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Title: An outsider
Post by: Synthia on December 16, 2005, 02:24:59 PM
Post by: Synthia on December 16, 2005, 02:24:59 PM
Hi everyone! I'm a 28 year-old genetic female who came across this board in search of hormone info. I must say after reading some posts here, you ladies strike me as very classy, dignified, intelligent, with high grade character. I've not visited the FTM transition boards but I'm sure the same can be said. You sort of up one level in the human experience after the suffering you must endure.
I've always been very curious of transexuals and the belief that you were born with the wrong sex seems understandable to me. Nature is not perfect. I do not understand why people fail to understand this. I think this society are misogynists to a degree. It's acceptable for FTM transexuals but not okay for MTF. I also watched Transgeneration which is fascinating to watch how one crosses over to a sex. There are so many questions in my mind I'm sure I'll ask soon.
My best friend was a lesbian in high school. It breaks my heart when she told me she wanted to kill herself because she was gay. I can't imagine what it's like for you transgenders.
I wish you all the best luck in your transitions. Living in lies can destroy a person. I hope I get the chance to know you all here. And for myself I can learn how to be a woman from you. :D
Synthia
I've always been very curious of transexuals and the belief that you were born with the wrong sex seems understandable to me. Nature is not perfect. I do not understand why people fail to understand this. I think this society are misogynists to a degree. It's acceptable for FTM transexuals but not okay for MTF. I also watched Transgeneration which is fascinating to watch how one crosses over to a sex. There are so many questions in my mind I'm sure I'll ask soon.
My best friend was a lesbian in high school. It breaks my heart when she told me she wanted to kill herself because she was gay. I can't imagine what it's like for you transgenders.
I wish you all the best luck in your transitions. Living in lies can destroy a person. I hope I get the chance to know you all here. And for myself I can learn how to be a woman from you. :D
Synthia
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Sarah Louise on December 16, 2005, 04:22:39 PM
Post by: Sarah Louise on December 16, 2005, 04:22:39 PM
Hi Synthia,
Thank you for the well put message. It is refreshing to see "outsiders" being understanding of our situation.
Sarah
Thank you for the well put message. It is refreshing to see "outsiders" being understanding of our situation.
Sarah
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Lisabeth on December 16, 2005, 07:53:47 PM
Post by: Lisabeth on December 16, 2005, 07:53:47 PM
Hi Synthia,
Will you marry me? I think you are the woman I have been waiting for all my life. Only kidding, it's just so refreshing to hear your viewpoint. I dream about the day that my wife will understand, but it has been a very slow process. Even though I am not as far along as others here (not in transition), I do enjoy feeling feminine. Anyway, welcome to Susan's. I look forward to hearing more from you. It's nice to get different perspectives, and I think you are bringing a much welcomed one to the table.
Lisabeth
Will you marry me? I think you are the woman I have been waiting for all my life. Only kidding, it's just so refreshing to hear your viewpoint. I dream about the day that my wife will understand, but it has been a very slow process. Even though I am not as far along as others here (not in transition), I do enjoy feeling feminine. Anyway, welcome to Susan's. I look forward to hearing more from you. It's nice to get different perspectives, and I think you are bringing a much welcomed one to the table.
Lisabeth
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Elven on December 17, 2005, 01:15:06 AM
Post by: Elven on December 17, 2005, 01:15:06 AM
Hi Synthia and welcome, we could all use more friends like you in our lives :)
Kristina
Kristina
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Shelley on December 17, 2005, 01:51:15 AM
Post by: Shelley on December 17, 2005, 01:51:15 AM
Hi Synthia,
Welcome to Susans and thankyou for your lovely introduction. I hope that you do stay long enough to get to know us better and at the same time give us the opportunity to get to know you better.
Shelley
Welcome to Susans and thankyou for your lovely introduction. I hope that you do stay long enough to get to know us better and at the same time give us the opportunity to get to know you better.
