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Title: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 18, 2014, 05:23:49 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 18, 2014, 05:23:49 PM
Lets say nature showers great genetics on you for transition ,but you do only have the genes to give you either incredibly beautiful face or an out of this world perfectly shaped body. . how is your brain wired to bring you to a happy transition. Understanding that the relief from dysphoria is the main reason to transition , but what kind of extra benefits would give you that dream life. I think personally I'd love to have the body of Sofia Loren if not the face. I love the Idea of walking around in a perfect dress showing off my figure. I'd be one happy little camper. just a useless fluffy question.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Ms Grace on July 18, 2014, 06:00:17 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on July 18, 2014, 06:00:17 PM
You sure think up some crazy scenarios Stephanie! Can't pick this one. I'm happy with a reasonable face and a reasonable body. Now if I could just get some reasonable hair I'd be really happy!
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Hikari on July 18, 2014, 06:18:44 PM
Post by: Hikari on July 18, 2014, 06:18:44 PM
Probably face. I really focus there when I look in the mirror it seems.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: alabamagirl on July 18, 2014, 06:28:41 PM
Post by: alabamagirl on July 18, 2014, 06:28:41 PM
Definitely face. Sure, all the other parts are nice, but the face is really a person's main attraction to me.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: EmmaD on July 18, 2014, 07:01:32 PM
Post by: EmmaD on July 18, 2014, 07:01:32 PM
Lots more hair ... but only on my head!
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: whatever on July 18, 2014, 07:06:02 PM
Post by: whatever on July 18, 2014, 07:06:02 PM
I used to feel face but now I'm going to have to say body; its the hardest to alter. Face you can get surgery and can do ++ makeup tricks and hacks to smooth things over :)
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Megan Joanne on July 18, 2014, 07:31:36 PM
Post by: Megan Joanne on July 18, 2014, 07:31:36 PM
If I had a choice of choosing either face really beautiful or bangin' body, but if it meant which ever I chose would make the other worst, I'll stick with how I am now. But if I could choose and there'd be no backlash to the other, lets say, my face, then I'd take that super hot body! ;D My face is fine as is, my body while slim and overall small frame even though slightly tall still leaves much to be desired.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 18, 2014, 07:36:59 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 18, 2014, 07:36:59 PM
I just like the idea of my hips being seen a mile away
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: HeatherR on July 18, 2014, 08:05:31 PM
Post by: HeatherR on July 18, 2014, 08:05:31 PM
Totally body! That is one of the largest factors in my dysphoria. I love makeup and all that, but I feel disgusting being seen in public because of my masculine body.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Misha on July 19, 2014, 12:26:19 AM
Post by: Misha on July 19, 2014, 12:26:19 AM
At a certain point in my transition I went a point where I realized most of my previous activities were just anti-depressives or escape from reality (job included). Based on that being able to fill the time with new activities more quickly would make me a lot happier. Long walks do the trick for now but I'm a bit too tired the next day :-) .
Otherwise I'm very satisfied with my body already. Although having a bit smaller feet would help a lot so that I'm not limited to a single shop with "large" shoes :-) .
Otherwise I'm very satisfied with my body already. Although having a bit smaller feet would help a lot so that I'm not limited to a single shop with "large" shoes :-) .
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Christine Eryn on July 19, 2014, 12:54:45 AM
Post by: Christine Eryn on July 19, 2014, 12:54:45 AM
Well this is in easy one, the face of course. It's gonna take some evasive surgery to get this mug where it needs to be.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Alaia on July 19, 2014, 02:03:10 AM
Post by: Alaia on July 19, 2014, 02:03:10 AM
I'd go with the body too. At least the face can be altered with surgeries. Not much you can do about large hands and feet, skinny hips, broad shoulders, and a barrel for a ribcage.
If I could have a petite body with rockin curves... um yeah, no contest there.
If I could have a petite body with rockin curves... um yeah, no contest there.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 02:23:03 AM
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 02:23:03 AM
I've already got the body with the curves, so I have to go with face. Oh to have smooth soft facial skin without scars on a dainty heart shaped face would be my dream.
Many say, well the face can be altered with surgery. Well, that type of surgery takes $$ to the likes I'll never have. Maybe for those who are young and able to work, or are already financially stable surgery is an option. But for a poor girl like me on a low fixed income, I'd have to hit the lottery or win big in Vegas before I'll be able to afford purely cosmetic facial surgery, so these scars of mine aren't going away anytime soon.
