.  I know that we were all worried about you going on this trip.  I'm happy that it's worked out for you.  How are you recovering from your marathon electrolysis session?


Quote from: SarahBoo on March 27, 2015, 11:55:47 PM
Well, I am happy about this of course, but I am far more perplexed ... :~o

I just went to buy new sneakers as my old pair had bitten the dust.

I've always been a size 10. But today, all the size 10's were like lifeboats.

My feet have shrunk two full sizes, down to an 8.

I have been putting liners in my work heels, I had thought they were stretched. Turns out it wasn't that at all ...

What in the world?

Yea!  New shoes (happy dance) 

I had my 9th and 10th hour of electrolysis yesterday, then afterwards went to see Eka at Dion Beauty, for some color and a restyle.  I really like what we came up with:

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-_RzsVNn-3Ao/VRa2_GaW4EI/AAAAAAAAAok/u-cO8hK_By8/w348-h522-no/IMAG0698.jpg)

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-pBrMnZqAoT8/VRa3JNftjSI/AAAAAAAAApE/5zNfwVkFcRw/w348-h522-no/IMAG0702.jpg)

(https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-zeeP1oN7vbI/VRa3LPL3ZZI/AAAAAAAAApM/d56A9qKS11o/w348-h522-no/IMAG0704.jpg)

I got blond highlights to cover my grey, and removed the Fem-mullet, it's a much more stylish shape to it.  Later went to the LA-LGBT center for a trans-group meeting, hung out afterward.  I love being a lady. 
Hugs,

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 28, 2015, 12:25:54 PM
Quote from: Alana_Jane on March 28, 2015, 10:21:40 AM

LOL, and you've changed your profile picture.  I know that we were all worried about you going on this trip.  I'm happy that it's worked out for you.  How are you recovering from your marathon electrolysis session?

It has been a wonderful trip. My girlfriend was able to tell some of our friends about my transition and they were very wonderful about it. She now has some people to talk to so that she is not having to feel so alone.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 28, 2015, 12:36:22 PM
Agggggh so the second, third, forth and fifth part of my post got eaten by the cyber space moths.

I am still a little sore from the session but love the results. They cleared most of the black hairs so my 5:00 shadow is mostly grey/white and is harder to see. I think the growth speed may be slowing down some.

I temporarily took down my other picture so I could replace it with one where I had a little makeup on. I didn't have time between shopping and our dinner to put any on. I'm beginning to feel naked without mascara.

Your new style looks good. I'm envious of you. I still have another month to go until I'm through with a family function and can get my brows and hair done. I did cut my hair to make some bangs though.

I'm hoping that we can all get together again because it was such a fun night.

Hugs back to you.....

Jessie   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on March 29, 2015, 09:44:16 AM
Jess, another benefit is that as you get the white/grey hairs out, your skin also looks better. 

While attending a locally our kingdom crown tournament, I started talking to a couple I've known for years.  After about 10 minutes of talking to them, he finally realized who I was...  I also got lots of compliments on my red/gold dress. 

Today, I'm wearing a nice spring colored sheath dress to church.  I really love being a girly-girl

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on March 29, 2015, 09:59:28 AM
Finally! Today I am going in for my next full body waxing! Body hair is one of the things that causes me the greatest amount of dysphoria. Always feels so good afterwards. I only wish the initial smoothness would last a little longer.

I will need to find new way to deal with body hair over the next 6 months as I am going back to my 'summer' home this week. I may look into laser and electrolysis

.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 29, 2015, 11:31:01 AM
I have been aproved for hrt! I just need to make an appointment to get my prescriptions!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 29, 2015, 11:57:41 AM
Quote from: Kellam on March 29, 2015, 11:31:01 AM
I have been aproved for hrt! I just need to make an appointment to get my prescriptions!

Congrats!!!!  Just sit back and enjoy the show.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: monica93304 on March 30, 2015, 02:49:38 AM
What makes me happy (usually every time I go out) is that I'm told by people I know, that I always look on point.

I take pride in always looking proper.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Shawn Sunshine on March 30, 2015, 10:57:36 AM
 :icon_builder:  What made me happy today was , Last night I found some awesome things left behind at the beach, people are always litering the beach here and I decided to start picking up stuff, in addition to taking what is some good stuff. The law states that if you leave behind anything for more than 15 minutes unnatended, it legally no longer belongs to you. I asked a friend and a cop. Good to know :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cheska on March 30, 2015, 02:31:43 PM
I had my first GIC appointment this afternoon. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 30, 2015, 03:17:25 PM
I heard back from my doctors office today that the insurance company has approved my nose surgery and so I am set to go under the knife on Friday.  Since I will already be under a general anesthesia I am also getting a trachea shave done.  Just one more little piece of the puzzle to get done.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: mac1 on March 30, 2015, 03:24:54 PM
Quote from: Alana_Jane on March 29, 2015, 09:44:16 AM
Jess, another benefit is that as you get the white/grey hairs out, your skin also looks better. 

While attending a locally our kingdom crown tournament, I started talking to a couple I've known for years.  After about 10 minutes of talking to them, he finally realized who I was...  I also got lots of compliments on my red/gold dress. 

Today, I'm wearing a nice spring colored sheath dress to church.  I really love being a girly-girl

-Alana

I really envy you girls.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Beth Andrea on March 30, 2015, 03:30:25 PM
I saw a woman I haven't seen in months...whenever we've met over the past couple years she's talked to me about my transition and lgbt stuff in general.

About a year ago, she basically came out to me but said she had been too scared to act on it...but having talked to me and seeing my "happiness and courage" in openly transitioning, she decided to get out and meet other women to see if she really was a lesbian...

Well, today she said she's now in a relationship and is thinking about moving in with her new partner! And she thanked me for being so cheerful and supportive with her questions and new direction.

That got me all giddy inside!

:)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 30, 2015, 03:38:01 PM

Quote from: Beth Andrea on March 30, 2015, 03:30:25 PM
I saw a woman I haven't seen in months...whenever we've met over the past couple years she's talked to me about my transition and lgbt stuff in general.

About a year ago, she basically came out to me but said she had been too scared to act on it...but having talked to me and seeing my "happiness and courage" in openly transitioning, she decided to get out and meet other women to see if she really was a lesbian...

Well, today she said she's now in a relationship and is thinking about moving in with her new partner! And she thanked me for being so cheerful and supportive with her questions and new direction.

That got me all giddy inside!

:)

Passing the torch is always good!
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 30, 2015, 03:39:09 PM
Booked mom's flight to Seoul today. Used miles and just had to pay the taxes.

Oh and she asked for my size said she wants to buy me some stuff. :)

(I told her don't make good on her promise  she made when I was a kid to buy me a bra. I have plenty.)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on March 30, 2015, 06:17:15 PM
Chicken satay, rice cooked in coconut water with peanuts, scallions and pineapple, steamed snow peas and dumplings.... What? This is the "what made you happy" thread not the "what are you having for dinner" thread? Oh... Um... Same answer!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on March 30, 2015, 09:08:27 PM
First day back at work after full facial electrolysis last week. Thankfully, the swelling is almost completely gone and there's no redness to speak of, so no uncomfortable questions came up at all! My chin, which they did on the second day, is still fairly swollen and painful to touch, but it is not visibly so unless you look closely and notice that it's slightly shiny from the skin being taut.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on March 30, 2015, 09:49:14 PM
Made my appointment to obtain my hrt prescription for tomorrow, enjoying my last day under the tyranny of testosterone. Less than 24 hours left... If it wasn't for the company of my Mom I don't know what state I would be in. Just one night's sleep and a very long (5 hour) car ride back to Boston left to go. I'm tense, tearfull and happy!

It still doesn't feel real, I almost can't believe it is true...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on March 30, 2015, 10:02:17 PM
Quote from: Kellam on March 30, 2015, 09:49:14 PM
Made my appointment to obtain my hrt prescription for tomorrow, enjoying my last day under the tyranny of testosterone. Less than 24 hours left... If it wasn't for the company of my Mom I don't know what state I would be in. Just one night's sleep and a very long (5 hour) car ride back to Boston left to go. I'm tense, tearfull and happy!

It still doesn't feel real, I almost can't believe it is true...

The tyranny of T! Haha I love it.

Good luck!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on March 31, 2015, 12:11:58 AM
I was walking down the sidewalk in town today headed for my favorite used bookstore.  A woman was sitting on a sidewalk bench and her three little kids were running around like crazy as kids do, and one headed in a collision coarse with me. A quick child avoidance maneuver prevented a head on.  Then, she said "HEY, WATCH OUT FOR THE LADY".  I smiled at her as I walked by and it made my day  ;D.   Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on March 31, 2015, 04:31:33 PM
Colored my hair today to a nice medium brown & it looks very nice. Perfect rainy spring day. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ally_B on March 31, 2015, 05:23:18 PM
Really happy w/ how I'm looking. Got my estradiol implant yesterday, hair freshly dyed a few days before that.... Wore my favourite skirt in public for the first time a few days back.... Yes, things are certainly moving in the right direction. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on March 31, 2015, 05:24:13 PM
Quote from: Newgirl Dani on March 31, 2015, 12:11:58 AM
I was walking down the sidewalk in town today headed for my favorite used bookstore.  A woman was sitting on a sidewalk bench and her three little kids were running around like crazy as kids do, and one headed in a collision coarse with me. A quick child avoidance maneuver prevented a head on.  Then, she said "HEY, WATCH OUT FOR THE LADY".  I smiled at her as I walked by and it made my day  ;D.   Dani

That must've made you feel really good Dani.   ;D

I woke up feeling much better today after having a bad time with CFS/ME symptoms for the past couple of days.  The sun is shining and I'm feeling much more positive about everything :)
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Post by: nikkit72 on March 31, 2015, 05:48:43 PM
Found out today that I am not the only human powered vehicle builder on Susans  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on March 31, 2015, 05:55:00 PM
Quote from: nikkit72 on March 31, 2015, 05:48:43 PM
Found out today that I am not the only human powered vehicle builder on Susans  ;D

I suppose our interest in HPV's isn't exactly that common nikkit and perhaps less so among trans-folk.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: nikkit72 on March 31, 2015, 06:02:55 PM
Quote from: Lady Smith on March 31, 2015, 05:55:00 PM
I suppose our interest in HPV's isn't exactly that common nikkit and perhaps less so among trans-folk.  :)

Time to start a revolution then....(that may be regarded as a pun)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on March 31, 2015, 06:09:47 PM
Quote from: nikkit72 on March 31, 2015, 06:02:55 PM
Time to start a revolution then....(that may be regarded as a pun)

I'm all for that nikkit :)  One of the reasons why I work at this and am very visible in my community as a pedal pusher is that I want to promote bikes & etc as a sensible local use vehicle instead of just reaching for the car keys out of habit.  I no longer own a car and I'm glad the lumpy thing is gone from my driveway.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sydney_NYC on March 31, 2015, 10:44:10 PM
Since transitioning, I've only spent about 2 days with my Mother in Florida and that was just after going full time and she wasn't feeling very well recovering for hip surgery. Even though my mother has always been super supportive, she had been worried about my safety on being clocked because I'm 6'7", even though I haven't been mis-gendered since just before first went full time in March 2014.

I finally got to spend some time with her that last 2 days. She picked me up from the airport late and we went to grab a bite to eat. We were seated and my mother and I ordered and of course I was being correctly gendered by everyone. My mother was pleasantly surprised by this and was noticing my mannerisms. My mother then said to me how pleasantly surprised how feminine my mannerism are and they she had been worried that I was going to come across as a flamboyant gay boy instead of as a woman. She said she was impressed and proud of me being myself and can see why I haven't had any issues. I told her I am just now simply bring myself. She told me that she loved me and so glad to have me as her daughter.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on April 01, 2015, 12:13:51 AM
I just fought off redundancy again. Second time in two years.

