Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: ssneha23 on September 07, 2014, 08:27:05 PM Return to Full Version

Title: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: ssneha23 on September 07, 2014, 08:27:05 PM
So my weekend started with going to the mall with friends, the usual shopping and all that.

Here is the kicker, I went out in my usual femmy guy mode. Just very light makeup, but full guy clothes and short boy hair. I don't have the confidence to present as myself just yet. Anyways.. I found out I totally failed as a guy... Everywhere I went people were addressing me as ma'am. I mean literally everywhere including security check lines, the sales girls at the shops, the lounge.. Just everywhere.

This was like a dream come true. I have my big coming out party planned for the coming Saturday. I was so nervous about it.  But now am feeling so much more confident ..  I think I can pull it off.
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Baiorensu on September 07, 2014, 10:17:13 PM
Congrats!! That's the dream ^_^
Good luck Saturday! You'll do great!
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: JLT1 on September 07, 2014, 10:37:19 PM
Yea...male fail really builds confidence...

Congrads and keep us up to date..

Hugs,

Jen
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Taka on September 08, 2014, 12:57:45 AM
you certainly don't look much like a man in your avatar, and i don't think it's something that shorter hair could fix...
congrats on being seen as who you are.
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: ssneha23 on September 08, 2014, 01:31:48 AM
Thanks so much for your replies and compliments all..  :D:D
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: JulieBlair on September 08, 2014, 02:51:29 AM
Taka ' s right, I think you can just relax and live a full and happy life as yourself.  You're beautiful and feminine.

Peace,
Julie
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Ms Grace on September 08, 2014, 06:18:39 AM
A coming out party? Now that sounds like fun! :)

Congrats on your fail!
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: ImagineKate on September 08, 2014, 10:19:10 AM
Male fail!!! As if there were any doubt. You will be fine.
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Rachel on September 08, 2014, 08:18:23 PM
Congratulations.
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Melizza on September 08, 2014, 08:25:37 PM
Congrats, what an excellent fail!!! :)
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: ssneha23 on September 08, 2014, 10:55:59 PM
Thanks so much for your replies :D:D An unrelated question. Do you girls think being size 10 is fat for a girl whose is 5 ft. -4 in .. In height?
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: JulieBlair on September 09, 2014, 10:00:53 AM
Nope, depends on how you are put together.  Are you happy?  Really skinny isn't very pretty, but how you see yourself matters.  If your BMI is somewhere between 21 and 23 you are in the feminine sweet spot.  Size is not what you should look at too much.

Peace,
Julie
Title: Re: What a revelation.. A new milestone in my transition
Post by: Taka on September 09, 2014, 01:10:42 PM
skin and bones isn't a very soft combination.
soft is the feminine way. at least when it comes to looks.