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Title: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 04:25:39 PM
Post by: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 04:25:39 PM
So one thing I was absolutely prepared for was that my genitals have shrunk after several months of HRT. My wife has noted that, on the rare occasions it still becomes erect, it doesn't fill in at the base as much, and she's worried about causing permanent damage. Are there any work arounds for someone living with a spouse that very much enjoys penetrative sex?
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: MyKa on December 10, 2014, 04:38:11 PM
Post by: MyKa on December 10, 2014, 04:38:11 PM
Not too much you can do once the mone's start kicking in. Might want to look into a strap on. As in permanent damage what does she mean? After a period of time you will be sterile.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: CrissyMarie on December 10, 2014, 04:49:00 PM
Post by: CrissyMarie on December 10, 2014, 04:49:00 PM
I'm 9 months in and that part of me no longer gets erect unless forcefully made to which takes a little more time, spontaneous erections are gone. Although I will state that during the night there are times it will be fully grown. As for penetration, good luck, I doubt you'll be able to keep it erect for long. Also you will 90% of the time have dry orgasm or minimal fluid come out. I only use mine for bathroom purposes as I've learned to achieve my orgasms in the way women do. :) MmmHmm! Which are so much better. As someone else mentioned you will eventually need to look into strap on or sex you, sorry.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: SarahElizabeth on December 10, 2014, 06:51:09 PM
Post by: SarahElizabeth on December 10, 2014, 06:51:09 PM
You can consider toys if you loose all function. I can tell you that I am almost 1 year on hormones and when my wife stimulates me as a woman I get really excited and I do still have functionality.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 07:03:35 PM
Post by: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 07:03:35 PM
by permenent damage, she's worried about possibly bending things in such a way that internal parts might be damaged. I've been sterile and 'dry' for several months now.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: katrinaw on December 10, 2014, 07:30:11 PM
Post by: katrinaw on December 10, 2014, 07:30:11 PM
Sorry gonna be blunt here; it Just about kills your ability to create sperm, you can't ejaculate (well maybe a trickle), feeble or non existent erections, loss of libido, retraction of testes... All permanent changes.
In my book thats a big Yay :-*
Before starting HRT you need to be committed to the outcomes, after a couple of months of E the effects start to become irreversible...
L Katy
In my book thats a big Yay :-*
Before starting HRT you need to be committed to the outcomes, after a couple of months of E the effects start to become irreversible...
L Katy
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: ChrissyChips on December 10, 2014, 07:50:35 PM
Post by: ChrissyChips on December 10, 2014, 07:50:35 PM
I'm with Katrina...Big YAY!, lol
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: CrissyMarie on December 10, 2014, 08:20:26 PM
Post by: CrissyMarie on December 10, 2014, 08:20:26 PM
Quote from: katrinaw on December 10, 2014, 07:30:11 PM
Sorry gonna be blunt here; it Just about kills your ability to create sperm, you can't ejaculate (well maybe a trickle), feeble or non existent erections, loss of libido, retraction of testes... All permanent changes.
In my book thats a big Yay :-*
Before starting HRT you need to be committed to the outcomes, after a couple of months of E the effects start to become irreversible...
L Katy
It's true what they say.. "When you go through HRT, you are chemically castrating yourself." ...I'm not sure that is 'happy dance' worthy, but I guess I can come to terms with that.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Joelene9 on December 11, 2014, 12:17:21 AM
Post by: Joelene9 on December 11, 2014, 12:17:21 AM
After 4 years on HRT (Spiro and estradiol) and at age 62, I can say the erections are still there and is not spontaneous and not as large as before. It needs stimuli to erect such as a good dream or a nice, single woman in my case. There is ejaculate, but it is a clear or a pinkish clear liguid called seminal fluid and not semen because there is too little or no sperm involved. My Dr. suspended the spiro dosage 6 months last year to recharge my minerals it was flushing out. The thing roared back to life on the estradiol alone during that time! Don't worry about bending and breaking anything! Your wife should be stimuli enough, keep at it.
