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Title: I passed????
Post by: melanie maritz on August 10, 2014, 05:43:49 AM
Post by: melanie maritz on August 10, 2014, 05:43:49 AM
I was just now waiting in the car for my mom at the shop when this man in a car next to ours signalled to roll down the window.
I rolled it down thinking he wanted to talk about his life story since I saw he was drinking a beer. But he said "you are so f###n pretty" and I just smiled, then he asked what my dad's name is and I just smiled at him then he said my dad makes pretty children and then he said I have f###n pretty eyes and then he asked foe my name.
Still I just kept quiet while smiling at him, I knew he would know I was a guy if I spoke and then he would probably freak out because I could hear and see he was drunk.
But get THIS , I wasn't wearing makeup, I had stubble because I haven't shaved yesterday and my hair was wet and frizzy.
Now I think he just thought I was pretty cause he was so drunk , but at least I passed!!
Right?
I rolled it down thinking he wanted to talk about his life story since I saw he was drinking a beer. But he said "you are so f###n pretty" and I just smiled, then he asked what my dad's name is and I just smiled at him then he said my dad makes pretty children and then he said I have f###n pretty eyes and then he asked foe my name.
Still I just kept quiet while smiling at him, I knew he would know I was a guy if I spoke and then he would probably freak out because I could hear and see he was drunk.
But get THIS , I wasn't wearing makeup, I had stubble because I haven't shaved yesterday and my hair was wet and frizzy.
Now I think he just thought I was pretty cause he was so drunk , but at least I passed!!
Right?
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: Ms Grace on August 10, 2014, 06:02:52 AM
Post by: Ms Grace on August 10, 2014, 06:02:52 AM
Well it might have been a case of beer goggles but you are pretty and do look female in your avatar. :)
Hopefully your next passing experience is very soon and doesn't involve some drunk dude!
Hopefully your next passing experience is very soon and doesn't involve some drunk dude!
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: Auroramarianna on August 10, 2014, 06:28:26 AM
Post by: Auroramarianna on August 10, 2014, 06:28:26 AM
Told ya :)
You sure passed! And you are not a guy, you are a girl :)
You sure passed! And you are not a guy, you are a girl :)
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: Jennygirl on August 10, 2014, 06:42:06 AM
Post by: Jennygirl on August 10, 2014, 06:42:06 AM
Sounds like a heckofapass especially with all the added factors of no makeup and stubble. Exciting times :)
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: melanie maritz on August 10, 2014, 11:21:08 AM
Post by: melanie maritz on August 10, 2014, 11:21:08 AM
haha I think he had beer goggles on yes. As he was talking to me I wanted to laugh because I was thinking if this guy thinks I'm pretty I should go to bars more often :D lol!
Thanks Marianna , I know I'm a girl on the inside, my outside just isn't 100% there yet.
Lol, jennygirl yeah it was exciting in a weird way. Hopefully sober guys will find me pretty too one day.
Samantha, that might be true! But now that I think of it he probably couldn't see my stubble since it's blonde and you have to be pretty close to see it when I only didn't shave for a day.
This picture made me laugh too lol
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifeisajoke.com%2FPictures%2Fbeergoggleeffectformen.jpg&hash=9d661721bb16722d5c8fdbccea8717af0d610cde)
Thanks Marianna , I know I'm a girl on the inside, my outside just isn't 100% there yet.
Lol, jennygirl yeah it was exciting in a weird way. Hopefully sober guys will find me pretty too one day.
Samantha, that might be true! But now that I think of it he probably couldn't see my stubble since it's blonde and you have to be pretty close to see it when I only didn't shave for a day.
This picture made me laugh too lol
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifeisajoke.com%2FPictures%2Fbeergoggleeffectformen.jpg&hash=9d661721bb16722d5c8fdbccea8717af0d610cde)
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: barbie on August 10, 2014, 11:39:49 AM
Post by: barbie on August 10, 2014, 11:39:49 AM
If passing is the major concern, then I agree that you passed very well, as others commented.
I always try to avoid those unsolicited male strangers, ignoring their comments. Probably the culture here is different.
But I do listen to comments of my close friends and colleagues, regarding my beauty and fashion.
They do provide nice advice on socially-acceptable fashion and beauty. A common tip of their advice is that I have better wear conservatively, which I always try to disobey.
barbie~~
I always try to avoid those unsolicited male strangers, ignoring their comments. Probably the culture here is different.
But I do listen to comments of my close friends and colleagues, regarding my beauty and fashion.
They do provide nice advice on socially-acceptable fashion and beauty. A common tip of their advice is that I have better wear conservatively, which I always try to disobey.
barbie~~
Title: Re: I passed????
Post by: Valleyrie on August 10, 2014, 12:52:08 PM
Post by: Valleyrie on August 10, 2014, 12:52:08 PM
Welp, at least he was right even though he was drunk. :P You're not a guy, you're just a girl with a masculine sounding voice. :)