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Hey Everyone,

I have been tucking for almost 6 months now. I've used cloth tape for the longest time which worked quite well for a while but recently I've noticed that it really irritates my skin. Is there a cheap and effective way to tuck that doesn't require paying $100+ for a weeks worth of Gaffs? What I really loved about the tape method is that I could hide my bits in such a way so that I wouldn't see them when going to the bathroom.

Thanks! :)

Athena

Following.  I want to see what other methods are out there, too.

I like the tube sock method about halfway through this video here.  It's always worked well for me.

http://youtu.be/Fzp9tbedh7Q?list=UU8xaIcidBMZ2dKQSTpyrtAg

I just use the double-panty method, which basically involves wearing a pair of panties that's a size smaller than your normal size, and using that to hold everything in place after you've tucked everything back, and then wear a regular size pair of panties over it.

It's not the most effective method in terms of looking completely empty, and definitely doesn't hide it when you go to the bathroom, but it's very comfortable and very easy.

I've always keep a clean shave and use two pieces of duck tape. Been doing that for almost two years now and works grate for me as long as shave every 2-4 days. Plus it's very cheep.

Quote from: Ademie on October 01, 2014, 04:33:11 PM
I've always keep a clean shave and use two pieces of duck tape. Been doing that for almost two years now and works grate for me as long as shave every 2-4 days. Plus it's very cheep.

Cloth tape is way better for your skin than duct tape. A big problem I have is that after my skin started changing, my skin has become easier to irritate. Also, I have always had a problem with ingrown hairs down there, the more I shave, the more ingrown hairs I receive. Less of a problem after HRT but its still an issue so I try not to shave down there too often.

Quote from: Carrie Liz on October 01, 2014, 01:58:09 PM
I just use the double-panty method, which basically involves wearing a pair of panties that's a size smaller than your normal size, and using that to hold everything in place after you've tucked everything back, and then wear a regular size pair of panties over it.

It's not the most effective method in terms of looking completely empty, and definitely doesn't hide it when you go to the bathroom, but it's very comfortable and very easy.

Like this.

I posted a detailed thread on the forum already. A quick search will find it for you

boy shorts a size smaller work perfectly for me

I'll second the tube sock method. Cheap, comfortable, and materials last a long time.

Quote from: Carrie Liz on October 01, 2014, 01:58:09 PM
I just use the double-panty method, which basically involves wearing a pair of panties that's a size smaller than your normal size, and using that to hold everything in place after you've tucked everything back, and then wear a regular size pair of panties over it.

It's not the most effective method in terms of looking completely empty, and definitely doesn't hide it when you go to the bathroom, but it's very comfortable and very easy.

I second this. Double panty method is all I've ever needed. It doesn't look totally flat, but it's comfortable and completely reusable.

Quote from: Dee on October 01, 2014, 08:30:38 PM
I'll second the tube sock method. Cheap, comfortable, and materials last a long time.

Just be sure to wash the sock regularly  :)

the control top from a torn pair of pantyhose works great as a frugal full coverage shapewear/gaffe. I just cut the torn legging part at the mid thigh area, and hold everything in while pulling it up to my waist or underbust. much more comfortable than the tubesock or retail gaffe methods out there. when the leg openings are cut or rolled up just right, it can even be used for binding under a bathing suit, and will make going to the loo so much easier than messing with tape. save the cut leggings for use as a air filter over your computer fan, air vent, etc, OR you can even use them as the skin for makeshift breast forms too if you want them...

After more than two decades of trying many conceivable (and a few inconceivable) methods of getting rid of "it" such as glues, tapes, binders, undersized undies, and even rubber bands and stitches, this is my preferred method.

I wear a comfortable gaff and then I use stiff control panties on top, really flattens everything out and holds well enough for me to take cycling trips, etc.

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Quote from: Athena on October 01, 2014, 11:47:51 AMWhat I really loved about the tape method is that I could hide my bits in such a way so that I wouldn't see them when going to the bathroom.

This is the part of your post I think most everyone is overlooking. There are a number of good tucking methods your can read in detail on this forum and I find it best to vary theme according to what I'm wearing and the situation. However, what you really want to do is not just to hide your genitals the public, but from yourself. That's a tall order and there's probably no really good way to do that consistently. It's not a good idea to wear tape on the same area of skin for more than a few days at a time. I think gaffs are one of the least desirable methods. With any underwear solution you'll still have to pull them down and bring things out it use the bathroom. Pretty much the only good way to do what you really want is to have SRS surgery. Until then, I suggest using one of the clothing solutions and knowing things will be better in the future.

Check the Susan's Wiki for a good tucking method using cut off pantyhose. Doubling up tight fitting panties can work well, too. Many types of control panties hold things well, but it's kind of hit and miss to score the right one for you. Please start experimenting with some of these other methods and limiting your taping to special occasions. Also, only use tape that is designed for use on human skin.