Feeling pretty damn proud of myself. It is because of my bullet-proof attitude, and standard of work that I have been kept.

Nonetheless I'm emotinally exhaused from it all. I'm grateful for the 4-day Easter break!

I do have reservations about remaining in the corporate world. It's just too cut-throat. People are made redundant - often.

But since I'm staying (for 2015 at least) ... I can pursue my dream of moving into my own apartment. It's long overdue!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: femmebutt on April 01, 2015, 12:26:57 AM
I stood under the moonlight watching a thin band of clouds pass by in the quiet stillness, at the end of a perfect, beautiful day of doing
absolutely

nothing!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on April 01, 2015, 03:53:21 AM
Found out today that one of the people made redundant in my team has got a 6 month extension.
2 others have been rehired leaving only one and she wants to go.
I was really happy for her as she is sweet.

Managed to get some work done in a day that most thought would take a week.
They are all very happy with the outcome. Just what they wanted. :)
Worked on it most of the night but don't tell them.

J
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on April 01, 2015, 09:41:13 AM
Month 4 of HRT in the books. I look back and I have changed a good bit. For the better of course.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on April 01, 2015, 09:43:22 AM
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on March 31, 2015, 10:44:10 PM
Since transitioning, I've only spent about 2 days with my Mother in Florida and that was just after going full time and she wasn't feeling very well recovering for hip surgery. Even though my mother has always been super supportive, she had been worried about my safety on being clocked because I'm 6'7", even though I haven't been mis-gendered since just before first went full time in March 2014.

I finally got to spend some time with her that last 2 days. She picked me up from the airport late and we went to grab a bite to eat. We were seated and my mother and I ordered and of course I was being correctly gendered by everyone. My mother was pleasantly surprised by this and was noticing my mannerisms. My mother then said to me how pleasantly surprised how feminine my mannerism are and they she had been worried that I was going to come across as a flamboyant gay boy instead of as a woman. She said she was impressed and proud of me being myself and can see why I haven't had any issues. I told her I am just now simply bring myself. She told me that she loved me and so glad to have me as her daughter.

I'm not surprised. You look pretty femme to me, in your manner and the way you look in general.

I am nervous about meeting my mom, she is going to Seoul with me and that will be the first time she met me since I started transition.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 01, 2015, 09:48:31 AM
My backslide away from my weight target has stopped, it seems. Things were going well, then I had a road trip that led to lots of unhealthy food and very little exercise...

Also 3 days back on my daily stationary bike sessions. There is perhaps a connection between this and the first part. :-)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Newgirl Dani on April 01, 2015, 10:17:14 AM
Quote from: femmebutt on April 01, 2015, 12:26:57 AM
I stood under the moonlight watching a thin band of clouds pass by in the quiet stillness, at the end of a perfect, beautiful day of doing
absolutely

nothing!

So very cool, we have witness to a multitude of treasures if we just stop to see.  Thanks,   Dani
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: bluebirdx88 on April 01, 2015, 10:37:57 AM
Sometimes things come in threes, and today was one of those days :D

1. I went to the doctor in order to get prescriptions filled, it's kinda a monthly chore.... Aaaaaaand.... I asked to get myself weighted....

58 KILOS (127lbs) , that's a HUGE improvement over my previous 48kg just about two months ago.... (105lbs) .... Almost 10k in two months.... Just hope I don't go up from here now, haha.... This is really a huge relief as I won't get people bullying me about being too thin and peer-pressure to become fat...

2. I usually get annoyed by 'compliments' going down the street, especially from construction workers as they can be quite.. Brute...  I'm a person and am tired of being constantly judged for my body.... Today however I had 7 of them at once, coming back from the docs yell "Guapaaaaaa!" (Google says it's 'Lovely') as I walked down.... The surreality of it all made me smile for quite a while.

3. Got my hair cut.... Honestly I don't like it so much as it is now... But people seem to like it more, and I guess that makes me happy :3 (Gaw, I'm far too easy to influence...)


Before:
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs15.postimg.org%2F4rra0g6hj%2F20150329_003840.jpg&hash=d0080a7f7ab82f4916a0bdbb081d844efaf9b995) (http://postimg.org/image/4rra0g6hj/)

Now:
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs8.postimg.org%2Fke02ptlhd%2F111.jpg&hash=90653267c5064e211a70ebeb4da0d7253f90b3e7) (http://postimg.org/image/ke02ptlhd/)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs8.postimg.org%2Fweliqjsw1%2F444.jpg&hash=6f13a17bba995c2f215e8f8f7581d99fe4e8e680) (http://postimg.org/image/weliqjsw1/)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: JenniR04 on April 01, 2015, 11:33:19 AM
Reading a pretty awesome book right now by Max Lucado entitled "you'll get through this" - hope and help for your turbulent times. It's a Christian based book on the bible and it's teachings for people on how to get thru difficult and desperate times on in ones life.

As some may know, I recently lost my job about two weeks ago, and without it being said, it was because my boss discriminated against me based on my being transgender. In right to work states, the employer really doesn't need much of a reason to dismiss an employee and can cite many a varied reasons if they want, which is what he did. It was very difficult and hard on me, and brough me very close to ending it all. Five months ago I fully came out to my immediate family (wife and 2 daughters) after many years of playing the back-n-forth game of "I can stop, but knowing it will never go away". They didn't accept the news well, and ever since has been plagued with almost utter silence and abusive language when anything is communicated. Also to add to the despair, we are divorcing in the coming months.

So, all that made for a pretty dark period for a few days and is still touchy even weeks later. My mom and my therapist have been instrumental in seeing me thru this and doing nothing extreme.

I know sometimes biblical readings and the Christian way of thinking don't inter-mix well with being transgender, but this book is so much more, and it's really helped. I also want to thank those here at Susan's for their support and shared thoughts during my rou times.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: DrummerGirl on April 01, 2015, 01:52:42 PM
I called up the electric company to cancel service and had this conversation:

ec rep: "Thank you for calling <the electric company>, how may I help you today?"
me: "Hi! I'd like to cancel my service."
rep: "Certainly ma'am!  I have your account information here. What is the name on the account?"
me: "<male name>"
rep: "That's the name I have.  Can you put <male name> on the phone?"
me: "I'm <male name>."
rep: "Ummmmm...."
me: "I'm transgender."
rep: "Ummmmm...."
me: (switching to male voice) "I'm transgender"
rep: "Okay, now you sound like a girl trying to be a guy.  I'm not sure I can do this."
me: (panicking and jumping for joy at the same time) "Is there anything you can do to verify my identity?"
rep: "Let me transfer you to my supervisor..."

(a simialar conversation ensues with the supervisor)
At the end of the conversation:

supervisor: "Ma'am I not so sure about this.  Against my better judgement, I'll allow you to cancel this account.  I'm just afraid you might be an ex trying to cancel <male name>'s account or something like that."


I guess I don't have to worry about my voice anymore. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 02, 2015, 03:11:19 AM
I've started back wearing a little perfume each day. That is so nice & people seem to enjoy the smell & are nicer to me. In my younger years I always wore perfume however I guess I just got out of the habit. It is just so nice to be a woman & enjoy the little things about life.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on April 02, 2015, 03:41:59 AM
18 months today!!!
Got some more happy pills today.
Was voted the teams MVP for the second month running.
Did the impossible yesterday.

Now a long weekend after working many weekends the past 2 months.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on April 02, 2015, 04:55:12 AM
Congratulations Jenny :)  Enjoy your long weekend.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 02, 2015, 11:41:13 AM
My electrolysis lady had to close her office for over a month however she is now reopened & my next visit is for next week. I had been seeing her for over a year & my face was looking very nice & smooth. I tried another lady in the meanwhile however she was just so rough, too rough. I'm a happy girl today. 
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on April 02, 2015, 11:47:12 AM
It's wonderful news to hear that your able to get back to your regular electrolysis lady again. It's amazing how we get used to even gain a report with the person doing our hair removal be it laser or electro. Hugs
Mariah
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 02, 2015, 11:41:13 AM
My electrolysis lady had to close her office for over a month however she is now reopened & my next visit is for next week. I had been seeing her for over a year & my face was looking very nice & smooth. I tried another lady in the meanwhile however she was just so rough, too rough. I'm a happy girl today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 02, 2015, 05:17:47 PM
Mariah, Thank you. We are very close girls friends. We both wear the same size shoes & she gave me a nice pair of her boots for Christmas also we are the same height & dress size. We both love men & love having sex with men so we share lots of hot stories, oh me such dirty girl talk. And she does a beautiful job on my face........so I'm a very happy girl today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on April 02, 2015, 07:42:17 PM
Quote from: JenniR04 on April 01, 2015, 11:33:19 AM
Reading a pretty awesome book right now by Max Lucado entitled "you'll get through this" - hope and help for your turbulent times. It's a Christian based book on the bible and it's teachings for people on how to get thru difficult and desperate times on in ones life.

As some may know, I recently lost my job about two weeks ago, and without it being said, it was because my boss discriminated against me based on my being transgender. In right to work states, the employer really doesn't need much of a reason to dismiss an employee and can cite many a varied reasons if they want, which is what he did. It was very difficult and hard on me, and brough me very close to ending it all. Five months ago I fully came out to my immediate family (wife and 2 daughters) after many years of playing the back-n-forth game of "I can stop, but knowing it will never go away". They didn't accept the news well, and ever since has been plagued with almost utter silence and abusive language when anything is communicated. Also to add to the despair, we are divorcing in the coming months.

So, all that made for a pretty dark period for a few days and is still touchy even weeks later. My mom and my therapist have been instrumental in seeing me thru this and doing nothing extreme.

I know sometimes biblical readings and the Christian way of thinking don't inter-mix well with being transgender, but this book is so much more, and it's really helped. I also want to thank those here at Susan's for their support and shared thoughts during my rou times.

Hang in there pretty lady.  Being a Christian and being trans are not mutually exclusive.  My journey has brought me closer to my own faith.  I think it's more like being a Pharisaical christian (should be an oxymoron) are the ones who wrongfully judge us.   

Sorry to hear you're facing a difficult employment situation.  What's you line of work?

Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 02, 2015, 08:28:28 PM
Well, I'm happy about the same thing I've been happy about the last few posts. Came out to a couple more very close old friends, this time on IM rather than in person. Both were unbelievably awesome about it. I'm floating about four inches off the ground right now, glowing, thinking about how astoundingly fortunate I am. I'm now out to over a dozen friends and family, and have yet to have even a slightly a bad reaction.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Raelynn on April 02, 2015, 10:10:02 PM
Today... TOTALLY happy with my new drug insurance.  Instead of my Depo (and needles) costing me $134 each time I fill it, I am now getting it for $28!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 02, 2015, 10:45:07 PM
After all the usual chores of laundry, dusting and making dinner I am now getting a lesson in laying out a dress pattern from my Mom.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 02, 2015, 11:45:52 PM
Yesterday I told some people from another office about my status and one of them sent me a gift card for Sephora and told me to get some of the good stuff.   ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on April 03, 2015, 12:11:03 AM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 02, 2015, 11:45:52 PM
Yesterday I told some people from another office about my status and one of them sent me a gift card for Sephora and told me to get some of the good stuff.   ;D

Oh, I had a nice lipstick from Sephora in Ballerina Pink...  You'll love having the good stuff, I've got a little MAC, my lipstick from Sephora, and some spot foundation from Este Lauder for my eyes.  While you're at it go for one of the make-overs, and watch how it's done, then buy-buy-buy what ever you need. 

What made me happy was technically last night, but I didn't get home until 1:30am this morning.  I saw my new therapist, who I semi-know through the sports car club, we worked a corner at a club race maybe 5 years ago.  At the end of our session, she told me how natural I look, and that when we booked the session, she thought I'd need coaching on femininity.  Well after the session, she welcomed me to sisterhood, and that she couldn't tell I ever was male: even after having meet me in casual circles before.  She told me I just look like a tall woman, which at 6'1" I really am.  Wow, can't wait to have Sprio and E help me along the way. 

