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Title: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: stephaniec on September 23, 2014, 07:10:09 PM
Post by: stephaniec on September 23, 2014, 07:10:09 PM
I'm pre-op bi-trans MTF
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jessica Merriman on September 23, 2014, 07:14:10 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on September 23, 2014, 07:14:10 PM
Pre op intersex MtF. :)
Come on post op! :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray:
Come on post op! :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray:
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: mrs izzy on September 23, 2014, 07:15:33 PM
Post by: mrs izzy on September 23, 2014, 07:15:33 PM
Female.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: JourneyingSam on September 23, 2014, 07:31:18 PM
Post by: JourneyingSam on September 23, 2014, 07:31:18 PM
Lesbian
Sam x
Sam x
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 07:33:42 PM
Post by: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 07:33:42 PM
Right next to Jessica.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Myarkstir on September 23, 2014, 07:35:39 PM
Post by: Myarkstir on September 23, 2014, 07:35:39 PM
Quote from: mrs izzy on September 23, 2014, 07:15:33 PM
Female.
Hehe i will answer this one in exactly 2 months from tonight
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jaime R D on September 23, 2014, 07:53:43 PM
Post by: Jaime R D on September 23, 2014, 07:53:43 PM
marsh monster
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Tysilio on September 23, 2014, 08:51:22 PM
Post by: Tysilio on September 23, 2014, 08:51:22 PM
Geezer. :icon_grandpa:
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Edge on September 23, 2014, 09:12:52 PM
Post by: Edge on September 23, 2014, 09:12:52 PM
Assuming the question refers to the GSM umbrella...
What I tell people: bisexual transexual man currently dating a guy
What I actually am: transexual man who may be more Loki-like in terms of gender than I let on (it's complicated and I'm not completely sure on that although I am sure I'm a transexual man) and who is aesthetically attracted to a lot of people, can potentially but is rarely romantically attracted to any gender but mostly guys, is not sexually attracted to anyone but I like sex with people and don't care who I have it with, and is currently dating a possibly non-binary person.
What I tell people: bisexual transexual man currently dating a guy
What I actually am: transexual man who may be more Loki-like in terms of gender than I let on (it's complicated and I'm not completely sure on that although I am sure I'm a transexual man) and who is aesthetically attracted to a lot of people, can potentially but is rarely romantically attracted to any gender but mostly guys, is not sexually attracted to anyone but I like sex with people and don't care who I have it with, and is currently dating a possibly non-binary person.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: justpat on September 23, 2014, 09:34:09 PM
Post by: justpat on September 23, 2014, 09:34:09 PM
NB full time female waiting for the magic wand.:)
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Ms Grace on September 23, 2014, 09:38:10 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on September 23, 2014, 09:38:10 PM
Just how big is this umbrella and which way is the rain coming??
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: stephaniec on September 23, 2014, 09:47:55 PM
Post by: stephaniec on September 23, 2014, 09:47:55 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on September 23, 2014, 09:38:10 PMpretty big and down under
Just how big is this umbrella and which way is the rain coming??
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 09:56:44 PM
Post by: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 09:56:44 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on September 23, 2014, 09:38:10 PM
Just how big is this umbrella and which way is the rain coming??
It's not rain, it's... GENDER FLUID!!!
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: cookieworks on September 23, 2014, 10:36:37 PM
Post by: cookieworks on September 23, 2014, 10:36:37 PM
Well, let's just hope I don't fall into a hole while under my umbrella...
Bisexual, tomboyish MtF Pre-Op that's been on HRT for 10 months.
Bisexual, tomboyish MtF Pre-Op that's been on HRT for 10 months.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: katiej on September 23, 2014, 10:42:18 PM
Post by: katiej on September 23, 2014, 10:42:18 PM
Quote from: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 09:56:44 PM
It's not rain, it's... GENDER FLUID!!!
That sounds messy!
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: cookieworks on September 23, 2014, 10:54:25 PM
Post by: cookieworks on September 23, 2014, 10:54:25 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on September 23, 2014, 09:47:55 PM
pretty big and down under
THAT WAS AN INNUENDO AND A HALF.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: stephaniec on September 24, 2014, 09:09:42 AM
Post by: stephaniec on September 24, 2014, 09:09:42 AM
Quote from: cookieworks on September 23, 2014, 10:54:25 PMFreudian slip or benign reference to the land down under, sorry
THAT WAS AN INNUENDO AND A HALF.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Sammy on September 24, 2014, 09:24:15 AM
Post by: Sammy on September 24, 2014, 09:24:15 AM
"Me? I'm just passin' through."
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Heather on September 24, 2014, 09:52:56 AM
Post by: Heather on September 24, 2014, 09:52:56 AM
I don't need an umbrella to fit under. I would rather just dance in the rain label free and totally me. ;)
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Matthew on September 24, 2014, 09:53:26 AM
Post by: Matthew on September 24, 2014, 09:53:26 AM
I'm human.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: captains on September 24, 2014, 01:11:14 PM
Post by: captains on September 24, 2014, 01:11:14 PM
Non-binary and transmasculine.
