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Title: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Starla on May 30, 2014, 06:36:14 AM
Keep in mind, I am pre everything. My weight isn't where it should be, but I am looking forward to dropping pounds and getting in the best shape ever. My hair is about shoulder length but I had it pulled back in a bun.

Anyways  :D
Yesterday my little brother and his friend were outside, they are both 8. I asked them if they would like a piece of pizza and his friend replied with "Yes ma'am"  :o

I just smiled and turned around to go get their pizza. It was kinda amazing, to be honest. Gives me hope.
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Ms Grace on May 30, 2014, 07:09:41 AM
And kids are often the harshest judges. Congrats.
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Rachel on May 30, 2014, 07:14:45 AM
Wow, that must feel wonderful!
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: E-Brennan on May 30, 2014, 07:16:43 AM
Quote from: Starla on May 30, 2014, 06:36:14 AMYesterday my little brother and his friend were outside, they are both 8. I asked them if they would like a piece of pizza and his friend replied with "Yes ma'am"  :o

They should have said, "Yes miss" - you look nowhere near old enough to be a ma'am.

As Grace said, if kids see you as female, you're doing something very right.  Congrats!
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: immortal gypsy on May 30, 2014, 07:18:15 AM
Congratulations.

Kids can be the best. They can be brutally honest and have absolutley no sense of tact.

Sounds like somebody has a crush on his friends big sister
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Eva Marie on May 30, 2014, 07:37:49 AM
The first mam is confirmation that you are doing something right!  :)

I almost missed my first mam. I was getting food at a place and the guy that took my order mam'ed me when we were done. At first I thought that he was talking to someone else and then I realized with a shock he was talking to me :laugh:
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Starla on May 30, 2014, 07:56:09 AM
Thanks everyone! And I thought the same thing! Like wow children rarely hold back and are some of the most honest creatures on Earth  :D

But yes it was a good feeling.   ^-^
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: stephaniec on May 30, 2014, 08:21:20 AM
sorry please don't take this wrong, but I'm a little confused is the avatar you or just another picture of some one else. I'm just wondering because there would be no question about being ma,mm'd if that's you
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Kimberley Beauregard on May 30, 2014, 08:42:52 AM
The woman in her Avatar is Lana Del Rey.
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: stephaniec on May 30, 2014, 09:04:06 AM
thanks  I was a little confused why she'd be worried about being seen as a woman
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Starla on May 30, 2014, 05:14:34 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on May 30, 2014, 08:21:20 AM
sorry please don't take this wrong, but I'm a little confused is the avatar you or just another picture of some one else. I'm just wondering because there would be no question about being ma,mm'd if that's you

No, that's NOT me. It's one of my favorite artists Lana Del Rey. I wish it were me!  :D
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Ginny on May 30, 2014, 07:08:22 PM
I just stumbled on her work a few weeks ago. I like the rythem of the music she puts out.  Anyways, to original topic: Congratulations, there's nothing quite like that first "ma'am" to make you feel all giddy inside.  ;D
~Jen
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Goldfish on May 30, 2014, 07:13:23 PM
Congratulations  ;D    Heck, double congrats as you're pre everything and that is not easy  :D
Not sure what that would feel like. People don't 'sir'/'ma'am' in the UK, or at least the parts I've been to. Anyone have any idea if there is some sort of equivalent?
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Ginny on May 30, 2014, 07:20:39 PM
My Lady? Madam? Ms? Marm? Mrs? 
I'm pretty sure any of these could be used.
~Jen
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: TaoRaven on May 30, 2014, 08:46:02 PM
feels great, doesn't it??

I've been getting "ma'am" pretty much exclusively lately.

And the other day, a kind southern gentleman even called me "Miss Roxy"  ...I about melted....lol.
Title: Re: So I got "ma'amed" yesterday.
Post by: Handy on May 31, 2014, 09:52:18 AM
You just wait; once you get on HRT, it will begin happening more and more (in boy mode!). I've been really lucky in that whenever I've been really down/GD has been getting to me a ma'am hasn't been too far off XD

Enjoy it, roll with it, and be proud! You're doing something right!