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on April 03, 2015, 01:39:53 AM
Quote from: Kellam on April 02, 2015, 10:45:07 PM
After all the usual chores of laundry, dusting and making dinner I am now getting a lesson in laying out a dress pattern from my Mom.

My Mum taught me about that too; - Mum was a seamstress by trade so she knew all the tricks of the trade.  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 03, 2015, 07:55:05 AM
There is a lot of satisaction from making a dress from scratch. I loved my sewing room years ago & I made some nice pretty dresses. However GF's thrift stores like Goodwill are just loaded with nice clothes & dresses, beautiful things sometimes so cheap, barely ever worn. And to be honest you can buy things there much cheaper than buying materials, zippers, patterns, threads, sewing machines.... It's almost better for all of us to recycle what has already been made. So many women buy clothes that do not fit later after losing or gaining weight & clean out their closets.  Go shopping GF's.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on April 03, 2015, 07:57:13 AM
Getting more excited about VFS surgery with dr Kim this summer.

Home with the kids today (good Friday).

Looked in the mirror and did not see a trace of him at all. :)

My face is so smooth and hairless. Laser is working. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 03, 2015, 08:12:16 AM
Quote from: Lady Smith on April 03, 2015, 01:39:53 AM
My Mum taught me about that too; - Mum was a seamstress by trade so she knew all the tricks of the trade.  :)
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 03, 2015, 07:55:05 AM
There is a lot of satisaction from making a dress from scratch. I loved my sewing room years ago & I made some nice pretty dresses. However GF's thrift stores like Goodwill are just loaded with nice clothes & dresses, beautiful things sometimes so cheap, barely ever worn. And to be honest you can buy things there much cheaper than buying materials, zippers, patterns, threads, sewing machines.... It's almost better for all of us to recycle what has already been made. So many women buy clothes that do not fit later after losing or gaining weight & clean out their closets.  Go shopping GF's.

My Mom told me that she would never have asked to show me this skill when she thought of me as male. She had wanted to make this particular dress for years. When I came out she gathered the materials for my visit. She hasn't sewn in years. It is part of her welcoming me into the sisterhood.

I will probably not use the skill much myself. It is reminding me of cabinet making, too much math and precision, not really my bag. I definitely shop at thrift stores. I'm a penny pincher for one thing. Also, reducing my support for the companies that use virtual slave labour to make a profit on clothing manufacture is important to me.

It is just so touching to be able to bond with my Mom like this, I never thought I would get to have this.
Title: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on April 03, 2015, 08:16:25 AM
In an odd way this makes me happy yet disgusted at how the world is so sexist.

I'm in Walmart, in the auto care section. I'm a car girl geek to the max, really. I know my way around gas and Diesel engines, small or large. I'm looking to get a couple cans of seafoam.

Anyway for the first time ever, someone (an employee) in the auto section asked me if I needed help. Wal mart employees have never asked me if I needed help, ever.

Maybe I'm reading it wrong but the only thing different is that I'm presenting female.

No weird looks nothing....
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emjay on April 03, 2015, 04:45:00 PM
Quote from: DrummerGirl on April 01, 2015, 01:52:42 PM
I called up the electric company to cancel service and had this conversation:

ec rep: "Thank you for calling <the electric company>, how may I help you today?"
me: "Hi! I'd like to cancel my service."
rep: "Certainly ma'am!  I have your account information here. What is the name on the account?"
me: "<male name>"
rep: "That's the name I have.  Can you put <male name> on the phone?"
me: "I'm <male name>."
rep: "Ummmmm...."
me: "I'm transgender."
rep: "Ummmmm...."
me: (switching to male voice) "I'm transgender"
rep: "Okay, now you sound like a girl trying to be a guy.  I'm not sure I can do this."
me: (panicking and jumping for joy at the same time) "Is there anything you can do to verify my identity?"
rep: "Let me transfer you to my supervisor..."

(a simialar conversation ensues with the supervisor)
At the end of the conversation:

supervisor: "Ma'am I not so sure about this.  Against my better judgement, I'll allow you to cancel this account.  I'm just afraid you might be an ex trying to cancel <male name>'s account or something like that."


I guess I don't have to worry about my voice anymore. :)

^^^This made me smile so much :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emjay on April 03, 2015, 04:48:46 PM
Today marks one year on HRT for me!  That's my happy thought of the day... 

One year HRT, 65 hours electrolysis completed, hair is shoulder length now.....  It's progress!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Skeptoid on April 04, 2015, 12:19:50 AM
I got ma'amed on the phone for the first time since I was like 12-14 or so today and it made me feel good. I'm also at the 8 month mark as of today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on April 04, 2015, 08:17:32 AM
Congrats on the anniversary!
Mariah
Quote from: AmazinglyAutumn on April 03, 2015, 04:48:46 PM
Today marks one year on HRT for me!  That's my happy thought of the day... 

One year HRT, 65 hours electrolysis completed, hair is shoulder length now.....  It's progress!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 04, 2015, 08:28:14 AM
My ex, from my only long term relationship, had contacted me earlier this week on facebook. I had sent word through a mutual friend about my transition. I then sent a very long message back. She got back to me today. We had been best friends before she had developed a crush on me and the whole sorry relationship began. Now we're going to get together and talk for the first time in half a decade! I know we will never be best friends again but I will settle for closure!

It is things like this that reinforce my faith in myself and let me know that transition and coming out is the best decision I ever made.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 05, 2015, 05:47:16 AM
Happy Easter Sunday to us all. Peace for all of us as we improve our lives to enjoy our natural gender, female.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on April 05, 2015, 03:58:30 PM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 05, 2015, 05:47:16 AM
Happy Easter Sunday to us all. Peace for all of us as we improve our lives to enjoy our natural gender, female.

Amen!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: DrummerGirl on April 05, 2015, 09:14:28 PM
My mom asked me to send a picture of myself to her so she could show my dad since he hasn't seen me since before I started to transition.  He does know that I'm transitioning though.  She just called me to tell me about this conversation:

<mom> Do you know who this is?
<dad> No, I have no idea who that is.
<mom> Look real close.
<dad> Nope, I've never seen that person in my life.
<mom> Are you absolutely sure?
<dad> Look, I swear I've never seen that person.  Who is it?
<mom> That's your daughter.
<dad> WHAT?!?!  No way!!!

I'm laughing *so* hard right now!  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: antonia on April 06, 2015, 01:56:23 AM
Awesome, sounds like something that would make you smile for a week :)

Quote from: DrummerGirl on April 05, 2015, 09:14:28 PM
My mom asked me to send a picture of myself to her so she could show my dad since he hasn't seen me since before I started to transition.  He does know that I'm transitioning though.  She just called me to tell me about this conversation:

<mom> Do you know who this is?
<dad> No, I have no idea who that is.
<mom> Look real close.
<dad> Nope, I've never seen that person in my life.
<mom> Are you absolutely sure?
<dad> Look, I swear I've never seen that person.  Who is it?
<mom> That's your daughter.
<dad> WHAT?!?!  No way!!!

I'm laughing *so* hard right now!  :laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Ashey on April 06, 2015, 04:08:46 AM
Was off my 'mones for a lil over a month recently. Been back on them for under two weeks and my scent 'down there' has gone from clearly very male back to nearly odorless/slightly feminine. 'Morning wood' has also lessened after it had come back with a vengeance. This all makes me a happy Ashley. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on April 06, 2015, 07:57:37 AM
It is raining in Perth, Australia, on April 6th.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on April 06, 2015, 12:11:13 PM
1st day going part time and I love what I am wearing. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 06, 2015, 02:13:22 PM
Just got an email that my grad class was cancelled tonight.  yay!  I get to go straight home after work!  My professor claims that he has a sick child.  /me thinks he is an NCAA BB fan. ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on April 06, 2015, 02:27:34 PM
Yay Congrats
Mariah
Quote from: AmandaMarie on April 06, 2015, 12:11:13 PM
1st day going part time and I love what I am wearing. :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: mm on April 06, 2015, 02:48:02 PM
anisley, that is as good a reason as any to cancel class.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 06, 2015, 03:01:59 PM
True, mm.  Now I don't have to rush home after class to make the game, too.  Double happy!
Go Badgers!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: bluebirdx88 on April 06, 2015, 04:22:45 PM
OMGOMGOMGOMGOMG

I'd upload pics but I'd need to ask him and it'd probably be awqward so no...

I had my first proper date in my entire life today, he's about ten years older than me and in the military, and we met through a transexual support chatroom where I'm a mod (unrelated to Susan's) (Should point out he's cis, but he's been in the room for years and knows people so I know I can trust him...)

ANYWAY

He texted me yesterday asking if I wanted to meet up for lunch.. I was like, really? (He lives 590KM away from me) and he drove the whole 6 hours down to take me out to sushi (and a bottle of white wine)... And had to drive all the way back just after as he had to report at 12 sharp.. Wow... Just wow... I'm so impressed he'd do all that just for me..... And he made me feel so special, honestly, he' amazing.... I think this may have a future!!!! :D Ooh Oooooh PS: I forgot to mention the car he picked me up in was a convertible <3
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on April 06, 2015, 09:05:35 PM
After 8 hours on the I 5, we finally crossed the border! We will be home tomorrow. After 7 days, including a wonderful 3 day stay in the Sonoma Valley, I have had enough of freeway driving! Rewarded ourselves with a wonderful Greek dinner at a play we had not been to since 1985!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 07, 2015, 08:58:50 AM
Two things (and it's only 10am):

1) My 8-year-old son got up and without prompting or suggestion made and packed his own lunch for school. So proud (and it was a huge help).

2) Wearing a sports bra for the first time today, mostly for the experience as I have no mass for it to support as yet. But it is actually helping with the sore/sensitive nipple issues.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 07, 2015, 09:19:29 AM
Quote from: jeni on April 07, 2015, 08:58:50 AM
2) Wearing a sports bra for the first time today, mostly for the experience as I have no mass for it to support as yet. But it is actually helping with the sore/sensitive nipple issues.

Nice!  I know that as soon as my nipples started budding and got sensitive I almost never went without a bra.  The shirt sliding over them all day actually would make them raw.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 07, 2015, 11:07:04 AM
Yeah, that hasn't gotten too bad for me, but I do feel more comfortable (aside from getting used to a constant snug hug from the elastic).
Title: Re: The official "You look fabulous, darling!" 6.0
Post by: Michelle G on April 07, 2015, 11:10:55 AM
A snugly warm kitty in the morning always makes me happy :)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi244.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg4%2FKR3259%2FFamily%2520Stuff%2FD0962862-796A-4E50-8E74-6E2976A32264_zps09uamwad.jpg&hash=424cf9b18ad2a5a8281d90769438ad2d3b02bb80) (http://s244.photobucket.com/user/KR3259/media/Family%20Stuff/D0962862-796A-4E50-8E74-6E2976A32264_zps09uamwad.jpg.html)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 07, 2015, 12:47:59 PM
Wow, it has been a completely up-and-down day. If you read the "unhappy today" thread, you'll have seen that I was upset because my dad sent an email sort of questioning whether I had really thought this through and was doing the right thing. He means well, but I was still upset by the question.

Well... I sent a long explanation, trying to explain how carefully and cautiously I had approached this, and how it really was the only choice I could make. He's hard to convince of things, so it was a lot of effort to put that response together. One of the things I mentioned was that this really was happening, so we needed to think about when to tell the rest of the family.

I just got his reply, and he basically dropped the questioning tone, agreed that I have more than proven myself over the years to be trustworthy, and reaffirmed that he is proud of me for having the courage to follow this difficult path and that he will be there with me along the way.