Allie :icon_flower:
Many say, well the face can be altered with surgery. Well, that type of surgery takes $$ to the likes I'll never have. Maybe for those who are young and able to work, or are already financially stable surgery is an option. But for a poor girl like me on a low fixed income, I'd have to hit the lottery or win big in Vegas before I'll be able to afford purely cosmetic facial surgery, so these scars of mine aren't going away anytime soon.
Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Emily1996 on July 19, 2014, 03:09:31 AM
Post by: Emily1996 on July 19, 2014, 03:09:31 AM
I would say the body just because i didn't start HRT yet and I have a male body D: and I really want curves, I can't wait to start HRT lol
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: generous4 on July 19, 2014, 11:48:21 AM
Post by: generous4 on July 19, 2014, 11:48:21 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on July 18, 2014, 05:23:49 PM...I'd love to have the body of Sofia Loren if not the face
I resemble that remark. 8)
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: awilliams1701 on July 19, 2014, 12:33:45 PM
Post by: awilliams1701 on July 19, 2014, 12:33:45 PM
I would go for face.
What good is a smoking hot body if your face looks like a manly man?
I think my biggest issue is my thighs. I've some some weird things going on there. I have these narrow and shallow dents running along my veins in that area. Its very strange. If that doesn't change (and its been that way for 3 or 4 years), then I don't think I could ever wear a bikini in public.
What good is a smoking hot body if your face looks like a manly man?
I think my biggest issue is my thighs. I've some some weird things going on there. I have these narrow and shallow dents running along my veins in that area. Its very strange. If that doesn't change (and its been that way for 3 or 4 years), then I don't think I could ever wear a bikini in public.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Auroramarianna on July 19, 2014, 01:01:52 PM
Post by: Auroramarianna on July 19, 2014, 01:01:52 PM
Both would be very pleasant to have. However, I would go for the body simply because my face is more feminine than my body, but obviously given the choice I would just be happy to be born in 'right' body, if you can even call it that.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: awilliams1701 on July 19, 2014, 01:21:48 PM
Post by: awilliams1701 on July 19, 2014, 01:21:48 PM
100% agree
Quote from: Auroramarianna on July 19, 2014, 01:01:52 PM
Both would be very pleasant to have. However, I would go for the body simply because my face is more feminine than my body, but obviously given the choice I would just be happy to be born in 'right' body, if you can even call it that.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 02:54:34 PM
Post by: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 02:54:34 PM
I think a second "X" chromosome would have suited me best.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 04:37:24 PM
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 04:37:24 PM
Quote from: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 02:54:34 PMSome of us have two X chromosomes, but having it doesn't make things easier, on the contrary. I have to side with Auroramarianna, in that I'd rather have been born in the right body with normal genitals.
I think a second "X" chromosome would have suited me best.
Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 19, 2014, 04:40:38 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 19, 2014, 04:40:38 PM
Quote from: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 04:37:24 PMto have been born right would of been amazing
Some of us have two X chromosomes, but having it doesn't make things easier, on the contrary. I have to side with Auroramarianna, in that I'd rather have been born in the right body with normal genitals.
Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 05:15:39 PM
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 05:15:39 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on July 19, 2014, 04:40:38 PMIt would have been wonderful Steph, truly wonderful. But alas, we must all play the cards we're dealt. How we live with our struggles makes us who we are I can finally after all these years see a light at the end of the tunnel. It's still a little far, but I can see it, which is more than I could say 6 months and 3 weeks ago.
to have been born right would of been amazing
Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 05:20:51 PM
Post by: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 05:20:51 PM
Sorry folks, my ill attempt at snarkasm was not meant to be taken seriously.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: stephaniec on July 19, 2014, 05:31:22 PM
Post by: stephaniec on July 19, 2014, 05:31:22 PM
Quote from: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 05:20:51 PMthat's all right Jill , we're all family here
Sorry folks, my ill attempt at snarkasm was not meant to be taken seriously.
Title: Re: which conditition would bring more satisfation to your transition
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 05:40:23 PM
Post by: Allyda on July 19, 2014, 05:40:23 PM
Quote from: Jill F on July 19, 2014, 05:20:51 PMYea no worries Jill, as Steph said we're all family here. I kind of thought you were joking anyway. Besides, now we can call you Snarky, lol!!
Sorry folks, my ill attempt at snarkasm was not meant to be taken seriously.
Allie :icon_flower: