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Title: Told one Im trans now my boss to.
Post by: Larisa on December 15, 2014, 10:23:01 PM
Post by: Larisa on December 15, 2014, 10:23:01 PM
I finally let my secret out that Im a girl inside to this one lady at work. I didnt go deep about it but she knows now which was not easy. She's going to talk to my boss tomorrow about this all as I asked her to. My boss, well she is going to be confused but I know she will understand to. I did this not to use the girls bathroom, transition or anything. I only did this to explain a few things including why I hate being called sir at work or anywhere.
My boss well, I also did this to be a good friend as I know she is confused by like the sir thing for one. She hasnt been able to understand other things before and I kinda understand why. Like the necklaces, long hair, me hating facial hair and other things Ive done or said. I could tell she needed to understand today why but I just couldnt explain it myself. Hopefully she will understand by later tomorrow.
These 2 people are the only ones who need to know my secret for now and I trust them 2 enough to not tell others.
My boss well, I also did this to be a good friend as I know she is confused by like the sir thing for one. She hasnt been able to understand other things before and I kinda understand why. Like the necklaces, long hair, me hating facial hair and other things Ive done or said. I could tell she needed to understand today why but I just couldnt explain it myself. Hopefully she will understand by later tomorrow.
These 2 people are the only ones who need to know my secret for now and I trust them 2 enough to not tell others.
Title: Re: Told one Im trans now my boss to.
Post by: Brenda E on December 16, 2014, 08:13:43 AM
Post by: Brenda E on December 16, 2014, 08:13:43 AM
I hope it all goes well today, Larisa. (I'm sure it will :))
Title: Re: Told one Im trans now my boss to.
Post by: treeLB on December 16, 2014, 02:06:23 PM
Post by: treeLB on December 16, 2014, 02:06:23 PM
Larisa,
Whats done is done, but be prepared.
News like that about someone does not usually stay secret and you should assume they will tell others.
Whats done is done, but be prepared.
News like that about someone does not usually stay secret and you should assume they will tell others.
Title: Re: Told one Im trans now my boss to.
Post by: Bird Goddess on December 16, 2014, 05:33:20 PM
Post by: Bird Goddess on December 16, 2014, 05:33:20 PM
That is a brave move Larissa! I hope your boss will be accepting and understanding :). It may be easier for those two ladies now to connect the dots (wearing necklaces, the hair, etc.).
Title: Re: Told one Im trans now my boss to.
Post by: Rachel on December 16, 2014, 06:34:49 PM
Post by: Rachel on December 16, 2014, 06:34:49 PM
I agree, you are very brave.