The homemade gaff method rocks.

I just wear a normal pair of knickers,  and the wear a pair of control knickers over the top to hold everything in place :) it works and is quite comfy :) xx

Quote from: veritatemfurto on October 01, 2014, 11:28:51 PM
the control top from a torn pair of pantyhose works great as a frugal full coverage shapewear/gaffe. I just cut the torn legging part at the mid thigh area, and hold everything in while pulling it up to my waist or underbust. much more comfortable than the tubesock or retail gaffe methods out there. when the leg openings are cut or rolled up just right, it can even be used for binding under a bathing suit, and will make going to the loo so much easier than messing with tape. save the cut leggings for use as a air filter over your computer fan, air vent, etc, OR you can even use them as the skin for makeshift breast forms too if you want them...

After more than two decades of trying many conceivable (and a few inconceivable) methods of getting rid of "it" such as glues, tapes, binders, undersized undies, and even rubber bands and stitches, this is my preferred method.

This is exactly what I do. For everyday under shorts or pants I do it over my underwear. Also I found some panties at Costco that work well without anything except a panty liner. But if I am really active things will slide out.

Have not found a method to achieve a totally smooth look and it does not stay in place well. Would like to be able to permanently solve the problem with total penectomy, castration, and reroute.

Balls up inside pelvis, penis pulled back between legs and trapped between buttocks, thong pulled tight, boy shorts, then tights!

And all that is the reason I don't tuck unless I really need to any more!

Alice
xx

Quote from: Lyric on October 03, 2014, 09:51:29 AM
This is the part of your post I think most everyone is overlooking. There are a number of good tucking methods your can read in detail on this forum and I find it best to vary theme according to what I'm wearing and the situation. However, what you really want to do is not just to hide your genitals the public, but from yourself. That's a tall order and there's probably no really good way to do that consistently. It's not a good idea to wear tape on the same area of skin for more than a few days at a time. I think gaffs are one of the least desirable methods. With any underwear solution you'll still have to pull them down and bring things out it use the bathroom. Pretty much the only good way to do what you really want is to have SRS surgery. Until then, I suggest using one of the clothing solutions and knowing things will be better in the future.

Check the Susan's Wiki for a good tucking method using cut off pantyhose. Doubling up tight fitting panties can work well, too. Many types of control panties hold things well, but it's kind of hit and miss to score the right one for you. Please start experimenting with some of these other methods and limiting your taping to special occasions. Also, only use tape that is designed for use on human skin.

The double pantie method is working really well for me. Thank you for all for your suggestions! I am in the midst of trying to get a job that has an insurance benefit that will cover GRS. Just waiting on their final decision for if they want to hire me or not!  :icon_nervious:

Quote from: Alice Rogers on October 03, 2014, 07:44:42 PM
Balls up inside pelvis, penis pulled back between legs and trapped between buttocks, thong pulled tight, boy shorts, then tights!

And all that is the reason I don't tuck unless I really need to any more!

Alice
xx

I.... wow. You must be rather lengthy to pull that off. I'm pretty small in that department and large in the scrotum/testicle department which has made it really, really hard for me to find a method that works.

Yes, we all have to deal with this in a different way, and I think preferably, in a variety of ways. When I pull the globes inside they tend to protrude almost as much as they do outside. Thus it's probably just as well I never that wear swimsuits. If I can I actually wear them down and tucked back between the legs instead.

I think I'm stuck wearing loose skirts and stuff that hide it all, since it's painfully obvious that I just don't have enough to work with to do anything with it.  :'(

Quote...it's painfully obvious that I just don't have enough to work with to do anything with it.

Not true!  If you're especially small, put the huevos in their pockets like everyone else does and pull your scrotom back, but instead of pulling your penis back with it, roll your foreskin over your glans and continue rolling it over and over like you're trying to get the last Mentos out of the roll.  When the glans is pushed back all the way up against your pubic area, and you're just holding a little mound of skin in your fingertips, tape tightly over your little "button" and it should look just fine.

... So then how would you pee?

You'd have to take the tape off.  It doesn't take any longer than any other method that uses tape.

i know what you mean shodan, the vast majority of tucking techniques out there can be a source of aggravation for those of us that have what would otherwise be called a micropenis if we were cisgender. its like its sometimes even mocking us cause we physically don't have what many others have to work with.  luckily for those of us that can "bury" the damned thing, there are other ways to get rid of it (as mentioned above) while we wait for surgery. If there wasn't, I'd of cut it off long ago and be like hedwig with an angry inch , only without the inch :P

Just take your spiro & before long there will not be much to worry with tucking away.

I prefer gaffs over taping, as it is quicker and easier to get ready and still allows me to use the facilities.  Moreover, after a modest, upfront investment, they are reusable.  I am probably medium in size, and I usually get a pretty flat appearance using a gaff.

Cate