So, cool.. but there's more. Over the weekend, I was visiting for a nephew's birthday party, and he and the family (my stepmother and a teenaged half-sister and brother) were there. I felt like I was getting funny looks from my sister and stepmother. I was presenting as male, but wearing women's jeans, so I was a little worried either they'd noticed that or otherwise noticed something "wrong." But that kind of faded, and we had a normal conversation. There, and at dinner after, though, my sister was talking to me much more casually and openly than she had before. I thought it was cool---we have been getting closer over the last year or two since I have been living closer by so I see her more than once a year now. But it made me a little bit sad to think that she might become uncomfortable when she learned about my being TG, and that we might lose that new rapport.

Well... my dad told me that he had actually already talked to her and my stepmother. It is all I can do to sit quietly in my chair here at work, I really want to flip out because I am so unbelievably ecstatic to think that her reaction to learning this about me was to open up in a way she never had before. I really cannot believe it. I think it might be the biggest happiest surprise since the start of my transgender journey.

Now, let's see if I can walk down the hall to the coffee machine. It might be difficult because my feet probably won't be touching the ground.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 07, 2015, 01:30:05 PM
Good for you, Jeni!!  I know that feeling and I am glad you are experiencing it.
Now, be whom you really are. ;)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ImagineKate on April 07, 2015, 01:51:51 PM
SO MUCH to be happy about today.

Wired the money for Yeson VFS. It's real, it's happening! Super excited about my trip, with my mom!

Weather is nice enough to wear dresses with no leggings. Did that yesterday.

My daughter last night showed me one of her bracelets and then puts on the bracelet on me! I wore it and told her it's so beautiful. She smiled and hugged me.

And one of my supportive coworkers is back from vacation today, I saw her and she asked how I was doing. Showed her a ton of pictures with me and the kids. :)


Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Stacey_Celeste on April 07, 2015, 02:00:26 PM
The ongoing support from all I come out too,  including family
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 07, 2015, 02:03:53 PM
My second day back at full time work, in a super social environment. Everyone has been so sweet. No one made a spectacle out of me yesterday and used my new name. They have even been using the corect pronouns with only a couple slip ups. Today things are just easing in. Life feels good today.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: aniiiib on April 07, 2015, 06:17:56 PM
I heard about a romantic movie coming out this month featuring a trans woman playing as a (bisexual I think) trans woman and it looks great and it made me very happy to find out it's happening!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on April 07, 2015, 07:40:53 PM
My niece has always been close to me and has been supportive of my transitioning all along, but despite her knowing that I'm coming in October reach out to tell me today that she feels it has been way to long since I have seen her now even though it's only been a year since I last saw her. I'm so happy and proud she reached out today the way she did.
Mariah
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: mac1 on April 07, 2015, 07:59:30 PM
Quote from: aniiiib on April 07, 2015, 06:17:56 PM
I heard about a romantic movie coming out this month featuring a trans woman playing as a (bisexual I think) trans woman and it looks great and it made me very happy to find out it's happening!

What is the name of the movie?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: iKate on April 07, 2015, 09:50:10 PM
I think my boobs grew. All I know is I'm having a more difficult time seeing my feet now, lol.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: aniiiib on April 08, 2015, 03:57:46 PM
Quote from: mac1 on April 07, 2015, 07:59:30 PM
What is the name of the movie?

It's "Boy Meets Girl" (2014) starring Michelle Hendley ^.^ I think it's coming out on dvd this month!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Mariah on April 08, 2015, 04:23:51 PM
Yay, Congrats Jessica.
Mariah
Quote from: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Lady Smith on April 08, 2015, 07:31:01 PM
That's wonderful Jessica, - congratulations  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emjay on April 08, 2015, 07:37:36 PM
Definitely!  Congrats Jessica!  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: iKate on April 08, 2015, 08:13:40 PM
Hair is longer and pulling it back actually makes my face look really femme.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 08, 2015, 08:19:40 PM
I got my name legally changed to Gabrielle, and the judge was incredibly understanding and polite.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: iKate on April 08, 2015, 08:31:05 PM

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on April 08, 2015, 08:19:40 PM
I got my name legally changed to Gabrielle, and the judge was incredibly understanding and polite.
Yay congrats!!!

Your choice of Caribbean beer is on me. I'm partial to Carib, being a trini and all lol.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 08, 2015, 08:36:57 PM
Quote from: iKate on April 08, 2015, 08:31:05 PM
Yay congrats!!!

Your choice of Caribbean beer is on me. I'm partial to Carib, being a trini and all lol.

Ha, yay! I actually love Carib too. My fave is Kubuli, Dominica's own. But I'm probably wearing island-blinkers. If I was a Jamaican, I might be saying Red Stripe or nothing, lol.

When the meet-up eventually happens, I'll remember this offer.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Shawn Sunshine on April 08, 2015, 11:07:38 PM
My first ever bra fit, a hanes sports bra...and its actually just a little loose, so I can probably do 1X in sports bras depending as I am a 46B in other bras depending. Also I am wearing boy shorts (lacey blue style) that match the bra. It feels comfy and normal  :angel:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 09, 2015, 12:56:25 AM
Got the stitches out of my nose and throat today. Also got the declaration from my doctor to include in my court petition for name and gender change.  I'm going to file my paperwork in the morning.  ;D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 09, 2015, 12:58:01 AM
 :eusa_clap: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap:

Congrats girl! 

Quote from: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 09, 2015, 01:01:16 AM
Woo Hoo!!!!  You go girl!!  What a special day!!

:icon_geekdance: :icon_dance: :icon_geekdance:

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on April 08, 2015, 08:19:40 PM
I got my name legally changed to Gabrielle, and the judge was incredibly understanding and polite.
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Post by: Cindy on April 09, 2015, 03:20:47 AM
Wow, great news from so many wonderful ladies!

Congrats girls!
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Post by: Zoetrope on April 09, 2015, 07:56:02 AM
* Fitting into a pair of sexy, soft leather, size 9 heels for the first time (thankyou, HRT-shrivelled feet!)
* Purchasing the said heels for $70 (they were originally $170)
* Bringing them home and posing in front of the mirror
* Looking forward to showing them off at work tomorrow with sheer pantyhose!
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Post by: aniiiib on April 09, 2015, 02:23:32 PM
Quote from: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!

Congratulations!!!! That's fantastic!!! <3 <3 <3 <3  :D
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Post by: DrummerGirl on April 09, 2015, 03:06:22 PM
Quote from: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!

That's awesome! Congrats Jessica!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 09, 2015, 09:00:40 PM
Filed my name and gender change documents with the court today and got a hearing date next month. I hope to not have another birthday as him.  The hearing date is just a couple of days before my birthday so hopefully it will be Jessie Lee Ann that gets to turn 54.
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Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 09, 2015, 09:39:10 PM
Quote from: jessical on April 08, 2015, 04:07:56 PM
Today was my first day being out at work.  And it went awesome :)  Huge support, and very positive.  And I got two sets of flowers, which was very special.

Now I am officially Full Time!

Congrats!! This is a big accomplishment.

Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 09, 2015, 09:00:40 PM
Filed my name and gender change documents with the court today and got a hearing date next month. I hope to not have another birthday as him.  The hearing date is just a couple of days before my birthday so hopefully it will be Jessie Lee Ann that gets to turn 54.

Wonderful! Good luck!
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Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 09, 2015, 10:11:14 PM
I changed both my name and my gender marker with Social Security today! While your Social card doesn't have a gender marker, there's a sex marker on the application, so I changed mine to 'F.' I brought my letter from my endocrinologist, and the man who handled my application was super nice about everything, and circled the 'F' to show me it had changed along with my name. This is the first time I've officially listed myself as 'female' in any of my documentation. It feels so amazing.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 10, 2015, 03:46:06 AM
Congrats Gabrielle!!!!  Enjoy your new official status!  I hope to join you shortly.

Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on April 09, 2015, 10:11:14 PM
I changed both my name and my gender marker with Social Security today! While your Social card doesn't have a gender marker, there's a sex marker on the application, so I changed mine to 'F.' I brought my letter from my endocrinologist, and the man who handled my application was super nice about everything, and circled the 'F' to show me it had changed along with my name. This is the first time I've officially listed myself as 'female' in any of my documentation. It feels so amazing.
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Post by: 23 Skidoo on April 10, 2015, 09:47:10 AM
I looked down and saw actual cleavage for once last night. Here's the thing, since I'm usually wearing a t-shirt at both work and home, so I don't really see my boobs all that much, let alone cleavage. For once I was wearing a tank top though, I was laying in bed on my side listening to a comedy podcast with my eyes close. When it was over and I opened my eyes I looked down and was like "jesus christ, apparently these grew in somewhere along the past year. Seriously though:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F40.media.tumblr.com%2F9f5472a6c7642bc317ebc7973dba0c69%2Ftumblr_nmjfsgX64a1qgen3wo1_1280.jpg&hash=aac0415b2bc2dae0d95c7f369e454e6abc635c76)
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Post by: Jade_404 on April 10, 2015, 10:40:37 AM
Quote from: 23 Skidoo on April 10, 2015, 09:47:10 AM
I looked down and saw actual cleavage for once last night. Here's the thing, since I'm usually wearing a t-shirt at both work and home, so I don't really see my boobs all that much, let alone cleavage. For once I was wearing a tank top though, I was laying in bed on my side listening to a comedy podcast with my eyes close. When it was over and I opened my eyes I looked down and was like "jesus christ, apparently these grew in somewhere along the past year. Seriously though:

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F40.media.tumblr.com%2F9f5472a6c7642bc317ebc7973dba0c69%2Ftumblr_nmjfsgX64a1qgen3wo1_1280.jpg&hash=aac0415b2bc2dae0d95c7f369e454e6abc635c76)

Cute!  :-*

-Jade
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Post by: iKate on April 10, 2015, 11:37:05 AM
Quote from: Gabrielle_22 on April 09, 2015, 10:11:14 PM
I changed both my name and my gender marker with Social Security today! While your Social card doesn't have a gender marker, there's a sex marker on the application, so I changed mine to 'F.' I brought my letter from my endocrinologist, and the man who handled my application was super nice about everything, and circled the 'F' to show me it had changed along with my name. This is the first time I've officially listed myself as 'female' in any of my documentation. It feels so amazing.

I said congrats already but I will say it again! Congrats!!

The gender marker is in their records and I believe employers will run some sort of check against it to verify your identity but I believe that was done away with. Either way it is good to keep it accurate.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 10, 2015, 12:31:51 PM
Over the past few weeks I stopped shaving my legs to see how much hair I still have on them after more than 7 months on HRT. Today I couldn't take it anymore so I soaked in the tub, shaved my legs, drank a cup of tea and listened to Alan Turing's biography on Audible. Previously when I did this I had a rather large hairball clogging the drain when I let out the water. Today nothing! Strangely, the hair on my forearms doesn't seem reduced. (I don't shave them, presenting male.) Yay E!
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Post by: ClaireCaithlyn on April 10, 2015, 01:46:12 PM
That I officially finished my RLE today. So now the next round!
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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 10, 2015, 02:28:10 PM
Quote from: ClaireCaithlyn on April 10, 2015, 01:46:12 PM
That I officially finished my RLE today. So now the next round!
Congratulations!
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Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 10, 2015, 04:42:52 PM
Sorry for all the posts, but a lot has been happening. I just got my driver's licence changed--new name, 'F' on the gender marker. The photo leaves volumes to be desired, but for that 'F,' I'll take almost anything. I also changed my name on my bank account. Because my father has access to it and neither parent knows I changed my name, and both are distraught at my transition, this will cause a serious clash soon. I'm worried about this. But living in the realest reality is more important for me, even as there is no way forward for me free of loss. Perhaps that is another good thing--me finally being able to accept that.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 10, 2015, 11:03:41 PM
Got my "cast" off my nose today. It looks pretty good and even better I can actually breathe through it!!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2Fimage.jpg8_zpsnpebiyxc.jpg&hash=f4cafdcb81d81cab022f4eb49f5b1ac6bbb96576) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/image.jpg8_zpsnpebiyxc.jpg.html)
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Post by: Lady Smith on April 10, 2015, 11:09:33 PM
Being able to breath is always a good thing ;)

Your new nose looks lovely Jessie Ann,
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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 11, 2015, 07:56:59 AM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 10, 2015, 11:03:41 PM
Got my "cast" off my nose today. It looks pretty good and even better I can actually breathe through it!!


