Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Gina Taylor on November 11, 2014, 02:15:30 PM Return to Full Version

Title: Exposure
Post by: Gina Taylor on November 11, 2014, 02:15:30 PM
I was talking with a friend today about a situation. I have a nine year old niece that I've been with since the day she was born, so she pretty much knows all about me. Now my sister {her mother} feels that I should not expose her to my life style as a transgender because she's afraid of what it will do to her. I personally don't see it changing her  by me becoming a woman instead of remaining a man.
Title: Re: Exposure
Post by: Dierdre Lenore on November 11, 2014, 02:30:12 PM
If anything it will probably make her more sensitive and tolerant of the differences we share in this world. NOW WE WOULDN'T WANT THAT!!!!! LOL.
Pansy
Title: Re: Exposure
Post by: Gina Taylor on November 11, 2014, 03:14:39 PM
Quote from: Pansy on November 11, 2014, 02:30:12 PM
If anything it will probably make her more sensitive and tolerant of the differences we share in this world. NOW WE WOULDN'T WANT THAT!!!!! LOL.
Pansy

I agree with you on your thoughts Pansy. It would make her more sensitive and tolerant, but my sister is being so arrogant towards my situation that at times I jsut want to crawl into a dark corner and cry. :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Exposure
Post by: Jill F on November 11, 2014, 03:20:19 PM
Being transgender is not a lifestyle.   Your sister is ignorant, bigoted and could stand to be educated in the matter.  At very least, you do not have to take her abuse.
Title: Re: Exposure
Post by: Dierdre Lenore on November 11, 2014, 03:28:04 PM
That's really unfortunate, for her, shes going to miss out on a someday well rounded happy and beautiful person. Just my opinion.
P
Title: Re: Exposure
Post by: Gina Taylor on November 12, 2014, 02:52:34 AM
Quote from: Jill F on November 11, 2014, 03:20:19 PM
Being transgender is not a lifestyle.   Your sister is ignorant, bigoted and could stand to be educated in the matter.  At very least, you do not have to take her abuse.

I know that being transgender is not a lifestyle, just quoting her, but I've tried to educate her on the subject but it's useless. It's like talking to a wall. Just like my mom's known since 1994 that I'm transgender and she still refuses to comprehend anything I tell her. Eventually I'll just walk right out of their lives and I really won't care. There'll be no turning back and I'll be gone like a dream before the dawn.

Quote from: Pansy on November 11, 2014, 03:28:04 PM
That's really unfortunate, for her, shes going to miss out on a someday well rounded happy and beautiful person. Just my opinion.
P
Thank you Pansy.  :) You're absolutely right. I've been maturing as a wonderful young woman and they are so blind to see it because of their ignorance.