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Title: Dont hate, please
Post by: Deltaforce on November 12, 2014, 05:44:09 PM
Post by: Deltaforce on November 12, 2014, 05:44:09 PM
I dont know what I should say...I'm 18, trigender, and I'm basically here just to talk to others like me... and hopefully others who can understand me. It's hard to explain myself without tripping over myself, sorry. Eh...you guys look friendly, so I'm just gonna spill it, and hope I dont get banned somehow.
Okay, so I'm trigender. I've identified as trigender for some time now, and it's weird for me...because I identify as a girl, and I like being a girl, but at the same time, I experience extreme dysphoria for the opposite sex...I cannot transition, because I identify as a girl, and yet, I am a boy as well, and also third gender. My parents are not approving, and they basically dont know of my gender identity (and also probably wouldn't approve of it.) Also, adding to that, I am multiple, like in multiple personalities. Five of us, all together, all males, but in a female's body (I really hope I'm not being "special" right now, I dont want to be.)
Anyway, we basically heard that this was a transgender forum, and I suffer from dysphoria on a very big scale sometimes (last time I cried for three days :( ) so I was wondering if joining a transgender forum might help me (and basically all of us, since we're all male more or less.) I'm basically wondering how you appear seamlessly as male, without transitioning, because I don't know how to, and the dysphoria I feel sometimes is too much to go on with. And some other things...
Hopefully you dont hate me/us yet...
Okay, so I'm trigender. I've identified as trigender for some time now, and it's weird for me...because I identify as a girl, and I like being a girl, but at the same time, I experience extreme dysphoria for the opposite sex...I cannot transition, because I identify as a girl, and yet, I am a boy as well, and also third gender. My parents are not approving, and they basically dont know of my gender identity (and also probably wouldn't approve of it.) Also, adding to that, I am multiple, like in multiple personalities. Five of us, all together, all males, but in a female's body (I really hope I'm not being "special" right now, I dont want to be.)
Anyway, we basically heard that this was a transgender forum, and I suffer from dysphoria on a very big scale sometimes (last time I cried for three days :( ) so I was wondering if joining a transgender forum might help me (and basically all of us, since we're all male more or less.) I'm basically wondering how you appear seamlessly as male, without transitioning, because I don't know how to, and the dysphoria I feel sometimes is too much to go on with. And some other things...
Hopefully you dont hate me/us yet...
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Jill F on November 12, 2014, 05:52:52 PM
Post by: Jill F on November 12, 2014, 05:52:52 PM
Hi, Deltaforce :icon_wave:
Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us.
Here are some quick links to help you along
Please be sure to review
Hugs,
~Jill
Welcome to Susan's Place and congratulations for finding us.
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Please be sure to review
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Hugs,
~Jill
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Sephirah on November 12, 2014, 05:56:25 PM
Post by: Sephirah on November 12, 2014, 05:56:25 PM
Sweetie, you'll find your home here, if that's what you want.
We don't hate you. We welcome you, with open arms. :) Come on in and look around. I know of at least one other person who identifies as trigender. Hopefully you'll be able to connect, or at the very least find other folks who can relate to how you feel on a personal level.
We don't hate you. We welcome you, with open arms. :) Come on in and look around. I know of at least one other person who identifies as trigender. Hopefully you'll be able to connect, or at the very least find other folks who can relate to how you feel on a personal level.
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Devlyn on November 12, 2014, 06:08:29 PM
Post by: Devlyn on November 12, 2014, 06:08:29 PM
Hi Deltaforce, welcome to Susan's Place! I'm from Boston.
<pulling out checklist>
1. Love
2. Sharing
3. Understanding
Nope, no hate on the list here! See you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
<pulling out checklist>
1. Love
2. Sharing
3. Understanding
Nope, no hate on the list here! See you around the site!
Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Deltaforce on November 15, 2014, 02:56:36 PM
Post by: Deltaforce on November 15, 2014, 02:56:36 PM
Thank you :) Hopefully I'll fit right in here.
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: crowcrow223 on November 15, 2014, 03:04:12 PM
Post by: crowcrow223 on November 15, 2014, 03:04:12 PM
Your story sounds a little bit similar to the one of Autumn Asphodel, youtube her ;)
Welcome!
Welcome!
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Deltaforce on November 15, 2014, 03:13:58 PM
Post by: Deltaforce on November 15, 2014, 03:13:58 PM
I will, thank you!
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: stephaniec on November 15, 2014, 03:17:50 PM
Post by: stephaniec on November 15, 2014, 03:17:50 PM
hello !
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Ms Grace on November 15, 2014, 03:19:37 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on November 15, 2014, 03:19:37 PM
Hi Deltaforce, welcome to Susan's! There are a few other trigender folk kicking around the forum, hope you can make some connections and friends.
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: MelissaAnn on November 15, 2014, 03:53:26 PM
Post by: MelissaAnn on November 15, 2014, 03:53:26 PM
Hi Deltaforce,
A big warm welcome to Susan's Place. I welcome my new brothers and sister. There are many beautiful people here and a vast amount of information and resources on this site. Everything is right at your finger tips so pull up a chair, relax and let your fingers do the walking. I wish you nothing but the best of luck on you journey and may the Angles always look upon you and help guide you on your path.
Hugs,
Melissa Ann
A big warm welcome to Susan's Place. I welcome my new brothers and sister. There are many beautiful people here and a vast amount of information and resources on this site. Everything is right at your finger tips so pull up a chair, relax and let your fingers do the walking. I wish you nothing but the best of luck on you journey and may the Angles always look upon you and help guide you on your path.
Hugs,
Melissa Ann
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Alexis2107 on November 15, 2014, 04:11:03 PM
Post by: Alexis2107 on November 15, 2014, 04:11:03 PM
Hello, pleased to meet you. Hope you like it here as well as I have. huggs
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: Mark3 on November 15, 2014, 05:40:45 PM
Post by: Mark3 on November 15, 2014, 05:40:45 PM
Why would anyone hate you.?
You sound like you'll fit in with us perfect..!
We're all different in some way, that's what makes you, as well as everyone else here special and beautiful.!
Big welcome,!
Take care,
Mark
You sound like you'll fit in with us perfect..!
We're all different in some way, that's what makes you, as well as everyone else here special and beautiful.!
Big welcome,!
Take care,
Mark
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: LoriLorenz on November 15, 2014, 06:31:10 PM
Post by: LoriLorenz on November 15, 2014, 06:31:10 PM
*Gives hugs five times to catch all members of Deltaforce.*
Welcome! You are free to be all of you here. :)
Welcome! You are free to be all of you here. :)
Title: Re: Dont hate, please
Post by: gennee on November 15, 2014, 08:04:37 PM
Post by: gennee on November 15, 2014, 08:04:37 PM
Hi Deltaforce and welcome to Susan's.
:)
:)