Beautiful!

For my own part, my cousin posted a picture of my aunt, my mother's sister, when she was young. I have the same hairline! One more thing not to have to change. Actually, I look more than a bit like her.
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Post by: Vivien_Rae on April 11, 2015, 09:18:50 AM
Still early for me here so, best thing that happened to me yesterday would be finally joining and not just lurking. I feel like I have a home now, hehe.
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Post by: Zoetrope on April 11, 2015, 04:49:08 PM
Welcome, Vivien (~:

I've woken up with a happy thought -  to go out and buy my first bikini ...
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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 11, 2015, 06:31:26 PM
Wonderful day!

Sweetie's been standoffish since my endo appointment at the beginning of the month. Today she let me cuddle with her on the loveseat and accepted kisses. Eventually we had to go out and do some shopping. On the way I saw a Harley for sale on the side of the roaf, pouted and commented. I'm up for two jobs at the retreat center she works for. She said if I got either one she'd be OK with me selling my car and getting another bike because we could commute together most days and wouldn't need two cars. Then she mentioned that I would have to dress better for work, a suit or "other" nice clothes, because I'd be dealing with benefactors to the nonprofit she works for. This is her oblique way of mentioning me wearing feminine attire. Things are definitely better. Progress!
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Post by: islandgirl on April 11, 2015, 07:10:10 PM
Just booked my first laser session for my face and neck! Yahoo! It will be Monday morning.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 11, 2015, 09:39:57 PM
I got to take my youngest daughter (17 years old) out for a late lunch early dinner at her favorite restruant. I got to go out with her as myself for the first time ever!!!  I am so happy  :eusa_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_geekdance: :icon_boogy:
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Post by: Jenny07 on April 11, 2015, 10:01:53 PM
Been raining for a while and today was clear so got out on my super bike with the nice wheels today.
Did 100k so feel good.

Look down and boobage is continuing nicely. They are really filling out nicely.
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Post by: iKate on April 11, 2015, 10:03:19 PM
Happy because today no matter how I comb back, tie back, clip back my hair I look like the girl I am. :)
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 12, 2015, 10:13:44 AM
Waking up knowing that today is E day.   I got to give myself my every other week injection of E and get to look forward to feeling the effects for a couple more weeks.  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: Mariah on April 12, 2015, 10:25:16 AM
I always love E day except mine comes every 10 days and Friday is my next one.
Mariah
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 12, 2015, 10:13:44 AM
Waking up knowing that today is E day.   I got to give myself my every other week injection of E and get to look forward to feeling the effects for a couple more weeks.  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: charlotte15 on April 12, 2015, 01:56:53 PM
Yesterday, after having read a message that calmed by fears about scars in the scalp, looking at the cherry tree blossom and thinking that I could be happy. Because I would still be able to style my hair the way I want.

Today, looking at the shape of my boobs through a very fitting shirt. They always make me happy!

Hair, boobs, yes I know I'm vain but happiness is so precious :-)  And happiness is so meta too - allowing yourself to be happy brings in more happiness!!
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Post by: Lady Smith on April 12, 2015, 03:27:29 PM
Quote from: Dee Walker on April 11, 2015, 06:31:26 PM
Wonderful day!

Sweetie's been standoffish since my endo appointment at the beginning of the month. Today she let me cuddle with her on the loveseat and accepted kisses. Eventually we had to go out and do some shopping. On the way I saw a Harley for sale on the side of the roaf, pouted and commented. I'm up for two jobs at the retreat center she works for. She said if I got either one she'd be OK with me selling my car and getting another bike because we could commute together most days and wouldn't need two cars. Then she mentioned that I would have to dress better for work, a suit or "other" nice clothes, because I'd be dealing with benefactors to the nonprofit she works for. This is her oblique way of mentioning me wearing feminine attire. Things are definitely better. Progress!

Progress indeed Dee, congratulations  ;D
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Post by: Lady Smith on April 12, 2015, 03:31:09 PM
Quote from: iKate on April 11, 2015, 10:03:19 PM
Happy because today no matter how I comb back, tie back, clip back my hair I look like the girl I am. :)

That's wonderful Kate, - feels great doesn't it  :)
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Post by: Lady Smith on April 12, 2015, 03:34:08 PM
Quote from: Jenny07 on April 11, 2015, 10:01:53 PM
Been raining for a while and today was clear so got out on my super bike with the nice wheels today.
Did 100k so feel good.

Look down and boobage is continuing nicely. They are really filling out nicely.

100k on a bicycle!  Suddenly I feel so old and past it.  I used to be able to do that  :'(
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Post by: Alana_Jane on April 12, 2015, 04:24:31 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 10, 2015, 11:03:41 PM
Got my "cast" off my nose today. It looks pretty good and even better I can actually breathe through it!!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2Fimage.jpg8_zpsnpebiyxc.jpg&hash=f4cafdcb81d81cab022f4eb49f5b1ac6bbb96576) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/image.jpg8_zpsnpebiyxc.jpg.html)

Congratulations Jessie, on both the Name/Gender marker change as well as your nose.  I'll have to see this in person some time.
Hugs,

Alana
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Post by: CrysC on April 12, 2015, 04:31:23 PM
It makes me happy that this thread is so large.  Great to have a stream of positive that just continues to grow. 
Also happy to see the flowers all out and about.  I could do without the pollen but am loving all of the flowers. 
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Post by: Alana_Jane on April 12, 2015, 04:34:40 PM
As for me, I've had a busy weekend.  On Friday I got my 11th-12th hour of electrolysis, then meet Eva.  We had dinner then went to a group meeting.   

I went to see a local production of Measure for Measure.  This was my first public social outing where I saw people who know my male self but I've not told that I am crossing the gender spectrum.  So, I wore my black feminine slacks, and black and white chevron top, with black hose and flats.  I was just about the best dressed woman there,  most were in jeans, with a couple showing up in skirts. 

I'll have more good news soon..

Alana
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Post by: carey965 on April 12, 2015, 08:29:48 PM
what made me happy?

going out as me for the first time with shopping and the whole nine yards was a awesome day, i cant get the smile off my face,

here is my blog entry if anyone wants to check it out
https://youtu.be/7EV1wFsTpAo
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Post by: Sophie Lou on April 12, 2015, 10:13:15 PM
I started a list recently, its called Woman Memories and Thoughts. Basically, I write things down from my past where I had  a certain reaction to life that was influenced by the fact that I was a woman and not a man. I keep adding to this list, and it is very empowering.

I feel like I am taking my life back, and it is giving me a stronger sense of my connection to self and my history. The fact that it helps to dispel dissociation and fear makes me VERY HAPPY!!!

We are taking our lives back!!!
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Post by: iKate on April 13, 2015, 01:44:18 PM
Waxed my arms today. I was due!

Also, I finally regained access to an old angelfire (remember them?) webpage with an old, embarrassing photo on it, so I was able to remove it! Yay!

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Post by: Sally Thompson on April 13, 2015, 02:54:09 PM
Hello all, I am new here and I am at the start of my of my journey to happiness, its been a rocky road to this point, I am 32 and finally worked out what I wanted; the best thing that happened to me is I told my parents, family and friends of the decision and they have all been supportive. This was my first big step and now onward and upward. :)

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Post by: ainsley on April 13, 2015, 02:58:03 PM
Just got a calvin klein pencil skirt that is regularly $69 for $16.34.  Only saps pay retail, baby!
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 13, 2015, 03:59:53 PM
Welcome Sally. 

Coming out to your family can be the most challenging thing we do because we don't know how our family will really react.  Most of mine has been supportive but my dad and step-mom are troubled by the fact that a "Christian" shouldn't be transitioning. 

I'm so glad you have your family's support. 

Fortunately for you have also found a second family that will be supportive and full of useful information for you.  Welcome to Susan's where we are all family....

Hugs Girl!!!


Quote from: Sally Thompson on April 13, 2015, 02:54:09 PM
Hello all, I am new here and I am at the start of my of my journey to happiness, its been a rocky road to this point, I am 32 and finally worked out what I wanted; the best thing that happened to me is I told my parents, family and friends of the decision and they have all been supportive. This was my first big step and now onward and upward. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jill F on April 13, 2015, 04:04:57 PM
Quote from: Alana_Jane on April 12, 2015, 04:34:40 PM
As for me, I've had a busy weekend.  On Friday I got my 11th-12th hour of electrolysis, then meet Eva.  We had dinner then went to a group meeting.   

I went to see a local production of Measure for Measure.  This was my first public social outing where I saw people who know my male self but I've not told that I am crossing the gender spectrum.  So, I wore my black feminine slacks, and black and white chevron top, with black hose and flats.  I was just about the best dressed woman there,  most were in jeans, with a couple showing up in skirts. 

I'll have more good news soon..

Alana

You do have some most epic dresses, Alana!
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Post by: Emjay on April 13, 2015, 05:07:49 PM
Today my wife and I went to get lunch at a local deli.  As we were leaving, the manager looked at us and said without hesitation:  "Have a nice day ladies!"

I had on zero makeup, wearing just a t shirt and jeans, and hadn't shaved because I have electro in the morning...  needless to say I wasn't feeling especially pretty today.... 

Idk if he has any idea but that manager just totally turned my day around!  :)
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Post by: Sapphire87 on April 13, 2015, 05:28:03 PM
Had my dr's appt today, which was also close to 1 year RLE day.

Ended up getting an increase in Estrogen prescription annnnnnnnnnnnnd Referral being sent out to psychologist for recommendation letter for surgery!!!!!!!


Yayyyyyyyyy
;D ;D ;D ;D :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
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Post by: dex_paradox on April 13, 2015, 06:31:13 PM
That's a great step forward to be able to make a move in that direction! congrats!
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Post by: jeni on April 13, 2015, 08:17:43 PM
This is somewhere between happy and really freakin' weird.... talked to my mom on the phone and my HRT came up. I mentioned that my chest was hurting a bit, and she asked if there were bumps. I said yes, and she told me that's how it started for her, too.

So I mean, uh, wow. This is way high on the list of things I never thought I'd discuss with my mom..... I mean, WAY high. But it's amazing to me that she was that cool about it, and when I get over the weirdness, it makes me really happy. :-)
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Post by: islandgirl on April 13, 2015, 08:34:25 PM
That is so wonderful! Now that is acceptance!

This made me smile. I have to admit that I wonder how my mom would take my transition.
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Post by: Mariah on April 13, 2015, 08:37:20 PM
That's wonderful, Congrats Jeni
Mariah
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 13, 2015, 08:49:37 PM
There are sooo many things I wish I could have discussed with my mom.  She was a very remarkable lady and would have been an invaluable resource to me now. 

Cherish the fact that you can have those discussions and even if it is weird know that there is nothing in the world like a mothers love and advice.   :D

Quote from: jeni on April 13, 2015, 08:17:43 PM
This is somewhere between happy and really freakin' weird.... talked to my mom on the phone and my HRT came up. I mentioned that my chest was hurting a bit, and she asked if there were bumps. I said yes, and she told me that's how it started for her, too.

