Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Bombadil on June 27, 2014, 03:54:59 PM Return to Full Version
Title: the lady called me "he"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Post by: Bombadil on June 27, 2014, 03:54:59 PM
Post by: Bombadil on June 27, 2014, 03:54:59 PM
finally finally finally I got identified as he. I was at the pet store saying hi to a dog and the owner kept using male pronouns for me. At first I thought she was only talking about her dog because people who don't know my preference consistently misgender me as female. But she used "he"!!!! Woo hoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by: helen2010 on June 27, 2014, 03:57:42 PM
Post by: helen2010 on June 27, 2014, 03:57:42 PM
Brilliant. Validating and very, very positive. So pleased for you
Aisla
Aisla
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Post by: Eris on June 27, 2014, 04:11:54 PM
Post by: Eris on June 27, 2014, 04:11:54 PM
Congratulations :)
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Post by: Jessica Merriman on June 27, 2014, 04:21:40 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on June 27, 2014, 04:21:40 PM
Congrats! I bet that felt incredible. :)
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Post by: Bearr on June 27, 2014, 04:32:05 PM
Post by: Bearr on June 27, 2014, 04:32:05 PM
Nice ;D
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Post by: Bombadil on June 28, 2014, 01:21:21 AM
Post by: Bombadil on June 28, 2014, 01:21:21 AM
I was starting to get scared it would never happen. It felt so freaking great.
And then I went to the trans* parade. Holy wow. what an amazing day.
And then I went to the trans* parade. Holy wow. what an amazing day.
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Post by: G on June 28, 2014, 08:56:44 AM
Post by: G on June 28, 2014, 08:56:44 AM
That's awesome christopher :)
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Post by: viktor_tokyo on June 28, 2014, 09:06:16 AM
Post by: viktor_tokyo on June 28, 2014, 09:06:16 AM
:icon_geekdance: Sweet! Also so jealous you got to go to the parade!
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Post by: blink on June 28, 2014, 09:15:07 AM
Post by: blink on June 28, 2014, 09:15:07 AM
Congrats. The first time being correctly gendered on sight is fantastic.
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Post by: Maleth on June 28, 2014, 12:36:34 PM
Post by: Maleth on June 28, 2014, 12:36:34 PM
That is SO awesome! Congrats!!! ;D
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Post by: Bombadil on June 28, 2014, 02:57:41 PM
Post by: Bombadil on June 28, 2014, 02:57:41 PM
Quote from: blink on June 28, 2014, 09:15:07 AM
Congrats. The first time being correctly gendered on sight is fantastic.
yes. It really was. And I'm so relieved because I know I'm early on T but I was starting to think maybe no changes were happening at all
And today my friends were over and said I am definitely passing better.
Quote from: viktor_tokyo on June 28, 2014, 09:06:16 AM
:icon_geekdance: Sweet! Also so jealous you got to go to the parade!
I was fantastic. I will totally go next year if I can.
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Post by: Adam (birkin) on June 28, 2014, 03:09:33 PM
Post by: Adam (birkin) on June 28, 2014, 03:09:33 PM
That's awesome Christopher! Just wait, the day will come where they keep coming and coming. ;D
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Post by: MrJ on June 28, 2014, 08:28:20 PM
Post by: MrJ on June 28, 2014, 08:28:20 PM
Congrats! When you was Trans* Pride parade, were you at the Trans* Pride parade in Toronto last night? I was there! It was awesome, my first parade. :D
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Post by: bambam on June 29, 2014, 04:53:37 PM
Post by: bambam on June 29, 2014, 04:53:37 PM
congrats bro, that's definitely a great feeling =)
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Post by: Fox in Socks on June 29, 2014, 06:17:02 PM
Post by: Fox in Socks on June 29, 2014, 06:17:02 PM
Congratulations. ;D People have no idea how fine it feels when they get your pronouns right.
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Post by: Moimoinen on July 20, 2014, 02:11:13 PM
Post by: Moimoinen on July 20, 2014, 02:11:13 PM
Congratulations! :D Let's hope it becomes a consistent thing!
~Elliott
~Elliott
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Post by: Jill F on July 20, 2014, 02:22:21 PM
Post by: Jill F on July 20, 2014, 02:22:21 PM
Awesome, and congrats!
Savor that moment forever. It's a wonderful accomplishment and milestone.
Hugs,
Jill
Savor that moment forever. It's a wonderful accomplishment and milestone.
Hugs,
Jill
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Post by: Bombadil on July 20, 2014, 10:42:42 PM
Post by: Bombadil on July 20, 2014, 10:42:42 PM
Sorry, I didn't see all the replies. I haven't been identified as "him" again but it's a start
It wasn't Toronto. :)
Quote from: MrJ on June 28, 2014, 08:28:20 PM
Congrats! When you was Trans* Pride parade, were you at the Trans* Pride parade in Toronto last night? I was there! It was awesome, my first parade. :D
It wasn't Toronto. :)