Site News and Information => Introductions => Topic started by: David Man on October 24, 2014, 02:26:41 AM Return to Full Version
Title: Hello from Argentina
Post by: David Man on October 24, 2014, 02:26:41 AM
Post by: David Man on October 24, 2014, 02:26:41 AM
Hello, I'm a trans men. English is not my first language, so this post will be very short. (Sorry if some words sounds funny)
I'm from Argentina, Rosario. I am 38 years old, divorced and with two daughters.
I don't know what to do, the trans community welcomed very well, but I still think that I'm crazy. All my life I felt something was wrong with me. I didn't know what, until a simple thought crossed my mind: If I put me a penis?
And that was all... now I have a male name, and I am preparing me for hormonal treatment. I still don't tell to my daughters, I don't know how to do it.
Sometimes I feel so sad that I'll never be like a biological men... but I feel with hope and I'm happy for the first time of my life.
By the way, "Man" are the first three letters of my last name. Never suit me better.
I'm from Argentina, Rosario. I am 38 years old, divorced and with two daughters.
I don't know what to do, the trans community welcomed very well, but I still think that I'm crazy. All my life I felt something was wrong with me. I didn't know what, until a simple thought crossed my mind: If I put me a penis?
And that was all... now I have a male name, and I am preparing me for hormonal treatment. I still don't tell to my daughters, I don't know how to do it.
Sometimes I feel so sad that I'll never be like a biological men... but I feel with hope and I'm happy for the first time of my life.
By the way, "Man" are the first three letters of my last name. Never suit me better.
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: V M on October 24, 2014, 04:21:45 AM
Post by: V M on October 24, 2014, 04:21:45 AM
Hi David :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Please be sure to review
Hugs
V M
Welcome to Susan's :) Glad to have you here, join on in the fun
Please be sure to review
- Site Terms of Service and rules to live by (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,2.0.html)
- Standard Terms and Definitions (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,54369.0.html)
- Post Ranks ( including when you can upload an avatar) (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,114.0.html.)
- Age and the Forum (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,62197.msg405545.html#msg405545)
- Reputation rules (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,18960.0.html)
- Photo, avatars, and signature images policy (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,59974.msg383866.html#msg383866)
Hugs
V M
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: helen2010 on October 24, 2014, 05:55:15 AM
Post by: helen2010 on October 24, 2014, 05:55:15 AM
Hola David
Welcome to Susans. I think that at various times we all wonder if we are a little crazy and if there is something wrong with us. A good gender therapist will help you understand and accept yourself. They can then help you explore your options so that you can move forward in the direction and at the speed that you feel most comfortable with.
It is great that you already feel happy. This is an exciting time and I wish you well.
Safe travels
Aisla
Welcome to Susans. I think that at various times we all wonder if we are a little crazy and if there is something wrong with us. A good gender therapist will help you understand and accept yourself. They can then help you explore your options so that you can move forward in the direction and at the speed that you feel most comfortable with.
It is great that you already feel happy. This is an exciting time and I wish you well.
Safe travels
Aisla
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: mrs izzy on October 24, 2014, 06:44:35 AM
Post by: mrs izzy on October 24, 2014, 06:44:35 AM
Welcome David to Susan's family.
We all walk our own paths in life and having some professional help along the way sure helps work threw the tough parts.
Day at a time we live life.
We all walk our own paths in life and having some professional help along the way sure helps work threw the tough parts.
Day at a time we live life.
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Devlyn on October 24, 2014, 05:24:58 PM
Post by: Devlyn on October 24, 2014, 05:24:58 PM
Hi David, welcome to Susan's Place! I live near Boston. I'm glad you found us, see you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on October 24, 2014, 10:17:10 PM
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on October 24, 2014, 10:17:10 PM
Hi David, (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fmini-panda-21.gif&hash=aa747892f6a13c54e75506a3acf0e22ade9c95e9)
Welcome to our little family. Over 14500 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81)
Janet )O(
Welcome to our little family. Over 14500 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81)
Janet )O(
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: David Man on October 30, 2014, 12:05:29 AM
Post by: David Man on October 30, 2014, 12:05:29 AM
Thank you for yours words!
I have a therapist, and she is awesome, she is walking with me in this new path.
I have a therapist, and she is awesome, she is walking with me in this new path.
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Mark3 on October 30, 2014, 04:09:53 PM
Post by: Mark3 on October 30, 2014, 04:09:53 PM
Welcome to Susan's David.
Its great to meet you, please feel at home,
There's lots of resources here, and an awesome group.!
Take care,
Mark
Its great to meet you, please feel at home,
There's lots of resources here, and an awesome group.!
Take care,
Mark
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Julia-Madrid on October 30, 2014, 04:36:54 PM
Post by: Julia-Madrid on October 30, 2014, 04:36:54 PM
Hello David
Pues, bienvenido a Susan's. No sé cómo es el mundo trans en Argentina. Aquí en España hay algo, pero es bastante pobre, y por eso prefiero forums como este.
Back to English. Good luck on your journey - it sounds like you are doing things in the right way, and although we are heading in opposite directions, we face similar challenges.
Un fuerte abrazo
Julia
Pues, bienvenido a Susan's. No sé cómo es el mundo trans en Argentina. Aquí en España hay algo, pero es bastante pobre, y por eso prefiero forums como este.
Back to English. Good luck on your journey - it sounds like you are doing things in the right way, and although we are heading in opposite directions, we face similar challenges.
Un fuerte abrazo
Julia
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Ms Grace on October 30, 2014, 04:42:53 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on October 30, 2014, 04:42:53 PM
Welcome to Susan's, David! :)
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: David Man on October 31, 2014, 04:46:43 AM
Post by: David Man on October 31, 2014, 04:46:43 AM
Quote from: Julia-Madrid on October 30, 2014, 04:36:54 PM
Hello David
Pues, bienvenido a Susan's. No sé cómo es el mundo trans en Argentina. Aquí en España hay algo, pero es bastante pobre, y por eso prefiero forums como este.
Back to English. Good luck on your journey - it sounds like you are doing things in the right way, and although we are heading in opposite directions, we face similar challenges.
Un fuerte abrazo
Julia
You are beatiful.
Aquí en Argentina tenemos las mismas luchas contra la discriminación, la intolerancia y la ignorancia que en el resto del mundo. Pero ahora con una ventaja, se ha aprobado la ley de identidad de género, lo que nos hace la vida más fácil a tod@s. Gracias a esa ley los policías que antes golpeaban a los trans pueden ser castigados, no se tolera la discriminacion, las obras sociales están obligadas a cubrir las operaciones de reasignación de sexo e incluso en los hospitales públicos se dan las hormonas gratis, y también se hacen operaciones gratis. Aunque todavía no se hacen faloplastías, si se hacen vaginoplastías.
I haven't time to translate it, sorry.
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: gennee on October 31, 2014, 08:24:23 AM
Post by: gennee on October 31, 2014, 08:24:23 AM
Welcome to Susan's, David.
:)
:)
Title: Re: Hello from Argentina
Post by: Julia-Madrid on October 31, 2014, 04:42:08 PM
Post by: Julia-Madrid on October 31, 2014, 04:42:08 PM
So David, it seems that Spain and Argentina are both quite advanced these days. In Spain we have a few gender clinics, and the state will provide SRS free of charge if you don't mind waiting for quite a few years. But the main issue is a lack of organisation and mobilisation by the transgender community. And tere is very little useful information available for transgender people and no active association or pressure group. A few of us are discussing how to fix this...