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Title: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: I need a new name 2 on December 08, 2014, 09:06:54 AM
Post by: I need a new name 2 on December 08, 2014, 09:06:54 AM
I am tired of living my life in the wrong gender. At age 50, am I to old for transitioning?
I have lived the past 10 years as a crossdresser 24/7. Now I wish to make the change.
I have lived the past 10 years as a crossdresser 24/7. Now I wish to make the change.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 08, 2014, 09:39:36 AM
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 08, 2014, 09:39:36 AM
IMHO, one is never too old to become what you are. You probably will have more masculine features, but those can be worked around (as you know from being a CD)
Welcome to the forums, btw.
Welcome to the forums, btw.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Tysilio on December 08, 2014, 11:37:09 AM
Post by: Tysilio on December 08, 2014, 11:37:09 AM
You're definitely not too old. I'm 62, and I began transitioning something over a year ago. It has its ups and downs, but overall it's the best decision I ever made.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Tessa James on December 08, 2014, 11:50:58 AM
Post by: Tessa James on December 08, 2014, 11:50:58 AM
I had that same question when I started about two years ago at age 60+. It is still true that our mileage may vary from individual to individual but what is important to you? Being true to yourself and being free to transition was, as our brother Tysilio says, "is the the best decision I ever made"!!!!
A favorite bumper sticker, "Don't Die Wondering"
So much will depend on your individual needs but for me this is wonderful.
A favorite bumper sticker, "Don't Die Wondering"
So much will depend on your individual needs but for me this is wonderful.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: suzifrommd on December 08, 2014, 12:38:07 PM
Post by: suzifrommd on December 08, 2014, 12:38:07 PM
I was 51 when I started going full time. Yes, it would have been better if I were younger, but I'm still thrilled with the opportunity to live as a woman.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Shodan on December 08, 2014, 12:41:10 PM
Post by: Shodan on December 08, 2014, 12:41:10 PM
I had that very same question but I was 39 at the time. I think everybody over the age of 15 thinks that, to be honest. The answer is always the same, though: No. It's never too old.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: islandgirl on December 14, 2014, 02:12:04 PM
Post by: islandgirl on December 14, 2014, 02:12:04 PM
I have just started on this new and exciting journey at age 61! When it is time, it is time! I have some of the same concerns about transition at a later age, but I know in my heart that it is the right time for me. I am now looking forward to my life with a renewed energy and although I have some fears of the unknown, I also know that this is the right and only path that I can follow.
Thanks to all of you for all the information and support for us newbies!
Thanks to all of you for all the information and support for us newbies!
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Ms Grace on December 14, 2014, 02:15:15 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 14, 2014, 02:15:15 PM
Transition at 47 here, spent the last ten or so years thinking I was going to be too old so didn't bother. If it's what you know you need to do then there's no time like the present!
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: peky on December 14, 2014, 02:24:49 PM
Post by: peky on December 14, 2014, 02:24:49 PM
Actually for some of us it may be easier than it would have been when we were younger.
15 or 20 years ago my life was so intense that transitioning would have probably lead me to loose my kids, my job... possibly my mind....
I have come to trust that everything in the universe unfolds as it should be....
trust the Lady G-d and she will show you the way
15 or 20 years ago my life was so intense that transitioning would have probably lead me to loose my kids, my job... possibly my mind....
I have come to trust that everything in the universe unfolds as it should be....
trust the Lady G-d and she will show you the way
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Ms Grace on December 14, 2014, 02:26:51 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 14, 2014, 02:26:51 PM
I'd agree with that. My attempt to transition at age 23 was an adolescent angst ridden train wreck...
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: PPatrice on December 14, 2014, 03:01:03 PM
Post by: PPatrice on December 14, 2014, 03:01:03 PM
Hhmmm....Based on the self-report of 24/7 cross-dressing, it would seem that seem that the original poster has been in a kind of transition for awhile now(de facto, albeit perhaps not consciously so). I certainly don't think the so-called "real life test" would present any sort of an obstacle with that history. Of course other obstacles/risks can be attendant to making a formal decision to transition, as well as others... should one choose to proceed with transition.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Joelene9 on December 14, 2014, 05:01:03 PM
Post by: Joelene9 on December 14, 2014, 05:01:03 PM
I started at age 58. Never too old.
Joelene
Joelene
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: synesthetic on December 20, 2014, 11:35:02 PM
Post by: synesthetic on December 20, 2014, 11:35:02 PM
people can transition at any age - if it'll make you more comfortable in your own skin, then i don't see why not! :)
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Sydney Spitfire on March 08, 2015, 04:37:12 PM
Post by: Sydney Spitfire on March 08, 2015, 04:37:12 PM
You are never too old to transition as becoming who you want to be is timeless
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: mythy on March 11, 2015, 11:40:43 PM
Post by: mythy on March 11, 2015, 11:40:43 PM
You're never too old!
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: PaperShips on March 12, 2015, 12:13:58 AM
Post by: PaperShips on March 12, 2015, 12:13:58 AM
It is never too late to be happy with your life.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Eva Marie on March 12, 2015, 12:19:34 AM
Post by: Eva Marie on March 12, 2015, 12:19:34 AM
Dang, I hope that 50 is not too old! :o :laugh:
I transitioned at 51.
I transitioned at 51.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Jill F on March 12, 2015, 12:29:02 AM
Post by: Jill F on March 12, 2015, 12:29:02 AM
It's never too late to be true to yourself.
If 50 is too old, I guess I'll just have my cojones reinstalled. *facepalm*
If 50 is too old, I guess I'll just have my cojones reinstalled. *facepalm*
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Cindy on March 12, 2015, 12:38:14 AM
Post by: Cindy on March 12, 2015, 12:38:14 AM
Lets see 58 when I began, 62 when I finished. Feel like I'm 20 and look like I'm in my 40's.
