Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Non-Transitioning and Detransitioning => Topic started by: 1832vin on December 22, 2014, 07:14:07 PM Return to Full Version
Title: Seeking for some advices...?
Post by: 1832vin on December 22, 2014, 07:14:07 PM
Post by: 1832vin on December 22, 2014, 07:14:07 PM
hi, i'm a 17 years old boy, and i seek some advice....
i live in England, and i'm currently 17, and i plan on going university after i finish collage.
it really saddens me that i was born as a male, and it always felt that i'm in the wrong place being a male.
unfortunately, my parents are very strict, and i tried asking (indirectly) about the matter, and the responses are negative, so my solution is kinda weird...? and this would be the first time i've ever opened to anyone...
however, i do not wish to displease my parents, for i really love them just as they love me, and i wish it to be forever, and being in bad terms with them would be far worse barable than my feeling is displacement as a male
personally, i would like to keep it a secret forever, as that it REALLY REALLY satisfies me when someone see some feminine traits in me, and i plan to go to uni, and maybe get some HTR for a few years (in secret) , and then live as a feminine male. personally, i think that would give me a stable ground of my constant unrest..
but i'm still in puberty, and my voice is lowering, and i'm starting to grow some hair chest, and i have long thin hair growing above my lips (i've never shaves yet, cuz i'm scared that i would grow a beard)....
so... any advices on the path that i would take, or some counter puberty stuff?
thanks..
just wondering.... what effects does ma***rbation has on a body?
i live in England, and i'm currently 17, and i plan on going university after i finish collage.
it really saddens me that i was born as a male, and it always felt that i'm in the wrong place being a male.
unfortunately, my parents are very strict, and i tried asking (indirectly) about the matter, and the responses are negative, so my solution is kinda weird...? and this would be the first time i've ever opened to anyone...
however, i do not wish to displease my parents, for i really love them just as they love me, and i wish it to be forever, and being in bad terms with them would be far worse barable than my feeling is displacement as a male
personally, i would like to keep it a secret forever, as that it REALLY REALLY satisfies me when someone see some feminine traits in me, and i plan to go to uni, and maybe get some HTR for a few years (in secret) , and then live as a feminine male. personally, i think that would give me a stable ground of my constant unrest..
but i'm still in puberty, and my voice is lowering, and i'm starting to grow some hair chest, and i have long thin hair growing above my lips (i've never shaves yet, cuz i'm scared that i would grow a beard)....
so... any advices on the path that i would take, or some counter puberty stuff?
thanks..
just wondering.... what effects does ma***rbation has on a body?
Title: Re: Seeking for some advices...?
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 22, 2014, 07:40:08 PM
Post by: Beth Andrea on December 22, 2014, 07:40:08 PM
Masturbation has no effect on the body (no hairy palms, etc).
I suggest you edit your age, site rules don't allow that for certain people.
I would suggest seeing a gender therapist, often the first visit is free or low cost (in the US, I don't know about the UK). She or he would know how to get on blockers, if that is appropriate in your case.
That's about all I can suggest right now. I'm sure others will be along shortly who know more, especially about the English/UK system.
I suggest you edit your age, site rules don't allow that for certain people.
I would suggest seeing a gender therapist, often the first visit is free or low cost (in the US, I don't know about the UK). She or he would know how to get on blockers, if that is appropriate in your case.
That's about all I can suggest right now. I'm sure others will be along shortly who know more, especially about the English/UK system.