So I mean, uh, wow. This is way high on the list of things I never thought I'd discuss with my mom..... I mean, WAY high. But it's amazing to me that she was that cool about it, and when I get over the weirdness, it makes me really happy. :-)
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Post by: jeni on April 13, 2015, 09:06:41 PM
Thanks. Yeah, her acceptance is incredible. I really feel like she is trying to move our relationship more to what it would have been had I been born in a female body. With boob acceptance in particular, I think it helps that she's always been an avid breastfeeding proponent and now a lactation consultant!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: monica93304 on April 13, 2015, 09:34:27 PM
Because of the requirement of having to sign up for the Affordable Health Care Act (Obama Care), three weeks ago I found a doctor that was Trans-friendly.  A little history on my part.  In January of 2012 I began self medicating.  Was really struggling financially, didn't have a doctor.  Had high blood pressure that was under control but was having to deal with county health services.

Fast forward to three weeks ago, I received my blood pressure prescriptions, and immediately prescribed hormones and blockers.  My insurance immediately approved the HRT (Anthem Blue Cross), and my blood work was covered!

Today I went in for my follow up.  He said everything looked good with my  blood work.  Testosterone levels were low (Yay),  and that now we can monitor my health in a normal manner. 

I'm not full time, but I didn't need to go through RLE or any counseling/shrink. 

Today was a good day. 
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Post by: Gabrielle_22 on April 13, 2015, 11:15:15 PM
After months of heated arguments, my father called me by my female name for the first time, and said he would try to learn to accept me as both his former son and his new daughter. I still have a long way to go with my parents, especially my mother. But this...I cried in happiness when I read his email to me addressed to my new name. How the night can brighten.
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Post by: Mallory on April 13, 2015, 11:51:46 PM
I've been on Spiro and Progesterone for 3 days, but today I was finally able to get my Rx for Delestrogen filled and you can guess what I did with it. Straight to the leg! Hehe.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 12:27:36 AM
Wow so many of us joining the E club in such a short period of time. Makes a girls heart go pitter patter. We the E class of 2015 would like to thank our sisters who went before us and helped establish the proper protocols so that we could join you and become the women we were ment to be. Thank you ladies!!

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Post by: alexbb on April 14, 2015, 06:02:09 AM
/\ this!
ive got my first endo appointment 9am tomorrow, finally! eeeep.

i went to Seattle last week from England for a job interview working as a concept artist for a videogame company, did the whole thing in girl mode, found out i got the job. really chuffed.
.. And Seattle looks like a beautiful and tolerant place to live. Im excited.
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Post by: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 08:02:32 AM
Wow!  Congrats girl!!!  Seattle will be a wonderful place to complete your transition.   And welcome to the E class of 2015!

Quote from: alexbb on April 14, 2015, 06:02:09 AM
/\ this!
ive got my first endo appointment 9am tomorrow, finally! eeeep.

i went to Seattle last week from England for a job interview working as a concept artist for a videogame company, did the whole thing in girl mode, found out i got the job. really chuffed.
.. And Seattle looks like a beautiful and tolerant place to live. Im excited.
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Post by: bluebirdx88 on April 14, 2015, 10:28:00 AM
New tat todaaaay!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs22.postimg.org%2Fc6cu6urdt%2FUntitle444d.jpg&hash=9d6be6419983afe4993578ba81f087bda3f8d639)
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Post by: Kelly_1979 on April 14, 2015, 10:43:31 AM
kinda lame but....    changed windows 8 theme to one pinkish with flowers.

It's better than nothing.
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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 14, 2015, 11:57:12 AM
Quote from: kelly_1979 on April 14, 2015, 10:43:31 AM
kinda lame but....    changed windows 8 theme to one pinkish with flowers.

It's better than nothing.
That's not lame, small steps are NEVER lame!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sophie Lou on April 14, 2015, 01:12:18 PM
I setup a fixed time to talk with another transwoman every week on the phone. This was kind of a big deal for me because I can be very guarded and am trying to change that. I often give too much of myself away so then I am avoid or am exhausted and hide to regroup.

I have been reading Brene Brown's book on Imperfection and letting ourselves be vulnerable. She talks about how establishing firm boundaries in our lives is what makes vulnerability possible and sustainable. So far it has been a great lesson in learning to open up.



Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on April 14, 2015, 08:09:54 PM
Quote from: Jill F on April 13, 2015, 04:04:57 PM
You do have some most epic dresses, Alana!

Thank you Jill  ;D  As you have access to the LA fashion district, that means a lot to me. 

I'm on pins and needles waiting for tomorrow when I have my follow-up with my Endocrinologist.  Wish me luck.

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 08:27:13 PM
Good luck girl!!  I hope we can add you to the E class of 2015 soon.  Do you have to start Spiro first for a while and then start on E or do you start both at the same time or do you even know? 

I will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow and I'm sending you some big internet hugs!  ((((( ;D)))))

Quote from: Alana_Jane on April 14, 2015, 08:09:54 PM
Thank you Jill  ;D  As you have access to the LA fashion district, that means a lot to me. 

I'm on pins and needles waiting for tomorrow when I have my follow-up with my Endocrinologist.  Wish me luck.

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on April 14, 2015, 09:24:31 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 08:27:13 PM
Good luck girl!!  I hope we can add you to the E class of 2015 soon.  Do you have to start Spiro first for a while and then start on E or do you start both at the same time or do you even know? 

I will keep you in my thoughts tomorrow and I'm sending you some big internet hugs!  ((((( ;D)))))

Thank you Jessie. 

I'm not sure... I kind of expect I'll at least have the Spiro script, but will ask if she can hand me both.  Which reminds me I need to remember to ask for a letter for my name and gender change petition.  I'll hang on to this until after the legal separation, when I can file it.

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 09:32:32 PM
Alana

If you want I can e-mail you NC-210 form that is mostly filled out.   If you PM me your e-mail address, Doctors name and physicans license number I can include that on the pre-printed court form and all you will have to do is put in your name.  There is language that creates a conclusive presumption and the court has to grant the petition based on that language.   ;D

Jessie

Quote from: Alana_Jane on April 14, 2015, 09:24:31 PM
Thank you Jessie. 

I'm not sure... I kind of expect I'll at least have the Spiro script, but will ask if she can hand me both.  Which reminds me I need to remember to ask for a letter for my name and gender change petition.  I'll hang on to this until after the legal separation, when I can file it.

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Alana_Jane on April 14, 2015, 10:41:41 PM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 14, 2015, 09:32:32 PM
Alana

If you want I can e-mail you NC-210 form that is mostly filled out.   If you PM me your e-mail address, Doctors name and physicans license number I can include that on the pre-printed court form and all you will have to do is put in your name.  There is language that creates a conclusive presumption and the court has to grant the petition based on that language.   ;D

Jessie

Thank you Jessie, PM sent.

-Alana
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: CrysC on April 14, 2015, 10:47:51 PM
Sometimes it's the little things...  my medical doctor complimented my appearance when she saw me yesterday.  Throw in some other incidental complimentary statements on top of that and I still am feeling happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 15, 2015, 04:53:39 PM
New sunglasses!!   ;D ;D ;D  Sorry for appearing in boy mode.... :(

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2FB167D210-09E2-4C7A-BDDA-A51755C5B778_zpshfq2nuo8.jpg&hash=13ee3af77f50671569c36ed51f8af85ef6bf0a75) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/Mobile%20Uploads/B167D210-09E2-4C7A-BDDA-A51755C5B778_zpshfq2nuo8.jpg.html)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 15, 2015, 06:30:02 PM
I was out sick from work on Monday and Tuesday so just getting out of the house and into the warm spring sunshine made me happy today. But the atmosphere at work really upped my mood. Even though I'm eons from getting gendered correctly by strangers (although I get many more "ums" than "sirs") my coworkers have all recognized the true me and they all treat me acordingly. Work has never been so good. On top of that I noticed that with E in my system and my new outlook, I don't panic during difficult tasks and am enjoying taking the leadership role my bosses have wanted me to take on for years. If all the E ever does is let me feel this good I'll be a happy woman for life.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Sabrina on April 15, 2015, 07:08:19 PM
A cute guy at the coffee stand near where I work let me go ahead of him in line. What makes me happy is he said, "Let her go ahead." Also at the local drug store, a little girl said, "Look, she's tall" to her mom as I walked by. It felt great being talked about with female pronouns for the first time by strangers :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 15, 2015, 08:16:22 PM
Got my passport in the mail today with a gender marker of "F" !!  w00t!  I am ready to travel to Brassard's...GCS paid, labs done...all set!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 15, 2015, 08:29:00 PM
Wonderful!!  Good Luck Girl!!!

Hugs to you!!

Quote from: ainsley on April 15, 2015, 08:16:22 PM
Got my passport in the mail today with a gender marker of "F" !!  w00t!  I am ready to travel to Brassard's...GCS paid, labs done...all set!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FairyHime on April 16, 2015, 12:53:11 AM
Quote from: alexbb on April 14, 2015, 06:02:09 AM
/\ this!
ive got my first endo appointment 9am tomorrow, finally! eeeep.

i went to Seattle last week from England for a job interview working as a concept artist for a videogame company, did the whole thing in girl mode, found out i got the job. really chuffed.
.. And Seattle looks like a beautiful and tolerant place to live. Im excited.

I moved to Seattle almost a year ago now to properly transition and it is DEFINITELY a very trans-friendly city. Everything feels super easy, people are friendly, stores are great. I was even able to buy my first couple of bras while in boy mode and the people at victoria's secret in the mall didn't care or judge or anything. There's also a very sizable lgbt+ community so it's hard and near impossible to feel like you're the only one.

Best of luck!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on April 16, 2015, 07:13:05 AM
I was at me hairdresser this evening. I started with them pre transition telling them I was trans* and needed help with my crew cut to look feminine.

The girls have been great but my stylist (straight male), while charming and friendly has always been a little reserved.

This evening he was flirting with me outrageously, in a fun nice way.

I asked him what had changed?

He stopped in his tracks; had a think then said. 'You are a woman, and a very attractive one and I flirt with all my female clients' He then sat down and looked at me and said. 'Yes I know you were transgender and of course I accept you. But I think have just accepted in my subconscious that you are a woman' 'My apologies if I have ever offended you' (he never has)

And I have a gorgeous hair style :laugh:

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Summer on April 16, 2015, 07:33:37 AM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1275.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fy458%2Fpikalik1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-04%2F2BE3C7A8-F061-4EDE-AEF8-1EDA9BC5EE23_zpswbzq7eyi.jpg&hash=944d004396af192687ca11c31178e9bbe7dd7adb) (http://s1275.photobucket.com/user/pikalik1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-04/2BE3C7A8-F061-4EDE-AEF8-1EDA9BC5EE23_zpswbzq7eyi.jpg.html)
Went shopping got this  dress and had the best Thai I've ever had was a  good day . Have to check my lotto ticket might make it a tri fector


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Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on April 16, 2015, 07:40:45 AM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 15, 2015, 04:53:39 PM
New sunglasses!!   ;D ;D ;D  Sorry for appearing in boy mode.... :(

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi79.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fj142%2FJessie-Ann15%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2FB167D210-09E2-4C7A-BDDA-A51755C5B778_zpshfq2nuo8.jpg&hash=13ee3af77f50671569c36ed51f8af85ef6bf0a75) (http://s79.photobucket.com/user/Jessie-Ann15/media/Mobile%20Uploads/B167D210-09E2-4C7A-BDDA-oA51755C5B778_zpshfq2nuo8.jpg.html)
Wow, just wow! Yes, the glasses are nice too, but the difference between your avatar and that picture! I'm not sure I would peg you for brother and sister, let alone the same person.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ainsley on April 16, 2015, 09:57:56 AM
Quote from: Summer on April 16, 2015, 07:33:37 AM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1275.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fy458%2Fpikalik1%2FMobile%2520Uploads%2F2015-04%2F2BE3C7A8-F061-4EDE-AEF8-1EDA9BC5EE23_zpswbzq7eyi.jpg&hash=944d004396af192687ca11c31178e9bbe7dd7adb) (http://s1275.photobucket.com/user/pikalik1/media/Mobile%20Uploads/2015-04/2BE3C7A8-F061-4EDE-AEF8-1EDA9BC5EE23_zpswbzq7eyi.jpg.html)
Went shopping got this  dress and had the best Thai I've ever had was a  good day . Have to check my lotto ticket might make it a tri fector


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Love the dress!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 16, 2015, 12:10:11 PM
Just logged in to "popular social media site" and saw that one of my Mom's cousins had posted a "share this if..." And the "if" was "if you agree transgender people should be able to use the bathroom of their choice" or something like that. In the comments section my Mom had added that she thinks urinals should all be scrapped and all bathroom facilities should become gender neutral.

