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I've been using urinals the odd time with my diamondback STP while out, but it makes me nervous every time. Usually I hope no one is in there.

The other night I used it 3 times, while drinking (tipsy), and my buddy even came in and chatted to me the one time. No one questioned anything and I felt GREAT.

It's awesome.

good for you maxman, I haven't gotten up the nerve to try mine in a public restroom.  I do use the men's all the time; sit in a stall.

Thats wassup I can't wait to get my python stp so I can start using it. Nobody is gonna stare at your dick though thats a big No No! Haha besides I'd probaly cuss someone out if they tried.

I'm glad that you have had success with your STP especially while tipsy.  I can't wait to use mine when I end up getting it in the mail. In the mean time its the good old stall for me.

I can only use mine when I'm drinking. But, the funnel is also not right for me so I should get a new one. Stalls in men's room are hard to come by.

I love being able to use the urinal but I don't think I'd try it tipsy. heh.

Urinals are disgusting and the last time that I used one was in 1997. I was never comfortable next to somebody else at the urinal. It was also difficult to not get splashes on my pants or to not get the last spurt after tucking everything back in. Yes some guys do look at other guys.

Quote from: mac1 on August 30, 2014, 09:54:23 PM
Urinals are disgusting and the last time that I used one was in 1997. I was never comfortable next to somebody else at the urinal. It was also difficult to not get splashes on my pants or to not get the last spurt after tucking everything back in. Yes some guys do look at other guys.

But were men so of course we wanna wip it out at the urinal like every other guy, And no most guys don't look at other guys junk to my knowlage unless there comparing sizes or are gay. But even then thats just awkward.

You have posted on urinal topics before and it seems like you don't want us guys to use them though because I can understand why you wouldn't but for us men to some of us its important.

Quote from: Brandon on August 30, 2014, 10:28:33 PM
But were men so of course we wanna wip it out at the urinal like every other guy, And no most guys don't look at other guys junk to my knowlage unless there comparing sizes or are gay. But even then thats just awkward.

You have posted on urinal topics before and it seems like you don't want us guys to use them though because I can understand why you wouldn't but for us men to some of us its important.

Some guys (cis and trans) don't want to pee at urinals and that's still valid, they're still guys. Everything  mac1 said is still a perfectly valid experience whether or not they're a guy, especially because they did live as a guy. They're not speaking up to get everyone to stop using urinals, they're trying to provide both sides of view and say that if you don't use a urinal, it's still fine, guys still do that. You're confident in yourself and feel strongly a guy won't look, and that's great that you're able to feel that way. But other guys here aren't so confident and will not use the urinal even if there's a tiny chance someone would look. Granted as you said it's awkward and if someone did look and see your dick wasn't quite real, he wouldn't say anything. But we are all here to give all opinions any nobody's is more or less valid than another person's.

Quote from: CursedFireDean on August 31, 2014, 06:09:53 AM
Some guys (cis and trans) don't want to pee at urinals and that's still valid, they're still guys. Everything  mac1 said is still a perfectly valid experience whether or not they're a guy, especially because they did live as a guy. They're not speaking up to get everyone to stop using urinals, they're trying to provide both sides of view and say that if you don't use a urinal, it's still fine, guys still do that. You're confident in yourself and feel strongly a guy won't look, and that's great that you're able to feel that way. But other guys here aren't so confident and will not use the urinal even if there's a tiny chance someone would look. Granted as you said it's awkward and if someone did look and see your dick wasn't quite real, he wouldn't say anything. But we are all here to give all opinions any nobody's is more or less valid than another person's.

Thank you. I used urinals for many years; probably for more years than you are old. Now I find it more to my liking to sit. Just my personal opinion. To each his/her own.

Quote from: mac1 on August 31, 2014, 07:06:27 AM
Thank you. I used urinals for many years; probably for more years than you are old. Now I find it more to my liking to sit. Just my personal opinion. To each his/her own.

Fair enough. Thanks for sharing your experience.. I have to agree a little bit. It's a person's personal opinion whether they prefer this or that. Personally I like sitting and standing, but sitting seems less of a hassle to me tbh since you can just sit and go. However, I still like to stand to pee because (again, personal opinion of mine) it feels like a validating experience and it makes me feel a lot like a man and even alleviate dysphoria because that's what I see men doing commonly in my experience.

Quote from: CursedFireDean on August 31, 2014, 06:09:53 AM
Some guys (cis and trans) don't want to pee at urinals and that's still valid, they're still guys. Everything  mac1 said is still a perfectly valid experience whether or not they're a guy, especially because they did live as a guy. They're not speaking up to get everyone to stop using urinals, they're trying to provide both sides of view and say that if you don't use a urinal, it's still fine, guys still do that. You're confident in yourself and feel strongly a guy won't look, and that's great that you're able to feel that way. But other guys here aren't so confident and will not use the urinal even if there's a tiny chance someone would look. Granted as you said it's awkward and if someone did look and see your dick wasn't quite real, he wouldn't say anything. But we are all here to give all opinions any nobody's is more or less valid than another person's.

