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Title: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 06:18:36 AM
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 06:18:36 AM
just curious, I've got bad knees so I can't wear too high of heels, but if I could I think I'd go for around three inches
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: noleen111 on December 18, 2014, 07:28:12 AM
Post by: noleen111 on December 18, 2014, 07:28:12 AM
I wear between 3 and 5 inch heels..
My fav pair of boots, are my knee highs with a 4inch heel. To me they are very comfortable and I can wear them for long periods of time..
I do often wear sandals with a 4/5 inch heel too.. but my feet do get sore after a while when I wear the 5inch heels... but ladies do suffer for beauty... so as my roommate says.. take it like a woman.
My fav pair of boots, are my knee highs with a 4inch heel. To me they are very comfortable and I can wear them for long periods of time..
I do often wear sandals with a 4/5 inch heel too.. but my feet do get sore after a while when I wear the 5inch heels... but ladies do suffer for beauty... so as my roommate says.. take it like a woman.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: suzifrommd on December 18, 2014, 07:34:21 AM
Post by: suzifrommd on December 18, 2014, 07:34:21 AM
I'm 5 foot 11. Strictly flats for me. I'd be even taller and less passable with heels, and given my level of dexterity, I'd also be risking my life.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: JenniR04 on December 18, 2014, 07:40:08 AM
Post by: JenniR04 on December 18, 2014, 07:40:08 AM
Two (2) to three (3) inch heels are perfect for me. I'm 5'8 and don't want to be too tall.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: MyKa on December 18, 2014, 08:01:36 AM
Post by: MyKa on December 18, 2014, 08:01:36 AM
2-3" being 5'11" anything with a taller heal would just be nuts.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Jane's Sweet Refrain on December 18, 2014, 08:35:40 AM
Post by: Jane's Sweet Refrain on December 18, 2014, 08:35:40 AM
At 5'8" I don't want to add height for daily wear. It's one thing to be taller than most women, but I don't like being taller than men. For dates with taller men, 2-3 inches feels really good.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Sabrina on December 18, 2014, 09:02:07 AM
Post by: Sabrina on December 18, 2014, 09:02:07 AM
I'm 6'1" and I normally wear about 2". But because of work, I can't wear higher due to safety reasons. Plus, anything higher than 2" makes it difficult to drive.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: islandgirl on December 18, 2014, 09:08:02 AM
Post by: islandgirl on December 18, 2014, 09:08:02 AM
I am only 7 weeks into my transition process and only out to my wife and one other. I am in flats, flip flops, and runners. I am looking for a pair of low boots for winter and will probably end up with a pair with a 1 inch heel.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 09:27:45 AM
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 09:27:45 AM
my therapist is the same age as me and she says she'd end up on the ground if she wore heels
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Lynne on December 18, 2014, 11:50:03 AM
Post by: Lynne on December 18, 2014, 11:50:03 AM
1-2 inches is probably the most comfortable for me but I really like my high heeled shoes too, which are 3-5 inches high.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Jill F on December 18, 2014, 01:53:40 PM
Post by: Jill F on December 18, 2014, 01:53:40 PM
I'm 6'2". It's flats, flats or flats. When my wife wears heels, we're the same height. Attack of the amazon lipstick lesbians? Actually, most people assume we're sisters.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Nati on December 18, 2014, 02:02:38 PM
Post by: Nati on December 18, 2014, 02:02:38 PM
I'm 5,8 and i'm usually wear 4-5 inches high, yes i'm tall in them but i stop care about that some time ago.
I got a lot of stare on my legs and butt tho.
I got a lot of stare on my legs and butt tho.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Sydney_NYC on December 18, 2014, 02:21:19 PM
Post by: Sydney_NYC on December 18, 2014, 02:21:19 PM
I'm 6'7" and usually wear flats but I have a pair of heeled boots with a 2 inch heel and a 2 1/2 inch heel shoe I wear on occasion. It's never outed me (wearing heels at 6'7"), but I do get hit on more often when wearing them. I wouldn't go any higher for safety and comfort reasons though.
At a client yesterday I was wearing the 2 inch heel boots with my skinny jeans. The owner of the company (who I've known for 10 years and very supportive) jokingly said that I wasn't allowed to wear heels as I'm already to tall compared to him, LOL. Then one of the managers (who also knows I'm trans) said "No, I like the heels!!!" and the two of them got into a debate about it.
At a client yesterday I was wearing the 2 inch heel boots with my skinny jeans. The owner of the company (who I've known for 10 years and very supportive) jokingly said that I wasn't allowed to wear heels as I'm already to tall compared to him, LOL. Then one of the managers (who also knows I'm trans) said "No, I like the heels!!!" and the two of them got into a debate about it.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: bluebirdx88 on December 18, 2014, 03:29:39 PM
Post by: bluebirdx88 on December 18, 2014, 03:29:39 PM
My vote varies....
Usually I wear flats.. Platforms, but flats none the less... Though I'm comfortable with up to around 3 inches at max, if I'm going out clubbing or have a job interview.
Comodity wise though? Flats flats flats and flats... With a bit of platform :3 hehe
Usually I wear flats.. Platforms, but flats none the less... Though I'm comfortable with up to around 3 inches at max, if I'm going out clubbing or have a job interview.
Comodity wise though? Flats flats flats and flats... With a bit of platform :3 hehe
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 18, 2014, 03:51:03 PM
Post by: Newgirl Dani on December 18, 2014, 03:51:03 PM
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Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: Jenna Marie on December 18, 2014, 04:52:07 PM
Post by: Jenna Marie on December 18, 2014, 04:52:07 PM
I generally prefer flats; it's just awkward and uncomfortable walking in heels, although I can do it.
The highest pair I own, which are "party shoes," is 4" heeled thigh-high boots. (I also have a pair of 2" kitten heels for job interviews, etc.)
The highest pair I own, which are "party shoes," is 4" heeled thigh-high boots. (I also have a pair of 2" kitten heels for job interviews, etc.)
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: galaxy on December 18, 2014, 05:03:25 PM
Post by: galaxy on December 18, 2014, 05:03:25 PM
My vote was wrong :o
Weve cm here in EU ... ich like 8-10cm very much ... its around 3,5-5 inch.
Weve cm here in EU ... ich like 8-10cm very much ... its around 3,5-5 inch.
Title: Re: what heel height do you feel best in
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 05:07:40 PM
Post by: stephaniec on December 18, 2014, 05:07:40 PM
I think these would cause me a serious safety issue