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As far as sex goes and realizing that some girls really do not care about my trans status because they see 100% male and I am always getting these urges for it especially after my HC dance. Know I know what to do as far as foreplay but what about intercourse, I know practice safe sex and always wrap your willy, but I guess what I am asking how do you make it feel good for the girl I know females have g spots but how exactly do you find it and what are the best positons?

 I'll just say Google is a very useful tool.

Well I did but I wanted a transmans advice I mean I guess it really doesn't really matter whether your a bio male or transmale, but I did google it maybe its something you have to do on your own and figure out.

Brandon,

I am proud of you.  You are going to be a fine man. 

Use google for pictures. And remember kissing is fun.....

Hugs,

Jen

Quote from: JLT1 on October 13, 2014, 08:42:05 PM
Brandon,

I am proud of you.  You are going to be a fine man. 

Use google for pictures. And remember kissing is fun.....

Hugs,

Jen

Lol okay haha and thanks.

Quote from: Brandon on October 13, 2014, 08:34:22 PM
Well I did but I wanted a transmans advice I mean I guess it really doesn't really matter whether your a bio male or transmale, but I did google it maybe its something you have to do on your own and figure out.

It is something you'll have to learn and figure out man. Don't stress. Just remember communication is key. Everyone has a first time.

I don't know your age by the previous  comments seems you're rather young. So what I'll say man if what I wish I could get into the heads of every young person out there cluding my peers. Focus on being calm and in the moment honestly an experience like that for the first time is about exploration and being comfortable with another person. Lot of people try to be "good" their first time and they end up not even enjoying or caring about it afterwards, that's a shame honestly. So just be comfortable with whoever it is you're with and just communicate dude.

Quote from: JHeron on October 13, 2014, 10:06:16 PM
I don't know your age by the previous  comments seems you're rather young. So what I'll say man if what I wish I could get into the heads of every young person out there cluding my peers. Focus on being calm and in the moment honestly an experience like that for the first time is about exploration and being comfortable with another person. Lot of people try to be "good" their first time and they end up not even enjoying or caring about it afterwards, that's a shame honestly. So just be comfortable with whoever it is you're with and just communicate dude.

No trust me I am not as young as you think but I see what you guus are saying.

The female anatomy is the same regardless of the person touching it, I'm not sure why you specifically need trans people's advice?

Every person is different in regards to what position works best for them, there's no one good position.  The only advice I can really give is don't forget the clit.

Quote from: lxndr on October 14, 2014, 07:50:52 AM
The only advice I can really give is don't forget the clit.

This. The clit is your friend. And if she has any experience (even just solo) you can just straight up ask her how she likes it.

Happily married and monogamous but the physical side is still great. My advice; talk. Everyone has different melt-your-knees spots, and those work wonders. Aside from that, just have fun and go with the flow.

At least, that's the advice I've given to 3 of my 6 younger brothers.

first make sure you're comfortable enough being physically close that you can correct each other when something's uncomfortable. like moving the other's hand to a different spot when kissing, or changing positions a little while sitting on the lap, or straight out telling that something hurts without being afraid of hurting the other's emotions.

after that, it's all talk. and talk. and more talk.
with a whole lot of doing as well. but never forgetting to talk.

girls can be both curious and opinionated. try to give her some freedom if you don't have any good ideas of your own.
good sex is only created through cooperation. there is nothing you can do completely on your own to make someone feel good.
you could try of course, but you'd risk making her feel bad as well.

as for how female genitals work...
defying your dysphoria would give a whole lot of answers.
if you don't want to, i'll just mention the manga title "futari ecchi".
it's rather informative. definitely something i'd leave laying around when kids grow into teenagers, if only i owned volumes in english.
only drawback would be that it's called manga sutra in english. that doesn't reflect the content at all.

As someone who spent most of their young years (12-16) answering questions like these on Yahoo! Answers, I'm sorry to say we can't help you. It's one of those things that you'll learn as you go. You'll learn different techniques for pleasing both you and your partners. Regardless if you're trans or not, it's not really a specific way to do anything that will promise pleasure (except of course clitoral stimulation)

Every new partner is a different experience. Enjoy the exploration :)