I totally love life and after 50 yrs of chronic depression that's saying something!
I totally love life and after 50 yrs of chronic depression that's saying something!
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 06:30:01 AM
Post by: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 06:30:01 AM
I first slapped on the magic potion when I was 58 (and now nearly two years later I'm 55).
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: ChiGirl on March 12, 2015, 08:38:32 AM
Post by: ChiGirl on March 12, 2015, 08:38:32 AM
Quote from: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 06:30:01 AMWow! Send us some of this magic potion! [emoji1]
I first slapped on the magic potion when I was 58 (and now nearly two years later I'm 55).
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 12, 2015, 09:12:47 AM
Post by: Jessie Ann on March 12, 2015, 09:12:47 AM
No it's not. In fact it's too early ::) Like a fine wine a transgendered woman needs to age before being uncorked and shared with the world. In my expert opinion (I am not a doctor but I have been to medical facilities) HRT should begin when you are 53 years 9 months and 5 days old, at least that's what's worked for me ;)
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: janis on March 12, 2015, 09:49:14 AM
Post by: janis on March 12, 2015, 09:49:14 AM
Hi,
I have been on this site for sometime, but just reading everyone's story, but
not doing anything about me. I just turned 70 and I hated all my life who I really should have been
but there is always the kids to think about. I have been off the hormones since the end off Oct.
and believe me it is driving me nuts!
I am going back to see my doctor I hope in the next week or so. I know I will never fully become the women
I was suppose to be, but with the hormones I will feel a lot better, but being stuck in the house was driving me battey
I only wished I would have done this 40 yrs ago, but that's life! The really reason I was off the hormones is
because I had a nee replacement and know I have to get the other one done.
Sorry about taking to much, but I have to vent a little bet.
janis
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: marsh monster on March 12, 2015, 10:57:16 AM
Post by: marsh monster on March 12, 2015, 10:57:16 AM
While 50 is most definitely old, it doesn't mean its too late to transition. You do want to be happy in your twilight years after all...
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 11:03:16 AM
Post by: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 11:03:16 AM
"While 50 is most definitely old." Just measure me now! Good bye sweet world. (Kidding. Away for a single malt whisky or two)
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: marsh monster on March 12, 2015, 11:13:58 AM
Post by: marsh monster on March 12, 2015, 11:13:58 AM
Quote from: pollypagan on March 12, 2015, 11:03:16 AMI say that from experience, lol.
"While 50 is most definitely old." Just measure me now! Good bye sweet world. (Kidding. Away for a single malt whisky or two)
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: codyfletcher on March 22, 2015, 12:13:41 PM
Post by: codyfletcher on March 22, 2015, 12:13:41 PM
You're never too old mate Life is too short not to grasp opportunities when they are presented! Go on out there and be yourself :D
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: JLT1 on March 22, 2015, 04:02:59 PM
Post by: JLT1 on March 22, 2015, 04:02:59 PM
Wow,
I was 50 when I started. It is not to late at all..
Hugs,
Jennifer
I was 50 when I started. It is not to late at all..
Hugs,
Jennifer
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Emily R on March 22, 2015, 04:27:42 PM
Post by: Emily R on March 22, 2015, 04:27:42 PM
I am 61 and I have started the process. Should start HRT in about a month.
It is never too late as others have said, but of course I wish I was in my teens...
Emily
It is never too late as others have said, but of course I wish I was in my teens...
Emily
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Sulmor10 on April 13, 2015, 12:55:07 PM
Post by: Sulmor10 on April 13, 2015, 12:55:07 PM
You're never, EVER too old to transition!
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Laurie K on April 26, 2015, 11:13:22 AM
Post by: Laurie K on April 26, 2015, 11:13:22 AM
I dont think that transition is ever to late . In saying that I had the opportunity to do that in my late thirties but could not follow up .Im now 56 and am on hrt for a month and have full intentions of finishing the job this time. Transition when ever you are able; enjoy what ever time you have.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: girlygirl002 on April 27, 2015, 05:22:05 PM
Post by: girlygirl002 on April 27, 2015, 05:22:05 PM
Happiness has not age.. The most important thing is be happy with yourself.. and no matter the time.. the years.. or the conditions.. The road maybe will be difficult.. but I know you will feel in peace with yourself..
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: ghostly on April 27, 2015, 05:48:36 PM
Post by: ghostly on April 27, 2015, 05:48:36 PM
Hi , no it's not to old , make the change & be happy :)
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Ryuichi13 on June 14, 2017, 01:27:38 AM
Post by: Ryuichi13 on June 14, 2017, 01:27:38 AM
Pfft. Age is nothing but a number!
I'm 55, and I began taking T a month and a half before my 55th birthday.
"Too late?" I say, "you're NEVER too old!"
Ryuichi
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I'm 55, and I began taking T a month and a half before my 55th birthday.
"Too late?" I say, "you're NEVER too old!"
Ryuichi
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Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: Niki Knight on June 14, 2017, 07:19:16 AM
Post by: Niki Knight on June 14, 2017, 07:19:16 AM
56 years young here. HRT for 6 months as of today... Yaaaa. Your never to old to live the life you were meant to.
Title: Re: Transitioning at age 50, is that to old?
Post by: danats2 on June 14, 2017, 07:42:06 AM
Post by: danats2 on June 14, 2017, 07:42:06 AM
I'm 55 and starting my journey. Waiting for my Endo appointment. I'm ready and so excited! I never say (old) I spell if necessary to use the word. Life is short! Live now!