I understand that but this person has commented before with that same thing asking us why we'd want to use one so thats not the first time they have done it I am not saying all guys wanna use a urinal I understand that but again thats not the this person has commented is all I am saying.

Quote from: Brandon on August 31, 2014, 09:04:05 AM
I understand that but this person has commented before with that same thing asking us why we'd want to use one so thats not the first time they have done it

They didn't ask why would we want to. I don't know about other threads but that was definitely never said in this thread. They just gave their opinion which was not liking urinals.

Quote from: CursedFireDean on August 31, 2014, 12:50:29 PM
They didn't ask why would we want to. I don't know about other threads but that was definitely never said in this thread. They just gave their opinion which was not liking urinals.

The other threads they did though thats why I made that statement, They asked why we would want to go through the hassle at the urinal. My only thing is why would you come on this thread and say it again. Thats the only point I was trying to get across, because they seem to not understand are dysphoria very well.

Brandon, before getting combative, I would re-evaluate myself if I were you because you don't seem to understand others dysphoria either... But I digress.


Congrats, OP, on your achievement! I don't think I could ever use urinals... I'm so pee shy, lol.

Quote from: Kyler on August 31, 2014, 02:17:08 PM
Brandon, before getting combative, I would re-evaluate myself if I were you because you don't seem to understand others dysphoria either... But I digress.


Congrats, OP, on your achievement! I don't think I could ever use urinals... I'm so pee shy, lol.

No I do understand dysphoria, I have gender dysphoria at times and no one is trying argue or anything I'm sick of you guys thinking I am always trying to argue. All I said was if that person is dysphoric and is a woman who happens to have the wrong body then for you sitting might just be the female thing to do and vice versa standing would be the male thing to do. But your over on the mens side which I am pretty sure most would pefer to stand. Thats why I don't get why they conmented that, when they said it before is all I am saying. That person already said I can't understand why ftms would want to stp in another thread everybodies different Its quick and more conveinent for me.

All are welcome to voice their opinions. Accept it and move on.

Brandon, you used to moan when people judged you on what you said on other threads, now you're doing the same thing to mac1.

Quote from: Brandon on August 31, 2014, 02:47:06 PM
No I do understand dysphoria, I have gender dysphoria at times and no one is trying argue or anything I'm sick of you guys thinking I am always trying to argue. All I said was if that person is dysphoric and is a woman who happens to have the wrong body then for you sitting might just be the female thing to do and vice versa standing would be the male thing to do. But your over on the mens side which I am pretty sure most would pefer to stand. Thats why I don't get why they conmented that, when they said it before is all I am saying. That person already said I can't understand why ftms would want to stp in another thread everybodies different Its quick and more conveinent for me.

In further clarification:
(1) I did not say that I choose to sit because I was trying to be female.
(2) I had stood at urinals for over 50 years.
(3) I was tired of standing next to other guys at a urinal.
(4) I was frequently getting splashes on my trousers and the last spurt in them after
......tucking it back in leaving embarasing pee on my trousers.
(5) When standing at the urinal trying to fully empty my bladder I was self conscious
......of it looking like I was playing with my penis.
(6) I tried sitting instead and found that # 2 through #5 were no longer a problem.

What would you do?

Quote from: lxndr on August 31, 2014, 04:27:34 PM
Brandon, you used to moan when people judged you on what you said on other threads, now you're doing the same thing to mac1.

I am not judging anyone. All you guys do is gang up on people because you don't wanna take the time to understand what I wrote. Its like yaw wanna find some negative and bad in everything that I type so that you can say something back.

Quote from: mac1 on August 31, 2014, 04:33:02 PM
In further clarification:
(1) I did not say that I choose to sit because I was trying to be female.
(2) I had stood at urinals for over 50 years.
(3) I was tired of standing next to other guys at a urinal.
(4) I was frequently getting splashes on my trousers and the last spurt in them after
......tucking it back in leaving embarasing pee on my trousers.
(5) When standing at the urinal trying to fully empty my bladder I was self conscious
......of it looking like I was playing with my penis.
(6) I tried sitting instead and found that # 2 through #5 were no longer a problem.

What would you do?

I stand, but never mind I am done with this convo.

If everyone has a problem with how you are typing it seems you need to look at how you write things. If it was just one person with an issue with you it would be different but it is the majority here.

This has gone totally off topic.