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Title: HI Everyone!
Post by: Vik on July 28, 2007, 07:54:27 PM
Post by: Vik on July 28, 2007, 07:54:27 PM
So, I have met a few of you in the chatroom already, but I figured since my husband was brave enough to give an intro on here so should I. I am Vanessa's SO. I am very excited for Vanessa, and I am very proud. I am so glad that s/he decided to share with me and, we are both glad that we have found such a wonderful place to make new friends. If you read Vanessa's intro or if I talked to you in the chat then you know that I am bi. I haven't mentioned this to many people, Vanessa knows, but my father is a CD. He hides it. I found out when I was about 10 years old, and that is a very impressionable age. I was just begining to have my first crushes, and become interested in relationships. I remember my mother sent me to vacation bible school that summer, and I had a crush on what I thought was a boy in one of the older classes. And on the last day of vbs, durring the awards ceremony they do, I found out the ''boy'' I liked so much was actually the preachers daughter. The funny thing was that, it did not change the fact that I was still attracted to this person. I am 23, and so by the time I got to highschool, being a bi-sexual girl was a good thing, it got a boys attention. Not that you could actually find a real girlfriend if you were a chick, but they all wanted to say that they were bi and that you two were an item. So, I had a few girlfriends and several boyfriends thru highschool. My mom doesnt know my sexual orentation, and I wont tell her. She divorced my father in part because he is a CD, and she dosnt mind gay/bi people..... as long as its not her children. I have always been a very open person, and the night I met my husband I knew there was something about him that was begging to be set free. I am so glad that I am the one s/he chose to share it with. I want to be supportive and encouraging so any words of wisdom are greatly appriciated. Thank you all for your support too! You are all beautiful people.
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: RebeccaFog on July 28, 2007, 10:36:46 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on July 28, 2007, 10:36:46 PM
Hi Vik,
Welcome to Susan's!!! Glad to see you have your own account. I think it's great that you support Venessa. We need more people like you in the world :)
Please take a look around and make yourself comfortable. You are about to learn secrets that few outsiders will ever know ;)
Peace, Have fun too,
Rebis
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: HelenW on July 29, 2007, 10:37:30 AM
Post by: HelenW on July 29, 2007, 10:37:30 AM
Hi, Vik, welcome!
We had an opportunity to chat a bit earlier and I'm happy you decided to join up in our forums.
I hope we'll see alot more posts from you in the future.
hugs & smiles
Emelye
We had an opportunity to chat a bit earlier and I'm happy you decided to join up in our forums.
I hope we'll see alot more posts from you in the future.
hugs & smiles
Emelye
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: MeghanAndrews on July 29, 2007, 12:01:58 PM
Post by: MeghanAndrews on July 29, 2007, 12:01:58 PM
Hi Vik,
Welcome to Susan's! It's really wonderful that you are so supportive of Vanessa. Who knows where this journey will take both of you, but for you to encourage Vanessa to set 'herself free' is just a wonderful thing. One of the hardest thing for TG people to do is come out to their loved ones. To actually be encouraged by a spouse who cares about you and loves and supports you is a very rare occurence.
I'm sure you've looked around the site and seen the multitude of resources available to you both. Welcome and I'll see you both around, Meghan
Welcome to Susan's! It's really wonderful that you are so supportive of Vanessa. Who knows where this journey will take both of you, but for you to encourage Vanessa to set 'herself free' is just a wonderful thing. One of the hardest thing for TG people to do is come out to their loved ones. To actually be encouraged by a spouse who cares about you and loves and supports you is a very rare occurence.
I'm sure you've looked around the site and seen the multitude of resources available to you both. Welcome and I'll see you both around, Meghan
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: RebeccaFog on July 29, 2007, 12:24:36 PM
Post by: RebeccaFog on July 29, 2007, 12:24:36 PM
Quote from: Ashley Michelle on July 29, 2007, 12:05:08 PMQuote from: Rebis on July 28, 2007, 10:36:46 PM
Hi Vik,
Welcome to Susan's!!! Glad to see you have your own account. I think it's great that you support Venessa. We need more people like you in the world :)
Please take a look around and make yourself comfortable. You are about to learn secrets that few outsiders will ever know ;)
Peace, Have fun too,
Rebis
are you going to show her the secret handshake too? :D
Not until we receive her first dues payment. ;)
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: tinkerbell on July 29, 2007, 05:55:43 PM
Post by: tinkerbell on July 29, 2007, 05:55:43 PM
Hello Vik and welcome to Susan's!
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the forums of the site, review the site rules and take adantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay! :)
tink :icon_chick:
Thank you for your introduction. Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the forums of the site, review the site rules and take adantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page. We look forward to your future posts and participation. Enjoy your stay! :)
tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: lighting on July 30, 2007, 04:32:04 AM
Post by: lighting on July 30, 2007, 04:32:04 AM
Hi Vik
welcome to susans im glad you found us here this is a great place for information and friendly advice and making friends with great people
Thank you for sharing
i hope you enjoy your time with us
best wishes
amanda
welcome to susans im glad you found us here this is a great place for information and friendly advice and making friends with great people
Thank you for sharing
i hope you enjoy your time with us
best wishes
amanda
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: Jay on July 30, 2007, 05:21:41 AM
Post by: Jay on July 30, 2007, 05:21:41 AM
Hi, Vik welcome to Susans Place! :)
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: Vik on July 30, 2007, 08:52:53 PM
Post by: Vik on July 30, 2007, 08:52:53 PM
Thank you all. Its nice to know there is a place where I can ask questions and not be judged. I am enjoying learing about everything so that I can be supportive and encouraging. :)
Title: Re: HI Everyone!
Post by: gennee on July 31, 2007, 12:56:45 PM
Post by: gennee on July 31, 2007, 12:56:45 PM
Welcome to Susans, Vik. Thank you for sharing your story.
Gennee
:)
Gennee
:)