Joelene
Joelene
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: JustASeq on December 11, 2014, 12:29:43 AM
Post by: JustASeq on December 11, 2014, 12:29:43 AM
Quote from: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 04:25:39 PM
So one thing I was absolutely prepared for was that my genitals have shrunk after several months of HRT. My wife has noted that, on the rare occasions it still becomes erect, it doesn't fill in at the base as much, and she's worried about causing permanent damage.
This sounds like a normal thing since it's all shrinking. In my case I cannot achieve an erection ever (but don't want to either). Vibrators are the way to go for stimulation once it changes down there if you ask me.
Quote from: Jaelithe on December 10, 2014, 04:25:39 PM
Are there any work arounds for someone living with a spouse that very much enjoys penetrative sex?
Strap-ons are super fun :)
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Skeptoid on December 11, 2014, 12:38:07 AM
Post by: Skeptoid on December 11, 2014, 12:38:07 AM
I'm a tad over four months in and wondering when I'll get hit with the loss of functionality. I uh... kinda like using it still but if I lose it I'll be okay.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: MyKa on December 11, 2014, 01:12:22 AM
Post by: MyKa on December 11, 2014, 01:12:22 AM
^ are you on t-blockers, if so it's not uncommon for them to take 6 months or so to take effect
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 04:36:50 AM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 04:36:50 AM
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fstatic.fjcdn.com%2Fpictures%2FPenis_55c659_434139.jpg&hash=03689399ead4cf270c2d0b91c50e2e9748e26ada)
yep...
yep...
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: katrinaw on December 11, 2014, 04:49:43 AM
Post by: katrinaw on December 11, 2014, 04:49:43 AM
Quote from: Skeptoid on December 11, 2014, 12:38:07 AM
I'm a tad over four months in and wondering when I'll get hit with the loss of functionality. I uh... kinda like using it still but if I lose it I'll be okay.
Some functionality is there, after some work a soft small erection occurs, you can still get orgasm, but its dry, different, not a male feeling (orgasm) anymore. Medically I am castrated... next step would be to remove the need for T Blockers permanently (please girls correct me if I am wrong) by GRS (SRS) etc.. Oh another thing, I seem to have lost that "male" aggression trait, now I get teary and emotional (re-watched Blood Diamond last night, was a blubing wreck at the end... happens so much, in fact I blub quicker than my SO) I love it ;)
But I am happy with my outcomes, boobs, a waistline, soft skin, softening of my old facial features. I just need to drive myself fully over the line (I always question myself on why did I do it this way round???)
L Katy
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Cindy on December 11, 2014, 04:55:41 AM
Post by: Cindy on December 11, 2014, 04:55:41 AM
Immortal words from my endo when I first presented to her (she is lets say ....eccentric!) my T levels came back and her comment was. "You weren't much of a man anyway, don't know why you bothered", I was sterile and non erectile within a month.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Christine167 on December 11, 2014, 07:02:52 AM
Post by: Christine167 on December 11, 2014, 07:02:52 AM
Well, I've been on just E and Finastride for almost 15 months now. It still works but yes no sperm and erection takes work. I have come to terms with it however and just accepted that for now I certainly don't mind it as long as my partner accepts that it will change. To which so far she has been great about.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 07:17:08 AM
Post by: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 07:17:08 AM
mine has shrunk so much I have a terrible time peeing whether sitting or standing. I can't get a hold of it to point it in the right direction, but it's cool because it's like a little oversized clitoris
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: ErinS on December 11, 2014, 10:27:45 AM
Post by: ErinS on December 11, 2014, 10:27:45 AM
I'm a little over 8 months in and my T levels are literally undetectable. I've lost spontaneous capability, but despite that I have zero problems with functionality when I decide I want to use it, so it seems very much YMMV.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: ImagineKate on December 11, 2014, 10:37:43 AM
Post by: ImagineKate on December 11, 2014, 10:37:43 AM
It really does vary and I thought it was HRT affecting my function but it turned out to be one of the combo blood pressure meds I was taking. So the doc changed it and took away one half of the combo and upped the other one, and added spironolactone. What a big difference, literally. I don't have spontaneous erections anymore but when I want to use it, I can.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: JulieM on December 11, 2014, 01:03:45 PM
Post by: JulieM on December 11, 2014, 01:03:45 PM
I lost most of my ability to have full and spontaneous erections after my prostate removal. The advice from the Dr was use it or watch it shrink. It is possible to damage the penis when attempting penetration with an insufficiently erect member--Google Peyronie's disease. Post-prostatectomy patients are prescribed a low daily dose of Cialis to improve blood flow, since we may no longer have the nocturnal tumescence (morning wood) necessary to provide blood flow to the erectile tissues. Options for continuing penetrative sex include Cialis and Viagra, a pump, and, the nuclear option, injections of bimix and trimix, which can literally raise the dead.
