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I seen my crush again, and he mention his wife more than a few times (mention her eccentricies) . He invited me to his house show me his bedroom, show me his pet dragon (literally). He sat next to me on the couch. At one moment I thought he was drunk.... because he ask me where the party was at more than once. He sang I knew you were trouble, by Taylor Swift.  He also said one moment that I need a woman in my life.... so i dont know. I thought he knew me.

I left the party alone and didnt say goodbye to him because he left me alone at the table when another female came in and sat at our table.

People couldnt look at me because I was really pretty today. Literally.

I look my best.  I wanted him but Im a lady. Im never going to go and kiss him

When I walk out he said, "oh he left."

I am sorry you got misgendered, it always sucks I know, but especially from someone you are into. Your control is admirable, I would have freaked out and made a huge deal out of being called "he". It almost sounds like someone messing with your head, you know, like for control or something.

That guy sounds like a total loser anyways and he obviously didn't know what was in front of him. I'm sure you could do way better!

Noo... i look like a male lol. But he flirts really hard. I no longer love him. But Im so desperate that ill wait to see if hell kiss me.



But he should know i indirectly implied im tg... by mentioning im friends with a lesbian who acts like a guy. (Ring something)... but he invites me for all these one encounters that im tired of it all... but i like him alot.

Its getting embarassing for me...

Do you identify as male?

Quote from: Wild Flower on November 27, 2014, 12:58:24 AM
I look my best.  I wanted him but Im a lady. Im never going to go and kiss him

Just because you're a lady doesn't mean you can't kiss a guy first :p I mean, you can't do it like a guy obviously, but there's just a bit more subtle ways guys & girls go about doing it. I remember once, I was giving a guy I was hanging out with a hug, but when he leaned in to hug me, I saw that look in his eyes that guys give you when they're about to kiss you & I was just like, "Wait, did you just try to kiss me?" & he was like "what?" & I just kissed him because I knew he wanted to kiss me. I guess I kissed him first in that situation but only because I knew he wanted to kiss me from the way he looked at me when he hugged me & the way he leaned in to hug me. It's just body language.

Anyways, if he wants to kiss you, you'll know because he'll be looking at you with those eyes. & if he does & you're sure he does, he won't care when you do it. Just make sure you're reading his body language right cause if you aren't then you can get in some deep ->-bleeped-<- xD

P.S. Identifying as an actual girl will make guys feel more normal when they're attracted to you. If you look like a guy, they might just see you as a pretty guy & that's it. Assuming a completely heterosexual male would be attracted to a pretty guy is like assuming a gay guy could be attracted to a masculine lesbian. It just doesn't happen sometimes because they are what they are. :p

...???

I think in another post she said she's not out yet?

I think he is just a married slob that wants to forget about sacred promises he made to his alleged life partner and get a little something on the side. ANY something.  Like most guys, Any Port In a Storm.

Just an opinion from old fashion romantic with inside info on how most guys think. With salesmen, cops and firemen on the top of the letch list.

maybe she's just unrealistic in her thoughts and expectations.