I love my family!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 17, 2015, 01:53:01 AM
I finally feel much better. Somehow I got some type of food poisoning a week ago & I was one sick little girl for a while, oh me, terrible. Love the new look of Susan's Place. It's been a while since I checked in.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Zoetrope on April 17, 2015, 02:23:35 AM
The papers are signed and the fees are paid ...

Next week I move into my own apartment, my first as the new me!

I've picked a modest place in an incredibly good location. I can now get anywhere ... anytime!

Oh, and my Endo yesterday maxed out my E. I'll also be starting the biggest and final stage of transition.

Look out! This is gonna be wild :~D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 17, 2015, 02:47:26 AM
Good luck Sarah!   :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:

Quote from: SarahBoo on April 17, 2015, 02:23:35 AM
The papers are signed and the fees are paid ...

Next week I move into my own apartment, my first as the new me!

I've picked a modest place in an incredibly good location. I can now get anywhere ... anytime!

Oh, and my Endo yesterday maxed out my E. I'll also be starting the biggest and final stage of transition.

Look out! This is gonna be wild :~D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 17, 2015, 02:51:58 AM
Thanks Dee!  Isn't it amazing what a little make-up and a wig can do?  The pictures were only 4-5 days apart.  ;D

Quote from: Dee Walker on April 16, 2015, 07:40:45 AM
Wow, just wow! Yes, the glasses are nice too, but the difference between your avatar and that picture! I'm not sure I would peg you for brother and sister, let alone the same person.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: ChiGirl on April 17, 2015, 05:55:22 AM
I got my first pair of breast forms.  They weren't cheap, but oh so worth it!  I couldn't stop staring at myself in the mirror.  I wanted to cry tears of joy, I was so happy.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 17, 2015, 07:13:45 AM
Quote from: SarahBoo on April 17, 2015, 02:23:35 AM
The papers are signed and the fees are paid ...

Next week I move into my own apartment, my first as the new me!

I've picked a modest place in an incredibly good location. I can now get anywhere ... anytime!

Oh, and my Endo yesterday maxed out my E. I'll also be starting the biggest and final stage of transition.

Look out! This is gonna be wild :~I remember my first apartment. I was so excited like you. Loved decorating it & lots of pretty flowers. I always love to cook & prepare nice elegant meals sometimes. I so rememebr such nice men coming to visit. Those were great days & nights. Enjoy young girl friend, have fun.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 17, 2015, 11:21:55 AM
This is not technically from today but it is making me happy today too. Last night my best male friend slash roommate told me he sees a different person now, that the old me is gone. He said when I moved in (pre hrt) he saw it. He told me too that the young guy who was playing lacross against a wall when I was moving in had been checking me out and that he, my friend, also caught himself doing the same. Aparently my but is female enough!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Emjay on April 17, 2015, 06:03:28 PM
Happy thought for today:

Today when I got up, I went through my routine getting dressed and stuff and noticed my A cup bra is starting to get tight....  Hopefully it won't be long until I'm shopping for B cup bras...  WOO!

:laugh:
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Wednesday on April 18, 2015, 12:37:37 AM
This one...

(https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRB9ub-msuLVnsKtICzZkXQhALGVmKVAj6aYoHcx98kFs69r5CtbLwvX3A)

And this one...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fmakeswordswork.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2013%2F05%2FDuvel-image.jpg&hash=65fc9f8c8028d3ce9f189c70779fa89d946434b4)

Cheat days  (-_-)\m/
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 18, 2015, 02:24:44 AM
No fair!  I call foul!

;)

Quote from: Wednesday on April 18, 2015, 12:37:37 AM
This one...

(https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRB9ub-msuLVnsKtICzZkXQhALGVmKVAj6aYoHcx98kFs69r5CtbLwvX3A)

And this one...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fmakeswordswork.com%2Fblog%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2013%2F05%2FDuvel-image.jpg&hash=65fc9f8c8028d3ce9f189c70779fa89d946434b4)

Cheat days  (-_-)\m/
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jenny07 on April 18, 2015, 04:57:57 AM
Some days I really feel great and the progress amazing which make me so happy.
Others I am troubled trying to cope with it all.

Guess what day it is today?
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on April 18, 2015, 05:04:22 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on April 18, 2015, 04:57:57 AM
Some days I really feel great and the progress amazing which make me so happy.
Others I am troubled trying to cope with it all.

Guess what day it is today?

I will get to Sydney. And you will learn to cope!

I promise you!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 18, 2015, 05:16:31 AM
Quote from: Jenny07 on April 18, 2015, 04:57:57 AM
Some days I really feel great and the progress amazing which make me so happy.
Others I am troubled trying to cope with it all.

Guess what day it is today?
[/quote  What was the quote from Elizabeth Taylor, "have a drink, put on some lipstick & get back in their"  so maybe try a new shade of lipstick.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: alexbb on April 18, 2015, 06:55:32 AM
i had my first endo appointment on wednesday and went shopping with my mum it was wicked!
made me happy all week.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on April 18, 2015, 09:22:44 AM
Just took my first E pill! I can't believe that this day is here!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 18, 2015, 10:14:20 AM
 :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:  :eusa_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_geekdance:  :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:

Welcome to the E class of 2015!!!  Sit back, enjoy the show and get ready for the time of your life!

Quote from: islandgirl on April 18, 2015, 09:22:44 AM
Just took my first E pill! I can't believe that this day is here!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 18, 2015, 11:16:39 AM
Quote from: Jessie Ann on April 18, 2015, 10:14:20 AM
:eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:  :eusa_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_geekdance:  :eusa_dance: :eusa_clap: :eusa_clap:

Welcome to the E class of 2015!!!  Sit back, enjoy the show and get ready for the time of your life!

We keep growing and growing...

(In number I mean!!)  :o

I'm happy because I have the weekend plus one more day of work before my endo appointment, when I will likely get to move to a more standard sized dose. I've been enjoying the gradual changes so far, but a jumpstart would be very welcome.....

Also, about to go shopping for a bean crock and a pork shoulder. Tomorrow will be pulled pork and baked beans, cooked out under the magnolia in the back yard...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: rachel89 on April 18, 2015, 11:25:30 AM
waking up in the right clothing and getting dressed in the right clothing.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: PhoenixGurl2016 on April 18, 2015, 11:35:38 AM
My grandmother called me Amanda for the 1st time outside of a day of me being part time :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 18, 2015, 01:27:53 PM
I have a 3 hour 2 tech electrolysis appointment in a couple hours. I am going to get rid of some more of that ugly facial hair!!  :D
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 18, 2015, 08:22:13 PM
It just feels good to be a woman. My body has improved quite a bit & I love everything about being Francis. My GRS & the healing process would be so pleasant to have behind me & a nice step forward enjoying being a normal female. I'm sure my body would continue to improve from HRT after GRS. Life is good GF's.   
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: iKate on April 18, 2015, 11:41:02 PM
Consistently passed today, even with the iKate's biggest clocker - herself. I mean seriously, I looked in the mirror and thought to myself, "damn, is that you???"
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 19, 2015, 12:08:38 AM
Not only are we growing in numbers, some of us are just plain growing. I don't know about you but I've got a couple of things that sure are growing.  :o

Quote from: jeni on April 18, 2015, 11:16:39 AM
We keep growing and growing...

(In number I mean!!)  :o
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 19, 2015, 08:31:39 AM
Quote from: rachel89 on April 18, 2015, 11:25:30 AM
waking up in the right clothing and getting dressed in the right clothing.

Sometimes this is all I need, it just makes all my days better.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on April 19, 2015, 06:17:35 PM
I have a personal photo and fashion tumblr (where I identify as trans and lesbian) and I've been getting a lot of likes sprinkling me like comet dust from the lesbian universe.

I can't lie it really boosts my confidence knowing how hard it is to be trans and finding acceptance in CIS world lesbian spaces (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Foi62.tinypic.com%2F2qspk5y.jpg&hash=786aaeb00389915a7e3d56427216d34983a36c9f)

So yes. I am happy todai!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 19, 2015, 08:52:56 PM
Saw my ex today, we hadn't spoken in five years. We reconnected in a great way. Apologies were made, tears were shed. i now have one of my best friends back in my life. Accepting my true self is healing all the wounded parts of my life!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: DrummerGirl on April 19, 2015, 08:59:08 PM
Quote from: Kellam on April 19, 2015, 08:52:56 PM
Saw my ex today, we hadn't spoken in five years. We reconnected in a great way. Apologies were made, tears were shed. i now have one of my best friends back in my life. Accepting my true self is healing all the wounded parts of my life!

Wow!  That's awesome!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Cindy on April 20, 2015, 02:49:30 AM
Sitting in the waiting room at my Endo's waiting for my implant (Ye! I feel good again), the woman next to me struck up a conversation about how she felt being on implants. She then asked if I had had a hysterectomy as well.

I thought this could be a learning moment so I told her I was a transgender woman. She was a bit shocked but started to ask nice questions and I think we gained another friend to the community. She was genuinely disturbed and upset when I told her of our self harm rate and the how we are treated in other countries. She was totally amazed when I told her that a woman like me can be barred from using the toilet in some USA states.

She was a very nice lady, I'm happy I met her.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 20, 2015, 06:26:31 AM
I'm very happy for some sunshine. We have had such rain for over a week. I love to grow a garden & roses. I'm so ready for planting. It's rough on my hands however it's well worth it when everything starts to grow.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessie Ann on April 20, 2015, 06:32:31 AM
Packing up my stuff from my dad and step mom's house.  Soon I will drive away knowing that I won't ever have to go back there. 

Since I was told last night that they cannot "condone" my transition, it makes driving away that much easier.  I was given a bible that was "touched" by many Christians and many, many more are praying for my "cure".  The bible has a number of commentaries and they highlighted a page for me that says effectively tolerance for something they don't believe in is equal to an unacceptable endorcement of sin.

I just flipped through it for a second and came upon a commentary that said while family is important, it isn't more important than the kingdom of God and that God has something for us that is bigger and more radical than we could ever imagine on our own.

So it will be easy for me to respect their wishes.  I don't care if they "condone" my transition or not, it is not up to them.  I guess they missed that whole part of the new testament about not judging others.   I won't judge their view, in fact I will respect it by not placing them in a position where they have to make any decisions about accepting or not accepting me. 

Sometimes people make it very easy for you to make your life choices.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: charlotte15 on April 20, 2015, 03:59:43 PM
2 cis girl complemented me on my hair, 2 days in a row!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Jessika on April 20, 2015, 05:03:41 PM
Quote from: Cindy on April 20, 2015, 02:49:30 AM
She was totally amazed when I told her that a woman like me can be barred from using the toilet in some USA states.
I hear you.
I just found out this:

http://transequality.org/blog/the-new-landmark-eeoc-ruling-explained-workers-have-right-to-restrooms-based-on-identity (http://transequality.org/blog/the-new-landmark-eeoc-ruling-explained-workers-have-right-to-restrooms-based-on-identity)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: 23 Skidoo on April 20, 2015, 05:10:22 PM
Having a little boy ask "Are you a boy or a girl" at work when you actually have visible stubble(in fact mainly on the neck, which was the area he had the best view of) is pretty rad. Estrogen is pretty cool.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: iKate on April 20, 2015, 07:34:08 PM
I was clocked today!!! By a kid no less!!!