Shelley
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: DawnL on December 17, 2005, 05:30:24 AM
Post by: DawnL on December 17, 2005, 05:30:24 AM
Quote from: Synthia on December 16, 2005, 02:24:59 PM
I think this society are misogynists to a degree. It's acceptable for FTM transexuals but not okay for MTF.
This is a good observation and one that is seldom discussed. FTMs are less shocking in most cases due to the power of testosterone in changing facial and body features. Beyond that, there is an implicit feeling of "of course women want to become men, why wouldn't they? ie, men are better", whereas MTFs are viewed with contempt "why would anyone want to become a woman? ie, a second-class citizen".
Of course, we women know better :icon_cool: :icon_cool: :icon_cool:
Anyway, welcome to Susan's.
Dawn
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: ILoveTSWomen on December 17, 2005, 05:41:45 AM
Post by: ILoveTSWomen on December 17, 2005, 05:41:45 AM
Welcome Synthia,
Aww you're only an outsider if you think you are :)
As your typical GM, I've been very much welcomed by the nice folks here - as they've already started welcoming you as well.
Stick around and enjoy the banter
DennisInGA
Aww you're only an outsider if you think you are :)
As your typical GM, I've been very much welcomed by the nice folks here - as they've already started welcoming you as well.
Stick around and enjoy the banter
DennisInGA
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Cassandra on December 17, 2005, 07:50:37 PM
Post by: Cassandra on December 17, 2005, 07:50:37 PM
Hi Synthia,
Welcome to Susan's. It is always refreashing when an "outsider" joins in. All are welcome here and as you've already seen we are a friendly bunch.
Can't imagine how we might feel? Try this. Imagine if you woke up in the morning and were male. How would you feel knowing that you are a female, with all of your life experiences intact. Now imagine you were this way from birth and everyone insisted you can't be a girl your a boy. Then you start to get an inkling of what it is like. Just a little window into our world.
Enjoy your stay here and as I always say; Fix yourself a cup of tea. or other relaxing beverage, sit down, take your shoes off and set a spell.
Good Journey,
Cassie
Welcome to Susan's. It is always refreashing when an "outsider" joins in. All are welcome here and as you've already seen we are a friendly bunch.
Can't imagine how we might feel? Try this. Imagine if you woke up in the morning and were male. How would you feel knowing that you are a female, with all of your life experiences intact. Now imagine you were this way from birth and everyone insisted you can't be a girl your a boy. Then you start to get an inkling of what it is like. Just a little window into our world.
Enjoy your stay here and as I always say; Fix yourself a cup of tea. or other relaxing beverage, sit down, take your shoes off and set a spell.
Good Journey,
Cassie
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Valerie on December 18, 2005, 12:44:08 PM
Post by: Valerie on December 18, 2005, 12:44:08 PM
Welcome, Synthia,
I too am an 'outsider', but as Dennis (in Georgia) mentioned, the wonderful folks here sure don't let me feel like one! Hope you'll stick around, there is much to be learned and many awesome people to get to know.
Valerie
I too am an 'outsider', but as Dennis (in Georgia) mentioned, the wonderful folks here sure don't let me feel like one! Hope you'll stick around, there is much to be learned and many awesome people to get to know.
Valerie
Title: Re: An outsider
Post by: Dennis on December 18, 2005, 01:14:46 PM
Post by: Dennis on December 18, 2005, 01:14:46 PM
Hi Synthia,
As an FTM, I agree with you, it is easier for us. Still no cakewalk, but easier than for MTF's. As far as cross-dressing goes, you can push the line a little more if you're genetically female, but there is a line there, and at a certain point you do get flack.
Anyway, welcome to the forums.
Dennis
As an FTM, I agree with you, it is easier for us. Still no cakewalk, but easier than for MTF's. As far as cross-dressing goes, you can push the line a little more if you're genetically female, but there is a line there, and at a certain point you do get flack.
Anyway, welcome to the forums.
Dennis