For my wife and I? Meh. Good riddance.
For my wife and I? Meh. Good riddance.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:21:45 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:21:45 PM
Quote from: JulieM on December 11, 2014, 01:03:45 PM
...the nuclear option, injections of bimix and trimix, which can literally raise the dead.
That makes me think of zombie penises! I would need quite a few of thise injection I think. It wasn't the HRT that killed my woodies it was the anti depressant which lowered my libido to almost zero, the HRT just put it out of its misery.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 01:49:00 PM
Post by: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 01:49:00 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:21:45 PM'zombie penises ' is that an Australian horror movie
That makes me think of zombie penises! I would need quite a few of thise injection I think. It wasn't the HRT that killed my woodies it was the anti depressant which lowered my libido to almost zero, the HRT just put it out of its misery.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: JulieM on December 11, 2014, 01:54:26 PM
Post by: JulieM on December 11, 2014, 01:54:26 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 01:49:00 PM
'zombie penises ' is that an Australian horror movie
That's the one with Mel Gibson as Abraham Lincoln, right?
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:57:09 PM
Post by: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:57:09 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on December 11, 2014, 01:49:00 PM
'zombie penises ' is that an Australian horror movie
I think it might be our current government actually...
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: awilliams1701 on December 11, 2014, 02:24:18 PM
Post by: awilliams1701 on December 11, 2014, 02:24:18 PM
And boehner has lasted a lot longer than 4 hours. I think we need our government to see a doctor immediately.
Quote from: Ms Grace on December 11, 2014, 01:57:09 PM
I think it might be our current government actually...
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: Joanna Dark on December 11, 2014, 06:54:09 PM
Post by: Joanna Dark on December 11, 2014, 06:54:09 PM
I have no testes literally. The thing has shrunk. When I do it, nothing comes out and it hurts but it ends quickly. When I say nothing comes out, I mean I do orgasm somehow. My T levels are undectable. I've been on HRT for 14.5 months. The other day I was searched by a female officer and she was grabbing my boobs and shkaing them and my bra to see if there were any drugs there, and whne she looked down there she stilll could not believe I didn't have SRS because of how femme I look. This seems good but then again the other day a guy came up to me told me how beutiful I am and then said "you're a man right?" I love women like you. You're so gorgeous. Ugh. That's not passing. In my defense I was in an area famous for transsexual pro's. Look it up. 12th and Spruce Philadelphia Pa.
So though that's off topic, HRT and passing and everything is so random, at least for me. You can prolly have sex with your wife, but not all the time and chances are she won't like it at all.
Hope that TLDR post helped.
So though that's off topic, HRT and passing and everything is so random, at least for me. You can prolly have sex with your wife, but not all the time and chances are she won't like it at all.
Hope that TLDR post helped.
Title: Re: a question about genetalia and how they function on HRT *NSFW*
Post by: LizMarie on December 12, 2014, 10:17:38 AM
Post by: LizMarie on December 12, 2014, 10:17:38 AM
I can get an erection but it takes a lot of effort. Further, I doubt it is enough to sustain penetrative sex. And even more, I don't enjoy that sort of stimulation as much anymore as much as I enjoy other things (stimulating the glans penis in a manner similar to the clitoris). In fact, too much rubbing along the shaft now can cause pain and redness. I believe the skin is changing there due to hormones.