Why am I posting this in the happy thread?

Because she clocked me as a woman! Even though I was in full male drag.

I went to pick up my kids again from school today. This kid was playing with them. She told them, "your mommy is here." One of my daughters said, "no that's my DADDY." She said,"no that's a girl!!! That's your mommy!!!"

Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: AndreaLinda on April 20, 2015, 07:46:51 PM
What made me happy?
I CAME OUT! :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 20, 2015, 08:21:44 PM
I got my first ma'am today. It threw me for a loop, a young cashier at the grocery said it but I thought he said "man". Just as I was realizing it he said it again right to me! I was so flustered. It made the rest of my bike ride in the rain wonderful. When I got home I found a package from my Mom. She had bought me some shirts.

I am loving life right now...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 21, 2015, 07:38:54 AM
Submitted my initial profile to Dr. McGinn's office this morning. I am so excited that perhaps by late summer by body will have a nice normal vagina. That will be so lovely to finally have a physically correct body.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: jeni on April 21, 2015, 08:36:03 PM
Last night, I overheard my 5-year-old talking to my wife about our 1-year-old. She asked how we knew she was a girl, which my wife explained easily enough. My daughter then asked "What if she's a boy?" and my wife said that if she told us she was a boy, that would be ok and we'd believe her.

Then my daughter said, "Maybe she's transgender."

Kids today...

(I am not out to my kids yet, but my wife got a kid's book about Jazz Jennings a few weeks ago, which is why the 5-y-o is aware of the term. Apparently she was paying attention...)
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Post by: Mallory on April 22, 2015, 01:17:15 AM
Quote from: jeni on April 21, 2015, 08:36:03 PM
Last night, I overheard my 5-year-old talking to my wife about our 1-year-old. She asked how we knew she was a girl, which my wife explained easily enough. My daughter then asked "What if she's a boy?" and my wife said that if she told us she was a boy, that would be ok and we'd believe her.

Then my daughter said, "Maybe she's transgender."

Kids today...

(I am not out to my kids yet, but my wife got a kid's book about Jazz Jennings a few weeks ago, which is why the 5-y-o is aware of the term. Apparently she was paying attention...)

That is so awesome! Kids become who we let them be and they have no bias that isn't learned. You and your wife are doing it right. :)

As for me, I had my first date with a guy! Well, not really a date, just a get together, but it was the first time I've presented somewhat female (I wore a hoody, barefoot, and dress) and it was absolutely amazing to be allowed to just be myself. I'm no where near passable (yet), but it was a good experience. Even if he never calls or texts Im still happy. :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 22, 2015, 06:49:50 AM
Earth Day. Let's all do someting nice for the planet, plant some roses, clean up a little trash, plan to grow a garden, trim around your house.........Have fun GF's.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on April 22, 2015, 09:47:18 AM
Yes, Happy Earth Day! With all the damage people do to the world much do to mindlessness, we need to be much more aware of what each of us can do. So often people believe that they can not impact the big industries that pollute, but we can all do little things. Less be mindful in our actions, and all contribute to a better world. Greater mindfulness will also contribute to better health in general.

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Post by: bluebirdx88 on April 22, 2015, 01:12:17 PM
So.... I decided to check an FFS website as they gave free interviews, I know I can't and possibly never will be able to afford it, but eh... Window shopping can be fun, eh? They required to take pics with your hair pulled back, and the pics I took had me traumatized, as I'd already been crying for days because of my hairline... I looked like a damn ogre.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs17.postimg.org%2Fvxzituozv%2F20150422_185555.jpg&hash=ccfd3b0138e5f41d2d5134c9a88e58b066ad4a81) (http://postimg.org/image/vxzituozv/)

See? To be honest I still have a hard time looking at that pic...

However A couple of minutes later I pulled off the band and...

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs21.postimg.org%2F50v3ngy77%2F20150422_192945.jpg&hash=e833c1ee86bb42634eb93591f8b3dadfe907a164) (http://postimg.org/image/50v3ngy77/)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fs21.postimg.org%2Frfcs3p0yr%2F20150422_192954.jpg&hash=8cbbe6aeec67d01959df4ebab32a4087bbbf0061) (http://postimg.org/image/rfcs3p0yr/)

I somehow suddenly felt like a person again... I guess that's valid as something that made me happy?

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Post by: michelle666 on April 22, 2015, 01:23:56 PM
I got my letters today from thrapist and psychiatrist! The application is all filled out and I'm just waiting to hear back from Dr Bowers office on how they prefer to receive the documents.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Dee Marshall on April 22, 2015, 06:31:50 PM
Today Sweetie and I were eating lunch in a diner we've never been in before. I was freshly shaved (within 2 hours) wearing men's jeans, orange Converse sneakers with no socks and a black and white Dr. Who/Abbey Road sweatshirt. I had my brown coach men's bag with me. As she walked by she said, "can I bring you some drinks, girls?" My first pass from the front! I'm sure there will be plenty of mis-genderings going forward, but I was by no means trying! Here's to 7 months, 20 days of HRT!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Kellam on April 22, 2015, 07:07:02 PM
I had a great day. I went through all of my belongings except for three cases that hold some paintings. I threw out or recycled everything that I needed to leave behind. Particularly some writing and drawings that had always pained me. They were the quiet voiced evidence of my denial. I need to make new art and now I am closer to being able to do that.

Also, I went out in a skirt and flats for the first time. I wish I could wear skirts at work but it would just be impractical. I can't wait for the time off I have comming in greater quantity next week!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: sparrow on April 22, 2015, 08:13:56 PM
Had a bad day at work today... I'm not out, but I feel a little better sometimes when I take my hair down.... and it was bad enough that I took it down in a meeting.  This was the first time I've had my hair down at work... I ran into a woman in a hallway, and she absolutely flipped her ->-bleeped-<- over how awesome my hair was (not shown in profile pic).  :)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 23, 2015, 06:03:08 AM
Quote from: sparrow on April 22, 2015, 08:13:56 PM
Had a bad day at work today... I'm not out, but I feel a little better sometimes when I take my hair down.... and it was bad enough that I took it down in a meeting.  This was the first time I've had my hair down at work... I ran into a woman in a hallway, and she absolutely flipped her ->-bleeped-<- over how awesome my hair was (not shown in profile pic).  :)
You lucky girl. What is your secret to thick nice hair? Please share with all of us. I would just love thick long hair. My nipples are really burning & itching today & so hard. It seems like a go in a cycle, some days no feelings much then some days like today. It hurts for anything to touch them almost. I'm a happy girl since they are growing, I'm maybe a small B cup & really do not want breast implants if mine will grow to a C cup size & fill in thicker.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Amber74 on April 23, 2015, 09:27:53 AM
I Pierced my bellybutton
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Post by: Christy82 on April 23, 2015, 10:57:11 AM
Its not much, but I took my first dose of spiro. 
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Post by: emyrinth on April 23, 2015, 11:17:54 AM
Someone asked how I was doing and actually wanted to hear the honest truth...
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: islandgirl on April 23, 2015, 02:09:13 PM
Christy - "Not much"! Starting on spiro is a big step along the path! Blocking T, over time, will help with E increase. So all steps are important. Celebrate each and every little or big step!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 23, 2015, 07:26:33 PM
The people at Dr. McGinn's office were very nice today & understanding. I have a few loose ends to forward to them then an initial visit in about 3 months. Her practice is busy & I'm sure it's because she does excellent work. I am so excited that finally soon my body will have a normal vagina. That will be such a happy day for me.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Evelyn K on April 24, 2015, 04:37:00 AM
I am happy today because I'm about to have susans website hosted for FREE with a huge and respected enterprise ISP. :)

Over 200 gigabytes of bandwidth per month 24 hour fully managed dedicated servers with multiple cpu Intel Xeon processors, real time backups. Screaming fast and will cost 1/20'th the price.

Hooking susan up yo!

Donators your money will work hard for all of us - stay tuned! Going to submit a proposal to susan in the announcements thread! Lets talk numbers so we can make this site the best ever!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Susan on April 24, 2015, 04:47:50 AM
We would already owe them money, 233.85 GB and almost a week to go. Doing 6.5 gb per day roughly so that would be about 45 Gigs more before the end of the month. The site will only continue to get more popular with the recent addition of the news content. I project traffic will triple in the next year or so.

Already this month we have had 212,352 unique visitors, accounting for 5,672,932 pageviews, and 24,683,519 hits. Bandwidth transfer is at 234.03 GB (notice it's already gone up). At our slowest time of the day we are doing 6.30mbps average bandwidth transfer.

If there is a problem I have to rely on their staff to deal with it, instead of being able to handle it myself. Last Enterprise ISP I hosted with it was $350 per hour 2 hour minimum to get access to a server after hours or on weekends.  I have 24x7 access to it where I am.  We are fine.

Most Enterprise ISP's limit you to just 1gb per database table, and we can't do that. We are using 3.13gb counting just our main databases. The posts on the forum is using 2.1gb by its self.

Then you have shared servers which seem fine until you get put on a server with a high load site like ours.

This site got it's start all the way back in 1995 when another popular transgender site was forced to take down their chat due to their provider telling them they were using too much bandwidth. No one can tell me anything like that. I can use my connection full out 24x7x365 without having to worry about bandwidth overages.

Where I am at I can go from 25mbps all the way up to gigabyte level if needed. which we might in another 10-15 years. I can upgrade bandwidth here with a phone call and a slightly larger monthly bandwidth expense.

Then you have the fact that what is given can be easily taken away at any time if they don't like you or something you are doing.

If they wish to donate the costs of the hosting to the site each month, or provide us with newer hardware, I would consider something like that. But I will not be moving the server.

Any proposals or sponsorships you want to send, be sure to do it via forum pm or email.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 24, 2015, 05:47:56 AM
Susan, thank you so much for your vision back in 1995. You have helped so many nice people on the planet to improve their lives. I'm sure every member thanks you so much. Take care GF & I hope life is well your way.
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Susan on April 24, 2015, 06:39:07 AM
Quote from: FrancisAnn on April 24, 2015, 05:47:56 AM
Susan, thank you so much for your vision back in 1995. You have helped so many nice people on the planet to improve their lives. I'm sure every member thanks you so much. Take care GF & I hope life is well your way.

No!  Thank you for your support Francis! (Damn kindle spellcheck) This site is here because of people like yourself!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: FrancisAnn on April 24, 2015, 07:09:28 AM
Susan, you have no idea how nice it has been to find good friends from your site. I have nice women friends all over the planet & we all have our strugles with life & all us girls should help each other all we can to have a better life. Love you, Francis.
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Post by: michelle666 on April 24, 2015, 07:12:05 AM
I organized all my documents and am facing them in to dr bowers office today!!
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: katrinaw on April 24, 2015, 07:15:04 AM
Quote from: Julia-Madrid on April 25, 2014, 12:35:05 PM
Happy ANZAC day girls...!!!

Woo hoo, my little moment of happiness was finding that, after 3 weeks on HRT, my breasts are very definitely and officially sensitive. 

Finally!

Thanks Julia  :-*

And Yay to the first stage in your biological transformation  :-*

L Katy
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Post by: Rainbow Dash on April 24, 2015, 04:23:59 PM
I like my hair.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi688.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fvv246%2FKeairaElisabeth%2FSnapshot41_zpslplup3bi.jpg&hash=d986499ff73e1729dd53ffdd9e2c065f74fa2e1f)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi688.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fvv246%2FKeairaElisabeth%2FSnapshot49_zpsjogceliy.jpg&hash=5a430d5e1c26f1a74b2f721ca7a21ace4b796b99)
Title: Re: What made you happy today?, for MTF members please
Post by: Susan on April 24, 2015, 06:23:08 PM
Time for a new thread, someone do the honor.