Alternately, just ''liminal.'' Being a nb, bisexual, mixed race person sure does mean walking a lot of tightropes. :D
Alternately, just ''liminal.'' Being a nb, bisexual, mixed race person sure does mean walking a lot of tightropes. :D
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Destiny Marie on September 24, 2014, 02:01:24 PM
Post by: Destiny Marie on September 24, 2014, 02:01:24 PM
Quote from: Heather on September 24, 2014, 09:52:56 AM
I don't need an umbrella to fit under. I would rather just dance in the rain label free and totally me. ;)
Wish I was that strong, but I am clutching the handle trying to close it around myself.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Missy~rmdlm on September 24, 2014, 05:08:30 PM
Post by: Missy~rmdlm on September 24, 2014, 05:08:30 PM
TS is my closest fit, but really the "umbrella" isn't for me. I'm primarily just another girl.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jessica Merriman on September 24, 2014, 05:15:27 PM
Post by: Jessica Merriman on September 24, 2014, 05:15:27 PM
Quote from: Jill F on September 23, 2014, 07:33:42 PMMmmmm! ^-^ ^-^
Right next to Jessica.
Oh sorry, I know what you meant! *giggles* ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Mark3 on September 24, 2014, 05:26:54 PM
Post by: Mark3 on September 24, 2014, 05:26:54 PM
Every time I think I have an answer to that, it changes the next day or week..? It seems to have a lot to do with where I am, and what I'm doing at the time.? Like I draw on whatever gender related energy I need for a specific task, and I become more that than any other..
I used to not be able to do that, I surpressed any gender energy that seemed outside the CIS binary boundaries, and was always miserable because of that.. Now I'm much more open to it, and feel much happier and more free inside..
I don't think I want to try and label myself though, that seems to just be another restriction..?
I used to not be able to do that, I surpressed any gender energy that seemed outside the CIS binary boundaries, and was always miserable because of that.. Now I'm much more open to it, and feel much happier and more free inside..
I don't think I want to try and label myself though, that seems to just be another restriction..?
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Felix on September 24, 2014, 05:34:30 PM
Post by: Felix on September 24, 2014, 05:34:30 PM
My closest fit is gay male, but with a lot of asterisks. I apparently act straight and I don't view vaginas with disgust the way a lot of gay men seem to. My sexual attractions are almost exclusively to other men, but I also sometimes like masculine women, androgynous people, and transpeople at most stages in transition. Sometimes I like gender ambiguity a lot.
I identify strongly as a binary male, but I try to accept the parts of my body that I can't change, and I'm not willing to treat my female history as worthless. I'm a rough-around-the-edges homosexual man who used to be a mother, I guess. Something like that.
My identity to strangers in everyday life is that of a regular guy, a single dad who happens to be gay. Most people seem to decide that I'm actually bisexual, and I'm okay with that.
I identify strongly as a binary male, but I try to accept the parts of my body that I can't change, and I'm not willing to treat my female history as worthless. I'm a rough-around-the-edges homosexual man who used to be a mother, I guess. Something like that.
My identity to strangers in everyday life is that of a regular guy, a single dad who happens to be gay. Most people seem to decide that I'm actually bisexual, and I'm okay with that.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: stephaniec on September 24, 2014, 07:08:14 PM
Post by: stephaniec on September 24, 2014, 07:08:14 PM
well, I'm trying to be totally female , it could take awhile , but the process gets more interesting day by day.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: MrKarl35 on October 13, 2014, 12:23:18 AM
Post by: MrKarl35 on October 13, 2014, 12:23:18 AM
Non-Trans Male, oh wait.... I don't need an umbrella, not afraid of getting wet :)
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Pikachu on October 13, 2014, 12:30:48 AM
Post by: Pikachu on October 13, 2014, 12:30:48 AM
Just a regular ol' MTF girl. As far as I know, I don't have any intersex conditions. MTF lesbian, if we're bringing sexuality into it.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: LordKAT on October 13, 2014, 02:31:28 AM
Post by: LordKAT on October 13, 2014, 02:31:28 AM
Under the purple section. It is a rainbow colored umbrella.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Jill F on October 13, 2014, 02:38:24 AM
Post by: Jill F on October 13, 2014, 02:38:24 AM
Quote from: LordKAT on October 13, 2014, 02:31:28 AM
Under the purple section. It is a rainbow colored umbrella.
I like purple. It's pretty. My nails and eyeshadow are purple today. Purple seems to set off my eyes, which are blue-green. If only I had a purple guitar to match...
Can one dye a KAT purrple?
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: Mark3 on October 13, 2014, 03:37:28 AM
Post by: Mark3 on October 13, 2014, 03:37:28 AM
I'm a little bit country....
And a little bit rock and roll....
And a little bit rock and roll....
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: LordKAT on October 13, 2014, 04:01:22 AM
Post by: LordKAT on October 13, 2014, 04:01:22 AM
Quote from: Jill F on October 13, 2014, 02:38:24 AM
I like purple. It's pretty. My nails and eyeshadow are purple today. Purple seems to set off my eyes, which are blue-green. If only I had a purple guitar to match...
Can one dye a KAT purrple?
Not only can dye a KAT purple, KAT's look good in lavendar tuxedos.
I was told by a photographer that teal like colors go well with purply colors. I'll bet you look great.
Title: Re: a totally benign question: where is your closest fit under the umbrella.
Post by: PucksWaywardSon on November 02, 2014, 07:06:38 PM
Post by: PucksWaywardSon on November 02, 2014, 07:06:38 PM
Definitely attracted to guys. Feel like a guy. Pre-everything, only partially out as questioning. Eventually I guess that'd make me a gay guy as a potential end goal, but we'll see how that works out. Admitting to being possibly trans killed my last relationship and I need to do some figuring out of myself before I can even think about hooking up with anyone!